Watch This Before Getting Married! 💖 - Practical Marriage Advice

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @TheDailyReminder
    @TheDailyReminder  4 года назад +34

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    • @arafatalam1108
      @arafatalam1108 4 года назад

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    • @wajoona2066
      @wajoona2066 4 года назад

      The Daily Reminder what’s the point of showing hands of the couple??

    • @Kindlylisten3
      @Kindlylisten3 4 года назад

      May Allah save us from pendemic.

    • @sameenbanu
      @sameenbanu 4 года назад +1

      The Daily Reminder This is the best video to watch before marriage. In Sha Allah, I am going to marry this Thursday. Make Du'a for us to be successful in both the world.

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +1

      @@sameenbanu Best to watch before marriage? Great, then I can watch it for the rest of my life...nobody will ever agree to marry me, so I will suffer alone and lonely forever...wish you all the best, others can enjoy love and romance, it must be wonderful.

  • @racem4517
    @racem4517 4 года назад +666

    Brothers and sisters, never get attached before marriage, before everything is official, set and clear. Don't get emotionally attached to a person no matter who it is before you get married, make your heart and mind devoted to Allah alone, and everything else is second, so when something bad happens u don't brake. A large portion of your heart is full of iman and love for Allah, if your heart is attached to someone else you will be gone when they are gone.

  • @airissofea1655
    @airissofea1655 4 года назад +285

    I pray that all viewers this video will find a righteous woman/man one day. May Allah bless u all. Stay safe everyone. Wassalam. 🙂

    • @minaaraf1911
      @minaaraf1911 4 года назад +5

      I pray Allah to give you too what you did pray for the others to have 🌹

    • @zoem5262
      @zoem5262 4 года назад +4

      Amène

    • @bintoujaiteh7540
      @bintoujaiteh7540 4 года назад +3

      Ameen

    • @hassankader956
      @hassankader956 4 года назад +4

      Ameen ❤ may allah remove all the difficulties in ur life 👍

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +2

      In my case, your prayer will not be answered, but I appreciate the thought.

  • @smvm492
    @smvm492 4 года назад +339

    Assalamu alaikum dear brothers and sisters...I'm going through toughest period in my life. I personally don't know anyone in this platform. But I'm requesting all of u to make Dua for my son. He is diagnosed with some serious illness. Only Allah can cure him. So pls my beloved brothers and sisters pls make Dua for my child. This a polite request from a mother. In sha Allah Allah will reward u all ...
    Edit: jazakallahu khairan kaseer for all your duas. Alhamdulillah my son successfully completed his 3 years treatment . Alhamdulillah he is fine now. He was diagnosed with leukemia then. Since this is a complicated disease we still have to do monthly check ups to monitor his progress. Still need your duas. May Allah bless us all.

    • @safiyahassan4360
      @safiyahassan4360 4 года назад +8

      InshaAllah ,,by the will of Allah he will be fine🤲🤲May Allah grant him health

    • @hayairfan4391
      @hayairfan4391 4 года назад +6

      May Allah cure Your son and give him health... Ameen Ya rabbil alameenn....

    • @Allah1_servant
      @Allah1_servant 4 года назад +5

      May ALLAH swt have mercy on your son and may HE swt give him health and cure his illness
      ameen

    • @afreensiddiqui4401
      @afreensiddiqui4401 4 года назад +5

      May Allah grant him good health very soon💐

    • @musadamina1997
      @musadamina1997 4 года назад +6

      May Allah grant him shifa. Ameen.

  • @aeayko
    @aeayko 4 года назад +173

    I so much want to get married to the person i admire. I never want to be in a haraam relationship, Allah knows that. Please pray for me. Help me pray.

    • @mashfiqmahadi8880
      @mashfiqmahadi8880 4 года назад +3

      Ameen

    • @Allah1_servant
      @Allah1_servant 4 года назад +9

      May ALLAH help you and have mercy on you...
      put ALLAH swt first in all matters and everything will be fine..IN SHA ALLAH
      may ALLAH bless you..

    • @DESTRIAZ
      @DESTRIAZ 4 года назад +5

      I know your struggle. I am in love with a girl. Not just in love with her. But i am in love with everything about her. But, she is hindu. And because of that i cannot have her because she is unwilling to be a muslim. I know how you feel. I ask God that he brings you someone who is right and better for you.

    • @Allah1_servant
      @Allah1_servant 4 года назад +1

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    • @Allah1_servant
      @Allah1_servant 4 года назад +1

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  • @Najma-Mohamed
    @Najma-Mohamed 4 года назад +30

    “If a person is unable to give Allah his basic rights, what makes you think they’ll give you your rights” Subhana’Allah So true!

  • @fatimaahmad8702
    @fatimaahmad8702 4 года назад +229

    “Our Lord! Grant unto us spouse and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.”
    Quran~Surah Al-Furqan (25:74)

  • @MMMMMMM33117
    @MMMMMMM33117 4 года назад +56

    I am not married yet and am 21.
    I had never Relationship but I will have it only with my really wife ان شاءالله

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +3

      I'm 46, I will be virgin for life, single forever

    • @MK-mm5kq
      @MK-mm5kq 4 года назад +7

      Insha Allah, may allah bless you a good spouse and make you a good spouse and join you two together in happiness, mercy, and respect for each other nad may you both strive for and be blessed with Jannah together.. Ameen

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +1

      @@MK-mm5kq insha Allah, aamiin

    • @53shireenchougala50
      @53shireenchougala50 3 года назад +2

      'May allah bless u'..

  • @mhawale5304
    @mhawale5304 4 года назад +307

    Our problem is that
    everyone is trying to find a good person but no one is trying to be the good person
    Brothers & sisters
    Don't focus on finding a righteous spouse just try to be the righteous spouse first
    coz the good women/men are for the good men and women انشاءالله

    • @awakenthegreatnesswithin
      @awakenthegreatnesswithin 4 года назад +7

      Slave of Allah You speak facts 👏😃

    • @zambia123
      @zambia123 4 года назад +1

      @Slave of Allah -what about mutah Quran 4:24? Why does al Lah allow you to sin after we are married or do you just kiss the black stone and your sins are forgiven

    • @adnanalsarraj897
      @adnanalsarraj897 4 года назад

      zambia123 dude what are you talking about. Mutah is not allowed in islam

    • @mhawale5304
      @mhawale5304 4 года назад

      @@zambia123 bro i already told you
      Learn islam before you talk about it
      We are prohibited Zina in islam more than any other religion
      And there's no where in Islam that Allah allows us to do Zina after marriage or before either

    • @zambia123
      @zambia123 4 года назад +1

      @Adnan Alsarraj - the Shia are practicing it today! Man can not abrogate Gods word it's in your Quran and Muslims refer to it as te party marriage! It's simply prositution when a man pays a woman for sex! Quran 4:24

  • @farihahkaidal5739
    @farihahkaidal5739 4 года назад +55

    I want to get married soon, I want to have a baby to teach them all about Islam Insha Allah plss pray for me that May Allah SWT grant me a righteous husband and will me forever and we respect each other decision and ofcurz have fear to Allah SWT ameennn

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +4

      So many sisters told me they're praying for this, ok I also make dua for you to find a good spouse. Aamiin.

    • @linaazmiin7479
      @linaazmiin7479 3 года назад

      ameen sister I hope your dua become true

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад +15

    Holy Quran 3.54--
    And they planned,
    And Allah also planned,
    And Allah is the best of planners

  • @JessOmarVlogz
    @JessOmarVlogz 4 года назад +105

    Each day I’m hearing it’s getting harder and harder for everyone may Allah bless you all with an amazing spouse 🙌🏻

  • @goodwords1696
    @goodwords1696 4 года назад +80

    "They (your wives) are a clothing (covering) for you and you too are a clothing (covering) for them." (Surah 2, Verse187)
    Alhamdulillah

    • @samsardar
      @samsardar 4 года назад +2

      If you no want my friendship ok. .no problem
      But why deleted my simple comment? ?

    • @goodwords1696
      @goodwords1696 4 года назад +2

      @@samsardar dear friend I did not delete your comment as about the friendship you will always remain my friend and my sister
      Alhamdulillah

    • @goodwords1696
      @goodwords1696 4 года назад +1

      @@kiara3896 Alhamdulillah

    • @samsardar
      @samsardar 4 года назад +1

      @@goodwords1696 ok dear. .
      May Allah blessing you with good deeds 🌹 🌹 🌹

    • @samsardar
      @samsardar 4 года назад +2

      @@goodwords1696 ok dear brother my Allah blessing me with your good friendship

  • @roseyyhues-1494
    @roseyyhues-1494 4 года назад +65

    I fell for a guy who was severly lacking in deen. I liked him so much and thought he could be my soulmate but I cut him off. It hurts to this day and I miss him. But I gave him up for the sake of Allah and I find peace knowing that. My pain will be temporary.

    • @roseyyhues-1494
      @roseyyhues-1494 4 года назад +6

      @Happy Ummy I'm not gonna go back to him. But I make dua for him, that he will be guided on the right path. And if that happens..who knows one day we can get in touch. I don't have my hopes up though. I will talk to other potentials and see if there's someone more fitting

    • @ahmadabdullateef3386
      @ahmadabdullateef3386 4 года назад +2

      @Happy Ummy Salam all. Ramadan has started and this is the opportunity to pray for a righteous spouse bi idhnillah. I want a righteous woman for marriage and if you do too now is the perfect time to work on your iman and make dua for a righteous spouse. May Allah grant us all righteous spouses inshallah

    • @ahmadabdullateef3386
      @ahmadabdullateef3386 4 года назад +1

      @@roseyyhues-1494 Salam sister, I myself am looking for a righteous spouse but I cant communicate with sisters because its Ramadan and I believe its haram to approach such a topic during Ramadan I think because one could get distracted.

    • @umaribnali2138
      @umaribnali2138 4 года назад +4

      I am in the same boat as yours. I have fell for a girl, we talk regularly. She said she will change, start wearing Hijab and everything. But she said she will do it for me, not for Allah (s.w.t). That is a very dangerous statement in my opinion. I am in such an indecision, its running havoc through my mind. I have never been with such an understanding person before and she wants to get married, but her religious commitment till now is questionable.

    • @roseyyhues-1494
      @roseyyhues-1494 4 года назад +3

      @@umaribnali2138 make sincere dua to Allah to guide you in making the right decision. And don't expect it to be easy if you do decide to part ways.

  • @Sweetbirdd
    @Sweetbirdd 4 года назад +11

    May Allah give us a righteous spouse who’ll help us in journey hereafter❤️🙏

  • @kiara3896
    @kiara3896 4 года назад +39

    Ya Allah please guide me to the right one for me and guide me to what is best you know and i do NOT please show me the right way ameen!!! ❤💍☝😢😢

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +2

      Not me aamiin

    • @kiara3896
      @kiara3896 4 года назад +1

      @@johnsala5330 yes YOU as well inshAllah!! 🙏

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      @@kiara3896 Nope, sorry, you don't know so just letting you know.

    • @kiara3896
      @kiara3896 4 года назад

      @@johnsala5330 ok I understand. Yeah you're right I don't know what went on in you're life, but i just want you to know there is always inshAllah! 🙏 like i said i ask God to bless you and give you joy! ✌✌

    • @kiara3896
      @kiara3896 4 года назад

      @UNITED MONEY yeah it is so sad everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy!! 💔 May Allah help him and everyone having this problem ameen!

  • @nawedfaizi2042
    @nawedfaizi2042 4 года назад +16

    You pray and make Duha. Allah always listens and if you done wrong ask Allah for forgives. May Allah guide us to the straight path ameen

  • @radhwanraju398
    @radhwanraju398 4 года назад +9

    alhamdulillah after seen this video i understand the advice of our prophet and i believe this his advice we must follow before marriage if we really want to success here & here after , but the problem for south asian people (particularly bangladesh) we listen our society or relative thought even neighbour interfere on making any decision , as for me i am struggling for last six month to find a righteous life partner ,everyone please pray for me i hope may allah allmighty bless me with a righteous wife !

  • @rainbowmist1551
    @rainbowmist1551 4 года назад +8

    finding spouse in a non-muslim country/community might be hard, but may Allah (swt) make it easy for me and for other Muslims in this situation. InshaAllah❤

  • @mirahkelsey3880
    @mirahkelsey3880 4 года назад +17

    i want to marry, my father is making it so hard and i’m a convert. in shaa allah my duas for guidance in this matter get answered. there are always someone with a worse situation than wanting to get married

    • @linaazmiin7479
      @linaazmiin7479 3 года назад +1

      I hope your father one day he will make it easy Inch'Allah pray to Allah so that he will warm up your father hearts

    • @filzakhan6954
      @filzakhan6954 3 года назад

      i really want my brother to have a revert wife or that my husband marries a revert one

    • @yotubeinternethypocrite8412
      @yotubeinternethypocrite8412 3 года назад +1

      @@filzakhan6954you are ready for your husband,to have a second wife?

  • @Applepie788
    @Applepie788 4 года назад +22

    In this generation its really hard to find a man who has a pure intention to marry you. And all i have to do is pray because Allah is All Knowing.💙

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +2

      Not hard, women want the bad boys but rejected me all my life...then they complain& cry about it.

    • @Applepie788
      @Applepie788 4 года назад +5

      @@johnsala5330 maybe it depend..but for me i cant really tell if that man is serious. Most of men nowadays just want bf/gf relationship..but for my case i dont like it i want nikah so that i wont commit zina..

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +2

      @@Applepie788 no idea what anyone else wants, not me for sure. Never considered having a gf then again none would accept me...now embracing single life forever
      Mostly brothers at masjid told me find a wife but never told me that most have gf bf as you pointed out...so I wait sabar& tawakal while fake people enjoy.

    • @Applepie788
      @Applepie788 4 года назад +3

      @@johnsala5330 May ALLAH give you a pious wife. Ameen🙏

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      @@Applepie788 We can wish whatever we like, that doesn't make it come true

  • @NABHANVAJAHATHCK19
    @NABHANVAJAHATHCK19 4 года назад +36

    May Allah help us to be good Muslims.
    May Allah give us a successful family life.💛
    May be my recitation of Quran in my voice, tried in as beautiful as I can, will be help everyone to get close to Allah.
    Malayalam and English translation are included.✌️

  • @kiara3896
    @kiara3896 4 года назад +48

    May Allah give us good husbands and wifes who are right for us in everyway ameem!! ☝💍😭

    • @jallowjerreh5250
      @jallowjerreh5250 4 года назад +1

      Kiara ameen 🤲🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +1

      Not likely in my case, just stay alone

    • @kiara3896
      @kiara3896 4 года назад +1

      @@johnsala5330 don't say that you'll find the ONE for you! God loves you and was that one special person and will love you and give the very best you deserve!! 🙏💍☝

    • @kiara3896
      @kiara3896 4 года назад +2

      @@johnsala5330 it's very likely in you're case, no you won't be alone!! There's sameone out there that's praying, begging God every night for someone and that someone is YOU!!. When it's the right time it will happen! 🙏

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +1

      @@kiara3896 I'm 46, I've been hearing about the "right time" for a while now. Better to accept that nobody cares and embrace the single life. Since I reverted in 2011 brothers at masjid have said "sabar and tawakal, coming soon", but now I realize that it's just empty words.
      Sorry to say, but you're wrong.

  • @bisharoabdi6795
    @bisharoabdi6795 4 года назад +3

    May Allah grant us righteousnes spouses.Ameen
    I am thinking of getting married pls pray for me and all the others that are getting married or thinking of it.

  • @saminakhatun4461
    @saminakhatun4461 4 года назад +25

    💞💞May Allah💖 grant me a rightous and pious husband as explained by our prophet Mohammed(SAW)💕💕💞💖

  • @mahvish3582
    @mahvish3582 4 года назад +4

    I always pray to my lord for righteous spouse❤️

  • @saminakhatun4461
    @saminakhatun4461 4 года назад +14

    Rabbana hablana min ajwajina wa jurriyatina kurrata aaiyun💖

  • @zahara6355
    @zahara6355 4 года назад +30

    Has anyone watched 'Married At First Sight' reality show, psychologists matchmaking couples. I think the concept is almost Islamic.

    • @zahara6355
      @zahara6355 4 года назад +1

      @shakhir r I know, we should "halalify" the show concept. As Muslims who have received guidance from Allah in every aspect of life and as Allah's vicegerent on earth, we have the responsibility to lead the way...show the world the Islamic values...like Ertugul series

  • @positivemalayalee
    @positivemalayalee 3 года назад +1

    I prayed for a righeoust wife and Then i opened this app and saw this video...Alhamdhulillah..ALLAH's guidence is best..perfect or BEYOND THE HUMAN WORD "perfect"

  • @affreenkhan266
    @affreenkhan266 4 года назад +3

    May Allah grant us all a righteous spouse and make them the coolness and comfort to our eyes..... Ameen!

  • @azif1858
    @azif1858 4 года назад +6

    I want to marry a righteous women. Please pray for me

  • @HoudaElAlouani89
    @HoudaElAlouani89 4 года назад +6

    May Allah grant us all pious and righteous spouses who will help us become closer to Allah and will take our hands to jannah.

    • @JessOmarVlogz
      @JessOmarVlogz 4 года назад +1

      Houda El Alouani Ameen sister 🙌🏻

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 2 года назад +3

    Honestly, I feel inadequate being single. God tells me he's preparing me for marriage and I must be patient and live happily now and Trust in timing according to God's Will.

  • @AbdulBasit-ks4vo
    @AbdulBasit-ks4vo 4 года назад +8

    Who watched it live but again watching💞🙂

  • @Be-Good-1
    @Be-Good-1 3 года назад +4

    The stronger the faith, the harder the tests, the greater the rewards♥️☝️

  • @Juned120
    @Juned120 4 года назад +11

    I'm still single not have any plan yet because of my medicine study only 2 years left to finish my study
    Alhamdulillah

    • @mohamedahmedmohamed6901
      @mohamedahmedmohamed6901 4 года назад

      Mee just finished 4th year medical school and I got 2 more years

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      You will all find spouses but not me

    • @cutlet9227
      @cutlet9227 4 года назад

      InshaAllah you will finish it. I am only done with 2 years.. 4 years left...

  • @other7128
    @other7128 Год назад

    This is one of the BEST Islamic lecture about marriage I have heard

  • @goodwords1696
    @goodwords1696 4 года назад +22

    "And one of His signs is that He has created for you, spouses from amongst yourselves so that you might take comfort in them and He has placed between you, love and mercy. In this there is surely evidence (of the truth) for the people who carefully think." (Surah 30, Verse 21)
    Alhamdulillah

  • @fatmawarda1639
    @fatmawarda1639 4 года назад +10

    May Allah give all believing men and women married or looķing to marry the tawfiq ( grace ) to be the ideal Muslim husband and the ideal Muslim wife with His divine help and guidance .

  • @fasilatsanusi7431
    @fasilatsanusi7431 4 года назад +4

    May Allah guide our hearts toward what is right.

  • @yusufali2514
    @yusufali2514 4 года назад +5

    Al Hamdu Lillah,, wa antum fa jajakumuallahu khairran channel daily reminder,, may Allah swt grant your channel to be the best dawah team of the world ameen,,

  • @bintibashir3021
    @bintibashir3021 4 года назад +2

    Oh Allah bless us the righteous spouse who will help us to our journey to the hereafter..Aameen 🙏 ya Rab 💕💍

  • @rahimauddin17
    @rahimauddin17 4 года назад +26

    It hurts to see these on feed and uploads esp for singles who stayed away from haram hoping to be married soon in a halal relationship .. and now we are held quarantined in our homes.. it's like a slap on the face
    Still we have tawakkul on Allah Alhamdulillah

    • @hafsa4938
      @hafsa4938 4 года назад +13

      Know that if Allah is making you wait- something worth your patience is coming. Allah never disappoints for His plan is the best. And in this situation right now (quarantine) it is the plan of Allah. For we never planned this. Hence why you should be grateful and hopeful. Raise your hand in dua- for Allah never leaves a raised hand empty. And have sabr- good things are coming your way x

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      No plan for me

  • @syepha_alhabshee
    @syepha_alhabshee 4 года назад +2

    Best advise ever! I am glad that finally somebody talks about the reality of it in full details. Alhamdulillah 💕

  • @arruqyahshariah915
    @arruqyahshariah915 4 года назад +6

    Marriage is not easy and requires effort and patience to understand each other, the bond has to be understanding and experiences to make choices in correct decision.

  • @ziyaadyeadally5039
    @ziyaadyeadally5039 3 года назад +1

    Alhamdulillah. Thank you for this.

  • @shahinasha932
    @shahinasha932 4 года назад +12

    MaShaAllah 💖 this video was very precious !! May ALLAH bless all of them to get a good deeni & kind hearted spouse including for me InShaAllah Ameen 🤲🏻 Pray tahajjud also isthikhara inshallah guidance will make a way to ease our difficulty in finding the best one ~

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +1

      Except not for me

    • @hananelanoucha1480
      @hananelanoucha1480 4 года назад +2

      where u from ?

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад +1

      @@hananelanoucha1480 Are you asking me or the original commenter?

    • @shahinasha932
      @shahinasha932 4 года назад

      @@hananelanoucha1480 if this question is for me then il answer. Im settled living in Muscat 🇴🇲 & im from Kerala, India

  • @glitterrocks3628
    @glitterrocks3628 4 года назад +8

    Honestly even brothers with beards who pray also abuse wives.

  • @human5613
    @human5613 2 года назад

    ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذريتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما

  • @maryamalkhairy2547
    @maryamalkhairy2547 6 месяцев назад

    Careful: surat Alfurqan, ayah 74 ((...ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما)) (أعين) had a letter missing
    Baarak Allah feekum for this informative video amd jaza Allah sheikh Ali Hammuda khair for giving this talk. Allah bless every Muslim and Muslimah with a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of each other's eyes and an aid towards Allah's pleasure and a great Hereafter.. Aameen ya Rabb Ala'alameen 🤲

  • @morregists8875
    @morregists8875 4 года назад +3

    Wooowww this has thought all of us a lot....Alhamdulillah

  • @syedrahman3378
    @syedrahman3378 4 года назад +8

    Asalaam walikum my brothers and sisters please do dua for me am getting married in October this year in Bangladesh am from the UK and will be going in October insha Allah Allah hafiz everyone asalaam walikum 🤲🤲🤲🤲

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      I will never marry

    • @n.a7848
      @n.a7848 3 года назад

      How did it go brother

  • @kemalmohamed2452
    @kemalmohamed2452 4 года назад +1

    MashaAllah One of the best advice I heard on marriage.

  • @ZakirHussain-iu1pl
    @ZakirHussain-iu1pl 4 года назад

    Subhanallah. It's really a thoufique from Allah to have come across this video.

  • @ibr.ch2196
    @ibr.ch2196 4 года назад +1

    Hadith (there is an english translation too 👇)
    حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الأَزْهَرِ، حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏
    ‏ النِّكَاحُ مِنْ سُنَّتِي فَمَنْ لَمْ يَعْمَلْ بِسُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي وَتَزَوَّجُوا فَإِنِّي مُكَاثِرٌ بِكُمُ الأُمَمَ وَمَنْ كَانَ ذَا طَوْلٍ فَلْيَنْكِحْ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ فَعَلَيْهِ بِالصِّيَامِ فَإِنَّ الصَّوْمَ لَهُ وِجَاءٌ ‏"
    ‏ ‏‏
    It was narrated from Aishah that:
    the Messenger of Allah said: "Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire."
    Hasan (Darussalam)
    English : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1846
    Arabic : Book 9, Hadith 1919
    Sunan Ibn Majah

  • @habibaibrahim6650
    @habibaibrahim6650 4 года назад +4

    I’m so happy to watch this video
    Mashaa Allah May Allah bless you sheikh 🙏🥰😍❤️😰

  • @baybiisk
    @baybiisk 4 года назад +4

    Please make dua for me dear sisters and brothers. I met a guy who I was interested in however because of my parents and their mentality I had to let him go to protect him, I did it for the sake of Allah too as I didn't want to commit haram nor did I want that for him. What can I do my parents aren't open to me finding somebody myself but they have nobody for me either.. 😔 I'm at the age of marriage please ya Allah make it easy for me.
    Please make dua for me that I find somebody who is suitable for me, and if that guy is destined for me please make dua for him to re-enter my life. I am stuck and helpless 😔x

  • @themuhammad1
    @themuhammad1 Год назад

    Well this video is well made and explained on the topic. Jazak'Allah Khair!

  • @zabiullahMONTAGES
    @zabiullahMONTAGES 2 года назад

    The dua in english letters: Rabbana hablana min azwaajina wa dhoerriyyaatina qoerrata a'joen
    Our Lord! Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts

  • @zimzim251
    @zimzim251 4 года назад

    The narrator's manner of speech is exquisite

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад +1

    Holy Quran 2.263-- KIND SPEECH and FORGIVENESS are Better than CHARITY followed by INJURY. And Allah is Free of need and Forbearing.

  • @floydblack8298
    @floydblack8298 4 года назад +31

    Everybody should work on themselves, getting knowledge, gaining taqwa, growing sincerity in worship of Allah.
    But it's always more responsibility on men, on brothers. Why? Brothers are shepherds for their families, mentors for their wives (sisters).
    Their actions, behavior, character, efforts reflect in their wives. If parents are righteous then children try to look up to their parents and absorb their good character, good habits and their iman is growing by the will of Allah.
    So, brothers, we have to be example of righteousness for our wives and children. Then in sha allah our wives will become righteous and our children.
    May Allah bless us (brothers and sisters) with strong iman, fear of Him, good character, patience (sabr), love and care for our spouses and children, parents, relatives, our ummah.

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      Thankfully no spouse so I can focus on being pious and religious activities

    • @mahmedasif7216
      @mahmedasif7216 4 года назад

      @@johnsala5330 inshallah you get spouse in world
      But if you think you think you will alone then what can say
      But remember one think that when you die you will inshallah will get hoor jannat wife but dont lose hope my brother and pray to ALLAH
      Make your sins go away make more deeds don't be sad because this world is temporary this world happiness wife and everything else is temporary inshallah you will go to jannah and have your hoor wife inshallah

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад +1

    Holy Quran 17.35--
    And GIVE FULL MEASURE when you measure, and WEIGH with an Even balance. That is the best [way] and BEST in Result

  • @donnatarawhiti376
    @donnatarawhiti376 4 года назад +1

    May u Brothers and Sisters be blessed within your marriages and much happiness too. Always so pure and respectful kind,caring and loving too.

  • @viktory8468
    @viktory8468 4 года назад +2

    Oh man ! ...that was a speedy video ......😂.....fiiiiuuuu.....I had to stop it many times to understand clairly. ....😂

  • @muhammadmuhammadalfulanial4490
    @muhammadmuhammadalfulanial4490 4 года назад +5

    Islam is not a value. Islam is a way of life.
    Islam is a philosophy of life. Islam is a religion.

  • @aishaishak3330
    @aishaishak3330 3 года назад

    Masha Allah!An amazing video content I haven't come across until now after watching similar video content from a different channel. May Allah grant you success in this world and the hereafter. Insha Allah

  • @mirmohammed445
    @mirmohammed445 3 года назад

    Alhamdulillah found so many answers from this video

  • @khalilkhawer4146
    @khalilkhawer4146 3 года назад

    SUBHANALLAH. Very valuable videos.

  • @Aleyna_304
    @Aleyna_304 4 года назад

    May Allah SWT grant us pious spouse. Ameen ya rabbal alameen.🤲🏼

  • @withloveshazia1613
    @withloveshazia1613 4 года назад +2

    Good men are for good women

  • @feizaomar4812
    @feizaomar4812 4 года назад +4

    I will wait and have patient may Allah send me the righteous one wlh my heart is broken when a fellow brother approach us sister asking num instead where is ur father for i see future with u

  • @calebace7971
    @calebace7971 4 года назад

    One of the best teaching I've ever heard! Mashaallah!

  • @elite2153
    @elite2153 3 года назад

    Beautiful Subhanallah ❤️
    Absolutely true👍🏻

  • @shaihussain1029
    @shaihussain1029 4 года назад +2

    Thnks so much brother..you know..i am 38 years single girl couldnt marry yet coz i wanted these qualities in my husband what you said in this video but unfortunately still not found.
    pray for me

    • @johnsala5330
      @johnsala5330 4 года назад

      I have all those qualities, many do...yet you rejected us

    • @n.a7848
      @n.a7848 3 года назад

      Inshallah you will be able find the husband ur hoping to find!

  • @itshafsa.jummai
    @itshafsa.jummai 4 года назад +2

    Am also on the verge of making a marriage decision Insha Allah
    Please include me in your dua’s that Allah gives me guidance
    Salaam

    • @baybiisk
      @baybiisk 4 года назад +1

      may Allah make it easy for you! please keep me in ur duas also 💖

    • @itshafsa.jummai
      @itshafsa.jummai 4 года назад

      Aameen

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад +1

    Holy Quran 2.271-- If you DISCLOSE your CHARITABLE EXPENDITURES, they are GOOD; but if you CONCEAL them and give them to the POOR, it is BETTER for you, and He will REMOVE from you some of your MISDEEDS [thereby]. And Allah, with what you do, is [fully] Acquainted.

  • @rubiv2192
    @rubiv2192 4 года назад

    This is beautiful to hear.

  • @nistexanishaa6316
    @nistexanishaa6316 4 года назад +1

    May Allah guide us all

  • @jyothicjyothic8176
    @jyothicjyothic8176 4 года назад +3

    Assalam alaikum
    Plz make dua for me to get righteous husband

  • @kauthargallie703
    @kauthargallie703 4 года назад

    Such an eye opener 🙏alhumdulilah

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад +1

    Holy Quran 2.261-- The example of those who SPEND their WEALTH in the way of Allah is like a SEED [of grain] which Grows SEVEN SPIKES; in each spike is A HUNDRED GRAINS. And Allah MULTIPLIES [His reward] for whom He wills. And Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.

  • @Mar-fj45
    @Mar-fj45 18 дней назад

    Ya Allah please guide me to the right one for me and guide me to what is the best you know and I do Not please show me the right way Ameen ❤💍 In sha Allah 🤲

  • @Asnamuslemeen6
    @Asnamuslemeen6 4 года назад

    Wow 💖💖💖 SubhanAllah it's an amazing💕😍 video💐💐🥰

  • @RidzkiSamsulhadi
    @RidzkiSamsulhadi 4 года назад

    Jazakallah khair for this powerful reminder.

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад

    Holy Quran 2.269-- He Gives WISDOM to whom He wills, and whoever has been given WISDOM has certainly been given MUCH GOOD. And none will remember except those of Understanding.

  • @fahmishams1405
    @fahmishams1405 4 года назад

    Wish could have given more than one likes👍👍👍. A beautiful video.

  • @panda-xq1dy
    @panda-xq1dy 4 года назад +3

    The voice of the speaker is very soothing. Allahuma barik

  • @skmahhmudulhasansahadi9622
    @skmahhmudulhasansahadi9622 2 года назад

    O Lord of the worlds, guide me to her and guide her to me.. Hope she is also praying: 'Rabbana habblana min azwajina wa zurriyyatina qurrata a'yunu waja alna lil muttaqina imama.'

  • @MuhammedAboobackerMABvideos
    @MuhammedAboobackerMABvideos 4 года назад +4

    So beautiful..

  • @phonestuff9916
    @phonestuff9916 4 года назад

    Beautiful advise.

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад

    Holy Quran 22.77-- O you who have believed, BOW(Ruku) and PROSTRATE(Sujud) and WORSHIP your Lord and DO GOOD that you may SUCCEED.

  • @iftikarhussain5628
    @iftikarhussain5628 4 года назад

    Subhan Allah. Nicely explained ❤️❤️

  • @pearls2733
    @pearls2733 4 года назад

    Useful video thank you. The problem is what if no proposal has come for years and you make dua after dua and are losing hope that it will happen? Plenty of divorcees in this day and age they too are struggling to find a righteous spouse. Only Allah can help us.

  • @seokjinkpop8649
    @seokjinkpop8649 4 года назад +4

    Who else came because it kept popping up in their recommendation?😁😁
    A curious 16 year old

    • @youtubeaccount0x073
      @youtubeaccount0x073 4 года назад

      seokjin kpop lol same. 16 and I want to get married next month. In Sha’ Allah

    • @A94-s4p
      @A94-s4p 4 года назад +1

      @@youtubeaccount0x073 why do you want to get married at 16 tho? Just curious

    • @youtubeaccount0x073
      @youtubeaccount0x073 4 года назад

      A 94 improve my deen, protect my self from haram, have children, and many other benefits. It’s no different than asking someone else why they would like to get married.
      Maybe even 2 or 3 would be nice. Insha Allah

    • @youtubeaccount0x073
      @youtubeaccount0x073 4 года назад

      UNITED MONEY Masha Allah, May Allah make it easy for you.
      Shawwal is coming up and it’s a perfect month to get married in. May Alah grant you a wife this Shawwal.

    • @A94-s4p
      @A94-s4p 4 года назад

      @@youtubeaccount0x073 My question isnt why does he/she want to get married. Read better. My question is why at 16 because thats not realistic in this day and age. And marriage and kids isnt all fun and games. It takes serious responsibility and I doubt a 16 year old can take those.

  • @fmsproductions7255
    @fmsproductions7255 3 года назад +1

    My brothers and sisters. I have faced many challenges in life I lost father as a child and was not practicing. I became more attentive ltely it's a struggle but I'm doing good. I've faced health issues for some time.
    I just don't have the confidence mentally or otherwise to get married I'm not ready I'm just not. I get hit with Hadith over and over about the one who doesn't marry is not of me and I've completely lost my imaan.
    I'm content with life but seeing RUclips scholars imploring marriage now I'm trying to get married because I'm worried I'll be forbidden jannah otherwise I don't feel ready and I'm terrified about it but I don't know
    Islm has inspired me I've volunteered with the blind for 5 years and donated what I could in sadaqah all from Allah I'm nothing I'm nobody without deen
    I can't pray anymore my mind constantly on this marriage topic I've lost my Deen please help me l. I have so much good I can do but I've lost myself I'm losing my Deen

    • @johnmandrake8829
      @johnmandrake8829 3 года назад

      Start with doing just the bare minimum, pray just the farz salah as much as you can and then when you can handle it add on. And in your dua sincerely implore your rab for guidance for if you reach for Him He is here

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад

    Holy Quran 22.47-- And they URGE you to hasten the PUNISHMENT. But Allah will NEVER FAIL in His promise. And indeed, A DAY with your Lord is like a THOUSAND YEARS of those which you COUNT.

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад

    Holy Quran 17.7--
    "If you do GOOD, you do GOOD for YOURSELVES; and if you do EVIL, [you do it] to YOURSELVES."

  • @aqsazahir638
    @aqsazahir638 4 года назад

    Beautiful!

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 4 года назад

    Quran 41.46--
    Whoever does RIGHTEOUS - it is for his [own] SOUL; and whoever does EVIL [does so] AGAINST it. And your Lord is not ever UNJUST to [His] servants