I been making Duas to Allah for 8 months day and night and alhamdolillah he guided a beautiful Moroccan sister that today is my wife. So brothers and sisters the key are two patience and Duaas.
Insha allah i will become a good wife of my husband i am getting married on 14 july 2019 plz pray 4 me that may allah make my marriage successful.aameen
Congrats my sister... Tomorrow U r going to strt ur new lyf Allah apko bahot acha shohar de aur apki lyf me dher sari khushiya aur khair o barkat ata farmaye Ameen..!
Al hamdulillah for my husband who is so thankful for all I do, even making coffee he’s so thankful, Al hamdulillah he was brought up by a father who showed him how to be a good husband and Al hamdulillah he compares me to his mother, paradise lies underneath her feet and insha’Allah one day I’ll become a mother to show my children how to be a good wife. I’m so grateful.
I got married 10 days ago. He is very loving, happy and content now. I want him to be such happy, healthy & content for entire life. So, I'm watching videos and reading books about husband & wife's relationship in Islam. Thank you very much. Please, make duaa for us. And my duaa to all of you. ❤️
Allahuma barik, May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Subhanallah!! My husband is so kind and merciful to me and reminds me the righteous path so I may not only do right by him but also by Allah almighty!! He thanks me graciously for my love and I thank him for his love!! 🙇🏽♀️🙇🏾♂️💕🌺📿 These are the fruits of Allah he has blessed us with each and every day!! Mashallah!!
Allahuma barik, May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Islam teaches women how to be a pious wife. It’s a learning process as you lead this role and sometimes if not most times you will slip. The devil is always waiting and wanting you to keep slipping never getting up. Fight it off. Forgive yourself, be kind to yourself, be in constant reminder of ALLAH and know that you are worthy of Jannah.
if a man honor his wife. Respect her care about her. give her time affection and love. This man will feel like a king. Complaining about ur wife and u dont even recognize her.
Sister, you missed the whole point of the video and here you are complaining again. There is another video on Ideal Husband and the Husbands should watch that and learn. to each their own responsibility rather than pointing fingers
Men need to care about their wives and not pretend they are not valuable. A man may marry his wife, have children with her, and completely disregard everything she does for the family. He may even say, what do you do all day-she May have given up her career in order to take care of the home and young children. This disregard and disrespect is difficult on a woman. Many men don’t realize all a woman sacrifices.
@@Interestingchica Again as I said, there is another video on how Husbands should behave towards their wives and how to follow the examples of (P.B.U.H). This video is as a reminder to wives how to behave towards their husbands and highlights some of the things wives do which should be avoided. of course, there are con men and con women around the world making the lives of their spouses difficult but then they are misguided. But again women are again doing what the video advice them NOT to do.. and that is COMPLAIN.. lol isn't it ironic?
May allah guide us all and make us good wives for our husbands and keep our husbands happy. I am grateful to have such a great husband, I need to do better for him . I love him and khadija is my role model 💜
Allahuma ameen Allahuma barik, May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Watching these because after Isya prayer im about to do ta'aruf with someone I don't know, one hour from now. All i know she was a Hafizah. Hoping I'm good enough. O Allah taala you are a controller of all heart. My heart is beating like crazy😅
Unfortunatly often in divorces the reality is that the men are the ones who sin, cheat and beat their wives for no reason. Or they don't work and let the wife take care of the money and household. Sorry to say but a lot of muslim men are like this in my community. A LOT. And their argument is: I am the man, the wife must obey without talking back. It's just the reality. When you are good to your wife, she will be thousand times better for you and help you to become a better muslim. These men want the ideal muslim wife and talk about getting multiple wives but how can you take care of them when you can't even pray 5 times a day..
Sawyer Unfortunately that is the case sometimes.. I am just speeking on divorces in my own social environement. Always the men that cheat, do drugs and drink. And if the woman dares to open her mounth, she's the one that disobeys. May Allah forgive us.
Aishat Mekiyeva The Prophet pbuh pointed out 4 things that if a woman does she'll get paradise (all 8 gates will be opened for her). One of them is obedience (and servitude) to husband.
hanzala omar Salam Aleykum Omar. Not when he beats her and openly cheats on her. There is a line to obedience. When the husband disobeys Allah swt by committing horifc sins, he cannot expect the wife to obey him no matter what. This is what is wrong in islamic 'culture'. Men ans women are equal in the eyes of Allah swt. A marriage should be a happy and healthy one, not one where the wife is constantly afraid of her husband.
And the thing with waiting at the door I'ma be honest..... I give the same greetings as an excited puppy I see my husband come home after not seeing him all day I get excited I surround him and give kisses and hugs and say how much I missed him I asked him right now how he would feel if I stopped doing that... He said he would be sad
Same here and once I saw in a Webpage marriage advice: greeting ur husband, say hi hug him etc. I was shocked, that it's not obvious for all ppl 😯 he is my sunshine, miss him all day. I'm also running to the door when I hear him 🏃♀️😂
Look I’m a happily married woman with the best husband a woman can ever ask for im just generally saying what I did in the first comment so don’t no why your getting so uptight and personal about it!!
Well the women who blame their men for all their problems need to move on instead of playing the blame game! Can’t blame a man or a woman for ones own weakness or problems in life if your not happy move on
UNITED MONEY these days unfortunately the demands are so high for marriage, girls want boys with houses and good jobs and cars and so do the boys want the girls to work an earn etc, sad but a lot of them remain unmarried and also unhappy, the girls say no good boys left and the boys say there are no good girls left.
Please make dua for me and my husband. We were recently married and I’m a revert. I’m learning to be a good wife. Please make dua that I am able to make my husband pleased with me
1. Don't complain but be grateful to your husband 2. Nagging❌ 3. Support your husband 4. Please him and be pleased with him 5. Be a person , you want your children to be
Do I deserve a marriage? I have been trying for so long, things are dead end to me again and again. It hurts me, it really really hurts me. Allah, it does hurts me. Forgive me, forgive me and help me.
This is a very informative video...I'm glad I watched it as it just popped up as a recommendation. Marriage is very hardwork even when you are blessed with a great husband...then once you have children of your own it can be very demanding at times. Compromise and most of all patience and mutual respect definitely go hand in hand for a successful marriage.
It’s really difficult to find a spouse who’s actually a religious Muslim man, who’s also not shallow and is actually kind, compassionate, loving, caring and genuine. It’s beautiful to have a partner who shares the same faith and we would both strive to do good deeds together.
May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Masha Allah This kind of videos are very grateful for Muslim youngster. I learn lots of things from your video. Jazhkhallah and Appreciated. Allah Bless U
*My father was a very good, kind & compassionate man. My motthe very intelligent with degrees. My mother respected and loved my father. Every month he placed his entire months salary in her hand and said "Wife spend it carefully". It gave her ACTIONABLE respect! A society where women are hurt by men will NEVER PROSPER (goes without saying from Allah SobAnuWa Th'la) !!
Pho E It's the other way around, a society where women disrespect their mahram men will fall apart just like the European societies where marital chaos, suicide, depression, divorce, single parent families etc are on a rampage.
@@hanzalaomar3234 That's happening because Women play the western Game, but want to play the Islamic game when it comes to finances. As soon as the Man reminds them they're obliged to their rights, they're suddenly liberal again.
@@blueflame3531 I just read an article where a woman demanded her divorced partner pay $10,000 as mehr as he promised before marriage (which has been dropped by Ohio judge) even though she was the one who filed for divorce ( also made false charges of terrorism against him). This is so sad, really, cause Islamically, the woman has to pay back the mahr if she initates divorce (Al-Khul).
@@blueflame3531 In Muslim countries, there are stipulations put in marriage contract (not by the bride but by the government) that demands the husband to relinquish some of his Islamic rights.
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Seems that the rules for 'an ideal wife' are the same rules as for 'an ideal husband' Alhamdulilah
A proverbs 31 woman makes a wife worth keeping happy! My husband does not take his work boots off, I do, because I want him to know that I respect and appreciate the hard work he does for us, even as I work 60 hours a week I still choose to take his boots off.
First of all, what women shrieks at her man "where have u been?! Where r the groceries? Etc" maybe they are few. But most women I know speak so highly and well and lovingly about their husbands but u can also see the pain in their faces that their husbands r not as loving with them as tbe women are loving and caring towards them. Treat women with respect and kindness and love and humour and trust me, walahi they will give u back a thousand times more. And don't order around, trust. Women r not stupid so dont treat them as such. They are Ur partners as u r theirs, so have a little humility and respect. None is above the other, both need each other. Love goes a long way. Treat each other as u did when u first were with each other. U r not the possessor of Ur wife, u r her companion and friend and protector, as she is yours. God bless all couples to be each others peace and serenity in this world. Be the best team 🌸❤️🌸
True..it’s teamwork. Your wife is not your possession, nor is there something like a ideal wife or husband. Only Allah swt posseses us. Only Allah swt is ideal. As husband and wife you can work as a team, or not. Nothing shamefull about it, sometimes two people don’t work together. This video sucks
In shaa Allah, Allah will help my marriage coz what I can see is that my marriage is falling apart😥😥😥😥😥 ....I have tried alot but my wife keeps on asking divorce 😥
Is need a long time..is need a long way to me be The ideal wife..I am new muslin..is need learn Islan.. After long years i will..maybe The ideal wife.. Thanks my Allah..My Lord is patient with me..
Lol sister just because you're a new muslim does not mean you need to wait years and years for marriage. Just learn the basics genuinely and practice your 5 daily prayers regularly. Establish good relationships with other muslimahs create a new life. Your husband will come InshaAllah. You can do this in s year.
Subhan Allah Walhamdulillah Wa La illaha illAllah Wallahu Akbar... Just by saying this a tree was planted for you in Jannah. ---------- Subhan Allah Wa Bihamdihi Subhan Allah Al- `Azim ---------- Keep repeating these throughout the day and reap the rewards as much as you can. Also please remember me in your duas. ---------- May Allah (SWT) forgive us for all of our sins and bestow His mercy upon us and May He grant us goodness and success in all that we do. ----------
I dont think you shd do that, you shdnt be bothered about your rights when it comes to love. Let her be the one to care about it.(frankly if it were me and my potential husband were to show me this video, i wd get very pissed off and annoyed.) Your job is to care about the other's right. Let the other person think and bother about your right) If we keep on thinking about what we ourselves deserve to have and ignore what the others shd hv, we'll never be happy. We'll just keep on arguing instead
I did everything in my power as husband. What if she doesn't obey me? Whenever I scold her not to post photos of her, she still breaks that rule of mine. And then I told her aunt about this so that she might give her advice about wife's duty towards me as her husband, she then gets mad at me.
Im about to watch the video hope it is gud Edit: wallahi it is a video which wanted me to come back to Allah and wish for a very righteous wife one day. Please hope my wife is someone I really want. She is not righteous but I wish she is one day. I want a halal relationship with her not a haram one. Please pray, tho she is a mexican muslim and im pakistani. I do not know what will happen but please pray. She is much good looking then me but I wish for her as a righteous person. Please brothers and sisters pray for me.
Anas Baloch : show her the beauty of Islam by being a wonderful Muslim husband, make lots of duas (prayers) to Allah, learn more about the beauty of our Deen, InshaAllah things gonna workout
Alhamdulilah I have been brought up by an amazing woman. May Allah grant us young women amazing ‘ideal husbands’ and makeup ‘ideal wives’. I am an university student getting close to my last year. Would love to find someone Allah is pleased with🙏 Any tips? I live in Scotland 🏴
I'm from Pakistan,Punjab, multan and going to complete my MBBS degree this year in sha Allah I'm in search of pious and educated girl, I belong to a poor,well mannered family.I got admission on merit Alhamdulillah and will b settled in next 2 years I want to get married after 2 years, If anyone is intrested she or her parents can contact me,I'll give my contact number
*A bad husband creates a bad wife* *An adulterous & porno watching husband ruins the wife* *When the leader of house is corrupt then the followers get corrupted too* Thus being a male is a huge MORAL RESPONSIBILITY**!!!
I don't want to ever get married or be in a relationship. It is too much drama and I am not even capable of loving someone in that way, I am currently 13 and i have never felt attracted to someone. Despite so many of my friends liking people. I don't know how that feels. And tbh I don't want to.
Me never that age, your young, do not worry about it. Enjoy your youth, no need for relationships this age. Focus on developing your relationship with Allah swt.
@@salampakistan3691 well in Islam you are an adult when you pass puberty, which is probably the case for this person since theyre 13, they can get married if they want but they need to be responsible
May Allah guide me to find the right one, who can guide me in Islam, be with me to improving ourself both Deen and Dunya, and together until Jannah, İnshaAllah. Ameen. رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” Furqan:74 رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ “My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.” Qasas:24
Im watching this video and all the qualities of a bad wife mentioned here: nagging,complaining, asking all questions all the time etc etc; I'm here thinking that maybe the roles have been reversed for me. Allah khair.
Please make a dua for me to meet my daughter peacefully...due to my wife and in laws allegations on me ..i havent see her yet..now she is 2 years old 😭😭😭
We can't always blame the men for how their wives, daughter's, sisters or mothers go out. Some wives don't listen to their husbands and do what they wish. And some men like to flaunt their wives. Astaghfirullah this is becoming so common in the Arab world. It's hard to find a woman who is not caked up in makeup or wearing an open abaya with reveling clothes. May Allah guide us all.
Tell me. How do i forget the guy, A guy i had been friend from school. He had married already. I liked him because he is a very nice one and this is killing me. It feels like its impossible to find someone like him
I’m not a scholar or any adult but then I hear Allah does everything for a reason even if it means taking away your loved ones or the people you loved, Allah has something special planned for you and the only duty you have to do is keep making Duaas and have patience
I been making Duas to Allah for 8 months day and night and alhamdolillah he guided a beautiful Moroccan sister that today is my wife. So brothers and sisters the key are two patience and Duaas.
Revelación Sagrada Masha Allah :)
Alhamdulillah
may Allah bless your marriage untill paradise
May Allah SWT bless you both
Alhamdilliah.
Insha allah i will become a good wife of my husband i am getting married on 14 july 2019 plz pray 4 me that may allah make my marriage successful.aameen
2 days left congradulations
Congrats my sister... Tomorrow U r going to strt ur new lyf
Allah apko bahot acha shohar de aur apki lyf me dher sari khushiya aur khair o barkat ata farmaye
Ameen..!
Congratulations
Aameen
So happy for u dear, may Allah bless your marriage aameen
Al hamdulillah for my husband who is so thankful for all I do, even making coffee he’s so thankful, Al hamdulillah he was brought up by a father who showed him how to be a good husband and Al hamdulillah he compares me to his mother, paradise lies underneath her feet and insha’Allah one day I’ll become a mother to show my children how to be a good wife. I’m so grateful.
I feel happy for you ya ukhty, may Allah Azza wa Jall blessed your entire family. Barakallahufiikum. 😃
Happy for u, sister
Masha Allah may Allah bless so barakah in it ameen
May Allah bless you my dear
U r so lucky sister.. alhamdhulilaah..
Watching these videos as if I’m getting married anytime soon 😂😭
Hhhh same page😁😁
Me as well de
facts im 13 😂
Omg same but literally insha’allah i cannot wait until that day I get married ☺️if Allah wills 🤍
Mashallah same😂😂😂😂
I got married 10 days ago. He is very loving, happy and content now. I want him to be such happy, healthy & content for entire life. So, I'm watching videos and reading books about husband & wife's relationship in Islam. Thank you very much. Please, make duaa for us. And my duaa to all of you. ❤️
Can u please recommend me a book which helped u to improve the relationship between u two
WHere i can find this book about husband and wife books i want to know about the things need to do for wife to make happy a husband
Allahummabarak
Allahuma barik, May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
May Allah blessed your marriage hun❤
If allah swt separated you from a haram relationship be thankful. You all deserve a wife/husband. NOT a boyfriend/girlfriend.
Entirely agree with you
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Allāh.start with capital letter
For those future wives who are watching this video may Allah make it easy for you ameeeen
Thank you ameen
Ameen
Aameen
Gratitude is rare nowadays, we need to make ourselves more grateful to Allah.
Thanks!
Subhanallah!! My husband is so kind and merciful to me and reminds me the righteous path so I may not only do right by him but also by Allah almighty!! He thanks me graciously for my love and I thank him for his love!! 🙇🏽♀️🙇🏾♂️💕🌺📿 These are the fruits of Allah he has blessed us with each and every day!! Mashallah!!
Aw MashaAllah Allahuma barik
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Allahuma barik, May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Islam teaches women how to be a pious wife. It’s a learning process as you lead this role and sometimes if not most times you will slip. The devil is always waiting and wanting you to keep slipping never getting up. Fight it off. Forgive yourself, be kind to yourself, be in constant reminder of ALLAH and know that you are worthy of Jannah.
This is what I needed to hear God bless you sister
This is true. It’s always hard to repair and become a better version of you but i know i shouldn’t give up.
Kar Lead Why are you going around commenting on women’s appearance?
@TheLatiosnlatias02 get out from Muslim video
@TheLatiosnlatias02 every women I face always bad,
if a man honor his wife. Respect her care about her. give her time affection and love. This man will feel like a king. Complaining about ur wife and u dont even recognize her.
Sister, you missed the whole point of the video and here you are complaining again. There is another video on Ideal Husband and the Husbands should watch that and learn. to each their own responsibility rather than pointing fingers
Men need to care about their wives and not pretend they are not valuable. A man may marry his wife, have children with her, and completely disregard everything she does for the family. He may even say, what do you do all day-she May have given up her career in order to take care of the home and young children. This disregard and disrespect is difficult on a woman. Many men don’t realize all a woman sacrifices.
Believe it or not, society is not perfect and good girls are marrying con men and then they are told not to complain and not to talk too much.
@@Interestingchica Again as I said, there is another video on how Husbands should behave towards their wives and how to follow the examples of (P.B.U.H).
This video is as a reminder to wives how to behave towards their husbands and highlights some of the things wives do which should be avoided.
of course, there are con men and con women around the world making the lives of their spouses difficult but then they are misguided.
But again women are again doing what the video advice them NOT to do.. and that is COMPLAIN.. lol isn't it ironic?
May Allah (Rabbul Izzah) bless those who are married.
Thank you. I will use this information to further add to the happiness and harmony of our home. 💞🙏🏽 - Peace, light and Love to you. ✨💯
My Isabella is ideal. Her conversion to Islam is awesome.
May allah guide us all and make us good wives for our husbands and keep our husbands happy. I am grateful to have such a great husband, I need to do better for him . I love him and khadija is my role model 💜
Allahuma ameen
Allahuma barik, May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Unbelievable words Masha’Allah Masha’Alkah Masha’Allah
Thank you I feel so blessed to hear such beauty. 💚✨💚✨💚
Watching these because after Isya prayer im about to do ta'aruf with someone I don't know, one hour from now. All i know she was a Hafizah. Hoping I'm good enough. O Allah taala you are a controller of all heart. My heart is beating like crazy😅
So how did it go?😁😁
Unfortunatly often in divorces the reality is that the men are the ones who sin, cheat and beat their wives for no reason. Or they don't work and let the wife take care of the money and household. Sorry to say but a lot of muslim men are like this in my community. A LOT. And their argument is: I am the man, the wife must obey without talking back. It's just the reality. When you are good to your wife, she will be thousand times better for you and help you to become a better muslim. These men want the ideal muslim wife and talk about getting multiple wives but how can you take care of them when you can't even pray 5 times a day..
Sawyer Unfortunately that is the case sometimes.. I am just speeking on divorces in my own social environement. Always the men that cheat, do drugs and drink. And if the woman dares to open her mounth, she's the one that disobeys. May Allah forgive us.
Men don't beat their wives for no reason. That's utter garbage!
Aishat Mekiyeva
The Prophet pbuh pointed out 4 things that if a woman does she'll get paradise (all 8 gates will be opened for her). One of them is obedience (and servitude) to husband.
Aishat Mekiyeva
Also mind you if the husband is angry at his wife (for valid reasons), her prayers are invalid.
hanzala omar Salam Aleykum Omar. Not when he beats her and openly cheats on her. There is a line to obedience. When the husband disobeys Allah swt by committing horifc sins, he cannot expect the wife to obey him no matter what. This is what is wrong in islamic 'culture'. Men ans women are equal in the eyes of Allah swt. A marriage should be a happy and healthy one, not one where the wife is constantly afraid of her husband.
Islam is such a beautiful religion. Alhamdulilah i am Muslim.
My mother is the best 😇... Yeh Allah keep her happy always
And the thing with waiting at the door I'ma be honest..... I give the same greetings as an excited puppy I see my husband come home after not seeing him all day I get excited I surround him and give kisses and hugs and say how much I missed him I asked him right now how he would feel if I stopped doing that... He said he would be sad
Jazakallah khair ukhti
Same here and once I saw in a Webpage marriage advice: greeting ur husband, say hi hug him etc. I was shocked, that it's not obvious for all ppl 😯 he is my sunshine, miss him all day. I'm also running to the door when I hear him 🏃♀️😂
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@@GratDuForloradeArgumentet what r u jealous ur not getting any love and attention do u need a hug or something 😄😄😄
@@liliummoonbeam4465 No I dislike traitors and Islam. You disgust me. 🤢
There are many good wives but husbands don’t appreciate or realise it a lot of the times
Yeh to your ears
Look I’m a happily married woman with the best husband a woman can ever ask for im just generally saying what I did in the first comment so don’t no why your getting so uptight and personal about it!!
Well the women who blame their men for all their problems need to move on instead of playing the blame game! Can’t blame a man or a woman for ones own weakness or problems in life if your not happy move on
UNITED MONEY these days unfortunately the demands are so high for marriage, girls want boys with houses and good jobs and cars and so do the boys want the girls to work an earn etc, sad but a lot of them remain unmarried and also unhappy, the girls say no good boys left and the boys say there are no good girls left.
Maybe there wifes just aint good?
I’m a Christian and this touched my soul
You should follow up and find out as much as you can if something has touched your heart.
Thank you, please search more
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Al hamdulillaah search more about islaam
Shukran Ramadan Mubarak 🌙
Please make dua for me and my husband. We were recently married and I’m a revert. I’m learning to be a good wife. Please make dua that I am able to make my husband pleased with me
1. Don't complain but be grateful to your husband
2. Nagging❌
3. Support your husband
4. Please him and be pleased with him
5. Be a person , you want your children to be
may allah reward you ❤
ALLAH ham sabko iman par zinda rakk
Guidance Point Imaan par khaatma kar
JazakAllah khayr sooooo much, may Allah bless you infinitely, both in this life and the next, Ameen!
Do I deserve a marriage?
I have been trying for so long, things are dead end to me again and again.
It hurts me, it really really hurts me. Allah, it does hurts me. Forgive me, forgive me and help me.
Be patient.
This is a very informative video...I'm glad I watched it as it just popped up as a recommendation. Marriage is very hardwork even when you are blessed with a great husband...then once you have children of your own it can be very demanding at times. Compromise and most of all patience and mutual respect definitely go hand in hand for a successful marriage.
It’s really difficult to find a spouse who’s actually a religious Muslim man, who’s also not shallow and is actually kind, compassionate, loving, caring and genuine. It’s beautiful to have a partner who shares the same faith and we would both strive to do good deeds together.
There are quite a lot actually...its just that a lot of sisters are shallow and want all you describe PLUS he needs to be handsome and tall as well 🙄
@@JanSneeuw83 Looks matter for men and women. Would you want an unattractive wife who doesn't turn you on?
I'll become loyal faithful and loving wife please pray for me I want to marry soon I want husband who take me into jannah
May Allah bless you with the coolness of your eyes and heart, Amin!
Mash Allah sister. I'm really of you. I'm also looking for a very good Muslim woman to become my wife.
Having a husband won't take you to heaven.
@@sofiblinka2300why not. Of course it can and it does.
An example, it Protects oneself from wrong actions, and let ppl do the right thing.
May Allah swt shower your marriage with endless love, mercy, respect, compassion, care and support towards each other, may He swt make you the coolness of each other's eyes and each other's peace and keep you both steadfast on the straight path and grant you both the best of the dunya and akhirah, Allahuma ameen 🤲🏻
Beautiful!! Very good advise, Islam is beautiful!! Alhamdulillah that we pray to Allah
Ma sha Allah. May Allaah continue to keep us all on a stright path. Aameen
Am Christian but i love Muslim religion so much, ❤❤❤❤❤ Allah help me to have good in this house.
Masha Allah
Was beautiful to listen my brothers
Remind us what's good
I love you
I prayed for you
Allah to help you, to keep doing what's good
Masha Allah This kind of videos are very grateful for Muslim youngster. I learn lots of things from your video. Jazhkhallah and Appreciated. Allah Bless U
What a reminder! MashaaAllah tabarakallah walahaula Wala kuwata illa Billah Alhamdulillah
I will always be a good wife to my husband because he deserves it. Allah we need your guide in our marriage
*My father was a very good, kind & compassionate man. My motthe very intelligent with degrees. My mother respected and loved my father. Every month he placed his entire months salary in her hand and said "Wife spend it carefully". It gave her ACTIONABLE respect! A society where women are hurt by men will NEVER PROSPER (goes without saying from Allah SobAnuWa Th'la) !!
Pho E
It's the other way around, a society where women disrespect their mahram men will fall apart just like the European societies where marital chaos, suicide, depression, divorce, single parent families etc are on a rampage.
@@hanzalaomar3234 That's happening because Women play the western Game, but want to play the Islamic game when it comes to finances. As soon as the Man reminds them they're obliged to their rights, they're suddenly liberal again.
@@blueflame3531 I just read an article where a woman demanded her divorced partner pay $10,000 as mehr as he promised before marriage (which has been dropped by Ohio judge) even though she was the one who filed for divorce ( also made false charges of terrorism against him).
This is so sad, really, cause Islamically, the woman has to pay back the mahr if she initates divorce (Al-Khul).
@@hanzalaomar3234 That's exactly what I mean my friend.
@@blueflame3531 In Muslim countries, there are stipulations put in marriage contract (not by the bride but by the government) that demands the husband to relinquish some of his Islamic rights.
Seems that the rules for 'an ideal wife' are the same rules as for 'an ideal husband' Alhamdulilah
s s Nope
All these, requires patience and unconditional love..
May Allah grant me the strength to be a good wife to my husband. Amin..
Please make dua for me.
Ameen
A proverbs 31 woman makes a wife worth keeping happy! My husband does not take his work boots off, I do, because I want him to know that I respect and appreciate the hard work he does for us, even as I work 60 hours a week I still choose to take his boots off.
Much respect to you!
Thats too much,taking someones boots off is a little low life.He can take them off by himself ,you can verbally say how much u apprecciate him
@@Lockeditin It's not low life, it's her love, stop thinking you're right
@@yasinfazley8313 its love to take someones shoes off?Love is not having someone degarding themselves for you.Stop thinking everyboyd thinks like you
@@Lockeditin the difference between her and you is she has love and you've ego. Period
May Allah grant us all a good wife and make it easy for us to find her. Allahuma Ameen.
I love my wife so much. It feels like the shaytaan be trying to attack us since we got married and converted islam
don't love herr
red lilly don’t ? Who is this? Satan speaking?
I wish u and ur wife the best. Don’t let Satan get to u!
First of all, what women shrieks at her man "where have u been?! Where r the groceries? Etc" maybe they are few. But most women I know speak so highly and well and lovingly about their husbands but u can also see the pain in their faces that their husbands r not as loving with them as tbe women are loving and caring towards them. Treat women with respect and kindness and love and humour and trust me, walahi they will give u back a thousand times more. And don't order around, trust. Women r not stupid so dont treat them as such. They are Ur partners as u r theirs, so have a little humility and respect. None is above the other, both need each other. Love goes a long way. Treat each other as u did when u first were with each other. U r not the possessor of Ur wife, u r her companion and friend and protector, as she is yours. God bless all couples to be each others peace and serenity in this world. Be the best team 🌸❤️🌸
Ameen
Ameen
True..it’s teamwork. Your wife is not your possession, nor is there something like a ideal wife or husband. Only Allah swt posseses us. Only Allah swt is ideal. As husband and wife you can work as a team, or not. Nothing shamefull about it, sometimes two people don’t work together. This video sucks
Flory Timmer Yup
Kar Lead Stop
Can you do one of husbands too?
There's one on this channel
@@farahhumairamohd2946 I can't find it??
@@Sarararara. at the end of this video there's a small box you can click to watch the husband one
@@Sarararara. at 10:05
@@farahhumairamohd2946 thank you
In shaa Allah, Allah will help my marriage coz what I can see is that my marriage is falling apart😥😥😥😥😥 ....I have tried alot but my wife keeps on asking divorce 😥
I will wanna be the ideal wife
Allahamdulilalh
My Allah protect us all
Same
🤣🤣🤣🤮🤮🤮
Is need a long time..is need a long way to me be The ideal wife..I am new muslin..is need learn Islan..
After long years i will..maybe The ideal wife..
Thanks my Allah..My Lord is patient with me..
Ameen
May allah bless u
Lol sister just because you're a new muslim does not mean you need to wait years and years for marriage. Just learn the basics genuinely and practice your 5 daily prayers regularly. Establish good relationships with other muslimahs create a new life. Your husband will come InshaAllah. You can do this in s year.
May Allah make it easy on you sister!
Ameen
Jazakalah ..mashaAllah its full of guidance for us women
Ya rab
Grant my brothers righteous wife’s and of those of the believers. Ameen
Kashif Benshamim , brother PLEASE watch my playlists
Kit Kat
I’m new to watching RUclips which are your videos
Kashif Benshamim my playlists
amen
AMEEN
La illahi illa allah His words are worth more than all gold in this world he created
The ideal partner.
Don't marry only on looks, content of character. Marry a friend not some random person. Become friends first.
Nicely done. Inform of massage marriage 🎉❤
I wish I had seen this sooner.
Why? You can change now... It's ok because we didn't know about something but when we come to know we should do our best to follow it
It's never late
Me tooooo 😭😭😭
There is a reason why you saw it when you seen it. Change now
Isn’t too late say alx
Plz make dua for me n my husband that we both stay blessed
ameen
Ma shaa Allah . This is a good advise.
This is abgood advice to treat your husband💜 god bless all
Subhan Allah Walhamdulillah Wa La illaha illAllah Wallahu Akbar... Just by saying this a tree was planted for you in Jannah.
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Subhan Allah Wa Bihamdihi
Subhan Allah Al- `Azim
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Keep repeating these throughout the day and reap the rewards as much as you can. Also please remember me in your duas.
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May Allah (SWT) forgive us for all of our sins and bestow His mercy upon us and May He grant us goodness and success in all that we do.
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i will show this to my wife when i'll get married insha'allah.
Show her before marriage
You better look at responsibilities of husband too. Muslim men ignores their duties while focus only on their rights Astugfirullah
B X N G : try to show it before to her and also learn the duties of husband to his wife as well
I dont think you shd do that, you shdnt be bothered about your rights when it comes to love. Let her be the one to care about it.(frankly if it were me and my potential husband were to show me this video, i wd get very pissed off and annoyed.) Your job is to care about the other's right. Let the other person think and bother about your right) If we keep on thinking about what we ourselves deserve to have and ignore what the others shd hv, we'll never be happy. We'll just keep on arguing instead
Learn to be a good husband yourself as well
I did everything in my power as husband. What if she doesn't obey me? Whenever I scold her not to post photos of her, she still breaks that rule of mine. And then I told her aunt about this so that she might give her advice about wife's duty towards me as her husband, she then gets mad at me.
Please pray for me and my husband. Our marriage is struggling. I want to be a better wife and he wants to be a better husband. 🙏❤️
Try to solve the problem n find out the root of ur problem... InshaAllah everything will be fine
Watching these videos as a married revert trying to learn how to abandon my unconscious argumentative ways
Very nice video mashaallah
Plz make dua that I should become a good wife for my husband
Jazak Allah Khayr
Well i hope i will marry a lovely character muslim girl who always loves me..😌
Umar is this you??
@@monamuse9857 What you mean who
AAMIIN YAA ROBBAL'ALAMIIN 😇 IN SYAA ALLAH 😇
@@UmarFarooq-nl4eq have u got married ever since then ?
@@ilhomsanokulov Nope Its Very Difficult When You Are Unemployed
May Allah grant us ease in the grave Ameen 🤲🏼❤️
Subha Allah it's so true
It is very difficult to find an ideal wife in Turkey 🇹🇷🕋
Im about to watch the video hope it is gud
Edit: wallahi it is a video which wanted me to come back to Allah and wish for a very righteous wife one day. Please hope my wife is someone I really want. She is not righteous but I wish she is one day. I want a halal relationship with her not a haram one. Please pray, tho she is a mexican muslim and im pakistani. I do not know what will happen but please pray. She is much good looking then me but I wish for her as a righteous person. Please brothers and sisters pray for me.
Anas Baloch : show her the beauty of Islam by being a wonderful Muslim husband, make lots of duas (prayers) to Allah, learn more about the beauty of our Deen, InshaAllah things gonna workout
Everyone in the comments saying they’re getting married
Me: Binge watching romance animes and movies knowing it’ll never be me TwT
Making dua for you🕊️
May Allah SWT guide us all towards the right path Aameen
Just be good work on your self, so that you get someone good by your heart.
It’s like I’m able to watch this from another perspective
Alhamdulilah I have been brought up by an amazing woman. May Allah grant us young women amazing ‘ideal husbands’ and makeup ‘ideal wives’. I am an university student getting close to my last year. Would love to find someone Allah is pleased with🙏 Any tips? I live in Scotland 🏴
Jamilaa Ali go ask yo mama idiot
Good luck dear sister may Allah give you everything. Greets from the Netherlands
Make dua and ask your mother to find a really good guy... It's not easy in today's world to find a good spouse...
Dustin is a weapon of momin
My sister
I'm from Pakistan,Punjab, multan and going to complete my MBBS degree this year in sha Allah
I'm in search of pious and educated girl, I belong to a poor,well mannered family.I got admission on merit Alhamdulillah and will b settled in next 2 years
I want to get married after 2 years,
If anyone is intrested she or her parents can contact me,I'll give my contact number
Please make dua for me and my husband
May Allah reward us with ideal women for marriage
Aameen
دعواتكم لي أن يرزقني الله زوجا صالحا
*A bad husband creates a bad wife*
*An adulterous & porno watching husband ruins the wife*
*When the leader of house is corrupt then the followers get corrupted too*
Thus being a male is a huge MORAL RESPONSIBILITY**!!!
Pho E The man is not the leader.
My Namo Yes, he most certainly is the leader of the household.
InshaAllah the Almighty will send me a good wife 😊
Aameen 💕
Please make duaa for me , inshallah I’m getting married at Saturday 28/12/2019 and I’m very scared
Ilina Mo may Allah bless your marriage
Ameen, remember your duas sis always
How was it?
I don't want to ever get married or be in a relationship. It is too much drama and I am not even capable of loving someone in that way, I am currently 13 and i have never felt attracted to someone. Despite so many of my friends liking people. I don't know how that feels. And tbh I don't want to.
Me never that age, your young, do not worry about it. Enjoy your youth, no need for relationships this age. Focus on developing your relationship with Allah swt.
@@salampakistan3691 well in Islam you are an adult when you pass puberty, which is probably the case for this person since theyre 13, they can get married if they want but they need to be responsible
mascha Allah soooo nice speach jazaakum Allahu khairan
JazakAllah ❤️
Shukran
what about ideal husband. ....please upload this kind of video too
May Allah guide me to find the right one, who can guide me in Islam, be with me to improving ourself both Deen and Dunya, and together until Jannah, İnshaAllah. Ameen.
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
“Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
Furqan:74
رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ
“My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.”
Qasas:24
Im watching this video and all the qualities of a bad wife mentioned here: nagging,complaining, asking all questions all the time etc etc; I'm here thinking that maybe the roles have been reversed for me. Allah khair.
Assalamualaikum
What to do if husband has no time for conversation?😕
What if the wife works and supports all household expenses along with all housework and shopping?
❤ good question. Then we can have a second husband and they must obey 😅😂
Rabbi inni Lima anzalta ilaya min khairin faqir
Please make a dua for me to meet my daughter peacefully...due to my wife and in laws allegations on me ..i havent see her yet..now she is 2 years old 😭😭😭
What are the allegations?
Aameen JazakAllahu kheir
I remember reading this Hadith in the Quran.
Wanjiru Karago what?
We can't always blame the men for how their wives, daughter's, sisters or mothers go out. Some wives don't listen to their husbands and do what they wish. And some men like to flaunt their wives. Astaghfirullah this is becoming so common in the Arab world. It's hard to find a woman who is not caked up in makeup or wearing an open abaya with reveling clothes. May Allah guide us all.
If ur a practicing muslim insha allah allah will grant u a pious muslimah may allah help u and may he grant u a good wife.aameen
@@atikaali7831 🤣 I am a sister and already married...but ameen for your duas...
@@zikrakhan503 sorry😊
Where are u from?
@@atikaali7831 India
Tell me. How do i forget the guy, A guy i had been friend from school. He had married already. I liked him because he is a very nice one and this is killing me. It feels like its impossible to find someone like him
I pray you will find someone better ameen
I’m not a scholar or any adult but then I hear Allah does everything for a reason even if it means taking away your loved ones or the people you loved, Allah has something special planned for you and the only duty you have to do is keep making Duaas and have patience
He married another but died with 2 sons and his family ...too soon.
Subhan Allah