O Allah don't hold me to account for what they say about me. Forgive me for that which they don't know about me. And make better than what they perceive about me.
@@kabadabo2098 Salamalaykom Brother i came on this channel to ask a question i was hoping u could answer it. If u love a girl in this world but u dont get her in this world and then she gets married tgo some1 else can u have her in jannah.
@@ihavenoname5501 i don't think so brother/sister if both spouses were still married until their death they'll be reunited in the hereafter but Allah is all knowledgeable
Not to spoil it for you but I have alarm bells ringing here. If you have converted or are going to convert then please reconsider marriage to your guy. If he got into a haram relationship and with a non-Muslim girl on top of that, he is likely not very practising. This will lead to problems in the future as you draw closer to Allah and lack the support of your husband in your deen. It happens to converts all the time so please be cautious. And if my description is accurate, yet you still get married, be married for a while before you decide to have children. Again I really don't want to be a buzzkill, just trying to prevent you from possible misery in the future inshaAllah. I wish you all the best in this dunya and the akhirah. Ameen
Holly wood, bollywood and stuff glamourize love but true love is from Allah and the best of relationships is as the Prophet SAW was with his wives and the companions next to that it will be their love that will stand out on the Last Day may Allah make us follow and forgive us - Ameen
I agree exactly with 'get the nikkah done' I don't understand why its culture to not allowing people to get married just because they won't live with together straight away?
If our connection with Allah is strong we will be protected.As the say "when you're focused you're hard to reach and when you're distracted you're available.We should stay focused in pleasing Allah
i want to get married but i feel as though there’s no one, all i know it’s not all but most brothers today are obsessed with the dunya and I want a husband whose caring, and follows his deen over this dunya. inshallah allah answer my dua and grant me a good spouse 🤲🏿✨
@A simple Guy Just simple I know that, I said I know it’s not all. This is just from my experience. I never tried to blame all Muslim men I just meant that a lot of brothers today are after something I’m not.
maa shaa Allah, at least u guys have someone who loves you...good for u, may Allah facilitate for us all and bless us with beautiful marriages that'll continue forever in Jannah.
Miftah Ul Haque Salam alaykom. Don't lose hope. Make du'aa to Allah to give you a righteous spouse. Nothing is impossible for Allah. Whether we're living in righteous times or not, nothing is beyond Allah's power.
Please provide even the SLIGHTEST shred of actual proof that "Allah" exists. It sure isn't the Quran, because it is filled with errors and contradictions.
I totally agree, you always need this as a reminder in your head, that you want the hereafter more than the girl. But I believe it is harder in certain areas in the world. Personally I live in NYC and this is a huge challenge, because the women here aren't modest at all. Modesty doesn't exist anymore. So when you go out, it's literally a sexual war inside of you (at least that's how it is for me, maybe I'm just lustful). Sometimes I'll see a girl, and at the start I'd be like no way you can't talk to her. Then I get these ideas, like he mentioned, just get her number you don't need to do anything, just talk to her you don't even know what she's like, hey you never know she might be the one. Sometimes the arguments I come up are so good, but thank Allah so far I've always been able to fight it even when approached. For those in similar circumstances as me, you really shouldn't take this lightly. Yes it's hard, but as you keep doing it you will get stronger at it.
I just broke up with my boyfriend I know it’s haram that’s why I broke up with him....everything was getting too toxic for me I fell into major depression and my parents also do not like him one bit and tried making my life hell. I let him go because I need to fix myself up before I even jump into a marriage with him or anyone else because it isn’t fair for anyone to have this baggage in me internally and I have to fix them. I don’t know if i did the right thing guys....please..I just let him go because since I’m not gonna marry him at this point in my life because I feel like I’m not ready so I don’t want haram going on anymore because it’s not fair for any of us. I just pray Allah brings us back together when it’s meant to be. Maybe we weren’t meant to be at this point in our lives because im at a point in my life right now where marriage isn’t the answer for me rn and I don’t even have the support of my parents behind me if I even marry him..... Did I make the right choice guys? I don’t know I just let everything upto allah and I’m going to get help with counselling
Kamil Ibri wsalam. I’m sorry. I think it’s best right now I focus on myself even though I still love him and everything I don’t think jumping into marriage is the right choice right now because it’s been getting really toxic between my family, him and me. I feel like I should be getting help by sorting myself out before getting married because it’s unhealthy
sanerz Salam sister. You made the absolute best decision for you and your akhira. I know that it’s hard especially when you love that person but remember that your choosing the love and fear for Allah before the love for his creation. If you would have died tomorrow that man that you love would not come with you in the grave, you would be there alone and with the sin of a haram relationship. You saved yourself and that man, sis wallahi you did him a huge favor. Focus on yourself, grow your imaan, rebuild your relationship with your parents (they are your ticket to jannah) And while doing these things pray, pray, pray that Allah blesses you with a marriage full of barakah, kheyr and love whether it’s with that person or someone else. Also remember that Allah knows best, you may think that this guy is the best and suits you perfectly but we quickly forget that we know nothing wallahi. Everything is already written, do your best in improving yourself always and leave the rest to the absolute best, Our Creator. I genuinely wish you nothing but the best sis, may Allah ease all of this for you and help your improve yourself and bless you with a steadfast imaan. Allahuma amin
I'm so proud of you for breaking up with your boyfriend. May Allah bless you sister. It may seem hard now, and trust me I know I went through something like this before, but once the love of Allah and His messenger fills your heart you will never want to turn back to your boyfriend. You made the right choice by breaking up with your boyfriend, try get married soon In Shaa Allah.
and my sister he wasn't right in the first place trust me, women are innocent but if you knew what men think generally speaking you wouldn't want to even be close with them. Your boyfriend most likely just wanted to sleep with you my sister, if he truly loved you he would've asked your father for your hand for marriage. This isn't a real man, this is what you call a boy who's just filing his desires by displeasing Allah. Marry someone who loves and fears Allah my sister, I advise you to watch video by dawahman just type heart break dawah man it should come up.
I belong to a society,where I can’t even talk about my marriage,I hv to get a good job nd a house to become eligible for proposals,...and I’m sick of it,I can’t control myself at this point of my life,I realllly wannna get married but I can’t even think about talking to my parents....pray for me Allah grant me sabr bcoz I don’t know how long I will keep it that way
Ya Allah please protect me from garam relationship.. Please keep me near by you. May Allah bless us with the power not to commit any kind of sin. Ashtaqfirullah for all our sins. I beg Allah mercy on us. Please forgive us ya Rabb. Allahumdullilha for everything we have right. I am in a much much better place. Where I can pray you every day. Subhanallah. Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Allahumdullilha Allahumdulliha Allahumdullilha
Please make dua for me. We never got to get married because of certain problems but only Allah knows how much I still love her after all these years...
I will make dua for you in my prayers In Sha Allah, In Sha Allah you two will get married, and if you do, Alhamdullillah, and if you two don't get married, still Alhamdullillah, and In Sha Allah you will be given a great spouse that you deserve
@Precious Diamond Yes you can. This is why we have to lower our gaze and not intermingle with the opposite sex. Shaitan casts arrows and causes desires which leads to infatuation we think is love.
4:07 'Walaahi if that was the case the hadith would've said if someone came to you they have a lot of wealth get them married''.That was a power ful speech
It's about faith, are you both praying salah? Do you aspire to move forward spiritually? Physical attraction is important but are you compatible based on mutual understanding?
Quran Chapter 4 Verse 171 O People of the Scripture, do not commit excess in your religion or say about Allah except the truth. The Messiah, Jesus, the son of Mary, was but a messenger of Allah and His word which He directed to Mary and a soul [created at a command] from Him. So believe in Allah and His messengers. And do not say, "Three"; desist - it is better for you. Indeed, Allah is but one God. Exalted is He above having a son. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. And sufficient is Allah as Disposer of affairs. Quran Chapter 5 116. And God will say, “O Jesus son of Mary, did you say to the people, `Take me and my mother as gods rather than God?'“ He will say, “Glory be to You! It is not for me to say what I have no right to. Had I said it, You would have known it. You know what is in my soul, and I do not know what is in Your soul. You are the Knower of the hidden. 117. I only told them what You commanded me: that you shall worship God, my Lord and your Lord. And I was a witness over them while I was among them; but when You took me to Yourself, You became the Watcher over them-You are Witness over everything. Quran Chapter 3 45. The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest. 46. He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.” 47. She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.” 48. And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel. 49. A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.” 50. “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.” 51. “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.” 52. When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.” 53. “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.” 54. They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners. 55. God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing. 56. As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers. 57. And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.” 58. This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder. 59. The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was. 60. The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt. 61. And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.” 62. This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise. 63. But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt. 64. Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.” Quran Chapter 19 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful. 1. Kaf, Ha, Ya, Ayn, Saad. 2. A mention of the mercy of your Lord towards His servant Zechariah. 3. When he called on his Lord, a call in seclusion. 4. He said, “My Lord, my bones have become feeble, and my hair is aflame with gray, and never, Lord, have I been disappointed in my prayer to you. 5. “And I fear for my dependents after me, and my wife is barren. So grant me, from Yourself, an heir. 6. To inherit me, and inherit from the House of Jacob, and make him, my Lord, pleasing.” 7. “O Zechariah, We give you good news of a son, whose name is John, a name We have never given before.” 8. He said, “My Lord, how can I have a son, when my wife is barren, and I have become decrepit with old age?” 9. He said, “It will be so, your Lord says, ‘it is easy for me, and I created you before, when you were nothing.’” 10. He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you will not speak to the people for three nights straight.” 11. And he came out to his people, from the sanctuary, and signaled to them to praise morning and evening. 12. “O John, hold on to the Scripture firmly,” and We gave him wisdom in his youth. 13. And tenderness from Us, and innocence. He was devout. 14. And kind to his parents; and he was not a disobedient tyrant. 15. And peace be upon him the day he was born, and the day he dies, and the Day he is raised alive. 16. And mention in the Scripture Mary, when she withdrew from her people to an eastern location. 17. She screened herself away from them, and We sent to her Our spirit, and He appeared to her as an immaculate human. 18. She said, “I take refuge from you in the Most Merciful, should you be righteous.” 19. He said, “I am only the messenger of your Lord, to give you the gift of a pure son.” 20. She said, “How can I have a son, when no man has touched me, and I was never unchaste?” 21. He said, “Thus said your Lord, `It is easy for Me, and We will make him a sign for humanity, and a mercy from Us. It is a matter already decided.'“ 22. So she carried him, and secluded herself with him in a remote place. 23. The labor-pains came upon her, by the trunk of a palm-tree. She said, “I wish I had died before this, and been completely forgotten.” 24. Whereupon he called her from beneath her: “Do not worry; your Lord has placed a stream beneath you. 25. And shake the trunk of the palm-tree towards you, and it will drop ripe dates by you.” 26. “So eat, and drink, and be consoled. And if you see any human, say, ‘I have vowed a fast to the Most Gracious, so I will not speak to any human today.'“ 27. Then she came to her people, carrying him. They said, “O Mary, you have done something terrible. 28. O sister of Aaron, your father was not an evil man, and your mother was not a whore.” 29. So she pointed to him. They said, “How can we speak to an infant in the crib?” 30. He said, “I am the servant of God. He has given me the Scripture, and made me a prophet. 31. And has made me blessed wherever I may be; and has enjoined on me prayer and charity, so long as I live. 32. And kind to my mother, and He did not make me a disobedient rebel. 33. So Peace is upon me the day I was born, and the day I die, and the Day I get resurrected alive.” 34. That is Jesus son of Mary-the Word of truth about which they doubt. 35. It is not for God to have a child-glory be to Him. To have anything done, He says to it, “Be,” and it becomes. 36. “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.” 37. But the various factions differed among themselves. So woe to those who disbelieve from the scene of a tremendous Day. 38. Listen to them and watch for them the Day they come to Us. But the wrongdoers today are completely lost. 39. And warn them of the Day of Regret, when the matter will be concluded. Yet they are heedless, and they do not believe.”
Always gain the love of Allah SWT first , pls make dua for me everyone as I love this person so much but they really hate me and hurt me everyday and its not really a healthy relationship as they hurt me everyday and don't care inshallah none of you will expirence what i am right now May Allah SWT bless all of you inshallah ameen x
I was involved in a haram relationship for almost 2 years thinking it will be halal one day. I ended up asking him back in November if he has feelings for me. He told me he didn’t have feelings for me. I ended everything. I try to forget him everyday. I do tahajjud and it’s still so hard for me to forget him. I make dua for him still. But it’s so hard to let go. I try every single day. I’m tired of this.
Please make dua for me that Allah SWT grant the person I had in mind Hidayah. Trying dakwah on him. Initially he was interested but maybe its not the time yet. Only Allah SWT knows. Now I have realised Allah SWT may want to Guide him through me making prayers for him. Do not worry. I have not talk to him or have any relationship with him. Please dear sisters and brothers, pray for my Dakwah to be successful this Ramadhan 2020 and may He Grants Hidayah to more non-Muslims and Guides more and more to Islam. May Allah SWT forgives our sins and accepts our ibadats and answer our duas this beautiful Ramadan. Alhamdulillah for making us all a Muslim.
AS SALAAM ALAIKUM, I LOVE MY INTENT Anthony Washington and I am giving our relationship to ALLAH S.W.T. I keep praying for us, our marriage a Nikkah Inshallah. I don't play with what I am holding on to Inshallah the Brother feels the same way. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM .I keep calling in faith STRONGLY ON ALLAH. If any sisters and brothers are in support of Us as I sister Khadijah would make Dua for your good ties and a blessed marriage as well, I HUMBLY THANK YOU and may ALLAH be with us all. AS SALAAM ALAIKUM
Assalamu alaykum I am a girl from India who converted to Islam and I am very happy. I love a boy who is muslim and i really want to marry him but in india they still feel i am a hindu as i dont have any legal document of islam and here people feel hindu and muslim cant be together but i really want to marry him and spend rest of my life with him ! He told his parents and they ask about us to some molanas but the molanas said no as the family of the guy can get problems due to the marriage in future so they are not allowing the son for marriage and he says His parents are first for him but I really love him and make dua everyday!
My sister, Look into islam, try to understand islam, if you guys marry with different beliefs - this can cause problems further into the marriage example: raising the children or going through life experiences, you guys want to have similar understanding so that when problems arise you guys get help each other through tough time and good times. Pray for guidance to make it easy for you
Asalaam aliakum thank you everyone. Keep the LOVE alive. We need it in the World even more then i realized we did. Thanks for all thsh you do and have a blessed day. I loves you all brothers and sisters. Almighty Allah protect, bless, forgive, and continue keeping our love within our Family bonded & our relationships with spouses and even friends also....may He protect and bless them and us all and those on which we love. Bismillah. Mashs Allah. Amin. Amen.
I love this boy so much the reason why we got each other was by both of us praying for each other to Allah and finally we ended up together alhamduillah he’s so religious and he made me a better Muslim we want to get engage to make our relationship become halal (it’s long distance btw nothing haram is done )but we are only 18 same age his dad is the problem he doesn’t want me :// I pray every night for us to be together and marry fast but please pray for me I cry every night I really want him I hope his dad accepts us and let us be engaged in sha Allah pray for me ....
Masha Allah.. Well said.. I have got my answers for my questions.. It's really helpful.. Zazakallah khayrun... Please share more videos for us.. To make a good society.. Barakkalah feekum
I'm in a relationship and we cannot get married for few years.. and we can't stop this forever.. but i wish to keep this halaal until our nikah... we avoid maximum meetings.. we jst chat for a little while and meets up once in a long time.. and we avoid any things like touching or other anything... is it enough for keeping our relationship halal until we get nikah??
@@hafsahussein365 There are a 2 opinions regarding the amount of Mahr-e-Faatimi. Some say that it is 400 mithqaal of silver which will be equivalent to 1.7496 kg and some say that it was 480 Dirhams (silver coins) which will be equivalent to 1.469 kg. And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
Asalam Alaikum.....i was in love with a guy but i never told him he loved me nd proposed me i said first send your parents thn ill be yours....but i never said i love you to him but our hearts were pyre v really wanted to hav nikkah nd wanted to marry but his parents said not now after 2 years nd still he was convincing his parents till last day of his life nd he died a week ago :( can we reunite in Jannah as Mehrams ?
Assalamu alaikum... I was in a haram relationship... I talked to my parents... They are not ok... But... His parents are ok for the marriage... My family's problem is its too far from my place... It takes 9 hrs to travel... So that they are not allowing to get marry with him... For the sake of Allah... Alhamdulillah i left haram... But... I will always make.. Dua to make our relationship.. Halal.. Please my brothers and sisters... Make dua for me... 🥺
I think when young and in love it makes us naive. Sometimes though Allah protects us from people such as not getting married to them. I like a Muslim girl but of different ethnicity and language. I feel this might of been the tipping point for her. 4 years not seeing her after college I found out she got married a few months ago to a family relative. Sadly however I found out she's no good, nothing good said about her. This made me realise she isn't the girl I thought of her as and that insha Allah I will meet someone so much better and the halal way ameen
True love is agrace from God and its signs that it happens/activated After marrige ,God dont put something in whoever heart that serves a sin or facilates it especially if a person is religiously committed he blocks true believer hearts toward everything even emotionally thats violates Allah laws that how Allah protects believers and push them to invest in only what he please so they dont go astray or devil find a chance to enter and poisons true believers life matters. ALLAH is the best who take care of believers everything so i lee my both lifes on only him and so greatfull to whatever he meant for me .
I loved my girl the first time I let eyes on her n it worked from there cuz I met her n saw her personality the first week then I knew. It only took like 3 weeks to let her know we are serious now it's been 12 years n 2 kids. Still together. Still hate each other n still in luv 😂
That’s because in the Quran Allah doesn’t restrict the opposite sex talking to each other. Allah mentions no sex before marriage, not avoid the opposite gender altogether. If both are appropriate and keeping conversations normal then you’re not doing anything haram. People go too far into this. You can’t marry someone without having knowledge on who they are, their goals, interests, desires etc
So here is my case .I loved my czn. We talked to each other on WhatsApp and fb. Her brother knew that he even saw our chat. AND miraculously we were engaged and both families allowed us to talk to each other .I never told her about how much i loved her before engagement because i thought that will not be ok or halal and after 1 year of engagement when both of us realize that we really like each other we told each other about our feelings . Alhamdulillah there is no haram chat between us ,we just talk about how we r gonna live after marriage what she like or what are the similarities between us or sometimes we share some of our genuine feelings about each other .Soooo is there any wrong with all that?
I am not sure I love a girl and she loves me back But we rarely talk even if we talk we talk about studies and exams We don't use any romantic words... Even my family knows her and i promised her to propose her for marriage I never touched her or something and i really want to marry her Is this halal or haram ?
It will be haram if u exchange numbers and uk all the romantic talks and the things that are written as forbidden. But u r allowed have a chat a discussion without touching kissing and all and u let ur parents know about it. Then its halal. Then if u really want to uk that girl or boy more then get engaged so that u can have even more discussion
I fell in love with a girl and I'm still young so my parents won't allow nikah I just don't think bad about her and I never touched her. I just remember her every time and I just care about her i wish by the will of allah we will get married can someone tell me what I need to do I can't just forget her I accidentally fell in love i'm afraid I might displease Allah S.W.T what do I need to do I'm really worried so much.
Same thing with me , but am a girl lmaoo I liked him for 6 year but I never even spoke to him I can’t stop myself from thinking about him and loving and can’t ask anyone for help cos I feel ashamed , I spoke to him once in class and lied to him about something and I feel hunted now and scared that his going to find out that it’s a lie especially because I lied about my identity I wanna tell the truth but can’t . Crusaderff : if you read this thank you but if u haven’t it doesn’t matter because I just wanted to get this off my chest and tell someone. I literally have no one since I feel like the whole world is against me now .
Assalamu alaikum sheikh ma shaa Allah you always make us proud may Allah bless you and your family too and yaah Allah grant as in this world and hereafter.jazakallahu khyraa
Well guys...I can't control myself...I feel crush on a lot of girls everyday at my university....trust me it's hard to control!!!!....I think the best for me is to marry any girl so that I can stay away from haram things...omg!!! My mind is at mess.... can't even control myself!! How can I take care of my future wife!!!
I hope allah help you, realise that shaytan is your biggest enemy and he will whisper to you and get you closer his borders. Try to avoid things that make you feel about these and be patient. Know that this world is just a test and we will all go to Allah
It's probably because of the number of TV shows movies and love songs u listen to, no joke, cut down on that and u won't be crushing as much. Like literally after every love song I'd listen to I'd start crying as if I'm hurt even at the times when I didn't have any crush. They affect ur mood a lot and amplify ur feelings. My crushes never liking me back anyways made it easy for me lmao, but also when I lost interest in music & tv shows lately, even when I have a crush it's not like it occupies all my thoughts, it just exists, but it doesn't bother me. So try this. Plus obviously any other sources that might be influencing they lust factor as well..
I'm only 15 and I've liked a this guy for 2 or 3 years . I tried to focus on my studies after 2 years when I turned 15 I always think of me and him. I pray to Allah swt a lot for me and him to be together. Is this halal?
Cut off all type of contacts with him, social media, meeting with him and being physical. Being Together means marriage in Islam, if you want to have that bf gf relationship, then it's completely haram.If you pray to Allah to marry that guy, than it's ok.
As Salamaleikum my brothers and sisters. I'm 19 years old and just about to enter 2nd year of university. I've been thinking about marriage for quite sometime and trying to make myself a better person and better husband inshallah for I'm not perfect but I can only try. Any other pieces of advice I can get from you guys?
@@tashasiddiqui6886 Jazakallah khair. All I feel personally that is missing in my life is a companion, friend etc. We never know if we are ready for something until it comes.
Assalamu alaykum, brother. Almost the same situation with me and I'll make dua for you, may allah make it easier for you to get married and live toyyib life with your loving wife. Try to get married as soon as possible and until that time try fasting as in sunnah.
@@themuallimnizomiddin3229 waleikum Salam brother. A year later I'm still trying. In the same breath im trying to make passive streams of income so I can full the most basic of her rights when I meet her. I'll be making dua for you as well brother. By the way where are you from? I know a sister from India who is only interested in south Asian Muslim brothers and she asked me to help her look.
If you ended the haram relationship and ask for forgiveness but the boy don't wanna leave you like hee still thinks, i will be his one day, I am part of his life and inshAllah I will be and I also prays for him I just ended the haram things like talking to him. And even when we were in the relationship we didn't meet or touched each other. Is this right or wrong?
Quick Question. I like this girl who is one year older then me.. i’ve liked her for quite some time now but i dont want to go to her house to ask for her hand as im scared she might refuse. What should i do..?
Ask anyway or you will regret it. You never know what could happen unless you try. Make istikhara first then ask secondly. If ALLAH has written it for you no one can take it away. If she rejects then ALLAH has someone better for you. Trust ALLAH & ask for guidance from ALLAH
Asaalamu alaikum guys please help me i was in a relationship from past one year with a guy and he had done so much to me and he loves me alot but i dont want to be in a relationship with him bcoz its not right and my parents dont ecept him and i dont want to break his heart bcoz he truely loves me and i m confused that if i step back i will be cheated to him and if i will step forward with him i will b wrong in my parents eye gguys please tell me what should i do please
do not start anything by ur own If u love him and u want him make lots and lots of dua to Allah but don't go in haram things be honest to your lord and ull see the results in the perfect manner
@@TabassumPerwez yes of course Allah will forgive you and a person who thinks that Allah will not do mercy he insults allah and no sin is great than shirk never ever lose hope on Allah . Any questions you can ask without hesitation to me .
Aslamualikom everyone, please help and guide me through my topic!!!! I love a girl, and I'm deeply in love with her for 2 years. I have not heard her voice and have not met her in person so far because she lives in another country and islamic shriaa. My question and problem is because my family does not want me to get married before having a proper life due to our cultural intentions. So my second problem is that she 19 years old now and while I ask her parents that she can be my spouse they wouldn't accept it due to her age and so on.. I only text the girl, as I said I have not done any phone calls or video calls. My question is AM I COMMITTING SIN FOR TEXTING HER AND FELL IN LOVE WITH HER???? Please help your brother may Allah SWT rewards you blessings in here and afterlife ❣️
Sometimes it’s not always the parents .. in my case it’s the guy.. who says he is not ‘stable’ or financially ready, or man enough to look after me. Please make dua allah protects my heart.
XOXO those men are called f boys these days..fear Allah and fall in love with Allah..When you love him then the right man will come in your life..Can't make a haram relationship halal
Dude leave him, men who says ''they are not stable'' or pull that card and do not want to marry are 100% fuck boys. I'm saying this as a man. Run. If he is serious he will try to get married directly
@@xoxo2072 I hope you didnt give him your virginity. 90 percent of young men are like that. If he does not want to meet your family or get married directly run. "Im not ready" is just an excuse
BISMILLAH AS SALAAM ALAIKUM PEACE BE UPON THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD, HIS WIFE KHADIJAH AND FAMILY; I JUST REMAIN STRONG FIR my INTENT and I I KEEP CALLING ON ALLAH TO HELP MAKE OUR FUTURE BETTER. YO TI AMORE I wanted to see my love today but ALLAH KNOWS BEST.
I'm in relationship with a guy till 4 years now I'm 21 and our family are also known about this relationship but I'm not happy in this relationship ,I think it was not halal relationship and he always put down me and nowday's he don't want to marry with me I just felt he just used me ,I want to forget him ,but I'm going to depressed I felt what I'm doing can I want to marry with someone because I'm in relationship before lots of q but no answer ,my heart didn't dua for him ,I don't like him but.. I'm understand after lots of sin I never loved him still I'm in a forceful relationship I just want to share my feelings, my English was poor please make dua for me
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"Good women are for good men"..(Surah An Nur)
الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ ۖ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ ۚ أُولَٰئِكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ ۖ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌ - 24:26
Martin Hemligt ..its the translation of the Arabic verse of Surah An Nur..whats wrong in there btw ?
its the verse no 26 & from the chapter no 24 of the Quran .
Sadiyah then bad woman for bad man? Wow...thanks I guess I will not marry then
Faqihah Ismi ..there is always a way to be good again.
Don’t fall in love, grow in love. Go slowly so it’s savored and enjoyed throughout your lifetime. This way you’ll never get bored and stagnant.
Good words put there together.. mashaallah.
O Allah don't hold me to account for what they say about me. Forgive me for that which they don't know about me. And make better than what they perceive about me.
@@kabadabo2098 Salamalaykom
Brother i came on this channel to ask a question i was hoping u could answer it. If u love a girl in this world but u dont get her in this world and then she gets married tgo some1 else can u have her in jannah.
@@ihavenoname5501 i don't think so brother/sister if both spouses were still married until their death they'll be reunited in the hereafter but Allah is all knowledgeable
@@ozzy_117 oh okay jazakallah brother
LOVING ANYTHING MORE THEN ALLAH IS A DISEASE
True
a sin*
Dont love anyone more then Allah ho give you life evon you are perents first Allah then you are you are perents my friends
I Agree, please pray for me so i can only love Allah, Rasulullah, and my parents. i need your pray guys.
Your mom??
I was in love with a muslim guy.. got engaged insha allah being to marry soon..
May your life be a great and beautiful. Aminn
was in love or still in love?
Sha Sha so lucky Masha Allah ,
May Allah bless your heart, Ameen
Not to spoil it for you but I have alarm bells ringing here. If you have converted or are going to convert then please reconsider marriage to your guy. If he got into a haram relationship and with a non-Muslim girl on top of that, he is likely not very practising. This will lead to problems in the future as you draw closer to Allah and lack the support of your husband in your deen. It happens to converts all the time so please be cautious. And if my description is accurate, yet you still get married, be married for a while before you decide to have children.
Again I really don't want to be a buzzkill, just trying to prevent you from possible misery in the future inshaAllah. I wish you all the best in this dunya and the akhirah. Ameen
How'd you know she's a convert?
Fall in love with Allah..No love for a man or a woman will ever last nor will it not hurt
Holly wood, bollywood and stuff glamourize love but true love is from Allah and the best of relationships is as the Prophet SAW was with his wives and the companions next to that it will be their love that will stand out on the Last Day may Allah make us follow and forgive us - Ameen
Tflower08 AMEEEEEEN
i guess you are also born from the same love between your parents which you are calling haram sister
I agree exactly with 'get the nikkah done' I don't understand why its culture to not allowing people to get married just because they won't live with together straight away?
Today society 😒
In my case hes not fiancnial ready...
For me and my fiancé we are getting the nikkah done this year in scha Allah.
And next Year is our wedding in scha Allah 🙏🏻
I plan on marrying my children young and supporting them financially until they finish their studies and become financially independent
@@ahmedharris7148 You will be a great father
If our connection with Allah is strong we will be protected.As the say "when you're focused you're hard to reach and when you're distracted you're available.We should stay focused in pleasing Allah
i want to get married but i feel as though there’s no one, all i know it’s not all but most brothers today are obsessed with the dunya and I want a husband whose caring, and follows his deen over this dunya. inshallah allah answer my dua and grant me a good spouse 🤲🏿✨
Can we talk ??
@A simple Guy Just simple I know that, I said I know it’s not all. This is just from my experience. I never tried to blame all Muslim men I just meant that a lot of brothers today are after something I’m not.
Capital A for Allah
MashAllah it's truth thou sister
@@316aamir why did i know that there will always be this "intelligent" brothers....SubhanAllah...
maa shaa Allah, at least u guys have someone who loves you...good for u, may Allah facilitate for us all and bless us with beautiful marriages that'll continue forever in Jannah.
Let us marry each other for the sake of Allah
Feisal o That ain't gonna happen anymore lol ...we're in the last age of fitna!
Miftah Ul Haque Salam alaykom. Don't lose hope. Make du'aa to Allah to give you a righteous spouse. Nothing is impossible for Allah. Whether we're living in righteous times or not, nothing is beyond Allah's power.
Ameen~
Please provide even the SLIGHTEST shred of actual proof that "Allah" exists. It sure isn't the Quran, because it is filled with errors and contradictions.
Thousdays salam please make dua with our akhlaq in sha Allah is we can gain reward
I totally agree, you always need this as a reminder in your head, that you want the hereafter more than the girl. But I believe it is harder in certain areas in the world. Personally I live in NYC and this is a huge challenge, because the women here aren't modest at all. Modesty doesn't exist anymore. So when you go out, it's literally a sexual war inside of you (at least that's how it is for me, maybe I'm just lustful). Sometimes I'll see a girl, and at the start I'd be like no way you can't talk to her. Then I get these ideas, like he mentioned, just get her number you don't need to do anything, just talk to her you don't even know what she's like, hey you never know she might be the one. Sometimes the arguments I come up are so good, but thank Allah so far I've always been able to fight it even when approached. For those in similar circumstances as me, you really shouldn't take this lightly. Yes it's hard, but as you keep doing it you will get stronger at it.
I just broke up with my boyfriend I know it’s haram that’s why I broke up with him....everything was getting too toxic for me I fell into major depression and my parents also do not like him one bit and tried making my life hell. I let him go because I need to fix myself up before I even jump into a marriage with him or anyone else because it isn’t fair for anyone to have this baggage in me internally and I have to fix them. I don’t know if i did the right thing guys....please..I just let him go because since I’m not gonna marry him at this point in my life because I feel like I’m not ready so I don’t want haram going on anymore because it’s not fair for any of us. I just pray Allah brings us back together when it’s meant to be. Maybe we weren’t meant to be at this point in our lives because im at a point in my life right now where marriage isn’t the answer for me rn and I don’t even have the support of my parents behind me if I even marry him.....
Did I make the right choice guys? I don’t know I just let everything upto allah and I’m going to get help with counselling
Kamil Ibri is it okay to feel like if I still feel like I love him after working on myself that it’s best we marry?
Kamil Ibri wsalam. I’m sorry. I think it’s best right now I focus on myself even though I still love him and everything I don’t think jumping into marriage is the right choice right now because it’s been getting really toxic between my family, him and me. I feel like I should be getting help by sorting myself out before getting married because it’s unhealthy
sanerz Salam sister. You made the absolute best decision for you and your akhira. I know that it’s hard especially when you love that person but remember that your choosing the love and fear for Allah before the love for his creation. If you would have died tomorrow that man that you love would not come with you in the grave, you would be there alone and with the sin of a haram relationship. You saved yourself and that man, sis wallahi you did him a huge favor. Focus on yourself, grow your imaan, rebuild your relationship with your parents (they are your ticket to jannah) And while doing these things pray, pray, pray that Allah blesses you with a marriage full of barakah, kheyr and love whether it’s with that person or someone else. Also remember that Allah knows best, you may think that this guy is the best and suits you perfectly but we quickly forget that we know nothing wallahi. Everything is already written, do your best in improving yourself always and leave the rest to the absolute best, Our Creator. I genuinely wish you nothing but the best sis, may Allah ease all of this for you and help your improve yourself and bless you with a steadfast imaan. Allahuma amin
I'm so proud of you for breaking up with your boyfriend. May Allah bless you sister. It may seem hard now, and trust me I know I went through something like this before, but once the love of Allah and His messenger fills your heart you will never want to turn back to your boyfriend. You made the right choice by breaking up with your boyfriend, try get married soon In Shaa Allah.
and my sister he wasn't right in the first place trust me, women are innocent but if you knew what men think generally speaking you wouldn't want to even be close with them. Your boyfriend most likely just wanted to sleep with you my sister, if he truly loved you he would've asked your father for your hand for marriage. This isn't a real man, this is what you call a boy who's just filing his desires by displeasing Allah. Marry someone who loves and fears Allah my sister, I advise you to watch video by dawahman just type heart break dawah man it should come up.
I like mufti menk lecture.. it actually relate us.. may Allah bless US
Loved Sir Mufti Menk.. On the Dot and right on point
its not sir menk who is geving the lecture
@@taibislimane7007 it is
@@har00nsaeed93 no it isn't
At 2:45 Sir Mufti Menk saying starts
Put Allah first u will neva b last.......
I belong to a society,where I can’t even talk about my marriage,I hv to get a good job nd a house to become eligible for proposals,...and I’m sick of it,I can’t control myself at this point of my life,I realllly wannna get married but I can’t even think about talking to my parents....pray for me Allah grant me sabr bcoz I don’t know how long I will keep it that way
Inschallah everting Will be ok
Inshallah brother
Please stay strong inshallah
Thnq all
Ya Allah please protect me from garam relationship.. Please keep me near by you. May Allah bless us with the power not to commit any kind of sin. Ashtaqfirullah for all our sins. I beg Allah mercy on us. Please forgive us ya Rabb. Allahumdullilha for everything we have right. I am in a much much better place. Where I can pray you every day. Subhanallah. Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Allahumdullilha Allahumdulliha Allahumdullilha
Masha Allah ❤
Please make dua for me. We never got to get married because of certain problems but only Allah knows how much I still love her after all these years...
Hahhahahah
Have u got over her yet ? 🙁
I will make dua for you in my prayers In Sha Allah, In Sha Allah you two will get married, and if you do, Alhamdullillah, and if you two don't get married, still Alhamdullillah, and In Sha Allah you will be given a great spouse that you deserve
Be careful of who you fall in love with.
@Precious Diamond Yes you can. This is why we have to lower our gaze and not intermingle with the opposite sex. Shaitan casts arrows and causes desires which leads to infatuation we think is love.
May Allah swt protect us from all evil and give us everything we want and protect us from all evil and keep us happy forever. Ameen.
Astaghfirullah wa atubu ilayh... May Allah SWT forgive our sins and help us stay away from haram until we meet him in the best of shapes inshAllah!
I always wanted nikkah but she delayed it for personal reasons and it ended up breaking my heart but may Allah forgive both our sins.
4:07 'Walaahi if that was the case the hadith would've said if someone came to you they have a lot of wealth get them married''.That was a power ful speech
It's about faith, are you both praying salah? Do you aspire to move forward spiritually? Physical attraction is important but are you compatible based on mutual understanding?
I am Christian ...
this’s video is so helpful
Good brother I suggest you read/listen to the Quran with translation it really is the best feeling, i cant describe it☺️
Quran Chapter 4 Verse 171
O People of the Scripture, do not commit excess in your religion or say about Allah except the truth. The Messiah, Jesus, the son of Mary, was but a messenger of Allah and His word which He directed to Mary and a soul [created at a command] from Him. So believe in Allah and His messengers. And do not say, "Three"; desist - it is better for you. Indeed, Allah is but one God. Exalted is He above having a son. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. And sufficient is Allah as Disposer of affairs.
Quran Chapter 5
116. And God will say, “O Jesus son of Mary, did you say to the people, `Take me and my mother as gods rather than God?'“ He will say, “Glory be to You! It is not for me to say what I have no right to. Had I said it, You would have known it. You know what is in my soul, and I do not know what is in Your soul. You are the Knower of the hidden.
117. I only told them what You commanded me: that you shall worship God, my Lord and your Lord. And I was a witness over them while I was among them; but when You took me to Yourself, You became the Watcher over them-You are Witness over everything.
Quran Chapter 3
45. The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
46. He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
47. She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
48. And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
49. A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
50. “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
51. “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
52. When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
53. “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
54. They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
55. God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
56. As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
57. And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
58. This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
59. The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
60. The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
61. And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
62. This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
63. But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
64. Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
Quran Chapter 19
In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
1. Kaf, Ha, Ya, Ayn, Saad.
2. A mention of the mercy of your Lord towards His servant Zechariah.
3. When he called on his Lord, a call in seclusion.
4. He said, “My Lord, my bones have become feeble, and my hair is aflame with gray, and never, Lord, have I been disappointed in my prayer to you.
5. “And I fear for my dependents after me, and my wife is barren. So grant me, from Yourself, an heir.
6. To inherit me, and inherit from the House of Jacob, and make him, my Lord, pleasing.”
7. “O Zechariah, We give you good news of a son, whose name is John, a name We have never given before.”
8. He said, “My Lord, how can I have a son, when my wife is barren, and I have become decrepit with old age?”
9. He said, “It will be so, your Lord says, ‘it is easy for me, and I created you before, when you were nothing.’”
10. He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you will not speak to the people for three nights straight.”
11. And he came out to his people, from the sanctuary, and signaled to them to praise morning and evening.
12. “O John, hold on to the Scripture firmly,” and We gave him wisdom in his youth.
13. And tenderness from Us, and innocence. He was devout.
14. And kind to his parents; and he was not a disobedient tyrant.
15. And peace be upon him the day he was born, and the day he dies, and the Day he is raised alive.
16. And mention in the Scripture Mary, when she withdrew from her people to an eastern location.
17. She screened herself away from them, and We sent to her Our spirit, and He appeared to her as an immaculate human.
18. She said, “I take refuge from you in the Most Merciful, should you be righteous.”
19. He said, “I am only the messenger of your Lord, to give you the gift of a pure son.”
20. She said, “How can I have a son, when no man has touched me, and I was never unchaste?”
21. He said, “Thus said your Lord, `It is easy for Me, and We will make him a sign for humanity, and a mercy from Us. It is a matter already decided.'“
22. So she carried him, and secluded herself with him in a remote place.
23. The labor-pains came upon her, by the trunk of a palm-tree. She said, “I wish I had died before this, and been completely forgotten.”
24. Whereupon he called her from beneath her: “Do not worry; your Lord has placed a stream beneath you.
25. And shake the trunk of the palm-tree towards you, and it will drop ripe dates by you.”
26. “So eat, and drink, and be consoled. And if you see any human, say, ‘I have vowed a fast to the Most Gracious, so I will not speak to any human today.'“
27. Then she came to her people, carrying him. They said, “O Mary, you have done something terrible.
28. O sister of Aaron, your father was not an evil man, and your mother was not a whore.”
29. So she pointed to him. They said, “How can we speak to an infant in the crib?”
30. He said, “I am the servant of God. He has given me the Scripture, and made me a prophet.
31. And has made me blessed wherever I may be; and has enjoined on me prayer and charity, so long as I live.
32. And kind to my mother, and He did not make me a disobedient rebel.
33. So Peace is upon me the day I was born, and the day I die, and the Day I get resurrected alive.”
34. That is Jesus son of Mary-the Word of truth about which they doubt.
35. It is not for God to have a child-glory be to Him. To have anything done, He says to it, “Be,” and it becomes.
36. “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
37. But the various factions differed among themselves. So woe to those who disbelieve from the scene of a tremendous Day.
38. Listen to them and watch for them the Day they come to Us. But the wrongdoers today are completely lost.
39. And warn them of the Day of Regret, when the matter will be concluded. Yet they are heedless, and they do not believe.”
let’s hope that Allah will guide us to the best love life that will make him and us happy 😊
Always gain the love of Allah SWT first , pls make dua for me everyone as I love this person so much but they really hate me and hurt me everyday and its not really a healthy relationship as they hurt me everyday and don't care inshallah none of you will expirence what i am right now May Allah SWT bless all of you inshallah ameen x
I was involved in a haram relationship for almost 2 years thinking it will be halal one day. I ended up asking him back in November if he has feelings for me. He told me he didn’t have feelings for me. I ended everything. I try to forget him everyday. I do tahajjud and it’s still so hard for me to forget him. I make dua for him still. But it’s so hard to let go. I try every single day. I’m tired of this.
He is not worth for your love ..... That was never a true love .... Because true love can't be replaced
@@Art3mis923 thank you. I’m still trying.
Thank you samieur
@A simple Guy Just simple idk what u tryna say here tbh. If u can’t say something nice then just kind your own business
@A simple Guy Just simple u need to stfu and get a life bye
You are a medicine for a broken peeps 🥺❤️
I have agreed with you all Muftis 💯
Please make dua for me that Allah SWT grant the person I had in mind Hidayah. Trying dakwah on him. Initially he was interested but maybe its not the time yet. Only Allah SWT knows. Now I have realised Allah SWT may want to Guide him through me making prayers for him. Do not worry. I have not talk to him or have any relationship with him. Please dear sisters and brothers, pray for my Dakwah to be successful this Ramadhan 2020 and may He Grants Hidayah to more non-Muslims and Guides more and more to Islam. May Allah SWT forgives our sins and accepts our ibadats and answer our duas this beautiful Ramadan. Alhamdulillah for making us all a Muslim.
AS SALAAM ALAIKUM, I LOVE MY INTENT Anthony Washington and I am giving our relationship to ALLAH S.W.T. I keep praying for us, our marriage a Nikkah Inshallah. I don't play with what I am holding on to Inshallah the Brother feels the same way. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM .I keep calling in faith STRONGLY ON ALLAH. If any sisters and brothers are in support of Us as I sister Khadijah would make Dua for your good ties and a blessed marriage as well, I HUMBLY THANK YOU and may ALLAH be with us all.
AS SALAAM ALAIKUM
Assalamu Alaikum.
Love Allah
JazakAllah khayr sooo much for another amazing reminder, may Allah bless you loads, Ameen!
I STAND STRONG WITH WISDOM
Awesome 👍👍👍
Assalamu alaykum
I am a girl from India who converted to Islam and I am very happy. I love a boy who is muslim and i really want to marry him but in india they still feel i am a hindu as i dont have any legal document of islam and here people feel hindu and muslim cant be together but i really want to marry him and spend rest of my life with him ! He told his parents and they ask about us to some molanas but the molanas said no as the family of the guy can get problems due to the marriage in future so they are not allowing the son for marriage and he says His parents are first for him but I really love him and make dua everyday!
My sister, Look into islam, try to understand islam, if you guys marry with different beliefs - this can cause problems further into the marriage example: raising the children or going through life experiences, you guys want to have similar understanding so that when problems arise you guys get help each other through tough time and good times. Pray for guidance to make it easy for you
Asalaam aliakum thank you everyone. Keep the LOVE alive. We need it in the World even more then i realized we did. Thanks for all thsh you do and have a blessed day. I loves you all brothers and sisters. Almighty Allah protect, bless, forgive, and continue keeping our love within our Family bonded & our relationships with spouses and even friends also....may He protect and bless them and us all and those on which we love. Bismillah. Mashs Allah. Amin. Amen.
Beautifully narrated❤
I love this boy so much the reason why we got each other was by both of us praying for each other to Allah and finally we ended up together alhamduillah he’s so religious and he made me a better Muslim we want to get engage to make our relationship become halal (it’s long distance btw nothing haram is done )but we are only 18 same age his dad is the problem he doesn’t want me :// I pray every night for us to be together and marry fast but please pray for me I cry every night I really want him I hope his dad accepts us and let us be engaged in sha Allah pray for me ....
Do nikah asap! Otherwise, if you have any type of contact with him before marriage, than it's haram.
Haha, kids i swear
Masha Allah.. Well said.. I have got my answers for my questions.. It's really helpful.. Zazakallah khayrun... Please share more videos for us.. To make a good society.. Barakkalah feekum
I loved him for the sake of Allah and when it’s time to get our ......
😭😭😭😭
its ok may Allah replace you with someone better than him....
La Ilaha Ila ALLAH Mohamed Rassoul ALLAH ❤️
MashaAllah God bless everyone
I'm in a relationship and we cannot get married for few years.. and we can't stop this forever.. but i wish to keep this halaal until our nikah... we avoid maximum meetings.. we jst chat for a little while and meets up once in a long time.. and we avoid any things like touching or other anything... is it enough for keeping our relationship halal until we get nikah??
Very bold question...
Super answer..👌
Whoever increases his daughter's mahr to beyond and above the prophet's daughter's is a jahil
Feisal o Prophet's daughter is the most best from all world girls .no doubt right
LIFE LOVING CREWS
Not just a girl but a Pious one
Feisal o what was the prophet’s (PBUH) daughter’s mahr?
@@hafsahussein365
There are a 2 opinions regarding the amount of Mahr-e-Faatimi. Some say that it is 400 mithqaal of silver which will be equivalent to 1.7496 kg and some say that it was 480 Dirhams (silver coins) which will be equivalent to 1.469 kg.
And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
Asalam Alaikum.....i was in love with a guy but i never told him he loved me nd proposed me i said first send your parents thn ill be yours....but i never said i love you to him but our hearts were pyre v really wanted to hav nikkah nd wanted to marry but his parents said not now after 2 years nd still he was convincing his parents till last day of his life nd he died a week ago :( can we reunite in Jannah as Mehrams ?
How did you endure that grief?
Stay strong Anna💙💯
No one will be single in jannah, you will have whatever you wish!.
Right 100%
The ending was good advice!
Barek allaho fik very good topic wallah
Sheikh saed Raage
May Allah bless you ❤️💯
Assalamu alaikum... I was in a haram relationship... I talked to my parents... They are not ok... But... His parents are ok for the marriage... My family's problem is its too far from my place... It takes 9 hrs to travel... So that they are not allowing to get marry with him...
For the sake of Allah... Alhamdulillah i left haram...
But... I will always make.. Dua to make our relationship.. Halal..
Please my brothers and sisters... Make dua for me...
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Woe to me! Why hadn't been this recommended? When I was in that age when I did that mistake! Ya Allah help me! 😔😔😔😔. No use crying over spilt milk!
Me too :( married at 20 but he converted for the wrong reasons. If only I could go back and put Allah swt first 😔
Take heart dear
I think when young and in love it makes us naive. Sometimes though Allah protects us from people such as not getting married to them. I like a Muslim girl but of different ethnicity and language. I feel this might of been the tipping point for her. 4 years not seeing her after college I found out she got married a few months ago to a family relative. Sadly however I found out she's no good, nothing good said about her.
This made me realise she isn't the girl I thought of her as and that insha Allah I will meet someone so much better and the halal way ameen
u can cry and repent. it'll be of use
Masha Allah I respect sheikh mufti menk masha Allah let this help me on my relationship insha Allah 🤲🤲🤲
True love is agrace from God and its signs that it happens/activated After marrige ,God dont put something in whoever heart that serves a sin or facilates it especially if a person is religiously committed he blocks true believer hearts toward everything even emotionally thats violates Allah laws that how Allah protects believers and push them to invest in only what he please so they dont go astray or devil find a chance to enter and poisons true believers life matters. ALLAH is the best who take care of believers everything so i lee my both lifes on only him and so greatfull to whatever he meant for me .
Great speeches! Thanks a lot!
I loved my girl the first time I let eyes on her n it worked from there cuz I met her n saw her personality the first week then I knew. It only took like 3 weeks to let her know we are serious now it's been 12 years n 2 kids. Still together. Still hate each other n still in luv 😂
I have a question. If two people arent allowed to talk before the marriage then how do we get to know if he or she is compatible or not
That’s because in the Quran Allah doesn’t restrict the opposite sex talking to each other. Allah mentions no sex before marriage, not avoid the opposite gender altogether. If both are appropriate and keeping conversations normal then you’re not doing anything haram.
People go too far into this. You can’t marry someone without having knowledge on who they are, their goals, interests, desires etc
More so make sure your partner is responsible and has deen but like the shuyook said mashallah being real and striking a balance is key 🔑
Loveing is allowed in Islam but until u get married don't get physical....
Assalamualaikum
thankyou so muchh. i really wanted this
So here is my case .I loved my czn. We talked to each other on WhatsApp and fb. Her brother knew that he even saw our chat. AND miraculously we were engaged and both families allowed us to talk to each other .I never told her about how much i loved her before engagement because i thought that will not be ok or halal and after 1 year of engagement when both of us realize that we really like each other we told each other about our feelings . Alhamdulillah there is no haram chat between us ,we just talk about how we r gonna live after marriage what she like or what are the similarities between us or sometimes we share some of our genuine feelings about each other .Soooo is there any wrong with all that?
No problem .
I am not sure
I love a girl and she loves me back
But we rarely talk even if we talk we talk about studies and exams
We don't use any romantic words...
Even my family knows her and i promised her to propose her for marriage
I never touched her or something and i really want to marry her
Is this halal or haram ?
It will be haram if u exchange numbers and uk all the romantic talks and the things that are written as forbidden. But u r allowed have a chat a discussion without touching kissing and all and u let ur parents know about it. Then its halal. Then if u really want to uk that girl or boy more then get engaged so that u can have even more discussion
I fell in love with a girl and I'm still young so my parents won't allow nikah I just don't think bad about her and I never touched her. I just remember her every time and I just care about her i wish by the will of allah we will get married can someone tell me what I need to do I can't just forget her I accidentally fell in love i'm afraid I might displease Allah S.W.T what do I need to do I'm really worried so much.
Same thing with me , but am a girl lmaoo I liked him for 6 year but I never even spoke to him I can’t stop myself from thinking about him and loving and can’t ask anyone for help cos I feel ashamed , I spoke to him once in class and lied to him about something and I feel hunted now and scared that his going to find out that it’s a lie especially because I lied about my identity I wanna tell the truth but can’t . Crusaderff : if you read this thank you but if u haven’t it doesn’t matter because I just wanted to get this off my chest and tell someone. I literally have no one since I feel like the whole world is against me now .
May Almighty Allah protect us
Assalamu alaikum sheikh ma shaa Allah you always make us proud may Allah bless you and your family too and yaah Allah grant as in this world and hereafter.jazakallahu khyraa
MashaAllah
SubhanAllah
Alhamdulillah
Well guys...I can't control myself...I feel crush on a lot of girls everyday at my university....trust me it's hard to control!!!!....I think the best for me is to marry any girl so that I can stay away from haram things...omg!!! My mind is at mess.... can't even control myself!! How can I take care of my future wife!!!
I hope allah help you, realise that shaytan is your biggest enemy and he will whisper to you and get you closer his borders. Try to avoid things that make you feel about these and be patient. Know that this world is just a test and we will all go to Allah
It's probably because of the number of TV shows movies and love songs u listen to, no joke, cut down on that and u won't be crushing as much. Like literally after every love song I'd listen to I'd start crying as if I'm hurt even at the times when I didn't have any crush. They affect ur mood a lot and amplify ur feelings. My crushes never liking me back anyways made it easy for me lmao, but also when I lost interest in music & tv shows lately, even when I have a crush it's not like it occupies all my thoughts, it just exists, but it doesn't bother me. So try this. Plus obviously any other sources that might be influencing they lust factor as well..
Good keep it up
I’m hindu and I fell in love with Muslim 😅 so I try to take break with him
@A simple Guy Just simple he starts ignoring 🙂🙂
Subhanallah ❤️
A very good point at 02:50
SUBHANALLAH!!!!
I trust alot...
Is it ok in Islam to marry someone who’s older than you. I’m a male who the person would be a woman
I'm only 15 and I've liked a this guy for 2 or 3 years . I tried to focus on my studies after 2 years when I turned 15 I always think of me and him. I pray to Allah swt a lot for me and him to be together. Is this halal?
Cut off all type of contacts with him, social media, meeting with him and being physical. Being Together means marriage in Islam, if you want to have that bf gf relationship, then it's completely haram.If you pray to Allah to marry that guy, than it's ok.
As Salamaleikum my brothers and sisters. I'm 19 years old and just about to enter 2nd year of university. I've been thinking about marriage for quite sometime and trying to make myself a better person and better husband inshallah for I'm not perfect but I can only try. Any other pieces of advice I can get from you guys?
This is amazing ! Only few boys think of marriage 🙂 i appreciate this comment
@@tashasiddiqui6886 Jazakallah khair. All I feel personally that is missing in my life is a companion, friend etc. We never know if we are ready for something until it comes.
Assalamu alaykum, brother. Almost the same situation with me and I'll make dua for you, may allah make it easier for you to get married and live toyyib life with your loving wife. Try to get married as soon as possible and until that time try fasting as in sunnah.
@@themuallimnizomiddin3229 waleikum Salam brother. A year later I'm still trying. In the same breath im trying to make passive streams of income so I can full the most basic of her rights when I meet her. I'll be making dua for you as well brother. By the way where are you from? I know a sister from India who is only interested in south Asian Muslim brothers and she asked me to help her look.
Get a gf first bro
If you ended the haram relationship and ask for forgiveness but the boy don't wanna leave you like hee still thinks, i will be his one day, I am part of his life and inshAllah I will be and I also prays for him I just ended the haram things like talking to him. And even when we were in the relationship we didn't meet or touched each other. Is this right or wrong?
Should we have desire for Jannah greater than the person we love?
I STAND ALONE
Prophet Muhammad 1st marriage was love marriage
Mashallah so sweet video but it is hard to do nowadays because nowadays girls and boys just want a time pass 😔
Like your profile picture 💖
Get the nikah done!
Quick Question. I like this girl who is one year older then me.. i’ve liked her for quite some time now but i dont want to go to her house to ask for her hand as im scared she might refuse. What should i do..?
Ask anyway or you will regret it. You never know what could happen unless you try. Make istikhara first then ask secondly. If ALLAH has written it for you no one can take it away. If she rejects then ALLAH has someone better for you. Trust ALLAH & ask for guidance from ALLAH
What if you want to marry a girl but she is not sure whether to marry or doesn’t want to marry?
Thank you so much what is the last speakers name?
What if both parties are genuine and don't want zina in between the relationship and want to get married
Asaalamu alaikum guys please help me i was in a relationship from past one year with a guy and he had done so much to me and he loves me alot but i dont want to be in a relationship with him bcoz its not right and my parents dont ecept him and i dont want to break his heart bcoz he truely loves me and i m confused that if i step back i will be cheated to him and if i will step forward with him i will b wrong in my parents eye gguys please tell me what should i do please
do not start anything by ur own If u love him and u want him make lots and lots of dua to Allah but don't go in haram things be honest to your lord and ull see the results in the perfect manner
@@TabassumPerwez
Before Nikah, everything is haram. Do Nikah asap!
@@TabassumPerwez yes Allah will forgive you becoz Allah like to make mercy on Muslims.
@@TabassumPerwez yes of course Allah will forgive you and a person who thinks that Allah will not do mercy he insults allah and no sin is great than shirk never ever lose hope on Allah . Any questions you can ask without hesitation to me .
Jumaa karim ishallah shukran
Guys I wanna just say its ma sha Allah not Mash'allah or Mashallah because it changes the meaning
And also I forgot to say that u have to say it and write it like this. Its 3 separate words
Aslamualikom everyone, please help and guide me through my topic!!!!
I love a girl, and I'm deeply in love with her for 2 years. I have not heard her voice and have not met her in person so far because she lives in another country and islamic shriaa. My question and problem is because my family does not want me to get married before having a proper life due to our cultural intentions. So my second problem is that she 19 years old now and while I ask her parents that she can be my spouse they wouldn't accept it due to her age and so on..
I only text the girl, as I said I have not done any phone calls or video calls. My question is AM I COMMITTING SIN FOR TEXTING HER AND FELL IN LOVE WITH HER????
Please help your brother may Allah SWT rewards you blessings in here and afterlife ❣️
Masha Allah I love my Allah
Mashallah subhanallah
Sometimes it’s not always the parents .. in my case it’s the guy.. who says he is not ‘stable’ or financially ready, or man enough to look after me. Please make dua allah protects my heart.
XOXO those men are called f boys these days..fear Allah and fall in love with Allah..When you love him then the right man will come in your life..Can't make a haram relationship halal
Dude leave him, men who says ''they are not stable'' or pull that card and do not want to marry are 100% fuck boys. I'm saying this as a man. Run. If he is serious he will try to get married directly
Zoo Bear you are right, seeing this a year later. We broke up, he wasn’t ready for marriage.
milk is cheap protein he was F boy.. a year later seeing this post, we broke up as he wasn’t ready for marriage, just all lies.
@@xoxo2072 I hope you didnt give him your virginity. 90 percent of young men are like that. If he does not want to meet your family or get married directly run. "Im not ready" is just an excuse
I am not a muslim but my boyfriend is a muslim. We fight sometimes because we dont understand each other. I love him so much please help me
elLeu what do you fight about
I fight for him and for our love
Can i ask how old are you both
am 22,he is 28 ..
i also have one problem, he has many girlfriends
@@elleu9670 he has many girlfriend🤔🤔
I HAVE NOBODY TO WATCH OVER
BISMILLAH AS SALAAM ALAIKUM PEACE BE UPON THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD, HIS WIFE KHADIJAH AND FAMILY; I JUST REMAIN STRONG FIR my INTENT and I I KEEP CALLING ON ALLAH TO HELP MAKE
OUR FUTURE BETTER. YO TI AMORE I wanted to see my love today but ALLAH KNOWS BEST.
I'm in relationship with a guy till 4 years now I'm 21 and our family are also known about this relationship but I'm not happy in this relationship ,I think it was not halal relationship and he always put down me and nowday's he don't want to marry with me I just felt he just used me ,I want to forget him ,but I'm going to depressed I felt what I'm doing can I want to marry with someone because I'm in relationship before lots of q but no answer ,my heart didn't dua for him ,I don't like him but.. I'm understand after lots of sin I never loved him still I'm in a forceful relationship I just want to share my feelings, my English was poor please make dua for me
Did you hear before?
Nikah creates love and zina creates hate
@@shakerkazi7917 absolutely
May Allah protect us from every sin
it's been 10 months. How are things now? What was your decision? Are you happy?
I wish every muslim girl and boy could listen this.