20 Things You Must Do Before Marriage

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    Have you ever said to yourself something similar to, ”It’s okay, when I am married, I will stop getting angry so easily” or “I’ll never hurt my spouse or children with my words like I did today with my parents or siblings - I will change and I’ll be better.” The same goes for a society thinking that a person will change once they get married so a spouse should be sought for them to finally change their life-long bad habits. Most of us believe in the idea of changing for the spouse and, possibly changing them too. This delusional notion suggests that change comes after marriage and two different people suddenly become this harmonious couple who have been completely separated from all of their past habits, mannerisms, and behaviours to fulfil their marital duties perfectly.
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Комментарии • 49

  • @swetharaju5135
    @swetharaju5135 5 месяцев назад +58

    I am newly convert from Hindusim . I want to get married this year with no shirk in ny marriage . Please make dua for me .

    • @RaptorTechnician
      @RaptorTechnician 4 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤ Here I am we can mingle

    • @Che.rr.m-55
      @Che.rr.m-55 4 месяца назад

      No, if you are a new revert you have to research about your rights and the rights of your spouse and master all the basics of islam, like 5 daily prayers, fasting and so on

    • @hawwa21
      @hawwa21 3 месяца назад

      May Allah bless you with a beautiful marriage 💞

    • @saifalinakhwa8927
      @saifalinakhwa8927 2 месяца назад

      In sha Allah

    • @34zain
      @34zain Месяц назад

      إن شاء الله.
      one day , if allah wills it

  • @kareemali2688
    @kareemali2688 2 месяца назад +10

    Timestamps for all 20 points.
    00:11 i. Avert your eyes from what will bring you sin.
    01:25 ii. Do what is right for yourself.
    02:30 1. Trust fate.
    03:28 2. Dont think that some things are not as important as others.
    03:49 3. Learn from your parents life.
    05:00 4. Practice/learn Islam every day.
    05:20 5. Knowledge. Learn into subjects beyond the obvious related to Islam and also related to Islam. Do not be binary as the world is filled with changes. So learn.
    06:30 6. Don't let other people get into your head. Don't like them influence your thoughts. Retain your critique.
    06:58 7. Know how to respond to failure.
    08:00 8. Know that fear is an illusion.
    09:15 9. Just do it.
    09:22 10. You can't do it alone.
    09:57 11. Excellence speaks for itself.
    10:49 12. Expect your duaa to be answered.
    11:40 13. When it is time to change, then change. Don't repeat the same actions that lead to the same thing.
    12:00 14. The best things in life are usually the simplest.
    12:30 15. Demand the best by others by giving it.
    13:00 16. Control your emotions.
    13:28 17. Never lose control of your character.
    13:48 18/19./20. Forget the past. Focus on the present. And don't try to control the future.

  • @videozippydirector8764
    @videozippydirector8764 6 месяцев назад +44

    Please pray for me I really want to marry a pious woman soon inshallah ❤

  • @Read-Quran-2-learn
    @Read-Quran-2-learn 5 месяцев назад +14

    Please marry well brothers and sisters. There are alotttt of not nice people out there. I'm happily married because the girls family was beautiful. The girls character will rarely be better than her family. Please pray for each other and protect yourself from those odd families

    • @Che.rr.m-55
      @Che.rr.m-55 4 месяца назад +1

      Exactly and people underestimate the fact that toxic/bad people ALWAYS show some kind of red flag no matter how good they are at faking it (I almost got engaged to a pathological liar😰)

    • @Read-Quran-2-learn
      @Read-Quran-2-learn 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Che.rr.m-55 im grateful you were protected and hope you are blessed with a good marriage where both treat each other well

    • @Che.rr.m-55
      @Che.rr.m-55 4 месяца назад

      @@Read-Quran-2-learn ameen🤲, May bless you with the highest level of jannah

  • @Abdullah_3356
    @Abdullah_3356 6 месяцев назад +6

    Don’t skip it’s Ramadan earn some good deeds
    Subhanallah x15
    Alhamdulillah x15
    Allahu Akbar x15
    La ilaha illallah x15
    Astaghfirullah x15
    SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi subhanAllahil azeem x15
    La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah x15
    Allahumma sali ala Muhammadin wa ala ali muhammadin x12
    Astaghfirullah al-azim wa atubi ilayh x10
    Ya Rahman, Ya Rahim x16
    Allahumma ini zalamtu nafsi zulman kathiran, wa la yaghfiru al- dhunuba illa anta, faghfirli maghfiratan min ‘Indika warhamni, inaka anta al-Ghafur al-rahim x1
    La illaha ila anta, subhananaka ini kuntu min al-dhalimin x10
    May Allah grant you Jannat al Firdous ameen

  • @siouxtheroman7545
    @siouxtheroman7545 6 месяцев назад +4

    Bismillah- Al Salam Allaikum
    I respect the message this Brother is relaying.
    Though there may have been more exposure of body parts (due to clothing being less proper). But I disagree that it was harder - there are many Hadith that state fitnah will increase towards the end time. Even the Prophet (PBUH) said women will be dressed and naked at the same time.
    Additionally- The mentality towards sexuality has completely evolved.
    In general we do go through the same tests; but I don't think it's fair to say there was more fitnah during that time.
    Allahu 3lam
    Thank for this message regarding marriage

  • @bakebbaceesay4119
    @bakebbaceesay4119 6 месяцев назад +7

    Alhamdulillah! I enjoyed this video! May ALLAH bless the speaker and the rest of the believers! 🤲

  • @rukkysadiq6496
    @rukkysadiq6496 4 месяца назад +1

    May Allah bless us with d best of spouses and make it a blessing for us and not a trial ..Aameen

  • @alexandremonteiro1250
    @alexandremonteiro1250 6 месяцев назад +2

    As Salam can somebody translate what the sheikh (recitator) is saying in the begging "Ay Alf Allah" correct me if wrote it wrong pls

    • @SehriHS
      @SehriHS 6 месяцев назад +3

      He is saying "Haya al falah", which means "come to succes". It is part of the adhan (islamic call to prayer)

    • @alexandremonteiro1250
      @alexandremonteiro1250 6 месяцев назад +2

      Alhamdulilah thank you brother no wonder why i felt good listening to it May Allah bless you@@SehriHS

  • @VERSES_OF_ALQURAN
    @VERSES_OF_ALQURAN 6 месяцев назад +4

    First ❤

  • @themysteriousdunno1
    @themysteriousdunno1 6 месяцев назад +2

    ya allah bless our marriages and keep our relationships with our spouses forever

  • @Mekenza79
    @Mekenza79 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ameen i hope for evrey muslim get what allah give ❤🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽

  • @farhatkhan23
    @farhatkhan23 6 месяцев назад +3

    Third😂

  • @SultanuDeen
    @SultanuDeen 6 месяцев назад +3

    Second 🤯

  • @tarik1042
    @tarik1042 Месяц назад

    20 Things ...sahabas Back in the days Just took one and taht wa sit WE make a hughe Deal Out of It...and that's the Problem

  • @bintmuhammad3171
    @bintmuhammad3171 6 месяцев назад +4

    Fourth😅

    • @MON98
      @MON98 6 месяцев назад

      Brudda u messed up the count😂😂😂

    • @bintmuhammad3171
      @bintmuhammad3171 6 месяцев назад

      @@MON98 uh oh😂

  • @adrianalan3422
    @adrianalan3422 6 месяцев назад +2

    Fifth ❤

  • @saifalinakhwa8927
    @saifalinakhwa8927 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this video, needed this a lot

  • @gidadotahirsaddik2046
    @gidadotahirsaddik2046 5 месяцев назад

    May Allah make it easy for us all.

  • @drogramadanjohnson1061
    @drogramadanjohnson1061 6 месяцев назад

    Great video Masha'Allah

  • @soldieroffortunate1296
    @soldieroffortunate1296 5 месяцев назад

    Ameen