6 Red Flags Before Marriage
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Marriage is one of the most significant commitments a person may make in their lifetime. This union has the most significant impact on a person’s life. They shape people to an unfathomable degree. It’s a contract between two individuals who want to spend the rest of their lives together. They enhance our quality of life and transform our manner of existence. When you marry someone, you embrace them as human beings, as well as all of their beliefs, and you attempt to incorporate them into your own life. Marriage used to be defined as joining two individuals as lifemates and recognizing their families as your own. But let us look at some red flags.
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Thank you so much for this video, the last flag just hit the spot, because apparently I was refused by a certain someone because of the same issue of interaction with many female colleagues in my medical speciality. Thanks to Allah SWT for helping me to dodge that bullet.
I wish I had seen this video before both my marriages. I wouldn't have wasted so much time being married to the wrong men. I will save this video for my kids, ISA.
I'm sorry but you should look inward, maybe you're the problem. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but 2 failed marriages?
@@imranxalamin😂😂😂 you’re silly, you do realize the divorce rate is over 50% and second marriages are even higher than that. You do realize that you get married to most likely divorce these days. The odds are working against you. Maybe it’s better not to have an opinion. Saying I don’t mean to be mean, means you’re going to be mean and it’s better just to keep quiet.
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May Allah bless us with beneficial spouse n kids d coolness of our eyes..Aameen
Don’t skip it’s Ramadan earn some good deeds
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That's really the biggest pillar I find for a great marriage. If the girls/guys family is messed up. Turn around and get out. Rarely will the character be better than the family. If your family is messed up and some how you are good Muslim. Say Alhamdolillah, not every one gets to be in your position. Don't go marrying into a messed up family as well
Well said
6 red flags to marriage
1- deen and akhkaq
2- how they treat their parents
3-potentially they will change
4- committing haram prior to marriage
5- being a people pleaser
6- what kind of company they will keep.
I m into dilemma now to choose one 😢Allah may bless me with the best marriage that more than I ve prayed more Amen 🤲
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BIG RED FLAG 🚩... Dressing up in Hijab, Kurta and making 5 times namaaz, while undermining the marriage and being disobedient.
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Laylatul Qadr is during one of the last 10 nights (odd nights) of Ramadan!!! (🔶30th March - 8th April 🔶).
Allah swt says: "The grand night (Laylatul Qadr) is better than a thousand months" (Quran 97:3)
1000 months = 83.4 years.
Soo...If you spend this night doing good deeds such as 🔹Zikr 🔹Praying Nafl 🔹 Qur'an etc...then (Insh’Allah) that would be GREATER than doing these good deeds for 1000 months.
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I've decided not to marry & have kids in life. I'm happy being single and i'm able to control my urges
Marriage completes half your deen but you do you man🤷🏽♀️
@@Bbandz.05 dayum giga chad reply
If you do not have a valid reason this would be impermissible my brother.
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) asking how the Prophet (ﷺ) worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet (ﷺ) as his past and future sins have been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers).
Sahih al-Bukhari 5063
First of all, what does I can control my urges mean? You have urges, but you can hold them back for now? How can you assure that this will be so in the future and that Shaytan will push you to commit Zina? You can not know about it and maybe he was the one anchoring this thought in your mind, so you can fall in major sin later on. So marriage would be a protective shield against that. What are valid reasons to avoid marriage? You can not fulfill the rights of a woman, you would be unjust towards her, you are incabale of having children (then it would be still beneficial to marry someone who knows about this and accept it, for the protection from Fitan)
Marrying is half of the deen:
Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever Allah provides with a righteous wife, Allah has assisted him in half of his religion. Let him fear Allah regarding the second half.”
Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ 992
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
On top it contains many Sunan which could bring you closer to your Lord and goodness. I could quote you know many statements of scholars regarding rulings of getting married etc. and exceptions, when marriage is not necessary/compulsory any longer, bu your comment sounds like you had no proper reason behind it.
Narrated Sa`id bin Jubair:
Ibn `Abbas asked me, "Are you married?" I replied, "No." He said, "Marry, for the best person of this (Muslim) nation (i.e., Muhammad) of all other Muslims, had the largest number of wives."
Sahih al-Bukhari 5069
and God knows best.
We hope inshaAllah your opinion will change, to Align with sunnah.
Bro don't go far and transgress against yourself Allah says in Qur'aan don't become Christians Allah swt told Muslims to get married and enjoy good and forbid evil