I married a muslim, he cooks and cleans the House, I also work part-time, we share all work and he also took care of the children when I Had a good paid full time job. After ten yrs of marriage I read the Quran and reverted immediately. He is the best husband, by the way I am Swiss.
MashaAllah. Prophet Muhammad Peace be Upon Him also helped his wife in the kitchen and doing chores but people say Islam is unfair to women... hamduliLah
@@BlazySM-qp4ynit’s culture that has dominated and changed Muslims over generations as they move away from the foundations of the religion unfortunately. If all our people invested in their personal growth by reading Quran and learnt the Sunnah they would discover a whole way of life we are to emulate from our beloved Prophet (saw). InshaAllah may we all be guided to seeking knowledge and a better understanding of our beautiful faith. Ameen 🤲🏼
I wanna be a government officer, and I was scared that it might go against my religion, so I prayed to Allah yesterday night and today this is in my feed mashallah :)
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith " The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism" Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah, She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband, Why would she? He earns, She earns His money for all family members Her money is only for her Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots, And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day, The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism. Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin. And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
@@mahbubahmed7 money and feminism And disobedience Obviously a females going out, earning money from 9am to 5pm, has no point listening to her husband, why would she? He earns, she also earns, Raising kids? After Coming home? Common go hell with those kids, childs do not need mothers, females to growup, its a Madeup story. Preparing foods? Why would she? After coming home from work for so many works? Why would she cook? The Husband Earns, She Also Earns So all equal, both same to same The moment you disobey Allah, his Shariah, Objective Morality, moral guidelines for humankinds, i, e ; Quran and Sunnah, You screwed your life, a random husbands life and his kids life The moment you reject ISLAM, you are no one to be respected. So please be our guest by going out and Earn money @Females The accountability of yours is with Allah :)
I am a phd student and I love doing research. I feel very sad when Islamic scholars say that women should stay at home, maintain the household and raise children. When i think about that life it feels so poisonously boring. With the development of the technology you have washing machine, you have dishwasher, you have vacuum cleaner, and refrigerator. So what is the "work" womoen supposed to do all day? Raise kids? How many? One day the children becomes old enough to go to school. What do you do with the free time? I have seen so many in *strictly* islamic families women are lazy and backbiters, and addicted to tv and cellphones. They don't do anything at home other than making issues in the families. Such a wastage of human resources. Thank you for talking about the issue
I agree, many house wives are lazy, backbiters and addicted to tv and smartphones. The only reason they turned out to be like that. Is a lack of knowledge on both deen and dunya, especially deen. But housewives are also like the backbone of a society. Raising a strong ummah depends on strong mothers. Raising kids the right way in this world of fitnah isn't a joke, raising kids is a 24hr job itself. I dunno how come, a paid job is a job but raising with proper care and moral values isn't? You don wanna raise kids, being a housewife sickens you, yeah that's you. But there are women who may not want to be career women instead they want to be housewives which is a great choice of career. Even if they have a career, then they want to quit after marriage of having kids, that's an excellent choice and great selflessness. Housewives are the nurturers of future nations, they are the main future builders of nations. The more knowledgeable (both in dunya and deen) mothers we will have the stronger the ummah will be. Raising kids with Islamic teaching by being a stay at home mother is also like contributing to society and deen. And that's the biggest responsibility we have as women. Mother's get 50% more importance than fathers in Islam cause their role is that big and more important in a child's life. Yeah we women should gain knowledge and try to have a career for a period of time. But building a strong ummah raising both our daughters and sons with Islamic values and teaching is our biggest responsibility. Also leaving pious kids is like sadkah that you will keep being rewarded even after death.
A muslimah can teach children she can become dr Its is not forbidden but running in between men without veil to stop getting bored at home is not allowed
@@humayaislam9671 sorry but you didn't understand my pov. What do the women do in their free time if the kids start going to school and having their own lives? And with the development of technology there are not many things to do by hand in the home. It's not like I never stayed at home at all- I was a stay at home wife for over a year. And I know there is not much to do at home other than cooking and cleaning. It is such a waste of human resources to use all day just to cook and clean. So if you want to keep yourself busy you have to constantly give birth to kids till you stay fertile. Otherwise - no, there is not much work once the kids start having their lives- let alone become adults and leave the home. Even if you have kids till you are 45-50, there is a long lonely life ahead- watching TV and sulking at the kids that they don't visit you often.
There is a saying - a dogs tail never becomes straight it was bend and it will always be bend... Better we teach our sons to respect women and treat them like human beings from a young age...
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith " The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism" Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah, She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband, Why would she? He earns, She earns His money for all family members Her money is only for her Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots, And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day, The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism. Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin. And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
In the true Islam, Women not equal in marriage - Surah 4:3 (1husband/4wives) Not equal in inheritance - Surah 4:11 (Half of a male) Not equal in testimony - Surah 2:282 (Half of a male, Shahada is invalid) Not equal in treatment - Surah 4:34 (Men can beat them) Not equal in heaven - S al-Bukhari 304, 6449 (Majority in hell) Used as sex slaves and for prostitution - S 4:24, 24:33 (Your right hand possesses) Equal to dogs and donkeys- S al-Bukhari 511(Prayer) Is a property - Surah 2:223 (Women are a tilth) Is equated to Devil - Sunan Abi Dawud 2151(Is in the form of a devil) Islam is not for any woman who has any dignity. You know that Allah doesn't exist. Your prayers are wasted. You have no joy or peace. Because you have NO GOD.
It’s interesting that he mentions Malaysia and Indonesia as good examples of women actively participating in society and having rights because traditional Malay culture is a matriarch which is very different from the other Arab countries we are familiar with like Saudi, Yemen etc which have traditional patriarchal systems. Malays have always honoured women and it’s been taught culturally, so for Islam to support these already existing traditions is a no-brainer. It is even documented that prior to the Prophet (SAW) introducing Islam to Mecca, the people were corrupt and treated the women and girls absolutely terribly. Islam was a way to teach them and reform them, that women have human rights as well.
I always believe that if Allah didn’t want me to be an Architect, he wouldn’t give me the merit to qualify for that position. I am good in math and science, why would I be good in these fields if Allah doesn’t want me to use that skills!
We are such a misunderstood religion. Islam is not getting enough credit for being such a beautiful religion. People have so many stereotypes because there are so many fellow Muslims who think this way. I admire and respect Hazrat Khadija Raziallahu Tanahu and all Prophet Muhammad's wives (PBUH) because of their lifestyle and independence even in such an era. Hazrat Aisha Raziallahu Tanahu was the mother of Ummah and is said to be the most intelligent scholar in Islamic history. She was so special that Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) had a prophesized dream about her. He had gotten married to her early because of that same dream.
Islam is the most misunderstood religion. In the true Islam, Women not equal in marriage - Surah 4:3 (1husband/4wives) Not equal in inheritance - Surah 4:11 (Half of a male) Not equal in testimony - Surah 2:282 (Half of a male, Shahada is invalid) Not equal in treatment - Surah 4:34 (Men can beat them) Not equal in heaven - S al-Bukhari 304, 6449 (Majority in hell) Used as sex slaves and for prostitution - S 4:24, 24:33 (Your right hand possesses) Equal to dogs and donkeys- S al-Bukhari 511(Prayer) Is a property - Surah 2:223 (Women are a tilth) Is equated to Devil - Sunan Abi Dawud 2151(Is in the form of a devil) Islam is not for any woman who has any dignity. You know that Allah doesn't exist. Your prayers are wasted. You have no joy or peace. Because you have NO GOD.
@@Deltalady4 Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) marriage to Aisha is often debated due to unclear age estimates (6-20). Early marriages were common across cultures. Today, similar age gaps exist, yet are rarely questioned. What matters is the Prophet's respectful treatment of his wives, who reciprocated with devotion. His marriages often united tribes promoted peace, and strengthened Islam. Historical contexts differ; let's avoid judging past relationships by modern standards.
Bullcrap, Allah would know that in the 21st century it would be considered child abuse, Mohammed told his wives that the inhabitants of hell were mostly women, just to keep them subdued, oh and there is also a Hadith when he struck Aisha in the chest
I am an attorney and a Muslim woman. As a follower of the teachings of Dr. Israr Ahmed, Radhiallahu ta'ala Anhu, I have frequently sought guidance on the internet regarding the suitability of the legal profession for women. Today, while viewing this particular video, I found the answer I had been seeking. I am profoundly grateful for this enlightenment. May God bless you. Thank you very much. ❤
Assalamualaikum Don't say RadhiAllahu Ta'Ala Anhu for Dr Israr. RadhiAllahu Anhu is used for sahaba and great men and woman during Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam Like Aisha RadhiAllahu Anhu, AbuBakr RadhiAllahu Anhu,etc It's not for scholars or normal people and Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala knows best
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith " The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism" Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah, She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband, Why would she? He earns, She earns His money for all family members Her money is only for her Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots, And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day, The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism. Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin. And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
Yess.. even Caliphate Umar bin Kattab (Radiallahu anhu) appointed a muslimah (asy-syifa bint Abdullah Al-alawiya) to became the supervisor/head of the market.
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith " The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism" Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah, She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband, Why would she? He earns, She earns His money for all family members Her money is only for her Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots, And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day, The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism. Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin. And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
U knw what...Allahu Akbar... today i feel so much blessed to be a surgeon mom....i use to feel lesser muslim coz i work...Allah ..u hv given us such a blessed and beautiful Islam....May the followers understand it well... I always felt low of myself in the eyea of Allah... I work so hard professionally and to put good values for kids...i m so much in love with Allah... SubhanAllah
Don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research. Do you believe Islam permits the mingling of women with non-Mahram men? Are most workplaces where women are employed free of non-Mahram men?
@@mahbubahmed7 STop crying like a baby , That verse is for the mothers of the believers not all women and even if it was it downst mean women should be imprisoned in their homes rather that their majority of time should be spent under their homes and are you saying that women segregated places don't exist?
@@InshalHassan-r4s The verse refers to the mothers of the believers, and believing women are meant to follow their example, just as we follow the Prophet Muhammad. If you believe that not working outside confines women to their homes, you are certainly living in a fantasy. And stop pandering in my comment section; let the women speak.
@@mahbubahmed7. Historical evidence shows how active muslim women were during the time of the prophet. Businesses , battleships, they were so involved in both, both are mix-gendered spaces. The verses on awrah, haya' , modesty etc have laid up very beautiful rules for women in public. None of the verses talk about physical segregation, let alone the domestication of women. If all of us, men and women, really understand the verses, really know to guard our eyes, modesty, practice haya', take care of our clothing n physical appearance following the Islamic rules, public appearance, be it for work, travel, study etc won't create any issue. The prophet allowed this, majority scholars agree with women's participation in public life, economy etc, why would a mere individual like us make things so difficult? Islam is beautiful in and out. It is this kind of mindset, our inability to respect differences that make Islam look ugly, outdated.
As an Indian myself I feel the subcontinent's version of Islam is the most sexist and backwards. Imagine being no place in desi masjids for women to pray! It's completely off limits to women! How can they justify this? This is the reason why I didn't want to get married to an Indian Muslim and I looked elsewhere...
May Allah give the worst of jahannum to the men who think that their wives are not even worth giving the respect given to a servant... May Allah give justice to the women who suffer 😢
@jamshedkarai5524 Question. Why in the world did she marry a guy with that kind of personality or mindset? & Why couldn't she choose someone who had similar aspirations?
@@jamshedkarai5524 this is so wrong man , women should be asked whether they want to marry or not , women should be asked whether they want to marry that certain guy or not Marriages are not supposed to be done forcefully 😭
@@jamshedkarai5524 imo women should only listen to their husband if he is saying things that are right & align with the ways of Islam and they should politely decline their in-laws if they want to And yeah forced marriage shouldn't be done but I think it's common in India & Pakistan Not only in Muslim families but in other religion's families too A daughter is looked at as an liability or an additional weight in family & they just do the marriage to do away with them once they're of certain age
You get what you allow Also make sure you don't marry that kind of man and learn about his personality before marriage Even if he lie you still have intuition and can tell I it's late, it's better to have divorce, usually the second husband are better than the first
Based on my experience as a Muslimah born and raised in Indonesia for 25 years, I admire the women there. They form communities that engage in activities like organizing religious programs, training women in new skills, and creating entrepreneurs who support their families financially while being wives and mothers. These kinds of communities provide a supportive environment for personal growth, economic empowerment, and for women to fully realize their potential. However, balancing work and family responsibilities can be tough without enough support.
After two decades i got my answer. This question came to my mind when I was in school and i was unable to accept the thing that only responsibility for women is to getting married and raise kids. jazakALLAH khair may ALLAH reward you for this.
@@muhammedyahiyah5798 Yes, the verse refers to the mothers of the believers, and believing women are meant to follow their example, just as we follow the Prophet Muhammad.
Thank you so much to the wonderful Nouman Ali Khan who shares the teachings of the Quran so clearly and uses examples to make it easy to understand. So many Muslims are deeply rooted in culture as opposed to our beautiful religion which means so many girls and women are bereft of education as well as work opportunities. May Allah bless you and all of us 🙏🏼
JazakAllahu Khairan Kaseer Sir Nouman. I have been feeling this identity crisis for a long time now just because the scholars literally portray women as lesser beings... They conflate the messages of Surah Ahzab and present them to reinforce the idea that women are just to serve men at homes.... I feel sad and disappointed that they are scholars and still misunderstand the messages regarding women. Allah created women as allies of men, and not lesser human beings, and He has Told us in the Quran Himself. Allahu Akbar ❤
My first debate in which i won first prize in my student life was that housewives should be paid for what they do. I was the only one in favour. Rest of the participants were against it. Without anybody to run a household. How can you say that a society functions properly? The one who is sacrificing her freedom and time to lookafter the household. No amount of money can payback that amount of patience. Respect housewives
That should be respected,,but then you also have to give rent for the house and pay for the expense on you,,,,,,then sister what is the role of marriage??,,, what you have told is so immature,, you have seen your mother working,, go with your father someone in his workplace,,,, or maybe you come from a wealthy family,,, but for most us both work hard to run the family.. ♡
@heart_invaders143 No, I do not have to pay rent. Alhamdullilah. But I am paying taxes on everything. Baba Fareed Gunj shaker used to get brown sugar for free. It could be found under his prayer mat at all times. So Walahu khair ul razekeen. You know nothing about spiritual realm. You take things on the surface. Trust Allah, and a stone will benefit you. Trust Satan and gold will turn into dust and rubble
@@sapphireemerald6882 You don't know me,,so don't give landsliding opinion on what I know and what I don't,, even though I'm not seeking any validation,, you can think whatever you want. What I told is just common sense,, Husband and wife meant to complete each other not to compete with with each other. The way you are telling woman should get paid for household jobs are outrageous,,, and it reflect a narrow vision understandings,,,just because Allah gave you knowledge and understanding doesn't make your all opinions invincible,,.. ♡ Edit : Exceptional cases must deal exceptionally,,that should not be a generalisation.
@@sapphireemerald6882 Yeah Allah !! Why this girl is so judgemental !! ,, make her life blissful so that her anxiousness goes away 🤲.. I've seen my mom working hard,, I always admire her for her sacrifice,, and may Allah ease our sufferings,, but my father also work very hard,,Comparison between both for me is not possible and that's for most of the family in our area,,, I don't want sufferings and inequality for my daughter, sisters and mothers.. ♡
Instead of being a resentful mother, be an vibrant, happy mother who fulfills her potential is the best example to teach your children how to live.. and i think the quality of time and how understanding and educated the mother is more impactful to a child than only living in the same house all day long..
Jazakallah khair I literally cried after watching this video. How society is totally different from what islam says. That why Non Muslims nowadays say islam oppressed women. But Allhumdulliah islam gave so many rights to the women.
Wallahi! Jazakallah khair! I want to become a gynecologist but I was super tensed after hearing alot of scholars saying that women can't be a carrier women as well as good mother. I am so overwhelm by your answer. I give another level of confidence
I wish i saw this when i applied for uni. It was covid time. I used to watch a lot of islamic videos and all literally all told us to either be doctors or teachers in segregated environments. I was so depressed. Even though i didnt like biology, i took the medical field. I feel so trapped now a days. Im now in my 4th year. And in so much debt because of this field. Damn it i feel trapped. I wish i pursued my dreams rather than this field where i will have literally no free time for my children so i dont know what i was thinking really. Trying to follow my religion
Profoundly grateful to you for saying it out loud. It would be helpful if other scholars echo that. we need help bring back the true tradition and true religious context.
Ohhhh my brother 😭😭😭❤...how grateful I am to Allah SWT for guiding you to this relieving understanding and conclusion 🙏 I enjoyed this lecture a lot. Jazaka Allah a thousand kears 🌸🙏
Ameen for the dua ustadh stated "may we feel empowered " May Allah swt make it easy for all of us ameen. Ustadh never fails to make us understand such simple concepts with so much clarity. May He swt preserve him ameen
Literally my all problem get cleared, my blind blown by this great speach, I have become more stoodfast after listening it, thank you sir you are always been my mentor❤
Excellent lecture ..JazakAllah khair for bringing this out ! Absolutely agree ,infact traditional Islamic culture was more outgoing and in par with Islamic teachings then the modern Islamic culture which most are follow with strict rules etc
@@ellas.965 this is a lame excuse that he has a PhD so he can't twist the truth. Yeah he's a well known academic and I am not denying that but in this matter specifically he is promoting liberal and feminist values.
@@asimsajjad4002 men like you with low knowledge are used to downgrade women and to take all opportunities from them because you just don’t know it better. But thats the point in the islamic history there are FACTS (like he said) that women are there for more then household and children. They were business women (like our mother Khadījah), leaders and soldiers. And the fact that muslim women are every day more educated then you, is just killing you, right? You know how you notice a good man? It’s a man who KNOWS and practices his religion and has a strong masculine personality to encourages women to be the best version of them selfs. He is not insecure and low in knowledge like you. There are many Imams standing up for women today and you put them down and saying such bs. is just embarrassing. Women will never choose a men like you, when they are in their right mind.
"We are meant to feel less" is exactly the feeling sexist societies using religion are imposing on women when religion itself encourages women to be an active part of society, have a voice within the modesty of Islam of course but still live up to our potential. It makes me sick to my stomach to see how little truly understand (or are willing to understand) this issue. As a woman and a mother, I set the example to my children that I can be a dedicated mother and still live up to my potential by contributing to making society grow and be stronger.
Thank you very much shaikh! As a girl child I was very worried about this matter and has always thought why society is putting so much pressure on us. I didn't knew what Islam says about it. But now I got it. Thank you very much once again to enhance my knowledge and give us females empowerment😊
@@mahbubahmed7yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone. Be it a man or women. And yeah I will pursue my education and will make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limits. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad Al fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody. He is also a scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and are blinded by worldly affairs (same goes to the man as well). Thank you.
@@mahbubahmed7Yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my Mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone, be it a man or women. And yeah i will pursue my education and make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limit. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad al-fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody, he is a profound scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and blinded by worldly affairs. ( same goes to the man as well) thank you.
Yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my Mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone, be it a man or women. And yeah i will pursue my education and make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limit. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad al-fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody, he is a profound scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and blinded by worldly affairs. ( same goes to the man as well) thank you.
Thank you. I am a Canadian Christian woman who married a Muslim from Pakistan. Through our natural love, he came to see all these things you said through me without forcing anything or even saying a word about it. And I came to understand everything about how Islam views woman as you put it through him. Without forcing anything or even saying anything about it. Love, regardless of religion, conquers all. And I now love both religions
Subhanallah that you say Dr's and teachers... Even we get critized and judged... But then when their wives are pregnant they turn up at a Muslim woman Dr. One South African scholar openly said that any women who gets a secular education will NEVER bring up her children with deen and when the daughter of a good muslimah Dr completed her hifdh he expressed surprise.. May Allah guide us all
I always wanted to do something big in my life but I thought that was only reserved for men and that my only role was to take care of the household but mashaAllah Allah send me this video. May Allah guide you all on the straight path
Never think like this again. Allah brought us down on this Earth to live life according to our purposes that eventually are a way to worship him. To limit your potential because of thinking that men are allowed to do this and that and only them, is to betray your reason of being alive. Remember, you live for Allah and Allah alone is the One that will judge how you lived in this lower life. So, strive to be the best in whatever it is that makes you passionate and you know in your heart is something that you do as a form of worship.
Jazakallah khairan kaatsirran syaikh Nouman for your insight, and deep gratitude to mention Malaysia and Indonesia as examples. Yep,you are correct about the woman roles in both countries.
I think there are conditions for that. I am from Indonesia. My mom is a career woman. She went from 7 am- 7pm. When home she just angry angry and angry because of tired. Couple times she said she wanted to divorce to my dad and said to me that she wanted to show him that she didnt need him. I was taken care of by maid who brough her boyfriend to home and had sex in my house. At 4 years old I caught them. Next maid, eating my portion of food while they were having the same. As a teen I wanted affection, did lots of sin. Jealous of my friend that had a mom at home after school. Alhamdulillah Allah gives me chances to do taubat at 30.
Alhamdulillah the mercy of Allah It was easy for myself to have a polarized view of Malaysia and Indonesia but its common sense to be critical. JazakhAllah khair for sharing your experience Nevertheless may Allah guide our Ummah back to the sweetness and way of life of Islam
You should share this story with as many women as possible. Women don't seem to understand the negative impact of working outside the home. A woman working outside brings no real benefit to her family; she only contributes to the company she works for.
A woman is a human first of all and will definitely get tired of doing long hours job outside. She will definitely get frustrated if she comes home and there are other responsibilities waiting for her to fulfill. Only those women should work outside who are single or single parent. When you have a husband, it's his duty to provide and his wife should be happy what she gets and not overburdened him.
Thank you so much brother, i really needed to hear this and i wish other muslims would respect women enough and appreciate their role in society. It's good to see people explain things in the right way rather han being straight up biased or disrespectful.
O thank Allah somebody talked about the issue.i am a well educated women,,,I am not interested in backbiting,,,, gossips,,, useless discussion,,,tv ,,my children are grown up now,,,I was teacher,,lost my job due to some family issues,,,I want to teach again to keep myself busy,,to avoid depression.
Thank you brother for what you ate doing for our ummah. I have been saying this since I converted 30 years ago after study and reading everything I could get my hands on. A lot of men and cultural Muslims in general are not educated in thus deen
I married a muslim, he cooks and cleans the House, I also work part-time, we share all work and he also took care of the children when I Had a good paid full time job. After ten yrs of marriage I read the Quran and reverted immediately. He is the best husband, by the way I am Swiss.
MashaAllah. Prophet Muhammad Peace be Upon Him also helped his wife in the kitchen and doing chores but people say Islam is unfair to women... hamduliLah
@@BlazySM-qp4ynit’s culture that has dominated and changed Muslims over generations as they move away from the foundations of the religion unfortunately.
If all our people invested in their personal growth by reading Quran and learnt the Sunnah they would discover a whole way of life we are to emulate from our beloved Prophet (saw).
InshaAllah may we all be guided to seeking knowledge and a better understanding of our beautiful faith. Ameen 🤲🏼
Congratulations🎉🥳😊.. ♡
@@Norahcv5ch Mashallah. May Allah SWT protect you and your family from an evil eye
Subhanallah
I wanna be a government officer, and I was scared that it might go against my religion, so I prayed to Allah yesterday night and today this is in my feed mashallah :)
Allah humma barik. I am a doctor and I'm always tensed about if I can examine male pt.
@@iqra090 of course you can muslim male doctors help women birth and it's totally normalized why should the opposite be a problem
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
Excellent! I wish you the best. But I have a question: what do you have to offer your husband when you get married?
@@mahbubahmed7 money and feminism
And disobedience
Obviously a females going out, earning money from 9am to 5pm, has no point listening to her husband, why would she? He earns, she also earns,
Raising kids? After Coming home? Common go hell with those kids, childs do not need mothers, females to growup, its a Madeup story.
Preparing foods? Why would she? After coming home from work for so many works? Why would she cook?
The Husband Earns, She Also Earns
So all equal, both same to same
The moment you disobey Allah, his Shariah, Objective Morality, moral guidelines for humankinds, i, e ; Quran and Sunnah,
You screwed your life, a random husbands life and his kids life
The moment you reject ISLAM, you are no one to be respected.
So please be our guest by going out and Earn money @Females
The accountability of yours is with Allah
:)
I am a phd student and I love doing research. I feel very sad when Islamic scholars say that women should stay at home, maintain the household and raise children. When i think about that life it feels so poisonously boring. With the development of the technology you have washing machine, you have dishwasher, you have vacuum cleaner, and refrigerator. So what is the "work" womoen supposed to do all day? Raise kids? How many? One day the children becomes old enough to go to school. What do you do with the free time? I have seen so many in *strictly* islamic families women are lazy and backbiters, and addicted to tv and cellphones. They don't do anything at home other than making issues in the families. Such a wastage of human resources.
Thank you for talking about the issue
So true..
Right
I agree, many house wives are lazy, backbiters and addicted to tv and smartphones. The only reason they turned out to be like that. Is a lack of knowledge on both deen and dunya, especially deen. But housewives are also like the backbone of a society. Raising a strong ummah depends on strong mothers. Raising kids the right way in this world of fitnah isn't a joke, raising kids is a 24hr job itself. I dunno how come, a paid job is a job but raising with proper care and moral values isn't?
You don wanna raise kids, being a housewife sickens you, yeah that's you. But there are women who may not want to be career women instead they want to be housewives which is a great choice of career. Even if they have a career, then they want to quit after marriage of having kids, that's an excellent choice and great selflessness. Housewives are the nurturers of future nations, they are the main future builders of nations. The more knowledgeable (both in dunya and deen) mothers we will have the stronger the ummah will be. Raising kids with Islamic teaching by being a stay at home mother is also like contributing to society and deen. And that's the biggest responsibility we have as women. Mother's get 50% more importance than fathers in Islam cause their role is that big and more important in a child's life.
Yeah we women should gain knowledge and try to have a career for a period of time. But building a strong ummah raising both our daughters and sons with Islamic values and teaching is our biggest responsibility. Also leaving pious kids is like sadkah that you will keep being rewarded even after death.
A muslimah can teach children she can become dr
Its is not forbidden but running in between men without veil to stop getting bored at home is not allowed
@@humayaislam9671 sorry but you didn't understand my pov. What do the women do in their free time if the kids start going to school and having their own lives? And with the development of technology there are not many things to do by hand in the home. It's not like I never stayed at home at all- I was a stay at home wife for over a year. And I know there is not much to do at home other than cooking and cleaning. It is such a waste of human resources to use all day just to cook and clean. So if you want to keep yourself busy you have to constantly give birth to kids till you stay fertile. Otherwise - no, there is not much work once the kids start having their lives- let alone become adults and leave the home. Even if you have kids till you are 45-50, there is a long lonely life ahead- watching TV and sulking at the kids that they don't visit you often.
Every Muslim man today should see this video and know this. Barak Allah fika ya sheikh
There is a saying - a dogs tail never becomes straight it was bend and it will always be bend... Better we teach our sons to respect women and treat them like human beings from a young age...
@@jamshedkarai5524what’s wrong with women waking up.? Q bardasht karain tum mardo ki ayashian? Apna Islam apnay pas rakho.
They will not cause they already know but don’t want to follow
Thankgod someone is speaking it out otherwise nowadays man think that woman only belong to their houses
Thanks for watching! Share this with your friends & families
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
God*
In the true Islam,
Women not equal in marriage - Surah 4:3 (1husband/4wives)
Not equal in inheritance - Surah 4:11 (Half of a male)
Not equal in testimony - Surah 2:282 (Half of a male, Shahada is invalid)
Not equal in treatment - Surah 4:34 (Men can beat them)
Not equal in heaven - S al-Bukhari 304, 6449 (Majority in hell)
Used as sex slaves and for prostitution - S 4:24, 24:33 (Your right hand possesses)
Equal to dogs and donkeys- S al-Bukhari 511(Prayer)
Is a property - Surah 2:223 (Women are a tilth)
Is equated to Devil - Sunan Abi Dawud 2151(Is in the form of a devil)
Islam is not for any woman who has any dignity.
You know that Allah doesn't exist. Your prayers are wasted. You have no joy or peace. Because you have NO GOD.
noone has the right to tell us what to do or not other than allah so stand up for yourself instead of waiting for a miracle to happen
It’s interesting that he mentions Malaysia and Indonesia as good examples of women actively participating in society and having rights because traditional Malay culture is a matriarch which is very different from the other Arab countries we are familiar with like Saudi, Yemen etc which have traditional patriarchal systems. Malays have always honoured women and it’s been taught culturally, so for Islam to support these already existing traditions is a no-brainer.
It is even documented that prior to the Prophet (SAW) introducing Islam to Mecca, the people were corrupt and treated the women and girls absolutely terribly. Islam was a way to teach them and reform them, that women have human rights as well.
I always believe that if Allah didn’t want me to be an Architect, he wouldn’t give me the merit to qualify for that position. I am good in math and science, why would I be good in these fields if Allah doesn’t want me to use that skills!
I cried I cried and I cried!!! NO WORDS left! ❤
Don't cry and don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research.
@@mahbubahmed7umm why not?
@mahbubahmed7 and aya 32 too. so you can understand better or 2:53
We are such a misunderstood religion. Islam is not getting enough credit for being such a beautiful religion. People have so many stereotypes because there are so many fellow Muslims who think this way. I admire and respect Hazrat Khadija Raziallahu Tanahu and all Prophet Muhammad's wives (PBUH) because of their lifestyle and independence even in such an era. Hazrat Aisha Raziallahu Tanahu was the mother of Ummah and is said to be the most intelligent scholar in Islamic history. She was so special that Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) had a prophesized dream about her. He had gotten married to her early because of that same dream.
❤
Islam is the most misunderstood religion.
In the true Islam,
Women not equal in marriage - Surah 4:3 (1husband/4wives)
Not equal in inheritance - Surah 4:11 (Half of a male)
Not equal in testimony - Surah 2:282 (Half of a male, Shahada is invalid)
Not equal in treatment - Surah 4:34 (Men can beat them)
Not equal in heaven - S al-Bukhari 304, 6449 (Majority in hell)
Used as sex slaves and for prostitution - S 4:24, 24:33 (Your right hand possesses)
Equal to dogs and donkeys- S al-Bukhari 511(Prayer)
Is a property - Surah 2:223 (Women are a tilth)
Is equated to Devil - Sunan Abi Dawud 2151(Is in the form of a devil)
Islam is not for any woman who has any dignity.
You know that Allah doesn't exist. Your prayers are wasted. You have no joy or peace. Because you have NO GOD.
Bullcrap, what is beautiful about a man in his fifties desiring a child aged 6, he wasn’t a profit as no merciful god would allow this abuse
@@Deltalady4 Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) marriage to Aisha is often debated due to unclear age estimates (6-20). Early marriages were common across cultures. Today, similar age gaps exist, yet are rarely questioned.
What matters is the Prophet's respectful treatment of his wives, who reciprocated with devotion. His marriages often united tribes promoted peace, and strengthened Islam.
Historical contexts differ; let's avoid judging past relationships by modern standards.
Bullcrap, Allah would know that in the 21st century it would be considered child abuse, Mohammed told his wives that the inhabitants of hell were mostly women, just to keep them subdued, oh and there is also a Hadith when he struck Aisha in the chest
I am an attorney and a Muslim woman. As a follower of the teachings of Dr. Israr Ahmed, Radhiallahu ta'ala Anhu, I have frequently sought guidance on the internet regarding the suitability of the legal profession for women. Today, while viewing this particular video, I found the answer I had been seeking. I am profoundly grateful for this enlightenment. May God bless you. Thank you very much. ❤
Assalamualaikum
Don't say RadhiAllahu Ta'Ala Anhu for Dr Israr. RadhiAllahu Anhu is used for sahaba and great men and woman during Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
Like Aisha RadhiAllahu Anhu, AbuBakr RadhiAllahu Anhu,etc
It's not for scholars or normal people and Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala knows best
As a women you are equal to men and that's awesome that you are an attorney
Because you were not seeking guidance you were looking for something which gives you proof that you are not wrong.
I have been going through the same thing In law college. Alhamdulillah gonna graduate soon and finding clarity.
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
Yess.. even Caliphate Umar bin Kattab (Radiallahu anhu) appointed a muslimah (asy-syifa bint Abdullah Al-alawiya) to became the supervisor/head of the market.
Thank you for this info.
Actually there's no evidence of it. So stop spreading information without it being verified.
Then you should verify first and then write this comment. @@samaryaqeen8893
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
@@samaryaqeen8893 Lol liar
sheikh nouman is truly what this ummah needs💞✨
U knw what...Allahu Akbar... today i feel so much blessed to be a surgeon mom....i use to feel lesser muslim coz i work...Allah ..u hv given us such a blessed and beautiful Islam....May the followers understand it well... I always felt low of myself in the eyea of Allah... I work so hard professionally and to put good values for kids...i m so much in love with Allah... SubhanAllah
Talibans in Afghanistan needs to listen and watch this video.
Happy to see this. I was depressed from the perspective put forward by Indian men for women in Islam.
Don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research. Do you believe Islam permits the mingling of women with non-Mahram men? Are most workplaces where women are employed free of non-Mahram men?
@@mahbubahmed7 STop crying like a baby , That verse is for the mothers of the believers not all women and even if it was it downst mean women should be imprisoned in their homes rather that their majority of time should be spent under their homes and are you saying that women segregated places don't exist?
@@InshalHassan-r4s The verse refers to the mothers of the believers, and believing women are meant to follow their example, just as we follow the Prophet Muhammad.
If you believe that not working outside confines women to their homes, you are certainly living in a fantasy.
And stop pandering in my comment section; let the women speak.
@@mahbubahmed7. Historical evidence shows how active muslim women were during the time of the prophet. Businesses , battleships, they were so involved in both, both are mix-gendered spaces. The verses on awrah, haya' , modesty etc have laid up very beautiful rules for women in public. None of the verses talk about physical segregation, let alone the domestication of women. If all of us, men and women, really understand the verses, really know to guard our eyes, modesty, practice haya', take care of our clothing n physical appearance following the Islamic rules, public appearance, be it for work, travel, study etc won't create any issue. The prophet allowed this, majority scholars agree with women's participation in public life, economy etc, why would a mere individual like us make things so difficult? Islam is beautiful in and out. It is this kind of mindset, our inability to respect differences that make Islam look ugly, outdated.
As an Indian myself I feel the subcontinent's version of Islam is the most sexist and backwards. Imagine being no place in desi masjids for women to pray! It's completely off limits to women! How can they justify this?
This is the reason why I didn't want to get married to an Indian Muslim and I looked elsewhere...
May Allah give the worst of jahannum to the men who think that their wives are not even worth giving the respect given to a servant... May Allah give justice to the women who suffer 😢
@jamshedkarai5524 Question. Why in the world did she marry a guy with that kind of personality or mindset? & Why couldn't she choose someone who had similar aspirations?
@@jamshedkarai5524 this is so wrong man , women should be asked whether they want to marry or not , women should be asked whether they want to marry that certain guy or not
Marriages are not supposed to be done forcefully 😭
@@jamshedkarai5524 imo women should only listen to their husband if he is saying things that are right & align with the ways of Islam and they should politely decline their in-laws if they want to
And yeah forced marriage shouldn't be done but I think it's common in India & Pakistan
Not only in Muslim families but in other religion's families too
A daughter is looked at as an liability or an additional weight in family & they just do the marriage to do away with them once they're of certain age
@@jamshedkarai5524 yeah ik I am from India too
You get what you allow
Also make sure you don't marry that kind of man and learn about his personality before marriage
Even if he lie you still have intuition and can tell
I it's late, it's better to have divorce, usually the second husband are better than the first
Based on my experience as a Muslimah born and raised in Indonesia for 25 years, I admire the women there. They form communities that engage in activities like organizing religious programs, training women in new skills, and creating entrepreneurs who support their families financially while being wives and mothers. These kinds of communities provide a supportive environment for personal growth, economic empowerment, and for women to fully realize their potential.
However, balancing work and family responsibilities can be tough without enough support.
Sounds so refreshing to me because I live in India and most men don't treat us like humans
This vd is most needed in the society because the thing which sir is speaking is actually in practice within the Islamic tradition...
After two decades i got my answer. This question came to my mind when I was in school and i was unable to accept the thing that only responsibility for women is to getting married and raise kids. jazakALLAH khair may ALLAH reward you for this.
I feel Empowered listening to this i.e. about women in Islam..Alhumdulillah
Don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research.
@@mahbubahmed7No bro that Aya context is about prophet wives not for all women just look at Aya number 32
@@muhammedyahiyah5798 Yes, the verse refers to the mothers of the believers, and believing women are meant to follow their example, just as we follow the Prophet Muhammad.
I wish Pakistani system understand it
Right
I wish...
It’s not only Pakistani sister it’s problem with some of Muslims too 😢😢😢
It’s unfortunate because people just follow culture rather than follow Islam.
@@LuminousCatt right now the temperature of Lahore is 47 and every one is getting sick but no precaution has been nade
Thank you so much to the wonderful Nouman Ali Khan who shares the teachings of the Quran so clearly and uses examples to make it easy to understand. So many Muslims are deeply rooted in culture as opposed to our beautiful religion which means so many girls and women are bereft of education as well as work opportunities. May Allah bless you and all of us 🙏🏼
Finally someone is talking about my inner thougts ❤....i wish the people of our down society understands it ..
And give us our value 😢
JazakAllahu Khairan Kaseer Sir Nouman. I have been feeling this identity crisis for a long time now just because the scholars literally portray women as lesser beings... They conflate the messages of Surah Ahzab and present them to reinforce the idea that women are just to serve men at homes.... I feel sad and disappointed that they are scholars and still misunderstand the messages regarding women. Allah created women as allies of men, and not lesser human beings, and He has Told us in the Quran Himself. Allahu Akbar ❤
JazzakAllah so much....❤❤❤
May Allah reward you for this❤❤
Thanks for this video, needed it the most! And I'm really grateful to Allah for being a Muslim woman ❤
The clarity in this video clear my thoughts about how women and men sould act in modern society ❤
My first debate in which i won first prize in my student life was that housewives should be paid for what they do. I was the only one in favour. Rest of the participants were against it. Without anybody to run a household. How can you say that a society functions properly? The one who is sacrificing her freedom and time to lookafter the household. No amount of money can payback that amount of patience. Respect housewives
That should be respected,,but then you also have to give rent for the house and pay for the expense on you,,,,,,then sister what is the role of marriage??,,, what you have told is so immature,, you have seen your mother working,, go with your father someone in his workplace,,,, or maybe you come from a wealthy family,,, but for most us both work hard to run the family.. ♡
@heart_invaders143 No, I do not have to pay rent. Alhamdullilah. But I am paying taxes on everything. Baba Fareed Gunj shaker used to get brown sugar for free. It could be found under his prayer mat at all times. So Walahu khair ul razekeen. You know nothing about spiritual realm. You take things on the surface. Trust Allah, and a stone will benefit you. Trust Satan and gold will turn into dust and rubble
@@sapphireemerald6882 You don't know me,,so don't give landsliding opinion on what I know and what I don't,, even though I'm not seeking any validation,, you can think whatever you want. What I told is just common sense,, Husband and wife meant to complete each other not to compete with with each other. The way you are telling woman should get paid for household jobs are outrageous,,, and it reflect a narrow vision understandings,,,just because Allah gave you knowledge and understanding doesn't make your all opinions invincible,,.. ♡
Edit : Exceptional cases must deal exceptionally,,that should not be a generalisation.
@heart_invaders143 I respect people who earn for their families, but your whole concentration is on money. Not contentment and thankfulness
@@sapphireemerald6882 Yeah Allah !! Why this girl is so judgemental !! ,, make her life blissful so that her anxiousness goes away 🤲..
I've seen my mom working hard,, I always admire her for her sacrifice,, and may Allah ease our sufferings,, but my father also work very hard,,Comparison between both for me is not possible and that's for most of the family in our area,,, I don't want sufferings and inequality for my daughter, sisters and mothers.. ♡
i really love how noman is able to resolve these issues so easily
Instead of being a resentful mother, be an vibrant, happy mother who fulfills her potential is the best example to teach your children how to live.. and i think the quality of time and how understanding and educated the mother is more impactful to a child than only living in the same house all day long..
Jazakallah khair
I literally cried after watching this video.
How society is totally different from what islam says.
That why Non Muslims nowadays say islam oppressed women.
But Allhumdulliah islam gave so many rights to the women.
Wallahi! Jazakallah khair! I want to become a gynecologist but I was super tensed after hearing alot of scholars saying that women can't be a carrier women as well as good mother. I am so overwhelm by your answer. I give another level of confidence
100% correct that we cover so we can control our own feelings. It's a constant state of reminder
this is why i like to listen to your lectures Sir. very Islamic and progressive.
I wish i saw this when i applied for uni. It was covid time. I used to watch a lot of islamic videos and all literally all told us to either be doctors or teachers in segregated environments. I was so depressed. Even though i didnt like biology, i took the medical field. I feel so trapped now a days. Im now in my 4th year. And in so much debt because of this field. Damn it i feel trapped. I wish i pursued my dreams rather than this field where i will have literally no free time for my children so i dont know what i was thinking really. Trying to follow my religion
Profoundly grateful to you for saying it out loud. It would be helpful if other scholars echo that. we need help bring back the true tradition and true religious context.
Ohhhh my brother 😭😭😭❤...how grateful I am to Allah SWT for guiding you to this relieving understanding and conclusion 🙏 I enjoyed this lecture a lot. Jazaka Allah a thousand kears 🌸🙏
Ameen for the dua ustadh stated "may we feel empowered " May Allah swt make it easy for all of us ameen. Ustadh never fails to make us understand such simple concepts with so much clarity. May He swt preserve him ameen
Literally my all problem get cleared, my blind blown by this great speach, I have become more stoodfast after listening it, thank you sir you are always been my mentor❤
Excellent lecture ..JazakAllah khair for bringing this out !
Absolutely agree ,infact traditional Islamic culture was more outgoing and in par with Islamic teachings then the modern Islamic culture which most are follow with strict rules etc
I love this man just so much, we need more men like Noman. May Allah pour enormous barkaah in his life.
Nouman Ali khan is such a blessing🎉🎉🎉
Thankyou for this! JazakAllah!
Thank you for this video❤
Yeah i wish all muslim men understand this😢
If this is Islam men will obey but this isn't.
@@asimsajjad4002and u know that bc you study the quran your whole life like he?
@@ellas.965 this is a lame excuse that he has a PhD so he can't twist the truth. Yeah he's a well known academic and I am not denying that but in this matter specifically he is promoting liberal and feminist values.
@@ellas.965 and your point that he's more studied Islam than me is proof he is doing intentionally.
@@asimsajjad4002 men like you with low knowledge are used to downgrade women and to take all opportunities from them because you just don’t know it better. But thats the point in the islamic history there are FACTS (like he said) that women are there for more then household and children. They were business women (like our mother Khadījah), leaders and soldiers. And the fact that muslim women are every day more educated then you, is just killing you, right? You know how you notice a good man? It’s a man who KNOWS and practices his religion and has a strong masculine personality to encourages women to be the best version of them selfs. He is not insecure and low in knowledge like you. There are many Imams standing up for women today and you put them down and saying such bs. is just embarrassing. Women will never choose a men like you, when they are in their right mind.
"We are meant to feel less" is exactly the feeling sexist societies using religion are imposing on women when religion itself encourages women to be an active part of society, have a voice within the modesty of Islam of course but still live up to our potential. It makes me sick to my stomach to see how little truly understand (or are willing to understand) this issue. As a woman and a mother, I set the example to my children that I can be a dedicated mother and still live up to my potential by contributing to making society grow and be stronger.
MashaAllah
Make sure you aren't servile to your boss and respect your husband
@@yuppieyup8188 we as people should respect each other generally it seems like u have some problems that needs to addressed
@@noordonia7082 what are those problems lil sis
@@yuppieyup8188 you should understand that it's the norm to respect other people unless they are being disrespectful to u little brother
Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan today you have won my 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love love this! where can i find the full recording of this lecture/discussion?
Let’s not forget Lady Khadija may Allah be pleased with her , our first mother in Islam , she was a very successful businesswoman 😊
MashahAllah this was needed! JazakAllah
This Video made my day and Eid Mubarak to everyone.
thank you soo much for this message
Jazakum allahu khairan
Thank you very much shaikh! As a girl child I was very worried about this matter and has always thought why society is putting so much pressure on us. I didn't knew what Islam says about it. But now I got it. Thank you very much once again to enhance my knowledge and give us females empowerment😊
Don't blindly follow anyone. Before forming an opinion, read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and conduct your research on the topic.
@@mahbubahmed7yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone. Be it a man or women. And yeah I will pursue my education and will make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limits. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad Al fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody. He is also a scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and are blinded by worldly affairs (same goes to the man as well). Thank you.
@@mahbubahmed7Yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my Mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone, be it a man or women. And yeah i will pursue my education and make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limit. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad al-fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody, he is a profound scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and blinded by worldly affairs. ( same goes to the man as well) thank you.
Yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my Mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone, be it a man or women. And yeah i will pursue my education and make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limit. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad al-fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody, he is a profound scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and blinded by worldly affairs. ( same goes to the man as well) thank you.
NAK is not a sheikh or a faqih, seek fatwas from scholars
Jazak Allah khair brother
Ja za ka Allah hu khair. I . Very happy to hear this
Thank you. I am a Canadian Christian woman who married a Muslim from Pakistan. Through our natural love, he came to see all these things you said through me without forcing anything or even saying a word about it. And I came to understand everything about how Islam views woman as you put it through him. Without forcing anything or even saying anything about it. Love, regardless of religion, conquers all. And I now love both religions
Subhanallah that you say Dr's and teachers... Even we get critized and judged... But then when their wives are pregnant they turn up at a Muslim woman Dr. One South African scholar openly said that any women who gets a secular education will NEVER bring up her children with deen and when the daughter of a good muslimah Dr completed her hifdh he expressed surprise.. May Allah guide us all
Brother Noman your words are so true jazak Allah
Jazak Allah khair Noman sir
JazakiAllah
Jazak Allah kheer brother 😊
O my ustadh😮❤🙏🙏🙏 Thanks to bring these words up may Allah bless more
A great Muslim scholar of islam , and feeding us with the knowledge that we all men and women needs to know about that
Thanks, I needed that
I always wanted to do something big in my life but I thought that was only reserved for men and that my only role was to take care of the household but mashaAllah Allah send me this video. May Allah guide you all on the straight path
Never think like this again. Allah brought us down on this Earth to live life according to our purposes that eventually are a way to worship him. To limit your potential because of thinking that men are allowed to do this and that and only them, is to betray your reason of being alive. Remember, you live for Allah and Allah alone is the One that will judge how you lived in this lower life. So, strive to be the best in whatever it is that makes you passionate and you know in your heart is something that you do as a form of worship.
See?
This is the mindset of someone who “ understands “islam and quran… Baraak Allah feek ustad
Ma sha Allah
Masha ALLAH well said!
This is soooooo important to spread among us Muslims!!
Loved this advice to Muslim families. So well explained.
I really needed this... Thank you so much
Jazakallah khairan kaatsirran syaikh Nouman for your insight, and deep gratitude to mention Malaysia and Indonesia as examples. Yep,you are correct about the woman roles in both countries.
We should take roll model of bibi Khatija ..she was a working mom business woman..
I needed this ❤❤❤ Thank you!
Thank you ustaad...i owe you a big thanku...
Surah Ahzab ayah 33 is our answer.
Subhan Allah . yaa dear ustadth what i was injoyed about the countrey talking about Allaah make it easy for us Ameen☝️🤲🤲 jazak Allahu keyren.
Thank you so much sir for this message.
I'm also struggling for this.
alhumdulillah at least some videos without background music
Thank you so much may Allah bless you with happiness and prosperity
Allah give us many many things. Alhumdulilah We can do anything.
Love this talk! JazakAllah
Wonderful analysis Sir
what a mindset , actually its islam MashAllah 🤍❤
Thank you so much!! Jazakallah
Zazak Allah khair
I love your thoughts so much you are so genius as a Muslim person. Keeping to the women in the house as a captive is nothing but atrocity.
Beautifully explained❤
I would really appreciate it if you released his original video for this one
I think there are conditions for that. I am from Indonesia. My mom is a career woman. She went from 7 am- 7pm. When home she just angry angry and angry because of tired. Couple times she said she wanted to divorce to my dad and said to me that she wanted to show him that she didnt need him. I was taken care of by maid who brough her boyfriend to home and had sex in my house. At 4 years old I caught them. Next maid, eating my portion of food while they were having the same. As a teen I wanted affection, did lots of sin. Jealous of my friend that had a mom at home after school. Alhamdulillah Allah gives me chances to do taubat at 30.
Alhamdulillah the mercy of Allah
It was easy for myself to have a polarized view of Malaysia and Indonesia but its common sense to be critical. JazakhAllah khair for sharing your experience
Nevertheless may Allah guide our Ummah back to the sweetness and way of life of Islam
You should share this story with as many women as possible. Women don't seem to understand the negative impact of working outside the home. A woman working outside brings no real benefit to her family; she only contributes to the company she works for.
Today many women are failing to understand this.
A woman is a human first of all and will definitely get tired of doing long hours job outside. She will definitely get frustrated if she comes home and there are other responsibilities waiting for her to fulfill. Only those women should work outside who are single or single parent. When you have a husband, it's his duty to provide and his wife should be happy what she gets and not overburdened him.
Yes ofc.Family always comes first.If a job is harming your familial relationship I dont think anyone should do that job.
My favorite scholar with the most logic.
Thank you so much brother, i really needed to hear this and i wish other muslims would respect women enough and appreciate their role in society. It's good to see people explain things in the right way rather han being straight up biased or disrespectful.
O thank Allah somebody talked about the issue.i am a well educated women,,,I am not interested in backbiting,,,, gossips,,, useless discussion,,,tv ,,my children are grown up now,,,I was teacher,,lost my job due to some family issues,,,I want to teach again to keep myself busy,,to avoid depression.
Thank you brother for what you ate doing for our ummah. I have been saying this since I converted 30 years ago after study and reading everything I could get my hands on. A lot of men and cultural Muslims in general are not educated in thus deen
I wish, we had more men like this in our societies
Thank you Sir.
Wow...great Lecture
jazakAllah
Sister Ali khan
Thank u