7 in 10 Women Blame MENOPAUSE on Divorce & it's not their fault...(but it is)
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Or consider this paragraph few months ago, women bought a lovely house her neighbor. A real party guy, he plays loud music all the time and she finds it so annoying. When she knocks on his door to complain in harsh manner, things don’t go entirely to plan. He open the door and she speaker hush to him in angry voice after few intraction She ends up drinking wine with him . And left his house. Explain why this happened how someone who was angry change within few intraction. Can we learn this skill
Menopause gives women another chance to play the victim card.
Yet another
After 27 yrs of marriage I’ve asked my wife for a divorce. Although menopause was a factor in the demise of our intimacy,her disrespect, combativeness,gaslighting,and hostility was in her character way before her well ran dry, and THAT is why after my recent heart attack,I’ve decided to STOP being her emotional punching bag and say ENOUGH.
why does it take that much? why get to that degree and level to finally “ask for a divorce” ?
why ask? why not just file and never speak to he r ever again?
Not sure why people say they ask for a divorce. There's no asking, it's one party against the other. You get a lawyer and tell them you're moving on without them.
@@associatealpha1166
Because we men hope the bride we married will come back to us. Foolish, I know, but that's how we're built
@@associatealpha1166easier said than done, losing half of your wealth which has been pushed to the middle. No one anticipates a heart attack and the slow demise down to it. It sucks but it’s way harder than you think. He obviously didn’t have an ironclad prenup.
@@associatealpha1166 when you’ve been in a relationship for that long and raise children by the time you get to that point many years have past and it’s not like having a girlfriend and saying goodbye there’s a little bit more invested and if you’re a decent human being I think you owe an explanation. Doesn’t mean you’re not gonna do it. But everything else being equal I think if you are a long-term partner with children and with at least some good manners a brief explanation before you walk out the door is required. Especially if there’s no underlying violence, or, just absolutely horrible behaviour. FYI required On both sides.
5 of the 7 women were probably a royal pain before menopause. After 30 years men get tired of being treated like children.
Women will use ANY excuse to absolve themselves if any accountability
How do you write women so well? I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability
As good as it gets 😎
Timeless words of wisdom.
Absolutely any excuse that takes a woman away from having to take any accountability.
Do some research so you can be prepared. Accountability means to account for everything. Many women have no idea what's going on either.
It's called menopause because they pause their relationships with men.
I've also heard mental pause.
Unless she meets a rich guy....suddenly shes hot.
😂😂
@@terrybaikie2181rich guys don't want women who near menopause,
@@brando7266 and im not even rich....
My wife refuses to take any treatment for menopause. Severe menopause is no joke, it turns women into monsters.
Cancer fear is a often a reason used not to balance the hormones mix..
I always tell every woman I meet that if we can’t sit down like mature adults without yelling, cursing, or throwing insults then we will not be together. You have one time to raise your voice or disrespect me in anyway and our relationship is over. I will ghost you faster than a strike of lightning. Fellas life is too short for nonsense & drama, don’t let anyone take away your peace.
thank you…. why do so few dudes grasp and understand this!? l do not understand why most dudes do not do it like you and me.
@@associatealpha1166 because a lot of men are soft/spineless/sissified. I’m glad that I was raised by a former bad boy & Tyrone my father. Let’s call him Hal. Although I didn’t & still don’t believe in sleeping around; I was bit of a bad boy in my teens & early 20’s. Getting into brawls (I never started the fights though) and treating women like dog 💩. I’ve said some harsh things to women that can’t be taken seriously to their faces. I grew out of that phase though; now I’m a don’t F🤬 with me and I won’t F🤬 with you kind of guy. In other words stay outta my way.
Especially as you get older, you just have less of an ability to put up with that type of nonsense. You really do begin to realise how valuable peaceful time is.
You absolutely can have this. I've been with my husband 21 years, we hardly ever argue (maybe a quick disagreement once a year) and there is never any yelling or name calling involved.
I will be doing this once all my kids turn 18, I have three years left, believe it or not I feel like an endurance athlete married in a western culture. If I new what I no now I would have never entered such a bizarre institution
10 in 10 women blame something else as the cause of their problems. Case closed.
Women habitually blame men as the imaginative cause of their ‘unhappiness’ and they divorce men to get the rich compensation of money and prizes leaving the poor sap destitute…
That is most very, very correct..
Fun fact guys,if your girl wants to “ untie the knot” when she’s older than 35 , they have this belief that they are 22 again , It’s hilarious,The wall wins everytime! Now I’m going into my garage to finish restoring my 1966 Chevy caprice 427.
I'm surprised they didn't say it's a social construct just like gender and vergeneti
Great comment!
Menopause isn’t caused by the men and the patriarchy? Well, make men pay for this, what men have caused. It’s a shame to make the women suffer so much. (Yes, the fact women are winning 95% of the court cases and getting 97% of the alimony and child support is women suffering, imagine the 2-3% of the women suffering :(((( ❤)
Bingo!! 7 years…. Kaput overnight….. She blamed her irregular periods and hot flashes (53) on….. yep, ME!
you married a woman in her late 40’s ? why ?
Im happily sitting back and watching my exwife mess up her current marriage. Hahahaha men on pause.
My ex hit menopause in her early 50s. I noticed a huge change in her during this process. She became more argumentative and started to become less feminine. Our divorce happened during this phase.
Its around that time they cut their hair and get that Karen haircut
@@keithcommins
The hairdo becomes a mando.
100% the same with me . Marriage bust after 28 years . Go figure.
I was married 20 years, all was good until she hit menopause,, one year later she becomes completely unhinged and divorces me, I still don't know why. This menopause stuff is crazy..
LOLOLOL
They wanted to ride the carousel one last time.
It's just your turn, even after decades.
@kengaroo5170 She doesn't belong to anyone. She belongs to everybody. It's just "your" turn to pass her on to the next guy once you are done with her. Time is indeed money. And it takes money to keep such a woman around and when the money isn't there then neither is she. On the flip side, You are never hers. It's only her turn to keep her behaviour in check to make sure she doesn't lose you. That's all. Always deal with and care for women who have GBD for you. To rest is just the rest. They don't matter.
Yup. That’s my story. Hang in there, it gets better.
Yep, it's the dirty secret men are not told....that girl you married will often disappear when peri- menopause sets in during the early to mid 40's. They often become someone you no longer recognize that recoils at your touch and complains about the sound of your breathing. I was married 24 years when I experienced it, for a real shocker go read some menopause forums, some of these women that formerly loved their hubby end up praying for or even planning his demise
I've seen my married friends go through absolute hell with their aging wives. Hells no for me! They're like Jekyll & Hyde, turning into monsters.
As someone who is going through perimenopause I can tell you it's rough! I've always been very fit and healthy and then it hit me like a ton of bricks. Insomnia, severe anxiety, hot flashes, tinnitus, paranoia, the list goes on. It's so insane how thelack of oestrogen affects our brain health and makes us exhausted and irrational. I can see how if i didn't do anything it could have started heading in the wrong direction in my marriage. In the UK doctors are not willing to prescribe HRT to young women like me, especially if they are not "officially" in menopause, I buy my HRT over the counter when I go to Europe and self-prescibe/medicate with HRT. I can not tell you how much difference it made. Also, a lot of women are terrified to take HRT because of false statements about dangers made in 2002 WHI. study.
Good of you to take action and control of your health. It’s important to have your hormones tested once you’re on HRT to make sure everything is in healthy range. Probably not easy for you in the UK.
I haven't hit that stage yet but I'm a bit worried about it all. Did you look into natural options at all? I'd love to hear if you have options on this
@@rageblademage you shouldn't be worried about it. Just be prepared by educating yourself on the topic. I learned so much by listening to female hormone specialists on youtube, there are so many - Menopause Taylor, Dr Felice Gersh, Dr Heather Hersch, Dr Mary Clare. They talk about HRT, natural remedies and everything in between. Look into natural remedies if you're not willing or are not a suitable candidate to take HRT. I am a qualified nutritionist and fitness trainer, so I definitely thought 'I know I'm not going to need HRT'. Yet here I was, desperate to get on it after 'doing everything right'. All I can say is that you cannot "ashwaganda and black cohosh" your way into making your ovaries produce an adequate amount of oestrogen to protect your heart, bones and brain healthy.
@@rageblademage Don't be worried, just prepare yourself for it. I learned so much by listening to female hormone specialists on RUclips. Look up Dr Heather Hirsch, Dr Mary Clare Haver, Menopause Taylor, DR Felice Gersh. They are amazing experts in this field and really good educators here on RUclips. I honestly didn't even think for a second I'd need HRT, as I'm a qualified nutritionist and fitness trainer, I thought I have it all figured out, I'm doing everything right, I'm so athletic, I eat right and all that. Yet, there I was desperately trying to get it prescribed to me. Life has such an elegant way to slap you down sometimes. All I can say- you cannot "ashwaganda" and "black cohosh" your way for your ovaries to make adequate amount of estrogen and progesteron to protect your heart, bones, brain health.
@rageblademage Don't be worried, just prepare yourself for it. I learned so much by listening to female hormone specialists on RUclips. Look up Dr Heather Hirsch, Dr Mary Clare Haver, Menopause Taylor, DR Felice Gersh. They are amazing experts in this field and really good educators here on RUclips. I honestly didn't even think for a second I'd need HRT, as I'm a qualified nutritionist and fitness trainer, I thought I have it all figured out, I'm doing everything right, I'm so athletic, I eat right and all that. Yet, there I was desperately trying to get it prescribed to me. Life has such an elegant way to slap you down sometimes. All I can say- you cannot "ashwaganda" and "black cohosh" your way for your ovaries to make adequate amount of oestrogen and progesteron to protect your heart, bones, brain health.
Maybe women should just tell the truth. They are bored in their relationship or marriage and want somebody else. Nah! It's to easy to blame the man or something else.
Rich, I tried to talk with my wife about getting her hormones checked over and over again, well before she entered perimenopause. She went completely silent and refused to discuss hormone panels and HRT with me every single time, to the point where we started arguing about why she refused to even talk about hormone issues at all. She had turned into a very masculine and vicious rageaholic, especially right before her periods, and was a completely different woman compared with the sweet, affectionate, loving girl I had married. Our marriage ended the day after she got her first hot flash; I was fed up and had enough.
Women will find a problem with any solution
I'm going through a divorce after 24 years marriage. Menopause started around 2020, so it coincided with COVID. We separated in 2022. We had a lot of financial hardship historically but paid off our student loans last year (2023). It was a perfect storm, just when we were ready to relax and enjoy our lives together.
Bingo!! Feel ya Bro, sucks…. But they are sold a different dream than what yall planned and prepared for, she just didn’t tell ya.
Got divorced last November. The wife had a total hysterectomy in her early 30's. Did hormonal treatments years ago. But one day she just started acting like a damn fool!
My wife didn't have a hysterectomy, but she still acts the fool @@duaneh1973
@@duaneh1973
My wife didn't have a hysterectomy, but she still acts the fool
@@duaneh1973
My wife didn't have a hysterectomy, but she still acts the foo l
IT WAS MUCH EASIER TO GO TO COURT THAN A DOCTOR, SEEING A JUDGE MADE HER RICH.
Always keep your own place, your own car and your own money 💰.
Nailed it on this one Rich! Been there, done that, burned the t-shirt!
It's never their fault.
My mom went through menopause just about the time I graduated from high school.
She went completely fucking mental for a couple of years there. None of us wanted to have anything to do with her.
Around 40 she changed, start of menopause and of course all my fault, her affair, my fault also
I went through what is called surgical menopause after my hysterectomy. Afterwards, I decided to go on bio identical hormones (nature) and I feel absolutely wonderful compared to before a very necessary hysterectomy. My husband and I are still going strong even after 34 yrs. I do believe that both genders go through their own hormonal changes as we become older menopause for women andropause for men.
Thank you for raising awareness. It's a serious problem, and good for men to know.
Me and my wife are both 41y.o. We have a good marriage. She is entering menopause and it is 100% like Rich explained, with all the simptoms. If the marriage is strong, you can deal with it, if it's not, women will use menopause as a reason to brake marriage
Menopause combined with lack of accountability is a primary driver for why wom3n initiate the majority of divorces today.
After 9 years common law she kicked me out from our apartment over a fight that in my eyes was nothing major. I of course was a devastated zombie as I lost my home, 2 cats and a step daughter. I am completely confused by all this as she sometimes showed signs of bpd and would gas light me occasionally. 6 months prior we had a fight and she told me I have a anger problem, and bought me a book on how to deal with anger. I overall am calm but nobody is perfect. She would talk over me ans suggest I have the anger problem? She ended up ripping that book in half during an argument a few months after she bought it for me. She went to the doctor to test for menopause and it came back negative. She then complained that she did not like the kind of test they provided her. Once I came back with $300 in groceries and she argued with me due to the "unethical" type of tuna I bought. You cannot make this stuff up. My life was flipped upside down and here I am 4 months later.
I left my ex over her menopause fits
unfortunately menopause can cause libido to plummet which does not respond always to testosterone and other HRT
Yup…it destroyed my marriage
menopause women going back on the dating market...
she's going to be surprised.
she's not going to be treated the same as she was at 22
the MOST important part was them mentioning menopause affecting women's ability to earn money and save for retirement... ALL they want from this study is LIFETIME alimony or something similar.
My second marriage of two months ended because of menopause. I'll spare you the details but I left the state to get away from that crazy hag.
It’s not just menopause. It’s also perimenopause. Symptoms can start as early as the late 30s and many women in their 40s . Most of these women have significant improvements and quality of life after starting estrogen and progesterone therapy. Perimenopausal Symptoms include difficulty, sleeping, palpitations, weight gain, irritability, decreased sex drive
Go to a doctor that specializes in HRT
Great advice! 😊
This is absolutely a thing I'm 43 and my gf is 50 but yah she is hot even compared to women in their 20s we've been together 1.5 years and everything was amazing. Like a perfect match 4 months ago she just became a completely different person and whenever I ask what's wrong it's nothing but arguments I backed off and even after trying again to work through things and try to see what happened or if there's anything we can do together allllll I got was pushed back. Yelled at and only response is always the same thing : I'm in a bad mood I couldn't do it anymore no matter how much you try you can't be the only person trying but I'm 100000% confident it was largely or mostly due to menopause guys don't feel like your alone out there if this something you can relate to
That very well could have been a dating relationship running it's course also. If she was 50 and with you a year and a half, sounds like there was no proposal and the relationship met it's crossroads? Is that a possibility? Sometimes people become more difficult when they want to break up but don't want to be the one to do it. (That's not right but it happens)
I observed that post menopause my wife was much less feminine, began to laugh like a logger after a six pack of beer, she drank more, put on more weight, and simply became very unattractive, both in looks and her mannerisms. I think some older women become aware of their less feminine behavior and work to correct it, but not my wife, and not many women I know who are now older.
I was walking once , and saw two guys in front of me, who i assumed to be friends. Both were in their mid 50s heavy build, short manicured hair.
As I caught upto them , I saw one of them was a female and they were both husband and wife. I felt so sorry for the man that had a wife like that
In the end, they all wind up looking like Shrek.
They become the alpha females and want to play lead.
Many want to play the field to feel younger.
I've also seen it so often@@scotttracy9333 that if the couple are close to the same age, by the time they're 50, the women looks a lot older.
Let me know when a trans gets menopause.
I thought women wanted equal treatment why would we have to be even more sensitive when they are dealing with something that men don't deal with? Oh I know, because we aren't the same
Men go through Andropause. We all age (hopefully), how we do it, is what matters. My mom died at 52, so I’m happy to still be here at 54. I’ll take the menopause… 😂 I am ahead of the game with going to an HRT specialist here in Los Angeles, before menopause starts.
Devorced my wife because of it
Sad but I completely understand
My circumstances exactly. During our divorce we worked with 2 female mediators that probably went through menopause. They seem surprised my ex was bitchy. I knew the menopause phase was here and let it play out.
Women. Can't live with them, can't live without them.😂
This is a great video. the menopausal stage is a rough one for us. if she isn't going to take hormones, get prepared for masculine energy from you lady. You will just have a hyper sensitive nagging roommate
HRT - "a cocktail that works", but it can increase the risk of ovary cancer, right?
good one. love that Jack Nic - scene quote. "I think of a man, then I take away reason and accountability"
What shirt brand is this? Been looking for a slim fit round neck but can't find any good ones.
NAILED IT, HAPPENED TO ME.
DHEA is not a hormone but it is a precursor for growth hormone and can help folks with falling asleep
mine is entering into what is termed "peri-menopause" which i am informed could last 10 years before the menopause "proper" kicks in. She seemed to take a degree of satisfaction in telling me that its out of her control and is almost a licence to become a total cu-anta-ha-ha for a considerable chunk of the future. goody gum drops.
The side effects of menopause on women are nothing to sneeze at. I can imagine it can be worse for some than others. It will introduce additional stress into the marriage and could easily be what tips a marriage that was on the edge of failure over the edge. The biggest problem is hot flashes which necessitate frequent adjustments to the thermostat/ car air conditioner which may not be in your favor. A solution for this is to be prepared to put an extra layer of clothing on at any time. Vaginal dryness can be a big issue, but is not too hard to solve. Sexual interest I would say goes up a little, however somewhat paradoxically sexual responsiveness goes down somewhat. Premenstrual mood swings gradually disappear, there is less irritation regarding period management, and there is no anxiety of an accidental pregnancy with a high chance of birth defects.
I'd like therapists to start saying: "How about you shut up and stop whining, you've got it great, learn to deal." I'd get some IP protection on it and collect a royalty then write a book that's one page long with the title the same as the advice inside.
In the middle of it, it sucks. Sex sucks, weight gain, general shittyness
This is a topic I know well ,the affect this can and does have on a relationship is not a small thing and should be talked about way more than it is , kudos to you for bringing it up for conversation.
Hormones and proper hormone balance makes you who you are at your core , so when you marry a woman at 20 something she will be very different 30 some years later , in fact you may ask yourself "who the he!! is this that I am living with" .... yes it can be horrificly that bad , on the other hand some women have mild symptoms and get through it without growing horns and being the devil incarnate . Anyway you slice it though hormone replacement therapy can get her feeling like her old "normal , the one you recognize , self again" . Men go through hormone changes as well but it is much, much milder on average , in its effect , than the severity of the female variety on women.
Many , many marriages go down the pipe at this time , because of the hormone imbalance of women during menopause.
Unfortunately as well at this time of hormonal change cancer raises it's horrifically ugly head . I have seen this happen many times during this time of change , for both men and women , but women a lot particularly ,uterine , cervical , breast , and ovarian cancer , it is a scary time and catches people off guard , until you start reading and seeing what's happening around you.
Working out , eating right , regularly . I mean really working out hard training to muscular failure , to keep and build muscle mass, and steady state sweating it all out cardio , goes a long , long way to staying youthful and keeping your hormones balanced. Grocery shop off the back walls of the grocery, (read whole foods no additives) store not the internal isles where all the processed garbage is.
Women and accountability and logic and reason , well , I've had to struggle with that one as all men that are in an LTR have to do , it is just a fact that women in menopause , continue to have this problem only amped up like ..... this fact about woman only , "on steroids" ...if you get what I mean.
Cheers , Wild Bill , Free , and Built Jeep overlanding the far northern regions of Canada , enjoying the mountains , forests , rivers and lakes of remote Canada.
My ex wife was 35 when we divorced and was showing several signs of peri-menopause. I’m on TRT and I urged her many times to go to the doctor and have her hormones tested. She refused and ended filing for divorce. I’m ripped, muscular and thriving financially and now she is working 2 jobs just to afford the shit hole of a place she lives in. She also gained 15 pounds of fat in less than 6 months of leaving me.
Sounds like she has freedom now
@@Leda1488SS she just can’t get out of her own way. It’s sad really.
Don't have sympathy for the arrogant foolish.
@@testymann5045 I get ya and I while I don’t feel sorry for her, I don’t exactly rejoice in her misery either. I’m glad she’s not my problem anymore.
Just purchased the audio book TUA to get to know your entire point if view. 👍
I would bank that these marriages likely had cracks to begin with. My parents have been married 50 years. My mom had a terrible experience with menopause. She did all she could to manage the symptoms and balance hormones. They had a lot of challenges in their decades together. Now, dad is the one having issues with performance and various hornone issues. They still have sex a few times a month and are around age 70. Its sacrifical for each spouse to make it through those difficulties. As their adult child, the one thing I always observed and observe in this new challenge they have, is that they remained AFFECTIONATE towards one another. Theres still hugs, kisses and sitting together on the couch holding hands. They try to maintain the physical closeness which is a good practice as they also had to make it through other health challenges like back or hernia surgeries, next one is having a TKR so obviously, the person going through the health issue isn't going to feel up to sex for at least a few weeks. Dad had the back and hernia surgery in his 60s. Then mom had a back surgery. This is real life things that occur when you commit to spending your life with one person. It is sacrificial and not for everyone.
Why do you know how often your parents boink?
@@somethinderpsteriousbecause we're an Italian family and communicate. Health topics are discussed not in detail but my family talks about things generally enough. They are seniors, so my brother and I also are informed of what medications they are on in case of an emergency.
Yes because they’re old school
Worked through things
Women now are lazy quitters looking for someone or something to blame
You know WAY too much about your parents’ sex life. Do they REALLY need to tell you about the number of times they’re having sex?
@@user-ov9eu4gx3z 😂
Don't go through menopause with a woman if you can help it. Remember it is NEVER their responsibility and everything will be your fault.
If it’s not working, it’s not working. No need to treat men with disrespect just because you can. After all women have the upper hand in divorce, to create a working slave without maintenance by using the court system. Guys do your research on exit strategy. Understand the law. Dispose of liability assets. Cash out assets for their value. Get the go bag ready. Don’t be tied to a job that will take your earnings. In fact be unemployed for more than a year on the quiet. When it’s time to leave, leave. Going to court is asking for permission. Just go. Be in another country and enjoy the rest of your life. Do your research, but quietly, and don’t tell anyone. Sorry your life turned out this way without a prenup.
They're NEVER at fault, it's ALWAYS someone or something else
It's called not taking accountability.
A prenuptial agreement before marriage
The end of my marriage almost perfectly coincided with her reaching the average age of menopause, however the subject was never discussed. I knew better than to bring it up as it would almost certainly have triggered the raging feminist inside her. I was already firefighting multiple issues within the failing marriage, most of which were routed in a toxic feminist believe system to which she subscribed. From what I have seen in other relationships including my own parents, menopause will only amplify a feminist ideology, which in turn absolves them from any obligation to mitigate the effects...
My ex girlfriend hit the menopause shortly after I moved in with her
When I used to come home from work I didn’t know who I was going to get Jekyll or Hyde but my God she was impossible and so hot and cold
In the end I pulled out
Not worth the hassle
They talk on programs about poor women going through it but no word of the poor man who goes through it as well
Like everything to do with women it’s complete double standards 😉
End of the day, men pay the price for women’s actions.
Refused to take the pills because said would cause cancer. Divorce in motion two years after hysterectomy.
It's a shame that most married men are living quite lives of desperation.
Women put men on pause
I've heard that in younger women the hormone oxytocin is frequently prevailing. That's the hormone for emotional bonding. Probably the type of women who put committed relationship whatsoever above anything else are very much under the influence of this hormone.
In menopause it is said that a woman's oxytocin level decreases and her testosterone level becomes more influential. As a result of it she will get less interested in emotional bonds and more interested in sex as such.
Parallely a man's testosteron level decreases rendering his sex drive weaker and making him more prone to bonding.
So, basically older women get the attitude of younger guys as older guys get the attitude of younger woman, the two of them not really being compatible in any period of life.
Maybe that contributes too to all the frictions we witness between men and women.
Women rarely take any blame or responsibility. It’s always someone else’s fault.
Based on stats compiled from US correctional data, only 6% of females charged with a serious crime plead guilty.
I have a question look at this paragraph from a movie .Can we calculated and make such move in pickup? What u call this skill.expecting ur reply
hey Lisa her name's not Lisa I know I know but if every time I say hey Lisa that eventually she'll come up to me and she'll be like you know my name's not Lisa it's Jennifer whatever and I'll do a big apology and I'll say I thought you were the Lisa who was mad at me for not calling and then from then on Jennifer or whatever her name is we'll think that I dated a girl who looked just like her who I rejected she'll develop this unconscious need to win my approval and from then on it.
You nailed that quote! That was the only good part of that movie, too. "As Good As It Gets" when Jack Nicholson said that.
That menopause can make a woman. Ornuary....😢
My wife got fat. It's not my fault.
Own up. Must be yr fault.
@terrybaikie2181 of course, what was I thinking... always the man's fault
Men should divorce JUST BEFORE their women begin to pause on them...save lotta money
This menopause stuff is just an excuse. I grew up in a 3rd world country and women didn't go crazy from menopause. This is just an excuse
So I’m their logic if menopause is their reasoning they r giving us more reason to not marry them since their expiration date is short. What kind of deal is that? Men have to deal with a sexless relationship for the rest of our lives after a short duration of lovemaking? Hell no
HRT is working for my wife. Woman should absolutely get HRT.
I leave with my ex because om trying to finfy own place. She recently told me she has menopause and has no urge for sex. She's aslso becomes so evil i think she a narcissist at the same time. I have feelings for her but at the same time im not happy i caught her social media and talking to different guys. I dont need that but its a big learning experience.
as a 70 year old man I am an expert in the womanosphere with a particular expertise in menopausal and post-menopausal women. one day you will get there also young man. LOL
Are you talking about male menopause or that we will get to live with a woman going through female menopause?
My parents have been married 50 years and agree from my observation of them. My mom went through menopause around age 40. She was on creams etc and did what she could. Now, dad is having issues and he's moody, performance issues. So, he's gone to the doctor for help. Can't imagine if either ended all of those years together over it.
Doode! 🎯 timely for me!
Can older women take hormones (Female hormones) to feel better?
Hey
Menopause IS a complete sexual disaster!
Fortunately now they realize that HRT actually improves your health outcomes, unlike thinking the opposite when my wife of 36 years went through it.
Unfortunately if you wait too long for HRT it’s sorta too late, negative health outcomes.
This is super serious and yes I’ve considered divorce. Fortunately my wife is trying, using estrogen cream in her vagina and testosterone cream on her inner thighs. We don’t have sex often enough but I’m madly in love with her and we have a wonderful family, friends, and life together.
Even so
If sex goes to zero I’m out
Avoid dipping your wick in estrogen cream.
I can't imagine how stressed she is trying creams and all she can do to manage it. Would you expect her to leave if you had the same problem in reverse, no desire or ability to perform or would you expect her to give you grace if the sex ran dry in an otherwise happy marriage? My parents have been married 50 years and dad rode out some tough times with mom. Now, mom is riding out tough times with him. In both cases, they took meds, creams, went to doctor appts.
Too true!✅🙏🌞🥵
Pay attention gentleman, it's worth the price. Keep your head on a swivel. Be prepared, not paranoid.
Its NOT easy to balance hormone treatment. It took my DR 5yrs to get them correct. Also HRT is not cheap, so women can't afford them.
strong & independent and don’t need no mans
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Nothing a women's fault 10/10 times 😂
Once again, women are protected and men are rejected. Another way of escaping accountability.
Try monopause treatment
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Women in SE Asia don't experience menopausal symptoms as intensely as western women.
true. the western/american propaganda conditioning and programming tells them they have few range to act however they want and basically abuse the man.
The fact that the question of equality between the sexes is raised so often today is a strong indication that such equality is a myth.
Keto diet almost cures symptoms of menopause.
You're so right dude men should just marry other men that sounds like a solution for y'all
Damn, they will do, and use anything to dodge accountability.