i feel like i witnessed a man getting trapped in an abusive relationship forever...i get it's tv but showing that hands on abuse and it being called drama is wild
Imagine if a man did that, you know they'd kick him off get her counseling, make a huge speech about why it's wrong. When people act like this I always wonder how terrible they are when the cameras are off.
From the hitting to the bomb of pregnancy when SHE signed them up for the show is legitimately concerning. They’re going to need continued check-ins for their wellness. Anytime someone hits out of anger, I think deserves immediate separation and therapy sessions
you could SO tell the vibe of the room after that announcement - all these slightly concerned looking fake smiles and awkward “aww yay congrats!”…. EVERYONE was thinking the same thing. that woman has some serious shit to work on, and DEFINITELY not while in a relationship
Couldn't agree more. I would never put my hands on my husband. It's so unhinged to even consider doing so. And I truly hope that she isn't really pregnant and they only did that for the show. Bringing an innocent child into this dumpster fire of a relationship actually makes me see red.
Honestly I'm not one to knock a woman down but Lisa is an awful partner full stop. I'm convinced she baby trapped him. She was also so disrespectful towards Riah, who did nothing to her
For all the commenters who are giving Lisa a pass for assault, y'all need to get it together. We would never give a pass to the men, so why are we giving it to the women? I don't care if she's pregnant with triplets. She needs to keep her hands to herself. She should have been immediately booted off the show after that stunt. It drives me crazy to see society be so hypocritical when women engage in this behavior. My prayer is that she gains some emotional control and get some help before she unleashes that aggression on her kid. Keep your hands to yourself! PERIOD!!!
@@countessofmontecristo3849 They obviously aren't though because I see 2 comments saying "well she's pregnant and her hormones are crazy" and do you actually believe if the roles were reversed it would be treated the same way? just passed off for laughs or drama? come on, man.
their fight in the parking lot had me so anxious!!! Lisa talking about Ryah that way got me really confused.. "that hooters bitch" like Ryah didn't even do anything wrong??? And also Lisa you signed up for this process knowing how it works???
That parking lot tantrum showed nothing but Lisa’s insecurity. She knew no man in that crowd wanted her. On the other hand her man could easily find a woman. She was extra mad that there was a younger and prettier black woman who could attract any man. Lisa knew and she couldn’t stand it. She was going to lose her man if she stayed.
That parking lot tantrum exposed the truth that many women today are in denial of. Which is the fact that your college degree and/or "Boss babe" attitude/work does not make you more attractive than the other beautiful attractive woman who doesn't possess those same traits. Lisa saying "what can you learn from her", "how does she challenge you"..That's the problem right there, she foolishly believes a man seeks a woman to teach him and challenge him LMAO..it's quite humorous that a grown woman thinks like that.
@@tye1939lol you can discuss this specific situation without generalizing. Women don’t get degrees and become bosses to be more attractive than women who don’t… they be busy. This specific person we’re talking about has issues that has nothing to do with women getting degrees. If you don’t want a woman who has her own shit going on and you don’t want a relationship where you can learn from each other and challenge each other to do better, that’s you. But plenty of men are looking for that. And there’s nothing wrong with that. People just need to find people that are looking for the same thing instead of forcing people to live up or down to their expectations regardless of what the person actually wants.
The same men telling women their degrees and career don’t mean sh!t are the same men ready to call women who don’t have those things gold diggers. Buddy.
@@tye1939You clearly got lost on your way to a red pill circle jerk with this utterly irrelevant comment. This is reality TV, it's not that deep and neither is this take
Did he wear a condom? Did he also pull out? Did he make sure she was on birth control like the pill, IUD, etc? It takes two. And who suffers? The child.
If you're with someone, this show makes your issues look small in comparison. If you're single, it helps you realize how lucky you are! Some of these people shouldn't even be friends, let alone married!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. Especially the Australian and UK ones. The US one isn’t that great. But you’ll love the rest and we’ll love your edits even more. I also feel like The Bachelor is going to die soon and as a creator you need to start thinking about how you’ll pivot and still make a good living.
@@AspenCharmKitchen I don't get why it's like 30+ episodes a season and it is a bit disjointed when they add couples randomly and then some leave in the middle of it, but Fantake would be great organizing it all so you can follow along.
Roxanne talks about wanting someone to challenge her but she actually doesnt. Alex is a red flag but hes right about her, and antonio needs to have some self respect
I literally said this morning when The Ultimatum was trending that I was going to wait for Bachelor Fantake to do a video then watch!! THANK YOU FOR ANSWERING THE CALL TO DRAMA!!!
She def doesn't because he's a loser. The dude probably is hung like a horse and that's the only reason she is with him, guarantee it. He can please her sexually in ways other men can't , that's why she keeps going back to that loser.
Even if he was a puppet, she makes a point to drag his ass to strangers even. I’m not judging if they love each other or not, but I agreed with Alex on Roxanne’s assessment.
And James is super broken. I feel bad for Ryann- she’s never known any other guy- i wish she wasn’t in the relationship with James- he’s going to give her heartache in the future.
Everyone is going in about Lisa (rightfully) but can we talk about how much of an active listener Kat is?! OMG! She has a super power. She read right through the bs. Also, Antonio complained about Kat not opening up but everytime she did he made it about him so...
Yeah, I feel bad for Kat bc she seems really cool & put together. But she’s not very valued in her relationship and got bad luck with her new parter too :/
Ehh, when Roxanne was warning her about Alex and how he lies a lot, she acted like she agreed. But then when Antonio asked Kat what Roxanne said, she told him that she was complaining about dumb stuff, like how she doesn’t hold the door open for her, which is totally not the point of what was discussed. I looked at her a little differently after that, but she’s still admirable in alot of ways.
@@bell4898 I think she agreed that he tells white lies and was giving her space to express herself/her opinion. Maybe too much and we've learned that is a personality trait of hers so I have grace for her in that regard. In my opinion, in the grand scheme lying or being unsure if you open doors is dumb. She lied to her parents too then because his answer was "yeah I think so" and she said "not all the time". I find Roxanne emotionally manipulative and it was very interesting seeing them interact. Roxanne asked Kat a question about Alex not staying awake when she already knew the answer. I think the point of that conversation was to knock Alex down a peg and it failed miserably. She talks crap about everyone and that's so annoying but I do think it helped Kat to be more firm.
@@jessadaggs5141 That’s like the tip of the iceberg of what she discussed with Kat.. telling white lies all the time is a big deal! Wym? It’s a huge deal actually because it means you lie with ease and can lie easily about bigger things. You can never trust someone who puts on a mask all the time. I disagree because I have a different opinion on their characters. Roxanne is much more realistic and tells the truth like it is. But we’ve witnessed Alex literally lying to Roxanne like when she asked him what happened that night him and Antonio got into it. 1 white lie compared to many white lies constantly and also never showing your true self ( these are the things she was warning Kat about) is a concerning thing. Add to the fact that Roxanne actually really liked Alex for a good while, what would make her suddenly despise him if he was such a great person? Also he called her an unrespectable woman and never apologized even after Roxanne did. In fact, he said it was warranted! I see SO many red flags in him. Also, in her case asking Kat that question while assuming the answer wasn’t manipulation, it was a tactic used to start a conversation she wanted to have. It’s like asking someone if they’re okay, knowing they’re not, so you can try to make them feel better.
He’s emotionally immature, guarded, and clearly has PTSD. He needs intense therapy and to take full responsibility for his life. He’s not yet a man. There were so many microexpression Ryann had that were like “yea right🙄” as if she doesn’t believe him because I’m sure she heard it all before in the past 7.5 years. He blames everything on his upbringing which means he hasn’t really examined his childhood traumas.
@@emac1286I don’t think his problem is the upbringing I feel he is just using that as an excuse.he doesn’t want to let her go but at the same time want to be wild .u can’t be with someone 7yrs nd not being able to open up .she will regret marrying him.
She would have to show me that positive pregnancy results to get me off that show if I was Brian because that woman needs anger management and a therapist
I can tell you one thing - after being married for 17 years - going on this show is the only RED FLAG you need that you aren't with your person. The end! =P
Best comment! I thought the same to myself, if your relationship needs this show there's already no hope. Why can't they try therapy instead? Unless it's attention they want.
Ill be honest, I think the people that really should leave their partners is Ryann and Trey. I think Riah isn't a bad person, but she isn't what Trey is looking for, nor is Trey what Riah is looking for. That is totally fine, I think they are just together because they genuinely have deep feelings for one another, but also that fear of "What is life like without this person?" I think Ryann's partner (cannot remember his name for the life of me), has so many issues that he never worked on. How do you see affection and sex as the same thing? That is a very messed up view, and I believe he has this due to never actually working on his issues. Also "I cheated on Ryann before", was just glossed over so fast. Ryann seemed far more comfortable around others, than her partner.
Felt the same way about that guy. Can’t remember his name either. He kept crying how much of a victim he is was annoying. Like he’s sooo special that he has mommy and daddy issues and he has to bring it up to romantic partners. 🤮 I went on a date with guy who told me some story about his mom passing away just to get laid that night. 😂😂 Some men are pathetic.
I was annoyed that that cheating thing was brought up, especially in that context, and never brought up again. Like that was something Ryann should’ve remembered and thought about before just going back to what was comfortable under the guise of giving someone another chance.
Trey deserves better he needs to work on his self esteem and confidence; his gurl is Manipulative honestly but stringing him alone for her convenience.
If it was the other way around and the man hit the woman in the face like that and yelled at her like this, everyone would be going nuts and immediately report it or something. Just because it's a woman doesn't mean she's not abusive with her man. That poor Bryan. Seriously they need some couples therapy and individual therapy too.
Roxanne is a huge narcissist and very selfish. Doubt she’s a good partner for anyone except herself. Antonio should run out of this apartment- and never come back
Roxanne's life honestly makes me sad. She talks nonstop about how much she works, how she wakes up at 5 am and is working until midnight or whatever times she said, but basically all waking hours. She sees that as a huge accomplishment and maybe it does make her happy but to me, that just sounds like a sad way to live cause you're never doing anything but working and the people in your life just have to accept it.
So many people on this show need therapy. New show : They sit behind a curtain and talk to different therapist. At the end of the show ( multiple sessions and some challenges )they pick one that helped them the most and stay in therapy.
Perfect, another season of "these people should not get married at all, please go into therapy and do some soul-searching"! And I'm right again, as far as I watched, none of them should get married, not to each other, not to other people, until they worked through their personal issues.
I don’t think she is manipulative.they both deserve each-other he can’t say I don’t wanna be with u point blank he wants to be around until he finds something better nd she is delusional and abusive thinking this guy will stay with her forever .
Lol shes mad because she brought her man there looking for fame and didnt think anyone would be better than her and her man wouldn't be able to pull anyone.
Roxanne says she thinks she puts others first?????!? WTF Antonio is a nice guy- too nice for her. She’s a poster child for a person who can’t see how others see her- she’s unbelievable
Lisa shot herself in the foot. Now she really won't know if Brian loves her for her or "settled" due to the pregnancy. She really didn't win. He clearly would have chosen to explore things with Riah. Riah is another basket case. Clearly have a great man that loves her but so use to toxicity can't open up to experience real love. She's also a hypocrit. She would have jumped at the chance to be with Brian had he stayed on the show. Antonio is a wimp and in denial. Alex did not lie about him. Roxanne is a hypocrite. She talked about Alex and got mad for Alex talking about her. She and Antonio definitely made for each other. I love Kat, Ryann, Trey and even Brian. The others need therapy..just my opinion lol
One thing about Roxanne I found quite hypocrite is the she boasts about being this strong, independent, financially stable woman, but then pressures Antonio into being the provider. Like, why? If she's so well off and confident why can't she be the breadwinner of the couple and he can have a normal job and support her in other ways? Don't know if it's an american thing (I'm from europe) but I find quite sexist that all the men in the show were always supposed to be the "provider". Unless Roxanne is just using that as an excuse cause sheìs not sure about Antonio.
I was with you 1000% until you said you liked Brian 😂 Brian is definitely a problem too, all he is doing is leading Lisa on, I am sure he’d get married tomorrow if he found the one, it’s not Lisa and he knows it. Annnd the way he was talking and flirting with Riah, and how she was flirting back had me fummmmmming. Brian and Riah, don’t gaf about their partners, and scream cheater vibes. Riah is just upset that Brian left early, so she wants to guilt trip Trey.
To quote Kennie JD: “I take my Ls in private” 😂😂 these people aren’t just broadcasting their L’s- they have that shit on streaming and it’s MESSY AND I LOVE IT
Lisa thought that she was going to win this one, once she saw that her man was actually doing well in this, she panicked and hit him with the Im pregnant card.
Episode 7 was an eye opener for me- Riah staying with a guy who doesn’t get her 💦or make her orgasm- that’s a massive red flag- I think she’s young and hasn’t had enough experience to see it for what it is- she isn’t turned on by Trey. Trey is a great guy and there’s plenty of women out there who would love a nice guy like him. They should split up. Just my opinion
@@Pannadol I didn’t think of that but now that you mention it….. trey is a good looking guy- how could she not get turned on even a bit- she’s 24-that’s a person’s prime horny years
In my opinion they should have definitely split. However, I don't think anyone would please Riah. Sis said she likes having sex with the lights off.. She also said that she doesn't like her partner to look at her during sex! Riah is the problem! Not Trey
@@TheIntrospectiveReactorI don’t think that makes her a problem though. She just has odd sexual preferences and needs to find someone compatible with that.
Antonio didn't you hear this Roxanne person tell her cat " I love you" ? And she can't tell you because it's not her language of love? I don't like the guy she was paired up with however, he had it right about that chic
As someone who’s been in a relationship for almost 5 years with no rush to get married, seeing someone say almost 2 years without marriage is FAR TOO LONG is just funny
Same me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 years and the second year we were together I wasn’t even thinking about marriage, how tf are you thinking about marriage that soon in the relationship 🤣
I doesn’t take that long to know if you want to marry someone. I don’t think you should waste time with someone you don’t see a future with. And some ppl are ready to start a family. 5yrs is a lot of wasted time
@@angelmushahffor me personally it’s not about not knowing we want to get married. We know we’ll get married but neither of us needs it to confirm our commitment to each other and would rather buy a house first.
Aline of candles to the bedroom and lingerie on the bed is more of a gift to him I can't wear it out and show it of im.not 3 so I don't need a teddy bear, no thanks he gave no thought to her on valentines day
can trey and ryann plsss work out ??! or at the VERY least break up from their original partners. they genuinely were so cute together every time they came on screen
Not sure about Trey. He gave me "nice guy" feelings. He said he loves Riah but then was very ready to change his mind the moment he thought he had a chance with a new hotter chick. He went back to Riah only because Ryann rejected him and said she wasn't interested in something more. But who knows, maybe Trey and Ryann will try to date after the show (from the preview in ep 8 it seems both of them will end they relationship).
@@theCatsitter878 did he change his mind for a hotel chick tho? Yes, he said Ryann was beautiful, but he spoke more about having someone he actually had things in common with. I think he was alot more comfortable around Ryann and ngl. I would to if I was previously the giver in my relationship and my partner is indecisive
Lisa trapped this man to the tea. She clearly told him after the incident because she wanted to leave the show to save her relationship. Idk why she got on in the first place if she knew what it was about and got jealous from the first girl he spoke to. She is immature and insecure. I hope he does better.
I would not be surprised if she wasn’t pregnant at the time she told Brian that she was. More likely that she told him she was pregnant and then purposely got pregnant by him ASAP. After two years of safe s*x, how do you get pregnant at SUCH a convenient time for you to leave the show? It just not adding up😂
Mistakes do happen but I don’t think she could have made that up not knowing if she could get pregnant that fast or not .just coz u had un protected sex doesn’t grant pregnancy .😊
If I did something romantic for my girl on Valentine’s Day & she said “it’s not like the tik tok videos “ I’d be gone & she’d be single . This is the mindset of a child . Some people are not built to be in a relationship or married . Social media has given some people ridiculous expectations
Nah, sounds like what he did was just laying out lingerie so she could perform for him. That’s not romance and I don’t blame her for being unimpressed by a man who thinks it is.
@@lunarsugarMy friends and I thought the same thing! Especially when Riah was talking to her sister about how they struggle getting her to orgasm. A man laying out lingerie when he can’t make you climax doesn’t sound romantic, it sounds like work lmao
@jessicawilliams3849 I am at the beginning of the season, and Riah said from the beginning that it was an emotional connection lacking. I think her partner come off sweet and appear romantic but lack a deep effect .
Why are there people in the comments saying Riah is for the streets for wanting to get with Brian when the whole point of the show is to break up with your current partner and pursue someone else for a trial period? Y'all just as clueless as Lisa who stupidly got upset at seeing her boyfriend getting close with another woman when she was the one who brought him on the show, knowing what would happen.
As they dont have an odd number of couples it ended uo being a stright couples swap. I have to say I love that they found a dating format where lgbt is spicier, as so many more couple options and hugh chances of compatability
Lisa doesn't need to be on a show she needs psychotherapy, her emotions are too unpredictable. Leaving the show was the best decision, but someone please check on Brian.
Ohh I gotta watch this. I can't believe Nick is still with Vanessa. I remember when him & Jessica Simpson were together over a decade ago. They had their own reality show together & then he started dating Vanessa. I've always wondered if they were still together.
Outside of putting her hands on him, I get it. She went zero to hundred fast most likely because they had been intimate before and he was exploring other options. And then she’s pregnant. She clearly needs to work on handling her emotions, even it they are valid. The feeling of being used, discarded etc for the next person isn’t good, even if she signed up for the show, you think you can handle something and then boom clearly you can’t. But I give that guy mad respect. The patience. The fact he didn’t even think or move in the direction to escalate that hit. That takes a massive amount of self control.
Didn't she invite him on the show though? Unless I misunderstood it, she's actually more awful for behaving this way. Is he supposed to NOT explore his options on this show? I'm genuinely confused why you're giving her a pass for this awful behavior.
I am curious if it was just editing at the dinner when it looked like they were staring at eachother (Riah and Brian). Ngl, it made me uncomfortable watching that infront of everyone, but again, it was more than likely editting
Thank you fantake, you’ve done such a brilliant recap video that I don’t need to spend hours watching this dross. Violent ranting and pushing her boyfriend in the face. Imagine if he’d done that to her. Sad thing is the narcissistic behaviour and utterly mad people on this show. Your video was very entertaining without me having to waste hours watching these spoilt egotists.
Lisa & Brian seem like a toxic couple. Could some baby trapping have happened here? Either she baby trapped him, faked a pregnancy to get him to leave the show with her. Or he baby trapped her to get her tied to him regardless of if he proposes. It's all very iffy. Whatever the case, if one of them deliberately baby trapped the other and came to the show after _knowing_ she may be pregnant, there's an added element of toxicity because he or she was okay with Lisa taking shots and getting drunk.
Spoilers: 1 episode left and imo Trey and Ryann are the only ones ready for a marriage at this point. Kat is too giving and her boyfriend is a psychopath. Roxanne doesnt give way and her botfriend is a mess. Riah doesnt seem invested. James is just plain boring and depressing to be with, at least make an effort. Great show! Very entertaining and useful to couples out there.
Lisa got some nerve being upset with Riah at the reunion. She talking bout Riah was after her man, 😮ummmm you signed up for this show, you can not be serious. Brian was assaulted on national television and people are making excuses for her actions.
So Brian's trapped. Boys let this be a lesson, wear a raincoat in the shower! If you aren't ready for marriage put a goalie in the post, don't put yourself into the position to be raising a child you didn't intend to spend the rest of your life with. Raising a child is difficult enough, don't do it with a person who isn't on the same page.
Anyone else feel like ryyan and James aren’t having sex? Also James talked about foreplay for so lon. Then stopped giving riah any affection when she wouldn’t sleep with him.
Does anyone know the name of the song that was on episode 3 when it was going off it sounds like you're the only one I need I'm not sure but I want to download it but don't know the name of the song
A dramatic meltdown and pregnancy all by episode 2 was not on my bingo card for this season.
😂
We didn't see this coming😂.
PLEASE im begging you notice the fact that they had the reunion ONE YEAR after the show ended and her baby is only 7 weeks old by then. PLEASE
i feel like i witnessed a man getting trapped in an abusive relationship forever...i get it's tv but showing that hands on abuse and it being called drama is wild
Imagine if a man did that, you know they'd kick him off get her counseling, make a huge speech about why it's wrong. When people act like this I always wonder how terrible they are when the cameras are off.
@@Aaron-kj8dvExactly. 🎯
I WAS surprised she wasn't kicked off the show.. Disgusting. I hope he never married her, he deserve better
Basically....
@@jamdum2290she's not the first that's been abusive.
From the hitting to the bomb of pregnancy when SHE signed them up for the show is legitimately concerning. They’re going to need continued check-ins for their wellness. Anytime someone hits out of anger, I think deserves immediate separation and therapy sessions
you could SO tell the vibe of the room after that announcement - all these slightly concerned looking fake smiles and awkward “aww yay congrats!”…. EVERYONE was thinking the same thing. that woman has some serious shit to work on, and DEFINITELY not while in a relationship
Entrapment!!! I mean if they were going through this you would think they would be on birth control. This actually p’d me off!!
Couldn't agree more. I would never put my hands on my husband. It's so unhinged to even consider doing so. And I truly hope that she isn't really pregnant and they only did that for the show. Bringing an innocent child into this dumpster fire of a relationship actually makes me see red.
Girl, you clearly never experienced pregnancy hormones.
Exactly! Also, if she will do that on live TV, imagine what she would do behind closed doors.
Lisa is ABUSIVE. Period. Definitely feel bad for the guy and their future child/children........
This why he doesn’t want to married her
Typical black woman
Brian was obviously petrified when he got the news, he was smiling apparently, but his eyes were not
Honestly I'm not one to knock a woman down but Lisa is an awful partner full stop. I'm convinced she baby trapped him. She was also so disrespectful towards Riah, who did nothing to her
Antonio not wanting to hear the truth that he was being disrespected behind his back is alarming. I wonder what he will do watching it back
Not just behind his back, but also in his face. He’s in denial and not reading between the lines that Roxanne does not respect him.
The answer is nothing. that reunion was something. If he still stays with her after that there’s no hope
He'll think the Netflix producers and editors are trying to take Roxanne from him. Shame on them!
For all the commenters who are giving Lisa a pass for assault, y'all need to get it together. We would never give a pass to the men, so why are we giving it to the women? I don't care if she's pregnant with triplets. She needs to keep her hands to herself. She should have been immediately booted off the show after that stunt. It drives me crazy to see society be so hypocritical when women engage in this behavior. My prayer is that she gains some emotional control and get some help before she unleashes that aggression on her kid. Keep your hands to yourself! PERIOD!!!
Amen!
Yes! Putting your hands on someone like that is NEVER acceptable.
I hope no one gave it a pass, someone who can hit someone that easily with witnesses and cameras has hit behind closed doors and will do so again.
@@countessofmontecristo3849 They obviously aren't though because I see 2 comments saying "well she's pregnant and her hormones are crazy" and do you actually believe if the roles were reversed it would be treated the same way? just passed off for laughs or drama? come on, man.
once you are hit - pushed in the face - that is the moment to say good-bye and go get more self respect in order to attract a respectful person.
their fight in the parking lot had me so anxious!!! Lisa talking about Ryah that way got me really confused.. "that hooters bitch" like Ryah didn't even do anything wrong??? And also Lisa you signed up for this process knowing how it works???
That parking lot tantrum showed nothing but Lisa’s insecurity. She knew no man in that crowd wanted her. On the other hand her man could easily find a woman. She was extra mad that there was a younger and prettier black woman who could attract any man. Lisa knew and she couldn’t stand it. She was going to lose her man if she stayed.
That parking lot tantrum exposed the truth that many women today are in denial of. Which is the fact that your college degree and/or "Boss babe" attitude/work does not make you more attractive than the other beautiful attractive woman who doesn't possess those same traits. Lisa saying "what can you learn from her", "how does she challenge you"..That's the problem right there, she foolishly believes a man seeks a woman to teach him and challenge him LMAO..it's quite humorous that a grown woman thinks like that.
@@tye1939lol you can discuss this specific situation without generalizing. Women don’t get degrees and become bosses to be more attractive than women who don’t… they be busy. This specific person we’re talking about has issues that has nothing to do with women getting degrees. If you don’t want a woman who has her own shit going on and you don’t want a relationship where you can learn from each other and challenge each other to do better, that’s you. But plenty of men are looking for that. And there’s nothing wrong with that. People just need to find people that are looking for the same thing instead of forcing people to live up or down to their expectations regardless of what the person actually wants.
The same men telling women their degrees and career don’t mean sh!t are the same men ready to call women who don’t have those things gold diggers. Buddy.
@@tye1939You clearly got lost on your way to a red pill circle jerk with this utterly irrelevant comment. This is reality TV, it's not that deep and neither is this take
" I just love how she's careless. I mean selfless"😂💀
My thoughts after binging this entire season so far: everyone needs to breakup, grow up and go to therapy.
Haha of course. I wonder wether some people pretend to be dating for insta followers. Would be funny
Amen to that
Lisa’s behavior is DISGUSTING and DISTURBING. And her getting pregnant was her last ditch effort to trap that man…. I feel so bad for him 😪
It is NEVER okay to hit your partner.
if she's even pregnant
@@andyroo9381I’m old and I’m surprised she was nit pulled up in that, in my line of work it would be seen as assault
Did he wear a condom? Did he also pull out? Did he make sure she was on birth control like the pill, IUD, etc? It takes two. And who suffers? The child.
The same way I felt, she is using the pregnancy to hold the man down which is annoying 😒
She lost me when she started trash talking riiah and boosting up Roxanne, girl you don’t know either one of them! Wtf?? 🤣🤣🤣
😂she is the white version of her. She would just help her gaslight the dude
I really wanted to see Brian, and rhia end up in a trial marriage.
Me too!!!!
Why? So they can both cheat? Miserable
If you're with someone, this show makes your issues look small in comparison. If you're single, it helps you realize how lucky you are!
Some of these people shouldn't even be friends, let alone married!
Please start reviewing married at first sight. You'll love the messiness and drama. It's the perfect show for this channel.
Yes, yes, yes!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. Especially the Australian and UK ones. The US one isn’t that great. But you’ll love the rest and we’ll love your edits even more. I also feel like The Bachelor is going to die soon and as a creator you need to start thinking about how you’ll pivot and still make a good living.
It’s in my city this season! I like MASF…it can be a bit too long but there’s usually great content!
@@AnastaciaM I agree, I hate the US one but loooove the Australian one.
@@AspenCharmKitchen I don't get why it's like 30+ episodes a season and it is a bit disjointed when they add couples randomly and then some leave in the middle of it, but Fantake would be great organizing it all so you can follow along.
Roxanne talks about wanting someone to challenge her but she actually doesnt. Alex is a red flag but hes right about her, and antonio needs to have some self respect
i do kinda love how Roxanne and Alex are SO similar that they were immediately able to clock each other’s BS lmaooo😭
I literally said this morning when The Ultimatum was trending that I was going to wait for Bachelor Fantake to do a video then watch!! THANK YOU FOR ANSWERING THE CALL TO DRAMA!!!
Roxanne definitely does not respect Antonio as a man.
And he lacks so much in himself that he doesn't see her flaws (despite her LOVING to tell everyone his)
She def doesn't because he's a loser. The dude probably is hung like a horse and that's the only reason she is with him, guarantee it. He can please her sexually in ways other men can't , that's why she keeps going back to that loser.
Even if he was a puppet, she makes a point to drag his ass to strangers even. I’m not judging if they love each other or not, but I agreed with Alex on Roxanne’s assessment.
I didn’t understand the fighting because Roxanne clearly doesn’t respect Antonio. Why is that up for debate 😂
And James is super broken. I feel bad for Ryann- she’s never known any other guy- i wish she wasn’t in the relationship with James- he’s going to give her heartache in the future.
I was thinking the same. She’d KILL it on any other dating show! She’s so sweet.
I was so confused on how they dated for 7 years and she never knew the trauma he went through. Like how did he hide that for so long
Everyone is going in about Lisa (rightfully) but can we talk about how much of an active listener Kat is?! OMG! She has a super power. She read right through the bs.
Also, Antonio complained about Kat not opening up but everytime she did he made it about him so...
Yeah, I feel bad for Kat bc she seems really cool & put together. But she’s not very valued in her relationship and got bad luck with her new parter too :/
Ehh, when Roxanne was warning her about Alex and how he lies a lot, she acted like she agreed. But then when Antonio asked Kat what Roxanne said, she told him that she was complaining about dumb stuff, like how she doesn’t hold the door open for her, which is totally not the point of what was discussed. I looked at her a little differently after that, but she’s still admirable in alot of ways.
@@bell4898 I think she agreed that he tells white lies and was giving her space to express herself/her opinion. Maybe too much and we've learned that is a personality trait of hers so I have grace for her in that regard. In my opinion, in the grand scheme lying or being unsure if you open doors is dumb. She lied to her parents too then because his answer was "yeah I think so" and she said "not all the time". I find Roxanne emotionally manipulative and it was very interesting seeing them interact. Roxanne asked Kat a question about Alex not staying awake when she already knew the answer. I think the point of that conversation was to knock Alex down a peg and it failed miserably. She talks crap about everyone and that's so annoying but I do think it helped Kat to be more firm.
@@jessadaggs5141 That’s like the tip of the iceberg of what she discussed with Kat.. telling white lies all the time is a big deal! Wym? It’s a huge deal actually because it means you lie with ease and can lie easily about bigger things. You can never trust someone who puts on a mask all the time. I disagree because I have a different opinion on their characters. Roxanne is much more realistic and tells the truth like it is. But we’ve witnessed Alex literally lying to Roxanne like when she asked him what happened that night him and Antonio got into it. 1 white lie compared to many white lies constantly and also never showing your true self ( these are the things she was warning Kat about) is a concerning thing. Add to the fact that Roxanne actually really liked Alex for a good while, what would make her suddenly despise him if he was such a great person? Also he called her an unrespectable woman and never apologized even after Roxanne did. In fact, he said it was warranted! I see SO many red flags in him. Also, in her case asking Kat that question while assuming the answer wasn’t manipulation, it was a tactic used to start a conversation she wanted to have. It’s like asking someone if they’re okay, knowing they’re not, so you can try to make them feel better.
@@bell4898 I'm not here to defend Alex. I think him and Roxanne are the same.
If Ryan doesn't leave James I will scream. That guy is red flags galore.
List em out!
He’s emotionally immature, guarded, and clearly has PTSD. He needs intense therapy and to take full responsibility for his life. He’s not yet a man. There were so many microexpression Ryann had that were like “yea right🙄” as if she doesn’t believe him because I’m sure she heard it all before in the past 7.5 years. He blames everything on his upbringing which means he hasn’t really examined his childhood traumas.
@@emac1286I don’t think his problem is the upbringing I feel he is just using that as an excuse.he doesn’t want to let her go but at the same time want to be wild .u can’t be with someone 7yrs nd not being able to open up .she will regret marrying him.
i mean he's only 23 after all...@@emac1286
She would have to show me that positive pregnancy results to get me off that show if I was Brian because that woman needs anger management and a therapist
She probably showed. This was recorded a year ago, and now they have 4 months old kid on there social media.
I can tell you one thing - after being married for 17 years - going on this show is the only RED FLAG you need that you aren't with your person. The end! =P
Best comment! I thought the same to myself, if your relationship needs this show there's already no hope. Why can't they try therapy instead? Unless it's attention they want.
@@phoebe_ouma NAILED IT! only the first two seasons, filmed back to back, were pure bc they had no idea what they were in for.
Hello!!
Right! I hope everyone wakes up 😢
Ill be honest, I think the people that really should leave their partners is Ryann and Trey. I think Riah isn't a bad person, but she isn't what Trey is looking for, nor is Trey what Riah is looking for. That is totally fine, I think they are just together because they genuinely have deep feelings for one another, but also that fear of "What is life like without this person?" I think Ryann's partner (cannot remember his name for the life of me), has so many issues that he never worked on. How do you see affection and sex as the same thing? That is a very messed up view, and I believe he has this due to never actually working on his issues. Also "I cheated on Ryann before", was just glossed over so fast. Ryann seemed far more comfortable around others, than her partner.
Felt the same way about that guy. Can’t remember his name either. He kept crying how much of a victim he is was annoying. Like he’s sooo special that he has mommy and daddy issues and he has to bring it up to romantic partners. 🤮
I went on a date with guy who told me some story about his mom passing away just to get laid that night. 😂😂 Some men are pathetic.
Yeah, James is fucked up, he needs therapy so bad
I was annoyed that that cheating thing was brought up, especially in that context, and never brought up again. Like that was something Ryann should’ve remembered and thought about before just going back to what was comfortable under the guise of giving someone another chance.
Trey deserves better he needs to work on his self esteem and confidence; his gurl is
Manipulative honestly but stringing him alone for her convenience.
If it was the other way around and the man hit the woman in the face like that and yelled at her like this, everyone would be going nuts and immediately report it or something. Just because it's a woman doesn't mean she's not abusive with her man. That poor Bryan. Seriously they need some couples therapy and individual therapy too.
Roxanne is a huge narcissist and very selfish. Doubt she’s a good partner for anyone except herself. Antonio should run out of this apartment- and never come back
Roxanne's life honestly makes me sad. She talks nonstop about how much she works, how she wakes up at 5 am and is working until midnight or whatever times she said, but basically all waking hours. She sees that as a huge accomplishment and maybe it does make her happy but to me, that just sounds like a sad way to live cause you're never doing anything but working and the people in your life just have to accept it.
So many people on this show need therapy.
New show : They sit behind a curtain and talk to different therapist. At the end of the show ( multiple sessions and some challenges )they pick one that helped them the most and stay in therapy.
Perfect, another season of "these people should not get married at all, please go into therapy and do some soul-searching"! And I'm right again, as far as I watched, none of them should get married, not to each other, not to other people, until they worked through their personal issues.
“Is he talking about coming or going? Because that’s two different scenarios” 😂😂😂😂😂
She did ask the question in a weird way, even I was wondering what she meant lol
That man was not happy to hear she was pregnant. She is manipulative and they wont work out in the end even with that baby.
I don’t think she is manipulative.they both deserve each-other he can’t say I don’t wanna be with u point blank he wants to be around until he finds something better nd she is delusional and abusive thinking this guy will stay with her forever .
Classic using a baby to trap a man
Lol shes mad because she brought her man there looking for fame and didnt think anyone would be better than her and her man wouldn't be able to pull anyone.
I doubt she thought he couldn't pull anyone but I agree 💯 w every thing else.
the princess bride booing of nick and vanessa lachey is chefs kiss
Roxanne says she thinks she puts others first?????!? WTF
Antonio is a nice guy- too nice for her. She’s a poster child for a person who can’t see how others see her- she’s unbelievable
Lisa shot herself in the foot. Now she really won't know if Brian loves her for her or "settled" due to the pregnancy. She really didn't win. He clearly would have chosen to explore things with Riah. Riah is another basket case. Clearly have a great man that loves her but so use to toxicity can't open up to experience real love. She's also a hypocrit. She would have jumped at the chance to be with Brian had he stayed on the show. Antonio is a wimp and in denial. Alex did not lie about him. Roxanne is a hypocrite. She talked about Alex and got mad for Alex talking about her. She and Antonio definitely made for each other. I love Kat, Ryann, Trey and even Brian. The others need therapy..just my opinion lol
One thing about Roxanne I found quite hypocrite is the she boasts about being this strong, independent, financially stable woman, but then pressures Antonio into being the provider. Like, why? If she's so well off and confident why can't she be the breadwinner of the couple and he can have a normal job and support her in other ways? Don't know if it's an american thing (I'm from europe) but I find quite sexist that all the men in the show were always supposed to be the "provider". Unless Roxanne is just using that as an excuse cause sheìs not sure about Antonio.
I was with you 1000% until you said you liked Brian 😂 Brian is definitely a problem too, all he is doing is leading Lisa on, I am sure he’d get married tomorrow if he found the one, it’s not Lisa and he knows it. Annnd the way he was talking and flirting with Riah, and how she was flirting back had me fummmmmming. Brian and Riah, don’t gaf about their partners, and scream cheater vibes. Riah is just upset that Brian left early, so she wants to guilt trip Trey.
@@BintBrooklyn I can see that! You have a great point about Brian🤔
I definitely feel Brian is settling for Lisa.
I agree with you on Riah. Ppl make dating way more complicated than it needs to be. But, I also want to point out that Alex seems to disregard Kat.
Netflix kicked me off for sharing an account, love that your reviewing this! I'll send you a full list of the other shows I need you to cover😂
To quote Kennie JD: “I take my Ls in private”
😂😂 these people aren’t just broadcasting their L’s- they have that shit on streaming and it’s MESSY AND I LOVE IT
I feel like we really missed out on some entertainment because Lisa and Brian in the mix would have been interesting
I'm madddddd 😂
I definitely was disappointed however she was definitely a problem
Finally, someone with a valid point🤫She was the real entertainment... She would have set it offf every episode!
Exactly because I wanted to put her foot in flirty ryah
Lisa thought that she was going to win this one, once she saw that her man was actually doing well in this, she panicked and hit him with the Im pregnant card.
She been pregnant
Yeah those two people should definitely be having a baby lmao abuse is never okay. Just awful.
Kat deserves better.
Difference between the quality of the conversations of the remaining 4 couples and convos on the bachelor is stark-
Episode 7 was an eye opener for me- Riah staying with a guy who doesn’t get her 💦or make her orgasm- that’s a massive red flag- I think she’s young and hasn’t had enough experience to see it for what it is- she isn’t turned on by Trey. Trey is a great guy and there’s plenty of women out there who would love a nice guy like him. They should split up. Just my opinion
Look I could be wrong but my gaydar is pinging a bit on Riah.
@@Pannadol I didn’t think of that but now that you mention it….. trey is a good looking guy- how could she not get turned on even a bit- she’s 24-that’s a person’s prime horny years
In my opinion they should have definitely split. However, I don't think anyone would please Riah. Sis said she likes having sex with the lights off.. She also said that she doesn't like her partner to look at her during sex! Riah is the problem! Not Trey
@@TheIntrospectiveReactorI don’t think that makes her a problem though. She just has odd sexual preferences and needs to find someone compatible with that.
It sounds like she's not comfortable. This is something she needs to tap into.
That boo clip had me screaming in my car😅😅
That comin' or goin' line had me spitting out my pickle!
Trey looks like a young Bernie Mac
I can't handle watching another season of this show haha - thanks for letting me experience it second-hand here!
Antonio didn't you hear this Roxanne person tell her cat " I love you" ? And she can't tell you because it's not her language of love? I don't like the guy she was paired up with however, he had it right about that chic
Now that's a fake pregnancy or baby trap if I ever saw one. I hope it was just manufactured for drama because no child deserves that dynamic
She had baby boy unfortunately .
@@shadiaali728 I saw in BF's video for the rest of the season :( that poor child
As someone who’s been in a relationship for almost 5 years with no rush to get married, seeing someone say almost 2 years without marriage is FAR TOO LONG is just funny
Same me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 years and the second year we were together I wasn’t even thinking about marriage, how tf are you thinking about marriage that soon in the relationship 🤣
I doesn’t take that long to know if you want to marry someone. I don’t think you should waste time with someone you don’t see a future with. And some ppl are ready to start a family. 5yrs is a lot of wasted time
@@angelmushahffor me personally it’s not about not knowing we want to get married. We know we’ll get married but neither of us needs it to confirm our commitment to each other and would rather buy a house first.
Lisa dragging the other girl just because she worked at hooters is absolutely disgusting
Well she look like a lady from the streets
Aline of candles to the bedroom and lingerie on the bed is more of a gift to him I can't wear it out and show it of im.not 3 so I don't need a teddy bear, no thanks he gave no thought to her on valentines day
He got her homework 😂😊
Should I binge all 10 episodes or just watch this review?
Gotta wait until 8/30 for all 10
@pixiestxNyomouf I was mad as hell when it just stopped and Netflix started advertising something else 😅
Its not that good the more it goes on
im obsessed with your vids and need the ultimatum series in a playlistt
can trey and ryann plsss work out ??! or at the VERY least break up from their original partners. they genuinely were so cute together every time they came on screen
Dude I hope either Lisa got a piss poor edit or Bryan's family is keeping a good eye around him. Poor sod.
Kat, Tre and Ryann should be protected at all costs. Only peopl a care about tbh. Hope Antonio eeyes his eyes to Roxxanne
Not sure about Trey. He gave me "nice guy" feelings. He said he loves Riah but then was very ready to change his mind the moment he thought he had a chance with a new hotter chick. He went back to Riah only because Ryann rejected him and said she wasn't interested in something more. But who knows, maybe Trey and Ryann will try to date after the show (from the preview in ep 8 it seems both of them will end they relationship).
@@theCatsitter878 did he change his mind for a hotel chick tho? Yes, he said Ryann was beautiful, but he spoke more about having someone he actually had things in common with. I think he was alot more comfortable around Ryann and ngl. I would to if I was previously the giver in my relationship and my partner is indecisive
Vanessa looked on the verge of tears during that lil intro chat. After reading Jessica Simpson’s book, I wish we could ask her if she’s okay.
Oohhhh whatd I miss?!
Lisa trapped this man to the tea. She clearly told him after the incident because she wanted to leave the show to save her relationship. Idk why she got on in the first place if she knew what it was about and got jealous from the first girl he spoke to. She is immature and insecure. I hope he does better.
Exactly her remarks about Riah during the reunion are so ridiculous
I died @ the Business Betch 😂😂😂😂
I would not be surprised if she wasn’t pregnant at the time she told Brian that she was. More likely that she told him she was pregnant and then purposely got pregnant by him ASAP. After two years of safe s*x, how do you get pregnant at SUCH a convenient time for you to leave the show? It just not adding up😂
Mistakes do happen but I don’t think she could have made that up not knowing if she could get pregnant that fast or not .just coz u had un protected sex doesn’t grant pregnancy .😊
I feeling fucking terrible for that baby.
Can't the Bachelor Fantake just host these shows? Nick and Vanessa literally bring nothing to the table
Only on episode 1 and if Lisa knew she is pregnant why is she drinking?
Clearly she didn’t know
@@specialk8927 It seems that was the case. I'm glad they had a healthy baby.
I am addicted to wild love reality shows. I finished those first 8 episodes in one sitting
If I did something romantic for my girl on Valentine’s Day & she said “it’s not like the tik tok videos “ I’d be gone & she’d be single . This is the mindset of a child . Some people are not built to be in a relationship or married . Social media has given some people ridiculous expectations
Most ppl these days have zero idea what a relationship is and are just copying what they see on social media it’s terrifying!!!!
Nah, sounds like what he did was just laying out lingerie so she could perform for him. That’s not romance and I don’t blame her for being unimpressed by a man who thinks it is.
@@lunarsugarMy friends and I thought the same thing! Especially when Riah was talking to her sister about how they struggle getting her to orgasm. A man laying out lingerie when he can’t make you climax doesn’t sound romantic, it sounds like work lmao
@jessicawilliams3849 I am at the beginning of the season, and Riah said from the beginning that it was an emotional connection lacking. I think her partner come off sweet and appear romantic but lack a deep effect .
Why are there people in the comments saying Riah is for the streets for wanting to get with Brian when the whole point of the show is to break up with your current partner and pursue someone else for a trial period? Y'all just as clueless as Lisa who stupidly got upset at seeing her boyfriend getting close with another woman when she was the one who brought him on the show, knowing what would happen.
As they dont have an odd number of couples it ended uo being a stright couples swap. I have to say I love that they found a dating format where lgbt is spicier, as so many more couple options and hugh chances of compatability
Naw no thanks
Poor Bryan now I can see clear why he don’t want and don’t feel ready for marriage! Specially with that garbage 😂 he deserves better
Thank for always the recaps fantake it's almost more entertaining than the show itself 😂.
Lisa and Roxanne need a therapist and anger management classes…immediately
Lisa needs to get maced and arrested.
🤣🤣 now she’s gonna be a bitter baby mama I can just see it!! That man will never be able to be happy!
Lisa doesn't need to be on a show she needs psychotherapy, her emotions are too unpredictable. Leaving the show was the best decision, but someone please check on Brian.
😂😂
Brian looks like a cheater anyways
I totally dislike James they trauma bonded ,and I knew it wouldn't work. Riah got the short end of the stick for sure Roxanne is irky.
Great breakdown, missed some episodes and this filled in.
Ohh I gotta watch this. I can't believe Nick is still with Vanessa. I remember when him & Jessica Simpson were together over a decade ago. They had their own reality show together & then he started dating Vanessa. I've always wondered if they were still together.
Outside of putting her hands on him, I get it. She went zero to hundred fast most likely because they had been intimate before and he was exploring other options.
And then she’s pregnant.
She clearly needs to work on handling her emotions, even it they are valid. The feeling of being used, discarded etc for the next person isn’t good, even if she signed up for the show, you think you can handle something and then boom clearly you can’t.
But I give that guy mad respect. The patience. The fact he didn’t even think or move in the direction to escalate that hit. That takes a massive amount of self control.
Didn't she invite him on the show though? Unless I misunderstood it, she's actually more awful for behaving this way.
Is he supposed to NOT explore his options on this show? I'm genuinely confused why you're giving her a pass for this awful behavior.
I am curious if it was just editing at the dinner when it looked like they were staring at eachother (Riah and Brian). Ngl, it made me uncomfortable watching that infront of everyone, but again, it was more than likely editting
Hitting is never valid, I don't care if there is one emotion or all emotions behind it.
Thank you fantake, you’ve done such a brilliant recap video that I don’t need to spend hours watching this dross. Violent ranting and pushing her boyfriend in the face. Imagine if he’d done that to her. Sad thing is the narcissistic behaviour and utterly mad people on this show. Your video was very entertaining without me having to waste hours watching these spoilt egotists.
I wonder if she lied about been pregnant just to get him off the show. He need to run from that crazy. She's abusive and sick in her head
They gave her the test duh😅
Was she talking about coming or going took me out. Big difference between the two she should’ve clarified 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
Not the work life grindset 😂😂😂😂😂😂
7:54 Immediately no. Immediately no. Time to break up.
Lisa & Brian seem like a toxic couple. Could some baby trapping have happened here? Either she baby trapped him, faked a pregnancy to get him to leave the show with her. Or he baby trapped her to get her tied to him regardless of if he proposes. It's all very iffy. Whatever the case, if one of them deliberately baby trapped the other and came to the show after _knowing_ she may be pregnant, there's an added element of toxicity because he or she was okay with Lisa taking shots and getting drunk.
Spoilers:
1 episode left and imo Trey and Ryann are the only ones ready for a marriage at this point. Kat is too giving and her boyfriend is a psychopath. Roxanne doesnt give way and her botfriend is a mess. Riah doesnt seem invested. James is just plain boring and depressing to be with, at least make an effort. Great show! Very entertaining and useful to couples out there.
Lisa got some nerve being upset with Riah at the reunion. She talking bout Riah was after her man, 😮ummmm you signed up for this show, you can not be serious. Brian was assaulted on national television and people are making excuses for her actions.
How dare you sir! To accuse Beaker and Dr. Bunsen of stooping to these levels. The audacity!
please cover the love is blind / ultimatum lawsuit
Trey needs to find someone new and move on.
So Brian's trapped. Boys let this be a lesson, wear a raincoat in the shower! If you aren't ready for marriage put a goalie in the post, don't put yourself into the position to be raising a child you didn't intend to spend the rest of your life with. Raising a child is difficult enough, don't do it with a person who isn't on the same page.
He can afford it
If she wasn’t pregnant he would of gotten ryah pregnant and not use no protection and ryah would of ied and tell Trey she pregnant for him
Oh my god this is hilarious! Subscribed!
When you said coming or going.. omg 😂 I spit out my coffee ha ha ha 😂
Lmao when she said she was pregnant I saw my guys soul left his body 😂 he knew he was stuck with her forever now
That woman who is abusive is another Scamber Turd! Please leave her now and get custody quickly! You have proof!
She baby trapped him 🤯
While watching this a bachelor in paradise ad came on and I’m excited for the recapssss
Anyone else feel like ryyan and James aren’t having sex? Also James talked about foreplay for so lon. Then stopped giving riah any affection when she wouldn’t sleep with him.
dude james has ISSUES
I think James is in the closet
Why would anyone stay with someone that screams at them like that. He looks sad and empty.
This has probably been my favorite season!
Does anyone know the name of the song that was on episode 3 when it was going off it sounds like you're the only one I need I'm not sure but I want to download it but don't know the name of the song