What I don’t get is how they say they’re both in relationships “not from perfect match” but Alara posted pictures of them on instagram. And she moved to LA
That's cause Stevan was looking for someone who would put out. Neither Xanthie nor Micah were gonna sleep with him, that's why he dumped them and went for someone who would hookup with him while they filmed. Granted, he went all out with swooning Alara, but that was all on Netflix's dime. I imagine that would take a lot more effort out in the real world. I do think those men were going for he women who would hook up and that's why Stevan brought in Holly for Kaz. Xanthie didn't stand a chance in that house lol.
What makes it kind of… even worse is that he kind of lovebombed her? And she said very honestly that she was afraid to get hurt etc. And he really pursued her to *take a chance*, and then just to ghost her. 🤢
@@ida4337 YES?! like the way she cried after realizing that shes developing feelings for him because he was really acting like they married already she didn't even liked him at first like that kind of thing would give me the biggest trust issues ever...
@@birdie7910 is he? Omg new level of scum unlocked. Next to Harry Jowsey its not hard to look like Prince charming so imagine how much Stevans behaviour really creeps me out. Ouff.
The lack of emotional maturity here is wild. These interviews just sum up why so many prefer to stay single these days. All the men on the show proved to be faking it I guess and were just there for clout.
I'm not shocked at all by Stavan ghosting Alara. He seemed like he was putting on a show the entire time. Also the fact that Jessica still gave Harry a chance after everything he did on the show is insane.....
He didn’t actually ghost her though,as he did text her and say it wasn’t working out. He didn’t block her,or ignore her-which is ghosting-like the others did.
I love how the men kept shit talking the girls in these interviews making them look desperate, but the girls carried themselves with such class and didn't make the other person look bad. Just comes to show who's really at fault...
I noticed that too! the girls had every right to rip into their former partners and didnt, yet the guys who were at fault for the dissolution of all these relationships refuse to take accountability. "she was blowing up my phone" "i saw that she was messaging someone else from the show" "it was just the wrong time" "maybe it would have worked if we met in real life" like damn using every excuse in the book and not an ounce of self reflection.
The men ruined this season honestly and I think they know it and some are playing cool. They all came out looking bad except Justin and Izzy got slight redemption towards the end but Netflix got him too in the beginning. They gotta start fielding the men better for all these shows. You have serial monagamists picking from fxckboys and manipulaters. The guys are ghosting but the women have every reason to hit a "Harry" and never talk to them again. They embarrassed their matches and themselves and it wasn't even entertaining 🤦🏿♀️
I think Chris was somewhat sincere out of the matched men. Seems like Tolu insecurities got the best of her after listening to gossip from bitter women.
It broke my heart to see Alara crying. It's heartbreaking. She should've chosen someone else because everyone, at some point of the show, wanted to be her match. Anyways more power her. It's showing that you can still be ghosted even after putting so much efforts in and out of the show. Love you Alara...💖
It’s very disturbing and alarming how they love bombed these women so persistently just to act like how they are acting now. I pray all of the women truly heal from that. It’s insane
Hallf this cast owes Melinda an apology for the disgusting way they treated her with their gaslighting and falsely accusing her of being a clout chaser.
The only girls that wanted Harry were Elyes and Jess , and Elyes did not sleep with him. Wise girl.Jess is a smart woman, and i cant understand why she did not heed the warnings of the girls.
So... Melinda was right? No one was a match? All those guys, especially Harry, Dom, and Stavan, need to apologize to Melinda. No one was a match, AND he did kiss her and openly flirted with her. So she didnt lie. The boys, especially Harry lied!
And the karens are still doubling down saying they still hate her because she begged Harry. Lol Like, Harry literally said he wanted to put a baby in her belly. They still trying to push the desperate undesirable black woman narrative.
@@ashley.taylor174and we are in no way undesirable. It’s mostly just a bunch of pick mes. Melinda only took these relationships as serious as they are.
@@ashley.taylor174lol why does being black gotta do with any of these? Melinda is loud disrespectful woman who went after someone’s man and was literally ok having sex at that moment!!!!
Stevan fumbled astronomically. Seems like Tolu and Alara were the only genuine people there for the right reasons. Also Jess trying so hard to show she has some self respect on the show and then still giving Harry a chance after what he did is absolutely wild, no self respect at all and Harry is a disgusting human being 🤮
Crazy that, for instance Stevan, can explain perfectly well to the cameras why he didn’t want to have a relationship with Alara in a way that makes perfect sense and is easily understandable, yet he couldn’t give enough courtesy and respect to his supposed partner to let her know any of that and chose to ghost instead. And not just him - Bryton and several others as well, it’s crazy. And then Bryton says “she was spamming me wherever she could reach me” well fucking yeah you guys were dating to some degree and then you disappeared, that can usually cause people to be confused and reach out since they can’t get ahold of you??? Ugh. It’s so frustrating to see.
Ohh well what can we expect when they keep bringing this TikTok boys to a reality show.. we need real men actually looking for long term commitments not this bs. I can’t explain the hatred I have Bryton he’s really the worst
RIGHT?? I hate Bryton the way he said that spamming line? YOU GHOSTED HER?? She wasn’t desperate she deserved the minimum explanation ??? They went on a holiday and then all got ghosted ?
he didn't all the way ghost tho tbf. she said he sent her a long paragraph explaining why, and saying she deserved better, and that she blocked him after that.
@@TinuolaVictoriaI caught that too but maybe both statements are true. He could’ve ghosted her and way later on sent that message saying she deserved better. In that case I would’ve blocked him too
@@mitzelx yeah I agree. I think she prob also could've meant something like he 'switched up out of nowhere' and bc of that she had to stop contact with him, which would feel a lot like being ghosted!
I knew it. Everyone tried to talk crap about Tolu or Christine as if they were rejects, but the popular blondes and brunettes were ghosted, used, and treated like crap too. These dudes were so unserious.
Who said that tho? Everyone knew from the start all were treated like crap? Tolu was the only one to me that couldn’t be treated like crap bc the self respect is HIGHH and she values herself enough. Alara deserved so much better
@@birdie7910how did she respect herself when she ran off with Dom when she admittedly had someone that she liked already with Izzy? Then he even came back, and she had another chance. And they are both from Houston. She played herself.
No because there actually has to be something psychologically wrong? Pushing her to say she sees a future with you post-show? Asking about meeting her mom? The constant “I love you”s? Looking at apartments AFTER the show? And there isn’t even a prize, you literally could’ve just stayed with Xanthi and kept it casual? That man’s karma is going to B U R N.
Alara is a SNAKE. 1. She was trying to down talk Melinda. 2. She literally was in Nigels DM's even though he and Christine had a relationship. She tried to befriend Christine to get to nigel. That bitch is a snake. PERIOD.
Bruh idk what it is, but smt aby Tolu just pisses me off. It's not necessarily anything major that she did but she just had this Suttle instigator vibe to her. And imo she had no feelings for Chris simply wanted to stay in the game. She legit chose Dom over izzy and then gets mad when the same is indirectly done to her. Ik this is what alot of them did bur just watching her obnoxious behavior on "The Trust" and then this was just too much for me I'm sorry
Stevan “I wasn’t ready for a relationship” also Stevan “ I’m currently in a relationship” 🙄🤦🏾♀️ it’s always the ones you don’t typically go for that waist yo got damn time , Alara deserves so much better, I honestly think Stevan was intimidated by her 🤷🏾♀️
not to mention he went onto the show in the first place to “find his perfect match” to me it sounds like ur ready & willing to be in a relationship.. what the hell
I’m proud of Alara for blocking Stevan after he lvoe bombed her, promised her the world, and then ghosted her. These girls deserve so much better. Stevan and Harry both said “it wasn’t the right time” or “right person wrong time” and I just think it’s sad that these are the men these beautiful women have to choose from. I hope alara can heal, poor thing
@@AshleyShelton-yg4bw and the man kissed her. She told his gf and everyone called her a liar. Why cant Melinda ask him to kiss her when he said I wanna put baby in you? Tbh I think Melinda wanted Harry to match with her and had too many drinks. If she wasn't on a dating show I would feel the same as you
This is why Alara and Stevan didn't win. I had a feeling something was off. When the camera wasn't around, I think the cast didn't see the sincerity. That finale makes sense now.
They need to get contestants that live in the same country to give them the best chance after the show like perfect match UK, perfect match US, Perfect Match Aus for example
@@BitterSweetCoffee3nah I’m saying literally none of the people on the show were genuine. None of them were actually looking for love they just went on there for the free vacation in a villa with a bunch of hot people and to get more publicity so people could follow them cause they are all influencers lol
The amount of ghosting here is so immature, and I hope they start thinking about the future of this show. The whole point is “Perfect Match” , 0 matches , 2 seasons.
Elys saying people weren’t there for the right reasons is funny because by the end of it she was there to just drool over Bryton’s abs LOL Also I think Netflix should take note that if a show involves people wearing bathing suits all of the time (Perfect Match, Too Hot to Handle) then it isn’t a love show, but just a manipulation competition
she’s been in a pretty long relationship ever since the show ended, with Nathan from THTH whatever season (the one Holly was on). i do think she (Elys) wanted love & committment, i just don’t think anyone of those reality stars took this show seriously because it’s new & the rules are all over the place & honestly, it’s just a job for them.. a paycheck..
@@alleniverson5941 she’s funny and confident. There’s a difference. She has a big personality but she isn’t an arrogant, self-centered, ego driven liar. She’s delightful and her positive personality is refreshing.
Funny Americans. Both 'TOE-loo' and 'tuh-LOO' are wrong. This is yoruba name and while still wrong, Chris is closer than you guys. His just not pronouncing the pure and rounded 'oh' sound that's hard for English speakers since it's not in English words. The placing of the accented u is correct.
The closest pronunciation for English speakers is 'Toe-LOO', but the right 'o' sound should be a "pure" 'o' (lips remain round and same size, rather than in English where the mouth opens as you start the sound and gets a bit smaller as you close the sound. Hard to explain.
@@geenalawrence8338 you racists just mad that the black couple won. 😂 Just like you guys were mad that the best looking white guy in the house wanted to put a baby in Melinda.
@@ashley.taylor174 Now u know DAMN well Nigel and Christina did not even make it to the house until the last episode because nobody desired them or thought about them for anyone else 😂😂😂😂 They literally ended up with each other by DEFAULT, even Kaz left that girl for Micah. Harry might’ve flirted with Melinda for a few seconds but then he completely denied her existence just to get back with JESSICA. Don’t get it twisted sister 😂😂 But you’re free to be delusional and convince yourself.
@@GladToBeNatural They were together for nine months after the show. And you could tell they were interested in each other from the mixer. They were the only couple who I thought would meet and date IRL.
Elys is almost a year now in a relationship with Nathan and their getting so strong. I really think they’re something long lasting. I heard they moving in together and she deserved that. For the ones asking why there no pictures of her and Nathan anymore is because of the show 😂
Ngl, I wish we would hear from Justin but I really doubt that 😢 Netflix introduced a hidden gem Edit: he did an interview on the Positively Uncensored Podcast and it was so good! Answered all our questions and he has great chemistry wit the interviewer. Yall check it out!!
@@letaalexandraasmr izzy was a tad desperate, a couldn’t tell if he was playing nice guy or actually so willing to get screen time by any means that he took the friendship card in situations he knew wouldn’t work out.
Tolu gives me QUEEN vibes. She’s sweet woman with strong boundaries definitely not the one to play with 💅 I knew Chris wasn’t serious when he said Tolu is holding him back from getting the most out of this experience wtf
the men this season were just.... but talu omg ive never wanted to be friends with someone more. Realest person ive seen on tv, let alone dating shows.
But Dom is getting crucified for being honest... People wanted him to lie and fake it like all these others. Tolu is Queen👑, but the same way how she spoke for Dom about the "amazing chemistry" between, she also did the same with Chris. She kept expressing Chris's feelings for him, which made it easy for Chris to pretend to be everything she was saying that he is. But I knew that man was faking it and would ditch her as soon as the show was over. Go back and watch their last date, that man didn't say one word. Tolu, going forward, let men tell YOU how they feel about you, stop speaking on their behalf and forcing/projecting feelings and chemistry that isn't there. Dom was likely a jerk in how he handled things, but at least he spoke up pushed Tolu toward finding a better match, whereas Chris faked it to the very end.
I’m guessing you haven’t heard all the tea about Dom’s behavior. A lot wasn’t shown and apparently he treated her pretty badly and told people he HATED her behind her back. Not that she just wasn’t his type. He allegedly had a nasty dismissive attitude towards her as soon as he got in the house. He was very moody and negative in general and the only person he would be consistently pleasant towards was Harry. Add that up with his previous weirdo behavior with other women and THAT is what he’s getting dragged for. But yeah, Chris disgusts me.
@@vickiebenson7980 He’s definitely a weirdo. He seems to have some real issues. On the previous season, he was a big love-bomber. He told Francesca he loved her within days and then latched on to Georgia after he was dumped. Then he turned delusional on Georgia when things didn’t work out and continues to claim she “cheated” on him when they weren’t actually together outside of the show. He probably came back on the show hoping to match with another white girl. It seemed like he resented Tolu because he felt like he should be able to do “better” than a black woman but no one else wanted him.
@@MJ-gm7km I didn't watch the first season so I didn't know anything about him except for his constant crying. I could be completely wrong here but I don't know why I feel like he swings the other way, something tells me he's going to be like that one guy from the bachelor who spent a whole season chasing women only to come out as gay soon after 🤦. Tolú was doing him a favour looking his way, the man looks tragic to say the least.
Okay kids, breaking up with someone does not mean ghosting. Ghosting = suddenly disappearing without explanation. No shade when people take the time to express their change of mind, it happens.
Elys was definitely ghosted. Bryton even confirmed that he just started ignoring all her messages/calls so he didn’t give her this explanation that you speak of.
@@clarisselarue151It doesn’t sound like Alara was ghosted though. She said he broke up with her and then she blocked him. He didn’t just disappear on her with no explanation. But maybe there’s more to the story and it was edited out?
@@MJ-gm7km Yah definitely wasn't talking about Elys and Bryton. As you mentioned Alara said he broke up with her before stepping back, but also said he ghosted - that was my reference ;)
notice how the women are all class acts talking about their (shitty) partners... and then the men all dogpile on theirs and deflect from their own shittiness, no taking of accountability in sight. disappointed but not at all shocked.
And they are the ones with video evidence of their deceit 🙄 much like he 2 hour finale, I already saw everything I needed to see and no reason to add "context"
Ummmm how is that ghosting if he said hes not ready for the commitment. I mean it sucks that yall were looking into living together. But if he gave a heads up and then you blocked that wasnt really ghosting? Right?
Out of all the couples, I think they were the most genuine. I think Tolu’s insecurities allowed her to listen to the gossip from bitter women. I still think there’s potential there but Chris is socially awkward.
@@ashley.taylor174that’s cap. Tolu was the last girl he went for in the villa because no one else wanted him. As soon as he got outside the house, he tried to shoot his shot at Xanthi and told her he wasn’t able to explore to other girls like he wanted too. He didn’t really like her.
@@theshealist My problem is why does everyone LOVE to point out how Chris didn’t want Tolu? Chris acted just like all the men. Christine did a video that talked about how Stevan was also flirting hard with Xanthi and Britain. But of course that’s ignored but there is this weird push to make Tolu look like undesirable. 🤔
@@ashley.taylor174 I pointed it out because that’s what this post pertained to lol. If you want to talk about Stevan, then go to a post talking about him. And just because he acted like “all men” does not mean Tolu needed to settle for it. I see where your standards lie.
People forgetting Stevan is basicaly american Harry 🙄 and what Dom wishes he was. I called cap when alara was saying how much she likedhim and he never replied properly. Eh, Perfect Match was a mess this eason but thank god for Tolù 😅 "I didnt like what i was seeing" same sis! I glossed over the ego admission,but know your worth sis! I wanna see you model more (away from Netflix hopefully) 😊
Harry's inability to discuss the things he does wrong and insistance on separating himself from it (Harry a year ago is literally just you babe. Exact same man.) is scary 😭
Harry always mentions “Harry a year ago” as if he isn’t the same man child as he was on too hot to handle.
A lot of hot air, if you ask me. Actions speak much louder than words, Harry.
He literally does this every year, it’s a telenovela at this point
Harry seems like the type of guy that goes to therapy and just learns how to be more manipulative instead of actually bettering himself
@@Olivia-bl8ez”therapy”- he said he was going to therapy while cheating on his gf at the time
@@madisonmetzner7819 “to be fair babe, the girl I was cheating with does have a psych degree”
stevan ghosting alara is acc the most insane thing ever. Fumbled the bag
I KNEW he would and nobody on twitter believed me. Lol I thought Nigel and Christine had the realest connection tbh
@@magnoliacrawford4065Right! I always knew he was not serious about her.
Guys rewatch it, it looked like he was acting the whole time and it didn't seem sincere for a second
I also didn't believe HIM.. he likes to be in the spotlight
What I don’t get is how they say they’re both in relationships “not from perfect match” but Alara posted pictures of them on instagram. And she moved to LA
Xanthie saw RIGHT THRU Stevan! She might’ve looked like a hater at the reunion but she basically just knew what time it was.
So glad Stevan and Alana didn’t win. I was never sold on that couple.
That's cause Stevan was looking for someone who would put out. Neither Xanthie nor Micah were gonna sleep with him, that's why he dumped them and went for someone who would hookup with him while they filmed. Granted, he went all out with swooning Alara, but that was all on Netflix's dime. I imagine that would take a lot more effort out in the real world.
I do think those men were going for he women who would hook up and that's why Stevan brought in Holly for Kaz.
Xanthie didn't stand a chance in that house lol.
Wait where is the reunion? Is this different from the final Netflix episode?
@@honeylavender1122no, the final episode is the reunion
@@LoveIsKindBeNice I've never agreed to a comment soo much
the amount of ghosting is wildddd
I’m not too suprised tbh, a lot of these people don’t really seem that emotionally mature 🫠
It’s way too common now. A simple conversation or one response to a text should not be hard
And how Elys said that it was ok 🫠
yea not surprising. anyone that goes on shows like this are all losers and im not sure why you guys like any of them.
@@eauxkei702plus they’re all attractive people so they have loads of options otherwise 🫠
alara was really into stevan like she genuinely liked him even though he was not his type my girl deserved better
What makes it kind of… even worse is that he kind of lovebombed her? And she said very honestly that she was afraid to get hurt etc. And he really pursued her to *take a chance*, and then just to ghost her. 🤢
@@ida4337 YES?! like the way she cried after realizing that shes developing feelings for him because he was really acting like they married already she didn't even liked him at first like that kind of thing would give me the biggest trust issues ever...
@@coffejeliy yes yes yes 😭
@@ida4337YEAHH?? That pisses me off and the fact that’s he’s now in a relationship but saying he wasn’t ready a few months ago??? Crazy
@@birdie7910 is he? Omg new level of scum unlocked. Next to Harry Jowsey its not hard to look like Prince charming so imagine how much Stevans behaviour really creeps me out. Ouff.
The lack of emotional maturity here is wild. These interviews just sum up why so many prefer to stay single these days. All the men on the show proved to be faking it I guess and were just there for clout.
Exactly!!!
I am so disappointed 😥
Mtchhh, so it's now the men you'll blame 😢
The women too
Like what xanthi said, not worth it for mediocre men.
I never want to see Harry on my tv again😂
EVER
None of them should EVER be on tv again
🚮
SERIOUSLYYYY LIKE💀
too late, him and dom are coming back for season 3
These people keep saying it was the wrong time- why'd you go on a dating show then?
Yup
No seriously??? Did they think it was a friendship show??
For clout
None of them are actually looking for love they just go on the show for clout and to make money
@@arnold2106 the clout chasing is a bit strange
I'm not shocked at all by Stavan ghosting Alara. He seemed like he was putting on a show the entire time. Also the fact that Jessica still gave Harry a chance after everything he did on the show is insane.....
He didn’t actually ghost her though,as he did text her and say it wasn’t working out. He didn’t block her,or ignore her-which is ghosting-like the others did.
@@RhondaKLstill fumbled the bag so bad
Right like you go on perfect match to be in relationship but the. He wasn’t ready after it ended
Yh she so clearly wasn't his type and he just wanted someone he could have a proper showmance with.
Yeah, everyone was just there for clout.
I love how the men kept shit talking the girls in these interviews making them look desperate, but the girls carried themselves with such class and didn't make the other person look bad. Just comes to show who's really at fault...
Yup Bryton throwing so many low jabs doesn’t understand it makes him look bad and the problem
I noticed that too! the girls had every right to rip into their former partners and didnt, yet the guys who were at fault for the dissolution of all these relationships refuse to take accountability. "she was blowing up my phone" "i saw that she was messaging someone else from the show" "it was just the wrong time" "maybe it would have worked if we met in real life" like damn using every excuse in the book and not an ounce of self reflection.
literally
The men ruined this season honestly and I think they know it and some are playing cool. They all came out looking bad except Justin and Izzy got slight redemption towards the end but Netflix got him too in the beginning. They gotta start fielding the men better for all these shows.
You have serial monagamists picking from fxckboys and manipulaters. The guys are ghosting but the women have every reason to hit a "Harry" and never talk to them again. They embarrassed their matches and themselves and it wasn't even entertaining 🤦🏿♀️
I think Chris was somewhat sincere out of the matched men. Seems like Tolu insecurities got the best of her after listening to gossip from bitter women.
stevan ghosting bc he wasnt ready for a relationship only to be in a relationship is WILD
he didn’t tho…. they just broke up. she literally says he sent her a long paragraph on text so he just broke up w her
@@lolamatos2610 did you not watch the whole video? He said at the end that he’s in a relationship with someone else.
@@rhondaaa9614 he said at the time he wasn’t ready for a relationship. the show was filmed a year ago. feelings can change
He literally said he didn’t have time to carry a relationship overseas . Why would anyone wanna do that??
@@lolamatos2610 You do know that we men when we say that we are lying right? Lmfao, it's code for I'm not interested in a relationship with you.
Nigel: our relationship is rocky
Christine: our relationship is done
she said she regrets saying that and its actually not over in her yt vid😭
The take 2 from Nigel was even weirder lol
I’m sorry but I laughed at the drastic jump cut 😂
It broke my heart to see Alara crying. It's heartbreaking. She should've chosen someone else because everyone, at some point of the show, wanted to be her match. Anyways more power her. It's showing that you can still be ghosted even after putting so much efforts in and out of the show.
Love you Alara...💖
When did she cry in this. And Alara may have been ghosted by any of these men, they didn't deserve her imo🎉 she's deserving though
She should of chose Dom
Dom and Alara were perfect. The fashion sense how both are like emotionally intelligent. But I don’t know
1:02 -1:10 @@GladToBeNatural
Especially sad because she literally just moved to LA with Micah🤦🏿♀️
Wow ... 2 seasons 0 relationships
Duh lol
thank you for saving me the time of watching the video
All they’re there for is clout.. ew.
And the name "Perfect match"
As expected, because of clout & long distance
Bryton surprised absolutely no-one😂
😭
Babes 😂😂😂
Nah I think somethings up with Elys
The fact that any of it surprised Elys is the most surprising thing tbh
i just watched him get eliminated from squid games last week. then found saw him on this show.. not surprised lol
I was annoyed Alara and Stevan didn’t win, now I’m glad they didn’t. He doesn’t deserve my girl Alara
the men on this season were ROTTENNNNN never again
Idk why I read this as “the men on this season were PROTEINNN never again”.
🤣
Season1 wasn’t any better
@@Thaiidragonn i didnt watch but i can imagine
The immaturity of some of these men is so disappointing
Right! And men say women are the problem.
It’s very disturbing and alarming how they love bombed these women so persistently just to act like how they are acting now. I pray all of the women truly heal from that. It’s insane
they owe you nothing. Stop begging. It’s reality tv nothing is ever really genuine🤦♂️
Some? 😂
We have to remember that it takes a certain type of man to go on these shows though.
Hallf this cast owes Melinda an apology for the disgusting way they treated her with their gaslighting and falsely accusing her of being a clout chaser.
PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yh i kinda not like her at first but she is sooo real I love herrr at d end
So Stevan was a whole LIE poor Alara she’s gorgeous and does deserve better 😢
Stevan wanted the win..thats all..actually they should have won
She is gonna get better than him. He didn't deserve her anyway. Dude is not on her level
Somebody said he’s water gun Kelly
@@Young4eva121lmao
She could have had something with Dom.. they were both interested but Stevan 🤦🏻♀️
Tolu will FOREVER and ALWAYS be that girl.
This ❤
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She's annoying and has a massive ego
@@ledgnr197gaming5womp womp
@@ledgnr197gaming5REAAAAL
Harry says this everytime he’s on a show 😂😂😂 that man is crazy
He makes a year sound like 10 years 😭😭
Something not right with him.
The only girls that wanted Harry were Elyes and Jess , and Elyes did not sleep with him. Wise girl.Jess is a smart woman, and i cant understand why she did not heed the warnings of the girls.
Harry just goes on this for clout like every person on the show
@@TheBaba1920probably cuz he's gay
So... Melinda was right? No one was a match?
All those guys, especially Harry, Dom, and Stavan, need to apologize to Melinda. No one was a match, AND he did kiss her and openly flirted with her. So she didnt lie. The boys, especially Harry lied!
And the karens are still doubling down saying they still hate her because she begged Harry. Lol Like, Harry literally said he wanted to put a baby in her belly. They still trying to push the desperate undesirable black woman narrative.
@@ashley.taylor174and we are in no way undesirable. It’s mostly just a bunch of pick mes. Melinda only took these relationships as serious as they are.
@@ashley.taylor174 you are the type of audience I need for Love Island USA Season 6
Exactly like he gaslit the heck out of her and everyone made her seem like a lying villain when she was actually telling the truth.
@@ashley.taylor174lol why does being black gotta do with any of these? Melinda is loud disrespectful woman who went after someone’s man and was literally ok having sex at that moment!!!!
Stevan fumbled astronomically. Seems like Tolu and Alara were the only genuine people there for the right reasons. Also Jess trying so hard to show she has some self respect on the show and then still giving Harry a chance after what he did is absolutely wild, no self respect at all and Harry is a disgusting human being 🤮
And Micah!!
Tolu is not genuin
@@geesling5395 be quiet
@@jennasabety6255Micah is a mean girl!
Tolu really?.
Tolú is so damn iconic. She's TV Gold
Nah she annoying, delusional and talks like a ninth grader. “Im dating myself” what a sad sad line
She is not lol she sounded like a tiktok video everytime she talked it was too much I felt like I was watching a 15 year old speak
@@elenamoreno7644you have to remember they edit her like that
One of the few genuine people in here tbh, only met fakes while she was looking for a real connection:c
Loved her vibe and attitude in the show tho
Just re-name the show at this point
Just name it Casual in paradise
Flings in the villa lol
“maybe a match”
ghosting your match
"Perfectly Friends" | "It's Convenient" | "For the Clout" |
So many appropriate names
Crazy that, for instance Stevan, can explain perfectly well to the cameras why he didn’t want to have a relationship with Alara in a way that makes perfect sense and is easily understandable, yet he couldn’t give enough courtesy and respect to his supposed partner to let her know any of that and chose to ghost instead. And not just him - Bryton and several others as well, it’s crazy. And then Bryton says “she was spamming me wherever she could reach me” well fucking yeah you guys were dating to some degree and then you disappeared, that can usually cause people to be confused and reach out since they can’t get ahold of you??? Ugh. It’s so frustrating to see.
Ohh well what can we expect when they keep bringing this TikTok boys to a reality show.. we need real men actually looking for long term commitments not this bs. I can’t explain the hatred I have Bryton he’s really the worst
RIGHT?? I hate Bryton the way he said that spamming line? YOU GHOSTED HER?? She wasn’t desperate she deserved the minimum explanation ??? They went on a holiday and then all got ghosted ?
he didn't all the way ghost tho tbf. she said he sent her a long paragraph explaining why, and saying she deserved better, and that she blocked him after that.
@@TinuolaVictoriaI caught that too but maybe both statements are true. He could’ve ghosted her and way later on sent that message saying she deserved better. In that case I would’ve blocked him too
@@mitzelx yeah I agree. I think she prob also could've meant something like he 'switched up out of nowhere' and bc of that she had to stop contact with him, which would feel a lot like being ghosted!
Disappointed it ended that way for Steven and Alara. It was too good to be true. But to be fair he did call himself a manchild so...
I knew something was off Stevan wanted a free vacay
Everybody (especially the men) were just there for clout. Unserious cast.
He didn’t even care smh
Pathetic… all that smoke for Melinda and none of y’all truly liked each other
😂😂 right?
I honestly think both Jessica and Melinda are industry plants 🤷🏻♀️
@@KaloleloThat's...not how industry plants work darling, if we used your logic everyone on this show is an industry plant
"A lot of people werent there for the right reasons" pretty much sums up this entire show
I knew it. Everyone tried to talk crap about Tolu or Christine as if they were rejects, but the popular blondes and brunettes were ghosted, used, and treated like crap too. These dudes were so unserious.
Who said that tho? Everyone knew from the start all were treated like crap? Tolu was the only one to me that couldn’t be treated like crap bc the self respect is HIGHH and she values herself enough. Alara deserved so much better
@@birdie7910I know, but there were a lot of fans acting like Tolu was undesirable. I always knew the problem were the men not the women.
@theceech I’ll give you their social security numbers and blood types
@@birdie7910how did she respect herself when she ran off with Dom when she admittedly had someone that she liked already with Izzy? Then he even came back, and she had another chance. And they are both from Houston. She played herself.
@theceechlol
Poor Alara, that man really deceived her 😢
no like… Stevan is actually scary for that
No because there actually has to be something psychologically wrong? Pushing her to say she sees a future with you post-show? Asking about meeting her mom? The constant “I love you”s? Looking at apartments AFTER the show? And there isn’t even a prize, you literally could’ve just stayed with Xanthi and kept it casual?
That man’s karma is going to B U R N.
@@TheKLCgirl101oh my god SERIOUSLY!! this man is damn scary for the acting.
Alara & Tolú are the only 2 people that were palatable on this season imo
Agreed they weren’t perfect but at least they were genuine
I love her so much and I'm glad to see more Tolu representation on TV!!!!
I thought Tolu and Xanthi were BY FAR the most authentic people on the show. Loved both of them.
Alara is a SNAKE. 1. She was trying to down talk Melinda. 2. She literally was in Nigels DM's even though he and Christine had a relationship. She tried to befriend Christine to get to nigel. That bitch is a snake. PERIOD.
Bruh idk what it is, but smt aby Tolu just pisses me off. It's not necessarily anything major that she did but she just had this Suttle instigator vibe to her. And imo she had no feelings for Chris simply wanted to stay in the game. She legit chose Dom over izzy and then gets mad when the same is indirectly done to her. Ik this is what alot of them did bur just watching her obnoxious behavior on "The Trust" and then this was just too much for me I'm sorry
Stevan “I wasn’t ready for a relationship” also Stevan “ I’m currently in a relationship” 🙄🤦🏾♀️ it’s always the ones you don’t typically go for that waist yo got damn time , Alara deserves so much better, I honestly think Stevan was intimidated by her 🤷🏾♀️
not to mention he went onto the show in the first place to “find his perfect match” to me it sounds like ur ready & willing to be in a relationship.. what the hell
I also thought how it weird how he brought holly a girl he hooked up with but didn’t talk Alara they hooked up before
They say right person wrong time but if it was the right person there wouldn’t be a wrong time
theyr saying right person wrong time as if they're queer people trying to get together in the 50's makes me giggle
I hate that saying. It makes it seem like "if I was mature enough" when no if I was the right person to make you want to be mature. 😢😂
They’re saying right person wrong time, when they treat these women like shit🤷🏼♀️
Easier to say that then "I'm an immature little fuck that doesn't know how to apologize and take responsibility for destroying the relationship"
I just want to yell at them No dude, YOU are the wrong PERSON. The timing actually couldn't be better, you are just a lying A-hole
I’m proud of Alara for blocking Stevan after he lvoe bombed her, promised her the world, and then ghosted her. These girls deserve so much better. Stevan and Harry both said “it wasn’t the right time” or “right person wrong time” and I just think it’s sad that these are the men these beautiful women have to choose from. I hope alara can heal, poor thing
They all owe Melinda an apology!!!!!!
No one does she was begging for a man in a relationship to kiss her
No.
@@AshleyShelton-yg4bwAnd his grown ass didn’t need to kiss her and still did 😂😂😂
@@AshleyShelton-yg4bwdon‘t blame her blame him
@@AshleyShelton-yg4bw and the man kissed her. She told his gf and everyone called her a liar. Why cant Melinda ask him to kiss her when he said I wanna put baby in you? Tbh I think Melinda wanted Harry to match with her and had too many drinks. If she wasn't on a dating show I would feel the same as you
This is why Alara and Stevan didn't win. I had a feeling something was off. When the camera wasn't around, I think the cast didn't see the sincerity. That finale makes sense now.
they say “wrong time” as if they didn’t choose to be on the show to find love….
Harry Stays “growing” without any actual growth 👀
i knew none of them where actually compatible 😂 but i feel bad for alara cuz stevan didnt seem genuine
It’s not even an issue of compatibility.. they just want some attention and fun and not looking for anything serious
@@jairae8306 not to mention the guys also are terrible at acting sincere 😂
stevan straight to jail
😂😂😂 omg hilarious with so few words! Brilliant. And 100% agree, his face should be up on a wall “do NOT date this man!” lol
STEVAN WTF???????? I honestly thought he was madly in love with Alara. Liar liar, pants on fire
wooooow so Stevan really did all that for the cameras. Alara, girl please run into my arms u deserve so much better than a phony 😭😭
They need to get contestants that live in the same country to give them the best chance after the show like perfect match UK, perfect match US, Perfect Match Aus for example
I would love for Tolu to get her own show. That's my girl!
Stev: “honestly just didn’t have time to carry on a relationship” IS NOW IN A DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIP
chris still can’t pronounce tolú’s name correctly and i’m not surprised
The fact that Alara literally lives with Micah now (in LA!) And Stevan's like "oh, long distance doesn't work out"
It is very scary how fake some of these people are. They seemed on the show one way, and after completely different.
That’s what reality TV is lol
@@ASarma11 another Harry’s apologist
@@BitterSweetCoffee3nah I’m saying literally none of the people on the show were genuine. None of them were actually looking for love they just went on there for the free vacation in a villa with a bunch of hot people and to get more publicity so people could follow them cause they are all influencers lol
What did you expect? Lol
Honestly...not surprised that none of the couples made it. This season was unhinged. Hope that all will find what they are looking for nonetheless.
The amount of ghosting here is so immature, and I hope they start thinking about the future of this show. The whole point is “Perfect Match” , 0 matches , 2 seasons.
Elys saying people weren’t there for the right reasons is funny because by the end of it she was there to just drool over Bryton’s abs LOL
Also I think Netflix should take note that if a show involves people wearing bathing suits all of the time (Perfect Match, Too Hot to Handle) then it isn’t a love show, but just a manipulation competition
she’s been in a pretty long relationship ever since the show ended, with Nathan from THTH whatever season (the one Holly was on). i do think she (Elys) wanted love & committment, i just don’t think anyone of those reality stars took this show seriously because it’s new & the rules are all over the place & honestly, it’s just a job for them.. a paycheck..
Alara hadn’t felt anything like that before , she opened herself up completely and even was ready to move. Stevan is the real one who fumbled the bag!
Can Tolu host a Netflix show please?
@netflix yes!
i wouldn’t be surprised if she does eventually, everyones in love with her i know netflix is seeing this feedback 😂
No she’s annoying and too full of herself
@@alleniverson5941 she’s funny and confident. There’s a difference. She has a big personality but she isn’t an arrogant, self-centered, ego driven liar. She’s delightful and her positive personality is refreshing.
The fact that bryton stevan and elise are in committed relationships is willlldddd
And Kaz too! I’m vicariously mad for all their exes! Why do the bad guys win?
Nigel take two 💀🤣
it’s the fact that chris still can’t say tolu’s name right after all this time
Whats wrong with pronunciation? Sounds same to me:(
@@ahclo5319he said “tuh-loo” when it’s pronounced “toe-loo”
Funny Americans. Both 'TOE-loo' and 'tuh-LOO' are wrong. This is yoruba name and while still wrong, Chris is closer than you guys. His just not pronouncing the pure and rounded 'oh' sound that's hard for English speakers since it's not in English words. The placing of the accented u is correct.
The closest pronunciation for English speakers is 'Toe-LOO', but the right 'o' sound should be a "pure" 'o' (lips remain round and same size, rather than in English where the mouth opens as you start the sound and gets a bit smaller as you close the sound. Hard to explain.
@@vroxxzzIdiot. Tolu literally confirmed it’s "Toe-loo".
Seeing alara cry genuinely breaks my heart 😕
That’s Why I’m Glad Stevan & Alara Didn’t Win ! I Knew He Wasn’t Serious
Exactly!
Such a douche
@@geenalawrence8338 you racists just mad that the black couple won. 😂 Just like you guys were mad that the best looking white guy in the house wanted to put a baby in Melinda.
@@geenalawrence8338 Nice Try I’m Not Black I’m Biracial 😊 Stevan Didn’t Want Alara For Real
@@ashley.taylor174 Now u know DAMN well Nigel and Christina did not even make it to the house until the last episode because nobody desired them or thought about them for anyone else 😂😂😂😂
They literally ended up with each other by DEFAULT, even Kaz left that girl for Micah.
Harry might’ve flirted with Melinda for a few seconds but then he completely denied her existence just to get back with JESSICA. Don’t get it twisted sister 😂😂
But you’re free to be delusional and convince yourself.
From the sounds of it Nigel and Christine lasted the longest!!!! Called it!!!
Because they were together for a day or 2 in the show. And did she cheat, and did Nigel get back with his ex?
@@GladToBeNatural They were together for nine months after the show. And you could tell they were interested in each other from the mixer. They were the only couple who I thought would meet and date IRL.
Elys is almost a year now in a relationship with Nathan and their getting so strong. I really think they’re something long lasting. I heard they moving in together and she deserved that. For the ones asking why there no pictures of her and Nathan anymore is because of the show 😂
Ngl, I wish we would hear from Justin but I really doubt that 😢 Netflix introduced a hidden gem
Edit: he did an interview on the Positively Uncensored Podcast and it was so good! Answered all our questions and he has great chemistry wit the interviewer. Yall check it out!!
Who’s Nathan ?
@@lisamarie5764he was the biggest playboy in season 3 of THTH
All these guys seem reluctant to match 😂
BRUHHH I KNEW STEPHAN WAS LOVE BOMBING HER
These PR ass answers.. we want the tea!
Hearing the boys side of things vs the women is HILARIOUS!!!
Tolu is too funny and too pure for Perfect Match.
Stevan and Alara had no real reason to break up. It seemed like he just still wants to be a fuck boy. He fumbled fr
Can we never have another season of this show?
Tolu is STUNNING!
This show should not be called Perfect Match. Game players all.
Except Alara. She seemed genuine. The rest….in the bin!
Izzy was really genuine too that’s why nobody wanted him😭
@@letaalexandraasmr izzy was a tad desperate, a couldn’t tell if he was playing nice guy or actually so willing to get screen time by any means that he took the friendship card in situations he knew wouldn’t work out.
What about my girl Tolú?!!!
She was the realest.
I really had hope in Stevan that he would wasn’t like the other guys and I FELL FOR IT 😭
Tolu gives me QUEEN vibes. She’s sweet woman with strong boundaries definitely not the one to play with 💅 I knew Chris wasn’t serious when he said Tolu is holding him back from getting the most out of this experience wtf
Jessica has given me media trained vibes since LIB. I just don’t see the sweetness as genuine.
I hope that’s what it is. If it’s genuine, she’s CRAZY continuing to speak highly of Harry.
She is in love with herself, constantly playing with her hair, she will never find anyone, fake as anything
I caught this too!
I knew Steven was playing the game fully
I mean - fine, I guess - but Why ghost someone you’ve been spending so much time with? :/
@@ida4337 she said he sent a text so
@@flowerqueen2749 oh my bad! That changes everything. 😂
@@ida4337 That doesn't make it right but she wasn't like ghosted which is different.
think on the show he acted like he really wanted more.
@@flowerqueen2749u te naive
Netflix, it says more about YOU and your CASTING for relationship shows when none of the couples work out....
the men this season were just.... but talu omg ive never wanted to be friends with someone more. Realest person ive seen on tv, let alone dating shows.
Makes multiple mean comments about Elys.
“I have nothing but good things to say about Elys”.
Bro.
i dont care about them.... i just wanna know if Izzy is happy???
the way I had to wait for the girls to talk to find out what really happened.
But Dom is getting crucified for being honest...
People wanted him to lie and fake it like all these others.
Tolu is Queen👑, but the same way how she spoke for Dom about the "amazing chemistry" between, she also did the same with Chris. She kept expressing Chris's feelings for him, which made it easy for Chris to pretend to be everything she was saying that he is. But I knew that man was faking it and would ditch her as soon as the show was over. Go back and watch their last date, that man didn't say one word.
Tolu, going forward, let men tell YOU how they feel about you, stop speaking on their behalf and forcing/projecting feelings and chemistry that isn't there.
Dom was likely a jerk in how he handled things, but at least he spoke up pushed Tolu toward finding a better match, whereas Chris faked it to the very end.
I’m guessing you haven’t heard all the tea about Dom’s behavior. A lot wasn’t shown and apparently he treated her pretty badly and told people he HATED her behind her back. Not that she just wasn’t his type. He allegedly had a nasty dismissive attitude towards her as soon as he got in the house. He was very moody and negative in general and the only person he would be consistently pleasant towards was Harry. Add that up with his previous weirdo behavior with other women and THAT is what he’s getting dragged for.
But yeah, Chris disgusts me.
@@MJ-gm7km Wow! Why even come to the house if he didn't want to be around the women he's supposed to pair up with, he's so weird.
@@vickiebenson7980 He’s definitely a weirdo. He seems to have some real issues. On the previous season, he was a big love-bomber. He told Francesca he loved her within days and then latched on to Georgia after he was dumped. Then he turned delusional on Georgia when things didn’t work out and continues to claim she “cheated” on him when they weren’t actually together outside of the show. He probably came back on the show hoping to match with another white girl. It seemed like he resented Tolu because he felt like he should be able to do “better” than a black woman but no one else wanted him.
@@MJ-gm7km I didn't watch the first season so I didn't know anything about him except for his constant crying. I could be completely wrong here but I don't know why I feel like he swings the other way, something tells me he's going to be like that one guy from the bachelor who spent a whole season chasing women only to come out as gay soon after 🤦. Tolú was doing him a favour looking his way, the man looks tragic to say the least.
bro imagine pulling a woman like tolú and ruining the relationship ID BE SOO EMBARRASSED LIKE IM SOO IN LOVE WITH HER
Alara please, you are THAT girl.
Ain’t no way Stevan is too busy lmaoooo Alara is THE CATCH. Definitely his loss.
REALLL
Honestly she probably dodged that bullet, im both happy and pissed off for her
Tolu seems more sane that others tbh
Okay kids, breaking up with someone does not mean ghosting. Ghosting = suddenly disappearing without explanation. No shade when people take the time to express their change of mind, it happens.
I mean they did say stopped replying and couldn’t be reached I’d say that’s ghosting
Elys was definitely ghosted. Bryton even confirmed that he just started ignoring all her messages/calls so he didn’t give her this explanation that you speak of.
@@clarisselarue151It doesn’t sound like Alara was ghosted though. She said he broke up with her and then she blocked him. He didn’t just disappear on her with no explanation. But maybe there’s more to the story and it was edited out?
@@MJ-gm7km Yah definitely wasn't talking about Elys and Bryton. As you mentioned Alara said he broke up with her before stepping back, but also said he ghosted - that was my reference ;)
@@wiiichiiii Understood! Yeah, Alara’s story didn’t meet the criteria lol.
Perfect match is just for entertainment, these ppl never liked each other.
Exactly, everyone for self.
Toluuuu!!! YASSS QUEEN 👑💖!!! Proud of you baby
I don’t believe Christine. The way she skewed the Kaz situation, I’m not shocked by Nigel’s take 2.
notice how the women are all class acts talking about their (shitty) partners... and then the men all dogpile on theirs and deflect from their own shittiness, no taking of accountability in sight. disappointed but not at all shocked.
And they are the ones with video evidence of their deceit 🙄 much like he 2 hour finale, I already saw everything I needed to see and no reason to add "context"
Bryton saying my girl would cut my-. I think he found his perfect match 😊
Tolú is meant to be a star
Can they put people on the show in the same city because it’s always the long distance
Yeah, Love is Blind is one of the few dating shows filmed in the cast’s city.
man, I love Tolú, she is the coolest person to ever be on a reality show
Alara apparently doesn’t know what ghosting is, he sends you a big paragraph explaining why it won’t work and then SHE just up and blocks him
Yeah I’m confused lol sounds like he broke up with her over text
yeah, he didn't ghosted her, but he could've at least called or facetime her instead of breaking up over text!! also he love bombed her
it sounds like he disappeared and then sent a long paragraph explaining why he disappeared
Ummmm how is that ghosting if he said hes not ready for the commitment. I mean it sucks that yall were looking into living together. But if he gave a heads up and then you blocked that wasnt really ghosting? Right?
Oh this is true..
Right so how is that ghosted saying that he wasn’t in the right headspace .
Chris why couldn't you have been better for her 😭
Out of all the couples, I think they were the most genuine. I think Tolu’s insecurities allowed her to listen to the gossip from bitter women. I still think there’s potential there but Chris is socially awkward.
@@ashley.taylor174that’s cap. Tolu was the last girl he went for in the villa because no one else wanted him. As soon as he got outside the house, he tried to shoot his shot at Xanthi and told her he wasn’t able to explore to other girls like he wanted too. He didn’t really like her.
@@theshealist My problem is why does everyone LOVE to point out how Chris didn’t want Tolu? Chris acted just like all the men. Christine did a video that talked about how Stevan was also flirting hard with Xanthi and Britain. But of course that’s ignored but there is this weird push to make Tolu look like undesirable. 🤔
@@ashley.taylor174 I pointed it out because that’s what this post pertained to lol. If you want to talk about Stevan, then go to a post talking about him. And just because he acted like “all men” does not mean Tolu needed to settle for it. I see where your standards lie.
chris is the most fake person out of all of them. ppl think he's an idiot but he is very calculated
People forgetting Stevan is basicaly american Harry 🙄 and what Dom wishes he was. I called cap when alara was saying how much she likedhim and he never replied properly. Eh, Perfect Match was a mess this eason but thank god for Tolù 😅
"I didnt like what i was seeing" same sis! I glossed over the ego admission,but know your worth sis! I wanna see you model more (away from Netflix hopefully) 😊
Tolu is so lovable!!
Harry's inability to discuss the things he does wrong and insistance on separating himself from it (Harry a year ago is literally just you babe. Exact same man.) is scary 😭