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  • 🇿🇦🇳🇬 I got married to a Nigerian pastor and this is what happened | The Amanas
    LOVE BEYOND BORDERS EP.13
    Love Beyond Borders series focuses on inter-African relationships or marriage. I will be sharing and educating on inter-African love, cultural differences, cultural shocks, the challenges and the beauty of it all.
    P.S: We are more alike than different as African people ❤
    On this episode I have Outreach, she is a pastors daughter and now a pastors wife. We talk about her journey, cultural differences and how she navigates being a pastors wife.
    Outreach's Channel:
    / @theamanas
    Thank you for watching.
    Let us continue with the conversation respectfully down below.
    Kindly subscribe to my channel 🙏🏾
    Like this video
    And share with friends and family
    Nigeria meets South Africa
    Naija meets SA
    #nigeriameetssouthafrica #lovebeyondborders #nigerianpastors

Комментарии • 184

  • @theamanas
    @theamanas 2 года назад +27

    I’m I not here enjoying he video like is not my face there😂😂thank you for having me sis this was so fun.❤️❤️❤️❤️your interviewing skill is out of this world

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      🤗🤗🤗 Thank you so much 🙏🏾
      You are truly in inspiration, it was lovely having you ❤

    • @nkhabe03
      @nkhabe03 2 года назад +1

      Very true Serame is an excellent interviewer..

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      @@nkhabe03 Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @maduabuchivitalis5909
    @maduabuchivitalis5909 2 года назад +34

    Am an igbo man nd I've been married to a beautiful South African woman for 10 years and we are still powering strong, with 2 Kids between us

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +8

      Congratulations Sir... may God continue to bless your family 🙏🏾

    • @uzoejekwumadu7731
      @uzoejekwumadu7731 2 года назад +4

      Nwanne iburu ba. Ji sie ike👍

  • @refilweleburu9982
    @refilweleburu9982 2 года назад +17

    I love this channel, I'm South African, I'm with a South African man but I love to see other intercultural relationships. It's beautiful to see us as Africans just loving one another✨

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Refilwe...appreciate your kind words...may God continue to bless your marriage 🙏🏾

  • @bip10plate12
    @bip10plate12 Год назад +8

    This lady(Outreach) talks like us Nigerians.. I just love her expressions

  • @roseibanga7151
    @roseibanga7151 Год назад +5

    I just love Outreach. She is so Nigerian. She is beginning to sound loud.

  • @nelsonakadi7744
    @nelsonakadi7744 Год назад +6

    Pls keep on the good work… u are really touching people. I used to think all South Africans hates Nigerians as a Nigerian…remain bless

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your feedback 🙏🏾

  • @amandaeguale1641
    @amandaeguale1641 2 года назад +16

    It’s not about a country, it’s all about a person, lesson learned 😍

  • @clementnathaniel1490
    @clementnathaniel1490 Год назад +6

    Many Nigerians will full Heaven the way they serve God 🙏🙏🇳🇬🇪🇸🇿🇦🇳🇬❤️

  • @roselinemasetv
    @roselinemasetv 2 года назад +12

    I watched this video with my husband and we smiled all through. You and Outreach did justice to this video. I understand your family concerns about you getting married to a Nigerian, I mean someone outside your nationality. My Father was also concerned when I told him I was getting married to my husband who is not from the same village as mine. In our own case, we are even both Nigerians but different tribes😃But when God leads you, He backs you up.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +2

      Awww thank you Roseline... parents truly just want whats best for us. ❤🙏🏾

  • @millzmaz8143
    @millzmaz8143 2 года назад +7

    Ladies the way you are encouraging me I'm truly grateful praise God. THANK YOU SERAME AND OUTREACH. From a zulu girl

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      You're welcome 😊 thank you for watching ❤

  • @lionessmolapisi7557
    @lionessmolapisi7557 Год назад +8

    The most explosive love story... 😍😍😍

  • @yusufbola356
    @yusufbola356 2 года назад +11

    Well done, honoured lady. We are now at 1k plus. We will get there, Serame. I like u so much. When I finish my PhD, I may come to South Africa to find a good woman.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +3

      Thank you Sir! We are growing 🙏🏾 All the best with your PhD 🙏🏾

    • @yusufbola356
      @yusufbola356 2 года назад +2

      @@SerameAndBeyond Amen. Thank you so much my sister. And I am not sir, pls. I am just 31. I understand you though.
      Pls, tell your hubby that his brother from Ogun state is saying hi.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +3

      @@yusufbola356 Kpele...I'll call you Yusuf. I know alot of people from Ogun State...shout out!

  • @profg5tv785
    @profg5tv785 2 года назад +9

    Beautiful ladies 😍😍 I love you guys. May God continue to bless your marriage. Keep on the good work.

  • @joyorakwue4326
    @joyorakwue4326 2 года назад +11

    The way I’m always looking forward to your videos,the stories keep getting beautiful 😻 Mrs Outreach is such a warm,loving and beautiful mama.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      Awww thank you so much 🙏🏾 she is truly amazing 💎

    • @theamanas
      @theamanas 2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much❤️

  • @nkhabe03
    @nkhabe03 2 года назад +19

    I love this two ladies. May God continue to bless their marriages

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much 🙏🏾

    • @theamanas
      @theamanas 2 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @okpegodson1675
      @okpegodson1675 2 года назад +1

      Why are South African women so beautiful? Maybe I'll consider coming to SA

  • @goddywhite7210
    @goddywhite7210 2 года назад +10

    This interview is so nice and educative. We are all same Africans. Let love lead. Peace and love to you all from Nigeria.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words...🙏🏾❤

  • @sinentlahlagosa1469
    @sinentlahlagosa1469 2 года назад +9

    I am touched by you Serame when you say we must love each other but it will take a lot for our people to reach that level of loving black africans but i must say not all of us have that hate or anger we embrace them

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      It will indeed take time hey and its so sad...thank you for watching Sinentlahla ❤🙏🏾

  • @jacquedelsol3347
    @jacquedelsol3347 Год назад +7

    Thank you woman for your homely and honest chats. I love it. I am British born Jamaican parentage with nigerian/cameroon/bantu roots (will soon acquire through African ancestry my actual people from West Africa ) however married to a Nigerian man. Nigeria and Jamaica are often seen as loud however I see it as expressive and a confidence in themselves, they are proud of their roots, language and heritage. I love my husband and his culture, learning everyday, BTW I identify as Igbo because i watch so many Nigerian Igbo movies . What i have noticed watching your videos is that you have a lot in common across cultures and tradition ie the bride price. This is not part of British culture, the traditional marriage. Also another is the traditional Wear you you all share, the fabric may be different but each region has its own traditional cloth ie Ankara or kente and i know sth Africa has the same. But please forgive not sure of the name. However i love it. We in Jamaica are proud of our Albukulan heritage and have tried to hold onto its tradition. We still eat the same foods and wear the head wraps. Anyway women of Albukelan, keep up the chat and discussions, so we can learn about each other and nite as one. I am proud and love our African ways, we are the original and have contributed greatly to the world. Keep up the chats between the regions of albukelan it is very educative. I was born and raised in the UK, there is no tradition wear for the English although the Scottish are known for their cloth, Burberry and I believe the Irish and w we lshn as well but England is not know for any traditional wear. So identity more with Jamaica but am proud to be African

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing this info, very informative. We as Africans are more alike than different indeed. I appreciate you for watching 😊

  • @kamso9269
    @kamso9269 Год назад +4

    That is a normal voice tone for a Nigerian. We express ourselves with vigour and passion

  • @jonathanogbone9925
    @jonathanogbone9925 Год назад +4

    lol, did you toast me or i toasted you, we Nigerians love our women

  • @ezekieledem9715
    @ezekieledem9715 2 года назад +6

    Good conversation!!! This is a true marriage that has nothing to do with country, culture and tribe. It's really amazing how Man and Woman come together and become one according to the scripture, and the blessing is that you are fulfilling God's purpose in your lives and dominating the Earth with the work of your hands according to the will of God.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      Amen 🙏🏾 thank you so much for your kind words.

  • @samanthamkize6931
    @samanthamkize6931 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for another amazing video. Loved how organic the interaction was♥

  • @samuelwilliams8099
    @samuelwilliams8099 2 года назад +5

    I love this episode. Both of you are gorgeous! I am following her on youtube as well.

  • @chriscleverharrison488
    @chriscleverharrison488 Год назад +5

    Nice one ladies smiles from 🇳🇬 watching from spain 🇪🇸

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 года назад +3

    It so weird, because now I am in a position where I have to keep defending South African men. Preach hunni I am here for it.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +2

      Please continue defending my brothers, they're really good South African men 🙏🏾

  • @smithpaul2253
    @smithpaul2253 2 года назад +8

    Love your channel from🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @victorstephen8548
    @victorstephen8548 2 года назад +12

    Our wives 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @joschkahurst
    @joschkahurst 2 года назад +5

    Hello and good day to you beautiful ladies, fantastic video.

  • @dayeemine4689
    @dayeemine4689 2 года назад +5

    I love you Naija wives watching from the US

  • @olaniyanolabode-sn7pt
    @olaniyanolabode-sn7pt 2 месяца назад

    What a wonderful concept more grace to you.

  • @jonathanokemute6789
    @jonathanokemute6789 Год назад +3

    I,m from Nigeria have been watching your channel , I really love what you are doing
    . Thanks for your information.

  • @ZioniteTv128
    @ZioniteTv128 2 года назад +17

    Nigerians are not bad people is just 10% of bad eggs among us who is giving Nigeria bad names. Nigerians are doing well in corporate world.

    • @reznikboris5
      @reznikboris5 2 года назад +4

      2% ov nigeria not 10%

    • @chrisudoka5420
      @chrisudoka5420 2 года назад

      💯 percent of South Africa are bad.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +2

      Absolutely 🙏🏾

    • @christobelthipe6957
      @christobelthipe6957 2 года назад

      Those in South Africa are 60% crooks. Go to Sunnyside in Pretoria; go to most their churches; why would someone leave their country of nearly 200 million to come and open a church in a community of just over 60 million. Is it because they feel sorry; want to spread the gospel or otherwise; obviously they know majority of of SANS are gullible hence they gravitate to these stupid Nigerian churches.

    • @andersonojoshimite6047
      @andersonojoshimite6047 2 года назад +2

      10%? That's 20 million! Certainly, less than 1% bad eggs.

  • @smithpaul2253
    @smithpaul2253 2 года назад +7

    Amana,..... I'm subscribing immediately to your channel, I hope I can come to South Africa and pick one lady cause everything about South Africa is cool both boys and girls. 🇳🇬🇿🇦🇳🇬🇿🇦🇳🇬🇿🇦🇳🇬🇿🇦

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      All the best Sir 🙏🏾
      One Love. One Africa 🙏🏾

    • @theamanas
      @theamanas 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣you are welcome sir

    • @tutonguni529
      @tutonguni529 2 года назад

      @@theamanas no don't come if your a Nigerian because it will be at your own risk & very dangerous for you dear

    • @cwy685
      @cwy685 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@tutonguni529there's no danger here😂. Relax now. We are waiting for his arrival!!!🤌🏽

  • @sitshengisomabhena931
    @sitshengisomabhena931 Год назад +2

    Sesame and Outreach you are a blessing to me God bless you abundantly

  • @anastaciamaropola8654
    @anastaciamaropola8654 2 года назад +4

    My person♥️♥️The Amana's♥️♥️ We really should love and embrace each other ♥️♥️

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      Absolutely 🙏🏾 💯 thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @sabursamuel3800
    @sabursamuel3800 2 года назад +6

    Fantastic discussion, one love from Nigeria-Ogun State

  • @pambaatimunghono9677
    @pambaatimunghono9677 2 года назад +5

    Educative video. I love all🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. God bless you all

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾 God bless you too ❤❤❤

  • @princeaghamiogie7154
    @princeaghamiogie7154 2 года назад +3

    Your videos are always amazing and educative. Kuddos to both of you.

  • @khonzekaluwayi3489
    @khonzekaluwayi3489 6 месяцев назад +1

    Just starting to watch your video recently..but I must tell you I'm enjoying watching them...hope 1 day you will interview me😂❤

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching, drop me an inbox on instagram (serame.victory). I'm currently shooting season 2

  • @Uchvryheid
    @Uchvryheid 11 месяцев назад +1

    Serame, you are exceptionally good at what you do. God Bless you! Watching from Philly

  • @amazingworldcenter
    @amazingworldcenter Год назад +1

    I love her personality, views and opinions on life. Thanks for sharing her experience with us. May God bless her and her family.

  • @hillcrestprofessionalservi3502
    @hillcrestprofessionalservi3502 Год назад +2

    Two amazing ladies.. Lovely interview..

  • @yemi1able
    @yemi1able Год назад +2

    Wowwww!!!! Thank JESUS, Finally NIGERIANS ARE CALLED BY YOUR NAME LORD🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️
    Thank you so much ladies, I really love your guest’s insights on being a pastor’s wife💗

  • @nkhabe03
    @nkhabe03 2 года назад +6

    One love, one Africa❤️🇧🇼

  • @castro6190
    @castro6190 Год назад +1

    Wonderful!

  • @cis99
    @cis99 2 года назад +4

    I am never tired of watching your contents and you ladies are so beautiful

  • @Mia_-kr3kt
    @Mia_-kr3kt Год назад +2

    Very interactive. Had to watch the video twice. I am Nigerian as well.

  • @kulanimkhekhembacomedian
    @kulanimkhekhembacomedian 2 года назад +5

    💕❤️❣️💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️❤️So Lovely Mrs Pastor ...

  • @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605
    @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605 Год назад +1

    From the moment I saw you I thought you are Righteous , though you are her.
    You talk alike.
    I cried on Righteous ' story .

  • @fran6david114
    @fran6david114 Год назад +1

    Your guess Mrs Outreach Amana is a fun and virtuous woman.
    You Serame too are a good woman.
    Keep it up guys

  • @amukelanimabasa3180
    @amukelanimabasa3180 4 месяца назад +1

    My goodness, she is so wise.

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 года назад +3

    hahahahaha lol I have never been in a situation where I have been mistaken for Nigerian lol. I love how she talks about how people talk about what you should and shouldn't do when they are not happy

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      😂😂😂 I've seen so many of my non Nigerian foreign nationals been mistaken for Nigerians, so funny.
      Thanks for watching babe ❤

  • @bennethamobi
    @bennethamobi Год назад +1

    PLS..KINDLY KEEP THIS CONVERSATION ALIVE TOWARDS CHANGING OUR PEOPLE'S CONCEPT OF MINDSET TOWARDS ONE AN ANOTHER!
    SO...I SINCERELY URGE YOU LADIES TO CONTINUE THIS IN EVERY OF YOUR PLATFORMS..BECOS..AS THEY ALWAYS SAY..THAT..WISDOM IS PROFITABLE TO DIRECT..WHICH..I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT YOU LADIES HAVE AND BEEN EXERCISING IT IN YOUR PLATFORMS AS USUAL?
    #KNOWLEDGEISPOWER🎓💪🎓💪

  • @Simphiweful
    @Simphiweful 24 дня назад

    Married to a Nigerian pastor wow SA women yall are brave

  • @olajideroseline
    @olajideroseline Год назад +2

    Beautiful

  • @paulo.8921
    @paulo.8921 Год назад

    I have seen this episode more than 10 times. Your funniest...

  • @inegbenosedestiny6662
    @inegbenosedestiny6662 Год назад +1

    Impressive

  • @oladipoowoeye1715
    @oladipoowoeye1715 Год назад +1

    I love Outreach sense of humour

  • @okpegodson1675
    @okpegodson1675 2 года назад +4

    Igala is North Central Nigeria in Kogi state the only state to border ten other states, the state is nicknamed the "Confluence State" due the fact that the confluence of the River Niger and the River Benue occurs next to its capital, Lokoja

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      Oh wow interesting...thank you for sharing this info 🤝🏾🙏🏾

    • @okpegodson1675
      @okpegodson1675 2 года назад +1

      @@SerameAndBeyond You're welcome Ma'am

    • @Damian-rt3rt
      @Damian-rt3rt Год назад

      Middle Belt. “North Central” is a meaningless political coinage.

  • @okpegodson1675
    @okpegodson1675 2 года назад +6

    When a Nigerian man truly loves you, forget it

  • @florencetomi2223
    @florencetomi2223 Год назад +1

    i really like your Channel. Has your guess visited Nigeria? Watching from Nigeria.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  Год назад

      Thank you so much.
      Not yet but she will soon ❤

  • @TinoSparks
    @TinoSparks Год назад +1

    Im here wanting to trust God for my life partner. Nice episode

  • @amandaeguale1641
    @amandaeguale1641 2 года назад +4

    As long as you speak different from southern African, they just conclude that you are a Nigerian, that is why people drag Nigerians everywhere

  • @peterigbarase65
    @peterigbarase65 2 года назад +3

    Nigeria guys are very nice

  • @TheTeaWorld
    @TheTeaWorld 2 года назад +4

    Sila 🙋‍♀️

  • @charlesugbomeh9755
    @charlesugbomeh9755 2 года назад +1

    Hi am charles by name . am based in nigeria and i love your show . if you wish i will like to come on your show via zoom and speak more about the Nigerian culture . i look forward to your response . regards

  • @yomi7742
    @yomi7742 Год назад +1

    Is Mrs. Outreach a Vhenda native? She speaks exactly like my sister' friend....

  • @AfricasRealities
    @AfricasRealities 4 месяца назад

    We nigerians are very religious because all Nigerians are very spiritual. People who don't do church, they do juju and the devil gives them favour over you. If you must remain relevant, you must have your own spirituality. So since many of us don't like the devil's way, we get very serious with God's way. You just can't be in the middle, or your life will be meaningless. Lots of people consult spirits to help them in life. You must have your own spiritual backing.
    Secondly, you never asked her your key question, which is, if she has ever been to Nigeria (precisely Igala land in Kogi state).

  • @owhighonelson8324
    @owhighonelson8324 2 года назад +1

    This your sister funny shall

  • @amandaeguale1641
    @amandaeguale1641 2 года назад +1

    How can some people look at movies to judge a country, that is so funny

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      😂

    • @Nadel60
      @Nadel60 Год назад +1

      More surprising is the fact that the morals of such movies are always sidestepped. In all of those movies where certain negative ( fetish) scenes are portrayed, good prevails over evil ultimately.

  • @adeyemikolapo2158
    @adeyemikolapo2158 Год назад +2

    We are not loud🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  Год назад +3

      😂😂😂 izzzz okay...for peace sake you guys aren't loud 🤭🤐

    • @ismailakanni484
      @ismailakanni484 Год назад

      @@SerameAndBeyond
      💪🇳🇬💪

  • @tutonguni529
    @tutonguni529 2 года назад +2

    I hope all of you move to Nigeria truly

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 Why Tuto?

    • @andersonojoshimite6047
      @andersonojoshimite6047 2 года назад

      @@SerameAndBeyond why not?

    • @reznikboris5
      @reznikboris5 2 года назад

      Come down bro, i dont knw why ur heart is bitter , Abi u eat bitter leave just come down is all about love between south africa n nigeria

    • @tutonguni529
      @tutonguni529 2 года назад +1

      @@reznikboris5 my heart is very bitter for a reason & trust me I'm not from an ordinary family money & everything else is not a problem to me & I Can tell you we've had clan & regional meetings behind closed doors we are going to cleanse our country properly & that includes European setters get ready that's my warning remember this our government cannot do a thing about it because we've got our people in senior positions in all positions including the military & police & they don't like what's going we, are waiting for the order wait & see

    • @tutonguni529
      @tutonguni529 2 года назад

      @@reznikboris5 Raznik your a khazarean Ramaphosa = an agent =oppenhiemer = Rothchields we know through theft our wealth funded Isreal & it's economy & now there mascaraiding like there or friends total bullshit we Nguni & Nguni is a son of naphtali genesis 46;24 & they are at the opposite end of our spiritual spectrum they know it & so do we Nephtali, is a son of Yakuba = Jacob so we know exactly who they are

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 года назад +2

    the math was not mathing lol

  • @dukeukaumunna321
    @dukeukaumunna321 Год назад +2

    Our wife I want you to invite my wife to your program

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  Год назад +1

      She can DM me on Instagram @serame.and.beyond
      Thank you for watching sir

  • @patriciamtsi1335
    @patriciamtsi1335 3 месяца назад

    Outreach!!! You look like my grand daughter who is a Nigerian from Igboland:
    Your nose exactly is the same like hers, she is so *Lishica* in Xhosa unlike you my daughter. I like you gal.

  • @peterabrahams5500
    @peterabrahams5500 Год назад

    Serame why are you not in hijab!?

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  Год назад +1

      Why should I be in hijab? I don't belong to the muslim religion.

    • @peterabrahams5500
      @peterabrahams5500 Год назад

      @@SerameAndBeyond I got that clarification while watching one of your videos. Glad you are going to heaven through the Lord Jesus Christ. We love and care for all men and women but salvation or going to heaven or eternal life is by grace through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ alone. Then we obey and trust Him always. He never disappoints never! Glad you are a Christian and belong to Him.