Dealing with Failure and Self-Love with Salama Mohamed

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  • Опубликовано: 29 май 2024
  • In this wonderful first episode of season 5, I welcome my friend Salama! We have such a good catch up on life, but also dive deeper into what it means to be successful, how to deal with emotional abuse and protect your boundaries. We also talk about the reality of being an entrepreneur and finding yourself and your passion. Tune in!
    🎬 Thank you to Poddster for their beautiful studio and team where this episode was recorded: dubai.poddster.com/
    💐 Shout out to Les Fleurs de Jojo for their gorgeous bouquet for our guest: / les.fleurs.de.jojo
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    💌 Come and say hi to me: / sheengurrib
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    Who am I:
    I am Dr. Sheen Gurrib and I want to play my part in supporting the next generation of empowered women. I am an entrepreneur, ex-strategy consultant, adjunct lecturer and content creator and the first Mauritian girl to have gone to both Oxford and Cambridge universities.

Комментарии • 199

  • @dorcasruhamya9453
    @dorcasruhamya9453 22 дня назад +231

    “I wouldn’t trust someone that they haven’t failed in life. Cause life hasn’t slapped you enough.”

    • @daisymiano925
      @daisymiano925 21 день назад +5

      @dorcas.... I'm with you on that. Failure, challenges and hardships build character and prepare one for life.
      Most sheltered people don't do well when they face real life unfortunately❤

  • @larosenoirek2197
    @larosenoirek2197 11 дней назад +25

    Her beauty, strength, and resilience shines through. When she said she had no woman to look up to growing up, I felt it. I see so much of her in myself. She is the type that has so much love to give around, yet with a lonely path to protect her mental health at all cost. You are a true Gem and from a sister may Allah swt bless you for who you are and what you do for others.

  • @mariaboyd7380
    @mariaboyd7380 2 дня назад +5

    You can tell she's not happy. Learning to forgive will set you free and heal your broken heart and spirit.

  • @Wafafaisal78
    @Wafafaisal78 9 дней назад +14

    The begging is the hardest ' just know every situation you face in your life is reaches you something so lemme remind you a beatifull Ayah《every hardship there's comes easy 》 and accept the failure coz No-one tells you the best you're till you see and trust yourself💚

  • @yasminpatel1708
    @yasminpatel1708 21 день назад +74

    I'm with you Salama, cut the cord. I'm loyal as they get, if you mess with my mind and my heart, I'm sorry I'm gone.

  • @charlie77577
    @charlie77577 9 дней назад +8

    Machallah..One of my favourite most influential real life women.. Your advice is always positively affective. I use it for reflection, careful consideration of certain avenues that will help me navigate and maintain a healthy way of moving toward completing goals without overwhelming myself with fear, but not completely ignoring it either.. Thank you beautiful Salama, may God protect you with peace and health🤍

  • @TheFaheem0707
    @TheFaheem0707 23 дня назад +67

    I was missing Salama on YT. Thank you Sheen for bringing her in.

  • @sandipagrawaltalks
    @sandipagrawaltalks 8 дней назад +4

    I learned so much from this video. Your ability to break down complex topics is impressive. Thanks!

  • @nh8624
    @nh8624 14 дней назад +4

    Such a great interview! Thank you for such wholesome words 🙏

  • @rouksarjaufuraully7287
    @rouksarjaufuraully7287 23 дня назад +17

    Real! Authentic & the conversation made me realise to accept failures! Who are you without your success etc. Wow- this made me freeze for a moment.. Love it guys🙌🏻👏

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 23 дня назад +32

    Salama is so real and knowledgeable. I love her❤

  • @SaraAli-pu7vj
    @SaraAli-pu7vj 22 дня назад +23

    I love the material that Salma's headscarf is made from, it is so pretty! And, so is Salma!

    • @lecahier
      @lecahier 20 дней назад

      her name is Salama

  • @oromochic1993
    @oromochic1993 19 дней назад +28

    Everyone is on their own journey in life i wish her peace❤

  • @Soniaraovlogs
    @Soniaraovlogs 19 дней назад +66

    Just imagine how people are fooled by our social media activities they have no idea what we deal with. Its all good when we are on camera nobody shows what’s happening for real

    • @arnelabih1845
      @arnelabih1845 19 дней назад +7

      And they shouldn't problems your life should be private not for the world to know

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 18 дней назад +2

      That is scary how some thing just because people show happy life online it’s real? Nope there are stories behind that picture so people just take care of yourself ♥️

    • @zimasubhan8116
      @zimasubhan8116 18 дней назад

      Well I mean she likes the attention n her life out there. Nobody put a gun to her head to b on RUclips n model with a hijab on. Now playing the victim. A complete malignant narcissistic person. Playing the victim card.

    • @SA-xm8xk
      @SA-xm8xk 16 дней назад +2

      When you create a perception for others who is to blame? Fools leading fools.

    • @ankank2990
      @ankank2990 13 часов назад

      What happened to her

  • @areebarahman8574
    @areebarahman8574 18 дней назад +8

    I love Salama so v much I'm taurus as well I see so much of myself in you..such and inspiration stay strong love from South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @talibatul-ilm
      @talibatul-ilm 6 дней назад

      It’s not in line with Islam to allude any significance to star signs or similar.

  • @richardmuntawbira3212
    @richardmuntawbira3212 21 день назад +17

    its like therapy listening to her talk about her abuse and how to set boundaries. a lot of ppl need that. lots of girls in similar situation. she looks so fit im surprised she has health issues.

  • @ipelengnare2227
    @ipelengnare2227 22 дня назад +2

    Saw your small clips of podcast on instagram and I had to give you the follow. Such an inspiration interview so fulfilling. Thanks for this interview

  • @emiefarie1
    @emiefarie1 19 дней назад +4

    Salama, I see a lot of me in you❤ such inspiration

  • @user-zi7zf8es7l
    @user-zi7zf8es7l 23 дня назад +18

    Hey there, My name is Salma. I totally relate to the clip from 16:11 to 17:46. I felt like I was narrated by Salama here. So relatable except for entrepreneur & mom role of her.

  • @qurandawahlive
    @qurandawahlive 7 дней назад +2

    She is so young mashAllah!! ❤❤❤

  • @Delightful_Gamer
    @Delightful_Gamer 16 дней назад +1

    I can't help but to pick up somewhat of a South African accent from Cape Town here and there. Interesting... I am happy to see strong women such as yourself. You sound and seem to be self actualised as a woman...way up there.🤗

  • @SabBliss
    @SabBliss 20 дней назад +15

    I love how good questions were posed and good answers came in return. Such a great session altogether!

  • @angieluna2415
    @angieluna2415 16 дней назад +1

    I love Salama personality!

  • @notrororo
    @notrororo 23 дня назад +4

    Beautiful talk!

  • @violetayaneva8328
    @violetayaneva8328 7 дней назад +1

    Now this is a WOMAN that mzkes you proud even if you dont know her personaly.True, authentic, natural ....❤❤❤

  • @Saythe5951
    @Saythe5951 10 дней назад +1

    Lovely lady......God bless her❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @bekind535
    @bekind535 19 дней назад +6

    People think building money together is actually that's what keep the relationship stable while is actually accepting each others flowes as long the both parts not hurting or suffering.
    A deep understanding and clear communication is what keep realtionships overcome any obstacles ❤❤.

  • @hinayasir501
    @hinayasir501 11 дней назад +2

    I love you sheen, thankyou for bringing these wonderful convesations. You are amazing your guests are amazing. Way to go! More strength to you gal ❤

  • @user-xs7fz5ym3x
    @user-xs7fz5ym3x 14 дней назад +3

    LOVE THIS SHOW LOVE YOU SHEEN

  • @ZarAvril0823
    @ZarAvril0823 9 дней назад +1

    She has an aura that I like❤

  • @amprabhleenkaur
    @amprabhleenkaur 20 дней назад +1

    Wonderful. Thank you ❤

  • @kamalahasanmoorthy2066
    @kamalahasanmoorthy2066 23 дня назад +5

    "*God Bless Everyone Take Care All Long Lives 100 years and above all*"

  • @HelenWeldeslase
    @HelenWeldeslase 8 дней назад +1

    Waw I really loved it success is when a woman arrives without makeup ❤

  • @user-dm3ir3cl6t
    @user-dm3ir3cl6t 23 дня назад +4

    Love it 🥰

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 23 дня назад +26

    She’s so soft spoken 🥹

  • @RA-tb4tr
    @RA-tb4tr 22 дня назад +6

    It would be nice if you could link Salama’s socials and products to the description

  • @Veggivibes
    @Veggivibes 8 дней назад +1

    Adorable and inspirational lady ❤

  • @qurandawahlive
    @qurandawahlive 7 дней назад +1

    Wowww mashAllah very very nice broadcast

  • @FacelessMommy
    @FacelessMommy 15 дней назад +2

    I wud love to be in her team... ❤ shes beautiful inside out mashaAllah ❤

  • @sitteiaynaacmad3866
    @sitteiaynaacmad3866 17 дней назад +7

    My inner child is hunting me big time. It's sad when you're there for people and no one is there for you. 😭😭😭 #bighug

  • @bjmr1234
    @bjmr1234 19 дней назад +9

    I love her as she has a beautiful soul.

  • @zuleighaabderoef5094
    @zuleighaabderoef5094 15 дней назад

    Really lovely!

  • @ba-abada.1586
    @ba-abada.1586 День назад

    Your courage is amazing. i dont know what happened to you and Khalid but this should not bring you down. pick the pieces and move on. you are lucky compared to most of people in U.A.E. that enough to make you happy. give yourself a break and move on.

  • @DIP4K
    @DIP4K 8 дней назад +2

    she ooozes class
    tone of voice
    mannerism

  • @ann-mariethompson7702
    @ann-mariethompson7702 День назад

    She is telling her truth!!!
    Always the woman/mother is painted as the wrong doer, but only Allah sees the truth, and to see the truth is to see how a person does not have fear of Allah in that situation.
    The situation between Salama and Khalid is between them, and only Allah knows the truth.
    It's their business and no one else's.
    May Allah protect the children. This is the most important thing for parents who are going through a divorce, but sadly, the children become second place, for some.

  • @Shilaxii
    @Shilaxii 23 дня назад +4

    awww two fav person ❤

  • @fauzianaureen5584
    @fauzianaureen5584 6 дней назад +2

    People do not fake depression, but they fake smiles.

  • @Acnt12
    @Acnt12 7 дней назад +3

    Finally I found someone who thinks like me mentally 😪😪

  • @zakia_qamar29
    @zakia_qamar29 17 дней назад +11

    Don't post your relationship on social media. Nazar is real. You'll gonna break into pieces..........

  • @HalimaEmam-mj4oz
    @HalimaEmam-mj4oz 22 дня назад +6

    I LOVE SALAMA❤🎉❤🎁😍😘😚

  • @nidashaikh8390
    @nidashaikh8390 15 дней назад +23

    It's called Nazar (Ayn). Prophet Muhammad (saws) clearly mentioned, do not display your blessings, too much admiration causes nazar. Nazar will destroy you completely.

    • @mkrao100
      @mkrao100 6 дней назад

      How is madness prophecy?!

  • @SallyMiso-wz8zi
    @SallyMiso-wz8zi 22 дня назад +4

    I love you Salama.

  • @veenakhaleque8152
    @veenakhaleque8152 11 дней назад

    A strikingly beautiful and talented lady.

  • @user-bt7jg7fg1s
    @user-bt7jg7fg1s 2 дня назад +2

    My whole heart loves Salama🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Iman_18
    @Iman_18 20 дней назад +12

    And then Allah will satisfy you as if you have never grieved ❤

  • @izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
    @izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 16 дней назад

    love from abudhabi

  • @lindamartin2764
    @lindamartin2764 День назад

    I agree 🎉 you are great

  • @faheema.daniels.2163
    @faheema.daniels.2163 7 дней назад +4

    Sephora is on the BDS list! Boycott Sephora❤🖤💚🍉🍉🍉🇿🇦‼️

  • @asmafassy4781
    @asmafassy4781 21 день назад +3

    Such strong words to learn from you Salama.. 🫂 ! There was a time I wished Salama speak English but here you are as a master piece with so much of great thoughts to share ❤ Thank you Sheen for bringing her in

  • @ahmadzahra7018
    @ahmadzahra7018 12 дней назад +4

    Salama hugs

  • @fiori_nowruz1991
    @fiori_nowruz1991 2 дня назад

    SALAMA beautiful quality person ❤

  • @djFire786
    @djFire786 19 дней назад +1

    Salama I love you

  • @jessesarmiento2675
    @jessesarmiento2675 7 дней назад

    It's the fact that Taurus controls Sagittarius and once that happens Taurus will become frustrated and depressed. Taurus is an Earth sign that's deeply grounded. They need a partner which understands the fact that they're not social butterflies at all. Sagittarius is just the opposite. Salama it's in the starts. Flu and flu? Immune system or psychosomatic conversations. What does a flu offer your deeper self. Is it an escape mechanism?

  • @manno666
    @manno666 18 дней назад

    Great salama mam from Pakistan

  • @DomDollx
    @DomDollx 13 дней назад +9

    I loved this interview, Salama being permitted and being invited to speak w/o interruptions or being talked over.
    I loved having Salama in all the KA videos and they are not the same w/o you, Queen. I appteciate that you seem like a calm quiet person who finally leanred to bring your voice forward, to be heard, to be seen.
    Everything she speaks here reflects volumes about yhe importance of not being overpowered by the waves thrown by others and riding the wave for yourself while serving others w the skills God gave you to shine.
    I pray for success for you Salama and all the self appointed YT gurus soeculating about her marriage has no right. None of you know anything and esp brothers stating they should get back together lol please stop.
    Divorce is legal in Islam, it is permitted. They did not make a scene and they did not invite speculation. Leave them alone. Let them build their lives that is best for them.
    Yes social media is not where you put your business. The couple did everything on screen as respectfully as can be done. They are in a diff stage in life and may each be happy and successful.
    All the best to each of you. Ty for this podcast w Salama. I love her name and everything she has shown and represents on screen for other women to follow.
    Remember they're all human. Be your own guru and find guifance in God/your Creator.

    • @ScathednTorn
      @ScathednTorn 9 дней назад +1

      They have not announced divorce themselves

  • @bushradad2755
    @bushradad2755 16 дней назад

    ♥️

  • @farzanakazmii
    @farzanakazmii 6 дней назад +4

    I dont find her truthful. Something is fishy about her. Doesnt feel the way she talk her words are against her personality

  • @ashdesigns869
    @ashdesigns869 14 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @jessesarmiento2675
    @jessesarmiento2675 7 дней назад

    A Taurus and a Sagittarius are a bad combination. Oil and water. Salama I'll give you endless Virgo hugs. She's so beautiful and her personality is great

  • @raegitano6345
    @raegitano6345 11 дней назад

    Where is Salama from?

  • @Thahaseen-kp3hv
    @Thahaseen-kp3hv 13 дней назад +2

    Is it just me or is Salama the quickest in putting on a hijab beautifully 🎉

    • @Lulu646
      @Lulu646 12 дней назад +4

      It’s not a hijab 🧕🏻 btw her hair is showing in the front ( hijab is supposed to cover all the hair)

    • @MedinatSuleiman-lp2lz
      @MedinatSuleiman-lp2lz 6 дней назад +1

      ​@@Lulu646I wonder why she dose that. I rather not put on a hijab at all instead of covering half of the head

    • @bz2017
      @bz2017 5 дней назад

      That's not how u should wear the hijaab

  • @barbaracanterbury8533
    @barbaracanterbury8533 11 дней назад +1

    👍👍👍

  • @Loveforbeauty442
    @Loveforbeauty442 2 дня назад +1

    Why complain really? She is a native of EUA, have beautiful family and looks that beautiful. I just hate when everyone wants to complain about life..

  • @imbisaatgeti-lu4sy
    @imbisaatgeti-lu4sy 9 дней назад +7

    Why she is silent on Palestine?

  • @syedazhar4856
    @syedazhar4856 9 дней назад

    🌟

  • @rachidanait707
    @rachidanait707 День назад

    Worldly things

  • @pumas2288
    @pumas2288 11 дней назад +3

    Did she get divorced?

  • @FORHUMANITY.
    @FORHUMANITY. 15 дней назад +4

    Never judge something without hearing the other side there’s always 2 side of a story

    • @fathinuur4639
      @fathinuur4639 14 дней назад +1

      What story? 😂 she never mentioned anyone or blamed anyone 🙄😂

  • @KeyaanAli
    @KeyaanAli День назад +1

    Is Salama divorced confirmed? Man they were a perfect couple but I guess what u see from outside isn’t how it is for real

  • @senioradministrator657
    @senioradministrator657 4 дня назад +1

    Salama my dear! There’s a noticeable sadness.
    Your humorous self is missing . Take care sweetheart . You matter . 🙏

  • @ibnadam5789
    @ibnadam5789 16 дней назад +2

    Are they really divorced and why

  • @divyv20
    @divyv20 20 дней назад

    Hey sheen , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?

  • @rahelztzion
    @rahelztzion 10 дней назад

    I think she is deeper...thats a problem by it self other than being good too...

  • @AyeZik_ail
    @AyeZik_ail 14 дней назад +4

    Why does everyone nowadays have same thoughts and same thing to say. It looks as if someone just put words in their mouth or they learn it by heart.

    • @MyTerraincognita1
      @MyTerraincognita1 14 дней назад +1

      Exactly. She comes across as if she received the same Media trainer as the Kardashians .... FAKE

  • @ishatariq9422
    @ishatariq9422 22 дня назад +8

    salama is just much a vibe mashalllah

  • @Maria-ol4rm
    @Maria-ol4rm 7 дней назад

    Does she talk about Khalid?

  • @Cookit_with_Bhoomi
    @Cookit_with_Bhoomi 15 дней назад +4

    Is it true they are divorced😢😢

  • @jumanahaseen8816
    @jumanahaseen8816 19 дней назад +1

    A real women talk..shows how similar our problems are

  • @amfhza
    @amfhza 3 дня назад

    Why they divorced ?

  • @bettyeshete7715
    @bettyeshete7715 6 дней назад +1

    What's the use of the hijab, can anyone explain ?

    • @asmr_iness
      @asmr_iness День назад

      Some type of hijab is part of culture, this one is

  • @dialisa6137
    @dialisa6137 11 дней назад +1

    I, I, I, me, me, me, my this, my that …. 🙄 what a patient interviewer …

    • @dekaahmed3065
      @dekaahmed3065 2 дня назад

      It’s not about the interviewer it’s about salama stop ✋

  • @jennyrayman2505
    @jennyrayman2505 День назад

    So is she divorced or not?

  • @aishatumusa420
    @aishatumusa420 12 дней назад +2

    I am in my 30s, a mom of two..full time housewife, an unemployed husband..I am stuck and I don't know who I really am..How can I discover my true self and become successful?

    • @serkserk8422
      @serkserk8422 11 дней назад +3

      You need a job

    • @aishatumusa420
      @aishatumusa420 11 дней назад

      @@serkserk8422 Thanks..you have no idea how many places i have drop my CV..i am still going out everyday...as a foreigner in another country it is hard to be hired

    • @shalonvhera199
      @shalonvhera199 8 дней назад

      Try to get a job first

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 21 день назад +10

    Where is Salama originally from?!❤

    • @hanah6431
      @hanah6431 21 день назад

      UAE

    • @jannatul5208
      @jannatul5208 21 день назад +1

      Somewhere from Africa.

    • @Cici_mimi
      @Cici_mimi 20 дней назад +6

      @@jannatul5208 She kinda look like Somali though. Very East African look she got.

    • @AB-lp8jd
      @AB-lp8jd 20 дней назад +9

      ​@@Cici_mimi she looks very gulf Arab

    • @yassualkathiri
      @yassualkathiri 18 дней назад +3

      She is Emirati

  • @rr12766
    @rr12766 16 дней назад +3

    Let me guess she's just waffling in this video and not addressing the elephant in the room!!?

  • @user-hx8mw7lg4c
    @user-hx8mw7lg4c 16 дней назад +1

    When you get too high lighted in the society specially women
    They are mostly like to complain about their immediate family
    Coz others become good and they can say any thing bad and the husband or parennt does it its bad
    Thinking one day there is a hero waiting in. Future .
    By that time you hVe missed the best part of your life and luving a lonely life with lots money

  • @PriyaV-fp6ku
    @PriyaV-fp6ku 19 дней назад +2

    Who is she

  • @ArshiyaSanober
    @ArshiyaSanober 9 дней назад

    Wat happend to her husband

  • @granbelleza7875
    @granbelleza7875 9 дней назад +3

    Wait wait success of duniya is not as good as deen

  • @TeluguConsultancyKumar
    @TeluguConsultancyKumar 7 дней назад

    Is this divorced or not?