Please make a part 2 and include a step by step process. It would be nice for your videos if you create fictional characters, give them personalities and then show us how to implement the advice lol !
Assalamualaikum. I just realized that i have the symptoms. For me, i am trying to be more aware of my actions and reactions towards the affections that is given to me. Trying to be relaxed and pushing myself to be more vulnerable to my love ones and i think the key to a secure attachment is to love and accept myself first. I hope this help. ❤
I prayed allah sent a person , we said yes but he hid few things important despite me asking , he used to drink like a social drinker but told me he stopped 1-2 years ago so i was like okay but then i gotto know he smoked 4 smoke per day Then he had beer 6 months ago of which i got evidence I called it off now i think allah will punish me Because we were financially incompatible , i dint like his spending habits this was in back of my mind I donno whether m right or wrong what have i done to myself i dont understand
Allah never punishes us for rejecting someone , you can reject someone who prays and cares for his religion and God wont punish you because it is all about compatibility , u cant marry someone just because they r muslim and religious , anyway , he used to drink may God forgive him , he shouldnt have told you about it if he stopped , it is one thing about not displaying our sins , but if he s still drinking , u can call it off , u cant accept something like that and tht s alright , financial compatibility is also an important thing , u gotta be on the same page with the person u r going to marry
@@hel_5265 i hope so , i was engaged 7 years ago called it off because the guy body shamed me and was not interested in me and after that he has a family now happily married while m struggling to find someone And this guy too lied , i know you dont need to disclose your sins but he did not no the basics of religion sometimes and laughed about these things Also I dont want someone to portray he is X when he is Y This feels like. A betrayal to me I just want allah to help me
@@MissSraG i hope so I found out through insta that he had it 6 months ago i dont expect a grown 28 man to do that Also he lied he should not have lied atleast
Your videos make me gain confidence but I feel like I want to share this not that i want to sound negative which something I really hate but I’m just trying to see if someone can relate to me it’s like I feel it’s hard to find that potential husband I tried many apps and I know I’m not doing an effort now because I don’t go to places where I can meet someone but now I’m thinking I should give one of the apps a chance inchalah i just hate that feeling within when I feel like there this blocking of hope and thinking because I’m 30 i keep thinking it’s hard and get that shaytan’a doubts but yea alhamdulah anyways bless you sister 🩷
I always trust my intuition and my intuition told me to watch Lama's new upload
Same to me❤❤❤.She is a blessings for us from Allah🥰
Excellent ❤❤❤❤❤.Subhan Allah..May Allah bless u, Sister Lama. Love and dua from Bangladesh 🇧🇩
The timing, i needed that
May Allah bless u sister for these reminders 😊
I have an upcoming shofa shareya and i really needed this😭 thanks lama.. so appreciative of your work and will book a session soon
Please make a part 2 and include a step by step process. It would be nice for your videos if you create fictional characters, give them personalities and then show us how to implement the advice lol !
Thank you sis. This helps a lot
SubhanAllah
salam, please could you do a video about avoidant attachment styles and how to heal it ?
Assalamualaikum. I just realized that i have the symptoms. For me, i am trying to be more aware of my actions and reactions towards the affections that is given to me. Trying to be relaxed and pushing myself to be more vulnerable to my love ones and i think the key to a secure attachment is to love and accept myself first. I hope this help. ❤
Amazing video, tysm 🙏
I am always lost when it comes about taking decisions and my gut feeling is not working 😂
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I prayed allah sent a person , we said yes but he hid few things important despite me asking , he used to drink like a social drinker but told me he stopped 1-2 years ago so i was like okay but then i gotto know he smoked 4 smoke per day
Then he had beer 6 months ago of which i got evidence
I called it off now i think allah will punish me
Because we were financially incompatible , i dint like his spending habits this was in back of my mind
I donno whether m right or wrong what have i done to myself i dont understand
Allah never punishes us for rejecting someone , you can reject someone who prays and cares for his religion and God wont punish you because it is all about compatibility , u cant marry someone just because they r muslim and religious , anyway , he used to drink may God forgive him , he shouldnt have told you about it if he stopped , it is one thing about not displaying our sins , but if he s still drinking , u can call it off , u cant accept something like that and tht s alright , financial compatibility is also an important thing , u gotta be on the same page with the person u r going to marry
you did the right thing, drinking is absolutely unacceptable!
@@hel_5265 i hope so , i was engaged 7 years ago called it off because the guy body shamed me and was not interested in me and after that he has a family now happily married while m struggling to find someone
And this guy too lied , i know you dont need to disclose your sins but he did not no the basics of religion sometimes and laughed about these things
Also I dont want someone to portray he is X when he is Y
This feels like. A betrayal to me
I just want allah to help me
@@MissSraG i hope so
I found out through insta that he had it 6 months ago i dont expect a grown 28 man to do that
Also he lied he should not have lied atleast
At least he was honest to tell the truth instead of destroying someone's life with hundreds pleasing lies.
Your videos make me gain confidence but I feel like I want to share this not that i want to sound negative which something I really hate but I’m just trying to see if someone can relate to me it’s like I feel it’s hard to find that potential husband I tried many apps and I know I’m not doing an effort now because I don’t go to places where I can meet someone but now I’m thinking I should give one of the apps a chance inchalah i just hate that feeling within when I feel like there this blocking of hope and thinking because I’m 30 i keep thinking it’s hard and get that shaytan’a doubts but yea alhamdulah anyways bless you sister 🩷