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I am an esteemed psychologist from Yemen, and I once went into the great pyramid of Giza and found a jug of urine that belonged to Pharaoh Ramesses ii, I drank 50ml of it and had strange dreams for a whole week:- 1- This might sound a bit odd and random, but I have actually dreamt of Zeus mating with a palm tree and begetting an ant that is capable of crawling on the edge of the Higgs Boson! 2- I also dreamt of my mitochondria protesting to break free from my organelles, claiming that nature has enslaved them! 3- On another night of a full moon, I dreamt of Professor Noam Chomsky eating books and regurgitating the field of Modern Linguistics! 4- The funniest dream I ever had, was when I had a vision of a Neanderthal swallowing a whole apple, and it played ping-pong with his heart while passing down his esophagus! 5- This is by no means a joke, but the most disgusting dream I ever had, was of a female's menstruation blood turning into jelly and being marketed by an Oompa Loompa as Halloween treats! 6- I also had a nightmare of riding on a mare at night, with the Pharaoh's personal witch, she was pregnant with a fetus that was eating her placenta! Do you think my dreams have any philosophical implications at all? I'm just a little concerned that I'm having a neurological malfunction! Given that I've heard my neurons conspiring to abandon the dwelling of my skull, things don't seem to be heading in the right direction, ever since!

Non emotional non judgmental rational decision is I just have love to give love isn’t always words and if it isn’t words than that means I can love you from a distance so as I sit here feel my love and let it transform you and make you more peaceful and not want to kill yourself or hate everyone or always be angry!!! Smile because today is a new day and everything is going to be ok!!! I love you and don’t forget that!!! HAVE A GOD DAY

thank u so much sister.

This exactly how i feel right now I’m now frustrated and miserable no more and it is so much more freeing thank you so much Lama💗 girlies trust me you are gonna be okay Allah SWT got us

Marriage is indeed a means of great benefit for the afterlife. It completes half of your deen (faith) and is itself a form of worship (ibadah). Even intimacy within marriage is a source of reward in Islam. Marriage also provides a strong shield against fitnah (temptation), and there are numerous sayings from the Sahaba (companions of the Prophet) and Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) emphasizing its importance. Of course, the Qur’an also highlights the significance of marriage. While I understand that marriage is not the ultimate goal, as our main purpose is to succeed in the afterlife and seek the mercy of Allah, marriage serves as a means to achieve that goal. It fulfills a natural human desire-to have a partner and raise children-and aligns with the fitrah (innate disposition) that Allah created within us. I end with a prayer: May Allah grant me and all other unmarried brothers and sisters righteous spouses. As the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said in a hadith: “The best blessing of this world is a righteous spouse.” Ya Rabb! 🤲

"So, is this, this, this and this?" How can you understand that a person can offer this, this and this? I'm sorry but is there a list like on food packaging, that a person can offer this, this and this, imprinted on them as well? How can you be so sure of your judgement? A lonely person will consider a slightest gusture of love as if it is everything they ever wanted. A person will endure every disrespect if they think that they are doing what is best for the disrespecting person, just because they are over sympathetic or prefer other person's happiness before their own. Let alone the things like, deception, gaslighting, mirroring, love bombing or narcissism.

I want to thank you for the amazing job you're doing. Your words are on point, mind blowing, and take you to a state of consciousness that normally it is not easy to achieve. May Allah Bless you ❤️

Sister, I like your analogy and would like to add my own. What do you do if it's freezing outside? What do you do if there's some kind of urgency in your search for a jacket? Will you still look for the perfect fit and risk going out without a jacket, with the possibility of getting horribly sick? Or will you settle for a jacket that fits you and keeps you warm, but is not perfect? I think it’s easy for you to talk about this now, as it looks like you’ve found your 'jacket' already. It’s like we’re meeting in front of the mall at sub-zero temperatures, while I have a t-shirt on, you with your comfy jacket, and you tell me not to worry and keep looking while I’m freezing to death. On top of that, many jackets seem to lie around on my road, but taking them would be like grabbing jackets that aren’t properly fitted, aren’t the right material, or might even hurt me in the long run, even though they seem to be warm for the moment. But if I’m freezing and can’t find the right jacket, I have to trust that Allah will provide in the right time. Maybe I need to be patient, cover up as best as I can in the meantime, and rely on Him to guide me. It's not easy, but sometimes, in the moment of feeling cold and desperate, we forget that there is wisdom in waiting. It’s about remembering that, even if I can't see the jacket now, Allah knows what's best for me, and when the right time comes, the perfect fit will appear. One that won’t just cover me for the moment, but will last and protect me for the long haul.

I was so clueless. I don't understand why... Time waisted but I learned a lot!

Sorry just to be clear how do I get to the mall? How do I actually start looking?

What is considered putting yourself out there. How much is enough. Am I supposed to post my pics online. Stand outside. I’ve been to events and still nothing

May Allah rid our ummah of tribalism, racism and other satanic prejudices. We are one Ummah.

Make a video on how to approach and find malls to get to know potential people pls

yessss heavy on the being told im not syrian enough, i don't even know what that means..

I m so sad and depressed I tried the app no good person coming nothing is working what I liked I didn’t get and my mind is still stuck I feel like my life is stuck to one point that is nothing happening 😢

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I just wanna man 😂😂😂😂

it happened to me and i got rejected by the parents of the guy i was with :)

i'm not looking for a marriage but let’ss goo

I saw one of the jacket and noticed now. Just like love at first sight.but it was really precious and expensive and i dont know someone else take that or not.. my wish is submited to allah and in sha allah if allah wish it will be there and ill get it.. hasbunallah wa ni'umal vakeel

And mixed race too get rejected. Thank u for talking about this. Im seeing black women being desired more these days

I really love your examples 😅 it really shows the perspective

Yo this happened to me😂 not even 2 months back

Thank you Lamaa for speaking up and highlighting the issue some black women go through. Idk if you saw my comment but your video was the answer to my worries. You don’t even realize how helpful you are and I pray that Allah bless you abundantly for your efforts and help. I’m definitely going to repeat this video x1000 times.

This is a serious issue, and it's painful 😭😬. It's a serious bias.

I’m 44 😢 not married maybe Allah is saving me from being hurt from being married

Jazakallah khaira sister ,may Allah bless you❤

Thanks I just feel very frustrated with the dating scene it’s easier if you are younger as our men prefer younger and beautiful even these ‘good men’. These men have so many choices and unfortunately they can easy reject the ‘good women’. I wish men were educated to find good Muslim women not just what pleases their eyes! There is something fundamentally wrong with the upbringing of men compared to women that’s why it’s harder for us to marry.

This Dunya is exhausting people act like marriage is the end all be all . This Dunya is temporary and delusion . I’m a 44 almost 45 year old sister and never got married . I think it’s not in Allah plan for me to be married in this Dunya maybe my Allah has someone better for me like one of the companions in the Akirah 😊 Insha Allah

Ur hands are cute

ayo this halal girl is coming in correct. straight facts.

What a such Femini st advice!. Your are clearly not qualified. Have a dad or a brother to get you through the process to find a virtuous, respectable and responsible spouse. They are better than you in evaluating men. Leave these sisters to their dad's and brothers.

Best one..i am 31..and planning to get married(its already too late i guess XD), but the problems i am facing finding a life partner is real..and then all on a sudden i got this video on my list, maybe Almighty Allah wanted me to get the gist of it...thank you sister for your effort coz this really helps

Recently discovered your channel… luv you content! Thank you! Also great job using the Deen as a reference in your videos! I think that’s very important

as salam aleykoum, I don’t want to get married right now as a 22 yo man because of my own flaws that I am currently treating, but also because good women who actually follow Islam rulling and not western values is very difficult to find in my country. They want a man that will pay for everything but don’t have the authority that comes with that when they are litteraly under his responsibility. More responsibility gives more authority, as man, we have more responsibilities and duties as a husband, and I embrace that, I think it’s masculinity to be the one taking care of your family 100% emotionally and financially. But as a man who preserved himself for marriage, I can’t imagine getting married to a woman who has been sleeping with men and give them the most intimate thing you can give to someone for free when I as a husband have to pay for everything to have access to the same thing, it’s not fair. More than that, I am going to pay for all the past traumas that other men did to her. So how can I find a virgin woman like me who will accept that in Islam the husband has more authority and the wife must obey him ? I know it’s very controversial because women are scared and I understand that, it’s totally okay, but they need to understand that obey is not in a dominant way, it’s in a leading loving protecting way. I am not going to wake up my wife at 3am to tell her go make me food, or see her as a dishwasher, NO, that’s not what is obedience. Obedience is being submissive to a man who showed you that he genuinely wants the best for you, take care of you and want to lead you to the best, your role as a woman when you find that man is to submit, otherwise the marriage won’t last.

As a woman with life experience NEVER accept a man who is not where he wants to be. You have a HIGH RISK of being replaced as soon as he will be able to do so.😂😂

Jazak Allah sister 🥰

Can you please elaborate your “50/50 ghetto stuff” comment ? Frankly, imho, reality sometimes dictate the wife to chip-in financially to make happy marriage work, regardless if it’s a 50/50, 40/30, 80/20 split in financial compatibility to make marriage happen. Particularly, if the husband choose not to be engaged as employee of highly capitalistic-materialistic and unIslamic business environment if you live in the U.S. or the U.K. Also, are you pushing the idea that Islam teaches a wife to be materialistic wife or living a glitzy “Dubai wives” lifestyle is a life of islamicity ?

I started to watch all your videos from the beginning and I feel like we are doing a great work here which is empowering the mindset. Day by day I feel that Allah loves me and puts me in the right ways to follow inşallah <3

Sex is everywhere

Thank you so much ❤

Came at the right time

Then dont get married ! Its that simple. Do we really need more nonsense videos talking about that? I tdoays western world where inflation is highest seen in years and also the stupid mass immigration is causing more population growth, single income isnt enough. Unless woman agrees to work, theres no point . Rest leave in allahs hands

nobody explain how a man can find a wife in islam its haram to even look at a women how does one then even find a wife .

What if you're not allow to meet or talk to opposite sex... 😢

is hunger and thirst a want or a need?

Subhan Allah. This was brilliant. May Allah SWT bless you

As a man, thank you!!! this is a very good video. There are SUCH a wide range of people and EVERYONE can have a spouse they can get along with. There is no neeed to settle with someone you know you cant get along with.

اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرً for your contribution May الله سبحانه وتعالى reward you

By the way, are you married?