I have been told I'm backwards and conservative because I despise how people are carrying themselves, IG has been the worst. I had an account for about 6 months in 2016 then deleted. I'm not joking but people were making fun of me not being on that app. Fashion-wise is becoming ridiculous, I was looking for cardigans and they were basically a piece of fabrics that couldn't suit even a 4 years old. I'm glad more and more people are finally starting to call out whatever is happening, it's disturbing seeing little girls twerking a Christmas. The list goes on...
@@Anonymous-cl2es YT is fine, I have private playlists and I add videos to different categories. This is a long-form content and I much prefer delving into different topics, to me this is the most viable way to open my mind to different cultures and mindsets. In fact I'm now based in Italy but I can connect to the US via YT. I get to know the madness of other social media platforms through the work of critical creators for instance Joey b toon. I'm also basically off Linkedin, I don't want my work history out there, privacy is an unknown concept in this day and age.
@@Anonymous-cl2es YT is fine, I have private playlists and I add videos to different categories. This is a long-form content and I much prefer delving into different topics, to me this is the most viable way to open my mind to different cultures and mindsets. In fact I'm now based in Italy but I can connect to the US via YT. I get to know the madness of other social media platforms through the work of critical creators for instance Joey b toon. I'm also basically off Linkedin, I don't want my work history out there, privacy is an unknown concept in this day and age.
@Rosa I've never been on social media, but I enjoy RUclips for spiritual, educational and uplifting messages and vlogs. Then there's times I limit YT as well. I know that I'm different, because I'm not going with the masses. I wear what I like, I do what I like and create the space I'm comfortable with and the people I'm comfortable being with no exceptions. By the grace of God I have created a peaceful life. Majority of people would call it boring, but to each their own. I'm single, no kids, not dating or getting on my back I'm happy. Also, working on my self-care, self love and self examination/healing. I don't care what people think of me I keep God first and the rest is what it is. Be blessed.
This message is short and sweet, Tony is talking to men and women whether they are ghetto, classy, or sophisticated. A lot of people don't know who they are, so they conform to society standards.
It’s important to know what to wear and where to wear what you are wearing. Knowing how to put it together as well. Real talk Tony. This is adult leadership talk not follower society trend.
I don’t have a “fake booty” or long nails. I’m also a Swedish girl, and I appreciate your perspective. The esthetics of women are up to them though. I work at a private country club and I see the entire spectrum of obvious plastic surgery and less obvious tweaks. It’s so tough as a woman to navigate. No man at that place has to worry about his body or features but women are constantly on and judged by their features. The aim is to stay classy no matter what. It’s just so harsh to feel like men always have a say in what to look like.
The Men have a say because you allow them to define you ; validate you ; and control you … I don’t judge other Women on their looks ; because I have my OWN look and my Husband loves it ; I also DONT participate in any social media except linked in for business. When you put yourself out in the public eye , you get what you ask for … drama and backlash 💪🏾💋
It’s because women are determined their worth by their beauty and men are sets their worth by how much they earn it’s just society and it takes strong people to. Or follow society’s standards but Gods. Pray for a Godly man without Attachment and addiction to society’s measures!
He never said it was up to him. He saying that whay we wear can entice and not help men stay faithful. Evil is here and some of our thoughts come from evil and why would we want a womans husband or other to be lookin at our bodies when lust may rise up and have thoughts come. He is saying if you want a good and healthy man then respect him and respect yourself by considering that other men, women, and children see you and your behavior.
Multiple women (including my own mother) always put me down for my god-given natural big butt. I always dressed modestly. But they made me feel totally ugly and insecure. Now, women are intentionally paying large sums of money to have a BBL surgery to have the butt that God gave me naturally 🤷♀️. I still will not expose or flaunt my butt. But I am upset with all the women who criticized and put me down. Women went out of their way to criticize my butt and tell me I am ugly. Even complete strangers did this to me. The reason I am writing this is to emphasize that NO one should put anyone down for the way God intentionally created us. Maybe you do not find it attractive, but someone else will find it attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Please stop shaming people for the way God created them. If God wants a person to look a certain way, then God did it intentionally. Never criticize God’s handiwork/creation. I am also writing this for the women who are criticized for their natural looks/appearance by other women. I want to tell you to ignore these women’s hurtful/damaging comments. Just because society has a norm for what they think is beautiful does not mean there is something wrong with you if you are not an identical match to that norm. All women are physically beautiful. There are different versions of beautiful. Love and accept yourself.
@@Pheonix1111 You'll be fine! It's a learning curve for all of us. One suggestion is to visit a department store (cosmetic counter) and get a free make-up demo. While you get some tips, just purchase the items that you feel comfortable using. With regard to clothes, there are lots of fashion channels on YT. Check out some of those and use them as a guide to set up a wardrobe. Shop off-season and (thrift stores if you wish) to build your closet.
Thank you Tony for touching on the fact that people do NOT know how to dress for the occasion these days. And it's so annoying. That's why different types of clothes are made for different situations. People wearing out/club clothes to interviews, work and church. People dressing teenagers in prom clothes and full face make up for the first day of school. People wearing casual clothes to weddings. Like let's get it together. It's called adapting.
Tony was spot on! This shows that it’s the little things that set us apart. Let go of the caterpillar lashes, wigs and Cardi B nails.you’ll realize that a good man is going to appreciate classy simplicity
Is it me but did anyone notice brother Gaskin can low key sing 🤔🙂..anywho just a observation 🙂 Gaskin is always dropping gems and blessings through his purpose. Thank you!
Tony! Thank you soo much for this message!! As a young 25 year old woman who is trying to stay true to my values, I admit, the pressures of society today and social media makes it rough for women like me who rather save what you see on social media for my husbands eyes only! Thank you!
Tony your wife is a good example of what you're talking about. I appreciate your words and all that you're saying implying the words behind what you're saying. In other words you're saying would we be embarrassed at our appearance if we were before the Lord. Thank you for all that you said. It wasn't easy for you to say that to a lot of women but it's well appreciated thank you.
Hey Pastor Tony! Thank u for bringing us back to reality, teaching us not to be like the world and what a whole healthy good man is looking for. Perfect! Be blessed.
You are right! This is the type of woman I was in my 20 year marriage and my ex-husband wanted the more worldly woman that partied and drank and traveled more. When I had his kids and help him built his career. Not bitter and forgive just glad to hear the prospective from a real man and know that good men are still out there.
It’s important to be attract the audience of men that you desire. Aesthetically this can be different for each women. All men are attracted to something different. What’s most important is who you are as a person. Are you a wife before you even meet him? In the end it’s important to do the inner work and heal. This is how you’ll be able to attract a healthy, whole masculine man if that’s your desire. This is what I discuss on my channel.
This was real good!!!! You spoke on so many things my husband and I discuss but I can’t really talk to other women about. Thank you for great content❤!
As always, Perfect message! (I’m Proud to be one of the Natural, Healthy, Wholesome/Graceful, Disciplined, Discerning, Intelligent/Educated/Career-Driven, Women on this platform) Stay Blessed/Happy Holidays!
Exactly! Today’s society is fighting so hard to BE what they think authenticity is… it’s not holding on for dear life to rebellion- or running into the room! It’s being an authentic chameleon… in life and relationships. We’ve somehow confused “versatility” with “faking.” If the human is “complicated,” we should be diverse- or have the ability to blend, shift, pivot… in any room.
That’s not authenticity for everybody. Some people try their whole life to fit in knowing full well if they expressed themselves honestly it may scare or intimidate “regular” people. Everyone should do what fulfills them and makes them happy and sometimes that looks like rebellion but it’s truly just freedom
@@lv2756 I agree. Your post brings to mind both Moedecai and John The Baptist in The Bible. Mordecai refused to go with the status quo and bow down to Haman. Yet his integrity and courage saved The Israelites from destruction because he was first used to warn the king of an impending plan to assassinate him. And he was used to persuade Esther to use her position to save their nation. John The Baptist ate honey and locusts, and wore a tunic made of camel's hair. His attire was strange and his food the same. Yet he was used to announce the coming of The Messiah's ministry and to baptize The Messiah as well 🤔. We each have our purpose, portion, and personality assigned and given to us by The Most High to be used for His Glory.
It takes courage, faith, love, to speak the truth, when you KNOW, that truth might hurt, might not set well, WILL cause some to stop supporting you... It takes a true man of God, STILL seeking God and his mercy, to DO IT....because it NEEDS to be done, needs to be said, needs to be heard, DESPITE any backlash that may come. Thank you Tony. We need to hear truth from a man’s perspective, truth that we know is from the heart and not constrained by the wallet. Thank you.
Good one. I was taught to be conservative in appearance. After many situations, I now have my own vision, direction, and thoughts for my life. I don’t need my purpose partner to be my manager.
Great Afternoon 🙏🏽 Yesssss it's a attention seeker👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 most women just don't have respect at all anymore. It's more to life than my body. GET YOUR INSIDE TOGATHER!
I am not a religious woman, but i found a lot of truth in your message and thank you for making it so simple and clear. I realize values and integrity are so important especially when trying to stand aside to society’s ever changing trends. This has helped me. Bless you
Well said brother I’ve been refining my image also. As I’m going into the business world. I’m becoming a classic but also a transitional woman. I know God was helping me confirm what had already been in my spirit. Blessing to your family and you in Jesus name.
Listening to this as many times as possible because this need to sink and a constant reminder that I am the best version of myself. My natural hair, body and all. Thank you uncle Tony
I know this is a SERIOUS CONVERSATION! SERIOUS VIDEO! AND YOU ARE SPEAKING NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!! BIG FACTS! I AGREE! BUT I'm laughing sooo hard because in the very beginning you did a disclaimer and told certain women to click off! You are telling the truth about women These days with the nails booty and lashes! I'm not a immature person at ALL, but your Truth has me laughing soooo hard! GREAT video! Much needed to be said and heard🤍👍🏾😂
Mr, Gaskins! Thank u Sir for sharing God's love, not only with ur words but also with ur life. Sir, Thank u for reaching out and touching the lives of others with the love of the Lord. May God continue to bless u Sir!! May God shower u with His blessings! I appreciate u sir! Much love from the Netherlands!
I hear you Tony! I recently did a photoshoot for my business and tried the eyelashes. Those were the most uncomfortable things I had to wear ever in life. I made a promise to myself never again LOL. Great video as always!
@@dimedavispresentstalkyospit lol I’m saying they were so uncomfortable. I literally don’t get how some women wear them on the regular 😅 but to each her own.
I just seen a lady on TikTok talking about the girls who got bbl or circus attributes that they are only desired but never valued or able to have a real serious relationship with a man, I feel so bad for them b/c some thought it would keep a man or the man would love/ cherish them more 😢
Tony your absolutely right A yr ago i was invented to a bday party at the club, i went nice environment, few minutes later A gentleman approached me He told me i been for 1 hr in this place, among from all this woman You're a classy woman I payed attention since i saw you Never changed I was omg man really pay attention Outhere
Good woman, don't need to say anything,we respect everything, and everyone, and we stay natural ,and just have patience for what is meant for us.whether it comes,or not .this is coming from a good black Cuban woman.thank you for your understanding Mr, Gaskins.Bless you and your family.
I love how you preface your videos 👍🏽 you have a great singing voice too!I appreciate the wisdom you share with us women who are working on ourselves and wanting a good relationship aka marriage. GOD Bless you and your family 🙋🏽♀️💜
I don't usually comment but today I had to. I'm over here cracking up. Especially at the "baby chicken hair w/ lashes." 🤣🤣🤣 Tony you're speaking straight facts! 💯
Thank you for making a video on this topic, we good woman really appreciate you ❤ for the women not looking to be married, healthy & elevated please do not argue in the comments hire you a coach to fix that anger & bitterness
You are so right about how secular music is supposed to emulate the gospel music not the other way around. I love what Kirk Franklin has done because it’s a blend of hip hop/R&B/gospel but he never went trap! John P.Kee has an old gospel song called “Life & Favor(You Don’t Know My Story)” and Queen Naija came with a song a few years ago “Karma” with the same tempo. I love both songs but I definitely do not like trap gospel. It makes no sense.
🙋🏽♀️🖐🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Amen Tony! This video was very much informative & needed for women who want to be married. I hope it touched, inspired & motivated them to change their styles. Thank Tony for always keeping it💯!. God bless you.
I'm naturally built the way girls get their bodies done. I've never had any work done and I certainly have to wear a cover up at the beach etc. I got emotional seeing everyone at the church bbq in their bikinis because I loved to swim but as a single woman I knew better so I just sat out of the water with my pants and crop top. I went swimming the next day with some of the women and as soon as I took off my pants one of the ladies said Kkkkkklkkrrrrryyyyyyyyssssstttaaa!!! Omg your waist is so tiny!! I told them this is why I didn't get in the water when the men were around yesterday. They said you are so beautiful but I could tell they respected my decision. My body is impossible to ignore. I'm an oxy moron in alot of ways. The dark skin girl with alot of hair and now I'm over weight but still heavily desired by men and women. I get compliments almost daily. I'm not be cocky I'm just trying to be thorough. When I was slimmer with this same tiny waist huge butt and flat stomach it was a different desire. People would genuinely be ready to marry me within weeks. I had a man literally pay for toes and nails for a year. I told him I wasn't interested but he was so appreciative of how I carried my self plus he had a foot fetish I never slept with this man nor kissed him. He never been to my house or me to his. I've never rode in his car. He would legitimately meet me at the nail shop and proudly pay for my nails and toes. I'm getting bariatric surgery in 6 months my next body type will be fit slim thick. I'm going to go hard in the gym. I've been skinny with a shape as a teen. Super thick right after my son still same slim waist, flat stomach bug butt. Now I'm a bbw with a flat stomach 273 pounds 4ft 10 been in the 200 hundreds for three years now. Steroids, health issues, bed rest and trauma caused the weight gain. So I'm using weight loss surgery as a head start. I care more about how God feels about me and how I feel about myself but doesn't mean I can't acknowledge how I'm received. Don't be afraid to evolve ladies. I've worn long nails less than ten times in my life and long lashes maybe 5 times but when I see my old pics with them I'm genuinely turned off. I know that wasn't who I really am. I'm so grateful for growth. It's all about becoming your best self.
My God! My God! You are enlightening us! I’m so blessed to love myself just as I am! Natural is genuine! I’m not a 36-24-36, I love my shape and I’m not changing my body for no one! I wear my own nails and keep them classy and short. I feel bad for women who are changing their body. M. I’m saved , grown and sexy🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I am a curvy women with boobs, butt, and hips, I wear a bathing suit that resembles a Capri pant set, my body is reserved for my husband only. I don't understand how some women can walk around half dressed, with their husband by their side and the man is okay with that.
Alot of my clients ask me for short length individual lashes I have real mink and it comes out natural, bold, and lushes You can beatify yourself without overdoing it.
The women with all of those assesories get the attention. Regardless of if it's fake or not. It's women who are naturally slim with small butts that are often ignored by men and body shamed by so called "friends". So men are lying when they say that's not what they want/like? Are they lying when they break their necks to look at those type of women, while body shaming those of us slimmer? Is it a preference more than a spirit? And is all of society jezebel ? because that's all they do is talk about women built that way. I've never heard a man call skinny/slim body type as a preference. Especially in the black community. Skinny body type women are treated better by Caucasian men. But BM will go get a skinny WW and call her thick. Lol
These are all facts!! Same with black men claiming they like natural hair...but thats not who they are with and certainly not what they get excited about. The facts are all these hair, nails and butt augmentations are what men want.
Great and factual info! It’s alarming to even see the so called professional type women, (lawyers, doctors, corporate women) layering up on hootchie type looks wanting to be “sexy” or feel seen😅
Let's go Tony, i'm your number 1 fan from Zimbabwe. This is the truth, we need to do better as christian women and stand for the principles of the kingdom of God. God bless you and your family.
I 100% agree with modesty; I don’t go places to see another women’s goodies displayed ; and as much as I love Mens physics, I only desire to see my Husbands 💪🏾💋
Nothing like a natural, classy woman full of integrity, grace, and honor
😢 😮😮
@@husslepenny7938?
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Absolutely true.
I love my natural body, hair and short classy nails. I dress modestly because I don't like attention. Social media has ruined this world!!
I agree although I do wear protective styles from time to time. I do not have social media except RUclips and I rarely comment
It has ruined this world marriages busting up due to flirty men women online
TG...💯👈 I prayed to God:... " until Im healed please don't send no man my way, I don't want to mess up no good man's life if Im still broken inside" 🙏
I have been told I'm backwards and conservative because I despise how people are carrying themselves, IG has been the worst. I had an account for about 6 months in 2016 then deleted. I'm not joking but people were making fun of me not being on that app. Fashion-wise is becoming ridiculous, I was looking for cardigans and they were basically a piece of fabrics that couldn't suit even a 4 years old. I'm glad more and more people are finally starting to call out whatever is happening, it's disturbing seeing little girls twerking a Christmas. The list goes on...
I don't have social media either. I barely like using RUclips. My life is peaceful with out it!!
@@Anonymous-cl2es YT is fine, I have private playlists and I add videos to different categories. This is a long-form content and I much prefer delving into different topics, to me this is the most viable way to open my mind to different cultures and mindsets. In fact I'm now based in Italy but I can connect to the US via YT. I get to know the madness of other social media platforms through the work of critical creators for instance Joey b toon. I'm also basically off Linkedin, I don't want my work history out there, privacy is an unknown concept in this day and age.
@@Anonymous-cl2es YT is fine, I have private playlists and I add videos to different categories. This is a long-form content and I much prefer delving into different topics, to me this is the most viable way to open my mind to different cultures and mindsets. In fact I'm now based in Italy but I can connect to the US via YT. I get to know the madness of other social media platforms through the work of critical creators for instance Joey b toon. I'm also basically off Linkedin, I don't want my work history out there, privacy is an unknown concept in this day and age.
I feel you, bout to let it go myself.
@Rosa I've never been on social media, but I enjoy RUclips for spiritual, educational and uplifting messages and vlogs. Then there's times I limit YT as well. I know that I'm different, because I'm not going with the masses. I wear what I like, I do what I like and create the space I'm comfortable with and the people I'm comfortable being with no exceptions. By the grace of God I have created a peaceful life. Majority of people would call it boring, but to each their own. I'm single, no kids, not dating or getting on my back I'm happy. Also, working on my self-care, self love and self examination/healing. I don't care what people think of me I keep God first and the rest is what it is. Be blessed.
I really appreciate how you drew the line in the sand between a wholesome woman and worldly woman.
This message is short and sweet, Tony is talking to men and women whether they are ghetto, classy, or sophisticated. A lot of people don't know who they are, so they conform to society standards.
It’s important to know what to wear and where to wear what you are wearing. Knowing how to put it together as well. Real talk Tony. This is adult leadership talk not follower society trend.
I don’t have a “fake booty” or long nails. I’m also a Swedish girl, and I appreciate your perspective. The esthetics of women are up to them though. I work at a private country club and I see the entire spectrum of obvious plastic surgery and less obvious tweaks. It’s so tough as a woman to navigate. No man at that place has to worry about his body or features but women are constantly on and judged by their features. The aim is to stay classy no matter what. It’s just so harsh to feel like men always have a say in what to look like.
Men don’t say anything…. Women just do it cause think men like it…. Most REAL men don’t like those crazy insane aesthetics
@BeKey I agree. A lot of women do it mostly to compete with other women and be _the one_ among their peers.
The Men have a say because you allow them to define you ; validate you ; and control you … I don’t judge other Women on their looks ; because I have my OWN look and my Husband loves it ; I also DONT participate in any social media except linked in for business.
When you put yourself out in the public eye , you get what you ask for … drama and backlash 💪🏾💋
It’s because women are determined their worth by their beauty and men are sets their worth by how much they earn it’s just society and it takes strong people to. Or follow society’s standards but Gods. Pray for a Godly man without Attachment and addiction to society’s measures!
He never said it was up to him. He saying that whay we wear can entice and not help men stay faithful. Evil is here and some of our thoughts come from evil and why would we want a womans husband or other to be lookin at our bodies when lust may rise up and have thoughts come. He is saying if you want a good and healthy man then respect him and respect yourself by considering that other men, women, and children see you and your behavior.
Multiple women (including my own mother) always put me down for my god-given natural big butt. I always dressed modestly. But they made me feel totally ugly and insecure. Now, women are intentionally paying large sums of money to have a BBL surgery to have the butt that God gave me naturally 🤷♀️. I still will not expose or flaunt my butt. But I am upset with all the women who criticized and put me down. Women went out of their way to criticize my butt and tell me I am ugly. Even complete strangers did this to me. The reason I am writing this is to emphasize that NO one should put anyone down for the way God intentionally created us. Maybe you do not find it attractive, but someone else will find it attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Please stop shaming people for the way God created them. If God wants a person to look a certain way, then God did it intentionally. Never criticize God’s handiwork/creation.
I am also writing this for the women who are criticized for their natural looks/appearance by other women. I want to tell you to ignore these women’s hurtful/damaging comments. Just because society has a norm for what they think is beautiful does not mean there is something wrong with you if you are not an identical match to that norm. All women are physically beautiful. There are different versions of beautiful. Love and accept yourself.
@Sunny Lynn I never had the self-esteem to wear make up or the money to afford make up and expensive clothes.
@@Pheonix1111 You'll be fine! It's a learning curve for all of us. One suggestion is to visit a department store (cosmetic counter) and get a free make-up demo. While you get some tips, just purchase the items that you feel comfortable using. With regard to clothes, there are lots of fashion channels on YT. Check out some of those and use them as a guide to set up a wardrobe. Shop off-season and (thrift stores if you wish) to build your closet.
@@rrnn6472 Thank you for your advice. I appreciate your help.
Amen, sister! Amen. You said it @Phoenix
@@Pheonix1111 You are welcome, Ms. Future Diva!
Thank you Tony for touching on the fact that people do NOT know how to dress for the occasion these days. And it's so annoying. That's why different types of clothes are made for different situations. People wearing out/club clothes to interviews, work and church. People dressing teenagers in prom clothes and full face make up for the first day of school. People wearing casual clothes to weddings. Like let's get it together. It's called adapting.
Tony was spot on! This shows that it’s the little things that set us apart. Let go of the caterpillar lashes, wigs and Cardi B nails.you’ll realize that a good man is going to appreciate classy simplicity
Is it me but did anyone notice brother Gaskin can low key sing 🤔🙂..anywho just a observation
🙂 Gaskin is always dropping gems and blessings through his purpose. Thank you!
I'm so glad you mentioned how those long fake nails interfere with cleanliness!
Tony! Thank you soo much for this message!! As a young 25 year old woman who is trying to stay true to my values, I admit, the pressures of society today and social media makes it rough for women like me who rather save what you see on social media for my husbands eyes only! Thank you!
Tony your wife is a good example of what you're talking about. I appreciate your words and all that you're saying implying the words behind what you're saying. In other words you're saying would we be embarrassed at our appearance if we were before the Lord. Thank you for all that you said. It wasn't easy for you to say that to a lot of women but it's well appreciated thank you.
Hey Pastor Tony! Thank u for bringing us back to reality, teaching us not to be like the world and what a whole healthy good man is looking for. Perfect! Be blessed.
J0
You are right! This is the type of woman I was in my 20 year marriage and my ex-husband wanted the more worldly woman that partied and drank and traveled more. When I had his kids and help him built his career. Not bitter and forgive just glad to hear the prospective from a real man and know that good men are still out there.
It’s important to be attract the audience of men that you desire. Aesthetically this can be different for each women. All men are attracted to something different. What’s most important is who you are as a person. Are you a wife before you even meet him?
In the end it’s important to do the inner work and heal. This is how you’ll be able to attract a healthy, whole masculine man if that’s your desire.
This is what I discuss on my channel.
What’s your channel name?
Thank you Tony for being a faithful servant to the Lord & always speaking the truth.
This was real good!!!! You spoke on so many things my husband and I discuss but I can’t really talk to other women about. Thank you for great content❤!
As always, Perfect message! (I’m Proud to be one of the Natural, Healthy, Wholesome/Graceful, Disciplined, Discerning, Intelligent/Educated/Career-Driven, Women on this platform) Stay Blessed/Happy Holidays!
Yes, that was a Kirk Franklin & the Family song, "Melodies from Heaven".
It’s amazing that each of us was carefully made to be unique and so many women want to look the same.
Exactly!
Today’s society is fighting so hard to BE what they think authenticity is… it’s not holding on for dear life to rebellion- or running into the room! It’s being an authentic chameleon… in life and relationships. We’ve somehow confused “versatility” with “faking.” If the human is “complicated,” we should be diverse- or have the ability to blend, shift, pivot… in any room.
That’s not authenticity for everybody. Some people try their whole life to fit in knowing full well if they expressed themselves honestly it may scare or intimidate “regular” people. Everyone should do what fulfills them and makes them happy and sometimes that looks like rebellion but it’s truly just freedom
@@lv2756 I agree. Your post brings to mind both Moedecai and John The Baptist in The Bible. Mordecai refused to go with the status quo and bow down to Haman. Yet his integrity and courage saved The Israelites from destruction because he was first used to warn the king of an impending plan to assassinate him. And he was used to persuade Esther to use her position to save their nation.
John The Baptist ate honey and locusts, and wore a tunic made of camel's hair. His attire was strange and his food the same. Yet he was used to announce the coming of The Messiah's ministry and to baptize The Messiah as well 🤔. We each have our purpose, portion, and personality assigned and given to us by The Most High to be used for His Glory.
It takes courage, faith, love, to speak the truth, when you KNOW, that truth might hurt, might not set well, WILL cause some to stop supporting you... It takes a true man of God, STILL seeking God and his mercy, to DO IT....because it NEEDS to be done, needs to be said, needs to be heard, DESPITE any backlash that may come. Thank you Tony. We need to hear truth from a man’s perspective, truth that we know is from the heart and not constrained by the wallet. Thank you.
Good one. I was taught to be conservative in appearance. After many situations, I now have my own vision, direction, and thoughts for my life. I don’t need my purpose partner to be my manager.
Why is this a serious topic but, funny at the same time 👏🏾😂 Bless you for speaking facts sir!
Yes my thoughts exactly! 😂😂
I'm a real man. And I agree with everything this man said. What society is turning our women into. Good men is not attracted to that.
Women don't want good men
Well spoken sir! God bless you for bringing this teaching of modesty as Godly women. Decency is the key 🙏
Class, grace. Everything should be done decently and in order. Moderation is the key word. We should not cause our brothers to stumble.
Tell the truth & shame the devil! Thanks for the message!
Thank you Mr Gaskins you have no idea how much your videos help us, Also thank you to your wife for allowing you the time to help us!!! God Bless
Great Afternoon 🙏🏽
Yesssss it's a attention seeker👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 most women just don't have respect at all anymore. It's more to life than my body. GET YOUR INSIDE TOGATHER!
I am not a religious woman, but i found a lot of truth in your message and thank you for making it so simple and clear. I realize values and integrity are so important especially when trying to stand aside to society’s ever changing trends. This has helped me. Bless you
Well said brother I’ve been refining my image also. As I’m going into the business world. I’m becoming a classic but also a transitional woman. I know God was helping me confirm what had already been in my spirit. Blessing to your family and you in Jesus name.
Tony you betta come through & educate these women and men about those spirits!! I’m here for this message MOG!
tony gaskins , i feel like i’m perfect bc of u . I’ve been in tony gaskins youtube academy for ab 3 years lol i’m only 18
Such a crucial teaching today from a helpful and Biblical perspective, thank you sir 🙏🏾
I wouldn't waste any time on those who say this isn't true. The devil hates conviction/truth..
Listening to this as many times as possible because this need to sink and a constant reminder that I am the best version of myself. My natural hair, body and all. Thank you uncle Tony
I know this is a SERIOUS CONVERSATION! SERIOUS VIDEO! AND YOU ARE SPEAKING NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!! BIG FACTS! I AGREE! BUT I'm laughing sooo hard because in the very beginning you did a disclaimer and told certain women to click off! You are telling the truth about women These days with the nails booty and lashes! I'm not a immature person at ALL, but your Truth has me laughing soooo hard! GREAT video! Much needed to be said and heard🤍👍🏾😂
Mr, Gaskins! Thank u Sir for sharing God's love, not only with ur words but also with ur life. Sir, Thank u for reaching out and touching the lives of others with the love of the Lord. May God continue to bless u Sir!! May God shower u with His blessings! I appreciate u sir! Much love from the Netherlands!
I hear you Tony! I recently did a photoshoot for my business and tried the eyelashes. Those were the most uncomfortable things I had to wear ever in life. I made a promise to myself never again LOL. Great video as always!
lashes are an enhancement if they are put on right they are beautiful I enjoy mines but they look like they are mines and I can't tell they are on.
@@trulycay5714 exactly the natural ones are beautiful the extreme ones ain’t it
🤣🤣 OMG YES!! Some stuff you just can't do that the world does... that's how you know you were made to be different because it doesn't workout for you💯
@@dimedavispresentstalkyospit lol I’m saying they were so uncomfortable. I literally don’t get how some women wear them on the regular 😅 but to each her own.
@@jessicascreenwritingservices natural beauty is never painful and effortless 👌🏾
How do people afford to go to the salon for nails or hair extensions these day...rent is so high. 🤔
I know you’re being serious but I lost it at “baby chicken hair and lashes”😂😂😂😂😂
"Melodies From Heaven" was and still is a great gospel song 🎵 I wish they still made music like that! Great video, Tony! You stay dropping Gems 💎 ✨️
There are woman that have gotten their bodies done and still get cheated on and not wife up so why do they keep thinking it will attract them a man 🤔🤔
I just seen a lady on TikTok talking about the girls who got bbl or circus attributes that they are only desired but never valued or able to have a real serious relationship with a man, I feel so bad for them b/c some thought it would keep a man or the man would love/ cherish them more 😢
Tony your absolutely right
A yr ago i was invented to a bday party at the club, i went nice environment, few minutes later
A gentleman approached me
He told me i been for 1 hr in this place, among from all this woman
You're a classy woman
I payed attention since i saw you
Never changed
I was omg man really pay attention
Outhere
I really like your traditional, wholesome wisdom/teaching. Continue to allow God to use you.
Good woman, don't need to say anything,we respect everything, and everyone, and we stay natural ,and just have patience for what is meant for us.whether it comes,or not .this is coming from a good black Cuban woman.thank you for your understanding Mr, Gaskins.Bless you and your family.
I love how you preface your videos 👍🏽 you have a great singing voice too!I appreciate the wisdom you share with us women who are working on ourselves and wanting a good relationship aka marriage. GOD Bless you and your family 🙋🏽♀️💜
I don't usually comment but today I had to. I'm over here cracking up. Especially at the "baby chicken hair w/ lashes." 🤣🤣🤣 Tony you're speaking straight facts! 💯
Thank you for making a video on this topic, we good woman really appreciate you ❤ for the women not looking to be married, healthy & elevated please do not argue in the comments hire you a coach to fix that anger & bitterness
You are so right about how secular music is supposed to emulate the gospel music not the other way around. I love what Kirk Franklin has done because it’s a blend of hip hop/R&B/gospel but he never went trap! John P.Kee has an old gospel song called “Life & Favor(You Don’t Know My Story)” and Queen Naija came with a song a few years ago “Karma” with the same tempo. I love both songs but I definitely do not like trap gospel. It makes no sense.
Spilling truth while cracking us up. 🎯🎯🎯🎯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing the message of modesty and humility!
🙋🏽♀️🖐🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Amen Tony! This video was very much informative & needed for women who want to be married. I hope it touched, inspired & motivated them to change their styles. Thank Tony for always keeping it💯!. God bless you.
I'm naturally built the way girls get their bodies done. I've never had any work done and I certainly have to wear a cover up at the beach etc. I got emotional seeing everyone at the church bbq in their bikinis because I loved to swim but as a single woman I knew better so I just sat out of the water with my pants and crop top. I went swimming the next day with some of the women and as soon as I took off my pants one of the ladies said Kkkkkklkkrrrrryyyyyyyyssssstttaaa!!! Omg your waist is so tiny!! I told them this is why I didn't get in the water when the men were around yesterday. They said you are so beautiful but I could tell they respected my decision. My body is impossible to ignore. I'm an oxy moron in alot of ways. The dark skin girl with alot of hair and now I'm over weight but still heavily desired by men and women. I get compliments almost daily. I'm not be cocky I'm just trying to be thorough. When I was slimmer with this same tiny waist huge butt and flat stomach it was a different desire. People would genuinely be ready to marry me within weeks. I had a man literally pay for toes and nails for a year. I told him I wasn't interested but he was so appreciative of how I carried my self plus he had a foot fetish I never slept with this man nor kissed him. He never been to my house or me to his. I've never rode in his car. He would legitimately meet me at the nail shop and proudly pay for my nails and toes. I'm getting bariatric surgery in 6 months my next body type will be fit slim thick. I'm going to go hard in the gym. I've been skinny with a shape as a teen. Super thick right after my son still same slim waist, flat stomach bug butt. Now I'm a bbw with a flat stomach 273 pounds 4ft 10 been in the 200 hundreds for three years now. Steroids, health issues, bed rest and trauma caused the weight gain. So I'm using weight loss surgery as a head start. I care more about how God feels about me and how I feel about myself but doesn't mean I can't acknowledge how I'm received. Don't be afraid to evolve ladies. I've worn long nails less than ten times in my life and long lashes maybe 5 times but when I see my old pics with them I'm genuinely turned off. I know that wasn't who I really am. I'm so grateful for growth. It's all about becoming your best self.
That's good you are losing all the additional weight to become more healthy and I'm sure more active for and with your child.
@@n.Lenice yes! I can't wait to feel better, serve more and just allow my son to experience a healthy energetic mommy. Meeting my surgeon today🙌🏾
I’m here for the message, for the truth, and for the laugh. And as always Tony delivered all three.
Yea teach the word, so many brothers are not doing that we want to keep our self as a woman, not only a Christian woman but a respectable woman.
Lol Tony said how is that going to look at your 5 y.o’s birthday party 🤣🤣
Tony is wild sometimes.
🎼🎼come on Tony with the vocals nah🙌🏽
@Q Scott, I just got to that part and was like hold up now. Tony got some vocals! 🤣
@@coachjessicarich Yesss, 🙌🏽like the 2nd or 3rd time I’ve heard it recently. Man of many talents indeed.
Amen!! God knows how He wanted each of us to look. We’re all unique but so many are trying to look exactly like the next. Deception at its best.
Well said. The message is clear.
Thanks Bro Tony for this reality check for me as a woman, it was truly needed.🙏🏾❤️
I’m actually glad you said something about being to frumpy. I need to learn how to enhance my look the correct way.
My God! My God! You are enlightening us! I’m so blessed to love myself just as I am! Natural is genuine! I’m not a 36-24-36, I love my shape and I’m not changing my body for no one! I wear my own nails and keep them classy and short. I feel bad for women who are changing their body. M. I’m saved , grown and sexy🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I am a curvy women with boobs, butt, and hips, I wear a bathing suit that resembles a Capri pant set, my body is reserved for my husband only. I don't understand how some women can walk around half dressed, with their husband by their side and the man is okay with that.
The adult version of Annie..my goodness ☺️☺️
Thank you Tony for speaking and sharing the truth. You are just trying to help
Solid message
Alot of my clients ask me for short length individual lashes
I have real mink and it comes out natural, bold, and lushes
You can beatify yourself without overdoing it.
This was so good! I’m happy to hear that I’m on the right track!🙌🏽
I had a girlfriend tell me I need to get a Bbl. I don’t desire to look like that. I work out consistently because I want the best version of my body.
The women with all of those assesories get the attention. Regardless of if it's fake or not. It's women who are naturally slim with small butts that are often ignored by men and body shamed by so called "friends".
So men are lying when they say that's not what they want/like? Are they lying when they break their necks to look at those type of women, while body shaming those of us slimmer?
Is it a preference more than a spirit? And is all of society jezebel ?
because that's all they do is talk about women built that way. I've never heard a man call skinny/slim body type as a preference. Especially in the black community. Skinny body type women are treated better by Caucasian men. But BM will go get a skinny WW and call her thick. Lol
These are all facts!! Same with black men claiming they like natural hair...but thats not who they are with and certainly not what they get excited about. The facts are all these hair, nails and butt augmentations are what men want.
They get attention but it’s not from good men.
“The looks that scares the kids” 😂 I love how he adds humor to his messages
I applaud you, people are too scared to say half the stuff you're saying 👏🏾. Cry loud Tony, spare not! Somebody listening ❤️
Another blessed and truthful word!
Thank you for telling the truth, Tony 🙏🏾
This is soo true!! My man calls them simple women! Let’s not be simple minded ladies. Let’s find our true selfs, stick to it and have substance!
You stay coming with the gems, Tony!!!
Amen brother. Natural beauty is awesome
From a coach to another.....GREAT
Great message! Thank you!
I love this ❤ I feel like someone is ushering in a daughter. This is why male perspective is important and vice versa. TY
I hate to see fake eyelashes that make women look like snuffalufagus from Sesame Street
😂😂😂
Yes they do!! Just imagine the damage it's doing to their eyes ☹☹
I know man be scared when they see these extra spider like lashes 😂
Great and factual info! It’s alarming to even see the so called professional type women, (lawyers, doctors, corporate women) layering up on hootchie type looks wanting to be “sexy” or feel seen😅
My favorite Tony, If the Truth Be Told, Ethics is it! Thank You 💓
This snatched me up & needed to be said! ✍️✍️🙌🏽
Wow in this video you have showed me how much inner healing I have gone through.
That’s good for any believer, Sidestep The World. Preach
Let's go Tony, i'm your number 1 fan from Zimbabwe. This is the truth, we need to do better as christian women and stand for the principles of the kingdom of God. God bless you and your family.
loving these talks about the husband I want.👍👍
WHEW LORD…WE NEED THIS ONE UPDATED FOR THE MESS GOIN ON HERE IN 2023‼️💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I 100% agree with modesty; I don’t go places to see another women’s goodies displayed ; and as much as I love Mens physics, I only desire to see my Husbands 💪🏾💋
Amen! Straight facts....🙏💜 I really enjoyed this video. Thanks
Kirk Franklin, "Melodies from heaven", I still listen to that faithfully
Tony you are good and full of wisdom! You think just like me with this music and everything. It should not sound like the world.
This is good, Tony. Thank you for addressing this.
Wow, this is sooo on point!! Amen brother! This is so refreshing to hear!