@outinspace3083 true, that does sound entitled. though at the age of 19, me with my working class parents and near-poverty grandparents, I would have asked the same question anyway. why does my friend need extra money and why are they doing something my parents would never let me do - leave college.
agree but for real now, what does She Lindsay do all day???? they are not having kids, She could work in order to get the house they want faster. And maybe if She would work too, then Dean could handle to finish the college, if He wants to.
@leja9998 the town was all kinds of biased. when she and Dean slept in the 1st season at Ms Patty's , Ms Patty talked to Rory nicely and snarled angrily at Dean as if he did anything wrong. Luke a..auIted Dean, a 16year old, for breaking up with Rory. Taylor Iied to the town that Rory doesn't want to be the Ice Cream Queen because she prefers Yale and doesn't like the town anymore, and kids believed him and yelled at her. The town turned on underage Jess quickly and Babette bad-mouthed him later while giving Rory and Lorelai hot cocoa, not stopping to think that Jess could have used a cocoa and some kind words.
I hated how Lindsay was made to look like the bad guy in Rory and Dean's story, I mean, your husband spends his time talking to his first love every chance he gets, and when you confront him he takes it out on you just because the other girl just plays with the whole situation, gooooood
@dynamightsbabie she was made to look like the bad guy? she talks to him nicely and he yells at her to never check his phone. Then Rory sees her talking to the man in the store about how to prepare the food to make Dean happy. She's constantly being shown as trying to be nice to him.
Wow, Rory is insufferable. What exactly is wrong with construction, with any trades. Dean has never shown interest in academic study, what was he even studying. He seems like he would thrive with an apprenticeship, smart enough and strong enough to do well and earn good money. What exactly did Rory's Ivy league education get her anyway.
The trades are an honourable profession. But Rory is from a family that highly values education. So of course she would be biased. A university degree isn't necessarily to get you a job, a university degree helps one develop skills, time management, information discernment, and a well rounded education.
@@violettippet5246those aren't things that can be exclusively learned at a university though. rory's disdain for dean's job is very clearly coming from an unconscious classism she absorbed from her elitist family
@jen9996 Rory is only repeating her family's values here. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on. My parents were very "you have to go to college and have a job, and that's it", and the idea that my peers had different plans was absurd to me. a friend of mine got married at 21 while still in college and i thought that it's way too soon and wrong.
She's one of those Christians so she deserves to be treated unkindly! She had some nerve wanting her husband to be a provider who didn't cheat. She needs to be a strong, independent single mom feminist who don't need no man!!!
Rory was awful to Lindsey who didn't do anything wrong. She treated Dean terribly and the broke up. Dean found a nice woman to be with and she was so judgemental towards her. Granted her and Dean were way too young and immature to get married but she didn't deserve that. Off topic though, I love Michel in this clip
Rory was still young and Dean was also just as guilty painting Lindsey as the awful wife so she’d go along with it, and she fell for it hook, line, and sinker because she was vulnerable while transitioning to Yale. Poor Lindsey.
It's so canon for stories where a spouse cheats. They swear up and down that their other half is horrible, mistreats them, neglects them, and how they're so unhappy so the person they cheat with feels like it's kind of ok. Meanwhile they go home after to what's usually a very loving partner who has no idea.
@pichraksa3966 rory,like me,cannot see how her friends can drop out of school because she's 19 and her family is praising her for being in Yale. when i was 19, my parents pushed me so much to study and go to college, and when my highschool friends had other plans, i couldn't understand it either. i repeated my parents' opinions, that it is wrong to quit school.
OMG THANK U! So many people ignore Rory privilege. She has no idea how much making a living cost because she never had to worry about that. A lot of people have to work once out of school, and only go to college later on.
well, he cheated on said wife with the "friend" not long after... so you have your answer right there. Home wreckers both of them! At least he got his act together later in life. She remained emotionally stunted.
I think that's why Dean married her, because she is sweet. But maybe a person being sweet is not a good enough reason for matrimony. Their marriage was doomed from the start.
@Lizmarie2086 she didn't drop out yet at this point. She later drops out, temporarily only, because not someone, but a guy who she worships as one of the best at her dream job,tells her that she will never achieve the one professional dream she had her entire life. This messed up my 27 year old friend for a few months when something very similar happened to her at her 2nd college. Rory is 21, she thinks Mitchum is someone to aspire to be, she memorizes his bio, and she never had any other career plans. That is risky and people with such one specific direction often fall apart. people who get kicked out of TV talent shows have attempted sui....es
@@dextermorgan-u2z I am aware she hadn’t dropped out yet and her situation, this issue is she is so quick to judge Dean and his situation. No empathy for that real life happens sometimes, as it later happened to her.
@@Lizmarie2086 yes, no empathy from a 19year old who, just like me, when i was 19, cannot imagine a scenario that has not happened yet. i had 1 classmate who got married at 18, and one friend who got married at 21. i had no empathy for them because i was following strongly the beliefs of my parents: Finish college, find a successful job! just like Rory who's pressured by her grandparents and partially also by her mom. 19year olds cannot imagine what life is like for someone else. why drop out of college, when all i hear my entire life is that i should never do that?
@@Lizmarie2086 when i was 18 and 19, i would also have no understanding for anyone my age who doesn't go to university, or even drops out. That was a non-option in the culture of my family and my entire highschool. most of my friends would label such person a complete Ioser. Rory is, just like everyone in my highschool + me, following the logic of her family and professors. the point is, Rory does try to correct her approach later on and be more supportive to his decisions. i never tried until i was like 26 or 27
@@celinelia8127 I don’t think Rory was raised with that societal norm mind set, especially with her mom not going to university and also living in Stars Hallow. Now, yes she has had it in her mind that she the goal was Harvard at a young age, but I think that was more of recognition of her “brilliance” and also projection from her mom. The difference between what you are describing and Rory character is that she judges from a place of entitlement and it is something we see in her character throughout the series. If she was truly felt the way you described then she would have had the same conversation with Lane or Jess. But she looks down upon Dean and Lindsay for their chosen life and because Dean isn’t living up to what she pictured and she needs another reason to not like Lindsay because she has her Dean.
I actually see a lot of wrong in what Dean did all along in the Lindsay situation. Rory should have stayed out of it of course but he is the one who gives out wrong signals, starting from “Lindsay wants a townhouse”… If you are in a marriage, it should be “we want a townhouse” and Lindsay should be working too. Rory is very wise in saying that taking a one semester break is dooming your Academic career but she fails to see how Dean and her are different both on a socioeconomic plane and an intellectual one. She could afford to have a meltdown and had every opportunity to come back from it. Dean was not that interested in anything more than manual labor and this is all fine. It’s true that a university degree does not guarantee a job anyhow, as proved by Rory’s career arch in the Gilmore Girls Netflix limited series. Then again, at the stage of the whole Lindsay situation they were all in their late teens or early 20s. It is so easy to be idiotic at that age in any kind of life choice. It’s the trial and error stage of life. It generally comes back every five years or so. Lindsay should have realized she was rebound girl and she should have invested less in Dean. Dean is a good looking semi idiot who morphs into whatever shape his girlfriend wants him to be so I am not surprised he latched on to Lindsay and then was more than happy to “jump” into Rory, all the while carrying on his pretty uneventful life. Rory was stupid and immature, she wanted all the toys, but she is not mean spirited in general. Just another level of bland. In other words, maybe Dean and her were the perfect couple. She could have kept pretending to be a saint, while he was adoring her and doing everything she wanted and not much else.
@judgementalpuddinglondonca7265 disagree with your last part. you're right they both mess up, and they both even agree they will keep talking even though Lindsay doesn't want them to. the marriage should be a priority and their friendship should be put on hold here. Lindsay is very obviously following advice and example of her own mother and Dean made it clear in s1 that his mom is Donna Reed type and he kind of probably wants a wife like that. Rory is not that type, she has career plans since childhood and she's not into being a housewife like Lindsay. Dean wants Rory mostly because he never got over their breakup in s3. it wouldn't work with them. they both failed to move on. Rory had unstable shortlive dating experiences in her 1st year at Yale and Jess reminds her, as she tells Lane, that Dean made her feel all secure, predictable, safe. so she backtracks. richard and emily keep teaching her she can disregard other people, especially in season 4, and she goes for it.
@judgementalpuddinglondonca7265 you're right, Rory just can't accept that Dean has other plans and passions than her. which is pretty normal, at her age i also couldn't understand how could my highschool classmate get married so soon. i did not relate at all. Dean is not morphing into anything, though. He's being himself - he made it clear in season 1 that he wants a housewife. Rory is something unachievable for him, he can't just accept that she's too different from him. which is, again, pretty normal, teens do be like that.
As an adult she's really not. Lindsay was a brat and spoiled. A marriage between 2 teenagers isn't going to work out anyway, Dean and Lindsay would have divorced eventually even without Rory in the picture.
@@krn2683 A marriage between teenagers can work out though. I've got evidence in the form of my parents who have been happily married for 37 years. They still go on dates and everything.
@@krn2683 we didn't even get enough information about lindsay's character to know that she was a brat. And if their marriage would have ended "anyway" then it makes cheating ok? Bc it's not for the simple reason of a marriage coming to an end but the reason why
Rory is such a pick me and internalised misogyny makes her think of Lindsay as being spoiled/ridiculous just for wanting a nice stable house with her husband. The way she exaggerates and adds in "rolls Royce" which Lindsay never wanted was so manipulative and she adds it on when telling Lane to make Lindsay seem ridiculous and highly materialistic when it's not the case. I thought that was what made it extra worse is that Rory was willing to lie to make Lindsay look bad to others. Her then admitting to Lane it's not true and they only wanted the house doesn't negate that she even said it in the first place. Another thing is she was not entitled to have any opinion on their marriage or give Dean any advice and yet she acted like she had a say in their life decisions which was very rude and entitled. Also I think when Lane said "Women" it implies she was being sarcastic here because she doesn't seem to actually agree with Rory at all in the conversation and it implies Lane doesn't feel like she can even say what she really thinks to Rory because she doesn't want to lose a friend. That also shows what a bad friend Rory is to Lane because Lane seemingly doesn't feel welcome to disagree with Rory or share her true thoughts when she goes on her ridiculous rants, Lane just has to listen to it.
It actually is ridiculous to not have a job or get some sort of education and just sit at home all day when you don´t even have kids. (Not talking about people who can´t work due to illness or similar)
@@apfelmus4360 If it's what they want to do, I don't think it's ridiculous at all for women to stay at home even if they don't have kids and some people are not there just doing nothing; they are usually homemakers & looking after the home and cooking meals etc which is still work done in the house. There is also other work that some people can take part in whilst staying home such as volunteering in community charities or babysitting for others in the community etc. Work that is outside of employment should still be valued in my opinion. Also I definitely don't agree with some people who say that a woman must have kids to be justified in staying at home; the work that women do is still valuable even if they don't have children.
I don’t understand how people disliked Rory’s ending with the revival. Rory deserved the ending she was given. The way she belittled and treated people like dean always bothered me. I’m glad in the end, Dean lives out a great life with a family and Jess pushes through to create a novel and a stable life. She becomes an elitist jerk as the show progresses. Realizing the hard way that there are other far more elite and smarter people than her. Mitchum showed her that and it broke her. Doing the exact thing she critiques dean here with his semester break.
@@lizziebkennedy7505 that doesn't mean she is not the other woman. And you know what? It's not the last time she's the other woman. She was always irresponsible and selfish...
"Why doesn't she get a job" Rory didn't have one either ugh that annoyed me so much especially "We're friends I get to tell you what I think" well he didn't really ask
Well she was in school, Lindsay wasn’t doing much other than bringing Dream burnt food to Dean’s work. I understand if she wanted to just be a homemaker, but she could have at least gotten a temporary part time job or something to help pay for the town house she wanted so bad.
@daran2612 i assume that this was their agreement, they both wanted her to be a stay at home wife. They never argued about her working out of the home, and dean did say that he liked that sort of thing a couple of years prior. Now, i dont think his at home wife fantasy ended up being sonething he enjoyed in the end, but we can't really blame lindsey for doing what they both wanted.
Dean should have stuck up for his wife. You don’t choose a friend over your spouse…especially since Rory was wrong for sticking her nose in their marriage and talking crap about Lindsey in public.
Not to defend Rory cause growing up I realized I can't stand her sometimes (especially the way her and Lorelai think they are above everybody else) but she's not entirely wrong in this! Dean was clearly interested in college and he was the provider but Lindsay could have helped too financially to achieve their dreams, even if they were more of a traditional couple doesn't mean a woman can't provide and do her part... I understand hating on Rory is a trend nowadays but we can't deny she's not exactly wrong, she's a spoiled brat yes but it's not her fault her grandparents are rich and she got the chance to be privileged in life, I would accept help from my grandparents too if I had the chance! So yeah everything was handed to her but we would take advantage of a privilege too if we had one, let's be realistic here.
@makeupdoll7413 i don't get the Roryhate. sure,she does bad things, that's the point of the show, how Emily and Richard corrupt the purer version of her from season 1. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on. My parents were very "you have to go to college and have a job, and that's it".
She’s not just privileged. She’s a home wrecker. Not all privileged people in real life are bad people. Rory just happens to be both in this TV show. Who doesn’t dislike entitled, selfish people?
@@allay414 she's not entitled and selfish, but she is here in this episode, regaridng Dean. the show has many scenes where Rory is not selfish, empathetic, altruistic, helpful. as a homewrecker, yes, that is terribIe and selfish.
@@dextermorgan-u2z You know, I can actually see your point on this one. I do partially agree with you. However, Rory’s cheating streak is nothing new. She has shown entitlement in other ways, along with selfishness. She’s not the worst person in the world, but these are very evident character flaws that become more of a pattern the older she gets in the show. It’s an unfortunate reality that we all have flaws. But some have bigger impacts than others.
Everyone is hating on Rory, and don't get me wrong, she deserves it, but Dean annoys me more. I don't think "It's okay" and "She'll be fine" is how you should respond to learning that your wife overheard your ex girlfriend (that you're still friends with!!) badmouthing her.
Unpopular Opinion: Rori is right to encourage Dean to continue his studies, I would have done the same thing. The point is that he got married too early and expects to live life in two different worlds, as a boy who studies and as a man who wants a family. Lindsay and Rori are the two voices of these two very different lives. I honestly prefer Rori's because even though she was a b**ch she's on point: he has to finish the commitment he made with the study. Rori is also right when he says that if Lindsay wants her own little house, she has to put her own spin on it too. I conclude by saying that Rory didn't allow herself to gossip, she just vented to her best friend without speaking badly of Lindsay to Dean and unfortunately the girl heard her.
Two very unpopular opinion alerts. Dean didn't love Lindsay enough to be married to her and he would have left her eventually with or without Rory. Secondly, Rory was right about Dean and college. She encouraged him to aim higher and reach his full potential and I don't think that is a hanging offence. Yes she was also jealous, but she was still right.
We will never know whether Lindsay was being selfish or whether Dean was being an unreliable narrator, but the fact remains that the love wasn’t there.
Insufferable. Not only did Rory get mad at Dean, gossiping about Lindsey and blaming her for working him to death when it's not at all like that, especially in an age where we want women to be treated equally. And then having the nerve to cheat with Dean and still blame Lindsey for having Dean cheat on her ....ughhh
Lindsay deserved so much better, Dean cheating on her with Rory was so foul. I just wish this storyline didn’t exist in the show. Also Rory was very wrong for what she said about Lindsay.
@@allay414 well maybe you're not being brainwashed by rich grandparents + feeling romantically insecure after 1 year of bad dating, missing your first love who made you feel safe. wonder how you would handle that situation..
For once I agree with Dean on this as he actually had a point. I’m not a fan of the guy yet what he said was true as everyone isn’t guaranteed with work they really want when they’re finished with college and going college is a good experience to learn something yet for some people it can be a waste of time. Construction jobs have always paid really good money which is something anyway can make a career out of even for some who didn’t graduate from high school. Rory has always been an overachiever for how dedicated she’s been with her academics, yet she shouldn’t have told Dean what to do even from the good of her heart, it wasn’t her place to tell him what to do as they were no longer together.
@user-hl1ct3yh1r pretty standard for 19 year old people. most of them realistically feel misunderstood, with so much chaos happening in their heads, still not quite out of puberty. I know i was a mix of everything my parents say is true (i have to go to college, otherwise my life is over), and actually not having any real idea how to defend the position that people should not physically touch me without my consent. someone who gives me romantic feelings might have felt back then to me as "the only one who understands me"
@@dextermorgan-u2z Idk man. Unfortunately, it is standard. But I mean, I’m 19 and I wouldn’t even dream of doing something like that? Maybe I’m not the “average” case, but I think there are plenty of others my age who wouldn’t do something like this, either. It’s unfortunate for the ones who do, though, because it can have serious effects for the rest of their lives. I just wish more people my age could understand their emotional side; I mean that for their own sakes, and the ones they affect.
since she was "raised by the village" and is everybody's favourite she should've gotten a reaction from the whole town really. we know the gossip runs fast in small places and everyone's fav golden child being the other woman? with the guy she cheated on too?? honestly that should've made it to the town newspaper lol
@leja9998 that town was messed up and unreliable. they all were against an underage Jess. Babette badmouthed him to Rory and Lorelai while giving them hot cocoa, not stopping to think that the abandoned by his mom and dad sad Jess could have used also a cocoa and some kind words. Taylor told the town that Rory doesn't want to be the Ice Cream Queen because she doesn't like the town anymore and likes only Yale. the kids believed him and yelled at Rory. Ms Patty growled at Dean in season 1 after he and Rory slept at her place as if it was Dean's fault and she talked nicely to Rory. they were all messed up.
When they say “small” about Rory’s room, are they being serious?! That’s a huge room! They should see the box room I got when I went to University 😂 Edit: oh I just noticed she shares it with someone… still, it’s not exactly small 😂
@@deztheray8935 and things didn't seem that good from the first episode when she almost rejected all of her mother's efforts to get her into the private school she wanted since who knows how long just bc that day a cute guy talked to her 😭😭
@ElizabethBennett96 i only started watching when I was 35, older than Lorelai in s1. so i watch it from a perspective of a middle aged grownup. I see Rory as a normal teenage girl. she's smart at times, and she makes mistakes a lot, like a teenager. I mostly think about what would i do if i was Lorelai and i think Lorelai is right to not force Rory too often to date or not date someone. she does yell at Rory though in ep1 of season 3 to pick one guy and not treat the other badly.
@@deztheray8935 yeah,and she's 17 there and she admits it to her mom. her mother does yell at Rory right afterwards in ep1 of season 3 to pick one guy and not treat the other badly. I only watch this show since my mid 30s so i think Rory is a normal teenager. she's doing some bad stuff and she also does good stuff. i look at it all from the perspective of someone Lorelai's age, and i mostly think about what would i say to Rory if she was my daughter. mostly i think Lorelai is right to call her out when she's messing up but not forcing her to date or to break up with anyone.
first she cant say shit about their relationship when rory was the other women in the relationshop when dean was married. Rory strung jess along while dating dean. Rory dropped out and jess was the one to convince her to go back to school not dean. Rory also in the reboot became the other woman again with logan and never learned nothing
Wait, so Rory tells him to not drop out and Dean tells her graduating college doesn’t guarantee you a job…and he is going to pursue construction? Dean, my boy, you are not wrong! (Also, construction is lucrative, she knows nothing.)
I get that Rory did mistakes and all, hated skme of them myself. But she wasn't wrong about Lindsay, what WAS she doing all day at home, getting bored and then taking it out on Dean that she gets bored and he has no mood for visits. She missed the point where for the kinda life she wanted she had to marry a way older guy 😅
Throughout the series, it had been proven time and again that Stars Hollow was a Tiny Town. It follows that Rory, consciously or not, deliberately gossiped with the hope that her nemesis would find-out about her and Dean. Twisted Rory--a Cutie-face with a Dark soul.
I agree that after Rory did to Dean she should just stfu. At the same time, there is some true in what she said: " What does Lindsey do all day?????". She should get a job to help Dean so He can finish the college, at least if He wants to
What's the story with Lindsay and Michel? Did he have a crush on her? Why did she say he was standing in a funny way and he said it was because of his pants?
@lagarde2011 he is standing funny bcs he complained before about carrying the heavy furniture. He probably has a bit of a crush here but he never showed the crush in any other scene.
Some people hate Rory because she’s entitled and stuck up. So what. Anyone who’s criticizing the Rory haters and calling them psychopaths are the ones taking it too far. It’s a show and the fan base can participate any way they want.
@lauralie5791 i wouldn't call anyone names over hatingRory, but i do think the hate is going too far. Rory is a 19year old repeating her family's values. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on.
@lauralie5791 it's a little weird to hate a teenager so much, even if fictional on a tv show. The very first episode shows you that Rory starts re-thinking entering her dream highschool, just because she has her first crush. she's 16. it's completely normal for a teenager. she also ends up doing the right decision.
Ironic that she dropped out of school.I feel so sorry for Dean-He loved her SOOOO much.My Heart goes out to them.Rory-her character they ruined it towards the end.I feel that he nevrr should have married Lindsay and just lived his life.Marrying on the rebound-he loved Rory way too much
Rory and Jess deserve eachother they where bot such bad partners. What Dean did was so shitty to Lindsay but he was a good boyfriend to Rory. The audacity for her to lecture someone she doesnt even hang out with anymore on his economical choices as if its "cute" she had an attitude and also blaming his wife when she knows NOthInG of the situation? Like a spoiled teenager. Never understood either how people could like Jess when he: was mean to a guy (Dean) he doesn't know, mean to Rory when he was showing interest in her (love how we are still romanticizing guys being dicks to girls they like cause "Boys will be boys") and THEN when they where together he was flaky cold and got angry at her for not wanting sex?!??! Not to fOrgeT the RECKLESS DRIVING he did that caused an accident and him leaving her in the car?!?!?.💀
@user-rg9ji4yq2c we don't know if Lindsay was really seIfish, because we don't see her talking about it. We don't know if maybe her mother didn't push Lindsay and Dean into it. we only know Dean's short version of it. also, Dean was never super nerdy, he was not into academics like Rory, so maybe he's doing what also he wants, not only what Lindsay wants.
@user-rg9ji4yq2c that is never proven. Lindsay seems to always obey her mother. and Dean seems to not be against the townhouse. it might be not selfish at all
@dddeeee9222 she doesn't know yet that she will dropout. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on. My parents were very "you have to go to college and have a job, and that's it",
@@dextermorgan-u2z ik but still telling someone something and not applying it on yourself is not something we expect from rory and she also didnt listen to anyone not even lorelai also here dean has stronger case because lindsay is his wife whereas rory left because of logans fathers words
@@dddeeee9222 telling someone something and not applying it on yourself is not what Rory is doing at all here. Right now and here, she's super into Yale. Yale is her priority here. She's telling Dean to do what she herself is also doing. The part where Rory is wrong here is that she cannot imagine any FUTURE scenario where she would ever drop out of Yale - but you know that scenario exists because you saw season 5........ She will find out in the future - this is the growing up story. This is very typical for teenagers: they think there is something they would neeever do. They cannot imagine themselves ever going back on their word. But the growing up is about learning that actually, you don't know yourself. You think you would never do something, but life proves you wrong in the future. That is Rory's coming off age story. People do change, evolve and develop new scars.
Dean reminds me of my ex, short tempered, and indignant he is always right and thinks evryone else should agree with him. I hate both Dean and my ex. Only my ex was lazy, and thought welfare was a good idea. At least Dean was willing to work.
@violettippet5246 i'm sorry your ex did not treat you well, as you deserve. Dean,however, does not think he's always right. he accepts and obey Lorelai's advice to call less and give Rory space. He accepts that Rory has to obsess about Harvard and apologizes to her. He also apologizes here for getting angry, even though he was right to reject Rory's comments on his personal life. he does not think everyone else should agree with him at all, there are many other situations where he accepts that people disagree with him.
Why? College the only way to make a living? I see a lot of college grads working at Starbucks and call centers. Heck, Rory went to Yale and has a crap job in A Year in the Life. She’s an entitled, elitist character.
@@krn2683 ya but then again, remember Dean likes the whole 50s vibe thing when the wife stays home and cooks for the husband? And Lindsay looks like she was brought up this way as well because her mom is very traditional. She could get a job but Dean did say he liked the idea of working and then being taken care of at home and he can’t have elaborate home cooked meals if she’s working a job too.
how? she finished Yale and wasn't able to get a job. Without her father and grandparents she would be somewhere under a bridge in NY.... Dean was right, college doesn't ensure you get a well payed job afterwards! And people do go back to school. Lindsay did it as well after their marriage ended.
You know they say you should read the little prince once when you're young and once you're older so you get to different stories, THIS IS THE SAMEE!! I realize now that what Dean wanted it's not some crazy thing and Rory is the controlling chick here 😳🥲
‘ExTrA mOnEy FoR wHaT?’ Says the girl who’s been financially bailed out time and time again by her rich grandparents.
FR like she’s so annoyinggg
@outinspace3083 true, that does sound entitled. though at the age of 19, me with my working class parents and near-poverty grandparents, I would have asked the same question anyway. why does my friend need extra money and why are they doing something my parents would never let me do - leave college.
By her grandparents right
Lindsay expects that’s from a boy her own age!
agree but for real now, what does She Lindsay do all day???? they are not having kids, She could work in order to get the house they want faster. And maybe if She would work too, then Dean could handle to finish the college, if He wants to.
Fair, its her grandparents :) they can spoil her
This girl has the nerve to be jealous and talk crap about Lindsay when she strung this guy along and left him for Jess
dean wasn't innocent when he was going out with Rory. So don't act like he was
@@lauriecarson6483 I never said he was, but I think we can all agree Rory treated him like crap, especially when Jess came to town
@@lauriecarson6483He actually was innocent before the whole Lindsay situation
@@lauriecarson6483ya he had some anger issues but Rory straight up cheated on him when they were together
@leja9998 the town was all kinds of biased. when she and Dean slept in the 1st season at Ms Patty's , Ms Patty talked to Rory nicely and snarled angrily at Dean as if he did anything wrong. Luke a..auIted Dean, a 16year old, for breaking up with Rory. Taylor Iied to the town that Rory doesn't want to be the Ice Cream Queen
because she prefers Yale and doesn't like the town anymore, and kids believed him and yelled at her. The
town turned on underage Jess quickly and Babette bad-mouthed him later while giving Rory and Lorelai
hot cocoa, not stopping to think that Jess could have used a cocoa and some kind words.
Rory's so insufferable. "Don't drop out, Dean...even though I'm going to dropout myself later."
She's truly awful. Rory was never taught actual morals so.....yeah.
I mean Rory didn't even want to drop out, she wanted a break to reconsider what she wanted to do with her life and her mother had a tantrum
@@daesgatling1345 still she was a hypocrite for first telling her ex boyfriend not to drop out of college even though she herself later did that
AND never get a stable job when finish college 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@daesgatling1345 Dean didn't plan to drop out either yet Rory threw a tantrum
I hated how Lindsay was made to look like the bad guy in Rory and Dean's story, I mean, your husband spends his time talking to his first love every chance he gets, and when you confront him he takes it out on you just because the other girl just plays with the whole situation, gooooood
@dynamightsbabie she was made to look like the bad guy? she talks to him nicely and he yells at her to never check his phone. Then Rory sees her talking to the man in the store about how to prepare the food to make Dean happy. She's constantly being shown as trying to be nice to him.
Lindsay is supposed to look like a good girl, who's too dependant on her mother. very kind to Dean, trying to make the marriage work.
Don't talk smack about someone in the public area of a small town. You forget where you live, Rory?
it's a TV show
@@ThelouwseFD I know. You going to tell everyone else in the comments?
@@seangriffin2053 no just you because of course they had to have Lindsey hear Rory for the plot to go forward
@@ThelouwseFDno shit?
@@whatwhatwhatttttt my point is that it's not because Rory is stupid... it's because the writer wanted to further the plot
Rory’s reaction to Dean’s announcement is the same as Lorelai’s reaction to Rory wanting to take a brake from school. I like these parallels.
Wow, Rory is insufferable. What exactly is wrong with construction, with any trades. Dean has never shown interest in academic study, what was he even studying. He seems like he would thrive with an apprenticeship, smart enough and strong enough to do well and earn good money. What exactly did Rory's Ivy league education get her anyway.
The trades are an honourable profession. But Rory is from a family that highly values education. So of course she would be biased. A university degree isn't necessarily to get you a job, a university degree helps one develop skills, time management, information discernment, and a well rounded education.
@@violettippet5246those aren't things that can be exclusively learned at a university though. rory's disdain for dean's job is very clearly coming from an unconscious classism she absorbed from her elitist family
@@SuperHappyNotMerry Her mother works a blue collar job. I doubt that. Those are the things you learn on top of what you choose to study.
@@violettippet5246no, that came from her grandparents who have financed her education
@jen9996 Rory is only repeating her family's values here. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on. My parents were very "you have to go to college and have a job, and that's it", and the idea that my peers had different
plans was absurd to me. a friend of mine got married at 21 while still in college and i thought that it's way too soon and wrong.
They treated Lindsey so horribly
She's one of those Christians so she deserves to be treated unkindly! She had some nerve wanting her husband to be a provider who didn't cheat.
She needs to be a strong, independent single mom feminist who don't need no man!!!
yup i agree, she might be a little slow but she does have a heart ♥
Dean was more in the wrong.
@@freeassange402 yesss bc he was married 👰
@@freeassange402Yes he was. Dean was her husband and betrayed her in the worst way
Rory was awful to Lindsey who didn't do anything wrong. She treated Dean terribly and the broke up. Dean found a nice woman to be with and she was so judgemental towards her. Granted her and Dean were way too young and immature to get married but she didn't deserve that.
Off topic though, I love Michel in this clip
dean was not innocent when he was going out with Rory. And if Dean didn't listen to Lindsey then he didn't respect her wishes.
@@lauriecarson6483 no, dean definitely wasn't the best boyfriend but how does that take away rory's fault¿? she literally cheated on him so horribly
@@lauriecarson6483compared to Rory, yes he was
He didn’t ask for your advice Rory
Rory was still young and Dean was also just as guilty painting Lindsey as the awful wife so she’d go along with it, and she fell for it hook, line, and sinker because she was vulnerable while transitioning to Yale.
Poor Lindsey.
It's so canon for stories where a spouse cheats. They swear up and down that their other half is horrible, mistreats them, neglects them, and how they're so unhappy so the person they cheat with feels like it's kind of ok. Meanwhile they go home after to what's usually a very loving partner who has no idea.
I see nothing wrong with wanting a townhouse for your wife! Especially when you’re a couple having to live with someone. Geez Rory
Yeah, nah.before you’ve even finished your education? What the?
And I don't see why Lindsey couldn't help if she wanted stuff. The marriage was unhealthy
Rory is crazy 😂
Lindsay could get off her ass and get a job.
@pichraksa3966 rory,like me,cannot see how her friends can drop out of school because she's 19 and her family is praising her for being in Yale. when i was 19, my parents pushed me so much to study and go to college, and when my highschool friends
had other plans, i couldn't understand it either. i repeated my parents' opinions, that it is wrong to quit school.
dear Rory not everyone has rich grandparents who pay for their grandchildren's education
OMG THANK U! So many people ignore Rory privilege. She has no idea how much making a living cost because she never had to worry about that. A lot of people have to work once out of school, and only go to college later on.
Rory is a lil homewrecker and like most homewrecker she bails after she does the home wrecking.
to cheat you need two, Dean is responsible too
Dean was a cheater too
Rory should have minded her own business
dean needed to keep his zipper shut while being married to Lindsey
@@lauriecarson6483 and rory needed to stay away from a marriage, but they did the opposite
All the Rory hate warms my heart. My people! 😂😂😂😂
If that makes you happy, you need to get a life.
@@MsEdgelyRight? It's stupid.
@@MsEdgelythe fact that it makes you that angry actually means you, in fact, need a life
@@MsEdgelyIf that makes you mad, you’re the one who needs to get a life.
@@lauralie5791 Angry that someones getting a high out of hate? Lol. Maybe I do need to get a life, but you girls need psychological help.
why would you be friends with a girl who badmouthed your wife...
well, he cheated on said wife with the "friend" not long after... so you have your answer right there. Home wreckers both of them! At least he got his act together later in life. She remained emotionally stunted.
the answer is that men who cheat will justify ANY behavior, there brains are twisted
I'm stuck on the fact that the bookshelf could definitely fit in that corner under the upper shelves
and also in the living room area.
Lindsey deserved better hope she’s find someone for her if I married her I would be a happy man she’s super sweet
I think that's why Dean married her, because she is sweet. But maybe a person being sweet is not a good enough reason for matrimony. Their marriage was doomed from the start.
@@yanan4249 didn't they got back together after Rory insident though?
Lindsey is probably a gold digger lol
Then why would she marry a man with $10. @@lauriecarson6483
She's not sweet, she's as much of a brat as Rory.
Says the girl who dropped because someone predicted her future. And this proves she never had to worry about money
@Lizmarie2086 she didn't drop out yet at this point. She later drops out, temporarily only, because not someone, but a guy who she worships as one of the best at her dream job,tells her that she will never achieve the one professional dream she had her entire life. This messed up my 27 year old friend for a few months when something very similar happened to her at her 2nd college. Rory is 21, she thinks Mitchum is someone to aspire to be, she memorizes his bio, and she never had any other career plans. That
is risky and people with such one specific direction often fall apart. people who get kicked out of TV talent shows have attempted sui....es
@@dextermorgan-u2z I am aware she hadn’t dropped out yet and her situation, this issue is she is so quick to judge Dean and his situation. No empathy for that real life happens sometimes, as it later happened to her.
@@Lizmarie2086 yes, no empathy from a 19year old who, just like me, when i was 19, cannot imagine a scenario that has not happened yet. i had 1 classmate who got married at 18, and one friend who got married at 21. i had no empathy for them because i was
following strongly the beliefs of my parents: Finish college, find a successful job! just like Rory who's pressured by her grandparents and partially also by her mom. 19year olds cannot
imagine
what life is like for someone else. why drop out of college, when all i hear my entire life is that i should never do that?
@@Lizmarie2086 when i was 18 and 19, i would also have no understanding for anyone my age who doesn't go to university, or even drops out. That was a non-option in the culture of my family and my entire highschool. most of my friends would label such person a complete Ioser. Rory is, just like everyone in my highschool + me, following the logic of her family and professors. the
point is, Rory does try to correct her approach later on and be more supportive to his decisions. i never tried until i was like 26 or 27
@@celinelia8127 I don’t think Rory was raised with that societal norm mind set, especially with her mom not going to university and also living in Stars Hallow. Now, yes she has had it in her mind that she the goal was Harvard at a young age, but I think that was more of recognition of her “brilliance” and also projection from her mom. The difference between what you are describing and Rory character is that she judges from a place of entitlement and it is something we see in her character throughout the series. If she was truly felt the way you described then she would have had the same conversation with Lane or Jess. But she looks down upon Dean and Lindsay for their chosen life and because Dean isn’t living up to what she pictured and she needs another reason to not like
Lindsay because she has her Dean.
I actually see a lot of wrong in what Dean did all along in the Lindsay situation. Rory should have stayed out of it of course but he is the one who gives out wrong signals, starting from “Lindsay wants a townhouse”… If you are in a marriage, it should be “we want a townhouse” and Lindsay should be working too. Rory is very wise in saying that taking a one semester break is dooming your Academic career but she fails to see how Dean and her are different both on a socioeconomic plane and an intellectual one. She could afford to have a meltdown and had every opportunity to come back from it. Dean was not that interested in anything more than manual labor and this is all fine. It’s true that a university degree does not guarantee a job anyhow, as proved by Rory’s career arch in the Gilmore Girls Netflix limited series. Then again, at the stage of the whole Lindsay situation they were all in their late teens or early 20s. It is so easy to be idiotic at that age in any kind of life choice. It’s the trial and error stage of life. It generally comes back every five years or so. Lindsay should have realized she was rebound girl and she should have invested less in Dean. Dean is a good looking semi idiot who morphs into whatever shape his girlfriend wants him to be so I am not surprised he latched on to Lindsay and then was more than happy to “jump” into Rory, all the while carrying on his pretty uneventful life. Rory was stupid and immature, she wanted all the toys, but she is not mean spirited in general. Just another level of bland. In other words, maybe Dean and her were the perfect couple. She could have kept pretending to be a saint, while he was adoring her and doing everything she wanted and not much else.
@judgementalpuddinglondonca7265 disagree with your last part. you're right they both mess up, and they both even agree they will keep talking even though Lindsay doesn't want them to. the marriage should be a priority and their friendship should be put on hold here. Lindsay is very obviously following advice and example of her own
mother and Dean made it clear in s1 that his mom is Donna Reed type and
he kind of probably wants a wife like that. Rory is not that type, she has career plans since childhood and she's not into being a housewife like Lindsay. Dean wants Rory mostly
because he never got over their breakup in s3. it wouldn't work with them. they both failed to move on. Rory had unstable shortlive dating experiences in her 1st year at Yale and Jess reminds her, as she tells Lane, that Dean made her feel all secure, predictable, safe. so she backtracks. richard and emily keep teaching her she can disregard other people, especially in season 4, and she goes for it.
@judgementalpuddinglondonca7265 you're right, Rory just can't accept that Dean has other plans and passions than her. which is pretty normal, at her age i also couldn't understand how could my highschool classmate get married so soon. i did not relate at all. Dean is not morphing into anything, though. He's being himself - he made it clear in season 1 that he wants a housewife. Rory is something unachievable for him, he can't just accept that she's too different from him. which is, again, pretty normal, teens do be like that.
They were 18... I'm shocked they could afford an apt at that age
Now as an adult I see now Rory is the problem…
Now as an adult and reading these comment fans are cry babies and insufferable
As an adult she's really not. Lindsay was a brat and spoiled. A marriage between 2 teenagers isn't going to work out anyway, Dean and Lindsay would have divorced eventually even without Rory in the picture.
@@krn2683 A marriage between teenagers can work out though. I've got evidence in the form of my parents who have been happily married for 37 years. They still go on dates and everything.
@@lauriecarson6483just bc people are able to criticize obviously shitty actions as cheating?💀
@@krn2683 we didn't even get enough information about lindsay's character to know that she was a brat. And if their marriage would have ended "anyway" then it makes cheating ok? Bc it's not for the simple reason of a marriage coming to an end but the reason why
“Extra money for what?” I hate Rory. Rory, not everyone has rich grandparents willing to redecorate their guest house for her.
The fact that Lindsay does not want dean to talk to Rory anymore explains why Dean should never cheat on Lindsay with Rory
Did we really need an explanation of why Dean should never cheat on his wife with anyone, Rory or not?
Lindsay deserved so much better
true
Rory is such a pick me and internalised misogyny makes her think of Lindsay as being spoiled/ridiculous just for wanting a nice stable house with her husband. The way she exaggerates and adds in "rolls Royce" which Lindsay never wanted was so manipulative and she adds it on when telling Lane to make Lindsay seem ridiculous and highly materialistic when it's not the case. I thought that was what made it extra worse is that Rory was willing to lie to make Lindsay look bad to others. Her then admitting to Lane it's not true and they only wanted the house doesn't negate that she even said it in the first place. Another thing is she was not entitled to have any opinion on their marriage or give Dean any advice and yet she acted like she had a say in their life decisions which was very rude and entitled. Also I think when Lane said "Women" it implies she was being sarcastic here because she doesn't seem to actually agree with Rory at all in the conversation and it implies Lane doesn't feel like she can even say what she really thinks to Rory because she doesn't want to lose a friend. That also shows what a bad friend Rory is to Lane because Lane seemingly doesn't feel welcome to disagree with Rory or share her true thoughts when she goes on her ridiculous rants, Lane just has to listen to it.
It actually is ridiculous to not have a job or get some sort of education and just sit at home all day when you don´t even have kids. (Not talking about people who can´t work due to illness or similar)
@@apfelmus4360 If it's what they want to do, I don't think it's ridiculous at all for women to stay at home even if they don't have kids and some people are not there just doing nothing; they are usually homemakers & looking after the home and cooking meals etc which is still work done in the house. There is also other work that some people can take part in whilst staying home such as volunteering in community charities or babysitting for others in the community etc. Work that is outside of employment should still be valued in my opinion. Also I definitely don't agree with some people who say that a woman must have kids to be justified in staying at home; the work that women do is still valuable even if they don't have children.
@@apfelmus4360 Women do a LOT of unpaid labour in relationships outside of education and work and that should be valued too.
I don’t understand how people disliked Rory’s ending with the revival. Rory deserved the ending she was given. The way she belittled and treated people like dean always bothered me. I’m glad in the end, Dean lives out a great life with a family and Jess pushes through to create a novel and a stable life. She becomes an elitist jerk as the show progresses. Realizing the hard way that there are other far more elite and smarter people than her. Mitchum showed her that and it broke her. Doing the exact thing she critiques dean here with his semester break.
"i didn't want to hurt her feelings" 👼
The concept of a husband wanting to be a provider for his wife is a foreign concept to Rory.
The concubine will never understand the wife.
People who use the word concubine are never worth heeding. She had help, you know.
if Lindsey wanted so much she needed to help out not stay home Sam's complain that he is working.
Rory could have had Dean anytime she wanted. He literally left his wife for her. 😂
#BabyMamaProgramming
@@lizziebkennedy7505 that doesn't mean she is not the other woman. And you know what? It's not the last time she's the other woman. She was always irresponsible and selfish...
"Why doesn't she get a job" Rory didn't have one either ugh that annoyed me so much especially "We're friends I get to tell you what I think" well he didn't really ask
Well she was in school, Lindsay wasn’t doing much other than bringing Dream burnt food to Dean’s work. I understand if she wanted to just be a homemaker, but she could have at least gotten a temporary part time job or something to help pay for the town house she wanted so bad.
@daran2612 i assume that this was their agreement, they both wanted her to be a stay at home wife. They never argued about her working out of the home, and dean did say that he liked that sort of thing a couple of years prior.
Now, i dont think his at home wife fantasy ended up being sonething he enjoyed in the end, but we can't really blame lindsey for doing what they both wanted.
If I was Lindsey Rory would have caught these hands lmao 😂
Dean should have stuck up for his wife. You don’t choose a friend over your spouse…especially since Rory was wrong for sticking her nose in their marriage and talking crap about Lindsey in public.
Not to defend Rory cause growing up I realized I can't stand her sometimes (especially the way her and Lorelai think they are above everybody else) but she's not entirely wrong in this! Dean was clearly interested in college and he was the provider but Lindsay could have helped too financially to achieve their dreams, even if they were more of a traditional couple doesn't mean a woman can't provide and do her part... I understand hating on Rory is a trend nowadays but we can't deny she's not exactly wrong, she's a spoiled brat yes but it's not her fault her grandparents are rich and she got the chance to be privileged in life, I would accept help from my grandparents too if I had the chance! So yeah everything was handed to her but we would take advantage of a privilege too if we had one, let's be realistic here.
@makeupdoll7413 i don't get the Roryhate. sure,she does bad things, that's the point of the show, how Emily and Richard corrupt the purer version of her from season 1. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on. My parents were very "you have to go to college and have a job, and that's it".
She’s not just privileged. She’s a home wrecker. Not all privileged people in real life are bad people. Rory just happens to be both in this TV show. Who doesn’t dislike entitled, selfish people?
@@allay414 she's not entitled and selfish, but she is here in this episode, regaridng Dean. the show has many scenes where Rory is not selfish, empathetic, altruistic, helpful. as a homewrecker, yes, that is terribIe and selfish.
@@dextermorgan-u2z You know, I can actually see your point on this one. I do partially agree with you. However, Rory’s cheating streak is nothing new. She has shown entitlement in other ways, along with selfishness. She’s not the worst person in the world, but these are very evident character flaws that become more of a pattern the older she gets in the show. It’s an unfortunate reality that we all have flaws. But some have bigger impacts than others.
The cringeeee. I will stay in my happy delusional bubble that is season 1 & 2.
Everyone is hating on Rory, and don't get me wrong, she deserves it, but Dean annoys me more. I don't think "It's okay" and "She'll be fine" is how you should respond to learning that your wife overheard your ex girlfriend (that you're still friends with!!) badmouthing her.
Unpopular Opinion: Rori is right to encourage Dean to continue his studies, I would have done the same thing. The point is that he got married too early and expects to live life in two different worlds, as a boy who studies and as a man who wants a family. Lindsay and Rori are the two voices of these two very different lives. I honestly prefer Rori's because even though she was a b**ch she's on point: he has to finish the commitment he made with the study. Rori is also right when he says that if Lindsay wants her own little house, she has to put her own spin on it too. I conclude by saying that Rory didn't allow herself to gossip, she just vented to her best friend without speaking badly of Lindsay to Dean and unfortunately the girl heard her.
“ExTrA MoNeY FoR wHaT?” For life Rory holy crap!!! For life! Not everyone can be helped out by their rich grandparents all the time!!
Lindsay being ok with dean dropping out of school while being unemployed herself is crazy. She should have gotten a job and pulled her own weight.
lol hate dean during this period but it was admittedly funny to see his chemistry with michele
"Women" 😆 what a great line from Lane
Two very unpopular opinion alerts. Dean didn't love Lindsay enough to be married to her and he would have left her eventually with or without Rory. Secondly, Rory was right about Dean and college. She encouraged him to aim higher and reach his full potential and I don't think that is a hanging offence. Yes she was also jealous, but she was still right.
We will never know whether Lindsay was being selfish or whether Dean was being an unreliable narrator, but the fact remains that the love wasn’t there.
no husband should be “friends” with his ex or anyone behind his wife’s back MUCH LESS someone who is actively shit talking the wife
Insufferable. Not only did Rory get mad at Dean, gossiping about Lindsey and blaming her for working him to death when it's not at all like that, especially in an age where we want women to be treated equally.
And then having the nerve to cheat with Dean and still blame Lindsey for having Dean cheat on her ....ughhh
Lindsay deserved so much better, Dean cheating on her with Rory was so foul. I just wish this storyline didn’t exist in the show. Also Rory was very wrong for what she said about Lindsay.
yup, she deserved better. and to be fair ... her mother seems to have somewhat pushed her into it :(
Rory and Dean are both incredibly immature 🙄
@jamiedianne6778 so was I when I was 19
@@dextermorgan-u2zI’m 19 and even I have two brain cells to rub together. This entire scene filled me to the brim with anger.
@@allay414 are you in college? if your friend who's 19 tells you they're getting married and dropping out, do you think it's a good idea for them?
As all of us at that age
@@allay414 well maybe you're not being brainwashed by rich grandparents + feeling romantically insecure after 1 year of bad dating, missing your first love who made you feel safe. wonder how you would handle that situation..
For once I agree with Dean on this as he actually had a point. I’m not a fan of the guy yet what he said was true as everyone isn’t guaranteed with work they really want when they’re finished with college and going college is a good experience to learn something yet for some people it can be a waste of time. Construction jobs have always paid really good money which is something anyway can make a career out of even for some who didn’t graduate from high school. Rory has always been an overachiever for how dedicated she’s been with her academics, yet she shouldn’t have told Dean what to do even from the good of her heart, it wasn’t her place to tell him what to do as they were no longer together.
“ I feel like sometimes you’re the only one that understands me” ugh they deserve each other. Such immature little boy way of thinking.
“That’ll never happen. 😩” I’ve never wanted to punch a fictional character more in my entire life.
@user-hl1ct3yh1r pretty standard for 19 year old people. most of them realistically feel misunderstood, with so much chaos happening in their heads, still not quite out of puberty. I know i was a mix of everything my parents say is true (i have to go to college, otherwise my life is over), and actually not having any real idea how to defend the position that people should not physically touch me without my consent. someone who gives me romantic feelings might have felt back then to me as "the only one who understands me"
@@dextermorgan-u2z Idk man. Unfortunately, it is standard. But I mean, I’m 19 and I wouldn’t even dream of doing something like that? Maybe I’m not the “average” case, but I think there are plenty of others my age who wouldn’t do something like this, either. It’s unfortunate for the ones who do, though, because it can have serious effects for the rest of their lives. I just wish more people my age could understand their emotional side; I mean that for their own sakes, and the ones they affect.
since she was "raised by the village" and is everybody's favourite she should've gotten a reaction from the whole town really. we know the gossip runs fast in small places and everyone's fav golden child being the other woman? with the guy she cheated on too?? honestly that should've made it to the town newspaper lol
@leja9998 that town was messed up and unreliable. they all were against an underage Jess. Babette badmouthed him to Rory and Lorelai while giving them hot cocoa, not stopping to think that the abandoned by his mom and dad sad Jess could have used also a cocoa and some kind words. Taylor told the
town that Rory doesn't want to be the Ice Cream Queen because she doesn't like the town anymore and likes only Yale. the kids believed him and yelled at Rory. Ms Patty growled at Dean in season 1 after he and Rory slept at her place as if it was Dean's fault and she talked nicely to Rory. they were all messed up.
When they say “small” about Rory’s room, are they being serious?! That’s a huge room! They should see the box room I got when I went to University 😂
Edit: oh I just noticed she shares it with someone… still, it’s not exactly small 😂
"Just work in construction".. what a little snob.
I love lindsay
“What was your mom thinking?”
“That I have books, and that’s probably the extent of it.”
She wasn’t wrong.
I used to think this show was so wholesome and I actually properly watched it. I can’t watch from season 3. Rory is so stuck up and selfish.
She is from the beginning… she literally cheated on Dean with Jess in season 2
@@deztheray8935 and things didn't seem that good from the first episode when she almost rejected all of her mother's efforts to get her into the private school she wanted since who knows how long just bc that day a cute guy talked to her 😭😭
@@miranmiran. dude, she was 16, it was her first crush ever, and she realized she's wrong by the end of that episode.
@ElizabethBennett96 i only started watching when I was 35, older than Lorelai in s1. so i watch it from a perspective of a middle aged grownup. I see Rory as a normal teenage girl. she's smart at times, and she makes mistakes a lot, like a teenager. I mostly think about what would i do if i was Lorelai and i think Lorelai is right to not force Rory too often to date or not date someone. she does yell at Rory though in ep1 of season 3 to pick one guy and not treat the other badly.
@@deztheray8935 yeah,and she's 17 there and she admits it to her mom. her mother does yell at Rory right afterwards in ep1 of season 3 to pick one guy and not treat the other badly. I only watch this show since my mid 30s so i think Rory is a normal teenager. she's doing some bad stuff and she also does good stuff. i look at it all from the perspective of someone Lorelai's age, and i mostly
think about what would i say to Rory if she was my daughter. mostly i think Lorelai is right to call her out when she's messing up but not forcing her to date or to break up with anyone.
first she cant say shit about their relationship when rory was the other women in the relationshop when dean was married. Rory strung jess along while dating dean. Rory dropped out and jess was the one to convince her to go back to school not dean. Rory also in the reboot became the other woman again with logan and never learned nothing
Wait, so Rory tells him to not drop out and Dean tells her graduating college doesn’t guarantee you a job…and he is going to pursue construction?
Dean, my boy, you are not wrong!
(Also, construction is lucrative, she knows nothing.)
I get that Rory did mistakes and all, hated skme of them myself. But she wasn't wrong about Lindsay, what WAS she doing all day at home, getting bored and then taking it out on Dean that she gets bored and he has no mood for visits. She missed the point where for the kinda life she wanted she had to marry a way older guy 😅
If she wanted things she needed to help too. I think her mom told her what as house wife should do. her mom needed to stay out of the marriage
What show are you watching???
@@kilaa3417 what doesn't seem to add up?
@@ralur4287 Sorry not you! I agree with you 100%. I meant to respond to another thread
@@kilaa3417 oh ok i was confused there a bit haha
Women who still are feeling less than themselves need to stay out of other relationships.That's how you break up families a home wrecker
Throughout the series, it had been proven time and again that Stars Hollow was a Tiny Town. It follows that Rory, consciously or not, deliberately gossiped with the hope that her nemesis would find-out about her and Dean. Twisted Rory--a Cutie-face with a Dark soul.
I agree that after Rory did to Dean she should just stfu. At the same time, there is some true in what she said: " What does Lindsey do all day?????". She should get a job to help Dean so He can finish the college, at least if He wants to
What's the story with Lindsay and Michel?
Did he have a crush on her?
Why did she say he was standing in a funny way and he said it was because of his pants?
@lagarde2011 he is standing funny bcs he complained before about carrying the heavy furniture. He probably has a bit of a crush here but he never showed the crush in any other scene.
Rory shouldn’t have gossiped but Lindsay kind of deserved it.
Some people hate Rory because she’s entitled and stuck up. So what. Anyone who’s criticizing the Rory haters and calling them psychopaths are the ones taking it too far. It’s a show and the fan base can participate any way they want.
@lauralie5791 i wouldn't call anyone names over hatingRory, but i do think the hate is going too far. Rory is a 19year old repeating her family's values. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on.
@lauralie5791 it's a little weird to hate a teenager so much, even if fictional on a tv show. The very first episode shows you that Rory starts re-thinking entering her dream highschool, just because she has
her first crush. she's 16. it's completely normal for a teenager. she also ends up doing the right decision.
i am sorry,but Rory was right there.
Justice of Lindsay
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Lindsay is a queen!
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Ironic that she dropped out of school.I feel so sorry for Dean-He loved her SOOOO much.My Heart goes out to them.Rory-her character they ruined it towards the end.I feel that he nevrr should have married Lindsay and just lived his life.Marrying on the rebound-he loved Rory way too much
If they picked up the storage boxes in the floor next to the desk, the bookcase would fit. Just saying.
Girls gossip, thats what makes us girls. The ppl in these comments need to get over themselves.
and this my dears is how an emotional affair happens
Why is Dean apologizing to Rory. The what now?
Rory and Jess deserve eachother they where bot such bad partners. What Dean did was so shitty to Lindsay but he was a good boyfriend to Rory. The audacity for her to lecture someone she doesnt even hang out with anymore on his economical choices as if its "cute" she had an attitude and also blaming his wife when she knows NOthInG of the situation? Like a spoiled teenager.
Never understood either how people could like Jess when he: was mean to a guy (Dean) he doesn't know, mean to Rory when he was showing interest in her (love how we are still romanticizing guys being dicks to girls they like cause "Boys will be boys") and THEN when they where together he was flaky cold and got angry at her for not wanting sex?!??!
Not to fOrgeT the RECKLESS DRIVING he did that caused an accident and him leaving her in the car?!?!?.💀
i'm sure lindsey except your apploigey
this show is so good but rory is so insufferable it gets hard to watch
yes, Rory was wrong in many ways. But Lindsay was selfish about the townhome
@user-rg9ji4yq2c we don't know if Lindsay was really seIfish, because we don't see her talking about it. We don't know if maybe her mother didn't push Lindsay and Dean into it. we only know Dean's short version of it. also, Dean was never super nerdy, he was not into academics like Rory, so maybe he's doing what also he wants, not only what Lindsay wants.
@user-rg9ji4yq2c that is never proven. Lindsay seems to always obey her mother. and Dean seems to not be against the townhouse. it might be not selfish at all
Can’t believe you said this
RORY IS SO ANNOYING
dont drop out thats bad so let me keep it for myself to do
@dddeeee9222 she doesn't know yet that she will dropout. when i was 19, i was also unable to see why my highschool friends are choosing paths that my parents would not agree on. My parents were very "you have to go to college and have a job, and that's it",
@@dextermorgan-u2z ik but still telling someone something and not applying it on yourself is not something we expect from rory and she also didnt listen to anyone not even lorelai also here dean has stronger case because lindsay is his wife whereas rory left because of logans fathers words
@@dddeeee9222 telling someone something and not applying it on yourself is not what Rory is doing at all here. Right now and here, she's super into Yale. Yale is her priority here. She's telling Dean to do what she herself is also doing. The part where Rory is wrong here is that she
cannot imagine any FUTURE scenario where she would ever drop out of Yale - but you know that scenario exists because you saw season 5........ She will find out in the future - this is
the growing up story. This is very typical for teenagers: they think there is something they would neeever do. They cannot imagine themselves ever going
back on their word. But the growing up is about learning that actually, you don't know yourself. You think you would never do something, but life proves you wrong in the
future. That is Rory's coming off age story. People do change, evolve and develop new scars.
Bottom line: Rory sucks. Period.
Dean reminds me of my ex, short tempered, and indignant he is always right and thinks evryone else should agree with him. I hate both Dean and my ex. Only my ex was lazy, and thought welfare was a good idea. At least Dean was willing to work.
@violettippet5246 i'm sorry your ex did not treat you well, as you deserve. Dean,however, does not think he's always right. he accepts and obey Lorelai's advice to call less and give Rory space. He accepts that Rory has to obsess about Harvard and apologizes to her. He also apologizes here for getting angry, even though he
was right to reject Rory's comments on his personal life. he does not think everyone else should agree with him at all, there are many other situations where he accepts that people disagree with him.
@violettippet5246 it's good that you're not around a bad short tempered ex, good for you. but Dean is often admitting that other people are right.
@@Cairo198 In the moment he always thinks he's right, he overreacts, and loses his shit.
Machle is so wind
B.R.A.T
never finished the show so idk whats happening later on but u really dont need college to work or be successful
Now I realize that rory's character was selfish and incorrigible.
I mean…but Rory was kinda right
Why? College the only way to make a living? I see a lot of college grads working at Starbucks and call centers. Heck, Rory went to Yale and has a crap job in A Year in the Life. She’s an entitled, elitist character.
@@DK-tq3fyshe must to be doing right to make you have a melt down about her
@@DK-tq3fyshe's right about Lindsay getting off her butt and getting a job, or maybe even 2, if she wants a townhouse so bad.
@@krn2683 ya but then again, remember Dean likes the whole 50s vibe thing when the wife stays home and cooks for the husband? And Lindsay looks like she was brought up this way as well because her mom is very traditional. She could get a job but Dean did say he liked the idea of working and then being taken care of at home and he can’t have elaborate home cooked meals if she’s working a job too.
how? she finished Yale and wasn't able to get a job. Without her father and grandparents she would be somewhere under a bridge in NY.... Dean was right, college doesn't ensure you get a well payed job afterwards! And people do go back to school. Lindsay did it as well after their marriage ended.
You know they say you should read the little prince once when you're young and once you're older so you get to different stories, THIS IS THE SAMEE!! I realize now that what Dean wanted it's not some crazy thing and Rory is the controlling chick here 😳🥲