I 100% agree because I'm in that same situation fertility wise. Not the cheating part because i don't forgive cheaters i don't believe in second chances when comes to certain things. But if i found out my husband had kids with another person it'd crush me since i can't give him that and i think luckily for me isn't as bad since he already has kids from a previous marriage it would be harder for us if he never had kids at all but than again cheating is cheating and his ass would be out my life faster than his ass can even blink
STEM Scientist That is the sad part your lover can’t conceive but you choose to make a baby with someone else but if she is happy God bless her wouldn’t be me.
A “break” means you’re getting back together. So that means taking a step back and overlooking your entire life and improving yourself. Not taking that as a chance to go and hoe around. Sorry but that would be the end for me personally.
@@bye230 I said don't romanticize it. The Real are portraying this couple like he only did one thing kinda wrong but no, their whole entire relationship ain't been right since the beginning. They can do them but don't portray this as the norm.
He couldn’t eat or sleep knowing information that could hurt someone that he loves, but he’s okay with sleeping with someone else knowing that it would hurt them?
It’s so gross to see men playing the victim when they are the cheaters.... obviously this wasn’t exactly infidelity but he knew that it would hurt her as if it was
Then... don’t agree to take a break? Don’t accept the circumstances and then get mad at the consequences lmao. How is he playing the victim by talking about his feelings about an event in his own life? Y’all are losers.
This conversation makes me nauseous. Are these women really applauding a man for getting back with his girl after getting another pregnant? Are they really applauding her for sticking with him through it? Did I miss something? WHAT THE HELL?!
The REAL...where Jussie Smollett is "Noble" and Dwayne Wade is "Brave". I have love for all the ladies but I'm not feeling it. I always say live and let live but I personally couldn't do it.
HE couldn’t eat or sleep??? GOODBYE! he’s NOT the victim NOR BRAVE! it’s always “not our business” when it’s a celebrity 😒 the ladies need to stop making excuses and dancing around infidelity topics when it’s about celebrities 🙄🙄 stop defending cheaters!!! When u love someone u don’t get someone else pregnant whether ur together or not🤦🏽♀️tired of them being phony on these topics
So what? If he wasn’t able to eat or sleep it obviously took a toll on him too. How is he cheating if they were broken up? He spoke about his experience lmao you people are miserable
Adrienne girl wtf. Aren’t you always the one saying if a man cheats on you he really never loved you now you talking about something else? I don’t understand the girl sometimes y’all, her opinions change when it’s beneficial to her
I agree everyone saying oh is a break ah no they were still together though a break is not a full break up its taking time to reevaluate the relationship and yourself taking Time apart to see things with a clear head if thats really the person you want to be with i ain't got no pitty for him and definitely don't consider that at all as brave I don't believe in taking breaks it's either we're together till the end hand in hand or we just full on go our separate ways for good and i mean for good ion take no man back too many humans in this life to come with that dying for one man to want me crap women love to deal with
I don't believe they were on a break 🤔 I think Gabrielle was embarrassed he cheated and got a woman pregnant so this is what they told the public. Besides that was years before they were married so if all is forgiven why don't we ever see the other child around Dwayne and Gabby ..........noone knows what that child or mother even looks like. I feel Gabrielle and resents that child and it's mom and Dwayne probably just sends money they treat that child like it's nothing but post about all the other kids and their new child together smh
Loni said it right this wasn't something he could hide, it was going to come out so he gets no points for being honest. It was her choice though to say okay I still want a life with this man, so if Gabrielle could forgive him then good for her.
I don’t understand people. There is no “break”. We are either “together” but we’re just not talking right now or we are “broken up” and you go do whatever you want. There is no “in between”.
SIERRA MCCHRISTIAN exactly ! 👍🏽Ridiculous .... 😳😕😳 I’ve been married 12 years and my husband and I never been on “ a break “ not even while dating . When you’re in love you’re in love with that person . No breaks or oops baby . That’s bullsh*t .
Veronica Ivanova I know but if you feel like we’re having problems, you’re not ready for a relationship or you think you need some time alone to reflect on your life or etc. that’s fine. But we are either broken up or we are together.
The break baby is never in any photos, Christmas cards, vacation photos....he’s not invited to family functions. The way Gabby forgave him is by Dwayne not being in the kids life at all.
@@vitareed5375 I don’t understand why the child should suffer for something Wade did. Imagine how the kid feels. He should be able to come around, if she can accept him back and be with him. She can be around the child as well. Take the whole package or don’t take him back @ all.
@@treasurewashington2691 How is the child suffering? Gabrielle is a stranger to him. He has a mother. He gets one on one time with dad. He's around the older paternal siblings. If he needs sister time, he's got big sisters from his mom who adore him.
lol, this is why I love Amanda, her face says it all and she's too real for this show. She's lookin like "Y'all on some bs right now. dickriding and ishhh".
Maybe I understand sleeping with someone else while on a break but I don't understand having a whole baby. Breaks are temporary and babies are FOREVER. There are so many ways to not get a woman pregnant. And I feel bad for so many kids who have different mamas and daddies. Why can't there be whole families anymore?! Nothing wrong with "half" siblings because all my siblings have a different mom or dad but it's become the norm.
How interesting, when it was Porsha Williams getting back with Dennis the ladies had a whole lot to say about her and how they would never take him back, but now cos its Gab Union who is an A lister and some of them know personally it considered noble that she took him back, baby and all 🤔
The real should be labelled the fake show. They won’t honestly express their opinion because they are friend with these people. Break to fix the relationship doesn’t mean a full on break where you can impregnante another woman. Couples take breaks to think and evaluate the relationship and what you do in that break matters and shows ultimately how you feel about it. Let’s be real girls don’t sugarcoat it
The question is, if Gabrielle would have had a baby while they were on "break"...will he had forgiven her? It just sums up how being a woman in this world is so damn difficult! Men make mistakes, women forgive. Women make the SAME mistakes, men never forgive, move on with their lives n get on with another woman.
Adrienne really thought she did something with that "...by choosing who you want to die with" ..no boo, that ain't it. & HE couldn't eat/sleep...trying to play victim to sway people's opinions? 🤔 . ...Well if Gabrielle feels ok with it! Then who are we to judge? Their business.
We as women need to stop deceiving ourselves. Being on a break for most men means that they can play the field again. And will therefore immediately move on to a physical relationship with other women. So you sitting there thinking that 'we are soul searching and will get back together when the time is right' often ends in tears mostly for women. I see it with these celebrities. Then claim that someone else 'stole my man' or 'homewrecker' when the man must have obviously told the other girl that he was broken up. If you are separated, broken up, on a break, know you are single.
There’s no such thing as “a break” in a relationship you either want to be together or not its that simple . Ppl saying “We’re on a break” is such BullShitt! 🤦🏻♀️
No One sometimes a break is actually necessary. When I was in college I had a boyfriend and we were constantly fighting. It got do bad to the point I was finding it difficult to focus on school and it was the final year of my degree and I really wanted to graduate. We took a break and it was the best decision cause I managed to do well enough to graduate and even get a scholarship to do my post grad.
🗣🗣🗣Gabrielle Union is getting older and was desperate to have a family!! That’s why she decided to marry Dwayne and accept the “break baby” that he had!! Dwayne is worth $120 million!! So she could overlook the baby!!
U forgot to mention that Gabrielle can't have children. She's had like 3 miscarriages. I'd bet money that another woman giving her man s child was a blow to her pride and ego. That's a lot of pride to swallow. I haven't yet reached that level of maturity. Everyone involved would be feeling my wrath.
This is sad Dwayne is being praised for cheating getting a baby on the side and Gabrielle Union is the epitome of the character she portrayed on "Being Mary Jane" getting cheated on and being with men who doesn't truly honor her.
If we're being realistic breaks are always interpreted wrong or used as an excuse to cheat. Whenever I was in a relationship where we felt the need to take a break, I knew it was coming to an end. My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We promised each other that if we ever felt the need to take a break we would separate permanently. We've haven't faced anything thus far that has caused us to break up or take any breaks. We have however went to couples therapy and even fasted and prayed through some of our hardest times.
Adrienne you should be used to this topic. Don’t Israel have like 3 younger children he had outside of his marriage with his ex wife? Where are they? Do y’all even accept them? 🤔
Funny how that jazz girl transitioned so young with little backlash but the moment a black kid does it y’all say they were sexually abused, or being used to push an agenda🤦🏾♀️
Jazz wasnt a celebrity to begin with people were concerned with her transition bc she was young but her supporters were lgbtq + allies on the other hand dwayne is known to be a pretty “masculine” athlete which to the public they were like oh he has a son who is gonna be just like him and dwaynes supporters are mostly black men and they are pretty much known for being homophobic and transphobic lets be real so thats why this kid is getting so much more backlash than jazz was getting also when jazz came out to the public eye she was pretty much already transitioned but its all new and just beginning for dwaynes kid his kid is basically transitioning infront of the public so he’s obviously going to get more backlash even tho he shouldn’t have to the situations are kinda different
They are both cases of exploitation. But I don't think Jazz'z parents were going on every talk show and social platform trying to push it onto people as much as the Wades are. But either way, both cases are still wrong
Some women are so sad and desperate. You can live without a man, even that particular man you're tripping on. Some are so stuck on a man and being in love with him, you'll accept whatever he does/brings to you. Whether he cheats, has a baby on you, gets caught up in criminal activity, you'll take him back. And it's nothing wrong with forgiveness. Forgiveness is good. If you choose to forgive him, I'm not knocking that. But some of you will allow yourself to be completely humiliated and take back that fool that did it to you because you "love" him and many of you feel like you can't live without him or he is your "soul mate". And that's your choice. But some of you are straight up idolaters of men. They are your god and you just have to have one. And you tie your own value to having one. And will stay no matter what. It's sad. We know good and well these men do not and will not give us the same grace and forgiveness that we often give them. Let us cheat one time, they will be through and even ready to kill somebody. We need to set our standards a lot higher for ourselves for real. And stop just accepting whatever to keep a man around. You're worth more than that.
I applaud him for his honesty and to tell her the truth before anyone else does because as we know when someone cheats they hide it and hope it would be forgotten and it's eventually heard about it through news and social media. Which hurts alot more.
And what’s funny is if any one of these women were put in the same situation they’d be out the door with the quickness. I love ya’ll but you know good and well you not staying around for that mess. I love DWade and Gabrielle but I’m tired of us praising men who are honest after the fact of their betrayal. Like nah homie you F’d up period.
This couple seems to be thirsty for attention ail of a sudden and putting everything out there as if they set the bar for people. We didn't ask for you to exploit your child or put your marital business out there. And just because you're a celebrity, not everyone is approving of your lifestyles and I'm definitely not looking to yall for any PARENTING or MARRIAGE advice! I'm so over them!....NEXT!!
Call it what u want but if my man got a female pregnant while we were on break and we all knew we were getting back together that'd be a wrap for us. A break means we're figuring things out and making a decision based on what we come up with not jumping from bed to bed.
I believe in breaks...needed one in my last relationship to realize I didn't want to be there, and we separated amicably. Sometimes people are addicted to the presence of a person rather than actually being in a healthy situation. I DON'T however see that at a pass to sleep around...break=still together, to me...
You never know; could possibly prefer to remain out of the limelight given all of the media attention surrounding the family. 🍀 for all of the children/adults involved.
Gabrielle wasn’t upset simply because he’d gotten another woman pregnant during their separation. Most women would understand or find a way to work though a tough situation like that. She was upset because it wasn’t some random girl he met or someone with no connection to him. The woman was one of his longtime friends who also knew Gabrielle. One of those “oh no, that’s like my sister” type of friendships. That hurts way more, because then it’s someone who you personally knew and spent time with.
And Adrienne when some one has a child on you. That is something big. That's something that matters. So u cant say u drop all the things that dont matter. Making a life is a big ass deal.
They obviously weren't fully broken up and they had to of been trying to work things out..why else would he have been so scared to tell her about the baby if they REALLY was actually broken up?? You don't break up with someone, fall for someone else, get them pregnant, and then suddenly afraid to tell your ex about it ...unless you weren't really broken up in the first place.
I was so confused by that. Even yesterday when Tam said Ayesha and Steph could post that gross pic cause they're married. Like what's this thing with marriage at that show?
I absolutely hate the way the ladies give this celebrity men a pass. First jay z and now Dwayne wade. If this was a non celebrity then they would be saying much different
To me a break is just taking some time apart and having space to think and reevaluate the relationship. That's why its called a break and not a break up. If we're broken up by all means see other people but being on a break doesn't translate to seeing other people in my eyes. But that's just me. But I do think both parties need to be in agreement about their own definitions of what being on a break is so things like this don't happen.
That “they weren’t married” excuse is BS!!! Dating and being in a relationship is building the foundation for your marriage. If you can’t do right while we are dating signing a paper won’t make you magically do right!!! Marriage doesn’t change your character!!!
Ok question... how long was the break... what made them go on the break and how exactly did they come back from a break... because a lot of people sometimes go on a break and just let God and life take them where they need to go... whether that ,Dan getting back together or finding somebody completely new... I just find it admirable that despite hitting that rough patch... which I’m sure it’s hard in reality to know someone you loved did this... but in their relationship she still loved on that baby like it was her own... and I’m glad she didn’t let that break them ! ❤️🙏🏽
Not shocked- look what took place between him and his ex wife. Never trust a man that been divorced. If he did it to his ex wife don't think he won't do it to you
There is so much more they want to say. Can't glamorize infidelity because their famous. All of the ladies have said that cheating is a deal breaker for them, but cheating and creating life..... I couldn't do it!! In real life there would always be some type of uncertainty all the time in my mind. Wouldn't want to live that way.
Also, cheating and getting another woman pregnant, isn't something that DOESNT MATTER! If a person is disloyal and emotional abusive to you do you really want to spend your life with that person? Does that person really love you? Society REALLY has to start holding men accountable the same way they hold women when it comes to cheating, having break babies, and having multiple baby mommas and ish! It's disgusting and shows a lack of self control! Its like they throw all sense out the window when a man is honest about something he did that was dishonest. "Well at least he told the truth" Well he was LYING the whole time he was cheating! He had to come forward because you cant hide a whole human being!!
Being a celebrity doesn’t mean their business is ours . What they do as a living has nothing to do with their personal life’s and we need to respect that about famous people. Key Word “PEOPLE” .
Let’s be honest here. The only reason he said anything is because he fathered a child. If that child wouldn’t have happen. He wouldn’t have said a word.
I am keeping it real but I don’t think that Wade’s child freely chose to transition. I think the child is being used to further someone’s agenda. Where is this child’s mother in all of this? 12 is too young for this.
They were on a break. A break means just that a break. They weren't together anymore. He didn't cheat on her. Y'all reaching hard AF in these comments. This is why I don't do breaks because most time people don't get back together. However, they were able to make things work and they're happy.
Gabby overlooked it because of the lifestyle. If he was a regular guy not worth over 100 million, she would have left after the break baby. Money will make someone tolerate alot.
I don't get the whole concept of being on a "break" like when I hear that I assume the couple is deciding to take space to figure out if they want to be together not go about sleeping with other people then that would mean the couple "broke up"
They are trying to stay relevant. Wade was an amazing basketball player but this brand of "relatable" is just that a brand. Why do you parade your child's sexuality around like it's their entire existence? Does the "break" baby mama have the freedom to speak as you do? Does she have a NDA that she has to adhere to while you and Gabrielle frame her story? It takes to two to make a baby.
Let jeezy come out and say he had another baby by another woman, would you call it "brave", lmao these women love being politically correct and not "real"....
First off.. Brain washed is da word. Forget bravery... And it being a break. When you go on a break that doesn't mean have sex with anyone... Tf It was a baby conceived in the situation. Yall tripping
What probably hurt Gabrielle more was knowing another woman was having his baby and Gabrielle actually STRUGGLED with infertility for so long.
I 100% agree because I'm in that same situation fertility wise. Not the cheating part because i don't forgive cheaters i don't believe in second chances when comes to certain things. But if i found out my husband had kids with another person it'd crush me since i can't give him that and i think luckily for me isn't as bad since he already has kids from a previous marriage it would be harder for us if he never had kids at all but than again cheating is cheating and his ass would be out my life faster than his ass can even blink
STEM Scientist That is the sad part your lover can’t conceive but you choose to make a baby with someone else but if she is happy God bless her wouldn’t be me.
Exactly what I instantly thought
That HAD to be painful
I was literally thinking the same thing since I also struggle infertility. I can’t imagine how hard that must of been for her.
A “break” means you’re getting back together. So that means taking a step back and overlooking your entire life and improving yourself. Not taking that as a chance to go and hoe around. Sorry but that would be the end for me personally.
Katie Ilyenko same
Apparently he didn't see that episode of friends.
I agree.... she a fool to take him back
I know right 😑
I agree with you but the reality is if you're taking a break with a man he's going to sleep with other people. That's just what they do.
Dwayne Wade has cheated on this woman multiple times.
Stop romanticising toxic relationships dude
And applauding children being transgender
He also cheated on his previous wife with Her so I don't know why she was suprised ...
Wtf people make mistakes , no one is perfect . Stop expecting men to be Gods
Christina Schimp what this gotta do with that?? Worry about your own damn kids and parenting THEM.
@@bye230 I said don't romanticize it.
The Real are portraying this couple like he only did one thing kinda wrong but no, their whole entire relationship ain't been right since the beginning.
They can do them but don't portray this as the norm.
He couldn’t eat or sleep knowing information that could hurt someone that he loves, but he’s okay with sleeping with someone else knowing that it would hurt them?
aww poor guy lmao
They weren't together at the time
REALLY
There were not together. Cant fault him for that.
Exactly 😂
If you have a baby while we’re on a “break” we are going to stay “broken” Period. End of story.
IS!!! You started a WHOLE family with someone else! 🙄
Love this, because the minute you turn away and actually look at someone else that’s it, bye,
Especially if I’m having trouble having babies ?.... like what
First of all who takes a break married?
Ray Parker Jr Did you even watch the video? They weren’t married at the time.
And this is when we need Tamar's input...lmao
Lmbo!!! This when we need her input strait honesty lok
She keeps it real!!!
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Tamar would have said it as it is. She was the real deal
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This happens all the time. That’s why I don’t do breaks. Either we together or not. During a break a lot of people have kids with other people.
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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What is the actual point of breaks though?
YES WE CAN exactly. They want to see what they missing. If this relationship is actually what they want.
@@mkelly2585 Breaks suck 👎🏽
It’s so gross to see men playing the victim when they are the cheaters.... obviously this wasn’t exactly infidelity but he knew that it would hurt her as if it was
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Right! Just like Kevin Hart
Then... don’t agree to take a break? Don’t accept the circumstances and then get mad at the consequences lmao. How is he playing the victim by talking about his feelings about an event in his own life? Y’all are losers.
@white america's worst nightmare They're really going out of their way to try and paint him as the villain 🙄.
It didn't matter if it hurt her. They weren't together. If there's a break up, ALL beats are off.
This conversation makes me nauseous. Are these women really applauding a man for getting back with his girl after getting another pregnant? Are they really applauding her for sticking with him through it? Did I miss something? WHAT THE HELL?!
Gwxrie Sulm my same thoughts too! They call themselves real but I don’t know anymore. They applaud nonsense behavior in men and I-
Gwxrie Sulm on top of Gabrielle refusing to acknowledge the other baby.
Im sure she has BAGGAGE TOO
AND HE WASN'T USING PROTECTIVE SEX OH A BABY TOO🤗🤗🤔🤔
You didn't hear wrong. These ladies on some bullshit today
Tamara’s face says that sounds nice but it couldn’t be me!!!! TF 😂😂😂 I’m dead
The REAL...where Jussie Smollett is "Noble" and Dwayne Wade is "Brave". I have love for all the ladies but I'm not feeling it. I always say live and let live but I personally couldn't do it.
Troy Talks they too friendly with these celebs. Wendy is the only REAL person, that’s why they’ll always be a place for her in entertainment.
Society coddles men for real!! No accountability.
Troy Talks 🤣
This is getting ridiculous...Amanda has made an impact that's for sure
they talked about beyoncé and jay z the same when he cheated - brave, courageous, a man… 🤔🤯
HE couldn’t eat or sleep??? GOODBYE! he’s NOT the victim NOR BRAVE! it’s always “not our business” when it’s a celebrity 😒 the ladies need to stop making excuses and dancing around infidelity topics when it’s about celebrities 🙄🙄 stop defending cheaters!!! When u love someone u don’t get someone else pregnant whether ur together or not🤦🏽♀️tired of them being phony on these topics
Girl yes! They did the same thing about beyonce and Jay z. Just cause they're famous is called "bravery" smh
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they had broken up
Javy 22 their mom was crazy, if the kids had a choice they would be miserable with their mom.
So what? If he wasn’t able to eat or sleep it obviously took a toll on him too. How is he cheating if they were broken up? He spoke about his experience lmao you people are miserable
There’s nothing brave or noble about this.
Nope I don't think this is beautiful sorry girls
Nilza B Morales amen sis!!! The whole comment section is disagreeing with them😂
I am not sure what was that, are they friends with these people??
It's low key noble
Sa5m ^😂🙌🏻
Sa5m You comment this on every video, and it’s not funny.
Adrienne girl wtf. Aren’t you always the one saying if a man cheats on you he really never loved you now you talking about something else? I don’t understand the girl sometimes y’all, her opinions change when it’s beneficial to her
Their energy is never consistent
Left Rob Kardashian real quick
She’s now married to a man with a history of cheating so she has to change her tune or she’s bashing her own husband
He doesn’t get a cookie for cheating. She doesn’t get support for staying “This is how you do celebrity” smh we applaud all the wrong things.
They were on a break. So its not cheating if they were not a couple
There is a big difference between a break and a break up.
I agree everyone saying oh is a break ah no they were still together though a break is not a full break up its taking time to reevaluate the relationship and yourself taking Time apart to see things with a clear head if thats really the person you want to be with i ain't got no pitty for him and definitely don't consider that at all as brave I don't believe in taking breaks it's either we're together till the end hand in hand or we just full on go our separate ways for good and i mean for good ion take no man back too many humans in this life to come with that dying for one man to want me crap women love to deal with
...also a kid being a transgender and everyone applauds
I don't believe they were on a break 🤔 I think Gabrielle was embarrassed he cheated and got a woman pregnant so this is what they told the public. Besides that was years before they were married so if all is forgiven why don't we ever see the other child around Dwayne and Gabby ..........noone knows what that child or mother even looks like. I feel Gabrielle and resents that child and it's mom and Dwayne probably just sends money they treat that child like it's nothing but post about all the other kids and their new child together smh
Imagine if the roles were reversed 🤔🤔 I doubt he would take her back! Different set of rules for men if you ask me!
Ms Lagah exactly girl!
Yeap.
Because they know their worth.
Loni said it right this wasn't something he could hide, it was going to come out so he gets no points for being honest. It was her choice though to say okay I still want a life with this man, so if Gabrielle could forgive him then good for her.
Exactly
Mandy S yess to this 👏🏾👏🏾
Right. The baby mama has already been on basketball wives
Thank you somebody gets it..
Ashlee Long Who’s the baby mama?
Transparency when u get paid is not transparency 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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SAY IT AGAIN!!!!
“Bravery” really Jeannie...
I don’t understand how anyone could ever defend a cheater, wow ...
I don’t understand people. There is no “break”. We are either “together” but we’re just not talking right now or we are “broken up” and you go do whatever you want. There is no “in between”.
SIERRA MCCHRISTIAN exactly ! 👍🏽Ridiculous .... 😳😕😳 I’ve been married 12 years and my husband and I never been on “ a break “ not even while dating . When you’re in love you’re in love with that person . No breaks or oops baby . That’s bullsh*t .
Relationships aren't black and white. There are so many colours and shades. It's not that simple.
Veronica Ivanova I know but if you feel like we’re having problems, you’re not ready for a relationship or you think you need some time alone to reflect on your life or etc. that’s fine. But we are either broken up or we are together.
The break baby is never in any photos, Christmas cards, vacation photos....he’s not invited to family functions. The way Gabby forgave him is by Dwayne not being in the kids life at all.
Dwyane sees the child. The mom confirmed that. Gabrielle has no relationship and that is her right.
He has a relationship with him separately and I think that sucks
That's why people shouldn't sleep with married people. A whole baby ends up paying for the parents 's mistakes.
@@vitareed5375 I don’t understand why the child should suffer for something Wade did. Imagine how the kid feels. He should be able to come around, if she can accept him back and be with him. She can be around the child as well. Take the whole package or don’t take him back @ all.
@@treasurewashington2691 How is the child suffering? Gabrielle is a stranger to him. He has a mother. He gets one on one time with dad. He's around the older paternal siblings. If he needs sister time, he's got big sisters from his mom who adore him.
lol, this is why I love Amanda, her face says it all and she's too real for this show. She's lookin like "Y'all on some bs right now. dickriding and ishhh".
Amanda’s face speaks loud and clear
If she is the one who was pregnant during the break, they would have the same opinion? I just don’t think he would forgive her
Imagine Jeannie taking back his ex with a kid 🤣so brave it would be
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Maybe I understand sleeping with someone else while on a break but I don't understand having a whole baby. Breaks are temporary and babies are FOREVER. There are so many ways to not get a woman pregnant. And I feel bad for so many kids who have different mamas and daddies. Why can't there be whole families anymore?! Nothing wrong with "half" siblings because all my siblings have a different mom or dad but it's become the norm.
Noah Kim becoming the norm is truth dear... Sighh
The faces these girls are making is soooooo funny. Amanda’s posture while Jeanie talks is Bruce Lee like when he’s gonna chop someone.
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Lol I noticed that too!!
The real question is, if he wasn't worth $100 Mil would she still have wanted to take him back and marry him?
C L hell no she would not!!
Tuh Gabby got her own money
Stop playing the money card when it doesn't apply. Gabrielle has her own money.
ThePltsweet Right? What a dumb argument. Plenty of women take broke cheating bums back. The fact this comment even got likes is beyond me
Jussie Smollet "Noble" and Dwayne Wade "Brave" Got it🙄
Rofl
😂😂😂😂
Lol this show getting more backwards by the episode 😂😂
RIGHT?!?!?!?!
Toxic messages!
These women celebrating Wade but they for damn sure wouldn’t take their man after a on break baby.
If he was worth 100 million dollars like D. Wade they definitely would lol
Omphile Moerane it’s not like gabby doesn’t have her own money
How interesting, when it was Porsha Williams getting back with Dennis the ladies had a whole lot to say about her and how they would never take him back, but now cos its Gab Union who is an A lister and some of them know personally it considered noble that she took him back, baby and all 🤔
These girls got double standards on so many topics..... Sucks
Right
Good point!
The real should be labelled the fake show. They won’t honestly express their opinion because they are friend with these people. Break to fix the relationship doesn’t mean a full on break where you can impregnante another woman. Couples take breaks to think and evaluate the relationship and what you do in that break matters and shows ultimately how you feel about it. Let’s be real girls don’t sugarcoat it
The question is, if Gabrielle would have had a baby while they were on "break"...will he had forgiven her? It just sums up how being a woman in this world is so damn difficult! Men make mistakes, women forgive. Women make the SAME mistakes, men never forgive, move on with their lives n get on with another woman.
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
Adrienne really thought she did something with that "...by choosing who you want to die with" ..no boo, that ain't it.
& HE couldn't eat/sleep...trying to play victim to sway people's opinions? 🤔 .
...Well if Gabrielle feels ok with it! Then who are we to judge? Their business.
We as women need to stop deceiving ourselves. Being on a break for most men means that they can play the field again. And will therefore immediately move on to a physical relationship with other women. So you sitting there thinking that 'we are soul searching and will get back together when the time is right' often ends in tears mostly for women. I see it with these celebrities. Then claim that someone else 'stole my man' or 'homewrecker' when the man must have obviously told the other girl that he was broken up. If you are separated, broken up, on a break, know you are single.
There’s no such thing as “a break” in a relationship you either want to be together or not its that simple . Ppl saying “We’re on a break” is such BullShitt! 🤦🏻♀️
No One sometimes a break is actually necessary. When I was in college I had a boyfriend and we were constantly fighting. It got do bad to the point I was finding it difficult to focus on school and it was the final year of my degree and I really wanted to graduate. We took a break and it was the best decision cause I managed to do well enough to graduate and even get a scholarship to do my post grad.
Israel Houghton had two children with another woman while married to his ex wife
Oliver Oshai that’s exactly why Adrienne doesn’t speak on that type of cheater cause then she would be criticizing her own man. A shame.
Hmm are u sure of this?
All up in they business 😂
Oh lord lmao 😂
That's not even a red flag
That's a red honking fire truck. She was really brave to marry him.
So its brave to cheat?
Daniel Vestholm that’s what I said too
Daniel Vestholm
As long as your transparent about it apparently 🙄
Brave?!?! Eh, I don’t agree.
“if this table was turned around and Gabrielle Union wound up pregnant during a “BREAK” will the conversation be same as this?
🗣🗣🗣Gabrielle Union is getting older and was desperate to have a family!!
That’s why she decided to marry Dwayne and accept the “break baby” that he had!!
Dwayne is worth $120 million!!
So she could overlook the baby!!
Good point. I could overlook the baby too lol
Nella J
Lmao 😂😂😂
Women can heal like the wolverine when money is involved!!
U forgot to mention that Gabrielle can't have children. She's had like 3 miscarriages. I'd bet money that another woman giving her man s child was a blow to her pride and ego. That's a lot of pride to swallow.
I haven't yet reached that level of maturity. Everyone involved would be feeling my wrath.
THIS!!!
But Gab is worth some money too, I agree with the first half but not the 120 million I don’t think she needs his money 🙂
“On a break” yeah ok 👌
This is sad Dwayne is being praised for cheating getting a baby on the side and Gabrielle Union is the epitome of the character she portrayed on "Being Mary Jane" getting cheated on and being with men who doesn't truly honor her.
@white america's worst nightmare Of course black man
LaShonda Rochell of course black women
Everyone looks so pretty on the show today 😍 loving everyone’s outfit choices
If we're being realistic breaks are always interpreted wrong or used as an excuse to cheat. Whenever I was in a relationship where we felt the need to take a break, I knew it was coming to an end. My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We promised each other that if we ever felt the need to take a break we would separate permanently. We've haven't faced anything thus far that has caused us to break up or take any breaks. We have however went to couples therapy and even fasted and prayed through some of our hardest times.
they were on break, he didnt cheat. gabrile knew and still stayed. not a big deal
We all know there was no break it was just to save face. He cheated!
@@katdeluxy9608 no proof that they was not on a break or cheated
Kat Deluxy where is the proof that he cheated
zero TMz actually did do a timeline of when the baby may have been conceived and they were very much together during that time.
Adrienne you should be used to this topic. Don’t Israel have like 3 younger children he had outside of his marriage with his ex wife? Where are they? Do y’all even accept them? 🤔
WHAT? IS THIS TRUE?
she dont post them just like gabby dont post the other child
Mel C Gabby does post the child...
Funny how that jazz girl transitioned so young with little backlash but the moment a black kid does it y’all say they were sexually abused, or being used to push an agenda🤦🏾♀️
Jazz wasnt a celebrity to begin with people were concerned with her transition bc she was young but her supporters were lgbtq + allies on the other hand dwayne is known to be a pretty “masculine” athlete which to the public they were like oh he has a son who is gonna be just like him and dwaynes supporters are mostly black men and they are pretty much known for being homophobic and transphobic lets be real so thats why this kid is getting so much more backlash than jazz was getting also when jazz came out to the public eye she was pretty much already transitioned but its all new and just beginning for dwaynes kid his kid is basically transitioning infront of the public so he’s obviously going to get more backlash even tho he shouldn’t have to the situations are kinda different
They are both cases of exploitation. But I don't think Jazz'z parents were going on every talk show and social platform trying to push it onto people as much as the Wades are. But either way, both cases are still wrong
Makes me want to throw up knowing that the person you love can just suddenly do stuff like that.
Also why I’m happily single 🤗❤️
If Jeannie says he doesn’t owe us an explanation one more time....
Some women are so sad and desperate. You can live without a man, even that particular man you're tripping on. Some are so stuck on a man and being in love with him, you'll accept whatever he does/brings to you. Whether he cheats, has a baby on you, gets caught up in criminal activity, you'll take him back.
And it's nothing wrong with forgiveness. Forgiveness is good. If you choose to forgive him, I'm not knocking that. But some of you will allow yourself to be completely humiliated and take back that fool that did it to you because you "love" him and many of you feel like you can't live without him or he is your "soul mate". And that's your choice. But some of you are straight up idolaters of men. They are your god and you just have to have one. And you tie your own value to having one. And will stay no matter what. It's sad.
We know good and well these men do not and will not give us the same grace and forgiveness that we often give them. Let us cheat one time, they will be through and even ready to kill somebody.
We need to set our standards a lot higher for ourselves for real. And stop just accepting whatever to keep a man around. You're worth more than that.
I applaud him for his honesty and to tell her the truth before anyone else does because as we know when someone cheats they hide it and hope it would be forgotten and it's eventually heard about it through news and social media. Which hurts alot more.
And what’s funny is if any one of these women were put in the same situation they’d be out the door with the quickness. I love ya’ll but you know good and well you not staying around for that mess. I love DWade and Gabrielle but I’m tired of us praising men who are honest after the fact of their betrayal. Like nah homie you F’d up period.
This couple seems to be thirsty for attention ail of a sudden and putting everything out there as if they set the bar for people. We didn't ask for you to exploit your child or put your marital business out there. And just because you're a celebrity, not everyone is approving of your lifestyles and I'm definitely not looking to yall for any PARENTING or MARRIAGE advice! I'm so over them!....NEXT!!
Call it what u want but if my man got a female pregnant while we were on break and we all knew we were getting back together that'd be a wrap for us. A break means we're figuring things out and making a decision based on what we come up with not jumping from bed to bed.
I believe in breaks...needed one in my last relationship to realize I didn't want to be there, and we separated amicably. Sometimes people are addicted to the presence of a person rather than actually being in a healthy situation. I DON'T however see that at a pass to sleep around...break=still together, to me...
I’m just thinking how we never see this love child and how they must feel being “hidden “ not ok
You never know; could possibly prefer to remain out of the limelight given all of the media attention surrounding the family. 🍀 for all of the children/adults involved.
Whole time he running around teaching Love to his transgender son...FOH
That man was messing with that woman during him and Gabrielle's relationship
Men don't break... they might break from you but they never take a break from sex.
Gabrielle wasn’t upset simply because he’d gotten another woman pregnant during their separation. Most women would understand or find a way to work though a tough situation like that. She was upset because it wasn’t some random girl he met or someone with no connection to him. The woman was one of his longtime friends who also knew Gabrielle. One of those “oh no, that’s like my sister” type of friendships. That hurts way more, because then it’s someone who you personally knew and spent time with.
And Adrienne when some one has a child on you. That is something big. That's something that matters. So u cant say u drop all the things that dont matter. Making a life is a big ass deal.
Break or no break. They are grown and no one thought to use protection? Nevermind a baby, what about an STD?!? Wtf. Noble my ass
They obviously weren't fully broken up and they had to of been trying to work things out..why else would he have been so scared to tell her about the baby if they REALLY was actually broken up?? You don't break up with someone, fall for someone else, get them pregnant, and then suddenly afraid to tell your ex about it ...unless you weren't really broken up in the first place.
@Tracy G exactly. I agree with you.
They was never even on a break. The “break” part is a whole lie 😂😂
There's no such thing as a "BREAK" either your together or ur not ... Periodt
There is but okay
It’s a no from me. This would BREAK me. No matter how brave he was to tell me. I’m done.
You don’t have to be married to take a break loni. Couples do it a lot
I was so confused by that. Even yesterday when Tam said Ayesha and Steph could post that gross pic cause they're married. Like what's this thing with marriage at that show?
I absolutely hate the way the ladies give this celebrity men a pass. First jay z and now Dwayne wade. If this was a non celebrity then they would be saying much different
Never thought Gabrielle was in such messiness!!! She was so off the radar and quiet but lately damn girl is all over the place!!
Use to have a crush on her
You know men are praised as brave for telling the truth because of how rarely they do that (eye rolls) 😒
To me a break is just taking some time apart and having space to think and reevaluate the relationship. That's why its called a break and not a break up. If we're broken up by all means see other people but being on a break doesn't translate to seeing other people in my eyes. But that's just me. But I do think both parties need to be in agreement about their own definitions of what being on a break is so things like this don't happen.
That “they weren’t married” excuse is BS!!! Dating and being in a relationship is building the foundation for your marriage. If you can’t do right while we are dating signing a paper won’t make you magically do right!!! Marriage doesn’t change your character!!!
Facts
a break and a break up are two different things (just know this) 💛
Ok question... how long was the break... what made them go on the break and how exactly did they come back from a break... because a lot of people sometimes go on a break and just let God and life take them where they need to go... whether that ,Dan getting back together or finding somebody completely new... I just find it admirable that despite hitting that rough patch... which I’m sure it’s hard in reality to know someone you loved did this... but in their relationship she still loved on that baby like it was her own... and I’m glad she didn’t let that break them ! ❤️🙏🏽
Yess, I think she was the one that wanted to take a step back from the relationship, not sure why though.
Tamera wanted to say something but Adrienne talks so damn much. This show is a mess. And I hate how they cut her off. I like TAMERA the best.
Not shocked- look what took place between him and his ex wife. Never trust a man that been divorced. If he did it to his ex wife don't think he won't do it to you
So will Adrienne address her husband’s “ break babies” from his past marriage
I watch 70% for the topics and 100% of the time for the looks, it’s always so pretty and trendy
Bravery? Ohhhhh give it a damn rest. Men cheat and we give them a medal and hug?
There is so much more they want to say. Can't glamorize infidelity because their famous. All of the ladies have said that cheating is a deal breaker for them, but cheating and creating life..... I couldn't do it!! In real life there would always be some type of uncertainty all the time in my mind. Wouldn't want to live that way.
Also, cheating and getting another woman pregnant, isn't something that DOESNT MATTER! If a person is disloyal and emotional abusive to you do you really want to spend your life with that person? Does that person really love you? Society REALLY has to start holding men accountable the same way they hold women when it comes to cheating, having break babies, and having multiple baby mommas and ish! It's disgusting and shows a lack of self control! Its like they throw all sense out the window when a man is honest about something he did that was dishonest. "Well at least he told the truth" Well he was LYING the whole time he was cheating! He had to come forward because you cant hide a whole human being!!
Could it be a possibility that Dwayne was honest with her because eventually Gabrielle was going to find out?
If the hosts can’t talk honestly about a topic, they should just skip it. If a man had a break baby, the break becomes permanent.
Being a celebrity doesn’t mean their business is ours . What they do as a living has nothing to do with their personal life’s and we need to respect that about famous people. Key Word “PEOPLE” .
Let’s be honest here. The only reason he said anything is because he fathered a child. If that child wouldn’t have happen. He wouldn’t have said a word.
You're probably right.
Chile pls Dwayne shouldn't be getting no type of praise. Let it have been a women who came back pregnant, I bet it wouldn't be so brave then foh.
If there were no big names attached to this they would have a very different opinion about this story 🤣🤣
3:29 😂😂😂 Amanda, were you in this topic?
Who here after Zaire got exposed💀
I dont think they were initially on break when he made that baby. They took a "break" after her finding out about the baby!
I am keeping it real but I don’t think that Wade’s child freely chose to transition. I think the child is being used to further someone’s agenda. Where is this child’s mother in all of this? 12 is too young for this.
They were on a break. A break means just that a break. They weren't together anymore. He didn't cheat on her. Y'all reaching hard AF in these comments. This is why I don't do breaks because most time people don't get back together. However, they were able to make things work and they're happy.
Gabby overlooked it because of the lifestyle. If he was a regular guy not worth over 100 million, she would have left after the break baby. Money will make someone tolerate alot.
I don't get the whole concept of being on a "break"
like when I hear that I assume the couple is deciding to take space to figure out if they want to be together not go about sleeping with other people then that would mean the couple "broke up"
These woman don't what to rock anyone's boat. I wish Amanda would have said something. She would have kept it REAL.
They are trying to stay relevant. Wade was an amazing basketball player but this brand of "relatable" is just that a brand. Why do you parade your child's sexuality around like it's their entire existence? Does the "break" baby mama have the freedom to speak as you do? Does she have a NDA that she has to adhere to while you and Gabrielle frame her story? It takes to two to make a baby.
Let jeezy come out and say he had another baby by another woman, would you call it "brave", lmao these women love being politically correct and not "real"....
First off.. Brain washed is da word. Forget bravery... And it being a break. When you go on a break that doesn't mean have sex with anyone... Tf
It was a baby conceived in the situation. Yall tripping
I find it interesting that these women find it SO BEAUUUTIFUL
Adrienne you are glowing!
If you are seeing other people during this "break" that is not a break. That is a break up.