@Javy 22 My brother in law is a barber. When ever I used to bring my younger brother to get his hair ct I would drop him leave and come back. They can have their boys time. I do the same if my boyfriend wants me to meet up with him after a haircut... I wait outside in my car lol
Lol, that's how you know how whitewashed she is, and the hood barber shop is like the epicenter for all things to converse about where things that we as a people relate too
Same. The pick me chic always made me uncomfortable. I'm like ma'am I'm just getting my son hair cut. Relax. Plus, the guys want to have guy talk. I'm all good with males only barbershops.
Man, let these men have their space. I have been in the barbershop and it was awkward. And I don't want a man there at the hair salon. As soon as Tamara said "in OUR neighborhood" .....chile.
Guuuuurl 😂😂😂 I was rolling.. Motherfreaking NAPA VALLEY!!!!.. like Tam Tam, get real. There is absolutely no comparison. Adams Barbershop ain't even close to the regular barbershops they were referring to😂😂😂😂. I feel only Loni and Amanda kept it real. Tam and Adrienne act like they live under a rock or something sometimes... "Is girl chat and guy chat different or the same" like SERIOUSLY babes ???? Lol come onnnnnnnn
Ashley Bewley .. maybe Tam has never been to a hood barbershop. Maybe her brothers haven’t either because they don’t look like that type of family. I could be wrong but, they grew up in Hawaii and were children of military mom and dad. They didn’t grow up in Compton or Crenshaw.
If it's not their husband/ boyfriend, why are they so invested in the way a private business owner runs their establishment? Better yet, why go where you are not wanted? That's like BLK people attending a Klan rally and complaining about the content. Why go only to be disturbed? The first Amendment right that many people hide behind when they want to do their thing is being exercised by a private entity. It's like a guy attending a female engagement for hair and nails and feeling some kind of way because the women are looking at him crooked. What is your point and purpose of being at such an event? Makes the guy look suspect if you ask me. I'm all for equal rights, civil rights yada yada. But this whole feminist movement agenda will be the root to all evil coming to you soon. I mean to a point we get that the "Me too" movement was necessary. But when people start abusing the system and creating a discord between race, sex, gender we can't get to The Bill Of Rights and all that comes with that. A business owner wanting men to be his agenda or them is his right, it's not personal and takes nothing away from a woman's right to be all she can do on her own watch.
I’m with Amanda and Loni on this one. If my man needs his time at his barbershop where he can cut up and whatever (as long as he isn’t doing anything questionable), that’s HIS time and I’m not gonna intrude upon that. When I was a child, I never went into my father’s barbershop and the only time I would see my father when I got my hair done was when he’d drop me off and pick me up. Let the men have their space.
I don't think his clientele includes women. I mean he refers to the place as a man cave. It's not a man cave if some the occupants have a vagina. Look, this man knows his policy will eliminate some potential customers. Obliviously he's okay with it and is doing well enough to be able to implement his wish.
I live here. Women are only allowed if they are taking their sons. Otherwise not at all. He won’t cut their hair either. He made his policy well known to the community before he opened. He’s not the only barber in town so they have opinions if they don’t like it. I don’t have an issue.
i go there, its men who want space away from their women and talk and debate and all, we complained to the barber and he made the policy coz some of them found it hard to tell their wives not to come and wait they should go be with their gfs
I mean I honestly wouldn’t want to be in the barbershop with my man just for the simple fact I’d be bored. If I’m not getting anything done there, why do I need to be there? I don’t see anything wrong with it. Let the guys have their own space. I’m with Jeannie.
I think for certain spaces... it’s ok to acknowledge that each space has a certain sense of openness and some type of family vibe... like Amanda said... so if a woman can be in the beauty shop and talk about they relationships or whatever without men interfering or being “ skeptical “ of what kind of convos their having then so can men... if there’s a sense of it being a safe space for sisterhood or brotherhood then let them have that time...
Tbh I understand where the owner is coming from Just as women like to bond while getting their hair done or getting a manicure or whatever the men like a little alone time. If the men actually had a problem with the policy they would have protested. Although, I do think that he should never be disrespectful when a female comes around. Edit: Men don't talk/think about women all the time.
I dont get it people think within the box.. tamera is a working mother that flies every week for work and doesnt get much time with her family. I 100% understand where shes coming from
bsbgirl85 you must be a very miserable person. I’ve noticed your comments are racist and you go around spreading hate! Who hurt you?? You need Jesus in your life, like for real!! Go on ask for His forgiveness it’s not too late for you.
bsbgirl85 You actually sound totally ridiculous, and very racist. While I do agree with the original comment, Tamara and Adrienne seem very attached to their husband in an open healthy way, there is no difference. You are only a difference, because you want to. And her husband have been together for a very long time, part of the couples, Adrian has barely been with her baby little husband for four years, I would be more of a red flag to me. Maybe you should keep your racist comments to yourself for sure if somebody made a backwards comment like that you would have something negative to say. Why can’t everyone just evaluate situations without bringing race, religion, and any other stereo typical Prejudiced into it?
Some women want to be involved in everything, always, sheesh. Let them breathe. Adrienne, they talk about similar things that women talk about. We're all people before we are a gender. Mind ya business lol
Adrienne just wants to be up in there for male attention smh.,and she's not all that attractive, true beauty comes from within, with a right to have an opinion, I don't see it, I must be respectful and not voice what I do see.
I can see why married men die sooner than their wives because they don't have space of their own and they can't socialize with friends, their wives are always there being clingy and nosey. They are dying of being suffocated. Stress can kill anybody
From what I once heard about hood barbershop, guys said it was a space for them to ask any and all questions to other guys like skincare or relationships etc other stuff as girls talk about all the time freely. So like the said at the end, as long as it's not promoting misogynistic behavior, I think it's good for men to have a safe space where they can have they're questions answered. Especially in this day and age when we are residing masculinity and men are learning it's okay to feel and show emotions!
@Javy 22 if women only knew how we really talk to each other. It's like that old Mike Epps bit where when he's with his woman he's all Mr Proper and as soon as hes alone with the fellas he like where's da bitches 😂
Im so tired of women trying to tell men what is going on at the barbershop...Most of the time its just talk about sports, politics, relationships, raising children, and dating. I dont know where this notion came from where youre just at the barbershop talking reckless.
Men have always been allowed to show their emotion *in their own way*. The way women show their emotions is not the only and best way. We want men to be like women and I'm not for it.
@@saramichele7366 lol she said SHE takes them to their hair appointment. Adam should just go with the son. And then meet the ladies back at home or wherever
@@9188jenni I was thinking that same thing!! Why not let Adam have some one on one male bonding time with his son?! Why do you always gotta be there?! 😑
I can’t stand wives / gf like Tamera and Adrienne . Damn let your men have some space . It doesn’t matter what their talking about stop being so bossy and controlling . Stop regulating their conversations
And that can be seen whenever Adam and Israel appear on their RUclips channels, Tamera and Adrienne especially overtake and interrupt them all the time. Just relax or please talk before going on camera.
To get my damn undercut fixed , I shouldn't have to be turned away from multiple different barbers like damn just do your job and cut my hair that's all I need and my money is exactly the same!
I love how Amanda reasons. Great addition to the show. I'm happy that there's another black girl along with Loni who really have a grasp of black culture. Tamera definitely can not speak on the average black person's experience.
Facts. She has common sense and is a ranged critical thinker. More importantly, she really don't give a f*ck.😂 It's really a trivial thing this topic. Tamera almost made it a thing even though she agrees with Amanda. The barber didn't say he won't allow, he just advised that his barbershop is a place where he likes men to be free, and that may make females uncomfortable.
I think men need that space.. it’s a family thing cool. Me personally I’m okay with my significant other taking time to develop and release to help them be the person I love at the core.
Tamera’s headturn when loni said “Hood barbershop “ 😂. I guess women aren’t the target audience if they need a shape up themselves, but there are other places to go. Amanda looks like whipped cream 😆
I never even knew that was an issue to be honest. I've only gone to the barber shop twice with my husband and both times it was because we were pressed for time and had to go somewhere right after but any other time I don't want to be there.
Men need some space too, to vent to talk to other men. There’s a lot of things I talk with my sisters or girls cousins about that I don’t really talk about with my husband Bc there’s just some things women to women need to talk about and men have the same thing. Come on wives we can give our husbands the barbershops AT LEAST 😂
I agree with the no girls rule. We shouldn't be sensitive about everything. If they dont want us in it and it's a moment for them to vent, let them have that.
Every girl on this panel definitely lives a different life, which is cool because they all have different inputs. Jeannie = girlfriend material so she wants her man to have his space, Tamera = wifey, she wants to be there with the family. Adrienne is def insecure lol asking what are they talking about in the shop lol, Amanda is single so she’s open minded, loni just got in a relationship so she wants her space too
I’ll be the first to say I’m that GF that like to go everywhere with my man, but the barbershop is one place I do NOT go with him. That’s his time to be with his brother or whoever else and have his man time. 🤷🏻♀️
If you're from the hood hood you know the feeling of walking in front of a barbershop 🤗 I felt sexualized, I could feel their looks running thru my body and all the remarks they would make 🙄🤮. The cat calling on them hot summer days ewww! I have no business in an all male barbershop even if I was a single mom with a son.
Omg this is amazing!!! This is my home town and I can't believe this is being talked about. It's all because this girl wasn't allowed to go in with her boyfriend and she's throwing a fit. No one in town cares. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I truly don't care... why do people care? 🤣🤣🤣
Ya I saw this story on my Facebook page taking about news in the town and I thought they were having a news story done about them and I was happy for them. Then i found out what it was really about from my sister and we couldn't stop laughing about how stupid it was.
Easy. You ask around. Even if you're new to a town or city you can ask people about barbershop. Now just like anything else, you'll decide which shop is beneficial for you and your kid.
For certain spaces like Amanda said, quite frankly, idc what that barbershop has going on because the one I go to, everyone is welcome. I love the barbershop!
What they mean what they talking? So we acting like the movies Barbershop and Beauty Shop don't exist. All they were doing was talking about politics, history, culture, and love life etc.
Man should have there own space. I agree with Jeannie, Loni, and Amanda. I’ve been to barbershops and that’s were men really spill the teaaa😂and they open up it’s not just about the haircuts. I like to think of it like when girls go to the bathroom together for hours.
Before I was a single mother I would’ve said we (women) don’t need to go to the barbershop. I have a seven year old autistic son. I take him to the barbershop and the guys are fine with it. They still have their conversations and it’s cool. Do I like being there? No. Until he gets to a point to where he wants go by himself I will go.
I went to a men's barbershop yesterday when I got my head shaved and I felt so out of place. I think men should be able to have their own places just like women do
I'm getting offended that everyone is now coming at lonis neck recently, chill. The tamar situation sucks but now instead of talking about loni just give tamar more work or something. Tamar probably already found her piece and people bringing it up again is probably annoying (because I know that personally hate that)
When my dad goes to the barber shop he goes by him self and same for my mom. They recognize that they do t need to be together 24/7. People need their space.
I absolutely agree with what Tamera is saying here. Just let me be the one to decide if I want to accompany my man to get his hair done. I don’t go every time, as I agree he needs his space, but sometimes my boyfriend is like Adam and he wants my input. Plus, if we have a son one day, I would want his dad to take him to a place where I wouldn’t have to worry whether the conversations happening are too mature for him.
Nah, I get the brotherhood, but this isn’t a good a idea because in certain states, there are certain classes of people that are not legally protected from being discriminated against for businesses that are not public accommodations. Specifically most of these states are in the south. So if this no woman in the barbershop is deemed okay, then other private businesses can start doing the same thing. Like no women in the video game store, or no blacks in this part of the store. It’s starts a precedent that certain discrimination is okay and NO discrimination should ever be normalized. Let it be her choice!!!
I assumed it was an unspoken rule. I wouldn’t want to tag along with my husband when he visits the barber. I love him doing his self-care and having his space. But really there shouldn’t be a physical sign forbidding entry of women. Men should just communicate to their partner’s that it’s their “me time”
No because it’s almost equivalent too “Should boyfriends and husbands be allowed too wig shop with their spouses?” Sorry, that’s where ladies can have a private moment
Meh let the men have their spot... it's the place where they go to gossip (more than women), talk about sports, politics, food and girlfriend/wive problems.
It's discriminatory..... just happens to be the type of discrimination that some people are okay with... and as for what they said about not being misogynistic ...no one can tell/control what men want or choose to talk about in a barbershop...
If you are working on something that you really care about, you dont have to be pushed. The vision pulls you. On my channel its the vision that pulls me.
I don’t like going to the barbershop because I feel like men need a safe space and feel like I’m intruding on “shop talk”. I feel so uncomfortable when I have to take my son when my husband can’t make it.
I wouldn't want to be there. Who wants to sit around and watch someone else get their hair done? I have never done it for my female friends, why would I do it for a man? I have better things to do. More importantly, that will finally be my time to have a break from him. I need my space just like he does.
As a female barber, some owners prefer to have a family environment for their shop and others don't. I've only ever worked at family environment barber shops where wives and girlfriends are welcome to sit in the waiting area and have a drink while their man gets a cut We give beers to the adults (in koozies) And sodas/rootbeers for anyone under 21 All on the house, too at that point it's just the owner's preference and how they want to display their shop to the public as well as what type of clientele they wish to attract
I seen barber shops like this in Chicago... I mean the transgender woman go in to get their hair cut... but when women are in the shop you have to change the whole conversation and tone of you voice it does take away from the trip to the barber shop. It’s more so about the vibe.
I agree with Amanda, it is a matter of preserving a safe space. These men want to be able to vent and discuss issues or relationship advice and want to do it without their SO being there. So i get it, plus I wouldn't want to be there anyway. I rather spend my time shopping heheh
It is so refreshing to hear the ladies embrace the idea that men need their own safe space to gather and just be men. We want it as women and with the exception of Adrienne (LOL!) the rest of us know when women get together we have conversations that won't be real and raw if a man is within ear shot.
This is funny because... one of the times I went with my ex boyfriend I found out he was cheating on me 😂😂 this is how it happened I pretended I had me headphones in and well I herd him and his barber talking about yo check this chick out you think she fine am gunna go see her tonight we spent last night together and she invited me over for some wine tonight... LMFAO I LAUGH NOW BECAUSE...I found out so much more I found out that the man I was dating had a girlfriend of 4 years!!! And he was cheating on her with me and he was cheating on us with multiple other girls it’s a mess tbh. The only reason why I didn’t figure it out was because he lived in a different state and would visit me on weekends soo idk it was a mess glad god got me through that tbh.
There combo shops in alot of cities. Meaning there's barbers and salon stylists. Even women getting a shape up KNOW where to go. We also must remember a barber or stylist has a right NOT to see customers. I think it's safe to say if a barber doesn't want women in his shop he'll GLADLY point them to a competitor.
You can't believe everything on the internet. And Loni said there is someone out there lying about her. Loni used to take care of them but had to cut them off. Also everyone that you don't personally know does not owe you an explanation about anything. People you actually don't have to give you an explanation about anything. I don't know when some people in society started feeling so entitled.
they had to tell Tam that there's a difference between Adam's Barbershop and a hood Barbershop LOL
@Javy 22 My brother in law is a barber. When ever I used to bring my younger brother to get his hair ct I would drop him leave and come back. They can have their boys time. I do the same if my boyfriend wants me to meet up with him after a haircut... I wait outside in my car lol
Lmao
Exactly lol
Lol, that's how you know how whitewashed she is, and the hood barber shop is like the epicenter for all things to converse about where things that we as a people relate too
@@xxblazxerxx2001 good point lol
As a women who’s sat in the barbershop it’s awkward! 😂😂 I feel out of place so I’ll just wait in the car or not go.
Same. The pick me chic always made me uncomfortable. I'm like ma'am I'm just getting my son hair cut. Relax. Plus, the guys want to have guy talk. I'm all good with males only barbershops.
Yup me as well
It is very awkward as a woman. I went once , never again lol. I'm all set lol
Me too lol
Same!
Man, let these men have their space. I have been in the barbershop and it was awkward. And I don't want a man there at the hair salon. As soon as Tamara said "in OUR neighborhood" .....chile.
Guuuuurl 😂😂😂 I was rolling.. Motherfreaking NAPA VALLEY!!!!.. like Tam Tam, get real. There is absolutely no comparison. Adams Barbershop ain't even close to the regular barbershops they were referring to😂😂😂😂. I feel only Loni and Amanda kept it real. Tam and Adrienne act like they live under a rock or something sometimes...
"Is girl chat and guy chat different or the same" like SERIOUSLY babes ???? Lol come onnnnnnnn
@@ashleyb6621 💀💀😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY!! I was glad when Loni stepped in. We are NOT talking about your lil country club barbershop over here.
I got my hair cut there last Saturday it's an awesome place.
Ashley Bewley .. maybe Tam has never been to a hood barbershop. Maybe her brothers haven’t either because they don’t look like that type of family. I could be wrong but, they grew up in Hawaii and were children of military mom and dad. They didn’t grow up in Compton or Crenshaw.
@@ifunanya24 ....it's quite obvious that she hasn't.
I agree with the no girls rule, we have spas for women only so why not?
exactly
Agreed!
Exactly.
I agree!
If it's not their husband/ boyfriend, why are they so invested in the way a private business owner
runs their establishment? Better yet, why go where you are not wanted? That's like BLK people
attending a Klan rally and complaining about the content. Why go only to be disturbed? The first Amendment
right that many people hide behind when they want to do their thing is being exercised by a
private entity.
It's like a guy attending a female engagement for hair and nails and feeling
some kind of way because the women are looking at him crooked. What is your point and
purpose of being at such an event? Makes the guy look suspect if you ask me.
I'm all for equal rights, civil rights yada yada. But this whole feminist movement agenda will
be the root to all evil coming to you soon. I mean to a point we get that the "Me too" movement
was necessary. But when people start abusing the system and creating a discord between
race, sex, gender we can't get to The Bill Of Rights and all that comes with that. A business
owner wanting men to be his agenda or them is his right, it's not personal and takes nothing
away from a woman's right to be all she can do on her own watch.
I’m with Amanda and Loni on this one. If my man needs his time at his barbershop where he can cut up and whatever (as long as he isn’t doing anything questionable), that’s HIS time and I’m not gonna intrude upon that. When I was a child, I never went into my father’s barbershop and the only time I would see my father when I got my hair done was when he’d drop me off and pick me up.
Let the men have their space.
But you don't have a man......
David Lee Damn I didn’t know there was another me out there. 🤔
Starfire10982 right how tf he know that😂😂💀
Starfire10982 exactly, like you go do your thing, I don’t have to be attached at your hip 24/7
Moya Must be projecting or something. 🤷🏿♀️
Woman here. Let dudes have their space.
@ Right???!!!
Amen!!!
Agreed!
The owner didn't say he wouldn't give service to women. He said dont bring your wife or girlfriend in there which I can understand.
I don't think his clientele includes women. I mean he refers to the place as a man cave. It's not a man cave if some the occupants have a vagina.
Look, this man knows his policy will eliminate some potential customers. Obliviously he's okay with it and is doing well enough to be able to implement his wish.
@Devon Dené Drouillard exactly
I live here. Women are only allowed if they are taking their sons. Otherwise not at all. He won’t cut their hair either. He made his policy well known to the community before he opened. He’s not the only barber in town so they have opinions if they don’t like it. I don’t have an issue.
@@saraho6908 thanks for the clarification.
Ok I get that
It shouldn’t be that serious ....
China Dall exactly, i live in dubai and men don’t come into women salon and same goes for women not going into a barbershop it’s seriously not deep
exactly
Right. How many women go there anyways
I live where the shop is. They’re mad because they don’t cut women’s hair.
i go there, its men who want space away from their women and talk and debate and all, we complained to the barber and he made the policy coz some of them found it hard to tell their wives not to come and wait they should go be with their gfs
I mean I honestly wouldn’t want to be in the barbershop with my man just for the simple fact I’d be bored. If I’m not getting anything done there, why do I need to be there?
I don’t see anything wrong with it. Let the guys have their own space. I’m with Jeannie.
Exactly!
I think for certain spaces... it’s ok to acknowledge that each space has a certain sense of openness and some type of family vibe... like Amanda said... so if a woman can be in the beauty shop and talk about they relationships or whatever without men interfering or being “ skeptical “ of what kind of convos their having then so can men... if there’s a sense of it being a safe space for sisterhood or brotherhood then let them have that time...
Myronn Coleman I agree why we trying to infiltrate everybody’s space everything isn’t family friendly
Females like to get offended when they're singled out intentionally or unintentionally although they do the same all the time smh double standards.
@@thesupergreenjudy what do you think
Tbh I understand where the owner is coming from Just as women like to bond while getting their hair done or getting a manicure or whatever the men like a little alone time. If the men actually had a problem with the policy they would have protested. Although, I do think that he should never be disrespectful when a female comes around.
Edit: Men don't talk/think about women all the time.
Edina Robinson exactly completely agree
Right!!!
- YES AMANDA! That couple resort connection hit it on the nail!
Tamera and Adrienne it's clear that being married is the end all for you two, it's more than ok for your husband's to have their own space!! Geesh 😩
I don't think I can handle hearing Tamera talk about her huuusband one more time... Honestly 😒
Sara McGowan the fact that she loves her husband bothers you? Well I don’t feel the same way, but you do you, boo🤷🏽♀️
@@maryforbes1854 I never said I don't like that she loves her husband. She just talks about him all the time. Just my opinion
I dont get it people think within the box.. tamera is a working mother that flies every week for work and doesnt get much time with her family. I 100% understand where shes coming from
There insecure
adrienne and tam needa learn how to fall back sometimes lmaoooo
I sense codependency w Tam and Adrienne w their men
bsbgirl85 WHOS tamaga?
bsbgirl85 you must be a very miserable person.
I’ve noticed your comments are racist and you go around spreading hate!
Who hurt you?? You need Jesus in your life, like for real!! Go on ask for His forgiveness it’s not too late for you.
bsbgirl85 You actually sound totally ridiculous, and very racist. While I do agree with the original comment, Tamara and Adrienne seem very attached to their husband in an open healthy way, there is no difference. You are only a difference, because you want to. And her husband have been together for a very long time, part of the couples, Adrian has barely been with her baby little husband for four years, I would be more of a red flag to me. Maybe you should keep your racist comments to yourself for sure if somebody made a backwards comment like that you would have something negative to say. Why can’t everyone just evaluate situations without bringing race, religion, and any other stereo typical Prejudiced into it?
Mother of Dragons my mom goes with my dad sometimes it’s not a bad thing
That's what traditional "love" is.
Some women want to be involved in everything, always, sheesh. Let them breathe.
Adrienne, they talk about similar things that women talk about. We're all people before we are a gender. Mind ya business lol
Yup lol
him: im a go get a haircut
me: ok
(in my mind: "ok . why you telling me this 😒")
Adrienne just wants to be up in there for male attention smh.,and she's not all that attractive, true beauty comes from within, with a right to have an opinion, I don't see it, I must be respectful and not voice what I do see.
Ava Freeman you’re on drugs if you think Adrienne is “not that attractive” she’s literally the definition of what men find attractive
Exactly lol
I think everyone deserves their own space. Tam sounds silly. And Andrienne sounds nosey.
She's More than nosey
Preach
I can see why married men die sooner than their wives because they don't have space of their own and they can't socialize with friends, their wives are always there being clingy and nosey. They are dying of being suffocated. Stress can kill anybody
@@anewno6240 😂😂😂😂 girl you funny. Stop acting like wives are these evil creatures smh. No marriage is even the same
Have you ever thought that there's a culture difference with Tam? She's not going to a hood barbershop
Barbershop is like a mans cave... I don’t mind being there with my man but his time is his time
From what I once heard about hood barbershop, guys said it was a space for them to ask any and all questions to other guys like skincare or relationships etc other stuff as girls talk about all the time freely. So like the said at the end, as long as it's not promoting misogynistic behavior, I think it's good for men to have a safe space where they can have they're questions answered. Especially in this day and age when we are residing masculinity and men are learning it's okay to feel and show emotions!
@Javy 22 lol
@Javy 22 if women only knew how we really talk to each other. It's like that old Mike Epps bit where when he's with his woman he's all Mr Proper and as soon as hes alone with the fellas he like where's da bitches 😂
Im so tired of women trying to tell men what is going on at the barbershop...Most of the time its just talk about sports, politics, relationships, raising children, and dating. I dont know where this notion came from where youre just at the barbershop talking reckless.
Making a sign for it is stupid, let it be implied instead of law
Men have always been allowed to show their emotion *in their own way*. The way women show their emotions is not the only and best way. We want men to be like women and I'm not for it.
Tamera ALWAYS takes everything to a different level like it's never that serious
Always!!
She’s on a different level that’s why 🤷🏻♀️
It's so damn annoying! Like girl, chill out! And let your man have a haircut without you glued to his hip.... How suffocating.
@@saramichele7366 lol she said SHE takes them to their hair appointment. Adam should just go with the son. And then meet the ladies back at home or wherever
@@9188jenni I was thinking that same thing!! Why not let Adam have some one on one male bonding time with his son?! Why do you always gotta be there?! 😑
The Man cave ( literally the name of the barber shop!) Welcomed me in when I was a single mom.
I can’t stand wives / gf like Tamera and Adrienne . Damn let your men have some space . It doesn’t matter what their talking about stop being so bossy and controlling . Stop regulating their conversations
I like Tam... she's clingy though
Queen Butterfly I like her too but geez give Adam some air
@@mayalicious203 Agreed
And that can be seen whenever Adam and Israel appear on their RUclips channels, Tamera and Adrienne especially overtake and interrupt them all the time. Just relax or please talk before going on camera.
Maya Clery hes a grown man, if hes allowed to go out with his friends lol
Jeannie was shaking her head like "Yessss" when Loni talked about hood barbershops lmaooo okay then Jeezy I mean Jeannie
Irrelevant sidenote: Amanda's skin looks so flawless. This lighting and makeup (and genetics?) are doing her great justice. She looks beautiful.
Why do y'all wanna be in the barber shop?
To get my damn undercut fixed , I shouldn't have to be turned away from multiple different barbers like damn just do your job and cut my hair that's all I need and my money is exactly the same!
Exactly. Who cares lol!
Some women get their hair cut by barbers
Umm there’s this thing called single mothers and if the kid is under 7 there mom should b able to sit in there with them
Kids, cuts and conversation.
I love how Amanda reasons. Great addition to the show. I'm happy that there's another black girl along with Loni who really have a grasp of black culture. Tamera definitely can not speak on the average black person's experience.
Agreed
Facts. She has common sense and is a ranged critical thinker. More importantly, she really don't give a f*ck.😂 It's really a trivial thing this topic. Tamera almost made it a thing even though she agrees with Amanda. The barber didn't say he won't allow, he just advised that his barbershop is a place where he likes men to be free, and that may make females uncomfortable.
@@bsbgirl85 Why do you keep spelling Tamaga lol? Just curious
@@ThatKillerQuote they say it's because she's a rumored conservative.
@@DavidRichardson95 ohhhh lmaooo! As in maga for trump? Jajaja that's ridiculous and funny
I think men need that space.. it’s a family thing cool. Me personally I’m okay with my significant other taking time to develop and release to help them be the person I love at the core.
Tamera’s headturn when loni said “Hood barbershop “ 😂.
I guess women aren’t the target audience if they need a shape up themselves, but there are other places to go.
Amanda looks like whipped cream 😆
Omg!!!!! Ppl women can have their girl time why can't men have it too dang just drain the life out of men ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!
Right! All the hair salons and barbershop in existence THiS HERE is not a problem.
Lmao right!
I never even knew that was an issue to be honest. I've only gone to the barber shop twice with my husband and both times it was because we were pressed for time and had to go somewhere right after but any other time I don't want to be there.
I agree lol
I agree!! Men and women deserve some me time ain't nothing wrong with it
LoL! I like Amanda's views on this one. There is a place catered for one's specific type of vibe.
Amanda look like a bridesmaid in the 80’s😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men need some space too, to vent to talk to other men. There’s a lot of things I talk with my sisters or girls cousins about that I don’t really talk about with my husband Bc there’s just some things women to women need to talk about and men have the same thing. Come on wives we can give our husbands the barbershops AT LEAST 😂
Exactly lol
Forget all that.. men should have their space who cares if they have “locker room” talk idgaf.. that’s not my business.. 🤷🏻♀️
Adrienne and Tamera are way too obsessed with their husbands. Let the guys have their own space without being overly concerned. Geesh
I agree with the no girls rule. We shouldn't be sensitive about everything. If they dont want us in it and it's a moment for them to vent, let them have that.
Every girl on this panel definitely lives a different life, which is cool because they all have different inputs. Jeannie = girlfriend material so she wants her man to have his space, Tamera = wifey, she wants to be there with the family. Adrienne is def insecure lol asking what are they talking about in the shop lol, Amanda is single so she’s open minded, loni just got in a relationship so she wants her space too
Exactly lol
Jae Engio insecure? More like curious
Men typical have REAL tea, not the trivial things I be calling tea...my man being having JUICY tea!
Girl!!
Isnt “tea” just gossip and having people’s names in your mouth? Lol
Let the men have their space. They have Man Talk there. Let them be.
Nah I ain’t want my man hearing what I’m saying at the hairdresser. Amanda looks gorgeous btw
Yep lol
yoooooooo!!!!!! Tam's face when Loni says "hood barbershop" is SENDINGGGGGG!!!! 2:34
I’ll be the first to say I’m that GF that like to go everywhere with my man, but the barbershop is one place I do NOT go with him. That’s his time to be with his brother or whoever else and have his man time. 🤷🏻♀️
Mike Carter exactly some women don’t understand that tho lol
If you're from the hood hood you know the feeling of walking in front of a barbershop 🤗 I felt sexualized, I could feel their looks running thru my body and all the remarks they would make 🙄🤮. The cat calling on them hot summer days ewww! I have no business in an all male barbershop even if I was a single mom with a son.
Omg this is amazing!!! This is my home town and I can't believe this is being talked about. It's all because this girl wasn't allowed to go in with her boyfriend and she's throwing a fit. No one in town cares. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I truly don't care... why do people care? 🤣🤣🤣
Wow lol
And she knew it was men only and got upset that they asked her to follow the rules and go do something else. Smh.
Ya I saw this story on my Facebook page taking about news in the town and I thought they were having a news story done about them and I was happy for them. Then i found out what it was really about from my sister and we couldn't stop laughing about how stupid it was.
Jeez, can men have anything anymore???
DudeWheresJay Not with the feminists nowadays.
What if you have a son and you’re a single mom? Is he not allowed to get a hair cut? Edit: thankfully I’m not a single mom but I was raised by one.
You just can't stay
Yajahira Flores don't have sympathy for single moms ffs
I'm sure it would be fine if your a single mom but if they refuse you then go somewhere else plain and simple
Easy. You ask around. Even if you're new to a town or city you can ask people about barbershop.
Now just like anything else, you'll decide which shop is beneficial for you and your kid.
It's fine I believe for mothers because the title is girlfriends and wives so your son would not ne talking about grown men conversations.
Anyone watch 90 Day Fiancé?! I bet Jay wishes he would’ve gone to a barbershop where wives weren’t allowed 😂
Cheating in peace🤣🤣
😂😂
Omg that was my FIRST thought when I read this title 🤣🤣
😅🤣🤣🤣 So true
Lmaoooo u wrong for that
"...As long as it's not locker room talk", because women don't "locker room talk" about guys to other women 😄
Lmao thank you. They act like women dont do that.
Ellande Campbell 🤣
Oooo yes we see you The Real with that RUclips update at the end and the fact that you upload for us the entire segment. Thank you! much appreciated
For certain spaces like Amanda said, quite frankly, idc what that barbershop has going on because the one I go to, everyone is welcome. I love the barbershop!
I completely agree with amanda
I have no desire to be IN the barbershop. Just like I don't care to see men in the nail salon.
doctor: “you have 5 minutes and 11 seconds left to live”
me:
why??
?
Wooshh
You gone😥👀
why tho
Tamera ruining a father-son moment and she dont even know it🤦♂️
Thando Selolo it’s just a hair cut. There are other things they can show father and son moment
What they mean what they talking? So we acting like the movies Barbershop and Beauty Shop don't exist. All they were doing was talking about politics, history, culture, and love life etc.
The difference is BLK Barber Shops are more cultural than just some social hang out. Big
difference between a BLK shop and white shop.
Exactly lol
Man should have there own space. I agree with Jeannie, Loni, and Amanda. I’ve been to barbershops and that’s were men really spill the teaaa😂and they open up it’s not just about the haircuts. I like to think of it like when girls go to the bathroom together for hours.
Nope there are plenty of shops that women can go to..let them have their guy space.
The guy in blue t shirt looks like he knows something they should have asked him 😂
Before I was a single mother I would’ve said we (women) don’t need to go to the barbershop. I have a seven year old autistic son. I take him to the barbershop and the guys are fine with it. They still have their conversations and it’s cool. Do I like being there? No. Until he gets to a point to where he wants go by himself I will go.
I went to a men's barbershop yesterday when I got my head shaved and I felt so out of place. I think men should be able to have their own places just like women do
Tamera goes to a white barbershop that’s why
I'm getting offended that everyone is now coming at lonis neck recently, chill. The tamar situation sucks but now instead of talking about loni just give tamar more work or something. Tamar probably already found her piece and people bringing it up again is probably annoying (because I know that personally hate that)
Sorry late on everything, what are you talking about?
The dude at 2:45 shaking his head had me deeeead😂😂
When my dad goes to the barber shop he goes by him self and same for my mom. They recognize that they do t need to be together 24/7. People need their space.
I absolutely agree with what Tamera is saying here. Just let me be the one to decide if I want to accompany my man to get his hair done. I don’t go every time, as I agree he needs his space, but sometimes my boyfriend is like Adam and he wants my input. Plus, if we have a son one day, I would want his dad to take him to a place where I wouldn’t have to worry whether the conversations happening are too mature for him.
Nah, I get the brotherhood, but this isn’t a good a idea because in certain states, there are certain classes of people that are not legally protected from being discriminated against for businesses that are not public accommodations. Specifically most of these states are in the south. So if this no woman in the barbershop is deemed okay, then other private businesses can start doing the same thing. Like no women in the video game store, or no blacks in this part of the store. It’s starts a precedent that certain discrimination is okay and NO discrimination should ever be normalized. Let it be her choice!!!
I assumed it was an unspoken rule. I wouldn’t want to tag along with my husband when he visits the barber. I love him doing his self-care and having his space. But really there shouldn’t be a physical sign forbidding entry of women. Men should just communicate to their partner’s that it’s their “me time”
Loni’s face after Tamera said “the barbershop in my neighbourhood” 😂😂😂
No because it’s almost equivalent too “Should boyfriends and husbands be allowed too wig shop with their spouses?” Sorry, that’s where ladies can have a private moment
Meh let the men have their spot... it's the place where they go to gossip (more than women), talk about sports, politics, food and girlfriend/wive problems.
I’m not tripping. I don’t need to be there. Fellas keep your spot
It's discriminatory..... just happens to be the type of discrimination that some people are okay with... and as for what they said about not being misogynistic ...no one can tell/control what men want or choose to talk about in a barbershop...
2:44 audience lady with mustard shirt was already done with Adrienne lol.
If you are working on something that you really care about, you dont have to be pushed. The vision pulls you. On my channel its the vision that pulls me.
I don’t like going to the barbershop because I feel like men need a safe space and feel like I’m intruding on “shop talk”. I feel so uncomfortable when I have to take my son when my husband can’t make it.
Damn! Let us have _SOMETHING_ !
I wouldn't want to be there. Who wants to sit around and watch someone else get their hair done? I have never done it for my female friends, why would I do it for a man? I have better things to do. More importantly, that will finally be my time to have a break from him. I need my space just like he does.
I dont mind.Damn yall! Adrienne what about other women?She might not mind her man being there but I might.
I LUV GOING TO THE BARBER SHOP TO GET MY HAIR CUTE AT THE HOOD BARBER SHOP AND IT B SOME SINGLE. GOOD LOOKING GUYS IN THERE TOO . YESSSS 👏👏👏👏👏
As a female barber, some owners prefer to have a family environment for their shop and others don't.
I've only ever worked at family environment barber shops where wives and girlfriends are welcome to sit in the waiting area and have a drink while their man gets a cut
We give beers to the adults (in koozies)
And sodas/rootbeers for anyone under 21
All on the house, too
at that point it's just the owner's preference and how they want to display their shop to the public as well as what type of clientele they wish to attract
Totally off subject but Amanda and Tamera's fits today? YAAAAAAAAS & serving face and hair!
I seen barber shops like this in Chicago... I mean the transgender woman go in to get their hair cut... but when women are in the shop you have to change the whole conversation and tone of you voice it does take away from the trip to the barber shop. It’s more so about the vibe.
I agree with Amanda, it is a matter of preserving a safe space. These men want to be able to vent and discuss issues or relationship advice and want to do it without their SO being there. So i get it, plus I wouldn't want to be there anyway. I rather spend my time shopping heheh
Nobody cant have nothing man 🙄 Let them have their space. Thanks for clueing in Tam😅🤜🏽🤛🏾
I mean women get shape ups and haircuts, I’ve been in and out of hood barber shops since I was little. I took my brother there since we were 4 and 10
I dont think its discrimination it's their guy time just like woman want there time
Let the man have space ! If you have to be worried about his conversations (especially if you’re married ) y’all need to talk
Oh PLEASE there is lots of "locker room talk" at the barber shop that's why they don't want us there. AND I don't want to be there lol 😂
It is so refreshing to hear the ladies embrace the idea that men need their own safe space to gather and just be men. We want it as women and with the exception of Adrienne (LOL!) the rest of us know when women get together we have conversations that won't be real and raw if a man is within ear shot.
There’s nothing wrong with this imo. They can have their time in the barbershop and we can have ours in the salon.
Man Tamera is the definition of being light skin. She makes Drake look like DMX.
The barber shop is for brothas to have their time.
The beauty salon is for the siStars to have their time.
The audience are so quiet in this episode lol
Na Na they’re bored and are thinking it’s not that serious 🙄
This is funny because... one of the times I went with my ex boyfriend I found out he was cheating on me 😂😂 this is how it happened I pretended I had me headphones in and well I herd him and his barber talking about yo check this chick out you think she fine am gunna go see her tonight we spent last night together and she invited me over for some wine tonight... LMFAO I LAUGH NOW BECAUSE...I found out so much more I found out that the man I was dating had a girlfriend of 4 years!!! And he was cheating on her with me and he was cheating on us with multiple other girls it’s a mess tbh. The only reason why I didn’t figure it out was because he lived in a different state and would visit me on weekends soo idk it was a mess glad god got me through that tbh.
I find it odd to ban women, but I don't really care about going. 🤷♀️
I agree that it's about the vibe of the barbershop; my hubby likes when I'm with him for input.
First love y'all 💜
Uh yea. Some women get their hair cut too...
My mom goes to a barbershop
There combo shops in alot of cities. Meaning there's barbers and salon stylists.
Even women getting a shape up KNOW where to go.
We also must remember a barber or stylist has a right NOT to see customers.
I think it's safe to say if a barber doesn't want women in his shop he'll GLADLY point them to a competitor.
Exactly, when I had my close cut I always went to a man
@@jesushateswood exactly
Tamera : Adam and Aden can't even get their "man talk" in 😳🤣
Adrienne: let the man have his GUY time.
Amanda said it so well : No every space needs to be for everybody (Women spa, students only, kids free, etc.)
Better topic...should Loni address cookie Hull and her hair dresser? Loni is a snake. When you do clownery the clown comes back to bite.
heatsd How she a snake? U believe them haters
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You can't believe everything on the internet. And Loni said there is someone out there lying about her. Loni used to take care of them but had to cut them off. Also everyone that you don't personally know does not owe you an explanation about anything. People you actually don't have to give you an explanation about anything. I don't know when some people in society started feeling so entitled.
Now they've found their voice? Why didn't they speak since?