@@beautifulflower3804 but if you get someone pregnant while we're on a break then clearly you're not that serious about us. I'm gonna assume Gabrielle knew about his kids before
lilian makori Did he even know this woman? If he did, that means he knew her while him and Gab were together, because that was pretty quick. WTH is up with these men? You gone do it with someone you barely know raw!??
@@brookella6004 actually they had sex once before they were married but she felt bad. And he didn't dump her, she dumped him because she thought he wasn't gonna marry her
Of course not. Due to societal gender roles, men are "allowed" to conceive a child and walk away. Women aren't allowed to carry and birth a child and walk away.
@@sunnyctv7526 i know what u were saying,everybody's relationship are different,some people can deal with certain things and accept it,while others will not accept it in a million years
"They were on a break!" Ugh. It's not that simple Loni! Esp when you got a whole baby mama involved smh. Im with Amanda and Tamera on this one. Good for them for working it out. I think it would be very difficult for most people to work through that. If the roles were reversed, I'm not sure if Dwyane would have taken Gabrielle back and there would be no relationship to speak of. Such is life
Mary Boadu it wasn’t even really a “break”. The baby mama been in the picture for years. This wasn’t some random he impregnated. Smdh. Why do they keep telling lies?!
I’m glad Tamera said that. I hear what Jeannie and Adrienne are saying... but you can’t have fun protected? If you want me back shouldn’t you make sure you don’t bring anything extra with you? Like if you had your fun while we weren’t together, that’s fine, but you come back with a baby??? I don’t think I’d be able to do it
What makes this even more complicated is that there is no consensus on whether this was a "break" or "breakup." If it's truly a break, i would hope both parties would be wary of staying clean and not bringing any babies back. For all we know, maybe they really didn't think they'd get back together, hence less caution idk
Tiff Dawn I agree with you! It was just like Tamera said, now you changed the dynamic. And if you come back with a whole baby that now you have to be responsible for...I PERSONALLY cannot do that. And omg Loni is really getting on my nerves. Stop speaking over everybody and laughing it off like it’s a “joke”. We heard your opinion, now let someone else say their thoughts on this subject. Thanks!!
The thing about this take is, people set their own rules for their relationships. If they agreed that breaks are possible in their relationship, then there is a such things “on a break” whether other people agree or not.
THEY WERE BROKEN UP,IF U TOOK A BREAK FROM MAN AND HES WORTH OVER 100 MILL,DO U REALLY THINK A BLACK MAN IS NOT GOIN TO GET WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN,U MUST BE LIVIN ON MARS
I remember when my ex said he wanted to take a break...and I beat (not literally) the up out of him ...but when I found out why later I really wanted to beat him up ...namaste’d away 🙏
Laura Reynolds she doesn’t shut up especially in topics like this. She always feels the need to keep talking to justify her own situation cuz we all know Israel did the same thing
@@LittleQween65 they al talk a same amount of time its organized that way, adrienne is mostly the first one to talk thats true but she just talks faster and she uses a lot of words thats just her way of communicating. Loni might talk the same two minutes but uses a lot of uhhhs and you know im saying and pauses a lot during her words.
What Dwayne did was inexcusable and we all know if the roles were reversed, there would be no marriage to speak of. Dwayne shouldn't receive accolades for being forthcoming with the truth. That's the least he could have done being he completely humiliated and betrayed Gabrielle. Now there's a whole baby and baby mama in the mix. I'm sorry, there's no way I would have taken him back. It's my opinion that forgiving these type of transgressions indirectly tells a man that you are willing to accept mistreatment from him. Cheating, side babies, and abuse are not prerequisites for healthy marriages/relationships. I would have gone on with my life and found a man who knows how to truly love a woman.
they would come down on her definitely if the roles reversed! omg imagine gabrielle pregnant with another man's child, this conversation would have been totally different.
@@daniellemitchell7977 that's an excellent point. I agree with that. A man will treat his current wife the same exact way he treated all of the others at some point throughout the marriage because that's his character. Agreed!!!!!
What Amanda really wanted to says was...if the shoe was on the other foot and Gabrielle Union got pregnant while her and Dwayne were on a "break", everyone wouldn't be so lenient with her.
Amanda, "he was constantly tryna get back with me and constantly getting in someone else"....#noliestold #facts #breakbaby. This is exactly the truth which is why I dont buy that everything was a ok just bc they had "broken up". Relationships are messy. And gabby's face in the press at that time was all degrees of bitter when asked about it. Her head said yes we were broken up but her heart did not agree and that's where the problem came in. How you gonna create a whole human when you didnt even do that the slew of years you were single prior to getting with her? It had to add insult to injury when she couldn't get pregnant after they did get married. But glad shes got her baby girl now and hopefully they remain happy.
In the words of Amanda, “y’all got me f’ed up,” if y’all think I’m about accept this sorry excuse of, oh they were broken up or on a break. Don’t bring no baby to me ESPECIALLY when I’m having a hard to conceiving a child of my own.
They’re becoming irritating. Loni keeps screaming “they broke up” why is she still on the show? & does no one remember the side girl writing a letter to gabby ? A very disrespectful letter at that.
The worst, as if this wasn’t bad enough at face value, is that the child’s mother isn’t just some random chick. This is a woman who had been his friend for over a decade. You felt comfortable enough to slept with your friend unprotected. Not a one night stand. But they were “kicking it”. And even if it was just that, You made a baby... with your friend... how are okay with now telling the world she was nothing and nobody AND that the child was just a break baby, a mistake?
Imo they seem too scared to really be real. That isn't being real when your not being honest just to avoid getting that celebrity mad at you. They tend to all agree on some issues just to avoid being the odd woman out. I don't get it at all. Always speak your truth. He acted in a bad way, he doesn't deserve them defending him.
Loni, shut up. Taking a break in a relationship doesn't mean you break up. Just like taking a break at work doesn't mean you quit. It means you're leaving the situation as is, going away from it for a moment, with the intention of coming back to deal with it later on. Now, if while on that break, you decide you want to quit, SAY SO and THEN get another job.
I think she means when you're just dating there is no contractual ties between the two of you. When you're married and take a break, there is a marriage contract that says you're still tied together. When you take a break from work there is a contract between you and your employer that you guys are still tied together. Whereas when you're dating there's no proof of any ties, so you may as well declare the relationship over. Ps: I don't agree with that logic though cause sometimes a break in a relationship is necessary.
@OneLoveRSR EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG! How hard is that to comprehend! Call a spade a spade and stop trying to justify the situation. They took a “break” with the intention of possibly getting back together and he had a baby while on break WHICH was very dumb, inconsiderate, AND IRRESPONSIBLE!!!!! Period! The fact that they are back together and married proves that they had intentions on possibly getting back together after that “break”. Loni gets on my nerves. She’s rude and think she’s the smartest one on the show. 🤦🏾♀️smh
I agree with Tam! I’m not gonna be with no man who has a newborn...& an added baby mom to the ones he already has 🥱 I can neverrr love a man more than my self respect
BluSunflower8 Jones because she is friends with these celebrities. At this point I think they need to review the entire hosts of this show because I know it’s no longer real!
Omg loni can you ever let your coworkers speak on the subject without you butting in and correcting them?? You have the right to an opinion but so do they
Kudos to Gabrielle for pressing thru but that must have been a mighty blow...she had several miscarriages and cant carry a child and you go and get someone else pregnant? Geez 😬😓
I think that's how you handle that situation in an adult way. Without being petty. Without going to the other woman's house and keying her car. What Gabrielle did was handle it in a rational manner. I'm sure she was hurt. Especially since she has said she's had 8 or 9 miscarriages. But they've worked through it.
They kept talking over Tamera, but her and Amanda brought a different and honest perspective to the discussion. I’m glad that they both got a chance to speak.
Jessie Dahl we all know she got a man. We got her point. She don’t got to keep saying it over and over again. We got her point. Reality is people say “break”
When my grandparents broke up, grandma went on and had a baby with someone else, the baby was my dad. My grandparents got back together afterwards, my granddad raised my dad as his own. My granddad spent his last days living at my family home with my mom as his caregiver. I only learned about my dad's paternity at his funeral in 2003...Life is somethin' else.
Mike Carter then why not break up? What’s the point of a break if you want to see other people? That makes no sense. I think it all depends of the person and the couple on what a break means, cause I think a break just means giving each space not breaking up or fucking around
thats just so fucked up because what that basically means is that youre allowed to have sex with other ppl for about a couple of months. so, every couple of years when the relationship becomes stale and your eye starts wandering, you can go on a "break" and bang anyone you want, come back two months later and whatever reason a relationship failed is resolved? would never agree with that nonsense
I agree with Tam, I mean she's been there where she and Adam did break up before they got married so she knows what she is talking about here. Loni can keep repeating they were on a break, it was a break up but the fact remains during that time frame he got another woman pregnant and like Tam said that is something Gabrielle has to deal with.
Except, they were truly broken up and had been for quite some time before he got that chick pregnant. Not this mess here where their “break” was a secret until the baby news leaked and then they say they were on a break. I couldn’t do it. And on top of the fact that she struggled so much to have a baby? He just goes and gives one to someone else? Nah. Maybe that’s why we don’t see that child celebrated like their baby girl. Where are his Instagram pics and matching pjs with the rest of the Wades?
ItsStephyy Babyy meaning they really wanted to say, “i ain’t staying with a dude who had a baby” but instead they just responded with “good for them for working it out” and the same shenanigans when you’re not trying to be judgmental but it ain’t your cup of tea.
Serenity Now No, the woman above was right. Tamera didn’t mind, she said she just wants dude to wear a condom if he plans on coming back. Sleeping around wasn’t the problem for her.
If you do the nasty with someone else you barely know while raw, even if we are on break or not, and especially get this person pregnant, that means you weren’t thinking about getting back with me.....So, I’m not going to get back with you. PERIOD! But some people can handle all that!
Loni asked Amanda to speak what was on her mind and she did just that no filter. The face Loni made at 2:32 is the face people make when I finally speak up. I love it 😂 🤷🏽♀️
When Loni mentioned shes glad they are accepting the baby and Tam agreed saying it shows what type of people they are lol Adrienne must have felt that one. Considering the fact that her husband doesn’t take responsibility for his other children he birthed while cheating on his ex wife
beautysfnm Yeah she has talked about them but Israel doesn’t acknowledge them. It’s like he doesn’t want anything to do with that part of his life. Whenever they take family photos, you never see his love children only the other ones. Even paying child support for them was an issue until he met Adrienne. The blogs were saying that apparently Adrienne is the one who makes the the child support payments. Tbh, Adrienne is a good person and has probably tried to get him to acknowledge them but he just hasn’t done that yet
Here we go. The man gets to do whatever he wants. I don't know how long their "break" status lasted. But he needed sex that bad? Let it the other way around. He wouldn't have married her and accepted another man's baby.
Kiandra Pinkston no I read her book. She said herself she wanted to get married and have children and felt the pressure to. She spent like the entire beginning of her relationship doing fertility procedures in hopes that sue would have a baby. She had like 8 miscarriages.
i amissangel mua does it matter how she looks?! She would have still been 40 with no husband or children. Look how Nikki Murphy’s acting and she’s almost perfection.
People take advantage of that “break”/ “breakup” status.. if we just broke up shouldn’t you take some you time to figure things out. I mean you need to COMPLETELY be done with me before you hop on somebody else.
Was Loni throwing shade at Adrienne when she said: "I'm glad they accept the baby and when they take pictures they show everybody."? Because you know Adrienne and Israel never have his two youngest sons in pictures or even acknowledge them.
I think communication is key... in any relationship it is important to be honest... so I’m sure she wasn’t always like so fond the situation itself but didn’t hold resentment against that child... because in any situation... THE CHILDREN ARE INNOCENT... they didn’t ask to be here... so besides that... I’m sure she didn’t make it easy for him to walk back in and get back into the groove of being in a Relationship but she also didn’t work against him , she worked WITH him... and I think that’s the biggest difference... if you want to make a relationship that you really believe has the potential and the solid foundation enough to make it... why not keep fighting for it even through rough times ? So I applaud them for their transparency and their willingness to still be together despite that !
Ppeach Dj YES!!!!! She has really gone south with me! Is she doing this on purpose to stay relevant and be the odd ball on the show that disagrees, and goes crazy, shouting and cutting people off to convince everyone she’s right? I don’t like it at all!!!!! You can disagree, but geez that’s not the way to do it! I knew she was far gone when she became defensive about a topic and told Tam in another episode , “let me check you right there”😳😡. My blood boiled immediately because I knew she did it being a bully and knowing Tam wouldn’t clap back at her because she’s so nice. She does not have the right to demean the other ladies on the panel because NO ONE has done that. ONLY HER!!!!
Not if he was keeping in contact with Gabby and making her feel like there was a future, which clearly he was since they got back together. The communication did not cease between them, be real.
That Seinfeld show has the answer for everything in life😊. A break up never clean-cut and it all demands on the person, love will make you accept anything. The key is just making sure the person is worth all that pain and just heal together.
Can someone please explain to me why (specifically in the black community) it’s more common to have a child with someone before meeting their parents, courting, and oh I don’t know... GET MARRIED... You know - with two (preferably mature) adults growing together, respecting each other and having adventures together *BEFORE* bringing another little human being into the world? 🤷🏽♀️ I don’t get it... Can someone make sense of this please?
I have the answer. It's because black men are always ready for everything that comes with marriage except the actual marriage itself: like sex, cohabitation and kids.
You just want to insult, you not trying to understand anything. Just post your ignorance and go smh !!!!! Dont be using black community for your malicious intent
Yeah I'm with Tamera. I don't wanna deal with someone else's child.
I agree as well. Left two women who got pregnant while we were dealing, yet not in a full relationship.
Once you have a whole child, it's a wrap.
lilian makori but Dwayne got a lot kids from different BM
@@beautifulflower3804 but if you get someone pregnant while we're on a break then clearly you're not that serious about us. I'm gonna assume Gabrielle knew about his kids before
I dont want to deal with someone who's going to be bed hopping.
lilian makori Did he even know this woman? If he did, that means he knew her while him and Gab were together, because that was pretty quick. WTH is up with these men? You gone do it with someone you barely know raw!??
Tamara is NOT okay with this I see it on her face trying so hard to be nice about it. But I feel you hell no! This is not okay with me too
She always do that
M Lo lol she does but she shouldn’t have to
Lady Laney Girl, what happened? 😲
They'd be roasting him if he wasn't out with th is Zion stuff. Political correctness reeks.
@@brookella6004 actually they had sex once before they were married but she felt bad. And he didn't dump her, she dumped him because she thought he wasn't gonna marry her
Amanda and Tam were NOT here for this and it was obvious 😂
Yep lol
Ok, 😂😂
Wait why?
StingingwithqueenC I wish Amanda could’ve said what she was really thinking. 😩
She could've said it...
To be honest if this was a “on a break” situation would the outcome be the same if it was Gabrielle Union that got pregnant?
YEP, I'm a guy and will tell you Negros will run up in anything and keep it pushin.
Of course not. Due to societal gender roles, men are "allowed" to conceive a child and walk away. Women aren't allowed to carry and birth a child and walk away.
Gabriele HAD 8 MISCARRIAGES,SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN WAS THE LAST THING ON HER RADAR
Teddy Reid you missed the point !
@@sunnyctv7526 i know what u were saying,everybody's relationship are different,some people can deal with certain things and accept it,while others will not accept it in a million years
Loni acts like her opinion is fact 🙄
Cm vv she was just joking. It was a heavy topic.
It's a real turnoff.
She’s so annoying
Right 😂😂
She annoying 😂
Tam & Amanda are the only ones in this conversation with sense.
JENNIE NOT GOING TO
SAY NUTHING BCAUSE HER AND HER BOYFRIEND ARE FRIENDS WITH THEM
@@HelenGPitts bdbdbg
Facts👏🏾
Tamera is a pro-cop conservative... nothing about her makes sense. It's why Beyonce sent Tia Blue Ivy merch but not Tamera lmao
@@ms.goldenbrown6846 i mean, would you say smthng about your friends on national tv? i wouldn't.
"They were on a break!" Ugh. It's not that simple Loni! Esp when you got a whole baby mama involved smh. Im with Amanda and Tamera on this one. Good for them for working it out. I think it would be very difficult for most people to work through that. If the roles were reversed, I'm not sure if Dwyane would have taken Gabrielle back and there would be no relationship to speak of. Such is life
Mary Boadu it wasn’t even really a “break”. The baby mama been in the picture for years. This wasn’t some random he impregnated. Smdh. Why do they keep telling lies?!
Beverly Noelle That’s what I was thinking.
What is a whole baby mama?
Yea the only difference if it was vice versa gabrielle would have the baby with them 24/7 where wade only has part time parenting....
he wouldn't have taken her back with another man's baby
I’m glad Tamera said that. I hear what Jeannie and Adrienne are saying... but you can’t have fun protected? If you want me back shouldn’t you make sure you don’t bring anything extra with you? Like if you had your fun while we weren’t together, that’s fine, but you come back with a baby??? I don’t think I’d be able to do it
Yes. Have fun all you want but puhlease don't come back to me with a baby.
What makes this even more complicated is that there is no consensus on whether this was a "break" or "breakup." If it's truly a break, i would hope both parties would be wary of staying clean and not bringing any babies back. For all we know, maybe they really didn't think they'd get back together, hence less caution idk
Tiff Dawn I agree with you! It was just like Tamera said, now you changed the dynamic. And if you come back with a whole baby that now you have to be responsible for...I PERSONALLY cannot do that. And omg Loni is really getting on my nerves. Stop speaking over everybody and laughing it off like it’s a “joke”. We heard your opinion, now let someone else say their thoughts on this subject. Thanks!!
WELL HE'S WORTH OVER 100 MILLION,SO IT PROBABLY WASN'T A TOO HARD OF DESCION FOR HER
Probably not if you base your life on 🤑 versus true love, character, & integrity.
Loni is so bias you can tell, let James be on a "break" and gets someone pregnant, will she still have that same energy.,😩
Right I wish she would stfu about that they broke up like girl
😂😂😂😂😂
@@bsbgirl85 Agree...
bsbgirl85 not the Adam knock off💀
But it’s not her so why should she have the same energy.
It’s not that black and white Loni! 🙄 and she really did cut Adrienne off, rudely might I add.
Loni let other people have their oppinions.
Bambiii she is lol
Bambiii she’s being annoying on this episode and they were on a break not a break up Loni
She is
Eryn D. Yeah she was really annoying. She is always when She dissagrees with the other ones
Right Lani shut up damn. I agree with Tamera period
There’s no such thing as “on a break” in a relationship !! I wish people would stop saying that nonsense it’s either you’re together or you’re not
The thing about this take is, people set their own rules for their relationships. If they agreed that breaks are possible in their relationship, then there is a such things “on a break” whether other people agree or not.
Like Amanda said; "It's complicated." Dynamics vary. It's not a BLK and White type issue.
THEY WERE BROKEN UP,IF U TOOK A BREAK FROM MAN AND HES WORTH OVER 100 MILL,DO U REALLY THINK A BLACK MAN IS NOT GOIN TO GET WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN,U MUST BE LIVIN ON MARS
Exactly ! Its a breakup meaning broken up ! Not a damn break i hate that term
I remember when my ex said he wanted to take a break...and I beat (not literally) the up out of him ...but when I found out why later I really wanted to beat him up ...namaste’d away 🙏
Loni is on a mission, dont let adrienne finish talking anymore
If you ask a question, let everyone answer. Adrienne keeps on taking and talking and talking...
I wonder what's up with that. She doesn't affectionately call her munchkin anymore either.
Laura Reynolds she doesn’t shut up especially in topics like this. She always feels the need to keep talking to justify her own situation cuz we all know Israel did the same thing
And she threw shade saying she's glad they accept the side babies... Idunno...
@@LittleQween65 they al talk a same amount of time its organized that way, adrienne is mostly the first one to talk thats true but she just talks faster and she uses a lot of words thats just her way of communicating. Loni might talk the same two minutes but uses a lot of uhhhs and you know im saying and pauses a lot during her words.
What Dwayne did was inexcusable and we all know if the roles were reversed, there would be no marriage to speak of. Dwayne shouldn't receive accolades for being forthcoming with the truth. That's the least he could have done being he completely humiliated and betrayed Gabrielle. Now there's a whole baby and baby mama in the mix. I'm sorry, there's no way I would have taken him back. It's my opinion that forgiving these type of transgressions indirectly tells a man that you are willing to accept mistreatment from him. Cheating, side babies, and abuse are not prerequisites for healthy marriages/relationships. I would have gone on with my life and found a man who knows how to truly love a woman.
they would come down on her definitely if the roles reversed! omg imagine gabrielle pregnant with another man's child, this conversation would have been totally different.
Very well put! 👏🏽
Gabriel betrayed herself she was well aware when he had extramarital affairs with the first wife what makes so special?
@@daniellemitchell7977 that's an excellent point. I agree with that. A man will treat his current wife the same exact way he treated all of the others at some point throughout the marriage because that's his character. Agreed!!!!!
Same amen .!+
I’m with Tamera.
I have noticed that Amanda is the most quiet one on the table but when she speaks,she does make a lot of sense....
Excatly! She doesnt need to scream or use a lot of words to make her point. Its simple, its clear, its to the point 👍
Bro 😅
Whether they broke up or not .. getting back together, the dynamic is different bc now a baby is included. The baby wasn’t there initially.
What Amanda really wanted to says was...if the shoe was on the other foot and Gabrielle Union got pregnant while her and Dwayne were on a "break", everyone wouldn't be so lenient with her.
Amanda, "he was constantly tryna get back with me and constantly getting in someone else"....#noliestold #facts #breakbaby. This is exactly the truth which is why I dont buy that everything was a ok just bc they had "broken up". Relationships are messy. And gabby's face in the press at that time was all degrees of bitter when asked about it. Her head said yes we were broken up but her heart did not agree and that's where the problem came in. How you gonna create a whole human when you didnt even do that the slew of years you were single prior to getting with her? It had to add insult to injury when she couldn't get pregnant after they did get married. But glad shes got her baby girl now and hopefully they remain happy.
I agree with Tam though not even a child but diseases are real!! You not bringing nothing back to me! Loni is hella childish to me 🤷🏾♀️
Anielyse Daniel 100% agree we often focus on people getting pregnant from sex. STDs havent just magically gone away!
At 30+ what the hell is taking a break? Either you broke up or you’re together.
In the words of Amanda, “y’all got me f’ed up,” if y’all think I’m about accept this sorry excuse of, oh they were broken up or on a break. Don’t bring no baby to me ESPECIALLY when I’m having a hard to conceiving a child of my own.
That’s what she was ACTUALLY THINKING 😂😂. She tried to be as nice as possible
They’re becoming irritating. Loni keeps screaming “they broke up” why is she still on the show? & does no one remember the side girl writing a letter to gabby ? A very disrespectful letter at that.
kiara If they were on a break that means they were both allowed to screw around but its Gabby who decided to take him back so she has to deal with it
The worst, as if this wasn’t bad enough at face value, is that the child’s mother isn’t just some random chick. This is a woman who had been his friend for over a decade. You felt comfortable enough to slept with your friend unprotected. Not a one night stand. But they were “kicking it”. And even if it was just that, You made a baby... with your friend... how are okay with now telling the world she was nothing and nobody AND that the child was just a break baby, a mistake?
one thing the ladies never fully speak on is celebrities and infidelity they somehow always dance around the topic but never fully say how wrong it is
Imo they seem too scared to really be real. That isn't being real when your not being honest just to avoid getting that celebrity mad at you. They tend to all agree on some issues just to avoid being the odd woman out. I don't get it at all. Always speak your truth. He acted in a bad way, he doesn't deserve them defending him.
Ooommmggg when Amanda talks nobody talks or interrupts her 😂😂😂
Cause they’re scared lol
Cause they arent as close/ comfortable with and to her as they are each other. They’ve worked with each other longer than her.
Because she's the boss!!!
Loni, shut up. Taking a break in a relationship doesn't mean you break up. Just like taking a break at work doesn't mean you quit. It means you're leaving the situation as is, going away from it for a moment, with the intention of coming back to deal with it later on. Now, if while on that break, you decide you want to quit, SAY SO and THEN get another job.
I think she means when you're just dating there is no contractual ties between the two of you. When you're married and take a break, there is a marriage contract that says you're still tied together. When you take a break from work there is a contract between you and your employer that you guys are still tied together. Whereas when you're dating there's no proof of any ties, so you may as well declare the relationship over.
Ps: I don't agree with that logic though cause sometimes a break in a relationship is necessary.
Exactly
@OneLoveRSR EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG! How hard is that to comprehend! Call a spade a spade and stop trying to justify the situation. They took a “break” with the intention of possibly getting back together and he had a baby while on break WHICH was very dumb, inconsiderate, AND IRRESPONSIBLE!!!!! Period! The fact that they are back together and married proves that they had intentions on possibly getting back together after that “break”. Loni gets on my nerves. She’s rude and think she’s the smartest one on the show. 🤦🏾♀️smh
Ugh - Loni is so annoying. Let everyone speak. Damn
سلام عليكم
Chyna Nicole she did let people talk damn we can’t go a single episode without loni getting attacked
@@nahova3167 هل تتكلم عربي
@@nahova3167 I thought I was the only one that wanted to defend her
Callme Chrissy nah your not I defend her to plus it’s annoying when black woman attack other black women
I agree with Tam! I’m not gonna be with no man who has a newborn...& an added baby mom to the ones he already has 🥱 I can neverrr love a man more than my self respect
Y’all gonna have to start calling this the “political correct show” in a minute. Arg
Thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiis
And Adrienne is the main one biting her tongue & walking on eggshells
BluSunflower8 Jones because she is friends with these celebrities. At this point I think they need to review the entire hosts of this show because I know it’s no longer real!
Omg loni can you ever let your coworkers speak on the subject without you butting in and correcting them?? You have the right to an opinion but so do they
I wonder if he would have been as forgiving, if the tables were turned.
Kudos to Gabrielle for pressing thru but that must have been a mighty blow...she had several miscarriages and cant carry a child and you go and get someone else pregnant?
Geez 😬😓
Exactly smh
yea that's disrespectful on another level
@@dance4life1208 nah they were on break
That’s what I’m saying!! That had to be heart wrenching.
So messed up! I don’t think I could get past that
They're good people for accepting the side baby and showing him/her on Instagram?? That's how you do celebrity??? 😕
Interesting
"regular" ppl do worse everyday. this aint about celebrity.
I think that's how you handle that situation in an adult way. Without being petty. Without going to the other woman's house and keying her car. What Gabrielle did was handle it in a rational manner. I'm sure she was hurt. Especially since she has said she's had 8 or 9 miscarriages. But they've worked through it.
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LMBO
They kept talking over Tamera, but her and Amanda brought a different and honest perspective to the discussion. I’m glad that they both got a chance to speak.
Loni need to stop. You been single that long you don’t realize what a break is 🙄
she has a man. and she makes a good point
Jessie Dahl we all know she got a man. We got her point. She don’t got to keep saying it over and over again. We got her point. Reality is people say “break”
She seems so bitter.
When my grandparents broke up, grandma went on and had a baby with someone else, the baby was my dad. My grandparents got back together afterwards, my granddad raised my dad as his own. My granddad spent his last days living at my family home with my mom as his caregiver. I only learned about my dad's paternity at his funeral in 2003...Life is somethin' else.
I always thought a break meant giving each other space 🥴 I didn’t know it meant here’s a free pass go do whatever tf you want..
beautysfnm yeah if they are ok a break that would mean cheating at least I would consider that
-. A that’s def considered cheating to me. A break isn’t officially breaking up or you would say y’all broke up
Mike Carter then why not break up? What’s the point of a break if you want to see other people? That makes no sense. I think it all depends of the person and the couple on what a break means, cause I think a break just means giving each space not breaking up or fucking around
thats just so fucked up because what that basically means is that youre allowed to have sex with other ppl for about a couple of months. so, every couple of years when the relationship becomes stale and your eye starts wandering, you can go on a "break" and bang anyone you want, come back two months later and whatever reason a relationship failed is resolved? would never agree with that nonsense
I agree with Tam, I mean she's been there where she and Adam did break up before they got married so she knows what she is talking about here. Loni can keep repeating they were on a break, it was a break up but the fact remains during that time frame he got another woman pregnant and like Tam said that is something Gabrielle has to deal with.
Omg, This convo reminded me of The Game when Derwin had a baby with the other girl and Melanie (Tia Mowry) had to experience that
Miss that show soo much
They are rebooting it! Allegedly.
his baby momma name is jhene then at the end him nnd melanie had twins
The Game was so good before it went to BET!! 🥺
Except, they were truly broken up and had been for quite some time before he got that chick pregnant. Not this mess here where their “break” was a secret until the baby news leaked and then they say they were on a break.
I couldn’t do it. And on top of the fact that she struggled so much to have a baby? He just goes and gives one to someone else? Nah.
Maybe that’s why we don’t see that child celebrated like their baby girl. Where are his Instagram pics and matching pjs with the rest of the Wades?
It’s hard to like Loni in clips like this🙄
It's hard for her to see the d shades of grey sometimes.
Now y’all know their not going to directly say their “THOUGHTS” 😂 they played it safe, kind of **hint Amanda and Loni**
What do you mean? Sorry I'm lost lol
ItsStephyy Babyy meaning they really wanted to say, “i ain’t staying with a dude who had a baby” but instead they just responded with “good for them for working it out” and the same shenanigans when you’re not trying to be judgmental but it ain’t your cup of tea.
Honestly in this one it was Loni who was grinding my gears. She wouldn’t let the others have their own opinions! Ugh
I didnt appreciate her cutting off /speaking over Adrienne.
Basically what everybody tryna say is they don’t wanna be in a relationship wit somebody who had a baby on em! That’s all they had to say 🤦🏽♀️
No, we're saying that they don't want anything to do with someone who doesn't think twice about sleeping around.
Serenity Now No, the woman above was right. Tamera didn’t mind, she said she just wants dude to wear a condom if he plans on coming back. Sleeping around wasn’t the problem for her.
Its sad how some people act so desperate for men
I think y’all missing the shade Loni was throwing lol
what shade ?
Arbn she was throwing out the break thing to be shady, she doesn’t believe they were on break
madmann1000 they weren’t on a break I believed
madmann1000 because they were not on a break. They both said they broke up soooo 🧐
What was the shade?
If you do the nasty with someone else you barely know while raw, even if we are on break or not, and especially get this person pregnant, that means you weren’t thinking about getting back with me.....So, I’m not going to get back with you. PERIOD! But some people can handle all that!
Right!! He wasn't striving to be the right man for Gabrielle -and she took him back anyway.
No god in there relationship just good vibes and feelings
Not that it matters but the baby momma was actually a friend of Dwayne’s for years. They knew each other way before he met Gabrielle
Loni asked Amanda to speak what was on her mind and she did just that no filter. The face Loni made at 2:32 is the face people make when I finally speak up. I love it 😂 🤷🏽♀️
I loved!!! Amanda's look in this episode
Well said Amanda and Loni!
I’m glad Amanda had the last word, after Loni being hyfie about ‘being on a break’ vs ‘breaking up’ 😤
Amanda is the best thing to happen to The Real! She's the brutal honesty that they needed.
Keep it all the way real.💯
Amanda give your glam crew a raise hunty🙏🏾 just wow❤️
So glad we heard from Amanda. I agreed with everything she said!
When we take a break , we stay on a break , the END. Nothing GOOD COMES FROM THAT.
Uuuuhhhhhhhh What Loni?! I haven’t seen a single picture with the other child included. Which pics are you talking about?
When Loni mentioned shes glad they are accepting the baby and Tam agreed saying it shows what type of people they are lol Adrienne must have felt that one. Considering the fact that her husband doesn’t take responsibility for his other children he birthed while cheating on his ex wife
Wait, he has other kids and cheated on his previous wife?!
But Adrienne has talked about his other kids before
beautysfnm Yeah she has talked about them but Israel doesn’t acknowledge them. It’s like he doesn’t want anything to do with that part of his life. Whenever they take family photos, you never see his love children only the other ones. Even paying child support for them was an issue until he met Adrienne. The blogs were saying that apparently Adrienne is the one who makes the the child support payments. Tbh, Adrienne is a good person and has probably tried to get him to acknowledge them but he just hasn’t done that yet
Tamara talking knowing good and damn well she wouldn’t get back with Adam if he had a on break baby.
i feel like she can forgive a lot, but once you threaten that perfect family image, it's a wrap.
I think she would stay. That's the only man she knew sexually. She would make excuses for him and keep it private. She love that man
helen levy maybe she’s more open about sex and wouldn’t have a problem starting something new with another man. Adam would be the one losing there.
In relationships, only break I take is in the other room. I don’t do “breaks” thing. I also no the to go backwards once I’m done with them.
So happy I wasn’t the only one that pictured Ross, “We were on a break!” Lol
Being “on a break” is different than being “broken up”
Here we go. The man gets to do whatever he wants. I don't know how long their "break" status lasted. But he needed sex that bad? Let it the other way around. He wouldn't have married her and accepted another man's baby.
All men have sex with other women when they're on a break. It's like Steve Harvey said "when we're off with you, we're on someone else".
Let me just say this. This is MESSY and Hekka MESSY!
1:44 loni is so rude cutting of poor Adrienne like that!!!!!
Honestly she is too much nd annoying i think she doesnt like Adrienne how weird
I've never seen a picture of his child with his other children
I have. April 2019 at his final home game.
Why are the Wades telling all of their business this week? Media thirst? There’s got to be better news to report.
Gabrielle union was in her 40s, she was going to get back with him because she was scared she wouldn’t find anyone better.
She don't realize she don't look 40????
iGabyjoe exactly!!
The desperation you say Gabby has is probably a reflection of you in some way. We don’t know Gabby not the dynamics of their relationship.
Kiandra Pinkston no I read her book. She said herself she wanted to get married and have children and felt the pressure to. She spent like the entire beginning of her relationship doing fertility procedures in hopes that sue would have a baby. She had like 8 miscarriages.
i amissangel mua does it matter how she looks?! She would have still been 40 with no husband or children. Look how Nikki Murphy’s acting and she’s almost perfection.
Tam n Amanda were the only ones being real here. Factss
People take advantage of that “break”/ “breakup” status.. if we just broke up shouldn’t you take some you time to figure things out. I mean you need to COMPLETELY be done with me before you hop on somebody else.
I can’t stand loni!!!!
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Loni loves Amanda! Shes her voice😂😂😂😂
Tamera showering us with the wisdom. U go girl🥰
Loni killed me 😂💀💀💀💀💀😂💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amanda looks amazing!
This show is everything. I freaking love Amanda.
Loni needs to chill! Tamera gets you about it being a breakup. Y’all need to listen to what Tamera is saying 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I AGREE WITH TAMERA 100%
2:50. Love how she quotes Seinfeld. Best sitcom ever!!!!
Loni is very rude to her coworkers
Ang A she was not rude
If we're already having problems and you get another girl pregnant that's the last strike for me
Was Loni throwing shade at Adrienne when she said: "I'm glad they accept the baby and when they take pictures they show everybody."? Because you know Adrienne and Israel never have his two youngest sons in pictures or even acknowledge them.
How many kids does he have?
That's exactly what I thought of as well. 🧐🤔
Adrienne looked pained after 😩😂😂
@@asdfghjkl-oo7lv He has 1, kid before his first marriage, 3 with the first wife and 2 with his side chick (from his 1st marriage) so 6 kids! WOW!
I think communication is key... in any relationship it is important to be honest... so I’m sure she wasn’t always like so fond the situation itself but didn’t hold resentment against that child... because in any situation... THE CHILDREN ARE INNOCENT... they didn’t ask to be here... so besides that... I’m sure she didn’t make it easy for him to walk back in and get back into the groove of being in a Relationship but she also didn’t work against him , she worked WITH him... and I think that’s the biggest difference... if you want to make a relationship that you really believe has the potential and the solid foundation enough to make it... why not keep fighting for it even through rough times ? So I applaud them for their transparency and their willingness to still be together despite that !
It makes me sad how loni has changed. I wonder how james deal with the kind of person she is everyday. Her energy is so wrong
Ppeach Dj YES!!!!! She has really gone south with me! Is she doing this on purpose to stay relevant and be the odd ball on the show that disagrees, and goes crazy, shouting and cutting people off to convince everyone she’s right? I don’t like it at all!!!!! You can disagree, but geez that’s not the way to do it! I knew she was far gone when she became defensive about a topic and told Tam in another episode , “let me check you right there”😳😡. My blood boiled immediately because I knew she did it being a bully and knowing Tam wouldn’t clap back at her because she’s so nice. She does not have the right to demean the other ladies on the panel because NO ONE has done that. ONLY HER!!!!
This is such a neat thing to say
It was so hard for Amanda not to hate
They were on a break or broken up, so yes, he's free to do as he chooses. He didn't have to go get some woman pregnant though.
Not if he was keeping in contact with Gabby and making her feel like there was a future, which clearly he was since they got back together. The communication did not cease between them, be real.
EXACTLY.
Amanada you better help me expand my vocabulary!! 👏🏾👏🏾
Them Amanda friends that’s why she don’t have nothing to say😂
Can we take a minute to appreciate how cute jeanie's chuckles are ❤
Why Loni always adjusting in her seat and making weird faces when Tamera speaks? Drives me crazy.
I don't think Amanda is bitter in being single I think she's confident
Tamera seemed to be on the brink of tears for some reason. I hope she's ok.
Amanda noooo “they’re constantly getting in someone else”😂😂😂💀
Omg Amanda is TOTALLY a goddess!☺💖
The producer in loni’s ear said: “find out what Amanda has to say, she’s too quite” 😂 no one was paying Amanda no mind lol
They are good people for accepting his flesh and blood? Lol y’all are crazy. That’s what he’s supposed to do.
I agree with Loni 😂 it was a break 😂😂
Amanda 🥰😍
That Seinfeld show has the answer for everything in life😊. A break up never clean-cut and it all demands on the person, love will make you accept anything. The key is just making sure the person is worth all that pain and just heal together.
She just cut Adrienne right off mid sentence... smh 😒
Am with Tamera with this. Wondering if the child was accepted in the family especially whether Gaby accepted the child.
I can’t stand Loni.
And I can’t stand both of y’all. 👋🏾
@@NoName-ug7rm 😂
Can someone please explain to me why (specifically in the black community) it’s more common to have a child with someone before meeting their parents, courting, and oh I don’t know... GET MARRIED... You know - with two (preferably mature) adults growing together, respecting each other and having adventures together *BEFORE* bringing another little human being into the world? 🤷🏽♀️ I don’t get it... Can someone make sense of this please?
I have the answer. It's because black men are always ready for everything that comes with marriage except the actual marriage itself: like sex, cohabitation and kids.
You just want to insult, you not trying to understand anything. Just post your ignorance and go smh !!!!! Dont be using black community for your malicious intent
I am agreeing with Loni. “Break- anything” means *not together. I think women will look at it different for emotional reasons.