I feel sad for women who feel they can’t be without makeup or weave around a man. True intimacy is when we are stripped down to our barest form, vulnerable, and we are still loved. Intimacy: In-to-me-see. See the real me. And love the real me. That’s true intimacy.
This has nothing to do with men. Women are jealous of each other and most are insecure. Why? Because everything hinges on biological clocks and the fear that if they aren’t the best, they will be left single and childless. It’s biology, not patriarchy, love.
MaParis Family Adventures my white boyfriend saw my hair piece on our third date lol and I was like, “oh right, I wear extensions”, and he was like, “oh okay, cool” and that was that! 😂
True STORY: We've been together since 2003 (we know each other since late '90s). (architecture school together). Two kids ('09 & '12). Married '18, only because I got tired of him asking. Non of us going anywhere. Both of us are too lazy to do anything outside of our relationship. NO DRAMA RELATIONSHIP! Believe me ... He seen me at my worst - worst ... Pretty much every single day. However, company parties, professional settings - BEST VERSION OF ME! He knows exactly what's under the raggedy & top notch clothings. Non of the clothing (exterior) makes me who I am (interior). He knows it too.
Ava Rehan not being insecure about your own body and it’s shortcoming has nothing to do with whether or not you can keep a man. She’s been saying she struggles with that so obviously that’s something she could work on while the rest of us needs to start loving ourselves first (even those who have a man)!
Ava Rehan what are you on about ?? Amanda is very confident and clearly secure with herself you’re just projecting and keeping a man or not does NOT validate her she’s beautiful, smart and successful so take your hate elsewhere
Thank you Amanda for that message. In a world where there's much more significant things to worry about, such as where you are in your life, your career, your relationship with your family and friends, how your toe looks or how your natural bare face looks is so INSIGNIFICANT in the grand scheme of things. I have the luxury of saying this being kinda-grown, but I always wished I thought this growing up.
Y0U CAN BE S0 WHAT 0K WITH THEY WAY Y0U L00K BUT STILL K0WN Y0U NEED T0 D0 A FEW THINGS T0 MAKE Y0UR SELF L00K BETTER BUT THERE ALLWAYS S0ME 0NE AND A FAMILY MEMBER THAT TELL Y0U AB0UT THE WAY THEY THINK Y0U SH0LD S0 IN THIS W0ULD ITS S0 HARD T0 BE 0K WITH THE WAY Y0U L00K LIKE THE 0THER DAY 0NE 0F THE LADYS THAT LIVES IN MY BUIDING SAW ME WALKING BY AND SHE SAID T0 ME L00KS LIKE Y0U ARE REALLY PUTTING 0N S0ME WEIGHT S0 I SAID BACK T0 HER I D0NT KN0W I D0NT WEIGH MY SELF S0 I WENT T0 THE GYM THAT I G0 WEIGHT MY SELF AT 100 HURDREN P0UND I DID GAIN 5 P0UND I G0T VERY DEPRESSED AND DIDT WANT T0 EAT AND FR0M THE L00KS 0F HER SHE C0ULD STAND T0 L00SE AB0UT 20 P0UND HER SELF I DiD GAIN 5 P0UNDS T00K ME 95 T0 100 P0UNDS S0 Y0U REALLY HAVE FIND Y0UR 0WN L0VE F0R Y0UR SELF BECAUSE WHAT IT REALLY WAS SHE DIDT LIKE THE WAY SHE L00K H0W SAID IS THAT SHE WANT ME T0 FEEL AB0UT THE WAY I L00KED AND DID S0 WE ALL WAYS HAVE T0 TELL 0UR Y0UNG DAUGHTER GRANDUGHTERS THAT THEY ARE GODS ANGELS AND THEY ARE PRETTY JUST THE WAY THEY ARE WHEN S0ME 0NE IS BROKEN IN SIDE THEY D0 N0T KN0W H0W T0 SH0W IT .ITS M0RE AB0UT THEM THAN Y0U G0D BLESS Y0U
Amanda is SO RIGHT! WE SPEND SO MUCH TIME worrying about opinions of others and letting that hold us back that we forget that we are beautiful NO MATTER WHAT!
Adaeze's Space you clearly missed their point. By what Samantha said her boyfriend said, it sounds more like he doesn’t want her to look good and attract other men. That’s him protecting his own insecurities. Not him loving her for not wearing make up.
My husband is always complimenting me on my natural kinky hair and my natural nails which I wear with confidence but to switch things up I do wear acrylic nails and hair pieces etc. I am a black woman with a flat behind and that used to be my greatest insecurity but like Amanda I reached that stage in my life where I don't give a rats behind about what others have to say and that started in my 20s. My personality, confidence and beauty in n out always shine through. People should own who they are.
@@burnthrustwho says I dont go to the gym? My ass is toned but still flat. Gym can not sway genetics my dear. Get your facts straight before you criticize. I have a flat ass and to tell the truth I would not have it any other way. I step into a room and I always turn heads. So those who feel it's women with the curvy figures that turns head, please!!! I walk, dress, speak with and exude confidence and that more than anything I've come yo realise with my flat butt is sexy and beautiful.
@@breadbutter4221 yes girl own it!!!! ignore that other comment... they clearly don't know what they are talking about lol. you are beautiful just the way you are. And exercise definitely does not always change butt size like you said. And besides, we don't all need to have the same body type!
I am a black woman with a flat behind too. At 22 years old I have learned to just let and be and move on. It doesn't have to be my favorite body part but I am not going to live my life crying about it. Some people do have things to say about my behind but these days I check them and keep it rolling.
Elise Chapman Girl ur fine.. Now of course a person anybody should do what they can to maintain themselves.. like workout, exfoliate, eat healthy when you can. Now after that..whoever doesn’t like it can kick rocks. End of story.
Or maybe she does not share every aspect of life. There are somethings that she keeps to herself because when you say A, the world wants to know B, C, D.
I once started dating a guy (non-black, as it were) while I had in these long, gorgeous braids. One day I happened to visit him in between installs, and the next day he curiously ghosted me thereafter. Coincidence? I think not. But baaaaaybeeee when I say that taught me to value myself... ❤️ I will not lift a finger to primp myself extra for a dude that can’t handle the natural me.
I love Amanda for saying she didnt want to say anything because of how it sounds.Im the same way because I feel like people think you are lying or that you're just trying to be different from everyone else.And it is possible to get over your hang ups if you do that inner work.ijs And ladies Im gonna share this with yall back in the day we didnt manicure and men didnt care.lol
@@1zeldarulez oh no, she really does. But she's gotta justify that African-American history degree somehow, I guess. Even if race-baiting got old fast 🤷
@@SammyPebbles oh Sammy does she hurt your little sensitive bitch feeling having to hear the truth? Which one are ya babe an uncle Tom or a "why does everything have to be about race" whiny bitch?
@@SammyPebbles Amanda speaking from the black perspective has NOTHING to do with race-baiting. If the trials and tribulations of the African-American experience make you uncomfortable on a show called THE REAL, then how about you do something about the toxicities and malpractices of the world so that black people wouldn't have to have these discussions... How about that?
I had an ex who always questioned me when I didn't wax or put on makeup. I prefer waxing over shaving, but it can get expensive! Did not make me feel good at all. I'm glad I dumped his ass and now I'm with a man who says I'm cute when I don't have makeup!
I'm right there with Amanda. There are plenty of things I could feel insecure about but honestly I just choose not to. Life's way too short and crazy to be obsessing over every single detail. Thank you Loni, for pulling her into the conversation.
I like Tamera's response about the bush. My man doesn't care either but I do. Before we do what we do I'm shaving cuz it's mental with me. It has to be right wit no interruptions cuz ain't nobody got time to be spitting bushes and weeds every 2 minutes, jus keep it flowing. 😜😜😜😂😂😂😂
❤❤how they treat amanda like fam, like a whole day one bc i remember when they first started the show and no matter what the LA doe said they would encourage them by reminding them someone needed to hear it
Jeannie walking back and forth has me dying 😭😂 I think at some point people get comfortable in certain phases in their relationship and don’t try hard to be “ on “ 24/7... not everybody is gonna be looking like a Beyoncé from day to night... and it’s ok to accept that lol
@@destiny3354 thats why i said current Ariana Grande because of her tan lol. But yeah Adrienne looks wayyy better ans her tan is natural while Ari is......👀
I can relate to Tamara , once your married and stuff things change at first you have your insecurities of course but if your man simply shows you that he loves you for you an all your insecurities or imperfections you need to learn to love it too!
from the minute i started dating my boyfriend he always stressed how much he loved to see me without makeup on. four years later and im still with this wonderful guy who makes me feel like the belle of the ball in my natural state, i love it !
When you're single you think you'll never do this and that in a relationship.. but when you've been together for years, you realise you've done all of it and worse. 😂😂
I used to be so insecure about my fat legs! I would stand infront of a mirror n literally cry n be like God, why didn't u give me small-hairy legs? Didnt feel comfortable wearing anything above my knees. NOW, I rock anything short n sexy with high heels. The way I walk with so much confidence had made people admire my fat legs! I remember on one of "all girls night out" on a Friday, I rocked a pair of ankle boots with short denim dress. My friends n other people were like OMG..your legs in that boot are everything! We put so much pressure on ourselves as women. We wanna be perfect! We wanna have it all together n in doing that, we miss out on LIVING!
I used to have a lot of things that I was embarrassed of, but I don’t anymore. Currently, my biggest insecurity is my teeth. I wish they were super white, which is unrealistic... I know. However, I went from a million of physical insecurities to just one. Even though I still have that one, I think I can be proud of the progress I’ve made. I’d hope that all women would make progress as they age in regards to insecurity.... but I know some just can’t seem to shake it. Super happy for you Amanda! Like you, I look back and laugh at a lot of the insecurities I had, and I’m glad I’m past that.
My husband has seen everything lol. Morning breath, crazy hair, no make up, weight gain, stretch marks, hairy parts, you name it. But it did take time though for me to be comfortable enough to show all of this to him. At first I would not let him see me without my hair done, and without being shaved now he’s seen everything lol.
I love how i am starting to feel a synergy between the girls, it took a bit of time and its totally normal but i feel everyone bring her value added to this show, it wasn't easy to cope with the change ( at least for me) but i am starting to feel it wasn't that bad ... Kudos to the original team for accommodating a new host a making sure she finds her place. This is true women solidarity right there. I'm proud of y'all ( for what its worth) :)
Omygosh Amanda I love that you said that...because, I also, have reached that same point for the same reasons !! Made me smile to see/hear someone else say that ❤️
Jeannie boppin up and down laughin lmaooo. Idk though I've always been fine walking around nude around my guys? Like how are people uncomfortable literally in their bodies?
I really like Amanda on HERE!!! She is an all around normal women living in the world of i dont give a dern! you take it or leave it because i will be fine.
I have always been the laid back one i have never wore makeup eye lashes nothing and I met my husband that way but I find that now that I’m divorce and see how things have change society tries to make u feel like u have to have the makeup lashes etc n I’m just not here for it so who ever I come in contact with they now this is me n that’s it!!
Girl you're blessed with that mindset. Our naked faces should be enough and anything else is an extra determined by your mood that day, not by feeling it's a necessity.
😂😂@2:05 Jeanie we can see you're getting your whole life 😂good for you🤗! 2:59 jeanie starts fanning , the conversation is too hot to handle 😂😂 Jeanie mai 😂 @3:27 I could see amanda and Jeani being really good friends. Jeani quoting Amanda's book and podcast then rocks like a sista shows that she is observant and appreciates the culture ❤
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Tamara “it’s really bushy down there and you’re like No, no, no, no!...and then they like it!” ⚰️😂🤣😭
That Was Funny 😂
"I never said I pick em well" -Amanda 💀
Also Amanda "🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️"
😂😂
Cute segment.
E Hart omg I thought she said “I never said i paid them well” 😂😂😂😂
@@Lsa238 I heard that too. I was like what???
The real seems to have gotten a bigger budget since there EMMY win. Because these outfits and the make up and the hair has elevated.
Yessir!
javi ruiz your point?
javi ruiz -honey, we thrift in 2020
Their prizes are still trash, but they’re getting better
ELEVATED!
Tamera was so funny were her “but then they like it.” 🤣🤣
Tamera is so unintentionally funny, which makes it even funnier
I actually yelled , why is she so funny
She was a talented comedian on one of my favorite shows Sister Sister and attractive too.Take care and thanks.
She is telling the truth. My husband doesn't care 😅
I loved the way she said it lol
I feel sad for women who feel they can’t be without makeup or weave around a man. True intimacy is when we are stripped down to our barest form, vulnerable, and we are still loved. Intimacy: In-to-me-see. See the real me. And love the real me. That’s true intimacy.
your comment is beautiful.
Very true
@john smith There are no other women in the house. Its all for you men.
@Ardissia redditProudlightskinblack What do you mean?
🙋🏽♂️ I agree 👍🏾
I hate how women have to come across as perfect meanwhile guys do absolutely NOTHING and look far from perfect.
"Have to come across as perfect" lmao no one's forcing you 😆😆
This has nothing to do with men. Women are jealous of each other and most are insecure. Why? Because everything hinges on biological clocks and the fear that if they aren’t the best, they will be left single and childless. It’s biology, not patriarchy, love.
@@KairoK Exactly. And that's where the make up manipulation games come in.
@@KairoK It's not all biology, love.
@@allygrint-potter6550
So, what else would a biological clock be?
I made sure my husband saw me at my worse before we got married. Anything after that is upgrade.
😁 😁 💯
A word
MaParis Family Adventures my white boyfriend saw my hair piece on our third date lol and I was like, “oh right, I wear extensions”, and he was like, “oh okay, cool” and that was that! 😂
MaParis Family Adventures true
True STORY:
We've been together since 2003 (we know each other since late '90s). (architecture school together).
Two kids ('09 & '12).
Married '18, only because I got tired of him asking.
Non of us going anywhere. Both of us are too lazy to do anything outside of our relationship. NO DRAMA RELATIONSHIP!
Believe me ... He seen me at my worst - worst ... Pretty much every single day. However, company parties, professional settings - BEST VERSION OF ME!
He knows exactly what's under the raggedy & top notch clothings. Non of the clothing (exterior) makes me who I am (interior). He knows it too.
Adrienne's makeup looks really beautiful.
All the time
I want a tutorial on this!!!!
She's gorgeous as well
@@khadijah3737 its because shes gorgeous her makeup looks nice..its the woman tha makes the makeup
The way Tam said “but then they like it”, was so pretty 😂 I don’t know how to say it
Lauryn H. Right!?!?
Hilarious
She sounded French to me 😍 lol
AMANDA BETTER SAY THAT! 🗣🗣🗣🗣
Glenn CoCo I don’t believe her she seems the most insecurities she doesn’t seem to keep a man
@@emanrehan4180 cos she knows her worth!!!! lmfao unlike you ava who will probs stay with a man who cheats on you multiple times 🤭🤭🤭
Ava Rehan not being insecure about your own body and it’s shortcoming has nothing to do with whether or not you can keep a man. She’s been saying she struggles with that so obviously that’s something she could work on while the rest of us needs to start loving ourselves first (even those who have a man)!
1zeldarulez low blow but ok
Ava Rehan what are you on about ?? Amanda is very confident and clearly secure with herself you’re just projecting and keeping a man or not does NOT validate her she’s beautiful, smart and successful so take your hate elsewhere
Thank you Amanda for that message. In a world where there's much more significant things to worry about, such as where you are in your life, your career, your relationship with your family and friends, how your toe looks or how your natural bare face looks is so INSIGNIFICANT in the grand scheme of things.
I have the luxury of saying this being kinda-grown, but I always wished I thought this growing up.
I have realised that with time comes acceptance of who you are.
Y0U CAN BE S0 WHAT 0K WITH THEY WAY Y0U L00K BUT STILL K0WN Y0U NEED T0 D0 A FEW THINGS T0 MAKE Y0UR SELF L00K BETTER BUT THERE ALLWAYS S0ME 0NE AND A FAMILY MEMBER THAT TELL Y0U AB0UT THE WAY THEY THINK Y0U SH0LD S0 IN THIS W0ULD ITS S0 HARD T0 BE 0K WITH THE WAY Y0U L00K LIKE THE 0THER DAY 0NE 0F THE LADYS THAT LIVES IN MY BUIDING SAW ME WALKING BY AND SHE SAID T0 ME L00KS LIKE Y0U ARE REALLY PUTTING 0N S0ME WEIGHT S0 I SAID BACK T0 HER I D0NT
KN0W I D0NT WEIGH MY SELF S0 I WENT T0 THE GYM THAT I G0 WEIGHT MY SELF AT 100 HURDREN P0UND I DID GAIN 5 P0UND I G0T VERY DEPRESSED AND DIDT WANT T0 EAT AND FR0M THE L00KS 0F HER SHE C0ULD STAND T0 L00SE AB0UT 20 P0UND HER SELF I DiD GAIN 5 P0UNDS T00K ME 95 T0 100 P0UNDS S0 Y0U REALLY HAVE FIND Y0UR 0WN L0VE F0R Y0UR SELF BECAUSE WHAT IT REALLY WAS SHE DIDT LIKE THE WAY SHE L00K H0W SAID IS THAT SHE WANT ME T0 FEEL AB0UT THE WAY I L00KED AND DID S0 WE ALL WAYS HAVE T0 TELL 0UR Y0UNG DAUGHTER GRANDUGHTERS THAT THEY ARE GODS ANGELS AND THEY ARE PRETTY JUST THE WAY THEY ARE WHEN S0ME 0NE IS BROKEN IN SIDE THEY D0 N0T KN0W H0W T0 SH0W IT .ITS M0RE AB0UT THEM THAN Y0U G0D BLESS Y0U
ITS ALL WAYS S0ME THATS TELL TELL S Y0U H0W Y0U SH0ULD L00K I MISSED SEPELL S0ME W0RDS S0RRY
S0 SAD RIGHT SHE WANTED ME T0 FEEL H0W SHE WAS FEELING AB0UT HER SELF W0W RIGHT
Amanda is SO RIGHT! WE SPEND SO MUCH TIME worrying about opinions of others and letting that hold us back that we forget that we are beautiful NO MATTER WHAT!
Everyone is not beautiful, u tried tho.
burnthrust LMAOOOOOO STOP
Amanda's message was a great way to end this segment :)
My boyfriend prefers me with no makeup - I try to get all cute for him, he’s like “What’chu doing all that for?” 😅 I’m really lucky 💗
Lol same!!
awwwwwwww
Samantha Murphy-Keller he will still cheat lol
@javi ruiz so no one can look their best without make up?
Adaeze's Space you clearly missed their point. By what Samantha said her boyfriend said, it sounds more like he doesn’t want her to look good and attract other men. That’s him protecting his own insecurities. Not him loving her for not wearing make up.
My husband is always complimenting me on my natural kinky hair and my natural nails which I wear with confidence but to switch things up I do wear acrylic nails and hair pieces etc. I am a black woman with a flat behind and that used to be my greatest insecurity but like Amanda I reached that stage in my life where I don't give a rats behind about what others have to say and that started in my 20s. My personality, confidence and beauty in n out always shine through. People should own who they are.
U can also go to the gym and workout your flat behind to give it some shape. Stop being lazy
@@burnthrustwho says I dont go to the gym? My ass is toned but still flat. Gym can not sway genetics my dear. Get your facts straight before you criticize. I have a flat ass and to tell the truth I would not have it any other way. I step into a room and I always turn heads. So those who feel it's women with the curvy figures that turns head, please!!! I walk, dress, speak with and exude confidence and that more than anything I've come yo realise with my flat butt is sexy and beautiful.
@@breadbutter4221 yes girl own it!!!! ignore that other comment... they clearly don't know what they are talking about lol. you are beautiful just the way you are. And exercise definitely does not always change butt size like you said. And besides, we don't all need to have the same body type!
I am a black woman with a flat behind too. At 22 years old I have learned to just let and be and move on. It doesn't have to be my favorite body part but I am not going to live my life crying about it. Some people do have things to say about my behind but these days I check them and keep it rolling.
Bread & Butter 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm trying to get to Amanda's state of mind, in have so many physical insecurities i would love to not care about any of them
Facts💯
Me too
Me too. It really feels like a sickness. I hate being so insecure
Elise Chapman Girl ur fine.. Now of course a person anybody should do what they can to maintain themselves.. like workout, exfoliate, eat healthy when you can. Now after that..whoever doesn’t like it can kick rocks. End of story.
I swear it’s so much easier said than done. but like Amanda says, “she’s gotten to the point” ...soo ... it’s a journey
I’m on the same mindset as Amanda.. 👌🏽
john smith I don’t go to the club. I don’t wear makeup 90% of the time
@john smith I wear very little to no makeup on all the time. Insecurity makes no sense. Who cares what people think?!
Same. At this age, I could care less. In the words of MJB, take me as I am or have nothing at all 🤷🏾♀️
amanda don’t be caring about these surface level topics lol 🤣
FACTS lol
I think she is skeptical about being vulnerable and it shows. This is a deep topic.
Or maybe she does not share every aspect of life. There are somethings that she keeps to herself because when you say A, the world wants to know B, C, D.
Right. She is deeper than this.
She can't really race-bait here, so of course not 🤣
I once started dating a guy (non-black, as it were) while I had in these long, gorgeous braids. One day I happened to visit him in between installs, and the next day he curiously ghosted me thereafter. Coincidence? I think not. But baaaaaybeeee when I say that taught me to value myself... ❤️ I will not lift a finger to primp myself extra for a dude that can’t handle the natural me.
Hahahaha why u go bald headed for
Damn
The thing that sucks is that yall were dating. Yall were exclusive and he couldn't handle it... you dodged a bullet
Segments like this really show how great their dynamic is
in a relationship both partners need to be comfortable with each other with each other flaws
Sweat pants hair tied chilling with no makeup on, that’s when you’re the prettiest, I hope that you don’t take it wrong ...
calistyle95 except he goes after done up girls especially when they have had b00ty surgery 🙄
O W you know theses niggas be lying in their lyrics 😂😂😂
😊💛
Sweat pants are not my thing. I hate them. Not many women look good in them. Just stating my unpopular opinion as a woman. 😂
why did i think this was sweatshirt by jacob sartorius....
I love Amanda for saying she didnt want to say anything because of how it sounds.Im the same way because I feel like people think you are lying or that you're just trying to be different from everyone else.And it is possible to get over your hang ups if you do that inner work.ijs And ladies Im gonna share this with yall back in the day we didnt manicure and men didnt care.lol
I am like Amanda when you answer they think you are cocky,Tam face women.
@@LadySunflower1224 I feel that! lol
Amanda is an amazing addition to the show 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love her
Same ❤️
Lovely to see the ladies getting on well
amanda is SUCH a beautiful soul i love her sm
and then she starts race-baiting...
@@SammyPebbles she IS NOT race baiting you just a sensitive ass lil bitch who cannot handle whats going on today
@@1zeldarulez oh no, she really does. But she's gotta justify that African-American history degree somehow, I guess. Even if race-baiting got old fast 🤷
@@SammyPebbles oh Sammy does she hurt your little sensitive bitch feeling having to hear the truth? Which one are ya babe an uncle Tom or a "why does everything have to be about race" whiny bitch?
@@SammyPebbles Amanda speaking from the black perspective has NOTHING to do with race-baiting. If the trials and tribulations of the African-American experience make you uncomfortable on a show called THE REAL, then how about you do something about the toxicities and malpractices of the world so that black people wouldn't have to have these discussions... How about that?
I never said I picked them well 😂😂😂
bsbgirl85 dont be a hater lol
bsbgirl85 TaMAGA!!! 😩😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
I thought she said paid them 😂
"I really wanna wear this peep toe but I can't cuz Scott Cunningham said i have caveman feet in fifth grade" LMFAO
I had an ex who always questioned me when I didn't wax or put on makeup. I prefer waxing over shaving, but it can get expensive! Did not make me feel good at all. I'm glad I dumped his ass and now I'm with a man who says I'm cute when I don't have makeup!
yes girl power to women
962airplanes upgrade yuuus! 😄
john smith well still, good for him, at least he’ll get sex in comparison to the guy who wants a perfect barbie doll
I love Amanda, she always has such depth. ♥️
Jeannie is acting a whole fool in this clip HAHAHAHAH I ADORE HER
This segment was awesome. I don't feel alone.
A man should love you no matter what! If they don’t you shouldn’t be with them.
Kissondra Giordano what if you murdered his mom? Or if you’re a psychopath
no they shouldnt
Selma yeah that’s not what I meant lol
Kissondra Giordano you said no matter what, what did you mean by that then
Ok so stop wearing make from the get go so men can make sound decisions
I'm right there with Amanda. There are plenty of things I could feel insecure about but honestly I just choose not to. Life's way too short and crazy to be obsessing over every single detail. Thank you Loni, for pulling her into the conversation.
I love seeing Amanda’s growth on this show! 🤗 Loved this topic too! Jeannie had me cracking up! 😂
Amanda is fitting right in and adds some freshness to the show.
I love Amanda & Loni’s Friendship!
Life of KirlyLoxs same 😭😭
Good job Loni for putting Amanda on the spot!! Some women REALLY need to hear that kind of message!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Loving Amanda’s look today. Outfit/ hair/ makeup on point
can't be looking like a doll 24/7
Y'all remember Tamera telling that story about that one time she caught Adam farting 🤣🤣🤣
Amanda my fav and I like how loni pushes her
Loni was right. I needed that Amanda 👏🏾💯
But then they like it 😂😂😂😂
Ashante' S 🤣🤣
Tamera is so funny without trying to be.
I loved Amanda’s response it was so good
I like Tamera's response about the bush. My man doesn't care either but I do. Before we do what we do I'm shaving cuz it's mental with me. It has to be right wit no interruptions cuz ain't nobody got time to be spitting bushes and weeds every 2 minutes, jus keep it flowing. 😜😜😜😂😂😂😂
❤❤how they treat amanda like fam, like a whole day one bc i remember when they first started the show and no matter what the LA doe said they would encourage them by reminding them someone needed to hear it
Thank you Amanda for speaking up! I feel the same way! If they don’t like it, they are not for you.
I can relate to Amanda! I dont worry about certain things anymore...cuz like what's the point? Love yourself for you and nobody else!!
Jeannie walking back and forth has me dying 😭😂 I think at some point people get comfortable in certain phases in their relationship and don’t try hard to be “ on “ 24/7... not everybody is gonna be looking like a Beyoncé from day to night... and it’s ok to accept that lol
Myronn Coleman not even Beyonce looks like Beyonce most od the times
I already loved Amanda. I love her even more on this show!
Keeping kitten heels by the bed is fantastic. Go Jeannie!
Adrienne lookin like current Ariana Grande with that ponytail.
Claymore007 Nah Ariana Grande Look like Adrienne! Ariana wishes she looked that way naturally 🤣🤣🤣
@@destiny3354 thats why i said current Ariana Grande because of her tan lol. But yeah Adrienne looks wayyy better ans her tan is natural while Ari is......👀
Claymore007 Adriennes tan is all make up.
I’ve seen her RUclips videos when she has a bare face and is putting it on, she adds shade to her skin
I'm with Adam. I get so embarrassed about about farting and belly noise.
I can relate to Tamara , once your married and stuff things change at first you have your insecurities of course but if your man simply shows you that he loves you for you an all your insecurities or imperfections you need to learn to love it too!
from the minute i started dating my boyfriend he always stressed how much he loved to see me without makeup on. four years later and im still with this wonderful guy who makes me feel like the belle of the ball in my natural state, i love it !
My husband passes gas all the time! He doesn’t care! Me on the other hand no!
Mine as well! In the car, sheets everywhere but not when our kids are there
YES WE CAN how? It’s literally a natural process for EVERYONE. Why are we censoring naturally occurring things?
YES WE CAN Are you alright? Can we pray for you in any way?
Kissondra Giordano feel sorry for you
Husband? I thought you were a teen! Looking amazing sis
When you're single you think you'll never do this and that in a relationship.. but when you've been together for years, you realise you've done all of it and worse. 😂😂
3:35 Jeannie: come on give it to us in small doses
Amanda : nice
Me: 🤗🤗🙏🏾
Yes Amanda.
I used to be so insecure about my fat legs! I would stand infront of a mirror n literally cry n be like God, why didn't u give me small-hairy legs? Didnt feel comfortable wearing anything above my knees. NOW, I rock anything short n sexy with high heels. The way I walk with so much confidence had made people admire my fat legs! I remember on one of "all girls night out" on a Friday, I rocked a pair of ankle boots with short denim dress. My friends n other people were like OMG..your legs in that boot are everything! We put so much pressure on ourselves as women. We wanna be perfect! We wanna have it all together n in doing that, we miss out on LIVING!
I used to have a lot of things that I was embarrassed of, but I don’t anymore. Currently, my biggest insecurity is my teeth. I wish they were super white, which is unrealistic... I know. However, I went from a million of physical insecurities to just one. Even though I still have that one, I think I can be proud of the progress I’ve made. I’d hope that all women would make progress as they age in regards to insecurity.... but I know some just can’t seem to shake it. Super happy for you Amanda! Like you, I look back and laugh at a lot of the insecurities I had, and I’m glad I’m past that.
My man still do the under the sheets not often but my goodness 🤦🏻♀️ he 26 😆😆 still love him tho
Much better than before
Lol mines too
“It’s best to simplify your life in a way that you can control.” That’s a nice thing to thinking about when I get ready in the morning. Thanks Amanda
I think the 5 of them finally found the same vibe that the 4 gave of together. Love it!
My husband has seen everything lol. Morning breath, crazy hair, no make up, weight gain, stretch marks, hairy parts, you name it. But it did take time though for me to be comfortable enough to show all of this to him. At first I would not let him see me without my hair done, and without being shaved now he’s seen everything lol.
I love this energy!! This is how the show used to be!
Jeannie is so happy
I love how i am starting to feel a synergy between the girls, it took a bit of time and its totally normal but i feel everyone bring her value added to this show, it wasn't easy to cope with the change ( at least for me) but i am starting to feel it wasn't that bad ...
Kudos to the original team for accommodating a new host a making sure she finds her place. This is true women solidarity right there. I'm proud of y'all ( for what its worth) :)
Omygosh Amanda I love that you said that...because, I also, have reached that same point for the same reasons !! Made me smile to see/hear someone else say that ❤️
Loving Amanda in this clip
I love Amanda’s smile 😊
and I need Adrienne to do a makeup tutorial every time they go on show
The camaraderie between Loni and Amanda is sugary sweet. The power of a strong Sisterhood. ✊🏽
Adam is a decent man, who have a lot of principles! !
My husband is definitely the Dutch oven guy and his farts STANK! 😫🤣😂
amanda was real quiet 👀
I love how loni tries to get amanda to speak because she knows it could help someone ❤
I really start to like and appreciate Amanda
I love love love Amanda’s shirt.
Jeannie boppin up and down laughin lmaooo. Idk though I've always been fine walking around nude around my guys? Like how are people uncomfortable literally in their bodies?
J Woods they meant walking away when your have their stuff on you lol.
@@wackybrattyx ohhhhh really? Lmao. I didn't get that. Still weird! He should bring her a towel 😂😂!
Oh my!!!! Amanda ooooooo!!!!! 😩😩😩😩😩😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The way Tamera said "an..and then they like it," hit me so hard across the funny feels that I woke up the whole office!🤣🤣🤣
I went on my fist date with my boyfriend with out any make-up and he is till here
It's has been more than two years the make-up on your face doesn't make someone fall in Love with you but what is in the inside
M Precious Yh but it keep dude attracted and if a guy lose that trust me the relationships is over...... trust me!!!!!
Wow Amanda had me dying laughing!
Amanda looks flawless in that thumbnail
I really like Amanda on HERE!!! She is an all around normal women living in the world of i dont give a dern! you take it or leave it because i will be fine.
Jennie needs her own show
Jeannie you're a whole mood 🥰🥰🥰
This episode is sooo good all the segments are flowing and on point ✨💙
Amanda ain't got time for it.... yeeessss !!
"I never said I picked them well..."😂😂😂
Annndddd...we know all of Adam's bedroom business...😬😬😬😬
I think the real is back y’all 🥰 this feels like the real we all once knew ❤️❤️
Yessss Kitten Heel in my Alexander Rodgers voice 😂😂😂😂
I’m cancer ♋️ and I’m very self conscious I have been that way since I was a little girl
Real love is loving everything about a person, including their flaws, or their 'perceived' flaws
That last part from Amanda 🧡
I truly love Amanda and think shes a perfect fit for this show.
I have always been the laid back one i have never wore makeup eye lashes nothing and I met my husband that way but I find that now that I’m divorce and see how things have change society tries to make u feel like u have to have the makeup lashes etc n I’m just not here for it so who ever I come in contact with they now this is me n that’s it!!
My sister I agree with you. I don't get how people can keep up with so much and at the end of the day, it is not even the real you!
Girl you're blessed with that mindset. Our naked faces should be enough and anything else is an extra determined by your mood that day, not by feeling it's a necessity.
@john smith what does it matter to you or her?
@Nina van Sauers I pity him.
😂😂@2:05 Jeanie we can see you're getting your whole life 😂good for you🤗! 2:59 jeanie starts fanning , the conversation is too hot to handle 😂😂 Jeanie mai 😂 @3:27 I could see amanda and Jeani being really good friends. Jeani quoting Amanda's book and podcast then rocks like a sista shows that she is observant and appreciates the culture ❤