Key word sometimes. Single people great at giving advice when it comes to being single again. Some of them never knew how to make a relationship work. Some do though.
I agreee!!! Some single people just learned sooo much in the relationship and they become so knowledgeable that they can help some married couples out. But of course not everyone is suitable to give advice.
Samantha Cons I disagree, there are a lot of married people who are living their greatest life. I know some single bitter people who are not in a good place. People have to be kind when giving advice married or single.
Yes! My aunt and uncle have been married WELL over 35 years, and my aunt has been miserable the WHOLE TIME! She cries all the time because she feels that she wasted her whole life with a man who only knew how to abuse her, her children and even others in her family. She’s resentful at herself for not having the “strength/courage” to leave him. I pray for her all the time. I hope he changes or that she can at least forgive him and especially HERSELF, because the bitterness has made her so incredibly sick. 😞💔
My grandparents have been married for 58 years. 17 years into their marriage my grandmother left my grandfather, she moved from Puerto Rico to New York with her 3 daughters (my mom and 2 aunts) and my grandpa stayed in Puerto Rico. My grandparents haven’t seen each other or spoken to each other in 41 years. They’re still married to this day because they don’t believe in divorce and so they’ve been married 58 years and haven’t spoken for the majority of their marriage, for 41 years.
My aunt worked on the show and I’ve been a guest a few times and there’s no way you can bring drinks or food as an audience member. The audience is WORKING. We have to smile basically the whole time (seriously, your face hurts at the end of the episode). They make you stand, clap, and dance on queue ....and it’s often. It would be too much to have drinks while doing all of that
Yes! My aunt and uncle have been married WELL over 35 years, and my aunt has been miserable the WHOLE TIME! She cries all the time because she feels that she wasted her whole life with a man who only knew how to abuse her, her children and even others in her family. She’s resentful at herself for not having the “strength/courage” to leave him. I pray for her all the time. I hope he changes or that she can at least forgive him and especially HERSELF, because the bitterness has made her so incredibly sick. 😞💔
Ally JayyLovee Find your story a hard to believe. Seems like your Aunt is dealing with some personal issues that is the real reason she’s miserable because it doesn’t make sense that she would stay with her husband for 35 years if he has been abusive and she’s been miserable the “WHOLE TIME”.
Single people are what you were before you got married , so their perspective can help bring you back to that time when you thought and lived like a single person. They say things change when you get married and maybe when you’re in it , you don’t realize it . A single person can provide great advice just like a married or divorced person can .
Yep I can agree with you ,I'm not the same person as I was before marriage, u know one time I needed to see my photos of me before marriage so l can relate , I don't know I guess I felt lost
Loni is so funny, just love her on the show. Adrianne offer smart answers on life, but Loni and Tamera have a lot of wisdom. Jeannie is very open minded. Look for someone to get advice from let it be someone you can trust, that could be objective. Not family members.
People always saying lil one liners and some make no sense. Coach should have played the game for a while and know the game very well from different standpoints.
Well Loni & Jeannie have been married so they can spesk from their experiences while also being a support system and be a listening ear when their friends need it... I don’t think someone being single or divorced is a determining factor in whether or not they give great relationship advice... you can learn a thing or two on what not to do so you won’t make the same mistakes they do or did...
Well, here’s the thing I feel like God gives people certain gift and sometimes a person could be single but give you great advise for your marriage because God has given them wisdom and the ability guide in that area. For example you can meet someone who has no children at all but had the wisdom on how to deal with children and the ability to be able to get them in line with no problem. I think certain people have a gift to do certain things regardless of their experience. God bless them all who have certain gift in and for certain areas.
These ladies are the best. I’ve not found one talk show I’ve been hooked on more than this one. I’m in my early 20’s and no matter what the topic is- even if it’s divorce- I’m soaking it all in. Lol!
I feel like I particularly was watching Jeannie sideways, because i remember particular episodes with tamar when she was more or less like she has been married the longest at the table etc etc and shutting tamera down and giving "advice" and i felt like the length of time had no basis esp since most times her husband was away
I’ve always felt that I would want relationship advice from married and divorced people. They both have great insight and sometimes relationship problems are very practical. And having an outside perspective is helpful no matter their relationship status.
That’s why you are suppose to let God write your love story! When you wait on God he will send you the best thing that has ever happened to you...the waiting process can seem “slow” but God knows what he’s doing when he puts you or has you in that waiting place.
I was 16 and two friends in their 20s asked me for advice the day before they were getting married, at different times in the day. My advice was that they talk to each other. I was young and single and I think my advice was sound.
i am single and my friends tell me i give one of the best advise. i think it's because i hear their full story and use my knowledge, it's not that i've been through what they are going through but i tell my friends that they sould follow my advise if it makes sense to them. also i am capable to look past my perspective and imagine myself in other people and i try to do and say things that don't hurt people. i think that is a point aswell. and also if you are in a place where you are maybe in a fight or somthing asking a third person is not bad. most of the time a third person can look at it from both sides. while if you are emotional you sometimes can not do that. i am not that old i am only 18. but i aways listen and observe . my parents are actually divorced i've been around happily married people and around people who are not happy together. so i see and observe and i ask a lot that makes me know how you feel and what you want and i will try to come up with solutions for you. if that makes sense.
I love these ladies! Can't stop watching them, won't stop! Miss Tam she is so sweet. Jeannie I've watched the longest from when she did the 10 years younger or one of them tv shows. Love her voice when she was excited about he bunion Insta account 🤣.
Sometimes people are single cause they wanna be, it aggravates me that there are so many people who are so upset cause they’re by temselves. Don’t feel like you you have no worth cause you’re by yourself, don’t feel like somebody can give you some kind of value cause they can’t. You have control over your happiness, over your life. Don’t give control of your life to somebody else
Hi! I love this show and the ladies. is it possible for you to list the shops from which the ladies are wearing their clothes? I would love to shop their wardrobes. Thank you for keeping it REAL!
Jeanie didn’t say that at first/it was a running thing about Adrienne not understanding stuff because she wasn’t married...you should always take advice if that person giving it loves you...I think ultimately you decide
Tamera and Loni look so lovely, the hairstyles suit both of them perfectly well. Wisdom can come from a child even sometimes a drunken person. It’s actually good to listen to different perspectives and you will be able to decipher what you want to do. But ensure it’s coming from an unbias person.
I've been married for 13 years and I don't like it when people ask me for advice. It's hard for me to give advice, when everyone's relationship and personalities are different from my husband and mine. I say to just learn from your mistakes and sometimes going with the flow isn't a bad thing.
It depends. The application of the principle to the specifics of the relationship will vary, but any advice/perspective given based in principles will always be relevant.
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Sensible advice is sensible advice regardless of who is giving it.
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Say that again👏👏
Agreed, I think there’s this narrative that single people’s advice is always “leave em” when that’s not actually true.
Period.
issamemariheaux I wish I could like this a million times. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Camera guy: silently judging Loni at every turn
😂😂😂
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Jeannie was married, got divorced, is dating again and is probably almost engaged and I'm still here single AF lol
Me too
Ambe Ngwa lol girl 😂😂. Our time soon come
Me too and I'm 35.
Aïssata SY It’s ok be patient.. Jeannie is 40. 😘
Ally Love 💯💯
Single people are somethimes in a better place than married people. So yea
Key word sometimes. Single people great at giving advice when it comes to being single again. Some of them never knew how to make a relationship work. Some do though.
I agreee!!! Some single people just learned sooo much in the relationship and they become so knowledgeable that they can help some married couples out. But of course not everyone is suitable to give advice.
Samantha Cons I disagree, there are a lot of married people who are living their greatest life. I know some single bitter people who are not in a good place. People have to be kind when giving advice married or single.
Sometimes married people settle so they try to make light of certain situations eg, staying in a marriage u know is not working for u
JodyNanci and non married people who are in a relationship could also be in an unhappy relationships and put up with a lot of crap.
just because a person is married dont mean they happy. could be married for 10 years and be miserable for majority of it
I didn't have my glasses on and I got mad cuz I thought your profile picture was a stray hair and I couldn't get it off.
Yes! My aunt and uncle have been married WELL over 35 years, and my aunt has been miserable the WHOLE TIME! She cries all the time because she feels that she wasted her whole life with a man who only knew how to abuse her, her children and even others in her family. She’s resentful at herself for not having the “strength/courage” to leave him. I pray for her all the time. I hope he changes or that she can at least forgive him and especially HERSELF, because the bitterness has made her so incredibly sick. 😞💔
Exactly
My grandparents have been married for 58 years. 17 years into their marriage my grandmother left my grandfather, she moved from Puerto Rico to New York with her 3 daughters (my mom and 2 aunts) and my grandpa stayed in Puerto Rico. My grandparents haven’t seen each other or spoken to each other in 41 years. They’re still married to this day because they don’t believe in divorce and so they’ve been married 58 years and haven’t spoken for the majority of their marriage, for 41 years.
@@luis798 same omg
lonnie "why you put the camera on me?!" I AM DEAD
😭😭😭💀
I died my stomach was hurting 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Half the time single people give advice is because the person in a relationship decided to go to THEM and ask questions lol.
Facts!!
No one:
Loni: HENNESSY 😆
“I must, I must, I must increase my bust”😂😂😂😂😂 I cant with Adrienne
marriage doesnt make you an expert advice giver. a huge chunk of married people arent even happy in their relationship so i dont think it matters.
taiyona tiare say that louder!
Okay....👀
Nirobiscloset 👍
And I know ppl who r judgemental yet unhappy in their own marriage. Leave me n my man alone boo. We good over here🤣🤣🤷🏽♀️
SAY IT AGAIN!!
The audience should get mini size drinks or samples of the drinks
If something happened to the audience, the Real would be held accountable-I would assume.
My aunt worked on the show and I’ve been a guest a few times and there’s no way you can bring drinks or food as an audience member. The audience is WORKING. We have to smile basically the whole time (seriously, your face hurts at the end of the episode). They make you stand, clap, and dance on queue ....and it’s often. It would be too much to have drinks while doing all of that
That may not be wise considering they may not know who has a drinking problem or is in recovery.
Asia Asia I didn’t know all of that but wouldn’t it make you feel more relaxed to be drinking while doing all of that?
Jeanie at 10:04 and all the ladies trying to flex, has me WEAK! Lol
I love them so much.
I love when Tamera says “why y’all laughing 🤨” 😂
Lmfaoooo loni getting put on the spot several times by the crew lmao
lmao Tamera “Why y’all laughin?” she was so serious.
Are Tamera and Jeannie going to a wedding afterwards? Lol
Looking very elegant ladies 🥂
Please let Amanda go. These four together by themselves was pure gold. Y’all messed up a good thing.
Lmao " why yall put the camera on me"!?
Loni catching the camera on her was hilarious!! Omg
TAMERA saying "okay" so cute after loni says cover up lol
Tamera seems like a genuine loving person.
The way she sang “Fri-yaaay”! Sing it, Adrienne!! ♥️🔥
Yes. It's just advice. It doesn't mean it's the gospel truth. It doesn't mean I have to take it. Its just advice.
Tamera is so unintentionally funny cracked me up "no I ain't doin it
"I must, I must, I must increase my bust!"
Judy Blume, "Are You There God, It's Me Margaret"... that was my favorite book when I was about 12.
I loved Judy Blume books when I was a kid!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
London Tipton had that mirror first 😂
No one:
Loni: Why you put the camera on me
😂😂😂❤️
LONI "Why you put the camera on me?!?" 😭 5:15 & 15:00 😭
Yes! My aunt and uncle have been married WELL over 35 years, and my aunt has been miserable the WHOLE TIME! She cries all the time because she feels that she wasted her whole life with a man who only knew how to abuse her, her children and even others in her family. She’s resentful at herself for not having the “strength/courage” to leave him. I pray for her all the time. I hope he changes or that she can at least forgive him and especially HERSELF, because the bitterness has made her so incredibly sick. 😞💔
Ally JayyLovee
Find your story a hard to believe. Seems like your Aunt is dealing with some personal issues that is the real reason she’s miserable because it doesn’t make sense that she would stay with her husband for 35 years if he has been abusive and she’s been miserable the “WHOLE TIME”.
She doesn't have the strength to leave him but she has the strength to gossip about him?
😟
He’s not changing I’ll pray for her strength ♥️
jo huss if you know someone like this then you would know how real this is. You probably don’t know anyone in the situation
I want to make Adrienne singing “Fri-yaaaaaaay” into a ringtone for my phone!!!
Who else loves The Real Show👏🙌🙌
Lmao Loni give a Jim Halpert look to the camera and then goes “WHY YOU PUT THE CAMERA ON ME” 😂😂😂😂
Marriage doesn’t automatically bring wisdom or common sense!! Better recognize when it needs to be accepted regardless of who it’s coming
from!
My god..Loni's reaction is the best..!
Why you ALL put the camera on me ???
😂😂
Loni: We need someone really flat chested. We need to test this.
Me: I volunteer!!!
I LOVE Tamera's red dress!!!! So pretty, looks amazing on her!
Single people are what you were before you got married , so their perspective can help bring you back to that time when you thought and lived like a single person. They say things change when you get married and maybe when you’re in it , you don’t realize it . A single person can provide great advice just like a married or divorced person can .
Yep I can agree with you ,I'm not the same person as I was before marriage, u know one time I needed to see my photos of me before marriage so l can relate , I don't know I guess I felt lost
Loni is so funny, just love her on the show. Adrianne offer smart answers on life, but Loni and Tamera have a lot of wisdom. Jeannie is very open minded. Look for someone to get advice from let it be someone you can trust, that could be objective. Not family members.
“ WHY YOU PUT THE CAMERA OH ME” 😂
Jeannie is so brave! I love the way these ladies offer support to each other in different ways!
Loni “WHY YOU PUT THE CAMERA ON ME?! 😮”😂
Adrians makeup stay snatched :’) like ok ms.eyeshadow 😍
Okay but Jeannie’s so cute trying to pick up the mini marshmallow from her cup with her straw at 1:22 *in the left bottom corner* is so me :,)❤️
Someone said the coach doesn’t play the game.
That’s a meme😂
Damn straight.
People always saying lil one liners and some make no sense. Coach should have played the game for a while and know the game very well from different standpoints.
I love Loni she is so funny! 😆😂
Jeanie was trying to get into a whole different conversation 😂😂
Well Loni & Jeannie have been married so they can spesk from their experiences while also being a support system and be a listening ear when their friends need it... I don’t think someone being single or divorced is a determining factor in whether or not they give great relationship advice... you can learn a thing or two on what not to do so you won’t make the same mistakes they do or did...
I like that. “If you always said it with love they’ll receive it” Thanks @Tamara
I like that distinction she made regarding “perspective” and “advice.” 🙏🙏🙏
Adrienne’s shirt ❤️❤️❤️ n all her outfits on the show 😍
Damn can the audience get a drink too🤣💀
Well, here’s the thing I feel like God gives people certain gift and sometimes a person could be single but give you great advise for your marriage because God has given them wisdom and the ability guide in that area.
For example you can meet someone who has no children at all but had the wisdom on how to deal with children and the ability to be able to get them in line with no problem. I think certain people have a gift to do certain things regardless of their experience. God bless them all who have certain gift in and for certain areas.
I LOVE how supportive these ladies are of each other
These ladies are the best. I’ve not found one talk show I’ve been hooked on more than this one. I’m in my early 20’s and no matter what the topic is- even if it’s divorce- I’m soaking it all in. Lol!
anyone can give good advice.
😂😂😂😂😂 “why y’all put the camera on me ! “
YES THANK YOU FOR THIS SENSIBLY TIMED CLIP
I feel like I particularly was watching Jeannie sideways, because i remember particular episodes with tamar when she was more or less like she has been married the longest at the table etc etc and shutting tamera down and giving "advice" and i felt like the length of time had no basis esp since most times her husband was away
Is it me or does loni look skinnier? If she didn't, she still looks 🔥
I’ve always felt that I would want relationship advice from married and divorced people. They both have great insight and sometimes relationship problems are very practical. And having an outside perspective is helpful no matter their relationship status.
That’s why you are suppose to let God write your love story! When you wait on God he will send you the best thing that has ever happened to you...the waiting process can seem “slow” but God knows what he’s doing when he puts you or has you in that waiting place.
I think single or not it's easier to see the problems in a situation when you're seeing it from a different perspective
Loni drunk AF 😂
Ah the good old days! Bring back more of this kind of Girl Chat!
Always loved The Real! This show has evolved so much! There cast of 2021 is soooo right!🥰
Single people CAN have great advice especially if they were married for a long time. And vice versa.
A single person who Was married is a divorced or separated person.
TAMERA IS SO SMART ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This was one of the best segments I have watched in a long time
Tamera was a *I Love Lucy* moment in this clip... hilarious 😆😆😆
Remember London Tipton's mirror from the suite life of Zack and Cody lol
I love this entire group 😂❤️❤️
How u gonna say cheers to audience and dont make them drinks. Rude
15:00 The funniest part of the whole video 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jeannie is a cup overpouring for us! #grateful
Offering a different perspective is always good imo. You don’t have to take my advice but I’m going to put it out there.
I love every women in this panel!
Go jennie 👏👏 I must I must I must increase my bust. We EARNED these 😂
Anyone else start crying when Jeannie looked you in the eye and said she was proud? Me either...👀
I was 16 and two friends in their 20s asked me for advice the day before they were getting married, at different times in the day. My advice was that they talk to each other. I was young and single and I think my advice was sound.
Hahahhahahhaha the face Loni made at the vibration bra lol . Love you guys . I need one of the bra tho
i am single and my friends tell me i give one of the best advise. i think it's because i hear their full story and use my knowledge, it's not that i've been through what they are going through but i tell my friends that they sould follow my advise if it makes sense to them. also i am capable to look past my perspective and imagine myself in other people and i try to do and say things that don't hurt people. i think that is a point aswell. and also if you are in a place where you are maybe in a fight or somthing asking a third person is not bad. most of the time a third person can look at it from both sides. while if you are emotional you sometimes can not do that. i am not that old i am only 18. but i aways listen and observe . my parents are actually divorced i've been around happily married people and around people who are not happy together. so i see and observe and i ask a lot that makes me know how you feel and what you want and i will try to come up with solutions for you. if that makes sense.
I love these ladies! Can't stop watching them, won't stop! Miss Tam she is so sweet. Jeannie I've watched the longest from when she did the 10 years younger or one of them tv shows. Love her voice when she was excited about he bunion Insta account 🤣.
Sometimes people are single cause they wanna be, it aggravates me that there are so many people who are so upset cause they’re by temselves. Don’t feel like you you have no worth cause you’re by yourself, don’t feel like somebody can give you some kind of value cause they can’t. You have control over your happiness, over your life. Don’t give control of your life to somebody else
Hi! I love this show and the ladies. is it possible for you to list the shops from which the ladies are wearing their clothes? I would love to shop their wardrobes. Thank you for keeping it REAL!
It would be cool if they gave the audience the mocktail version of the drinks. Like in a small cocktail cup!
And just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean they're automatically good at it or they have automatically good advice.
Jeanie didn’t say that at first/it was a running thing about Adrienne not understanding stuff because she wasn’t married...you should always take advice if that person giving it loves you...I think ultimately you decide
I really love them all sm, but Loni has me forever cracking up at her drunk jokes lol
Tamera and Loni look so lovely, the hairstyles suit both of them perfectly well. Wisdom can come from a child even sometimes a drunken person.
It’s actually good to listen to different perspectives and you will be able to decipher what you want to do. But ensure it’s coming from an unbias person.
Loni you’re looking great girl !
"You're not about to outdo me, heifer!" - Loni HAHAHA!!!
Jeannie is the best 😂😂😂 10:04 and then Adrienne “I must increase my bust” 😂😂
I've been married for 13 years and I don't like it when people ask me for advice. It's hard for me to give advice, when everyone's relationship and personalities are different from my husband and mine. I say to just learn from your mistakes and sometimes going with the flow isn't a bad thing.
That sounds like really good advice :) Thanks :)
What an iconic episode
This is one of my favourite episode of all time. Whatever drink they’re having I want one.
It depends. The application of the principle to the specifics of the relationship will vary, but any advice/perspective given based in principles will always be relevant.
Loni 😄😄 you stop using that straw for a minute there
I never give advice on anyone's relationship unless I'm asked, or unless we are VERY close and I see them struggling.
I only have two dreams🙇🏻♀️, to see Manchester united play live and to watch the Real show hosts in person💃🏾#Nohumanislimited❤️
Loni looks so much slimmer in this video!!!
The camera person really was messing with Loni this day 🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥