They were supposed to be talking about stopping period shaming and I feel like Adrienne was shaming a lot. Saying people should know how to handle it by a certain age and shaming pads users. I wish they let Tamera talk a little more
Adrienne just needs to learn to use her words better because it sounded to me like she was originally trying to get at the fact that women may have concerns that, instead of genuinely being taken into consideration, are still being shrugged off as PMS even if they've probably got their menstrual issues under wraps already and have bigger things going on all the time that do deserve proper attention. She spoke against calling everything PMS but she went too deep into the idea of women being able to handle it all instead of just staying on the fact that it's weird and disrespectful to even be calling someone out for potentially being in that time of the month.
im in my 30‘s! i have PMS and cramps and moods and all of it! but guess what? now in my 30‘s i know how to deal with this and how not to get on people’s nerves... so im with adrienne on this one! i also understand that not every woman know how to deal with this. so yeah...
Also, I resent Adrienne remarks about “handling” you period stuff...because a lot of women (including myself) deal with endometriosis and our periods aren’t regular cramps they are deadly..worse pain I’ve experienced and I had a child naturally..and those shits can last for more than 5-7 days...that’s why on these open forums you have to be so careful to be inclusive...I still love you Adrienne 😘
THANK YOU! Not the same for every female! I was going to comment this... shes making me feel ashamed for being in my 20’s with serve cramps for 2 days unbearable pain and irregular periods!
Mocha Monroe Media thank you for bringing this up ! My cousin has the same condition..her cycles are extremely heavy and she would end up really sick during her time of the month. Some women don’t have a “Normal” Period..For women with pcos and endometriosis their cycles can be very debilitating! Sis i certainly understand!
When I start back dating, my gf isn’t going to feel ashamed! I’m going to clean the bed/change the sheets if she has an accident, buy her snickers & ice cream or whatever she wants eat, tampons or pads which ever one she wants/needs. I’m also going rub/massage her stomach and try my best to make her feel better
I wear specialty period panties and pads. I used to use menstrual cups but had to stop due to endometriosis. Some people can't wear tampons or don't like them. Nothing wrong with that.
Adrienne once said she barely bleed on her cycle. I don’t think she is one to talk about a woman should just get a grip years later. Women are so different - with pain, heaviness, irregularities and emotions.
How insensitive of Adrienne to say that. Im on my 30s and still have a hard time dealing with my period. Its different for every woman. Some months are okay and some months are bad and hard to control.
@@1989menutheiswhat lol you say that as if most doctors actually take women seriously when it comes to menstrual issues. Most doctors do not care what a women goes through when it comes to their menstrual cycle. They think women are just "overreacting". It often takes women years to get a doctor to take them seriously in this regard. Women with disorders such as pcos and endometriosis often don't get diagnosed for years after bringing it up to their doctors because like I said, they aren't taken seriously. Seeking help for menstrual issues is often not a simple thing. Also, some people can't afford to see a doctor in the first place depending on the country they live in. Not everyone has health insurance and it is very costly to see a doctor without insurance.
Kay You I think they said once their viewers are mostly women in their 20-to late 30s. The topics fit their demographics. Jeannie and tamera aren’t insecure women.
My mom wasn’t really there as a kid cuz she was drunk most of the time. My dad brought me tampons and pads (I used to have heavy periods so I HAD to use both) and he would even get my birth control for me as well. Shout out to the fathers out there that were dad and moms to their daughters!!!
Adrienne needs to read up before reacting. Some woman have very bad pms called pmd. Its not just being moody, but feeling depressed and being suicidal. Please do some research before giving your opinion.....
Yes I have PMDD and it is true your body kinda goes into a frenzy during the fluctuations of the hormonal shift which cause severe fatigue. mood changes, including irritability, nervousness, depression, and anxiety. crying and emotional sensitivity. difficulty concentrating. PMDD is extreme PMS and can be life altering I hate it when ppl try and dismiss situations or circumstances just because they never have experienced it.
Naw fam, pads are like trying to body surf on a wet soggy mattress, no thanks. Tampons for me. Use the right size, change them often and you’ll never have a problem.
When I was younger I never understood why women complained about PMS bc I never got it. My moods stayed consistent, I NEVER had cramps, and I didn’t notice any bloating - all while I had the heaviest periods to date. NOW, I’m in my mid 20s and it’s like overnight I started getting TEXTBOOK PMS symptoms. I was in awe. I felt so bad for saying all those dismissive things about PMS when I was younger. Just telling ya, your body can change at a moments notice!
I think she just means that when you get to a certain age you learn how to handle it... For instance, I start PMSing like 9 days before my perieod...but the day of, my back will start hurting, and then I know when I have to poop that day, my period is coming. So when I feel my back pain, I just go ahead and take my Aleve, stop drinking caffeine and head to the store to get some Reese's. Also the bleeding part, it gets to a point where you know, well my first day is going to be super heavy and my second day too...let me wear black jeans and get the overnight pads and I'm not hanging out tonight. Like you just automatically know what you gotta do.
@@heritage.home.crochet I feel you on that but see you and I know how to handle it or know the signs etc.... She's never experienced any of the things we have because she has said several times that she's never had PMS. Which is a blessing, I'm sure any woman would agree but she can't just say to us we should have it under control because I'm sure as you know. Our periods can be very Unpredictable and come and go when it wants to lol and that is what causes major PMS 🤦🏾♀️ and she'll never understand that lol
@@heritage.home.crochet I understand what you're saying and I understand that we all have to do what we have to do when we have to do it.. inspire of what's going on, but I don't think that's what Adrienne meant.
When Adrienne asked if they still roll the TV in, I remembered that one That's So Raven episode when Raven had a vision that Alana (Adrienne's character) is gonna get hit by it and Raven tried to stop it but made it entirely worse. Adrienne had paint all over her and Raven went to the salon to "fix" some more but not really. Raven's gum even got stuck in Adrienne's hair lmao 😂😂😂 I remember that episode like I watched it 5 mins ago lol
I think women should get a pass when they are pmsing and on their period. Some ppl got endometriosis and serious period cramps to the point where they can't function. Some period cramps can be similar to going into labor
let's not forget, some have hormonal imbalance, and some can't help for that also there are hormone stabilizers but sometimes you don't wanna be on meds all the time, plus there are symtoms..like swelling and sensitivity, yo for real my nipples be itching and it's painfull too, and them back aches....but guess what!? we out here working raising kids, being wives, and still doing our best through all of that..so keep keeping on.
I applaud Adam for getting those things for Tamera. My Ex-Husband would buy mine for me. One guy he saw him and asked him “Was he embarrassed for buying those things?” He told him no. He said “If she still needs these that means she is not pregnant.” Way to go Adam!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Adrienne’s comment really bothered and offended me. All women have different problems when it comes to that time of the month. There sum who only get it for 3 days w/ hardly no cramps and mood is fine, but then u have the ones who get it irregular, for a week, very heavy, horrendous cramps and no matter how hard u try 2 control moods u can’t. Endometriosis is no joke some women hav 2 get surgery b/c of it. I feel women who don’t really hav bad periods make these type of remarks but the ones who have or had BAD periods they sympathize with u.
Adrienne said in an "All Things Adrienne" episode that she barely gets her period; just light spotting so she doesn't even use a pad or tampon so she shouldn't be commenting on this topic. Periods can be really debilitating to some people so calm your judgment about "controlling" it 🙄
My periods have lead me to suicidal thoughts and I used to have cramps that would cause me to faint. I honestly thought this was normal behavior till I went to the doctor.
Adrienne needs to be more empathetic. My periods are very VERY irregular because of pcos, now... Which means I have no idea when my period will be, so some days I feel extremely depressed and even cry...for little things sometimes, I feel horrible after a week or less I get my period.
Pierina Coll Torres well DUUUHH!! She’s obviously talking about women with normal periods! I can’t believe there’s so many of y’all in this comment section hard down offended by what she said! Like, relax! Y’all carrying on like she literally said, “ALL women should know when they’re cycle is coming.” She didn’t say that! Get off her back! #ifitdoesntapply #letitfly 🙄🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Pierina Coll Torres my heart goes out to you girl 💗🙏🏻. I don’t have personal experience with this but a friend of mine does and I hear you👍🏻. People need to be more mindful. I get she didn’t mean to be hurtful, but unless you go through something as personal as you have, it’s hard for people to truly GET IT and should think before they speak💗💗💗.
Try myo inositol, Ive taken it for 3 months and ive had 2 regular cycles that are far shorter than what I was used to before..prior to starting it my last cycle was going on 80 days and was induced with progesteron pills. Its worth a try, amd there are a few studies that show it does work for women with menstral irregularities and PCOS. My natrual cycle was around 35-40 days, with the pills Im around 30-35 days which means things are getting better with them.
I think the whole idea of it being “ disgusting “ it’s something natural that all girls and women go through... trust me , I wasn’t shy to it... I had three sisters and a mother and I had to deal with being their listening ear on how bad the pain was , bring them all types of snacks , and be there by their side... I was the only brother in the house that wanted to help but I just didn’t know what I was getting myself into 😭 I lowkey regret it... but I do feel for women... you ladies still have to live life even when you want to curl up in a ball and cry and etc.
This made me tear up. Thank you for your comment. And empathy. Most of us women get some mix of symptoms, not to mention the whiplash of emotions. Sounds like you’re a wonderful brother. I hope your sisters know this.
I don’t have either of these conditions but my periods are so bad I will have diarrhea and throw up at the same time while feeling dizzy and having cold and hot sweats simultaneously. Usually taking 4-5 Aleeve pills (in correct time frame obviously) helps. But yeah “keep it pushing” doesn’t apply to me.
Honestly, I feel like this has changed a lot since the time I was in middle school. I work with middle schoolers and they have no problems discussing their periods and asking questions.
Jen J how is it better than having a big wad of cotton inside you, sticking to your walls, making you chafe from the inside out, and often leaving residual cotton pieces that you can’t even see?
@@nfvy8111 I used to use tampons/pads but it all changed for the better when I switched to a period cup! So much more comfortable and affordable than tampons or pads combined!
@@GabbyFabby1994 I love my cup! WAY more comfortable, more environmentally friendly, drastically cheaper, and I can wear it way longer than pads/tampons.
Pequena Butterfly Wearing those contraptions were also for the poor neighborhoods areas where people couldn’t afford the pads with the sticky - they had those at my cousins school on the 90s
After watching one of Adrienne's videos on her channel about what her period is like, it makes what she said here even worse. Adrienne barely has a period at all and doesnt experience any PMS
Exactly! And she says that we should, "stick it out" and suck it up. No, girl, no! Some of us get the worst cramps ever! Experience very, very, heavy flow it's almost nauseating, and get to extreme points of PMS. It's really annoying how she talks about it as if it's nothing. 🔥😡
I once saw this post on Pinterest that said “I like it when people say you must be on your period in an argument because it gives me the excuse to say I started my day in a pool of my own blood and that’s how I’ll end yours” I don’t think that’s the exact words but that basically it lol
Adrienne said a woman knows, like girl do some research a lot of us have different bodies ever heard of pcos called hormonal imbalance can also cause irregular periods 🤷🏽♀️ so no a lot of us don’t know
I’m glad y’all had this topic on T.V it’s extremely necessary for both men and women to have more understanding in this topic. I grew up with 3 sisters so I’m pretty comfortable around this as well as my sisters because of my incredible mother, but the fact that Tam is still embarrassed is a reflection of our society, not just her.
I started my period when I was 11 at school and had no idea what it was. I thought I injured myself and was very frustrated when the 🩸 would not stop . I told my mum about it after school and the relief when she explain that it’s normal 🤲🏻
Jeannie's point about forgetting if you took it out is soooo real especially if you have anxiety or hypochondria. That's why I started texting myself when I take it out and put it in and it also keeps a time stamp so I know not to keep it in too long 😂
I still use pads. My doctor told me to never use tampons because they call it Aunt Flo for a reason. It's because it's suppose to come out and not to be plugged up and kept in there.
Tamera, I swear we are the same person! A lot of the things you talk about I’m the exact same way! I also still get embarrassed so don’t feel bad. You’re so cute and innocent! You keep doing you, girl 💕
Every woman has her own unique periods. I have heavy ones. My sisters barely have a monthly period. The day you start your period can change. I agree with Loni that education and honest talk can help women. There is nothing to be ashamed about. I use pads but tampons can work for others. Use what you need to get through it. Lol
Period related mood swings are real! Sometimes you really do have a hard time regulating your emotions but that's the time when you have to set boundaries.
My mother got me that same belt. Plus I had the big box of stayfree box. Worked in the ER and had many women to come in with old tampons in. Drs had to shut the room DOWN! If you can't smell yourself there is a PROBLEM.
Sleeping with u while u bleeding is not hygenic. And its bad for u cause u can get bacteria and and infection. Theres a reason why u shouldnt do it but yall do it anyway... just sayin it got nothin to do with love its not safe...
No one should be embarrassed etc, it's only a period, it's completely natural, normal. Do what makes you feel good, what's comfortable for you and your body. Its about you not anyone else, we're all different. I think sanitary products should be free or atleast very cheap. Women should be aloud to have off days of they feel like they can't work etc. Periods take a lot out of you. We should put the health and happiness of women first. Pads, cups, tampons etc whatever, no one should be shamed. Do you boo.
Lol I will keep using pads, sexually active or not - pads are a lot for comfortable for me (I may change my mind, but for now- no thank you). And there is NOTHING wrong with using whatever makes YOU comfortable. Also, Adrienne talking about ‘you’re 30 and don’t know how to take care of your ish’ etc. I’m 20, but growing up, some of my friends would throw up, faint and all sorts of stuff. So I can 1000% understand if they don’t have their stuff together at 30, its a different ball game for everyone!!
I guess this counts as shaming but I was so happy when I started using tampons. With pads you’re literally sitting in your own blood. Disposal isn’t discrete. You can see the pad through clothing etc. I’m so happy that I take birth control and don’t have to worry about it.
Whats wrong with a men buying pads or tampons for his wife? thats actually been a loyal man that cares for his wife. I felt like adrianne wanted to put down woman on the subject. What did she meant with older women should know how to deal with their period by their 30s. Menstrual periods come in different flows and moods for all females.
My friend was on her period so she told her male gym teacher “I can’t participate in the swim unit today because I’m on my period” and he responded “Ok. But you didn’t have to say it like that” how was she supposed to say it? “The Red Sea is here 😉 😉 🩸 “
I period shame myself and I think I always will regardless if I get told how natural it is. It's disgusting and I always feel dirty when I experience it. I could take 3 baths a day during my time of the month ( I do) and I still feel dirty. The cramps, the mood swings, the awful smell, and the fear of spilling through if I feel a heavy flow overpowers any belief that I should see my period as some feminine badge of honor. Screw that. Menopause cannot come soon enough and I'm only 21.
I'm weird. I was never embrassed about my period. I was like Ade when it happened the first time. I knew i had to have pads that it's about it because my friend from school went through it. I called my mom and told her I needed pads. She was shocked because we never had that talk but it wasn't that big of a deal for me. I Even said "my vagina is killing me" in front of a male coworker to get him to stop bugging me. But I do feel embrassed having a tampon or pad in eye sight of a guy. I am with Tam I switched back to pads because of the toxic syndrome. I heard a woman last her leg over it.
I believe that the coddling of children has led to the increase in the suicide rate at a young age. They just don't know how to brush off things and let them slide like before.
I LOVE GETTTTING MY PERIOD! I LOVE SEEING IT, FINDING IT, ENDING IT, NOT SEEING IT, GETTING IT........ I WILL MISS IT! IT MAKES ME FEEEEEEEL ALIVEEEEEEEEEEEE! IT MAKES ME FEEEL SO POWERFUL! I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT~
I used to be embarrassed to go and just buy pads and walk out the store. Now I go in, grab a whole bunch and walk out like it's nothing. 🤷♀️ also on a side note my boyfriend would willingly go and get me pads if I need them💜
I agree Kayla, since I got my 1st period at 12 I was suicidal every month to the point that when I was 18 I went to my doctor to request a hysterectomy and got laughed out of the room! 🤬😢
I’m so grateful to God that I have a man that will actually go to the store and buy pads/tampons for me, ask me if I want food or candy, rub my tummy, and make me feel comfortable. Because I’ve dated a lot of guys that made me feel disgusting.
I’ll tell my husband I need space cuz I’m irritated but I know it’s cuz of PMS, so I ask to be left alone cuz I don’t want to get mad or be mean , just everything starts to irritate me and I need to be by myself and try to egg my hormones and feelings under control, plus I get severe cramps that last 2 days and I stay in bed cuz the pain is crippling.
They’re are still some parents out there today that haven’t talked about this with their daughters. Its ether a touchy topic to be open/talked about it the family. Which leads them learning it on their own or in school.
I get so bad i feel my blood coming down it feels heavy. I have a female friend that thinks it is disgusting and doesn't realize why i don't want to be around her when I am on it. I have no problem talking about it even in front of guy friends. I had my period 3 weeks was losing so much blood i thought I was going to die. So it isn't an excuse it is how I feel I am 36. I used to throw up everytime I started my period before I had my son. Everybody has their period different.
Adrienne said everyone must know when they're about to get their periods, but SOME people get irregular periods.
Thank you
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NATURALLY POPPIN u got health issues
@NATURALLY POPPIN exactly, and im sure there's many other that do. Everyone's body is different
@NATURALLY POPPIN Same :)
They were supposed to be talking about stopping period shaming and I feel like Adrienne was shaming a lot. Saying people should know how to handle it by a certain age and shaming pads users. I wish they let Tamera talk a little more
Adrienne just needs to learn to use her words better because it sounded to me like she was originally trying to get at the fact that women may have concerns that, instead of genuinely being taken into consideration, are still being shrugged off as PMS even if they've probably got their menstrual issues under wraps already and have bigger things going on all the time that do deserve proper attention. She spoke against calling everything PMS but she went too deep into the idea of women being able to handle it all instead of just staying on the fact that it's weird and disrespectful to even be calling someone out for potentially being in that time of the month.
im in my 30‘s! i have PMS and cramps and moods and all of it! but guess what? now in my 30‘s i know how to deal with this and how not to get on people’s nerves... so im with adrienne on this one! i also understand that not every woman know how to deal with this. so yeah...
Adrienne is very condescending. She isn’t humble and her speaking about being humble is a joke ..
Also, I resent Adrienne remarks about “handling” you period stuff...because a lot of women (including myself) deal with endometriosis and our periods aren’t regular cramps they are deadly..worse pain I’ve experienced and I had a child naturally..and those shits can last for more than 5-7 days...that’s why on these open forums you have to be so careful to be inclusive...I still love you Adrienne 😘
Mocha Monroe Media resent is a big word for something so insignificant within the context.
I have Endo too. The cramps are not a joke. They can't just be "handled". I'm taken to the E.R almost every month.
THANK YOU! Not the same for every female! I was going to comment this... shes making me feel ashamed for being in my 20’s with serve cramps for 2 days unbearable pain and irregular periods!
Mocha Monroe Media thank you for bringing this up ! My cousin has the same condition..her cycles are extremely heavy and she would end up really sick during her time of the month. Some women don’t have a “Normal” Period..For women with pcos and endometriosis their cycles can be very debilitating! Sis i certainly understand!
I also get painful periods but she didn't mean it that way. We have to get out trigger level.
When I start back dating, my gf isn’t going to feel ashamed! I’m going to clean the bed/change the sheets if she has an accident, buy her snickers & ice cream or whatever she wants eat, tampons or pads which ever one she wants/needs. I’m also going rub/massage her stomach and try my best to make her feel better
Good man, Good man
Awww how sweet
Sweet! My Husband does that for me. 💗
Very sweet of you.
SARA 😂😉
People also need to stop pad shaming there nothing wrong with pads
Thank you!!!
Absolutely!
I wear specialty period panties and pads. I used to use menstrual cups but had to stop due to endometriosis. Some people can't wear tampons or don't like them. Nothing wrong with that.
No shame in my pad game...pad 4 life
There’s personal opinions then there’s judging!
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Yes, and I love Loni's whole look today🔥
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Adrienne once said she barely bleed on her cycle. I don’t think she is one to talk about a woman should just get a grip years later. Women are so different - with pain, heaviness, irregularities and emotions.
I literally just had a anxiety attack i get them when i pms its bad
my thoughts exactly for some women every time their period comes around it feels like a new experience because it so painful
For women who have endometriosis, I've heard that they can bleed through their clothes because it's so heavy!
I’m 26 and still use pads and yes I’m still a virgin
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Girl, so am I. All three of those, I am.
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Same here 🖐🏼
How insensitive of Adrienne to say that. Im on my 30s and still have a hard time dealing with my period. Its different for every woman. Some months are okay and some months are bad and hard to control.
Then you should seek help.
You're pretty
You are beautiful
She have always made me sick she is so Damn annoying too!
@@1989menutheiswhat lol you say that as if most doctors actually take women seriously when it comes to menstrual issues. Most doctors do not care what a women goes through when it comes to their menstrual cycle. They think women are just "overreacting". It often takes women years to get a doctor to take them seriously in this regard. Women with disorders such as pcos and endometriosis often don't get diagnosed for years after bringing it up to their doctors because like I said, they aren't taken seriously. Seeking help for menstrual issues is often not a simple thing. Also, some people can't afford to see a doctor in the first place depending on the country they live in. Not everyone has health insurance and it is very costly to see a doctor without insurance.
Loni is a old soul trapped in a young body🤣 why she keep talking like she was born in the elderly era.
Vybin With Kimy because her age is one of her many insecurities
She's 50. Her ass in menopause
Kay You I think they said once their viewers are mostly women in their 20-to late 30s. The topics fit their demographics. Jeannie and tamera aren’t insecure women.
Ive bn told tht since i ws 12 lol..im 33 and my friends all say im 60 in real life
She's my age, and i do remember those contraptions she's talking about. 70s/80s was rough man!
My mom wasn’t really there as a kid cuz she was drunk most of the time. My dad brought me tampons and pads (I used to have heavy periods so I HAD to use both) and he would even get my birth control for me as well.
Shout out to the fathers out there that were dad and moms to their daughters!!!
Adrienne needs to read up before reacting. Some woman have very bad pms called pmd. Its not just being moody, but feeling depressed and being suicidal. Please do some research before giving your opinion.....
Suicidal?
Yes not just self harm, but there were incidents in past where women murdered their partner. It’s serious
I was thinking the same thing I am 29 and I have very painful cramps you don't get use to the pain. She might not have experienced any type of PMS.
Hannie Cht i used to have this wow! I didnt know it had a name
Yes I have PMDD and it is true your body kinda goes into a frenzy during the fluctuations of the hormonal shift which cause severe fatigue. mood changes, including irritability, nervousness, depression, and anxiety. crying and emotional sensitivity. difficulty concentrating. PMDD is extreme PMS and can be life altering I hate it when ppl try and dismiss situations or circumstances just because they never have experienced it.
Power to the Pads ✊🏾 those horror stories are the reason I don't use tampons
Same! So many of my friends shade me for using pads !
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✊🏼 power to the pads! peel and stick you are good to go!
Im 27 and have never used a tampon
jen s sameee im 27 and never used them lol
Me too lol
I’m 30 and never used one
I'm 39 and never used a tampon!
We outchea lmao
Adrienne talking like pms is a lights switch for everyone🤦🏽♀️
My ex husband would always insult me and say “you must be about to start” when I was a bit moody or down. It would make me so angry 😡
DAMN!!!
Thts y he a ex
I guess that's why he's an ex!!
Hex nooooooo🤬
I’m glad he’s your ex
Pads for life..... no other way....
periodtt no pun intended
Same here
Period cups?
Ana Patricia Goncalves ew
Periodt
I like using pads to be honest. It feels more comfortable
Exactly
Naw fam, pads are like trying to body surf on a wet soggy mattress, no thanks. Tampons for me. Use the right size, change them often and you’ll never have a problem.
Same!
Same. Never used tampon.
Same! Never used a tampon.
I’m 36 and still use pads all the way.
@SARA im 26 and my mom still try to teach me how to use a tampon,im like nawww give me the pads its easier 😂😂
31 and I’m the same way...change em accordingly and move on
I’m almost 40 and only use pads.
My problem with pads is the mess and the smell so do you ladies use wipes to clean up down there or something?
@@leneew3103 same
When I was younger I never understood why women complained about PMS bc I never got it. My moods stayed consistent, I NEVER had cramps, and I didn’t notice any bloating - all while I had the heaviest periods to date. NOW, I’m in my mid 20s and it’s like overnight I started getting TEXTBOOK PMS symptoms. I was in awe. I felt so bad for saying all those dismissive things about PMS when I was younger. Just telling ya, your body can change at a moments notice!
Mine too. Feels like I'm having a slow death
Why would you ever think everyone was like you?? Makes no sense!
This was me and now I have endometriosis and genuinely scared of my periods now lol
Yes! When I was younger I had like no symptoms. Now my back be hurtin, I start cryin over my ex, can't button my pants etc etc lmao
lucky4evr1 well for one, she was YOUNGER.
I'm sorry I love Adrienne but she doesn't or never have experience PMS. So you can't just say we should have it under control Sis.
I think she just means that when you get to a certain age you learn how to handle it... For instance, I start PMSing like 9 days before my perieod...but the day of, my back will start hurting, and then I know when I have to poop that day, my period is coming. So when I feel my back pain, I just go ahead and take my Aleve, stop drinking caffeine and head to the store to get some Reese's. Also the bleeding part, it gets to a point where you know, well my first day is going to be super heavy and my second day too...let me wear black jeans and get the overnight pads and I'm not hanging out tonight. Like you just automatically know what you gotta do.
@@heritage.home.crochet I feel you on that but see you and I know how to handle it or know the signs etc.... She's never experienced any of the things we have because she has said several times that she's never had PMS. Which is a blessing, I'm sure any woman would agree but she can't just say to us we should have it under control because I'm sure as you know. Our periods can be very Unpredictable and come and go when it wants to lol and that is what causes major PMS 🤦🏾♀️ and she'll never understand that lol
@@heritage.home.crochet I understand what you're saying and I understand that we all have to do what we have to do when we have to do it.. inspire of what's going on, but I don't think that's what Adrienne meant.
When Adrienne asked if they still roll the TV in, I remembered that one That's So Raven episode when Raven had a vision that Alana (Adrienne's character) is gonna get hit by it and Raven tried to stop it but made it entirely worse. Adrienne had paint all over her and Raven went to the salon to "fix" some more but not really. Raven's gum even got stuck in Adrienne's hair lmao 😂😂😂 I remember that episode like I watched it 5 mins ago lol
ik I'm late but which episode is that?
@@nayajewel3462 Just a clip of the episode :D ruclips.net/video/s6NObXmfMBw/видео.html
one of my favs
I think women should get a pass when they are pmsing and on their period. Some ppl got endometriosis and serious period cramps to the point where they can't function. Some period cramps can be similar to going into labor
Amirah Iftoni a pass for what?
If you’re having painful periods you need to change your diet and doing yoni steam helps
Amirah Iftoni who can afford yoni steam?
let's not forget, some have hormonal imbalance, and some can't help for that also there are hormone stabilizers but sometimes you don't wanna be on meds all the time, plus there are symtoms..like swelling and sensitivity, yo for real my nipples be itching and it's painfull too, and them back aches....but guess what!? we out here working raising kids, being wives, and still doing our best through all of that..so keep keeping on.
Kaodi Umerah buy the herbs and do it at home
I never used a tampon & probably never will 😂
They always misinterprets the question and play it easy
Adrienne, I’m a teacher...we stopped the tv on a rolling cart 10 years ago!! Hahah!
I miss the tv rolling cart. Lol
Im not sure where you teach, but the rolling cart with the tv is still alive and well at my school LOL
Lexigor lol...I teach in the Los Angeles county.
lol. We use smart boards.
Ummm no lol we still use the rolling tv in the country.
Who else watching this on their Periodt
I’m finishing up mine!
I just got off of mine
Day 3 for me lol
@@cassyokoye4385 day 3 for me too lol
@@Giselle.829 same here!!!
I applaud Adam for getting those things for Tamera. My Ex-Husband would buy mine for me. One guy he saw him and asked him “Was he embarrassed for buying those things?” He told him no. He said “If she still needs these that means she is not pregnant.” Way to go Adam!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jeannie is my favorite. She’s so understanding and actually thinks before she speaks.
Adrienne’s comment really bothered and offended me. All women have different problems when it comes to that time of the month. There sum who only get it for 3 days w/ hardly no cramps and mood is fine, but then u have the ones who get it irregular, for a week, very heavy, horrendous cramps and no matter how hard u try 2 control moods u can’t. Endometriosis is no joke some women hav 2 get surgery b/c of it. I feel women who don’t really hav bad periods make these type of remarks but the ones who have or had BAD periods they sympathize with u.
Adrienne said in an "All Things Adrienne" episode that she barely gets her period; just light spotting so she doesn't even use a pad or tampon so she shouldn't be commenting on this topic. Periods can be really debilitating to some people so calm your judgment about "controlling" it 🙄
Man...lucky her.
My periods have lead me to suicidal thoughts and I used to have cramps that would cause me to faint. I honestly thought this was normal behavior till I went to the doctor.
Damn loni's makeup looks beautiful today 😭❤
Today, one year ago or smn 😂
Adrienne needs to be more empathetic. My periods are very VERY irregular because of pcos, now... Which means I have no idea when my period will be, so some days I feel extremely depressed and even cry...for little things sometimes, I feel horrible after a week or less I get my period.
Pierina Coll Torres well DUUUHH!! She’s obviously talking about women with normal periods! I can’t believe there’s so many of y’all in this comment section hard down offended by what she said! Like, relax! Y’all carrying on like she literally said, “ALL women should know when they’re cycle is coming.” She didn’t say that! Get off her back! #ifitdoesntapply #letitfly 🙄🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Amen!!! #cysters #pcos
Pierina Coll Torres my heart goes out to you girl 💗🙏🏻. I don’t have personal experience with this but a friend of mine does and I hear you👍🏻. People need to be more mindful. I get she didn’t mean to be hurtful, but unless you go through something as personal as you have, it’s hard for people to truly GET IT and should think before they speak💗💗💗.
Yes, I think Adrienne should educate herself before talking sometimes, I love her though, just find her a tad judgmental
Try myo inositol, Ive taken it for 3 months and ive had 2 regular cycles that are far shorter than what I was used to before..prior to starting it my last cycle was going on 80 days and was induced with progesteron pills. Its worth a try, amd there are a few studies that show it does work for women with menstral irregularities and PCOS. My natrual cycle was around 35-40 days, with the pills Im around 30-35 days which means things are getting better with them.
I think the whole idea of it being “ disgusting “ it’s something natural that all girls and women go through... trust me , I wasn’t shy to it... I had three sisters and a mother and I had to deal with being their listening ear on how bad the pain was , bring them all types of snacks , and be there by their side... I was the only brother in the house that wanted to help but I just didn’t know what I was getting myself into 😭 I lowkey regret it... but I do feel for women... you ladies still have to live life even when you want to curl up in a ball and cry and etc.
This made me tear up. Thank you for your comment. And empathy. Most of us women get some mix of symptoms, not to mention the whiplash of emotions. Sounds like you’re a wonderful brother. I hope your sisters know this.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you!!!!
❤❤
Myronn Coleman you’re the best brother . If I even say “period” my brothers get all awkward and uncomfortable 😂🙄
Gentleman💚
I love, love talking about period. There’s nothing embarrassing or shameful to talk about. ❤️
why Loni always got some kinda story to tell.. "my aunt" "my friend's mom"😂
And then there are women with PCOS and endometriosis who have extremely horrendous periods and can’t just “ keep it pushing”
I don’t have either of these conditions but my periods are so bad I will have diarrhea and throw up at the same time while feeling dizzy and having cold and hot sweats simultaneously. Usually taking 4-5 Aleeve pills (in correct time frame obviously) helps. But yeah “keep it pushing” doesn’t apply to me.
@@juliaraygorodsky1434 ik what you mean that was just saad
Even if you don’t have a medical condition having your period can still be hard
Honestly, I feel like this has changed a lot since the time I was in middle school. I work with middle schoolers and they have no problems discussing their periods and asking questions.
PMS is not an excuse. It's s real thing, if we are going to talk about it, we need to be real about what it is.
Pads it’s more healthy because you let the blood out not in inside of you
Pads feel like It's like wearing a diaper, with that stuff sitting against your skin. I hate it! 😣
Jen J how is it better than having a big wad of cotton inside you, sticking to your walls, making you chafe from the inside out, and often leaving residual cotton pieces that you can’t even see?
@@nfvy8111 I used to use tampons/pads but it all changed for the better when I switched to a period cup! So much more comfortable and affordable than tampons or pads combined!
@@GabbyFabby1994 I love my cup! WAY more comfortable, more environmentally friendly, drastically cheaper, and I can wear it way longer than pads/tampons.
Honestly, I love pads and tampons.
I like how loni be acting old af but tampons were invented in the late 1920’s 😂. Girl you ain’t that old
In a lot of places tampons are still taboos.
Pequena Butterfly
Wearing those contraptions were also for the poor neighborhoods areas where people couldn’t afford the pads with the sticky - they had those at my cousins school on the 90s
Funny this got uploaded cause mine just came on 😂😂 the relatability is at an all time high 🙌🏽😂😂
Same here lol
Symiah same!!
Katy S. Nice to know it’s not only me right now 🥰
Remonia Hudson were all in this together ! 🥰😂
Symiah and Remonia Hudson oh yeah sisters!💘💕
After watching one of Adrienne's videos on her channel about what her period is like, it makes what she said here even worse. Adrienne barely has a period at all and doesnt experience any PMS
Exactly! And she says that we should, "stick it out" and suck it up. No, girl, no! Some of us get the worst cramps ever! Experience very, very, heavy flow it's almost nauseating, and get to extreme points of PMS. It's really annoying how she talks about it as if it's nothing. 🔥😡
Your period is between you and yourself you don’t have to let the whole world know when you have it!!
@Josephine Bournes have you thought that Maybe they're just a private person that doesn't want their business out. 🤷🏾♀️
Sometimes you can't control it , everyone is different stop judging
I once saw this post on Pinterest that said “I like it when people say you must be on your period in an argument because it gives me the excuse to say I started my day in a pool of my own blood and that’s how I’ll end yours” I don’t think that’s the exact words but that basically it lol
Adriene is getting on my nerves.. she need to understand that everyone has different ways of dealing..with your cycle
I still use pads 😊😊
Adrienne said a woman knows, like girl do some research a lot of us have different bodies ever heard of pcos called hormonal imbalance can also cause irregular periods 🤷🏽♀️ so no a lot of us don’t know
I’m glad y’all had this topic on T.V it’s extremely necessary for both men and women to have more understanding in this topic. I grew up with 3 sisters so I’m pretty comfortable around this as well as my sisters because of my incredible mother, but the fact that Tam is still embarrassed is a reflection of our society, not just her.
I started my period when I was 11 at school and had no idea what it was. I thought I injured myself and was very frustrated when the 🩸 would not stop .
I told my mum about it after school and the relief when she explain that it’s normal 🤲🏻
Adrienne looks drop dead gorgeous
Jeannie's point about forgetting if you took it out is soooo real especially if you have anxiety or hypochondria. That's why I started texting myself when I take it out and put it in and it also keeps a time stamp so I know not to keep it in too long 😂
Yo how good does loni loookkk?! 🔥 🔥 🔥
I thought you was the only one with eyes
Can't believe it tbh
I feel the same she looks gorgoues all of them but she looks special
I still use pads. My doctor told me to never use tampons because they call it Aunt Flo for a reason. It's because it's suppose to come out and not to be plugged up and kept in there.
Erin Pouncey bit it doesn’t stay up. The tampon absorbe it and when it’s time to change it you’ll feel it.
@@-.a9942 but it doesn't absorb clots/the lining of your uterus. That needs to come out. Now, not every woman experiences that but a lot do.
@@erinpouncey3991 Menstrual cups!
Tamera, I swear we are the same person! A lot of the things you talk about I’m the exact same way! I also still get embarrassed so don’t feel bad. You’re so cute and innocent! You keep doing you, girl 💕
Every woman has her own unique periods. I have heavy ones. My sisters barely have a monthly period. The day you start your period can change. I agree with Loni that education and honest talk can help women. There is nothing to be ashamed about. I use pads but tampons can work for others. Use what you need to get through it. Lol
We use pads and I feel like people in America pad shame lol
Period related mood swings are real! Sometimes you really do have a hard time regulating your emotions but that's the time when you have to set boundaries.
Adrienne really annoyed me in this segment
caramel kiss she’s not properly informed with certain things
My period ain’t a “gift” Jeannie tf 😂😂
My mother got me that same belt. Plus I had the big box of stayfree box.
Worked in the ER and had many women to come in with old tampons in. Drs had to shut the room DOWN! If you can't smell yourself there is a PROBLEM.
Eeeew
@@sharroon7574 EXACTLY. Dr was gagging. Had to shut the room down on every occasion.
Am I the only who’s still not used to getting my period ?And I’m grown
Im 22 and same 😅
Please see a doctor
At the end of the day. Most grown man dont care, theyll still sleep with you if they love you.
Sleeping with u while u bleeding is not hygenic. And its bad for u cause u can get bacteria and and infection. Theres a reason why u shouldnt do it but yall do it anyway... just sayin it got nothin to do with love its not safe...
@@norajeffry7368 I guess its OK especially if its on first or last day when it is just drops
@@christinenjogu reaserch it its not it really isnt but thats not gonna stop anyone but hey i warned yall
@@norajeffry7368 do yk cuddling can relieve period pain -_-
@@angellia6446 do u know cuddling isnt same as having intercourse? 😯 if not ur comment didnt have anyting to do with mine 🙏🏻
I had Jeannie back,up until she said having a period was a "gift" 😂
The Real and the City
Carrie = Adrienne
Samantha = Loni
Miranda = Jennie Mai
Charlotte = Tamera
Franklin Ortega YESS!!
So true!
Perfect!👌🏾👍🏾😊
I would switch Jennie mai and Adrienne
Mercia Misigaro I would disagree just because Adrienne is so New Yorker and carefree like Carrie, Jennie Mai is a bit more serious like Miranda.
I love seeing these old girl chats I have never seen before!! Please keep them coming I love the show from Ireland xx
The lady that thought of this dumb idea trying to banned children from having friends must didn't have any friends herself when she was growing up
so Adriennes been ignorant....
Adrienne too funny for that funky joke lol she said it like it was nothing
No one should be embarrassed etc, it's only a period, it's completely natural, normal.
Do what makes you feel good, what's comfortable for you and your body. Its about you not anyone else, we're all different.
I think sanitary products should be free or atleast very cheap. Women should be aloud to have off days of they feel like they can't work etc.
Periods take a lot out of you. We should put the health and happiness of women first.
Pads, cups, tampons etc whatever, no one should be shamed. Do you boo.
I just wanna know why everytime I go to buy tampons there's a man in the tampon aisle 😳
That's just Tam's husband!
@@sandrameadows8552 🤣
Men are purchasing pads for their spouses after have a baby. If you actually give them eye contact they will most likely ask for help
“I’m a old b*tch” 😂😂😂😂
Periods are nothing to be ashamed of. It's a part of life....
Lol I will keep using pads, sexually active or not - pads are a lot for comfortable for me (I may change my mind, but for now- no thank you). And there is NOTHING wrong with using whatever makes YOU comfortable.
Also, Adrienne talking about ‘you’re 30 and don’t know how to take care of your ish’ etc. I’m 20, but growing up, some of my friends would throw up, faint and all sorts of stuff. So I can 1000% understand if they don’t have their stuff together at 30, its a different ball game for everyone!!
I guess this counts as shaming but I was so happy when I started using tampons. With pads you’re literally sitting in your own blood. Disposal isn’t discrete. You can see the pad through clothing etc. I’m so happy that I take birth control and don’t have to worry about it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Tamera’s facial expression @ 9:37..., has me on the floor laughing 😂😂😂😂
Whats wrong with a men buying pads or tampons for his wife? thats actually been a loyal man that cares for his wife. I felt like adrianne wanted to put down woman on the subject. What did she meant with older women should know how to deal with their period by their 30s. Menstrual periods come in different flows and moods for all females.
My friend was on her period so she told her male gym teacher “I can’t participate in the swim unit today because I’m on my period” and he responded “Ok. But you didn’t have to say it like that” how was she supposed to say it? “The Red Sea is here 😉 😉 🩸 “
Right. Whomp whomp.
"CONGRATULATIONS! I AIN'T PREGNANT" AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I'M DEADDDDDD
i could never use tampons
That's so me "I ain't pregnant"
toni prieto girl I swear. I’m 26 and when I get my period, I’m happy!
I'm with Tamara. I used pads for a very long time too bc I wasnt sexually active.
Tamera is so cute😂😍
Kayla Robinson been crushing on her since sister sister
I period shame myself and I think I always will regardless if I get told how natural it is. It's disgusting and I always feel dirty when I experience it. I could take 3 baths a day during my time of the month ( I do) and I still feel dirty. The cramps, the mood swings, the awful smell, and the fear of spilling through if I feel a heavy flow overpowers any belief that I should see my period as some feminine badge of honor. Screw that. Menopause cannot come soon enough and I'm only 21.
nureallycool the grass is always greener on the other side
I know the feeling. Can't wait to be on Team Menopause.
I'm weird. I was never embrassed about my period. I was like Ade when it happened the first time. I knew i had to have pads that it's about it because my friend from school went through it. I called my mom and told her I needed pads. She was shocked because we never had that talk but it wasn't that big of a deal for me. I Even said "my vagina is killing me" in front of a male coworker to get him to stop bugging me. But I do feel embrassed having a tampon or pad in eye sight of a guy. I am with Tam I switched back to pads because of the toxic syndrome. I heard a woman last her leg over it.
Tamera looks great I love the fit
I believe that the coddling of children has led to the increase in the suicide rate at a young age. They just don't know how to brush off things and let them slide like before.
SARA of corse but you can’t deny the increased suicide rate amongst young people
Whoever did loni’s makeup better stay because from all the years they have started. This is the best one👌🏿👌🏿 🔥 slay Aunty Loni
Loni is so freaking beautiful and her happiness is just shining through!
I LOVE GETTTTING MY PERIOD! I LOVE SEEING IT, FINDING IT, ENDING IT, NOT SEEING IT, GETTING IT........ I WILL MISS IT! IT MAKES ME FEEEEEEEL ALIVEEEEEEEEEEEE! IT MAKES ME FEEEL SO POWERFUL! I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT~
Bethlehem Paulos 🤨
Yessss
Loni's make-up is🔥🔥🔥Tam's fit🔥🔥🔥Adriannes hair🔥🔥🔥👀and you gatta love Jeanies side ponytails!
I used to be embarrassed to go and just buy pads and walk out the store. Now I go in, grab a whole bunch and walk out like it's nothing. 🤷♀️ also on a side note my boyfriend would willingly go and get me pads if I need them💜
I agree Kayla, since I got my 1st period at 12 I was suicidal every month to the point that when I was 18 I went to my doctor to request a hysterectomy and got laughed out of the room! 🤬😢
I have pmdd but yes please tell me to just get it under control
I’m so grateful to God that I have a man that will actually go to the store and buy pads/tampons for me, ask me if I want food or candy, rub my tummy, and make me feel comfortable. Because I’ve dated a lot of guys that made me feel disgusting.
I’ll tell my husband I need space cuz I’m irritated but I know it’s cuz of PMS, so I ask to be left alone cuz I don’t want to get mad or be mean , just everything starts to irritate me and I need to be by myself and try to egg my hormones and feelings under control, plus I get severe cramps that last 2 days and I stay in bed cuz the pain is crippling.
They’re are still some parents out there today that haven’t talked about this with their daughters. Its ether a touchy topic to be open/talked about it the family. Which leads them learning it on their own or in school.
Dear girls, period tip:
Use organic pads/tampons
I swear, you will feel the difference
I get so bad i feel my blood coming down it feels heavy. I have a female friend that thinks it is disgusting and doesn't realize why i don't want to be around her when I am on it. I have no problem talking about it even in front of guy friends. I had my period 3 weeks was losing so much blood i thought I was going to die. So it isn't an excuse it is how I feel I am 36. I used to throw up everytime I started my period before I had my son. Everybody has their period different.