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Girl Chat: Bonding Over Things You Hate
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- Our ladies get real about the pressure to stay fit and not let yourself go. They also weigh in on the concept of "Dating & Hating" - hitting it off with someone based on your dislikes.
I loved the ending where they all pour love and reassurance into Adrienne as a response to her insecurities!
Adrienne has absolutely no reason to be insecure I mean she's young , gorgeous,rich , married and doesn't have kids she's living the dream.
Me too! They really did pour love right back into her. Loved seeing that!
Ranita Gadling the even pretty and rich people have insecurities... the money doesn’t make it go away
I know 😢🤧🤧♥️
Loni just about made Adrienne cry at the end of this clip. Loni genuinely cares for Adrienne and Tamera. They say there's Jeannie controversy but Loni has always seemed supportive of her as well.
It honestly kinda sounds like Adrienne is scared to not always have some type of “sexy” aspect of her appearance. If your man loves you, he loves all of you. My husband compliments me all the time when I feel like I look a hot mess but in his eyes I’m beautiful. I’m grateful I don’t have to look or dress a certain way to keep his attention and loyalty
Boom! She takes so much pride in being sexy
Laydee Leshay I think cause of her Disney days. She was the oldest out of everyone but yet playing a 16 yr old. She said it herself she always wanted to be sexy and not child like.
@@naynaynix7978 very true!
i agree with you.
I used to think that but I honestly thing that's just how she is.
It's so sad hearing Jeannie talking about Freddie considering they're now divorced.
Pelo MK it’s an old episode that’s re-uploaded
I know right so sad
It’s her experience. It’s called The Real for a reason. She’s just being honest 🤷🏽♀️
"I have a man that loves me and I know he loves me just exactly for who I am..."
Muoi Huynh why are you telling her as if she doesn’t know it’s old..?
Y’all ever look back at these episodes and feel bad for Jeanie because you could tell she really loved Freddie
No, because when you talk about your ex is because she lived for many years so its normal. Doesn't mean she is wanting him back or anything else. I think its a great sign of maturity..
betty clark exactly
Noel Alvarado yessssss
Am i the only one that feels like Jeannie wasn’t that into her marriage as it seems . Like she was more about her career which is great but she always talked about Freddie needing more gfs and what not😏 or how black guys were her type idk I always got that vibe so I wasn’t really surprised 😕
No I feel bad for Freddy. Jeannie wanted a do boy and seem very selfish.
Adrienne felt insecure and fear that she will stop taking care of herself. But it’s normal, I feel her. Sometimes you need reassurance from people to make you feel better and that is okay to feel insecure and letting yourself go. I love that the show is keeping it real and I love all of these ladies. They’re so beautiful inside out ❤️ xo
What Loni said at the end though 😭 may God bless me with friends like that ! So beautiful ❤
In South Africa weight gain is seen as a sign of happiness😅 weight loss means stress...
Yeah. It's the best compliment ever
Same in Kazakhstan :)
Kenya as well
@@Shadow4977 lol never heard the term "is van lekker lewe" lol
same in kenya
Everytime Jeannie says 'Freddie and I', I cringe
I'm also sad.
You gonna be fine. Old video.
They are divorce and he has a new relationship and a daughter. The Real isn't so real after all.
I believe at this time they were probably doing marriage counseling but I cringed as well
@@unknownunknown4029 it is, this was an old clip
I "let myself go" everyday. I don't care about what other people think. Im sweat pants, barely there brows, t shirts, nappy hair whenever i please.
yesss same here !
Tamara I 100% agree with you!
I got married Dec 2015...Had a baby Sept 2016...Separated 2017 because my husband couldn't deal with my hormones during pregnancy and after baby!
I invested so much on my baby and finding on who I am!
2019 now...I got my sex back...looking fly...as I use to look like most importantly...I feel good on the inside!
Even if my dream having a beautiful was taken away, Happy that my husband true color came out sooner so I was able to escape before he could do more damage emotionally ,mentally & Physically!!!
la fille Superbe you go girl 😊
Good for you! Have a wonderful life with your baby. Lucky you got away earlier
Wow , I wish you knew how much THIS comment helped me. Great job for loving you ❤️
You go girl!!! 💜
Watching this literally made me tear up, A is so honest about certain things and when Tamera gave her that advice; it rlly spoke out to me. I’m only 17 and I’ve been going through some of the same things A is going through.
Aww Tamera telling Adrienne she was happy last year when she was bigger almost made her cry cuz she knows something she’s living with at that moment isn’t making her happy. I wish you the best Adrienne.
Daumm, I let my self go since I was 6 years old.
adrienne let me explain something... whether you are 20 lbs 0ver weight or 20 lbs under weight, as long as you are comfortable with yourself don't worry about the negative comments
Very true! I used to have friends that used to make me feel uncomfortable with my body. I cut them off and now I'm IN LOOOVE with my body.
People love to project their insecurities onto other people and I'm learning as I'm getting older (okay I'm only 21 lmao) that other people's opinions shouldn't matter. The only thing that's important is how you feel about yourself. If there's something YOU aren't comfortable with, e.g your weight, then you can change it. The main goal here is to be HAPPY and comfortable in your skin. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise
@@Amanda-be7eq preach girl
*as long as your bmi is okay, and healthy for your size, age height...
@@kasopeokubadejo2710 I've always wondered.. Is checking your BMI really important because you have women that are considered "overweight" yet they're quite fit and healthy? Probably even more healthier than women who have good BMI's?
My left ear loved this
That’s so funny. For me, it’s the left earphone. Tf is going on lol
😂😂😂😂😂
I was hoping someone else was going to point that out.
I knew I wasn’t going crazy... lol
Loni is talking about Tamar telling her not to wear that beanie or hat or whatever when traveling lol
I thought about that straight away
She was lol but if you’ve noticed when she posts her travel pics now she’s not wearing that beanie
It wasn't just Tamar, they all crapped on her about it
TruTHAsia! But Tamar was the most disrespectful to her about it
She sure is
Why can I only hear this episode out of my left earbud? The others are fine just only this one
EDIT: UR HEADPHONES ARE NOT BROKEN! ITS JUST THE VIDEO
Mine is the right bud???
same my left ear bud only worked
It’s my left as well !! 🤣🤣 I thought my earphones were broken 🥺
Almost broke down since I just bought these earplugs
What!!! We need someone else to confirm the mysterious case of the low sound for the right ear bud( so far I am all alone).
I love how Loni and tamera were so nice and comforting to Adrian🥺🥺❤️
beefing with my enemy, does not make you a friend of me ~ Saweetie (kinda the same concept)
The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
Personally I see a lot ofgrowth maturity and confidence in Adrienne now versus these old episodes. I wasn't really feeling her or her points of view back then but now I see so much change I love it
I agree with everything tam said even when u don't have kids sometimes you go through things like that
I’ve bonded over the real, now we’ve been friends for 2 years.
I love these ladies mahn 😪❤️❤️ and the fact that Lani always have positive things to say about each of these ladies just gives me life😊❤️🌠
I agree Ms. Tamera, it's not nice to hate anyone.
I'm too young to be letting myself go haha. Just hold yourself to your own standards, not someone else's. Stop worrying about what other people think. I agree with Adrienne. There is a huge difference between getting comfortable and letting yourself go (aka being lazy).
I'm with A...Dont let yourself go...a shirt is a shirt,might as well make it a Lovely shirt...a tshirt vs a blouse, takes the same amount of time to put it on.
I feel there’s a difference between getting comfortable in a relationship or in any kind of relationship and realizing you have a person that loves you for you and you let all the flaws show... versus simply letting go because you don’t feel like faking the funk of “ I always have to do x,y, & z” to look like this... and I think we as people also need to make sure we check in with those we care about... because I have friends that are insecure about certain things and I tend to try to have a conversation about what exactly is it about this certain thing that makes you insecure or that you don’t like and what would be the solution to this that would make YOU happy !
Aww!! I love these girls!! I love how they can be real and no matter what one or the other says at the end they always have the best a positive turn over...if that makes sense
I HAVE to know what lip Adrienne is wearing, that color is everything!!!!
I think this discussion was presented calmy and everyone were being respectful to each other.
YOU GUYS.. OMG THAT SOUNDS MEAN 😂
3:49
This is lowkey the best girl chat ever. So relatable and I feel for all of them especially Adrienne x
Now, the people who are picking these videos out are being messy bringing the ones with Freddy😂.
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Yes, I agree.
@john smith this is old. She Jeannie still has on her wedding ring
I'm loving their makeup & hair.
I can so Relate to Tamera...if Adrienne is gonna have her babies she is going to need alot of help mentally.
Living my life the way Tamera explained. I'm getting there after 3 kids nw!🤞
Same here
I agree with Loni. The 40’s for me (for some it’s perhaps earlier) was the time I became so comfortable with being me & didn’t worry about external sources (I’m not living with them, I’m living with me) I know what works best for me & I work it. It’s totally liberating.
I love this topic because I think about this all the time! I hope I get to meet them one day...they are definitely REAL!
Loni, I love how u always look out for Munchkin!💞
I feel like having a balance of both... you can bond over the things you like as well as don’t like... I want to connect on several levels not just on what you don’t like... although I do find it interesting ! Could this also go for pet peeves... and another thing... why not just simply ask without downloading another app to ask that question 😂
Adrienne have deeper issues than her friends not telling her she gained weight
Mindy Shortcakes I’m not sure if ur being rude and I should be angry with you, or-.....idk but I’m upset with what u said
Mindy Shortcakes stfu ! Looser !
Mindy Shortcakes I agree with you! She has mentioned having deeper issues in the past and feeling insecure in other shows.
If you have to wait for your friends to tell you you’re gaining weight, then something is wrong with you. If she already knows self care and self love, she wouldn’t rely on other people to point out what’s wrong with her. If you have self awareness you’ll know when you’re letting yourself go or just having a wonderful life. We all get caught up with busy life but I’m not gonna put the responsibility on my friends to tell me I’m gaining weight. That’s just pointing fingers to others instead of owning up to your own insecurity.
Jae Jae lol
Absolutely, The enemy of my Enemy is my friend. I like people who are Shameless, Unapologetic about themselves, because I'm that way too. I don't really care if I offend someone because honestly your feelings aren't my problem.
Genuinely, I am a Nice Guy, and I'm very conscientious about what I do and what I say, but a lot of people learn never to cross me because I will screw you over.
I never had myself together it's only when I don't like what I see in the mirror. but it's not drastic, most of the time, its basically I just need to shave but I don't want to waste a razor, or I Just need to exfoliate, or I need a haircut.
It's not that Jeanie and Adrianne don't like dogs, they don't like bad dogs.
And im sure they bonded over there dislike for Kris Jenner.
Chris Hepburn what
Sometimes bad breath is uncontrollable
True I struggled for years with mine
BLOSSOM LARRY blast how did you cure it?
I don’t have this problem but I would suggest that you should always carry breath spray
Hi, my name Is not a good recommendation
chikitanumber1 does it not last long or is it just not as effective?
When your first but have no idea what to write
Lol
Lmaoo
They’ve got to stop playing Jeanie like this, posting vids constantly where she talks about Freddy
it's a part of her past. Something that is never gonna change
Am I the only one who wanted to go give Adrienne a big hug when she was talking about her insecurities
It’s honestly really sad how insecure Adrienne is
Your all beautiful. Every single one of you reading this comment xxx
The colours beautiful on Tam
Loni was talking about when Tamar would say something about her ugly beenies! Lmao
She damn sure was lol
She did say that!!
I love this conversation. It’s a very REAL thing we go through
N I love Tamaras positivity!
I love this they’re so real with everything. Feels like I’m there with them!
8:40 Loni was talking about Tamar 👀
not all dogs hump your leg. i've had my dog for 5 years and he never does that, not even to objects. it's because the dog has seen another dog do it, so they mimic it. but we had this other dog for a while, pet sitting it for a family member, and he would literally hump everything, including his pillows, blankets, and anything he got a chance to mount. depends the dog tbh
@It's a Bunnay i wasn't arguing that once in my comment.
I love the Real omg!!😛 I don’t know what it is but it’s so comforting 😌😌
i love this idea because ive dated a lot of men then find out they have crazy road rage and just petty stuff that was a deal breaker more than what we liked to do for fun.
the love of my life and I have NOTHING in common but we hate the same things so we get to try new music food and activities together and neither of us have to deal with things we dont like
Def agree with Loni ! Opposites attract!
I LOOOOOVVVEEEE THE INNOCENCE OF TAMERA @3:50
Adrienne is talking about Rita Ora being that friend she bonded with
I don’t know why these ladies are obsessed with weight. It’s kinda sad especially seeing that there is a bigger girl on the panel. The idea that bigger/ fatter bodies are not worthy of love and affection is simply not true and as a society we need to end that.
I don’t believe in letting go. You go through phases In your life and that’s fine but ultimately I always want to look after myself, that’s part of self love and care.
Wow what Loni said at the end was so sweet.
She needs to be kinder to herself and allow herself to say it’s ok that she gained weight, but not blame it on friends for not pointing it out. It’s her own responsibility to be aware of her self and her own body. Don’t be so hard on yourself, the weight fluctuates overtime and it doesn’t get any easier as you get older. You have to be mindful of your own body and what you put in your body. Gaining weight is not about letting yourself go, that’s what haters label you because you have a happy life and they wanna point out that you’re so happy you’re not worried about your weight. As long as you’re happy, you know what’s happening to your body and you know how to tackle the issue, you shouldn’t let other people’s opinion get into your head. If you’re not happy with the way you look, so something about it, don’t depend on other people. Be kind to yourself and take care of yourself, not other people’s opinion.
I was raised to never use the word hate. It is too strong of a word. I use disdain or dislike.
I know this is old, but i totally agree with Tamera.. took me a year to get to know myself and get it together after having a child. The first time I even went out with friends was a year after having a child..
Loni is so sweet and so real!
I am with Tamera. I rather focus on building relationships on positive things than negative things. I have initially started talking to someone over something I dislike (like music at party), but I never stayed friends solely because we dislike the same things.
Awww loni at the end :’)
Adrienne...those things will happen. And, strength is on the other side of all of that. And, you WILL NOT EVER REGRET THE 10 lbs or missing a nail appointment when you see your baby, when you fall in love with your babies and sacrifice for them and their happiness.
This is one of my favorite clips... SO REAL and genuine 💗
I love the way Jeannie thinks!
I know where Ade is coming from, not liking the same person, especially at work lol
Please please don't judge or hate on me.... It's not that hate dogs, it's that I'm SCARED of them; there's a HUGE difference.!! I feel you Adrianne.. :)
tamera is so sweet 😭❤
Tamera looks soo pretty ! Well all of y’all !
Loni is a true friend Adrienne you are gorgeous no matter ur size and I. Agree with tamera I was my most happy when I was overweight so was u
Bonding over things i hate. Someone i love is headed down the path i was given
Tamara is so stunning in all the videos. Adrienne and Jennie please calm down and don’t get serious in all the videos, thank you.❤️❤️❤️
ITS THE REAL
To let yourself go is to be free! I feel free working out at the gym but I also feel free eating vegan pizza and ice cream at 3am also. It’s about balance. Freedom is choosing what you want and what’s best for you. Let go of stress. Let go of anxieties and things that hold you back. Be yourself and do what makes you feel free. Let yourself go.
yo i’m 14 n i ‘let myself go’ it’s so dumb that u have to always look fly or put an effort every single day if that’s not for you, if u like that then sure, but don’t be puttin that pressure on other people who jus aren’t made for it. i wear oversized sweatpants, an oversized sweatshirt everyday and a messy bun. i’m comfortable, relaxed and honestly feel gud.
adrienne shouldn’t be worried too much bout her appearance, she’s beautiful jus the way she is
I Love Tam's outfit
oh damnn i felt like i let myself go and im in my 20s LOL - for exactly the same thing adrienne was saying.. being toooo comfortable.. Adrienne when you have a baby not a damn thing else in the world is gonna matter.
I let my self go a lot in the past. Off and on.
Idk I'm getting off vibes from A...like has deeper issues associated with this...more than just gaining 20 pounds.
I agree something is wrong
I need them all as friends 💯💯😭
Healthy energetic girl talk! ❤
A is talking about being friends with Rita Ora and that Black Chyna caused issues for both of them when dating Rob but now they’re friends
I have to agree with this. If I feel passionate enough to hate something i need you to hate it to. I dont mind if you don’t love everything I love.
I just hate when they all act shocked at the next subject like they don’t know what they’ll be discussing!! 😂😂
Loni is like the best, caring and loving friend ever!
Love the show! Adri, don’t use coconut oil on your face. Dr. Oz explains that it is not good for your face. ❤️
I think people bond when they both hate something, because even though the disliked thing might cause negative feelings in both people, they’re expressing something they both have in common. In this way, like is still attracting like.
I would love to chill with Adrienne and Tamera
The hate app at first blush does seem negative. However I could see myself downloading it to make sure a guy I date isn't a Trump supporter. I could never fall for a guy that respects Donald Trump.
Adrienne is right. It is never a good idea to let yourself go and adopt an attitude you don't care what people think. We should not go through life reliant on what others think of us, but we should be aware and take pride in our appearance. I take care of my hair, skin, body and hygiene first to please myself and secondarily to show others I have self respect.
I think you can let yourself go or look sharp all the time. Who cares? And if people really care that your hair's unbrushed, that you're wearing an old t-shirt and old faded sweatpants and no makeup you're not letting yourself go, you just don't care what others think. I think that's awesome. I love seeing people out and about dressed to the nines, but I also love seeing people not caring at all because I think that shows an amazing confidence and strength in yourself. I don't judge you if you've got BO or bad breath or your hair's unbrushed because everybody has those days, but also because I love that you're confident enough not to care. Also, I think it's just kinda rude that people hate being around people that have bad breath or BO. You don't know what they're going through, you don't know if they just have a strong smell and they do brush their teeth and they do wear deodorant or even if they don't (wear deodorant at least, not brushing your teeth is pretty gross but if you don't do it I'm not gonna judge, idk your reasons). Idk, I just don't like judging people on the way they look or whatever, it's stupid and annoying.
Adrienne is doing the most seriously
She's a Disney brat they all do the most.
no she isn't. Her feelings and self image are valid. It's comments like this that made her lose weight.
This is a VERY long youtube episode and I LOVE it😍
me - saw new video up thinking its new
7.30 min later
jeanni - i have a man that loves me
also me - yeaaaaaa this is oldd
Not anymore 😂💕