That's why you wear little or natural makeup on the first date. Once they see you "full glam" they're going to look so confused when you show up w/o any makeup.
That's why you wear little or natural makeup on the first date. It's better for him to actually appreciate your natural beauty and surprise him with a full glam when yall are in a relationship.
I see him without makeup! That stuff is supposed to enhance, not become me. If he can't handle my natural beauty, he doesn't need to be around me when I'm extraordinary. #grownboy vs #grownman
I would love for my future wife or girlfriend to be confident in her skin to love herself and her natural hair and make up free face. I think all girls are beautiful make up is used to enhance something.
YES!!!! I used to wonder why is it that men look great without makeup but women look so boring and bland without it.. but really thats how the media and society had warped my brain. Soon enough I was floored by how much MORE gorgeous women looked without makeup and how sad and disappointed I felt when they covered up their beautiful face. I hate makeup. I think it should be left for special occasions. I love letting my natural face and skin breathe on the daily :) Its really great to see real men be supportive of this!
Yep ..when I was dating I didn't wear makeup on purpose ...women today wear too much makeup ..and the wigs and hair ....(in my humble opinion) plus to sleep with it on.......oh no...... hahahahahaha!!!!! I have a bald since 1986...so I clearly and really don't get it ...LOL!!!!! Yea I am a Black bald woman since that time ...no lashes.no nails .,and I LOVE it and me.....
I don’t wear makeup often, just special occasions. I feel more comfortable with a bare face. So when I first meet someone like on a date, I wear my essentials (mascara, gloss, brow gel) so they don’t see my “bad bitch” face too quick 😝 they gotta earn that
I do not wear makeup often either because... allergies. So normally he would have approached me without it and I most likely would go on the first date and many others without makeup also.
It's better to show who you are at the start comfortably, than hide and let it go on for longer. If you arent confident in your looks work to love yourself before you show who you are. The guy may feel deceived if he sees the real you and you dont look like you. If it were the other way round I would. If you are with someone who likes you for who you are it wouldn't be a problem for them to see you without makeup.
I believe in looking your best for the first few months but then getting comfortable in attire later. You should feel comfortable showing your bare face regardless though!
I don’t wear makeup, they get attracted to the real me from the start , so I don’t have to do all that lol . Love make up though just broke & don’t know how to apply 😂
Omg sis you are my soulmate 😂. I don't wanna use all that money for make-up (with my broke ass). Believe it or not but I have not used make-up for a whole year now. My skin is feeling amazing and healthy now.
If he can’t handle it... I say leave... I know I’m a dude that enjoys seeing a woman clean herself up and dress her very best and always put her best self forward in the outside world... but if I’m initiate with you... I want to see all of you and love all of you whether it’s with a wig , without a wig , no makeup , sweats , a bun and Vaseline on yourself... I don’t care... as long as we have a connection and you look good no matter if you’re dressed up or dressed down I wouldn’t care ❤️
Lol I remember reading about a woman who did this, got married & the night of the honey moon the husband seen how she looked without makeup and divorced her 😭
FURREAL NO WAY!!!!! YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME RIGHT!!???? THAT'S SO HIRRIBLE!!!! MAN I REALLY FEEL BAD FOR HER!!!!😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 THAT PROVES HE DID NOT LOVE HER!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡 IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!😤😤😤😤😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
I start off with no makeup, no extension , glasses on. I don’t like surprises and I want him to know what he’s getting. I actually get hit on more without the glam and that’s why I stopped investing in makeup n started investing into skincare.
Claire Joseph same here! I realized that when I wear my weaves, men ignore me😂 but when I wear my natural hair-middle part slick back in a bun omg men would stare and approach me🤦🏾♀️ I don’t even know how to put on makeup but I do loveeee skin care/fragrances
Men needs to realize that there’s no such thing as a woman that looks hot at all times. and most of them don’t understand that so that’s why they never settle down because they chasing a fairy tale. when you choice a woman you have to take the good with the boring and the woman has to introducing herself has her natural self and when she is has a nice full beat so the guy can understand that he does has a fabulous looking girl but she not always going to look like that at all times. makeup is expensive and her skin needs to breath so she can maintain a clear skin.
Eddie N what I am saying is that it’s RARE to find a woman that looks on point at all times. And that’s normal even guys don’t look their best at all times. and guys don’t understand that and they complain and curve decent good enough woman with beautiful personalities just because she didn’t look like she’s going to the red carpet every single time he sees her. And some grils look like a snack Natural in insta because she apply a little make up we just don’t notice it sometimes.
I'm sorry, I know we all have our own opinion, but this is sad that more then half of our woman feel the need to wait a whole year to show your beautiful face 😢 we need to learn self love I know easier said then done because I'm in process of learning myself, but ladies you are all beautiful!
My boyfriend sees me 98% of the time without makeup. That other 2% is when I feel like it or for special occasion. I'd rather have my man love me and think I'm cute when I have no makeup on, natural hair, and in sweats and big T-shirts than trying to up keep myself all the time.
Saaaaame! My issue isnt putting it on but taking the time to remove it all and then let's not forget you should clean them brushes as well. Too much and im lazy so I just go make up free usually and every so often pop on some lashes if I'm not in the mood to get my face together
@@xAgirlfriend It's not about what others think. That's why it's called SELF-confidence which is deep by definition. So I'm not going to just wear it if I want if it's going to affect my self-confidence.
Honestly I think every man deserves to see what his girlfriend really looks like. And guess what if he dumps you because he doesn’t like what you really look like than that’s not real love and he doesn’t deserve you.
I want a man to see me without makeup from the get go. He should know ME before we even date. THEN when I do put make up and hair on... he'll appreciate the enhancement more.
It's weird for my boyfriend to see me WITH makeup, and that's mascara and bb cream under my eyes. Hahhahah this is hilarious to me . Anyways. How's quarantine going for y'all?
Lol. Girl, it's going! This quarantine is something else. That is cool that you are comfortable with your own skin. The corona really tests what I say I believe. I am reminded that while these times are uncertain, I am still the daughter of God. God is with me. Each day is an opportunity and reminder to trust God. Breathe. It's going to be ok. You?
My boyfriend met me with no makeup so this isn't applicable to me. The days I do wear makeup it isn't heavy. I think we as women need to be comfortable in our skin. This doesn't mean that we can't wear heavy makeup but on the days we don't we should be just as confident.
I met my man at the gym where I had on ZERO Makeup, hair is dis-shovel, and I am sweaty. In all actuality, he thought how hard I was working out was attractive and that's why he approached me! We've been together ever since (7 years). I absolutely LOVE makeup, but I think it's unhealthy to think you cannot present yourself without it, especially when you're in a relationship. My man is not perfect, so why am I spending tooth and nail to create this image that I am??
I have a different take on this topic: You don’t have to be sad or insecure to wear makeup. Just like you don’t have to be sad or insecure to wear nail polish, shave your legs, shave your armpits or wear a nice dress. Women throughout history have always done things to their appearance to make themselves stand out. Makeup, perfume, expensive clothes, jewelry, (even puppies) are all accessories we women wear to indicate status, express our culture, indicate our sexual orientation, and/or attract a high quality mate.
It's funny how they highlighted Loni's wig when every single one of the ladies on the panel is wearing Magic Hair... If I like a man, I make sure that he sees me without a drop of make-up by the third date. If you wait too long, he will get used to seeing you all made up, and no matter how beautiful you are naturally, you will look strange to him. When I go on my all-natural date, I make sure that my real hair is fabulous, my eyebrows are brushed and smoothed, and thank goodness my eyelashes are as long as most falsies. If a man does not like what he see when he sees me au natural, then he wasn't meant for me anyway...
I think 1st date impressions are important. If you look on point with your OOTD and makeup, it shows you’re really putting effort into the date and you value the occasion
I kinda feel like it's an insecure move for a woman not to let their boyfriend and/or husband without makeup from the jump. It's almost like there's a sense of doubt for a lot women if they let their significant other see the "real" them.
lol I had a wig when I met my husband and he didnt know it wasn’t my real hair for about 3/4 months or so.. smh he’s white so I was like scared of his reaction. I was the first black girl he’d ever dated let’s just say he knows a lot more about black culture and many ways we can do our hair ! and loves my natural hair ❤️ I also always did my eyebrows and would wake up before he did to do them bc I used to be super insecure about them bc they are basic non-existent! we’re expecting baby #1 and I rock that natural look ALL the time!
this is so different from my country we usually walk and do everything without make up unless we go to parties and it depends on which party and some don’t care about parties and maybe status mostly celebrities and even them sometimes don’t wear make up
Well when I met the man who eventually became my husband, I was in my natural hair season. It was caught in one with a little afro bun, minimal makeup and yes my dressing was lit and I caught his eyes. Whenever I was to see him I'd make sure I had on makeup, braids/ weave/extensions etc and though he thinks I'm beautiful, he always compliments my natural look. It is sad that many women don't see themselves as beautiful as they are without the added stuff.
Same here. Happily married for 2 years. No problems whatsoever. My husband even told me to shave whenever I want too. I stopped last year December... Lol. He didn't flinch one bit 👍🏾😂 #hairyasaspider 😆
First off...I am NO tree monster without makeup. I keep my skin looking good. I don't know what Loni talking about. Makeup should only enhance your beauty not turn you into a whole new person. TF!
My skincare is on point so I remove my makeup by the second outing if I started with any at all. I can’t believe there are women who wait that lol I’m more embarrassed about my bonnet and my ashy pruny skin after I soak in the tub for too long 😂😂
Let him see you without makeup as soon as possible so you can find out quickly what kind of a person he is, and your time isn't wasted. If he has a problem...NEXT.
OMG! My exes and my fiancé saw me without makeup even before we were in a relationship. Jeannie's walk after sex also shows insecurity... I feel sad that so many women feel so insecure about themselves 🙁
As someone who Is 18 and NEVER WEARS makeup I think this is ridiculous !!!!!!!! I've literally never worn makeup because I've fallen in love with my natural beauty, I love my natural self too much to cover it up, I'll probably start wearing make up at 25 for professional settings but I honestly think this is ridiculous😕😕
I remember guys drooling over tyra banks all the time; but whenever we saw her she was always made up. After years of seeing her like that, when we actually saw her without make up (which she was still pretty by the way) we were like dang she's hurt. That's from only seeing perfection for years, so that's what was expected even though it was unrealistic. I would say, let the dude see you early without make up so you don't create a false expectation.
I died of laughing when loni told her story. And the woman at 1:12 she is gorgeous. And I never understood to why some women don't feel conformable without makeup
I have not heard Loni say “tree monster” in so long. Only the real remember!
Facts 😂🤣
I know I thought it was an old episode
I knoww! Love it when she does! 😂
I had to check to see if I was watching an old episode 😂😂
Hi I love your videos my name is AjALAE is my last
The woman in the audience at 1:12 is gorgeous.
Shawn West Coast she is gorgeous
Very beautiful 😉
Very
Absolutely!
I looked for this comment
CAN WE TAKE A MINUTE TO APPRECIATE THE SISTER AT 1:12 ? SHE IS STUNNING!!!
Tanisha W yes!
she kinda look like reginae
She’s pretty!
😍
Very beautiful
The woman not letting her boyfriend see for a whole year is VERY INSECURE, seek help, this is not natural.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
cali tomms 💯
Sadly, you are right
cali tomms the fact that black women be ashamed to embrace what god gave them is a damn shame
@@sharnagrayson9649 except this was a white woman
That's why you wear little or natural makeup on the first date. Once they see you "full glam" they're going to look so confused when you show up w/o any makeup.
Perks of not wearing makeup lol , you don’t have to do the big reveal.
Same. I only wear lip stick
Ashelle Paul same
Exactly. Way too much pressure. I might put on some make up for special occasions, but that's it. I'm way more comfortable without it.
That's why you wear little or natural makeup on the first date. It's better for him to actually appreciate your natural beauty and surprise him with a full glam when yall are in a relationship.
Just say u don’t know how to do it
“ is this a baby or a relationship?” 😂
Darealashely 🤣
A valid questioneeeeeeee
😂😂😂love her!!!
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂
I see him without makeup! That stuff is supposed to enhance, not become me. If he can't handle my natural beauty, he doesn't need to be around me when I'm extraordinary. #grownboy vs #grownman
Jessie C Love facts
Hmmm...so a man is the only one that can toletate your natural self? Damn girl, u must have a lot of tree monsters
Well said.
Well said! It should enhance not become you!
Facts
When I was in my 20’s, I cared much about this stuff, but now in my 30’s: YOU GET WHAT YA SEE that day! Lol 🤷🏽♀️
Amor Antasia facts lol
Girl, yes!
Period!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same
“ I was running out of air, and I was like lord i gotta come up I’m about to die”😂
Darealashely 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I would love for my future wife or girlfriend to be confident in her skin to love herself and her natural hair and make up free face. I think all girls are beautiful make up is used to enhance something.
YES!!!! I used to wonder why is it that men look great without makeup but women look so boring and bland without it.. but really thats how the media and society had warped my brain. Soon enough I was floored by how much MORE gorgeous women looked without makeup and how sad and disappointed I felt when they covered up their beautiful face. I hate makeup. I think it should be left for special occasions. I love letting my natural face and skin breathe on the daily :) Its really great to see real men be supportive of this!
love this comment!!!
Yep ..when I was dating I didn't wear makeup on purpose ...women today wear too much makeup ..and the wigs and hair ....(in my humble opinion) plus to sleep with it on.......oh no...... hahahahahaha!!!!!
I have a bald since 1986...so I clearly and really don't get it ...LOL!!!!! Yea I am a Black bald woman since that time ...no lashes.no nails .,and I LOVE it and me.....
@@lipsohlips97 I agree with you 👏🏼👏🏼
You about da have 20,000 girlfriends. LOL.
I don’t wear makeup often, just special occasions. I feel more comfortable with a bare face. So when I first meet someone like on a date, I wear my essentials (mascara, gloss, brow gel) so they don’t see my “bad bitch” face too quick 😝 they gotta earn that
Lauryn H. Facts
YAAAAAS! that how i do it too
I do not wear makeup often either because... allergies. So normally he would have approached me without it and I most likely would go on the first date and many others without makeup also.
I don't wear makeup period...
Lauryn H. Me too! The true beauty is natural so if he doesn’t like my face next
It's better to show who you are at the start comfortably, than hide and let it go on for longer. If you arent confident in your looks work to love yourself before you show who you are.
The guy may feel deceived if he sees the real you and you dont look like you. If it were the other way round I would. If you are with someone who likes you for who you are it wouldn't be a problem for them to see you without makeup.
Jeannie hit it right on the nail with that walk away comment 😂😂😂
I'm married and its still awkard. I'm more scared that I'll queef if I stand up or something 😂
Shady cameraman: when Loni mentioned eyebrows, the cameraman showed a girl with thick brows but she is pretty though
VERY pretty
She’s hella pretty tho
But they don’t look unkempt
First thing I said when the cameraman showed her was she is gorgeous
KiwiRosa The Real camera people are always throwing shade
I LOVE Jeannie's energy, she has me hyped up watching a vid I can barely relate to and especially in these shitty times!!
Jeannie screaming in the background is exactly the best friend energy that every friend needs ❤
I believe in looking your best for the first few months but then getting comfortable in attire later. You should feel comfortable showing your bare face regardless though!
Amor Antasia You don’t need make up to look your “best.”
Gail A. Yes notice that I never mentioned the word makeup 😁
Amor Antasia Awesome!
He gon' meet me without make-up, because I want him to know just what he's getting.
Yep
Exactly
Yesss!!!!!
My husband met me without makeup
@@kudzyja4662 You must be extremely beautiful.
I don’t wear makeup, they get attracted to the real me from the start , so I don’t have to do all that lol . Love make up though just broke & don’t know how to apply 😂
If a guy really likes you, it don't matter what you look like.
Giiirl geeeet iiit 👏👏👏 love that confidence
@@sodvine3486 yes but initial looks do matter
Just wanna say you are the real you wih make up as well
Omg sis you are my soulmate 😂. I don't wanna use all that money for make-up (with my broke ass). Believe it or not but I have not used make-up for a whole year now. My skin is feeling amazing and healthy now.
If he can’t handle it... I say leave... I know I’m a dude that enjoys seeing a woman clean herself up and dress her very best and always put her best self forward in the outside world... but if I’m initiate with you... I want to see all of you and love all of you whether it’s with a wig , without a wig , no makeup , sweats , a bun and Vaseline on yourself... I don’t care... as long as we have a connection and you look good no matter if you’re dressed up or dressed down I wouldn’t care ❤️
u sound like u tryna simp for likes calm down
@@ikeplumo3377 you dont know what he is tryna do thats the thing about strangers and their intentions you dnt have the foggiest
Sabah Sabah imagine being called a simp for just loving a girl in her natural state... that toxicity and audacity 😭😂
Myronn Coleman nah u in the comments being extra asf so females can praise you 💀
@Galva Tron sit yo pathetic, whiny ass down
Omg who’s sis at 1:13 she’s so pretty 😍😍😍😍
Fadzai Chari yes! She is!
STUNNING
Jeannie is so cute, love her.
Lol I remember reading about a woman who did this, got married & the night of the honey moon the husband seen how she looked without makeup and divorced her 😭
I remember that. It was an African couple.
😭
AyeshéIsAlwaysLovely yesss it was lol
R u serious !!! Hes trash!!! 🤨
FURREAL NO WAY!!!!! YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME RIGHT!!???? THAT'S SO HIRRIBLE!!!! MAN I REALLY FEEL BAD FOR HER!!!!😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 THAT PROVES HE DID NOT LOVE HER!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡 IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!😤😤😤😤😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
I start off with no makeup, no extension , glasses on. I don’t like surprises and I want him to know what he’s getting. I actually get hit on more without the glam and that’s why I stopped investing in makeup n started investing into skincare.
Claire Joseph same here! I realized that when I wear my weaves, men ignore me😂 but when I wear my natural hair-middle part slick back in a bun omg men would stare and approach me🤦🏾♀️ I don’t even know how to put on makeup but I do loveeee skin care/fragrances
I'm shook bc u have the same name as my twin sister
@@sedsa097 lol Ayisyen love that name .
LONI HAD ME CRACKING TF UP 💀
girl at 1:12 looking like lemme take notes😂. but she is soooooo pretty 🥰
icy lyn gorgeous!
I had to rewind! 😍
That sister at 1:13 is gorgeous ❤ and that girl was me laughing at 3:10 like yeah we feel you loni
Jeannie and that walk away towards the end of this video has me DOUBLED OVER Y'ALL!🤣
Men needs to realize that there’s no such thing as a woman that looks hot at all times. and most of them don’t understand that so that’s why they never settle down because they chasing a fairy tale. when you choice a woman you have to take the good with the boring and the woman has to introducing herself has her natural self and when she is has a nice full beat so the guy can understand that he does has a fabulous looking girl but she not always going to look like that at all times. makeup is expensive and her skin needs to breath so she can maintain a clear skin.
Galva Tron then go be with men
@Galva Tron get yourself a man since they all look good without makwup
Eddie N what I am saying is that it’s RARE to find a woman that looks on point at all times. And that’s normal even guys don’t look their best at all times. and guys don’t understand that and they complain and curve decent good enough woman with beautiful personalities just because she didn’t look like she’s going to the red carpet every single time he sees her. And some grils look like a snack Natural in insta because she apply a little make up we just don’t notice it sometimes.
@Galva Tron lemme see your pic if you look like Trez song or Brad pitt then I will answer you
@Galva Tron I have never see handsome men bashing women except the dusty ugly mule face who alwaus has something to say
jeanie is adorable lmao
I'm sorry, I know we all have our own opinion, but this is sad that more then half of our woman feel the need to wait a whole year to show your beautiful face 😢 we need to learn self love I know easier said then done because I'm in process of learning myself, but ladies you are all beautiful!
Jeannie always gets the comedians at the table to laugh😂😂 I just love her
“if he can take that though...we be alright” 😂💀
Jeannie so extra Lool
Extra is fine.. but childlike.. weird
My boyfriend sees me 98% of the time without makeup. That other 2% is when I feel like it or for special occasion. I'd rather have my man love me and think I'm cute when I have no makeup on, natural hair, and in sweats and big T-shirts than trying to up keep myself all the time.
I’m showing up without makeup by the second date. 😂 I get so lazy when it comes to applying makeup.
Saaaaame! My issue isnt putting it on but taking the time to remove it all and then let's not forget you should clean them brushes as well. Too much and im lazy so I just go make up free usually and every so often pop on some lashes if I'm not in the mood to get my face together
It's sad that some women aren't confident without makeup. I'm almost scared to wear makeup because I don't want it to ruin my self-confidence.
The question is, Why do you care what others think ? It's not that deep. Wear makeup if you want to, If not...Just don't wear it. lol
@@xAgirlfriend It's not about what others think. That's why it's called SELF-confidence which is deep by definition. So I'm not going to just wear it if I want if it's going to affect my self-confidence.
Same! I don’t want to end up relying on makeup to feel beautiful. Plus it’s expensive haha
Some intelligence finally.
Exactly! I really agree with you bc I feel the same way too!
Jeannie is so happy and I love it 😍. You can tell... her happiness is booming!
Loni you were soooooooooo funny 😂
Jeannie Mai... That walk had me in stitches... I watched it like 500 times already... U are so hilarious
“If you don't want me at my good night, then you can't have me at my morning glory.”
- Kehlani
Jeannie was like her usual high energy self here!! It's good to see it come out again 😆
By the time I’m actually calling someone my “boyfriend” he’s already seen me without makeup. But personally I don’t wear makeup every day anyway.
Loni is killing me 😂😂😂😂😂
I went on my first date with my current boyfriend with NOT A STITCH of make up. You take it or leave it. That’s how I feel. 🤷🏻♀️
Jeannie is the best I love her, she's so funny when she gets excited
For some it’s make up, for others it’s weave, and then very few don’t care.
🙌...don't care over here lol
It could be both
This was the FUNNIEST that I’ve ever heard Loni!!!! Lmaoooo that story was hilarious!!!!
Honestly I think every man deserves to see what his girlfriend really looks like. And guess what if he dumps you because he doesn’t like what you really look like than that’s not real love and he doesn’t deserve you.
TREEMONSTERISM just Killed me!! 😂😂 OMG I cannot stop laughing mm-mm too good 😂😂😂😂
1:12 She is gorgeous with that Beautiful smile 😍❤️😍
Jeannie is too funny with her reactions 😂😂
I want a man to see me without makeup from the get go. He should know ME before we even date. THEN when I do put make up and hair on... he'll appreciate the enhancement more.
This segment was hilarious! Loni’s bahama story was hilarious af. I can’t wait to read her book too! Ugh I’m obsess with them all!
This Girl Chat was Hilarious
It's weird for my boyfriend to see me WITH makeup, and that's mascara and bb cream under my eyes. Hahhahah this is hilarious to me . Anyways. How's quarantine going for y'all?
Lol. Girl, it's going! This quarantine is something else. That is cool that you are comfortable with your own skin. The corona really tests what I say I believe. I am reminded that while these times are uncertain, I am still the daughter of God. God is with me. Each day is an opportunity and reminder to trust God. Breathe. It's going to be ok. You?
😂 same!
I’m the exact same 🤣
We are all on youtube😂😂😂
@@halie8386 Amen❗I love ❤ God so much 😊👍🏾
*i rarely wear makeup...*
*if i don’t feel like putting it on,*
*i won’t. these stats are just sad.*
*love yourselves, folks*
Sista with the blond hair was feeling her moment of fame. Yassss girl I see you! 💛🙋🏿♀️
I like loni in this segment. She was definitely keeping it reaaal!
My boyfriend met me with no makeup so this isn't applicable to me. The days I do wear makeup it isn't heavy. I think we as women need to be comfortable in our skin. This doesn't mean that we can't wear heavy makeup but on the days we don't we should be just as confident.
1:51😂😂😂 Adrienne saying that twice like it was suppose to be funny the 2nd time she said it lol. I love her though, I do that all the time
Adrienne slays every day with her fashion styles. Loni's story made my day
My fiancee has ALWAYS seen me without makeup since the very beginning. I go barefaced more often than I wear makeup. Get a man who loves you for YOU.
I met my man at the gym where I had on ZERO Makeup, hair is dis-shovel, and I am sweaty. In all actuality, he thought how hard I was working out was attractive and that's why he approached me! We've been together ever since (7 years). I absolutely LOVE makeup, but I think it's unhealthy to think you cannot present yourself without it, especially when you're in a relationship. My man is not perfect, so why am I spending tooth and nail to create this image that I am??
You guys killlllll me 🤣🤣❤️
Loni has me dying with her story! 😂 she’s so funny!! 😂😌 ugh please stay like this
This would explain why the makeup industry makes billions off sad insecure women!🙄
Adrienne wears alot of make-up
I have a different take on this topic: You don’t have to be sad or insecure to wear makeup. Just like you don’t have to be sad or insecure to wear nail polish, shave your legs, shave your armpits or wear a nice dress. Women throughout history have always done things to their appearance to make themselves stand out. Makeup, perfume, expensive clothes, jewelry, (even puppies) are all accessories we women wear to indicate status, express our culture, indicate our sexual orientation, and/or attract a high quality mate.
Chocolate Sis with the short blonde cut is so pretty!
Being in my late 20's, I stopped wearing makeup.
I love when loni takes the rol of the conversation, she's sooo accurate
It's funny how they highlighted Loni's wig when every single one of the ladies on the panel is wearing Magic Hair... If I like a man, I make sure that he sees me without a drop of make-up by the third date. If you wait too long, he will get used to seeing you all made up, and no matter how beautiful you are naturally, you will look strange to him. When I go on my all-natural date, I make sure that my real hair is fabulous, my eyebrows are brushed and smoothed, and thank goodness my eyelashes are as long as most falsies. If a man does not like what he see when he sees me au natural, then he wasn't meant for me anyway...
I think 1st date impressions are important. If you look on point with your OOTD and makeup, it shows you’re really putting effort into the date and you value the occasion
I kinda feel like it's an insecure move for a woman not to let their boyfriend and/or husband without makeup from the jump. It's almost like there's a sense of doubt for a lot women if they let their significant other see the "real" them.
lol I had a wig when I met my husband and he didnt know it wasn’t my real hair for about 3/4 months or so.. smh he’s white so I was like scared of his reaction. I was the first black girl he’d ever dated let’s just say he knows a lot more about black culture and many ways we can do our hair ! and loves my natural hair ❤️ I also always did my eyebrows and would wake up before he did to do them bc I used to be super insecure about them bc they are basic non-existent! we’re expecting baby #1 and I rock that natural look ALL the time!
The lady shown on 1:13 is GORGEOUS!!
Natural beauty is the best. No makeup cuz that is your new face.
1:12 she is gorgeous
Doesn't listen to Loni talk about James and how happy she is warm your heart. ❤
Damn, my man met me with no makeup and I was super sick, and he STILL came up to me when we met at In-n-Out. We've been together over a year now lol
Thank you for the honesty Loni 💕💕
this is so different from my country we usually walk and do everything without make up unless we go to parties and it depends on which party and some don’t care about parties and maybe status mostly celebrities and even them sometimes don’t wear make up
Well when I met the man who eventually became my husband, I was in my natural hair season. It was caught in one with a little afro bun, minimal makeup and yes my dressing was lit and I caught his eyes. Whenever I was to see him I'd make sure I had on makeup, braids/ weave/extensions etc and though he thinks I'm beautiful, he always compliments my natural look. It is sad that many women don't see themselves as beautiful as they are without the added stuff.
This is so sad honestly
Yep
@૨σყαℓ ƭεε 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 preach!
@૨σყαℓ ƭεε its true
Same here. Happily married for 2 years. No problems whatsoever.
My husband even told me to shave whenever I want too. I stopped last year December... Lol. He didn't flinch one bit 👍🏾😂
#hairyasaspider 😆
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First off...I am NO tree monster without makeup. I keep my skin looking good. I don't know what Loni talking about. Makeup should only enhance your beauty not turn you into a whole new person. TF!
Waiting a whole year to show the real you? Nah lol
BritBrit Nicole right like wtf that soo extra even a month is to long
Selena Jackson yeah lol that’s weird
Thank you Loni for keep it REAL 😂
My skincare is on point so I remove my makeup by the second outing if I started with any at all. I can’t believe there are women who wait that lol I’m more embarrassed about my bonnet and my ashy pruny skin after I soak in the tub for too long 😂😂
Loni hasn’t said anything this funny in so long 😂😂😩🤣
Let him see you without makeup as soon as possible so you can find out quickly what kind of a person he is, and your time isn't wasted. If he has a problem...NEXT.
OMG! My exes and my fiancé saw me without makeup even before we were in a relationship. Jeannie's walk after sex also shows insecurity... I feel sad that so many women feel so insecure about themselves 🙁
As someone who Is 18 and NEVER WEARS makeup I think this is ridiculous !!!!!!!! I've literally never worn makeup because I've fallen in love with my natural beauty, I love my natural self too much to cover it up, I'll probably start wearing make up at 25 for professional settings but I honestly think this is ridiculous😕😕
Just say u can’t do makeup and go
@@camille98tt go where?
The shock by the blonde lady in audience threw me into😂😂😂😂😂
1:13 Pure Perfection🤎😍🤍
Men don't need makeup to look good because they're not insecure children with superficial priorities.
Hi ladies, I'm tamara from Jamaica and I love watching the real, I have a mole too.
You do not know how much I missed loni saying "treemonster" 😂💀
They always exaggerate. None of these women are THAT ugly without makeup come on.
This feels like the old THE REAL. Lighter. Happier. IDK, it was nice to smile & laugh throughout an entire clip 🙂
I remember guys drooling over tyra banks all the time; but whenever we saw her she was always made up. After years of seeing her like that, when we actually saw her without make up (which she was still pretty by the way) we were like dang she's hurt. That's from only seeing perfection for years, so that's what was expected even though it was unrealistic. I would say, let the dude see you early without make up so you don't create a false expectation.
I died of laughing when loni told her story. And the woman at 1:12 she is gorgeous. And I never understood to why some women don't feel conformable without makeup