My red flag was a guy who told me he enjoys spending time with his family (which I found endearing since I'd picture him with his parents and siblings etc) only to learn 6 months later that he had 2 kids and that's the family he was referring to. 🤣 🤣 🤣 Nothing wrong with kids but don't keep them a secret like it's a bad thing!
Ti. Sonders if you don't tell me about your children upfront I'm gonna automatically assume you're a terrible father. My children would be the first thing I'd mention, seeing as that I'd love them tremendously.
my boyfriend didn't tell me about his kids until a couple weeks of us talking. he has had bad experience with other women just being freaked out by it and leaving him. I understood his reasoning I love kids and I've met them. but six months? damn yea that doesn't give the guy a good impression if he is waiting that long to mention any kids he may have.
no that's not something I ask on the first date. I did that once and the guy had lost his son like six months before and was still a sore subject to talk about for him. so now I wait. but six months is ridiculous.
Erica Aguilar check out psych2go video on it but it's basically when someone tries to manipulate you psychologically to question your own sanity and if your perception is accurate.
That's what I was thinking too, the man probably didn't care, she might have felt judged over nothing. I don't drink (at all, since she thinks there's a difference), and it happens with some of my friends who do drink.They sometimes think I'd judge them, they won't drink if it's only one of them and me, etc... When I really don't care.
Raff J yeah but remember he didn't say anything to her. she just assumed. im saying Adrienne couldve totally misinterpreted his body language because she feels like once someone doesn't drink they see ppl who do as 'loose' or bad.
I agree….I don't drink either but I don't think it's a problem unless they are unable to drink responsibly and treat others appropriately when they've had something to drink……I don't think a person is of faulty character just because they drink…..I don't like how she tried to impose her will onto him by saying, "Oh, I thought for sure he'd have a drink with me on New Year's and then she held it against him when he didn't……Why would you think he'd have a drink with you? The man told you he didn't drink…….So just pour him some sparkling cider and keep it moving…... Sometimes people that may be experiencing an attack of conscience when it comes to their own behavior like to make it seem as though others are criticizing them when in reality that person doesn't care but God is dealing with your conscience about it….It seems like seeing a person that was sober of mind all the time made her feel embarrassed so she got upset with him….If you drink you drink, but that doesn't mean a person is not going to notice how often you drink….It also doesn't mean that they are going to enjoy carrying you home in stupor multiple times a week……. To Jeannie's point, I appreciate the consideration I guess but I don't think a person that drinks needs to ask my permission before they drink…..Like, it's fine if you're legal, I don't care but be safe and remember you're driving me home lol (I am physically impaired and don't have a license)
Shéhérazade Halloumi Thats when you break the ice and tell them YO IF YOU'RE THINKING IM JUDGING YOU, I'M NOT, SO DRINK AND STOP WORRYING SO MUCH,. THERE PEOPLE ITS THAT SIMPLE
marykacyy true, that's what I personally do when the person asks me. But some people won't tell you if they feel judged, maybe Adrienne didn't say anything.
I honestly think if you can't afford to be in a relationship, don't get into one. Wait until you're financially stable. It doesn't make sense when the reasons you cant see each other is because you can't pay for transport or you can't pay for the date. I'm not saying the guy should pay all the time, but now he's making the girl (jeannie) pay all the time and thats not fair. There is a time and place for everything, patience is the key.
just playing devils advocate here but there are many relationships where the guy pays for everything all the way through their dating. i know girls that were broke not even out of college yet and had an extravagant wedding because their dude was like way older and had his career on point. dont you think its a double standard when the girl doesnt want to pay for dates? but tbh jeanie shouldve had that conversation with him.
Brittany Burley They aren't always bad apples, sometimes their just not the one for you. I had a couple great boyfriends that I'm sure will make a woman very happy someday but they just weren't the one for me.
i don't know, i knew a narcissist that tried very hard to show me all the charity he did and how he treated people who worked for him.. and man was he the definition of a narcissist. my worst nightmare
Possessive, Anger issues, Emotionally/physically abusive, Disrespectful, heavy drinker etc. Stay away. It will get worse don't give second chances. Biggest lie these kind men ever say is "I will change". Chances shouldn't exist when they say those words cause they never will change most times
Yessssssssss. I dated a guy, (now my childs father) and he would tell me bad things, but I stayed because he was HONEST in the beginning. He was honest about cheating, lying to women in his past, having babies, etc etc... LMFAO then everything he was honest about, he done to ME !!!! Now when I look back, just because someone is honest with you, ummm.......doesn't mean you should accept it !!!!!!!!!!! Ladies please learn from my mistakes and LISTEN to your gut and the red flags before you get tied to him forever !!!!
Shai's Time my older colleague told me to pay attention to everything a man tells you the first week of dating him, because he will unknowingly reveal all his flaws.
I see no problem with dating someone who doesn't have money maybe if you two are young i.e college, such as myself. The problem comes up when youre older maybe late 20's and the dude doesn't have money and you're always paying. Real relationships are give and take not take, take, take, from either side, male or female.
Damn girl you're one of the few that actual make sense in the comments section. Agree 💯. When I dated my man he doesn't have money but that's cuz he was in the military. But now he's done with his enlistment he has full time job whilst studying. We used to go dutch when we go out now he pays. I'm proud that he sees the need to upgrade himself and not stay stagnant
Seems more like she judging him thinking he could do it once blue moon or something. I've never drank because alcoholism runs in my family. I didn't care if other people drank but got irritated that I would get asked all time how bout for special occasion or such. I said didn't drink didn't ask you not to you do you and let me do me.
+Bruh well to much accessories become a little tacky and less appealing. You can be beautiful, but if you are dressed horrible or have every accessory it make you less cute. My eyes are wonderful and it's my best and only accessory that I need
Adrienne had me laughin BUT even she shouldn't encourage women to date BROKE MEN. Especially since she bought her ex boyfriend a car and didn't get the car back when they Broke up. This is no shade to her at all but she needs to encourage women to MARRY UP. That experience alone SPEAKS VOLUMES!
I think she meant in on a general way of thinking. You won't break up with a man because he's broke. You're only gonna break up with him if he doesn't do anything about it. If you're both 19 and struggling, you can build something with him, or help/watch him build his own thing
Ms. Beautiful maybe, it's a case by case situation, and I guess that the audience reaction made her laugh and react because they didn't even hesitate, they said they wouldn't date a broke man at all, basically. But yes, it depends.
Ms. Beautiful Yes and no to marrying men with money. Men with lots of money have lots of options. Financial security is nice, but it may not be worth the drama.
Ms. Beautiful ugh your shallow, gold digging ass is commenting all over the place in this video. Pipe down. Also, going by your sick logic, men should never be encouraged to marry ugly/fat/old women.
My ex did not take me out, was controlling, mean and emotionally abusive. Ladies, GET OUT IF/WHEN you can. For your safety. Also, we not dating broke men in 2017 🙅🏾
I'll never forget what a science teacher in middle school told me about my 8th grade boyfriend. It was about how "cute" girls thought it was for their boyfriend to leave their class early to always wait for her at the door after every class, but how it was disguising possessive behavior! If your boyfriend's there, he won't worry about you talking to anyone else... She told me as if it were in general, but she was completely right. It stuck with me 15 years later so now any time i see something cute like that i'm thinking, mhmmmm...lol.
Collecting this Lenny tea and shade like Pokemon cards...🐸☕️ She always made it seem like their relationship was so perf...kinda like she does now with Chubby Hubby... #interesting
Girly Fab how was she fake? Every relationship has struggles or is she supposed to get on here every week and Bitch and complain about her man? I never once recall her pretending their relationship was perfect, that was YOUR insecure ass assumption. Gurl bye
Top 5 things to ask on a 1st date: 1. Do you have kids? 2. What do you do for a living? 3. When was your last relationship and how long did it last? 4. Have you ever been married? 5. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Ask all these question on the first date so you an see if the person matches up to your standards. People wait way TOO long and find out something that is a DEALBREAKER but they are too emotionally attached to breakup.
The Real has the same audience as they did in the Girl Chat when they discussed a guy using coupons on a date, because I see the same guy in the audience that ROASTED LONI for being single. Lol
I don't care, I feel Jeanie. Men require so much from women. So, why can't we have requirements? We have to look like what they want and 2. we have to behave according to societies standards; standards they don't have to live up to. So, if a woman doesn't want a broke guy, what's the big deal? Men and women set standards for each other. You can't have standards for women, but not expect us to have any for men.
+ceecee876 A groupon or coupon while eating out is different from someone always sliding you the check and they're not offering or providing anything to the date. They're freeloading off of you. That's what Jeannie was talking about here. It's one thing to date on a budget, I understand that, but when someone low key freeloads off of you that's a red flag. Just say you can't afford whatever it is. I can compromise and improvise then. If you're honest about it that's even better.
Tiffany Rayne yes but before she got to the check part she did note that they would go on dates during happy hour or have some 2 for 1 deals which is why I made my comment
yes i noticed that too! n the groupon dating she even talked about a cute story about 2 couples who were cheap together n end up in good life! i guess she cant handle cheap guy but she doesn't judge people who are!
My husband doesnt drink. I LOVE it. He doesnt judge me. He loves it when I drink because I relax from work and just let go. Which when you remember your life goals is hard to do.
Depends on the friend. I have a friend that doesn’t drink (unless it’s a RARE thing and he takes maybe a sip) and he is happy to be the driver and loves hanging out with us and always loves the laughs that we give him lol so If they are a real friend they aren’t gonna judge and their gonna enjoy you having a good time!
I know this isn't related to the segment but, when will we see Adrienne and Tamera get back into acting? Cheetah girls and twitches was my childhooddd and I would love to see them in more movies/shows
One time a guy said he was going to take me out to eat and he seemed nice. He took me to homeless shelter soup kitchen. I left immediately. He wasn't homeless he just wanted to get us free food. No thanks
They became the flags, they hated J: cheap. Tam: home body. Loni: cheater/ sex addict. Ade: always w/ a drink. Side note: Why loni wearing, a back ward clip. Leave that style to j. (17
I like Jeanie’s story. It makes sense. You don’t want to get stuck with the bill every time. That gets annoying and makes you wonder if they’re only going out with you because you have money.
Haha how no one clapped for Adrienne! I was like bish, what u talking about! Take several seats, hunty. Not everybody likes to drink, for me alcohole tasts lile burning water. I can live with out it. Some men really dislike if a woman smokes or drinks a lot, for me its not feminine. Its againgst their culture and belief. But I dont get why the man was with her to begin with.
I don't drink, 2 reasons; My great grandpa , grandpa, uncles, dad, and cousins all became alcoholics, I've been christian for 4 years and decided to abstain from it. My dad has 30+ years with not even a sip, and he instilled in me great moral values. I don't judge people who drink, if I know my friends are going to be drinking, I choose to stay behind because I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable or judged, vice versa.
I have a tendency to attract cheap men. One made a comment about hoping the restaurant would comp our bill on our first date. Another guy made a similar comment after the power went out. Another guy took me out for coffee on our first date. This other guy informed me that he "forgot" his wallet when we had planned this date a week in advance.🙄 Wtf! Don't date, if you're broke!
I don't drink (never have), I absolutely HATE when people ask "Do you mind if I drink?" or try to get me to drink so they would feel comfortable. I could careless what's in your cup/glass, and you shouldn't care what's in mine...do you boo!! :)
A red flag is a guy that not only hears what you’re saying, but actually listens to and acknowledges it. A guy that talks over you or is already thinking of what he’s going to say while you’re talking is a no go for me.
Adrienne says 'it only works if both roll like that". Remember when Tamera called Tamar out for not inviting her when when goes out and Tay Tay said it was because Tamera doesn't like hard-drinking and everybody got upset at Tamar? Interesting....
I used to think when a guy questions all the stuff you do is because they care and want to try to get to know you. Sometimes it is because of insecurities. For example, he would ask 'how come you always go to karate on Friday?' I thought he wanted to know why I'm so passionate about it. Later on I found out he thought I had another guy that I saw on Fridays.
I saw a red flag on my first date with my ex. I'm from NY he's not. He's from Atlanta. But he moved to Ny and I remember he got like slightly frustrated at the fact that ppl were bumping into him in the city and I sorta looked at him sideways kinda cause I'm just like it's no big deal that's gonna happen a lot. As time went on I realize he just has a short fuse and a slight temper. Tried to overlook it but he would just get upset and frustrated at the slightest things. And with that came with a slick mouth. Another red flag he told me when he can't deal sometimes he drinks himself until he passes out. I've never witness a passed out situation but I've witnessed him drunk where he was obnoxious. I spoke to him about at the time and I said that was embarrassing and to make sure that doesn't happen again and instead talk about it. Never really happened again. As time went on we spend time together and I actually grew to love him but there's is just some things you cant overlook anymore and you think in due time it will change or you'll be the person to change them. Some ppl are just set in their ways and he's one of them. Now we're over. Thank God!
Tam, I'm a home-buddy too and I had exactly the same experience as you. It went for a month or so I guess and I decided to end it because really, it was boring already. I love staying at home, yes but I deserve better.
Adrienne so cute: "I would show you off girl" 👌🏽 So sweet I love their friendship 💯
Indi jay she's such a warm sweet person...I'd love to have a friend like that
Indi jay I think Tamera and Adrienne got a thang going on. they always flirting
Jassy how old are you? Playfully flirting don’t mean y’all got anything going on
Bambi exactly
My red flag was a guy who told me he enjoys spending time with his family (which I found endearing since I'd picture him with his parents and siblings etc) only to learn 6 months later that he had 2 kids and that's the family he was referring to. 🤣 🤣 🤣 Nothing wrong with kids but don't keep them a secret like it's a bad thing!
Ti. Sonders if you don't tell me about your children upfront I'm gonna automatically assume you're a terrible father. My children would be the first thing I'd mention, seeing as that I'd love them tremendously.
my boyfriend didn't tell me about his kids until a couple weeks of us talking. he has had bad experience with other women just being freaked out by it and leaving him. I understood his reasoning I love kids and I've met them. but six months? damn yea that doesn't give the guy a good impression if he is waiting that long to mention any kids he may have.
You shouldn't wait until he tells you. Isn't that one of the things you ask a guy on the first date?? Commonsense!!!
no that's not something I ask on the first date. I did that once and the guy had lost his son like six months before and was still a sore subject to talk about for him. so now I wait. but six months is ridiculous.
MissTinasheXO looooooooooool
Anyone who keeps chipping at your self-esteem and is always telling your not good enough.
Yes! Emotionally abusive men major red flag
"A man will only tear down a woman if she's too good for him"
Indi jay Say it louder!
Joyce Graham Amen!! Preach!! 💯💯💯💯
A red flag was when a man told me he had anger issues. Never went out with him again lol.
Grace Hun //goood for you anger issues are deadly sometimes
I’m sorry this made me laugh lmao but good move
That is the number one red flag that I look for in a man. I don't have time for that mess.
Same and I witnessed them on an innocent cashier on that date lmao
@@Ni.answers scary
Did Jeannie lend Loni her hair accessories lmao
THEY DID HER WRONG ,IT LOOKS SO AWAKWARD
i actually like it!
WELL HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS
shamimaA I thought the exact same thing! Lol
shamimaA bruh i know I'm not the only 1 that notice that
one Red Flag is if they clearly aren't interested in you but you keep wasting YOUR precious time to get them to like you
Myronn Coleman OKAY!
Myronn Coleman amen
Yes
Yesssss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Also men can sense that pretty easily and it only makes you seem easy/ desperate, even if you aren't
I dated a guy that used to spend lots of money on me, it was lovely. Then he ran out of money...
London In Style lmfao
London In Style lmfao 💀
London In Style lol omg this made me spit out my food
The end. 💀
& then you ran out on his dumbass 👏🏾
I'm single af but I'll comment on how Jeannie looks like a baby pink genie so cute
Summer K ^^^^ same
True she always looks gorgeous😍😍
Summer K with edge lol
Summer K but when I said she looks like a genie 🤔 I got on "HIT REPLY"
Kamal Morales it's my dream to be on 'Hit Reply' or We read you 😂😂😂
Any kind of controlling, abusive or gaslighting behaviour.
Indi jay what is gas lighting? I've heard this term before...
Erica Aguilar check out psych2go video on it but it's basically when someone tries to manipulate you psychologically to question your own sanity and if your perception is accurate.
" Wait a minute I'm better than this " Tam this makes me to think twice about my life. 100 % always remember this . Thank you.
I think Adrienne may have been insecure...he may have been trying to stay sober or had a traumatic past with alcoholism
That's what I was thinking too, the man probably didn't care, she might have felt judged over nothing. I don't drink (at all, since she thinks there's a difference), and it happens with some of my friends who do drink.They sometimes think I'd judge them, they won't drink if it's only one of them and me, etc... When I really don't care.
Raff J yeah but remember he didn't say anything to her. she just assumed. im saying Adrienne couldve totally misinterpreted his body language because she feels like once someone doesn't drink they see ppl who do as 'loose' or bad.
I agree….I don't drink either but I don't think it's a problem unless they are unable to drink responsibly and treat others appropriately when they've had something to drink……I don't think a person is of faulty character just because they drink…..I don't like how she tried to impose her will onto him by saying, "Oh, I thought for sure he'd have a drink with me on New Year's and then she held it against him when he didn't……Why would you think he'd have a drink with you? The man told you he didn't drink…….So just pour him some sparkling cider and keep it moving…...
Sometimes people that may be experiencing an attack of conscience when it comes to their own behavior like to make it seem as though others are criticizing them when in reality that person doesn't care but God is dealing with your conscience about it….It seems like seeing a person that was sober of mind all the time made her feel embarrassed so she got upset with him….If you drink you drink, but that doesn't mean a person is not going to notice how often you drink….It also doesn't mean that they are going to enjoy carrying you home in stupor multiple times a week…….
To Jeannie's point, I appreciate the consideration I guess but I don't think a person that drinks needs to ask my permission before they drink…..Like, it's fine if you're legal, I don't care but be safe and remember you're driving me home lol (I am physically impaired and don't have a license)
Shéhérazade Halloumi Thats when you break the ice and tell them YO IF YOU'RE THINKING IM JUDGING YOU, I'M NOT, SO DRINK AND STOP WORRYING SO MUCH,. THERE PEOPLE ITS THAT SIMPLE
marykacyy true, that's what I personally do when the person asks me. But some people won't tell you if they feel judged, maybe Adrienne didn't say anything.
4:18 Loni is thinking up her lie
I cringe every time Loni starts to share one of her stories because they always sound so fake and I never believe them
pwincesstrix 😂😂
so shady !
LMFAOOO LITERALLY THO
At this point the producers need to sit her down and talk to her. She's out here embarrassing herself !
A broke guy will start asking you for money when he gets comfortable so you have to avoid them. No!
Sevipants19 yeeeees they do can you buy me smokes etc
true, been there
Exactly smh
I honestly think if you can't afford to be in a relationship, don't get into one. Wait until you're financially stable. It doesn't make sense when the reasons you cant see each other is because you can't pay for transport or you can't pay for the date. I'm not saying the guy should pay all the time, but now he's making the girl (jeannie) pay all the time and thats not fair. There is a time and place for everything, patience is the key.
just playing devils advocate here but there are many relationships where the guy pays for everything all the way through their dating. i know girls that were broke not even out of college yet and had an extravagant wedding because their dude was like way older and had his career on point. dont you think its a double standard when the girl doesnt want to pay for dates? but tbh jeanie shouldve had that conversation with him.
its bad all round
rawwithnature_ *if you're a *woman* and you can't afford to be in a relationship don't get into one. There, I fixed it for you 🙃
No actually it was perfectly fine the first time, if you're a man or a woman and can't afford to be in a relationship don't be in one. I
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Is it better to just stay single...? cause all these bad apples before getting a good one seems so draining, exhausting and down right unmotivating. 😕
Brittany Burley They aren't always bad apples, sometimes their just not the one for you. I had a couple great boyfriends that I'm sure will make a woman very happy someday but they just weren't the one for me.
Brittany Burley yeah it’s better
Or maybe Because you were too quick to bite on those apples.next time check it if its rotten or not.
I feel you
Exactly
1. how he treats those who service him
If my man is not polite or cannot empathize - BOII BYYEE
i don't know, i knew a narcissist that tried very hard to show me all the charity he did and how he treated people who worked for him.. and man was he the definition of a narcissist. my worst nightmare
How he treats service workers matters
Tamera was all of us during Loni's lie, whoops, I meant story. She was like "Ah ok, got it." 😂
Dee Jay 😂
Lmfaoo
Dee Jay 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm dead
I thought the same thing! she was like : " here comes another lie !!!"
Possessive, Anger issues, Emotionally/physically abusive, Disrespectful, heavy drinker etc. Stay away. It will get worse don't give second chances. Biggest lie these kind men ever say is "I will change". Chances shouldn't exist when they say those words cause they never will change most times
in my dating days, a red flag was a guy was only available at night... no bueno!
Love how jeanie had her jeanie style hair
Yessssssssss. I dated a guy, (now my childs father) and he would tell me bad things, but I stayed because he was HONEST in the beginning. He was honest about cheating, lying to women in his past, having babies, etc etc... LMFAO then everything he was honest about, he done to ME !!!! Now when I look back, just because someone is honest with you, ummm.......doesn't mean you should accept it !!!!!!!!!!! Ladies please learn from my mistakes and LISTEN to your gut and the red flags before you get tied to him forever !!!!
Shai's Time my older colleague told me to pay attention to everything a man tells you the first week of dating him, because he will unknowingly reveal all his flaws.
Kim Moss Where were you when I needed you lol I'm jk but I wish I would of known that last year. Lol or ever I guess..
That's sound advice.
I see no problem with dating someone who doesn't have money maybe if you two are young i.e college, such as myself. The problem comes up when youre older maybe late 20's and the dude doesn't have money and you're always paying. Real relationships are give and take not take, take, take, from either side, male or female.
Chantal XO very true!
Damn girl you're one of the few that actual make sense in the comments section. Agree 💯. When I dated my man he doesn't have money but that's cuz he was in the military. But now he's done with his enlistment he has full time job whilst studying. We used to go dutch when we go out now he pays. I'm proud that he sees the need to upgrade himself and not stay stagnant
Tellys Thoughts
Tell it, Telly!
Tellys Thoughts 💭 you’re so wise ☺️
lol loni and her stories. she should look back at these episodes and see the faces they be making when she telling her story lol
not drinking is not a flaw A!
daniellelove not a red flag
she was just saying that it would be really awkward when she drank around him, because she was being judged.
If he just doesn’t drink is ok. I think it was more that if he judges you when you drink, that’s not ok.
I thought exactly the same!
Seems more like she judging him thinking he could do it once blue moon or something. I've never drank because alcoholism runs in my family. I didn't care if other people drank but got irritated that I would get asked all time how bout for special occasion or such. I said didn't drink didn't ask you not to you do you and let me do me.
Tamera looks on point 👌
I'm kinda fed up with Loni's lies 😑
Naïr Nougy Me too 🙄
Naïr Nougy same
Naïr Nougy 😂 haha That story was kinda fishy
She's always with guys 🤔😂
what does she have to be lying because shes overweight and no wants her???? help me understand
Lol I love the way Adrienne calls out the audience😂😂
Loni is looking so beautiful theses days
Except for the hair thingis
Javi Ruiz so hair pins are making her look less beautiful? please hush.
Javi Ruiz I didn't know bobby pins could make someone look less beautiful... 😕 what kind of eyes do you have sir? 🤔
+Bruh well to much accessories become a little tacky and less appealing. You can be beautiful, but if you are dressed horrible or have every accessory it make you less cute. My eyes are wonderful and it's my best and only accessory that I need
i can't even take loni seriously
Mina In Japan You don't sound mean because I feel the same way about her.
Derane' Mone' she never usually joins in on these relationship discussions like she did today
Good cause most of the time she's lying, just like in this video
Mina In Japan she has exaggerated cries sometimes too
was I the only one dying laughing lmao. all I had going through my head was loni you a damn lie 😂
The end when Loni couldn't even take her own lie of a story seriously lol.
Adrienne had me laughin BUT even she shouldn't encourage women to date BROKE MEN. Especially since she bought her ex boyfriend a car and didn't get the car back when they Broke up. This is no shade to her at all but she needs to encourage women to MARRY UP. That experience alone SPEAKS VOLUMES!
I think she meant in on a general way of thinking. You won't break up with a man because he's broke. You're only gonna break up with him if he doesn't do anything about it. If you're both 19 and struggling, you can build something with him, or help/watch him build his own thing
Yeah if a young girl is 19 that's possible. That needs to come to a close when a women is 24-25 years old though.
Ms. Beautiful maybe, it's a case by case situation, and I guess that the audience reaction made her laugh and react because they didn't even hesitate, they said they wouldn't date a broke man at all, basically. But yes, it depends.
Ms. Beautiful Yes and no to marrying men with money. Men with lots of money have lots of options. Financial security is nice, but it may not be worth the drama.
Ms. Beautiful ugh your shallow, gold digging ass is commenting all over the place in this video. Pipe down. Also, going by your sick logic, men should never be encouraged to marry ugly/fat/old women.
I love reading comments about Loni lying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
JackGeezy85 sadly I do too 🙊🙉🙈
"She meant the urge, not that she needs a cream!" I DIED. 😂
Jeannie's hair is kind of reminding me of "I dream of Jeanie"💖 I love it
nicki giramata
Jeannie has said that her mother named her after Jeannie from Tv's "I Dream of Jeannie". 😊
Loni looks amazing. The hair and the makeup are on point. I think she need to give those clips back to Jeanie though.
My ex did not take me out, was controlling, mean and emotionally abusive. Ladies, GET OUT IF/WHEN you can. For your safety. Also, we not dating broke men in 2017 🙅🏾
I am loving Tam Tam's lip color today! Glossy and such a beautiful color! ❤
I'll never forget what a science teacher in middle school told me about my 8th grade boyfriend. It was about how "cute" girls thought it was for their boyfriend to leave their class early to always wait for her at the door after every class, but how it was disguising possessive behavior! If your boyfriend's there, he won't worry about you talking to anyone else... She told me as if it were in general, but she was completely right. It stuck with me 15 years later so now any time i see something cute like that i'm thinking, mhmmmm...lol.
I LOVE it ! Especially when Jeannie talks like Mama Mai ! So funny
Loni:"I value you"
I'm on the floor 😭😭😭
💀💀💀💀💀 I always stumble upon this episode and it cracks me up every time. How Loni reacted to Jeannie’s story
Jeannie was trying to rush Adrienne at 1:44. "Yes Yes...One time" Lmao.
Loni's makeup is ON POINT here! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A flirting with Tam is too cute ❤
4:19 Loni formulating another lie... i mean story
Lmfao
Why does everyone always think she's lying? What started this??
Collecting this Lenny tea and shade like Pokemon cards...🐸☕️
She always made it seem like their relationship was so perf...kinda like she does now with Chubby Hubby... #interesting
Girly Fab Chubby Hubby?!!! I shouldn't laugh but I couldn't help it!!! 😂
I stole it from somebody on here...HILARIOUS!
Girly Fab If you aren't trying to make the best of the relationship while you're actually in it still what's the fucking point?
lady rodriguez I didn't say she wasn't trying to make the best of it. I said she was being fake. It's possible to do both...
Girly Fab how was she fake? Every relationship has struggles or is she supposed to get on here every week and Bitch and complain about her man? I never once recall her pretending their relationship was perfect, that was YOUR insecure ass assumption. Gurl bye
Top 5 things to ask on a 1st date:
1. Do you have kids?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. When was your last relationship and how long did it last?
4. Have you ever been married?
5. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
Ask all these question on the first date so you an see if the person matches up to your standards. People wait way TOO long and find out something that is a DEALBREAKER but they are too emotionally attached to breakup.
Adrienne saying a man not drinking is a red flag😩 WOW!
“You confused. He not cheap...he broke.”😂😂😂
I really believe Adrienne was talking about Lenny. She used to mention that he doesn't drink.
I dont drink. I have my own vices. But if you hang with me, you wont even realize it. Whatever drunk level you're at, I can meet it sober
I thought that Loni stopped telling fake story's?
*stories
NYCzora whatever, I'm dutch. English ain't my first language, but you know what I meant with "story's".
Why does everyone always think she's lying? What started this??
Lonni you made my day when you said, after months it started itching😂😂😂😂
Did Jeannie do Loni's hair today? lol
I can relate to Tamera's story.....
My whole past relationship was a giant red flag 🚩. I'm glad I dodged that bullet.
Loni's laugh🤣🤣
The Real has the same audience as they did in the Girl Chat when they discussed a guy using coupons on a date, because I see the same guy in the audience that ROASTED LONI for being single. Lol
Ms. Beautiful Maybe they come for the whole week? I did notice they had the same audience in 2 different videos on 2 different days!
Maybe I just happened to notice the same people in that section.
Ms. Beautiful i think they tape many episodes on the same day
no they tape the same day and wore different outfits coz the audience are wearing the same cloths n sitting the same row!
I think that they shoot two episodes in one day sometimes.
2:57 Adrienne’s look on her face 😂😂😂 SHOCK
I don't care, I feel Jeanie. Men require so much from women. So, why can't we have requirements? We have to look like what they want and 2. we have to behave according to societies standards; standards they don't have to live up to. So, if a woman doesn't want a broke guy, what's the big deal? Men and women set standards for each other. You can't have standards for women, but not expect us to have any for men.
jewel thompson perfectly said
Woman have requirements for men looks also. It nothing wrong with not wanting a broke guy if you financial stable yourself
Exactly!!!!!
Absolutely!! Mine was controlling everything that I do, and I thought it was cute because he "loved" me, he was just an A-hole. Red flag on steroid
Wait didn't Jeanie complain about not judging cheap ppl or groupon on dates like yesterday 🤔
+ceecee876 A groupon or coupon while eating out is different from someone always sliding you the check and they're not offering or providing anything to the date. They're freeloading off of you. That's what Jeannie was talking about here. It's one thing to date on a budget, I understand that, but when someone low key freeloads off of you that's a red flag. Just say you can't afford whatever it is. I can compromise and improvise then. If you're honest about it that's even better.
Tiffany Rayne yes but before she got to the check part she did note that they would go on dates during happy hour or have some 2 for 1 deals which is why I made my comment
yes i noticed that too! n the groupon dating she even talked about a cute story about 2 couples who were cheap together n end up in good life! i guess she cant handle cheap guy but she doesn't judge people who are!
ceecee876 atleast the dude paid for it with the Groupon.... SHE was the one who had to pay all the time with this dude
That's what I was thinking but the story sounded like the dude was just using her. She should have cut him off after the second date.
Loni’s laugh LMFAOOO 😭😂
Long lie so much... She can't even get the lie out..
My husband doesnt drink. I LOVE it. He doesnt judge me. He loves it when I drink because I relax from work and just let go. Which when you remember your life goals is hard to do.
Depends on the friend. I have a friend that doesn’t drink (unless it’s a RARE thing and he takes maybe a sip) and he is happy to be the driver and loves hanging out with us and always loves the laughs that we give him lol so If they are a real friend they aren’t gonna judge and their gonna enjoy you having a good time!
Loni lying about her friend trafficking drugs smh lol
JackGeezy85 lmaooo
If LONI story true, the guy just wasn't attracted to her...!
3:30 “he always going to parks and stuff” LMAOO LONIIIII
I know this isn't related to the segment but, when will we see Adrienne and Tamera get back into acting? Cheetah girls and twitches was my childhooddd and I would love to see them in more movies/shows
I love Adrienne and Tamara's friendship
Desire Loni, not “Itching”. Jeannie to the rescue 😂
Haha when the guy never gets you out, you know what it is. Tamera
One time a guy said he was going to take me out to eat and he seemed nice. He took me to homeless shelter soup kitchen. I left immediately. He wasn't homeless he just wanted to get us free food. No thanks
They became the flags, they hated
J: cheap. Tam: home body. Loni: cheater/ sex addict. Ade: always w/ a drink. Side note: Why loni wearing, a back ward clip. Leave that style to j. (17
Tamera looks amazing!
I like Jeanie’s story. It makes sense. You don’t want to get stuck with the bill every time. That gets annoying and makes you wonder if they’re only going out with you because you have money.
So Adrienne has no problem with "The Man being Broke" but has a Problem with Broke Women????
red flag: too good to be true.
Tamera straight up killed this session of girl talk! Yes ladies that's right. "I'm better than this"!!!!!
Haha how no one clapped for Adrienne! I was like bish, what u talking about! Take several seats, hunty. Not everybody likes to drink, for me alcohole tasts lile burning water. I can live with out it. Some men really dislike if a woman smokes or drinks a lot, for me its not feminine. Its againgst their culture and belief. But I dont get why the man was with her to begin with.
Cheetah Girl girl why you so pressed 😂😂 relax its not that serious
They're with her caus she's hot and easy to get
I don't drink, 2 reasons; My great grandpa , grandpa, uncles, dad, and cousins all became alcoholics, I've been christian for 4 years and decided to abstain from it. My dad has 30+ years with not even a sip, and he instilled in me great moral values. I don't judge people who drink, if I know my friends are going to be drinking, I choose to stay behind because I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable or judged, vice versa.
I can listen to Jeannie everyday!!!
I always loose it when Jeanie does the mama Mia voice😂😂😂
I have a tendency to attract cheap men. One made a comment about hoping the restaurant would comp our bill on our first date. Another guy made a similar comment after the power went out. Another guy took me out for coffee on our first date. This other guy informed me that he "forgot" his wallet when we had planned this date a week in advance.🙄 Wtf! Don't date, if you're broke!
So excited for season 4! The Real goes live! Yay!!!
Lol! I swear I have dealt with every single one of their red flags! Such a shame! Lol
I don't drink (never have), I absolutely HATE when people ask "Do you mind if I drink?" or try to get me to drink so they would feel comfortable. I could careless what's in your cup/glass, and you shouldn't care what's in mine...do you boo!! :)
Yass Adrienne calling out the audience! 🙌🏼😄
A red flag is a guy that not only hears what you’re saying, but actually listens to and acknowledges it. A guy that talks over you or is already thinking of what he’s going to say while you’re talking is a no go for me.
see red flag video for pointers
😂😂😂😂its my go to when I want to laugh
plus it reminds me of what to not accept 😂😂😂😂
4:20 tam knows loni coming with some lie😆😆😃😂😃
Adrienne says 'it only works if both roll like that". Remember when Tamera called Tamar out for not inviting her when when goes out and Tay Tay said it was because Tamera doesn't like hard-drinking and everybody got upset at Tamar? Interesting....
My husband listening in the background: "them bitches better not laugh in the background, half of them dating a broke dude"
😂🤦🏻♀️
my red flag was "If you don't wake up I'm gonna have to do it" (harm himself/ or drink) and "If we don't hang out I'm gonna do something.."
I don't care what anyone say, I just ain't dating NO broke men PERIOD.
I used to think when a guy questions all the stuff you do is because they care and want to try to get to know you. Sometimes it is because of insecurities. For example, he would ask 'how come you always go to karate on Friday?' I thought he wanted to know why I'm so passionate about it. Later on I found out he thought I had another guy that I saw on Fridays.
I saw a red flag on my first date with my ex. I'm from NY he's not. He's from Atlanta. But he moved to Ny and I remember he got like slightly frustrated at the fact that ppl were bumping into him in the city and I sorta looked at him sideways kinda cause I'm just like it's no big deal that's gonna happen a lot. As time went on I realize he just has a short fuse and a slight temper. Tried to overlook it but he would just get upset and frustrated at the slightest things. And with that came with a slick mouth. Another red flag he told me when he can't deal sometimes he drinks himself until he passes out. I've never witness a passed out situation but I've witnessed him drunk where he was obnoxious. I spoke to him about at the time and I said that was embarrassing and to make sure that doesn't happen again and instead talk about it. Never really happened again. As time went on we spend time together and I actually grew to love him but there's is just some things you cant overlook anymore and you think in due time it will change or you'll be the person to change them. Some ppl are just set in their ways and he's one of them. Now we're over. Thank God!
Tam, I'm a home-buddy too and I had exactly the same experience as you. It went for a month or so I guess and I decided to end it because really, it was boring already. I love staying at home, yes but I deserve better.
Loni's hair looks like she's trying to hold down fly away hairs on one side 😂😂😂😂😂