Well you shouldn’t be having babies with no commitment. You can divorce a spouse, but not a child. The couples will be bonded together for the rest of their lives because of the child/children they procreated together.
I was living with my children’s dad for 8 years. I gave him an ultimatum he married me and we didn’t stay married for a good 2 years. It will be difficult after their married. I speak from experience. Women should know who their getting involved with before having children. That included me.
@@SneakersDanceLife because the things I tolerated when I was just living with him I didn’t tolerate it when I was his wife. I demanded respect not knowing that he thought things wasn’t gonna change.
yes but at the same time if you are not ready for marriage at that age according to you I don't see why he would have two babies. It is lot of responsability and he will forever be linked to the person even if he quits her.
@@Momma766 that’s me. Hector was very abusive, so yes, I made his dinner, AND gave him 1 more baby after the first 2. I thought that was all I deserved. Thankfully that cycle has been broken for over 20 years.
@@DearViary that is wonderful news. I think the world is finally waking up and putting their feet down on our Hectors because it’s been the standard for too damn long. Thanks to pioneers like you, the rest of us can walk away and only be mildly scrutinized. I think that single mom stigma keeps a lot of us enslaved but now it’s almost more socially unacceptable to be a married single mom. Even if you spend 10 years with a Hector, It’s I’d rather die than say 10 years and one more damn day. The world be damned, life is worth more.
I wonder how many kids grew up in foster care and are watching an episode here watching these recordings to learn who their parents were or came from a dysfunctional household and are here finding out how they were conceived 😂
Ok, Carlos reminds me exactly of this guy i used to know. He was married to a beautiful, heavy set woman, and he thought he was too good for her and could cheat on her just because people told him he could do better.
These women are saying how bad their dudes are but still are trying to force them to marry them. That's Hella crazy to me. They are telling you they don't want to get married. Why would you want to married someone who don't want to marry you? Absolutely crazy
Why get pregnant a second time, and he didn't marry you the first time. Get married before you have kids. I fault the woman for not disrespecting herself by lowering her standards.
I’m glad they called the first couple out. She’s 21 and he’s 18. You’ve had 2 babies which means he must have been underage when she first got pregnant. She doesn’t even see herself as a prize. Why go after a mentally unavailable child?🤷🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Hector and Amy, hmmmmm seems like Hector forgave her for cheating or being some kind of busy girl in the beginning. Look at their body language. She even says "I thought we both had changed" and Hector said "we have our relationship problems"
It’s Aimee. And I didn’t cheat on him. He cheated on me with multiple people though. Even left me and our 3 children for a minor. Hell, after our 3 he had 2 more with 2 different women and they’re 4 months apart.
If you can lay down and impregnate a woman you should definitely before you have unprotected sex Mary take your time to get to know a person before you ever get on a sexual level it should never come a time you tell someone they have to lose weight for you to marry them that's nonsense that you really didn't want them.💯⚕️💎📺📽️ I'm so glad that the beautiful African American female and male did decide to get married and this man really didn't have to be forced or coerced he really love this beautiful young lady it would be nice to see an update of where they went to withbsame person.
All those couples were way too young and immature and haven`t those girls heard of birth control? I do blame those women more by sleeping around without protection.
I would want a man to marry me because he loves me and not because I set a date and if he doesn't marry me by that date I'll be gone. I'm watching this episode in 2024 and I would love to find out how these so called relationships had turned out.
No puedo más con estas mujeres con esa baja autoestima y respeto por ellas mismas. Suplicando bochornosamente hasta el punto de meter a sus hijos diciendo que porque no tienes el mismo apellido mío y ella le contesta que "porque tú papá no se quiere casar conmigo"!?. Es lo más bajo que una madre puede hacer. La otra se ríe cuando él admite que es infiel y un sinnúmero de barbaridades, como si los hijos fueran el amarre obligatorio para un compromiso y casamiento. Me dan repugnancia. Ellas son las primeras culpables no ellos. La gente en este país tanto que criminaliza y crítica el matrimonio forzado pero ACASO ESTAS MUJERES NO ESTÁN HACIENDO LO MISMO?. La diferencia que ellos se resisten y entonces ellos son los malos. Después son tan miserables que se les embarazan de nuevo trayendo hijos a este mundo en este tipo de ambiente tóxico dónde su madre es la primera responsable de tomar malas decisiones en su vida empezando por escoger un mal hombre creyendo que los van a hacer cambiar y eventualmente involucrando a sus hijos. Familias disfuncionales dónde la madre es el problema principal.
Stupid show. The first guy is only 18 years old, much to young to marry. Ricki pushing these young guys, is stupid. No one should marry against their own wish, not for a child, or any other reason. You only marry if you realy want to be with a person for many years, and when you are older than these boys. Marriage is not a must, you live often better together when not married.
Yes The Guys will get married when they find the right one but it's not a stupid show it's both fun and entertaining and you can learn a lot about people's mentality.
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MARRY B4 U CARRY..simple rules but y obey them..natural order works when u follow it
If it rhymes it must be true😂 you know people have been having babies for a long time before marriage was invented?
😂
It doesn't guarantee a loyal spouse...
When Ricki said "Pretty Boy?" LMAOOOOOOO
18 looked 30 back then 🤣🤣
It was the clothing style that aged them
@@StacyCastello clothes no their faces is what looked old
I was a teenager in the 90s and most everyone in my class was baby faced. This was not the norm. I think they just had low morals and it aged them.
@@Bigmama415 Most high school kids today look 35, imo.
Hun I hope like hell you're in your 40s because the way these so called young girls look!!😮💨
At least we MADE IT to 30 and didn't OVERDOSE!!! 🤣🤣🤣
"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free" I've always been told that and the Hector case is textbook.
Well you shouldn’t be having babies with no commitment. You can divorce a spouse, but not a child. The couples will be bonded together for the rest of their lives because of the child/children they procreated together.
Nah. Some men take off . Smart bastards.
I was living with my children’s dad for 8 years. I gave him an ultimatum he married me and we didn’t stay married for a good 2 years. It will be difficult after their married. I speak from experience. Women should know who their getting involved with before having children. That included me.
Why do you feel you broke up after the fact? Why is it difficult after marriage if you’re already been together so long? 💓
@@SneakersDanceLife because the things I tolerated when I was just living with him I didn’t tolerate it when I was his wife. I demanded respect not knowing that he thought things wasn’t gonna change.
@@mstoni1957💯👏🏼👏🏼
If you have to give them an ultimatum to marry you that is a red flag already.
He ONLY married you because you MADE him not because he wanted to!!! 🤷🏿♀️
RICKI LAKE TALK SHOW: 90’s:
Ricki Lake has the grooviest theme show opening 🎵 🎼 🎶 love the drums and that funky bass guitar! 🎸
I wasn't to happy with the Hector at first but then I found out he's only 18🤷🏾♀️ so it makes sense why he's like that.
yes but at the same time if you are not ready for marriage at that age according to you I don't see why he would have two babies. It is lot of responsability and he will forever be linked to the person even if he quits her.
That’s me and Hector is my baby daddy. 😂 He didn’t get any better as he got older.
@@DearViarywait what? You’re the baby mama?
What happened after the show?
@@MakeupMobster yes lol! This was 27 years ago and he’s still just as immature as ever.
90s tv intros were the best
Ricki throwing shade at the so called pretty boy. Lol 😂
Funny how the doorbell played a role in the show, even in the early seasons.
Hector 😂 clowned that woman in front of the world and she went home and made dinner.
@@Momma766 that’s me. Hector was very abusive, so yes, I made his dinner, AND gave him 1 more baby after the first 2. I thought that was all I deserved. Thankfully that cycle has been broken for over 20 years.
@@DearViary that is wonderful news. I think the world is finally waking up and putting their feet down on our Hectors because it’s been the standard for too damn long. Thanks to pioneers like you, the rest of us can walk away and only be mildly scrutinized. I think that single mom stigma keeps a lot of us enslaved but now it’s almost more socially unacceptable to be a married single mom. Even if you spend 10 years with a Hector, It’s I’d rather die than say 10 years and one more damn day. The world be damned, life is worth more.
Aww man I watched this after school then fell asleep when Sally came on
Sally was pretty good
Sally came to our school back in the day and did a story
So, these women did not think to get married before having children with these men?
I wonder how many kids grew up in foster care and are watching an episode here watching these recordings to learn who their parents were or came from a dysfunctional household and are here finding out how they were conceived 😂
When Ricki was pregnant
Ok, Carlos reminds me exactly of this guy i used to know. He was married to a beautiful, heavy set woman, and he thought he was too good for her and could cheat on her just because people told him he could do better.
These women are saying how bad their dudes are but still are trying to force them to marry them. That's Hella crazy to me. They are telling you they don't want to get married. Why would you want to married someone who don't want to marry you? Absolutely crazy
Right 😂
Run girls
Omg I remember booty call. It was a great soundtrack too. Dang I feel old.
Woah they had a totally different opinion on pretty in the 90s 😂
This is what sex before marriage cause
Abstaining prior to a wedding is unnatural and irrational.
@@modernretroradio993 no, it's Godly and very natural. Fornication is sin.
@@MeadeSkeltonMusic
Define "fornication." I promise you that it is NOT sex outside of wedlock.
@@modernretroradio993 ok well then hey you can be those women on stage
Please Upload Some More Episodes Of Ricki Lake?
"Poof begone" 🤣
Anyone else think the first lady resembles Drew Barrymore?
Yes
Definitely thought that
Thanks! That’s me.
they just did an interview together!
@@jamesandus who did?
As if a marriage certificate will change anything!!
It probably won't change with their dynamic... these men are already getting everything without committing.
Why get pregnant a second time, and he didn't marry you the first time. Get married before you have kids. I fault the woman for not disrespecting herself by lowering her standards.
He’s only 18…this explains it all. A kid playing house.
That’s me and my baby daddy. 😂 He didn’t get any better as he got older.
I’m glad they called the first couple out. She’s 21 and he’s 18. You’ve had 2 babies which means he must have been underage when she first got pregnant. She doesn’t even see herself as a prize. Why go after a mentally unavailable child?🤷🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
We were both in high school when we met- I was 17. I thought he was older for the first several months. 🤷🏼♀️
I waited way too long to have a huge crush on Ricki
Danny’s hair business in the front, party in the back.
🤣🤣🤣
My boy Tommy Davidson❤❤
Omg he’s 18 haha 😂 let the boy go home. He shouldn’t get married. That’s wild.
Booty call is a funny ass movie lol
35:11 my guy coming out to that Dean Malenko theme.
These men will get married when they find the women they want to marry...🥱
Hector and Amy, hmmmmm seems like Hector forgave her for cheating or being some kind of busy girl in the beginning. Look at their body language. She even says "I thought we both had changed"
and Hector said "we have our relationship problems"
It’s Aimee. And I didn’t cheat on him. He cheated on me with multiple people though. Even left me and our 3 children for a minor. Hell, after our 3 he had 2 more with 2 different women and they’re 4 months apart.
If you can lay down and impregnate a woman you should definitely before you have unprotected sex Mary take your time to get to know a person before you ever get on a sexual level it should never come a time you tell someone they have to lose weight for you to marry them that's nonsense that you really didn't want them.💯⚕️💎📺📽️ I'm so glad that the beautiful African American female and male did decide to get married and this man really didn't have to be forced or coerced he really love this beautiful young lady it would be nice to see an update of where they went to withbsame person.
I doubt any of these couples are still together, 30 years later…IF they are my money is on Hector and Julie.
All those couples were way too young and immature and haven`t those girls heard of birth control?
I do blame those women more by sleeping around without protection.
I just love how back then people would speak their minds freely nowadays people are too sensitive😂
18?!
Right, and an Executive Assistant? 🤔
This is crazy.
18 was too young to have kids or be married, crazy
Where's he a prize at?😂😮
12:02 He's done!
I wanted a ring for so long, and got it during baby #3.. by that point I didn’t want the ring or the man anymore.
It took 3 kids to figure that out? Might as well marry him. You're tied to him for life anyway.
I would want a man to marry me because he loves me and not because I set a date and if he doesn't marry me by that date I'll be gone. I'm watching this episode in 2024 and I would love to find out how these so called relationships had turned out.
2:34 -claps in doubt
The beginning of the baby mama culture, we have now in 2024.
should a couple get married because they have kids together? i think they should but there can be exceptions.
Absolutely
What year is this??
It was 1997
Wow y did I watch this
The first guy was smart not to marry. He knows that in divorce she would take all his money. Child support is all she will get for now.
These woman are to pretty for some of these guys and the blonde is way to hot for dog the bounty hunter mullet pretty boy not 😊
That third couple I think, they look 12 yrs old!!
It's funny how I ammarried, but my husband won't knock me up.
That last girl was NOT 21
Early 2018
No puedo más con estas mujeres con esa baja autoestima y respeto por ellas mismas. Suplicando bochornosamente hasta el punto de meter a sus hijos diciendo que porque no tienes el mismo apellido mío y ella le contesta que "porque tú papá no se quiere casar conmigo"!?. Es lo más bajo que una madre puede hacer. La otra se ríe cuando él admite que es infiel y un sinnúmero de barbaridades, como si los hijos fueran el amarre obligatorio para un compromiso y casamiento. Me dan repugnancia. Ellas son las primeras culpables no ellos. La gente en este país tanto que criminaliza y crítica el matrimonio forzado pero ACASO ESTAS MUJERES NO ESTÁN HACIENDO LO MISMO?. La diferencia que ellos se resisten y entonces ellos son los malos. Después son tan miserables que se les embarazan de nuevo trayendo hijos a este mundo en este tipo de ambiente tóxico dónde su madre es la primera responsable de tomar malas decisiones en su vida empezando por escoger un mal hombre creyendo que los van a hacer cambiar y eventualmente involucrando a sus hijos. Familias disfuncionales dónde la madre es el problema principal.
Stupid show. The first guy is only 18 years old, much to young to marry. Ricki pushing these young guys, is stupid. No one should marry against their own wish, not for a child, or any other reason. You only marry if you realy want to be with a person for many years, and when you are older than these boys. Marriage is not a must, you live often better together when not married.
Yes The Guys will get married when they find the right one but it's not a stupid show it's both fun and entertaining and you can learn a lot about people's mentality.
It's a great show
Yeah look at where our new outlook of not getting married got us in society. 😐
Say that to Brigitte Macron..................