Here's What The First Week Of College Is REALLY Like... (College Freshman Advice)

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  • Are you a college freshman? Here's what the first week of college is ACTUALLY like!
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    Transitioning from high school to college is probably one of the hardest things you’ll do in your life. I wanted to give you a real rundown of what the first week of college is actually like. In this video I talk about frosh week, move in day, classes, how to make friends, college parties, roommates, and much more! I think a lot of you might be intimidated by the fact that everything is new, and you don’t know anyone. So you’re scared that you’re not going to make friends in college. But after watching this video, you’ll know what to expect in your first week so now you’re going to be okay. I don’t want you to be a lost little freshman. You’re going to start off strong. I believe in you!
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Комментарии • 852

  • @shardonic1995
    @shardonic1995 4 года назад +1761

    I just confirmed my college decision and then spontaneously started to binge college videos. I need to finish high school online before I start worrying about this
    edit: holy fuck guys I didn’t get ANY notifs about replies until just now (3 years later). I’m in my senior year looking at grad schools now! I hope you are all doing well :))

    • @niccola9176
      @niccola9176 4 года назад +35

      You r not the only one dude :)

    • @urid4264
      @urid4264 4 года назад +22

      Shardonic i’m literally doing the same thing

    • @2025SouljaBoy
      @2025SouljaBoy 4 года назад +9

      same haha

    • @lamontmeade681
      @lamontmeade681 4 года назад +20

      good luck guys, beginning of freshman year is really fun & u meet a lot of people

    • @video.mp4709
      @video.mp4709 4 года назад +1

      primaL Mont I hope so!

  • @zhaozhongjohnsoncao3602
    @zhaozhongjohnsoncao3602 4 года назад +660

    9:36 ''When you don't feel comfortable, that's when you grow''

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +37

      Truth.

    • @campkira
      @campkira 4 года назад +6

      but life is alway not comfortable.... you thin grow... i think you just had no idea what to do in life... don't think something change in your life and you will grow... you had to start from yourself long ago...

    • @andrewfranzone989
      @andrewfranzone989 4 года назад +27

      @@campkira bruh wtf are you saying

    • @nikorepinski278
      @nikorepinski278 4 года назад +30

      @@campkira I think I just had a stroke trying to read this.

    • @febrezeairfreshner9321
      @febrezeairfreshner9321 2 года назад

      @@nikorepinski278 I think this guy was smoking. Whatever it is, I want some, it seems to be working for "campkira"

  • @brittbyler1092
    @brittbyler1092 4 года назад +596

    Hafu's advice on parents:
    drop your parents if you don't like them and get new ones.

  • @kevinchiu3869
    @kevinchiu3869 4 года назад +1134

    im so entertained by his energy and enthusiasm lol

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +69

      That’s why I’m here 😉

    • @campkira
      @campkira 4 года назад

      fake

    • @halohalo576
      @halohalo576 4 года назад +3

      Sean Lin are u saying that to Hafu ?

    • @halohalo576
      @halohalo576 4 года назад +1

      Sean Lin i think it's not that bad in my perspective

    • @_construction_2023
      @_construction_2023 2 года назад +1

      Cause you put the s word in your thumbnail , people were looking at your video.

  • @sluggish._
    @sluggish._ 4 года назад +1641

    I’m a freshman in high school watching this and failing 3 classes.
    Edit: im a freshman in college now and passing all my classes 💪

  • @Tom-xy9gb
    @Tom-xy9gb 4 года назад +2339

    Covid-19 enters the chat*

    • @helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385
      @helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385 3 года назад +38

      Don't trust bill gates

    • @adinarobinson3645
      @adinarobinson3645 3 года назад +3

      😞😞😞

    • @xaifer2485
      @xaifer2485 3 года назад +34

      @@helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385 uhhh dont trust the guy that has donated more billions than any country ever will in good will

    • @helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385
      @helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385 3 года назад +9

      @@xaifer2485 he wants to kill a lot of people

    • @xaifer2485
      @xaifer2485 3 года назад +7

      @@helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385 ok now I'm intrested please elaborate

  • @TrolleningIshraq
    @TrolleningIshraq 4 года назад +393

    One of the best things about his videos are that they're straight to the point and precise. Short and sweet

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +22

      Yea I try to cut out all the fluff 😉 don’t wanna waste your time

    • @febrezeairfreshner9321
      @febrezeairfreshner9321 2 года назад +2

      @@hafu Respect.

  • @JustSebb
    @JustSebb 3 года назад +171

    The music be like “DUUU DUUU III III”

  • @toxicgummybear9101
    @toxicgummybear9101 4 года назад +192

    One tip I have is be comfortable with being uncomfortable, purposely seek discomfort! (Love YesTheory btw) anyways, this helps so much to grow as an individual

    • @russellwestbrook151
      @russellwestbrook151 4 года назад +6

      that was my mentality heading into freshman year college last fall. I stuck with it thru the fall and fell off hard, not grade wise, but mentally through the spring semester. I just lost it, but stick with it and don't give up. u got it

  • @luccyzv1924
    @luccyzv1924 4 года назад +2711

    “Maybe you didn’t even have friends in high school”
    Damn.
    Thanks sm for 1k (now 2k!!) likes guys! (and Hafu even noticed hehe 🤭😚)

    • @yahyarhemmali6716
      @yahyarhemmali6716 4 года назад +14

      @Mary Slavin :( so true xD

    • @andres.6126
      @andres.6126 4 года назад +19

      It speaks to me on an astronomical level and I’m only a sophomore In high school😭

    • @boy.erased
      @boy.erased 4 года назад +1

      US Vs OBESITY imagine being a freshman.

    • @audreyguymon8513
      @audreyguymon8513 4 года назад +6

      Man he didn't have to @ us like that

    • @brenttibbetts2982
      @brenttibbetts2982 4 года назад +1

      @@andres.6126 If youre only a sophomore in high school you still got time to meet your friends bro!!!

  • @manvirkainth6793
    @manvirkainth6793 4 года назад +809

    When he said he wasn’ invited to any high school parties.
    Same man, same😭

    • @pepijn6888
      @pepijn6888 4 года назад +19

      He probably was but wants make boring people feel less bad

    • @dutchrobinson3922
      @dutchrobinson3922 4 года назад +3

      Pepijn LMAOOOOO

    • @joeseppy69
      @joeseppy69 3 года назад +37

      For my school, it’s only a certain group of kids. Like a quarter of our class, maybe less, goes to parties. Most people are “missing out”

    • @josezaragoza3188
      @josezaragoza3188 3 года назад +2

      Same

    • @LRD_FROSTY
      @LRD_FROSTY 3 года назад +5

      I was but I don’t see the need for friends

  • @dususidibay8814
    @dususidibay8814 4 года назад +403

    Here in 2020 thinking about the fact that I prolly won’t be on campus or experience a college party in the fall🥺

    • @jhgaming4818
      @jhgaming4818 4 года назад +14

      Im going to grand valley state university this fall and winter semester. Just registered for classes today. They are still doing face to face classes

    • @dususidibay8814
      @dususidibay8814 4 года назад +3

      JH Gaming yeah my school said we are starting classes in September as schedule regardless. The professors were told to prepare for online lessons because it’s easier to switch back to in person than the opposite

    • @Cyber-FrieGab
      @Cyber-FrieGab 4 года назад +5

      Online lesson is much better than in person cuz you don’t have to interact with other people.

    • @jhgaming4818
      @jhgaming4818 4 года назад +11

      @@Cyber-FrieGab im an extrovert fam

    • @LRD_FROSTY
      @LRD_FROSTY 3 года назад +1

      Nacho Themn yep

  • @jamesnguyen6702
    @jamesnguyen6702 4 года назад +182

    People overexaggerate the transition from high school to freshman year of college. First two semesters are basically all intro courses. Test were usually easier than hs tests imo. Freshman to sophomore year is where college really starts

    • @amonGustavo07
      @amonGustavo07 4 года назад +16

      Lmao what college did you go to

    • @ahikajani8749
      @ahikajani8749 3 года назад +31

      A lot of people come from overseas so settling in can be a little harder lol

    • @robhasdriven895
      @robhasdriven895 3 года назад

      Same with middle school

  • @Valerie_rose
    @Valerie_rose 4 года назад +287

    It’s ok I’ve never been to a high school party either 😂

  • @xoxoangelica1314
    @xoxoangelica1314 4 года назад +491

    I'm already a graduate but this video made me wanna go to college again 😆❣

    • @licapajarillo3704
      @licapajarillo3704 4 года назад +5

      💛💛💛

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +50

      college is fun until final season hahah

    • @xoxoangelica1314
      @xoxoangelica1314 4 года назад +29

      @@hafu that is so true 😆 We suddenly wish we're back at school when we're not in it but when we're in it, we hate being in school 😆 Anyways, u are an awesome person!! Good luck with everythinggggg ❣

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +23

      Yeah you said it perfectly. Thank YOU for being an amazing subscriber Angelica

    • @xoxoangelica1314
      @xoxoangelica1314 4 года назад +13

      @@hafu omg u replied again 😭 this just made my day ❣

  • @vexander
    @vexander 4 года назад +311

    reading these comments, i feel like i'm the only one that's nervous and kinda scared of college, not excited. i'm a high school senior and i'm dreading college, but maybe that's just my anxiety lol.

    • @toxicgummybear9101
      @toxicgummybear9101 4 года назад +59

      starciel I felt your pain too 😂 I remember getting dropped off to college for my 8 am (yes my mom actually wanted to drop me off my first day ahahahahah) but it’s really great. Something that I noticed that he didn’t mention is that professors usually go over syllabus for about 15-20 min and then already move on to course work (something I was not expecting at all). Like seriously I was already taking pages of notes on the first day. But trust me when I say this, *cough cough* COLLEGE IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN HIGH SCHOOL. I felt like I was suffocating in high school and college gives you so much freedom which is why people can fail. Those people don’t know how to time manage and it shows when they repeatedly get terrible grades. But all of the friends you’ll make are countless, it might take a couple of weeks (I made my friends at Orientation and in classes) but trust me that they’re just as nervous as you. You got this

    • @sweetsendaedreamr
      @sweetsendaedreamr 4 года назад +17

      Not even anything to worry about. You will like it alot better than high school.

    • @Fuffley-xr8ng
      @Fuffley-xr8ng 4 года назад +19

      starciel you’re not the only one, I used to avoid talking about college for months and when I would I would usually have a panic attack. Now since it’s almost the end of the school year I’ve kind of accepted it and learned that yeah it’s gonna suck for a bit but as cheesy as it sounds, everything is going to be okay eventually, I just have to be open for new experiences and try to make it enjoyable.

    • @kirksingletary3788
      @kirksingletary3788 3 года назад +5

      itll only be bad if you make it bad. put yourself out there

    • @1amdream317
      @1amdream317 3 года назад +3

      Nah your not alone Im a “now” graduated high schooler, and I nervous as well

  • @ashelyapples9277
    @ashelyapples9277 4 года назад +290

    Not being invited to parties #relatable

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +27

      Sad bois

    • @stephanielue8454
      @stephanielue8454 4 года назад +3

      haha moooodddd

    • @avion4820
      @avion4820 3 года назад +6

      That feeling when a group of girls invite your best friend to a party but not you ( like i was literally standing there )

    • @aestheticesther7517
      @aestheticesther7517 3 года назад +3

      @@avion4820 dayummmmmm

    • @sou_desu8587
      @sou_desu8587 3 года назад +1

      Yes

  • @neighborskid5373
    @neighborskid5373 4 года назад +255

    I’m in middle school and I’m just watching this like. “Ima be smartest Guy in class next year.”

  • @josiahroa177
    @josiahroa177 4 года назад +46

    I'm a college dropout and I gotta say, I think the mix of having terrible roommates and not making the right friends at the beginning of the semester freshman year was a good 50% of the reason I dropped out. Having a toxic girlfriend didn't help with that either xD

  • @benjaminli3808
    @benjaminli3808 3 года назад +63

    Senioritis doesn't stop. It get's worse, procrastination is still a th-
    ill finish this sentence later.

    • @TrapCat
      @TrapCat 2 года назад

      Man, I was hoping by being in an environment where everyone is studying my procrastination would dissappear

  • @Onnethox
    @Onnethox 4 года назад +150

    No lie, I feel like everyone knows eachother even if its a new school. Like they already got 2-3 ppl groups and class just started. Wtf??? Like what the fuuuu???

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +33

      Probably it’s cuz they went to orientation before school started

    • @Onnethox
      @Onnethox 4 года назад +1

      truuuu

  • @naixijiang1006
    @naixijiang1006 4 года назад +37

    "hello"
    yes

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +2

      That’s how I met all my friends

  • @Skillseboy1
    @Skillseboy1 4 года назад +41

    I just felt like sharing this thought here. I've had an amazing time at the beginning of this school year. It was a time where everybody is new and excited to meet you. I made a lot of good friends and had a great time since. But damn do I feel robbed of my student life thanks to this coronavirus situation. Your first year as a student is the year where everything is new, your second year will be much different and familiar.
    I was looking forward so much to these months...

  • @colebaker644
    @colebaker644 4 года назад +5

    As a freshman who just finished this first year this is pretty accurate and good advice. The ending is advice couldnt be more truthful

  • @karinaleandro4329
    @karinaleandro4329 4 года назад +9

    I am going to collège this year very very soon and this video was all I needed! Thank you sooooo very much! ❤️
    Love from Portugal ✨

  • @traitordoge5993
    @traitordoge5993 4 года назад +57

    I'm staring soon and I'm excited. Thank you so much for this, it helps!!!

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +3

      I’m excited for you too!! What are you studying?

    • @traitordoge5993
      @traitordoge5993 4 года назад +3

      @@hafu Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery. It's a big course, but I feel like I'm ready!

  • @geraldmarco
    @geraldmarco 4 года назад +11

    syllabi
    Thank you for this Hafu Guo!!! I am currently a freshman and what you have said are really true. So i'm gonna recommend this vlog of yours to my friends who will going to apply for college next year.

  • @papahamdrew9962
    @papahamdrew9962 3 года назад +15

    “Maybe you didn’t have high school friends” with a smile as he says it.

  • @philseyes3896
    @philseyes3896 3 года назад +6

    This is one of the most useful college advice videos i've seen 👍

  • @peternichols9488
    @peternichols9488 4 года назад +74

    Why am I watching this as a Freshmen in HS? That’s a very good question.

  • @video.mp4709
    @video.mp4709 4 года назад +55

    Watching this in May 2020, realizing that Covid might make my first semester of college all online 😞

    • @machukaizoh8905
      @machukaizoh8905 3 года назад

      Contact me for help in research projects, homework and online tutoring machukaizo@gmail.com
      or follow the link below
      nairobi.universitytutor.com/tutors/944164

    • @jamarquantavius_the_5th
      @jamarquantavius_the_5th Месяц назад

      One semester turned into 2 years, covid sucked

  • @dominikabudzinska5666
    @dominikabudzinska5666 4 года назад +25

    Moving to my dorm in a week and this video was really helpful 😄🙌

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +2

      I wish you good luck!! Go say hi and yes

  • @centauria9122
    @centauria9122 9 месяцев назад +8

    I'm a college student who studied two years at a community college, have dropped out for at least 5 years due to finances and other things, been working full time since then, and now planning on going back to the community college to take a few more classes before thinking about moving to a four year university for my astrophysics major I'm going for. And I'm not the greatest when it comes to socializing, but friends are great to have. :) I like your positive energy and enthusiasm, wish I could have a friend like you! 🙂

  • @princess5941
    @princess5941 4 года назад +1

    i've been binge watching all the college vids to prepare me when i go in the fall

  • @stephanielue8454
    @stephanielue8454 4 года назад +60

    Lol I don't think you understand how much better a college advisor you are than my actual college advisor. Like way over 15000000 X better TT. I think I might actually survive college now haha >

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +4

      That’s honestly amazing to hear! I’m so glad this video helpful to you. Check out the Bullseye link for some more free college advising!

  • @cztv558
    @cztv558 2 года назад +3

    This makes can’t wait to college this fall even more!

  • @QU33NB4RB
    @QU33NB4RB Год назад +8

    I'm only in a lower grade, and I'm already watching these videos, I want to be prepared, but not too prepared.

    • @isoV10
      @isoV10 Год назад

      same here lol

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 2 года назад +1

    Dude you’re inspiring I love your inspiring speeches

  • @WillHsuMusic
    @WillHsuMusic 4 года назад +146

    “Don’t be that guy” - I say that to my students so much that a graduating senior gave me a keychain with an H (for Hsu) and engraved “don’t be that person” on it 😂
    Oh and btw yes it’s syllabi. Trust me, I’m a teacher 🙂

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +6

      You give some good advice 😂😂😂

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +4

      And thanks mrhsulaoshi for the English lesson

    • @quanpham0805
      @quanpham0805 4 года назад +2

      @@hafu They are both correct according to the Oxford Dictionary, syllabi is less frequent though, even my spell checker says syllabi is spelled incorrectly.

    • @WillHsuMusic
      @WillHsuMusic 4 года назад

      I try 🙂

    • @WillHsuMusic
      @WillHsuMusic 4 года назад

      Quan Pham interesting 🤔 literally every teacher/administrator/professor in several districts and colleges I've been at all use “syllabi”. Although I would buy that it can be both. It just sounds like one of those “both work” kinda things in English.

  • @FrozenMirrorMind
    @FrozenMirrorMind 4 года назад +159

    Good luck class of 2024 with your transition to college in these wild times. If I were you, I'd take a gap year. 😓

    • @Snappers1_
      @Snappers1_ 4 года назад +7

      No! You can take classes online. Depending on where you live or what college you go to, they may change it to online. But don’t think it’ll be the online style where you go at your own pace. You’ll still have live lectures, where you can actually ask questions! I’m doing that this semester since COVID-19 came about in mid-March. They really want you to pass.

    • @martinguzman7704
      @martinguzman7704 4 года назад +1

      Why?

    • @zoeymills9100
      @zoeymills9100 4 года назад

      Why?

    • @zestyzebra5676
      @zestyzebra5676 4 года назад

      LucasBMSCaira a lot of colleges offer the same gen ed credits for cheaper this summer. It’s actually a good idea if you thought it would be worth it to have more time during the “real” school year.

    • @Excelsior1937
      @Excelsior1937 4 года назад +3

      Thought I was gonna be 2024 at the beginning of this year. 2025 it is!

  • @ooooooooooo6955
    @ooooooooooo6955 2 года назад +1

    bro thanks for the good advice. I'm pretty sure that im not a outgoing person but after I watch your video, I am encouraged by u a lot. It seems very difficult and will be a hard journey because of my English fluency and also my personality, but I believe that I can be a better person just as u said.

  • @nellyhadj8346
    @nellyhadj8346 3 года назад +1

    I like this dude very much! like I can dare to listen every single advice he can give and share. He's so Adorable and Bubbly. For this guy has a lot of good friends!
    I'm a new Subscriber here from the Philippines. Stay safe and GodBless😉😎

  • @christianyouth.832
    @christianyouth.832 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for your video I really love it. It's simple and easy to understand. I am starting college in September this year so I really need this as I have a few questions to ask about college. Which you already answered in your video. Again Thanks so much I'm so grateful.

  • @animeboi3110
    @animeboi3110 2 года назад +1

    The creator is fun and entertaining; exactly what I need to brighten my mood. :D

  • @jessy8674
    @jessy8674 4 года назад +10

    You're full of positive energy. I like how interesting your videos are :) Keep entertaining me. And I hope you won't stop helping others~

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +1

      Never stop

    • @mrturbo6732
      @mrturbo6732 4 года назад

      @@hafu i dont want to go to college because Im a introvert and I hate talking to people I don't know.

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад

      @@mrturbo6732 that's a bigger problem than whether or not to go to college

    • @mrturbo6732
      @mrturbo6732 4 года назад

      @@hafu ikr, but I really want to start making more friends but I have really dark humour

  • @serina_night
    @serina_night 4 года назад +63

    I'm a high school sophomore, dreading the upcoming high school year that nobody cares about...so idk why I'm watching a video about college and hoping to relate?
    I hope you don't stop this content for like 3 more years, so it there for me as my bestie going into college.

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +6

      Don’t worry I’ll be here for you ❤️ You should sign up for the free advising call just to see what you need to prepare!

    • @serina_night
      @serina_night 4 года назад +1

      @@hafu Oh, will do. Thanks! ^^

    • @homersimpson4379
      @homersimpson4379 Год назад +2

      Well you’re at the college age now

    • @serina_night
      @serina_night Год назад +1

      @@homersimpson4379 Ya, but I'm taking a gap year now, lol

    • @homersimpson4379
      @homersimpson4379 Год назад

      @@serina_night lol, I wish I could do that. I’m gonna be going to college next semester.

  • @sou_desu8587
    @sou_desu8587 3 года назад +20

    Am i the only one worried for my grades and expenses? Homesick will also feel like hell

  • @isabellaa_-
    @isabellaa_- 3 года назад

    Ending part is so motivating

  • @bayrmaabatjargal4573
    @bayrmaabatjargal4573 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for your all advising videos. These always help me to realise of anything .

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +1

      What was the thing you found most helpful?

    • @bayrmaabatjargal4573
      @bayrmaabatjargal4573 4 года назад

      Hafu Guo making new friends, avoid bad habits and be confident in any situation etc. Thank you so much🙏

  • @chaimabejaoui7145
    @chaimabejaoui7145 3 года назад +1

    Good video from Paris ❤️I understand the English so happy

  • @a_shan8662
    @a_shan8662 4 года назад +9

    H E L L.
    Anxiety and stress inducing.
    I mean that's what it'd be like for me next week 😩

  • @guadalupeortega5742
    @guadalupeortega5742 4 года назад +1

    this was so entertaining omg

  • @paseur3655
    @paseur3655 2 года назад +1

    not even a full semester into senior year and i’m already watching these vids😭

  • @redpanda0178
    @redpanda0178 4 года назад

    Awesome ending🤣🤣

  • @monaa7277
    @monaa7277 3 года назад +17

    "I know you're either in high school or applying to college."
    Me: *is still in middle school but doesn't gaf*

  • @yourstrulyyn
    @yourstrulyyn 4 года назад

    Both are right syllabus and syllabi.
    By the way i feel like u are my elder brother who gives me advice when I feel tensed ; my college admission the next year.

  • @jacquienagode819
    @jacquienagode819 3 года назад +1

    love this!!

  • @shaneendanes1266
    @shaneendanes1266 4 года назад +10

    Am i the only one who's watching this coz of his energy and enthusiasm? Lol I'm just in my 9th grade

  • @vibha9590
    @vibha9590 Год назад

    This vdo was VERY well put!! Damn. Thank you

  • @bigzo3197
    @bigzo3197 4 года назад

    That was a really nice video bro. I appreciate it :)

  • @xianzai_ad1928
    @xianzai_ad1928 3 года назад +1

    I’ve followed you tips, now I annexed all of the dorms. I will next annex the college

  • @nicholasperez8479
    @nicholasperez8479 2 года назад +10

    Yeah imma go ahead and sub. All jokes aside, college will be starting this Sunday and it where i'll be moving into my dorm. Being a person who has social anxiety makes it really complex for me to get out of my comfort zone. I do want to make new friends and i do want to make an effort to forge this experience into something grand and enjoyable; although, i'm scared cause socializing isn't my forte so i fear that i may end up islolated or with little friends similarily like high school. Its just this constant battle in my head between my anxiety and my desire to socialize.

  • @francesohemengnanaakosuaob631
    @francesohemengnanaakosuaob631 4 года назад +1

    After this video i fill better knowing Im going to be an international student. Im going to survive in a new environment , THANKS HAFU
    ALSO, i tried bullseye, it is legit.

  • @aryangupta7022
    @aryangupta7022 4 года назад +2

    now loving collage💞

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад

      Hey me too! 😏

  • @briannagrace7982
    @briannagrace7982 4 года назад +4

    best advice i’ve heard all year don’t knock it until you hate it😂

  • @kingzqueenzp6616
    @kingzqueenzp6616 3 года назад +6

    My highschool is like college :))
    Dorms, parties,dependent study, and living alone X))

    • @taszat
      @taszat 2 года назад

      how??

  • @donih3044
    @donih3044 4 года назад +19

    When he said you maybe weren’t that social in high school, I felt that DEEP WITHIN MY SOUL OMG. Half the people in my grade do drugs (not even joking) and then the others I don’t rlly fit with. (They’re usually racist. I’m from a small school in the middle of nowhere so it’s common and heh I’m Asian.)

    • @vatsala6497
      @vatsala6497 4 года назад

      I think the drugs are pretty common. Find some non-insecure people and make friends with them

    • @arvinkit
      @arvinkit 3 года назад

      Yeah I agree you can avoid them

    • @tre4993
      @tre4993 2 года назад

      Do you go to a mostly white or black school ? I feel bad for you if you do

  • @abbieminer8437
    @abbieminer8437 4 года назад +11

    im terrified for college, but i also cant wait to get out of my hometown. i just dont feel prepared or in control in any way and its a scary feeling. im fucking pumped to meet more people like me and have more opportunities to party tho lmao

    • @nickthereaderandwanderer
      @nickthereaderandwanderer 4 года назад +5

      When you get to campus, everyone will be in the exact same position as you: some will be happy, some will be scared shitless hahaha, some will “think” they aren’t ready which isn’t true, and more. Everyone will be acting differently in VERY different ways but deep down, everyone is terrified. It’s a completely new world with so many new people, places, responsibilities, learning experiences, etc. always remember as you are entering this new world, everyone is in the same position. When you get settled in your dorm, especially with your roommates, talk to them!! Start up conversations!! Make the most of the experience and if you find something hard, RESPOND to the situation and find a solution to make it easier. Don’t ever dwell on a situation, respond to it! That’s the key! When it comes to people in general, you will find your community of people and friends who share similar beliefs, passions, interests, etc. but it does take time. Be patient but also have the courage to put yourself out there, explore campus before week 1, talk to people on your floor and if you are declared in a major try meeting people on the school’s social media chat for incoming freshmen who are in your major and meet up with them when you get to campus! Also use this opportunity to start meeting people in general. I’ll be a sophomore in college this upcoming fall! I learned a lot, I saw a lot, and I experienced A LOT my first year- but everything somehow falls into place. You’ve got this! Good luck!

    • @abbieminer8437
      @abbieminer8437 4 года назад

      nicholas schaack thank you so much! this really helps :)

  • @seanb7344
    @seanb7344 4 года назад +1

    Dude, literally thank you

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад

      You’re welcome Joe Mama 😂

  • @ethanmasadde9848
    @ethanmasadde9848 4 года назад +6

    Damn man. I don't know what this is but this video making me feel some type of way.😂🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @lerngyte4199
    @lerngyte4199 4 года назад +1

    I’m a freshman, I really like your video and hope to see more video like these 🤩

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +1

      More coming for sure 😉

  • @_construction_2023
    @_construction_2023 2 года назад +11

    Its not hard at all
    To transition from high school to college
    Its the same thing.
    College is the same thing , that you did
    In high school.
    Sitting in classes and doing school work.
    However , one difference is, that now you get to pick, your classes
    And you have to sign up for , and pay for them.
    In high school , that was done for you.
    By the way , congratulations
    To you guys for going to college.
    Its s lot....of work....on top of your life , which you should not neglect either.

  • @S133pyy
    @S133pyy 4 года назад +43

    I’m going to college this fall and I am a little nervous. I don’t have a problem meeting new people it’s just a weird feeling

    • @arianabrown3225
      @arianabrown3225 4 года назад +6

      UwU me too! I hope everything goes well for the both of us!

    • @machukaizoh8905
      @machukaizoh8905 3 года назад

      meet me for help in research projects, homework and online tutoring machukaizo@gmail.com
      or follow the link below
      nairobi.universitytutor.com/tutors/944164

  • @kaileybullard1065
    @kaileybullard1065 10 месяцев назад +1

    I going to be a senior in high school next school year and I've been panicking about what to expect in college and this helped alot tysm

  • @commmentz522
    @commmentz522 4 года назад +3

    In finland this sounds more like a transition from middle school to high school. Many start partying and you choose your classes, lots of skip hours too.

  • @xrenzogaming77
    @xrenzogaming77 4 года назад +20

    I'ma Be Going to college Very soon, I'm gonna be Graduating from highschool in afew months, then to college, thanks for the tips💯

    • @BlickolasCage
      @BlickolasCage 4 года назад +1

      I got one more year. Next year i graduate highschool

    • @xrenzogaming77
      @xrenzogaming77 4 года назад

      @@BlickolasCage Congrats Bro💯

    • @campkira
      @campkira 4 года назад +1

      Best to get good grade on first few years since afterward...you going feel like shit and don't want to do anywork...,

    • @missnaokii
      @missnaokii 3 года назад +2

      I'm over here in 7th grade rip

    • @xrenzogaming77
      @xrenzogaming77 3 года назад +1

      @@missnaokii been there buddy
      Eventually you'll get to where I'm at🙂
      Hard work pays off The Price😉
      Gotta Stay Focused Everyday💯

  • @carlsin840
    @carlsin840 4 года назад +5

    Very informative! Hahha
    Ok babe i will do that,
    Top fun of you here😜👋

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +1

      Good luck Carl!! Hope you have lots of fun

  • @Bacon-King
    @Bacon-King 4 года назад +34

    9:36
    _am currently watching this video at 5 am after finishing two separate projects in the span of 48 hours_
    *Nailed it*

  • @niloofargiti3598
    @niloofargiti3598 3 года назад

    Perfect 😍😍😍

  • @AnaClaraSegal
    @AnaClaraSegal 3 года назад

    You are making me be inspired bra

  • @caileyten7900
    @caileyten7900 3 года назад +6

    Makes me so sad watching this knowing that I may be living at home taking online classes for my entire college career and miss out on so many experiences

  • @nickkriebel1884
    @nickkriebel1884 4 года назад

    This man too good

  • @andrewzheng1780
    @andrewzheng1780 4 года назад +3

    I love you man!!!

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +2

      I LOVE YOU MORE POPPA!!

    • @andrewzheng1780
      @andrewzheng1780 4 года назад +1

      Hafu Guo ... just started college last week. Wished I discovered your channel sooner. Your channel has helped me so much. Be looking further for future videos. Post notification is on, here sending you my appreciation.

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад

      I’m excited for you man!! I’m curious, what video helped you the most and how’d that affect you?

  • @sabrinas4785
    @sabrinas4785 3 года назад +1

    I feel like mostly at first just if stuff doesn’t work your always gunna have to talk to your roommate there probably gunna end up being your first friends

  • @kevinhsieh5527
    @kevinhsieh5527 4 года назад +36

    can I say yes to my grades and drop the ones I don't like lol

    • @machukaizoh8905
      @machukaizoh8905 3 года назад

      Contact me for help in research projects, homework and online tutoring machukaizo@gmail.com
      or follow the link below
      nairobi.universitytutor.com/tutors/944164

  • @brianrus8791
    @brianrus8791 4 года назад

    Great vid 👍🏻

  • @nikolasmorey5648
    @nikolasmorey5648 4 года назад +1

    I was sitting down eating when I realized you have the exact same Wassily Kandinsky painting that I do behind me. Lol

  • @harolddicaprio2380
    @harolddicaprio2380 4 года назад +23

    I'm a freshman and we are already in midterms now what I have learned is it's just so hard not having a friend so you have to really have friends!! Gladly I have made friends with other courses.

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +6

      Wow you guys started early!! How are you liking college so far?

    • @t0qst
      @t0qst 7 месяцев назад

      Hey ,four years later.

  • @NoodlesUniverse
    @NoodlesUniverse Год назад +1

    Currently in 8th grade
    Way too excited for college

  • @elenashill7648
    @elenashill7648 Год назад +1

    currently packing for college and had the sudden urge to watch the goofy movie 2

  • @kavisamaraweera283
    @kavisamaraweera283 4 года назад +1

    I’m about to be a sophomore in high school. I can’t freaking wait until college.

  • @omerfarooq5109
    @omerfarooq5109 4 года назад +1

    Thank youu!!!!

  • @twopeasandthepod5855
    @twopeasandthepod5855 4 года назад

    Dope vid

  • @kasujung6202
    @kasujung6202 2 года назад +1

    You are a saint sir.

  • @mistbornallomancer3575
    @mistbornallomancer3575 4 года назад +1

    Thank u so much... This helped me a lot... I'm from India and will apply for stanford and a few other ivy leagues for the class of 2024...this video helped me tons!!!

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +1

      No worries!! Check out Bullseye cuz they help international students too

    • @saarthshah
      @saarthshah 4 года назад

      Mythili M.u did you get in? I am applying too next year!

  • @j.c.8677
    @j.c.8677 14 дней назад

    We deserve to be happy, HAPPY I SAY 😭

  • @catt8001
    @catt8001 2 года назад

    Such a nice video! Thanks:)

  • @brittbyler1092
    @brittbyler1092 4 года назад +11

    WATCHING THIS AFTER I FINISHED MY FIRST YEAR OF COLLEGE.

    • @patrickngui9279
      @patrickngui9279 4 года назад

      Is it true what he said?

    • @brittbyler1092
      @brittbyler1092 4 года назад +1

      @@patrickngui9279 for me it wasnt i went to a community college so there was no parties and if there were i didnt know about them.

  • @danielessien5256
    @danielessien5256 2 года назад

    mehn
    i really love your vibe

  • @minhaohuy342
    @minhaohuy342 4 года назад +14

    I really like the your voice so much, i wish you up video Day by day, hihi hahaha, i wanna learn accent Eng by you hihihihihi

    • @hafu
      @hafu  4 года назад +1

      Come learn English! Watch more videos ;)