Madit & Serenity Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
- Welcome back to my channel! In this segment of "Catch Up", we got a chance to follow up with our matches and see where they are today.
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Telling someone you met in person, they have to compete with strangers in your DM is INSANE
Maaaaan
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Someone told me this and even gave me a deadline to followup with him (he was on another sm dating show,lol), I never did, but he continued to reach out😂 Eventually told him 'good luck'. That ninja was exhausting and fool of 💩.
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So insane
Bro has a Master's degree, speaks well, very down to earth, and refuses to chase anything that doesn't show the same interest. There's nothing wrong with that.... 💯
Great example of a man in modern dating 👌🏿
He man is supposed to pursue he chased after his dreams education he put forth effort, time, and consistency because he wanted her. If a man does not pursue you but wants benefits from you that’s crazy. Would you just give your heart body mind and time to a woman who put forth not effort to respond back to you meet you half way etc.
@@Asiacolexo, Your last sentence seems contradicting. No he does not want a woman who cant respond back, that is why he stopped reaching out. He clearly stated, she was busy, asked her to let him know when she was free and he would have taken it from there. It seems as though he showed interest but she didn't. He clearly read the room and decided to move on.
You're preaching💯
Men ask to be seen as leaders and then get upset women expect them to take the lead while dating 🤦🏾♀️😭😭
Dude stood on business, shot his shot, and left ball in her court. She didn't contact him so he didn't sweat her. That's what men w self worth do. She let her EGO get the best of her. You can hear the EGO at end of video. Kudos to homeboy. Handled perfect.
That's right
Women in 2022, girl i want me a dark skin man. This lady in 2024 girl i got me a dark skin man...... Mean while the next day. I just dont like this dark skin man. Even tho i did pick him. Wtf 😒😒😒😒
Facts
Real talk
That’s it
She bout to find out real quick what the men in her DM's are about 😂 You blew it Serenity. ✌🏾
What she is not realizing is, guys in her dm, giving pressure mindset will change after seeing this video and will play the game she wants and wont take her serious. Sometimes I think women think men dont have brains to analyze 😂. Once nature starts setting in and attention starts drying up, we will see if she still needs pressure because she might be the one applying pressure to the guy who won her game. And that will be his turn to play his game. When she does win his game now all men are the same. But she forget all men did not win her game😂😂😂
lol ok!!
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Yes sir hit and run hit and hid hit and fly hit and disappear do and say the things she likes just to hit it and quit it lol😂
She's about it. That's why she still single. She ain't fooling me. Them streets is calling her.
Majit dodged a bullet. She got a little attention in her DM’s and that was enough for her to demand more pressure from him. 😂😅. Crazy!
I think she was prob feeling some type of way already bc he totally rejected her at first. I don't blame her for being iffy.
lol her'az was NOT used to that kind of attention - flipped her whole game up once a couple thirsties got in her "dm".
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you seen it bro.. she lost all composure....
Thank you, just what I said. She’s talking about applying pressure, applying pressure for what after she said yes to him just because she’s getting some stupid attention out there 😡
She essentially said “now that I got options, I ain’t worried about you” typical story
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😂 people are funny. He rejected her first then changed his mind. That shows he is wishy washy so of course she should want him to show he is truly interested in her and apply pressure.
@@crissitycrox54he wasnt wrong either 😂😂😂 and if she didnt want him either cause of that should of said something
They just shitting on her because shes a woman@@crissitycrox54
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Madit represented South Sudan very well 🙌🏿🙌🏿. That’s how well raised and educated South Sudanese men carry themselves. You’re a gentleman and a scholar sir!!
I hope Serenity reading these comments cause the people is not on your side with this one 😂
DM’s will be filled with hate for sure
Facts 😭😂
@nialloyd8041
It's a shame because I was rooting for her. But the applying pressure nonsense is how women get harassed endlessly.
But that's what's so crazy, because we ALL (men and women alike) had her back collectively when they were popping on her. Just for her to come back with this foolishness.
Girl bye them men ova weak
Im with Majid. Men need interest shown as well. She need to admit she not into him. If she truly was she would have made time
so after he rejected her initially and criticized her fashion, she still wanting to give him a chance just wasn't enough, ok
@@mzbrown6969she didn’t pop her balloon so all is fair afterwards
@@Nick_legit the mind doesn't work like that, if you had never questioned the actions of a woman, who completely blew you off initially only the circle back around, id be a little concerned.
@@mzbrown6969i wouldn’t have allowed a circle back. Why allow it but still holding a grudge
@@Nick_legit I don't think she is holding a grudge, I think she doesn't care to be gaslit. He didn't like her the first go around, it became even more apparent when she gave him chance, so at this point it's dub. I found it funny, he still asked her out again, probably trying to get another segment on the show, glad she finally said no and killed the saga.
Serenity had me fooled...she a WHOLE red flag
This
She had us all fooled😂. Shawty did a whole 180 goofy backflip 😂😂
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💯🚩 I knew from the first episode she’s a weirdo.
Facts bro
I’m with Madit! We’re not kids he asked her on a date and she was busy he told her to let him know when she’s free she never did why should he chase her? Unacceptable.
He technically asked her on three dates. At that point you gotta tell me when you free cause you want me to run through everyday of the month or you could just say you’re free on “x” date. At that point I will continue pursuing by planning a nice date, bringing you flowers etcetera. But you keep saying you busy I’m gonna assume you not interested. I’m not going to jail for harassing a woman cos I mis read the situation. The games women play can be dangerous for men.
What she is not realizing is, guys in her dm, giving pressure mindset will change after seeing this video and will play the game she wants and wont take her serious. Sometimes I think women think men dont have brains to analyze 😂. Once nature starts setting in and attention starts drying up, we will see if she still needs pressure because she might be the one applying pressure to the guy who won her game. And that will be his turn to play his game. When she does win his game now all men are the same. But she forget all men did not win her game😂😂😂
See you kind of smart
Yeah and if a guy does that he is labeled a creep, beta or simp for good reason. no no no, you are wrong.
Guys in DMs just tryna smash
Madit seems like a great man. Whereas Serenity’s true energy came through. Congratulations sir. This is a W
He’s actually right a relationship without reciprocity can’t last
Agreed! Had the same situation recently. I got a women’s phone number because her friends told she was feeling me hard. Tried reaching out to set up a date. But every time a mentioned going out she’d just ignore my texts… I left her alone after 2-3 tries. I see every now and again. She looks at me like “damn I f#cked up.”
@@MrSamPhoenixthat’s a damn shame. Some women, not all, be moving too weird in our era. You did good moving on
It wasn’t a relationship!
@@ZeeTene every relationship is a relationship. dont let that go over your head. without reciprocity they die. friends, acquaintances, parents.
@@Blaztoize well said
This show is jus pure entertainment at this point.
None of the matches finding love, a date, a phone call or a text.
Seems more clout like agendas atp.
Yeah, I can see the end coming if folks are just clout chasing. Takes the anticipation right out of it.
I agree. It’s really disappointing because I thought this show was going to be different.
Facts
12 corazones is better
He ate with this one 😂😂💯💯 to be respectful and knows his worth . Validated her emotions and etc. Respectfully walked away 👌🏿💯
I was rooting for her too.. Shes full of herself. The dynamic of reciprocity and gratitude is everything to a man. She got exposed to more men and decided she was going to explore. He was right in not wanting to waste his time. To chase the emotionally unavailable is insane.
Speak it 💯
Let's get some clarity:
1. He popped and then reconsidered because he realized how superficial a bracelet was.
2. He asked her out because the club scene wasn't it. She had things planned and had a busy schedule when he reached out the first time.
3. He texted her to find out when she was available, to no avail.
All you had to do was pick up the phone and text when you're available. Acting like using your thumbs is hard to do. Please.
Not to add she goes in to mention that she has dudes in the DMs, kind of disrespectful. This man shown plenty that he was interested.
And let's be real, 10 years in a relationship that a man proposed 2 times and still couldn't get a yes. There's something more to that. This woman can't be satisfied.
Madit, keep rising!
Facts!! I made a mental note of that too! Why were you in a relationship with someone who proposed twice and stayed with them for 10 years? She is a dam goofy!
Right like her attitude here is weird.
Cooking
It’s a very good point my brother.
I’m glad u said this because he clearly asked her on a date she told him she to busy then went to entertaining niggas in her dms and comments without telling the dude she matched with when she was free 🤦🏽♂️she crazy that’s what’s wrong with her
He is very very professional I love seeing this in black man the way he spoke and responded showed how mature he is ❤
Very true, what is prominently coming out is his maturity and her lack of it.....with her dwelling on the past as a prerequisite of the future when a present was already decided.
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No disrespect, but did yall see his initial approach on the show? He was a bit condescending and thought his ass was Michael B Jordan or something. He popped a balloon on her, said that weird ass entitled "you take me shopping too" comment, and commented on her attire like a sassy woman. I am shocked that he is in his feelings right now.
@@leewolf7096 yes he did and he apologised and checked himself for that. A clear mark of maturity, unlike what can be said about dwelling on a corrected past.
He didn’t lose out at all and his right it was a test her and she failed no man wants a woman who has matched with someone on a big big show then just because she getting more attention she loses interest she fake nasty girl that
She was mad that he tested her, when she literally tested him to apply pressure 😂
She wants a men she can sh1t-test into oblivion and make a fool of himself. Then she will disregard that man for being a beta soon after.
The best thing men can do is simply walk away. He did good!
Classic example of not being to take what you dish. She truly missed out.
Madit is a great guy. We was blinded by this lady but she's for the streets. Rooting for Madit 💯
11:34 he dropped bars 😤 “if I chase you, I want to see the interest. I don’t want to go ins room and you checking to see who a better version would be”
The girl is indeed thirsty. She got a little interest, and she's gone with the wind.
Broo that shit went over a lot of headssss !! Including her!
pure bars. checked her nice
I see both sides but i totally understand Madit’s view of not wanting to play games and chase. At their age just be upfront. Communication does go both ways
Facts, her DM lit up, and probably the other guys were more attractive in the DM, but she is wrong.
Yup, he’s African too and we don’t play these games when it comes to dating like Americans do.
I agree with him to old to chase to much
@@edk487Africans just scam like Adanna? Lol
I hear where he's coming from, and I generally agree, but I do feel like either one of them could've followed up. Sounds like some silly pride stuff. Should he have "had to" though, no.
Oh Lord, I just got to the point in the video where she's in her feelings about the bracelet. She basically want him to beg for her. Girl bye. 🤣
Man ain’t nobody about to be doing all that. I feel him, I’m not about to keep saying “hey when you wanna go out? Hey when you wanna go out?”
She had us in the first part not gna lie. Should've sit this one out and let her 1st impression reign supreme.
she seemed more friendly and approachable on the first episode. now she seems full of herself with all her DMs and plenty of eye rolls. lol
True
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Women be faking the femininity to get ya. 😂
That's what fame does to a person unfortunately 😭😭
Yeah you can tell she feeling herself from the start 😅
That lady rewatched the episode, read them comments, and got in her feelings. She was angry and embarrassed at the way she was treated, and she loving the attention she’s receiving.
THIS!!!!
Like I picture her drinking a glass of wine in bed reading the comments and letting it pump her head up. She came READY trying to check him over the bracelet comment ….
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and I don't blame her for it tbh, she should know her worth.
THIS!
Man i remember everyone trashing those men that popped their balloons 🎈 as soon as she walked in. Seems like they dodged a bullet. The brotherhood spidey senses were tingling. 😂😂😂
She did read those comments and it hit a nerve. Serenity never go with the crowd. You came on this show to win. This brotha is solid.
Definitely seems to be influenced by others thoughts. Not good
So basically, she wasnt THAT interested because she suddenly got more options. The dude didnt play her game and here we are😅
Yup, and I was really feeling her personality-wise. But then she showed just how immature she really is.
@@MrSamPhoenixMs. Self aware, emotionally intelligent 😂
That’s what I took from her response too. Additionally, it seems like she tried to punish him for initially popping the balloon. She never told him when she was available
She’s a bird 🦅 just looking for a thirsty dude lol
@@MrSamPhoenix
That's women for you, fickle
So Madit was supposed to know when Serenity was available without her telling him? Is he supposed to be psychic? That is wild. Everyone on this show is exhausting.
preach brother.
He’s the one that should’ve planned within her schedule she pointed out days she wasn’t available
What’s her race? enough said leave those types ALONE…
He should have took a more direct approach. “I’m free on XYZ days. Are you free on any if those days?” Type ish. Not leaving it up in the air, casual, passive vibe
How about just calling to have a conversation over the phone. Why couldn't he do that. Try and get to know her better before the date. That's what applying pressure means. I personally don't go out with men I haven't formed a connection with. And as a man you should not be spending money on dates without knowing wether or not you and her can hold a comfortable conversation over the phone. But of course that's not an option because according to you she's supposed to be chasing him down after just meeting him once on TV show gotcha 😉.
I didn't feel Serenity in the previous video, glad to see her show me why. I'm with Madit on this one.
Dude is a gentleman and he respects himself 💯
She definitely fooled my ass. “Men in my DMs were applying pressure”, yikes.
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She fooled all of us. She ain't nothing but the typical 304, ain't nothing special about her just like the rest of them.
😭😭😭😭😭one of the worst things a woman your trying to court/date can say tbh
Right? If dms are all it takes to impress you then I don’t think he missing out
This really shows that those other guys who popped their ballon’s saw what we’re seeing now
Right & we felt bad for her ..... the 1 dude that said he seen red flags in her on that episode was right 😂😂
@@Igetsitin89 women do this all the time not surprised at all
In reality she probably found someone more physically pleasing to her in her DMs.
My thought is the people who DM'ed you after you get a match is not for you in the long run. In their eyes, you are taken, but still hit you up. That means they are people with no integrity and just trying to smash.
Yes and no. Because some people don’t take those shows seriously.
The show should Uber them to dinner right after they match. Very simple solution.
Genius
Me finding out they all went to the club lol. Is this college
good idea
But their thinking skills is low for that unfortunately smh
Nahh he needed to see this red flag. Or he could have been with her 10 years just for her to break up with him. This saved him years on his life so he could find someone else.
This was on her…at their age and their level of maturity he was clear and concise the ball was in her court to respond and be communicative.
shes only 28, why are people talking like they are in their mid 30s. Also she is just being petty and still hurt about him rejecting her the first time, I understand her view
@@naimam397628 and still behaving like a teen?
@@naimam3976only 28? I realized that we treat full grown people as late teens now. At 25 at least we should be able to have better understanding of things.
@@LukeniVig you have to have made the journey to see that. People who are still growing won't understand because they share her mindset still
@@therealmvp_ absolutely I don’t even mean it in a judgemental way. I respect that we have different experiences and understanding of those experiences. I can say for sure that the dating market in the USA is a scary thing
Serenity was by far the best woman on the show, but I can definitely understand where Madit is coming from. I've never asked a woman twice for anything. You're either interested or you're not. Them DM's kinda went to her head I think
Yep
I agree. The universe will only put so many opportunities in place for us all.
You think? Man It's quite obvious. I also suspect she doesn't really get that much attention in real life, which is why she seemed very upset that Madit didn't apply "Pressure"... Damn lady how much pressure do you want?
That’s what happened. She got a little bit of attention and now she feels like the man should chase her non-stop. She barely gave the man any feedback and expected him to keep reaching out?!? She seems a bit crazy
That’s what it sounds like.
She was in a 10 year relationship where the guy had to propose twice and still got a NO. That tells you all you need to know
Madit woulda asked her 50 times and her schedule would have never opened up.
3 times. And yup that is all you need to know
Crazy that you can say no to marriage multiple times and still not leave the relationship. She loves wasting time is what everything about her, says
"apply presure"😂😂 Man Madit...you handled that like a real one
This was my FAVORITE COUPLE! Both level headed, humble, sincere....too bad they didnt work out but i agree with him. Her needing to be begged is just a no.
She's not humble. Women who need a man to beg and chase after them are not humble women. They are prideful and need men to constantly beg for their attention because it feeds their ego.
@@BlueDude-cf9mk right! But she didn't act like that on the first episode. I'm glad he didn't give in during this update.
@@222lannaFacts. She seemed like the sweetest woman ever but then turned out to have a HUGE EGO. That shit is disgusting.
Shi crazy 😭😂💀
She's not level headed or humble at all WTHeck hahahaha
my man stood on business. ain't no applying pressure, we grown. she should have reached back out once he tried to schedule the first date.
She made time to do this interview 🤔
When we apply pressure, they say we being thirsty, women these days are confused and don’t know what they want or need
This was before the episode air. 🤦🏾♀️
Exactly. you keep saying you busy I’m gonna assume you not interested. I’m not going to jail for harassing a woman cos I mis read the situation. The games women play can be dangerous for men.
Bro aint no simp, on to tha next
Congratulations Serenity, you played yourself.
Arlette’s fashion is always on point. Pretty, classy, sexy and flawless. I always look forward to what she’s wearing.
Yes!!!!
I totally agree 🧡💯
Yes! Her fashion is 🤌🏾✨
I’m here for it to
Have to admit, the hostess (Arlette Amuli) is very professional. I love her vibes.
And always very well dressed
Her style fits her personality LOL makes sense why everyone popped their balloons
We need more EPISODES of pop the ballon, now u got me over here waiting HURRY lol!
She was the only woman I ever liked on this show. 😂
For real
I said the same damn thing
A lot of the dudes passed on her because they thought she was a transformer man. U can kinda pick up on what a few of them were trying to insinuate, when they kept talking about her muscular build, they just didn't want to be disrespectful
Absolutely gorgeous fr
She needs to stop looking for online pressure and focus on genuine interests
Arlette’s aura and social skills are truly underestimated! I pray and claim for her so much further than RUclips. This is just the beginning for her! 🤞🏽💯
No her show is not underestimated she just started posting 4 months ago and she's getting lots of ratings and she will grow chill relax
seriously yes
Yes playboi carti level aura
@@MikeDexClusive lol huh?
She want a man to chase her that’s why she’s single hitting 30+
Good luck with them DM's Serenity!!😁🤦🤦🤦😂😂😂Madit dodged a bullet
Madit is such a handsome man, I hope he gets the love he deserves
She said keep applying pressure don’t leave me alone lol who tf about to keep chasing a woman around that ain’t making the time for me to take her out
thank u!
Only Steve Urkel😒
😂😂😂 Laura my Pet @TheDelicateMariposa
@@tratrazy1633Yes only Steve Urkel
@@TheDelicateMariposa even Steve Urkel found him someone else who reciprocated.
She sure enjoyed the comments on the last video. I know for damn sure she won’t enjoy these comments😂
Right, I was thinking the same thing. I hope she know people are so fickle they love you today and will talk about you tomorrow. Her attitude at first was fine, but I don't get how she has so much time for the men in her DMs and not the man she chose to match with if she was so busy.
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What she is not realizing is, guys in her dm, giving pressure mindset will change after seeing this video and will play the game she wants and wont take her serious. Sometimes I think women think men dont have brains to analyze 😂. Once nature starts setting in and attention starts drying up, we will see if she still needs pressure because she might be the one applying pressure to the guy who won her game. And that will be his turn to play his game. When she does win his game now all men are the same. But she forget all men did not win her game😂😂😂
I agree w/ Bro. Chase some one who dodged you and you are suppose to still chase. She is an opportunitist for the highest bitter. He did a great job standing on business.
Great job Majit. You understand your worth as a man (a high value one at that) and decided to keep it stepping. Be open to all opportunities and all shades because someone out there will treat you correctly.
Madit I’m praying for a wholesome woman for you! You’re amazing and you handled this interview well
💯💯love how so well spoken he is
Tbh this is a very different side of Serenity that wasn’t portrayed on the show. And it’s giving petty, immature and rude. Yes y’all are both single however if a man reaches out to you to make plans, you’re busy so he says let me know when you’re schedule opens up to plan something, and you don’t hit him back sweetie: YOU’RE WRONG! It’s all about reciprocation. it sounds like you let them other niggas that DM you get to your head 😂. A man is to pursue you not CHASE you. All you had to do was tell him yea I’m available this Saturday and see if he makes plans or not. Sorry but I’m with Madit on this one he dodged a bullet 🤷🏾♀️
EDIT: Additionally why were you in a 10 year relationship with someone that proposed to you twice and you said no? What was the point of the 10 years? Serenity it’s giving red flag 🚩 🚩🚩
Exacty and I agree
I concur
This comment is well thought out. I didn’t see this side of her on the show either.
@@Hisnameistruth thank you. I’m a woman and she did a complete 180! All them DMs got to her head that’s what it is. If she was really that salty about his initial pop, it shouldn’t take rewatching the episode to figure that out. You were there in real time and the mature thing would’ve been to pop his balloon because you didn’t like the fact that he was shallow in the first place and subsequently leaving without a match. All this crap she doing after the fact is why she gonna stay single.
@@AckeeandSaltfish exactly. There’s a reason why she’s single. Wasted somebody time for 10 years . Now trying to waste his time by this applying pressure BS. Luckily, he’s smart enough to see this and keep it moving and she’s mad like him moving on logically is not showing interest. She just ruined her image with this follow up
She snapped on him lol. She was waiting to do that lol
She really didn’t eat though… just showed her true neutral tone colors lol
😳 He dodged a bullet! I'm so happy for him 👏🏾
Seems like them DMs definitely got to her head. When she first appeared on the show she was meek and humble. Now she’s finally getting the attention she longed for after that 10 year relationship. If she only seeks for applied pressure then she’ll forever be in the mix because us men will apply pressure til the pipes buss 💯
She's changed for real from the first time she was in the show.
This guy seems genuine and wanted to be hers but she's tripping right now
Facts
@@nicolekarmah7103 It didn't even take long but she's already adopted the personality of every girl that gets attention online.
If other guys are applying pressure and as a woman you are entertaining the pressure you were not interested from the door. Just keep it simple.
DING DING DING
Exactly… Later with all the social media catchphrases and say what it is.
she's saying she has other, better options and if he is not going to do anything to set himself apart from her other options, then why would she be interested in him?
@@missyd1215 didn’t she go on the show to go through those options? So she actually went there for exposure for better options and love the thrill of the chase because of her body and status. When a woman know what she wants she would change her schedule regardless of what she had going on. She wasn’t interested in my man from the door. You can look at her face during the show and we all knew she settled from being embarrassed from not being picked by others. This is definitely an egotistical woman
she’s single she’s supposed to date multiple ppl
I think because initially he popped the balloon 🎈 she took his interest as "lukewarm". So for her to regain a sense of security in his interest, she needed pressure x2 to compensate for initial ego bruise. However, he is not going to go w/high level pressure for someone he had tap into logic vs instinct for. We have to understand that some people are going to have an initial strong attraction to us, others might be a slow burn, others not at all.
That's an excuse. She could have said no on the original show.
What she is not realizing is, guys in her dm, giving pressure mindset will change after seeing this video and will play the game she wants and wont take her serious. Sometimes I think women think men dont have brains to analyze 😂. Once nature starts setting in and attention starts drying up, we will see if she still needs pressure because she might be the one applying pressure to the guy who won her game. And that will be his turn to play his game😂😂😂
I don’t agree with women that expect men to chase them down like a taxi cab. Yes, we love to be pursued but it’s ok and it’s attractive for women to show equal interest in a man if he’s what you want. I agree with Madit!
What she is not realizing is, guys in her dm, giving pressure mindset will change after seeing this video and will play the game she wants and wont take her serious. Sometimes I think women think men dont have brains to analyze 😂. Once nature starts setting in and attention starts drying up, we will see if she still needs pressure because she might be the one applying pressure to the guy who won her game. And that will be his turn to play his game. When she does win his game now all men are the same. But she forget all men did not win her game😂😂😂
Facts
Taxi cab 😂
NAH SERIOUS QUESTION IS THEIR EVER A HAPPY ENDING IN THESE MATCHES???‼️‼️ GOD DAMN🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Right at least have a one night stand
Nope welcome to gen Z
@@I_speak_truth shit wicked out here on a different level fam🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ WHAT WENT WRONG 🙂↕️
They should replace the name of show fight to the death coz all they do is stab each other
That's what I want to know; it's a waste of time. And only done to raise people's social media perks
He spoke well and I could respect his transparency and ‘pov’
I absolutely loved her on the show!
When I first saw serenity in the show I thought she was intelligent and knows what she wants boy that’s why you need to take time get to know a person. He telling her he want to pursue her and she wants to be chased that’s is so immature on her part. He is very intelligent, very well spoken, educated and got his business down , very high confidence and knows his worth, very respectful and ever validated her point of view in respectful manner and even try to giver her another chance for date and will to work on the offer with out chasing other options while she wants to be chased by every guy on her dms. And when he said ‘as long as you take me shopping to’ he wasn’t being sassy he was telling her relationship should be based on giving and receiving on both parties.She lost a treasure. There a few men like him in this world.Good for him she didn’t waste his time and he saw right through it.
She got alot of likes and now her head swole smh 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ain’t never got this much attention in her life probably!!!
Yep that’s the vibe I’m getting lol. She seem like the type that may not have got a lot of attention in her life until now
She been egotistical
No kizzyyyy
Isn't that just crazy! Why did she go to the show? Such a time waster
They are not interested in each other...just be honest...
They*…..She wanted to be chased and he wanted reciprocity. But overall yes they are not interested in each other.
I agree cause even on the other follow ups they’re just not that “in” to each other.
He was interested in her, she wasn’t interested in him. He tried FDB
@@334GuhI think he was interested but she wasn’t. The fact that he tried to schedule a date means he was interested but she gave him the “I’ll let you know” so he backed off. He made a wise choice to be honest she wasn’t feeling him.
@@shonthaphenom4341 he just wasn’t interested enough…didn’t even follow up but it worked out cause they’d be wasting each other’s time.
I agree with Majid! Reciprocity is paramount!
I like this brother, stand your ground, love relationship is a two way thing and he did his part, she’s the one who did not. But acting like he didn’t do his part. Talking about applying pressure BS , he reached out and the ball was on her hands
I’m sorry I find it so funny that Serenity mic hand shakes, her adrenaline was pumping. I think she has a temper that she tries to hide cuz she definitely went in and I don’t think the situation needed all that. 😂😂😂
She's a former athlete. Athletes typically have high competitive energy and aggression.
Why this so funny 😂
Lol she's definitely a little off. All that smiling is a cover up for how crazy she is 😅😅
@@brandonclark8395 what’s the competition here?
I noticed that too
Serenity CLEARLY missed out. He is seemingly very well rounded in all aspects and super respectful
A lot of women don’t know what “applying pressure” mean. If I ask you on a date and you decline because of your busy schedule, it’s not my job to reach back out and ask again. Let me know what day you’re available and I’ll plan something, it’s that simple and I don’t blame ole dude for falling back
Glad she brought up Madit's seashell shirt, cant come for her style while wearing that 🤣
This comment shows what’s crazy in this world. In that given moment she took what he said easy. They ended up matching and all. However, the INTERNET is what hyped her up. If the video never would’ve got posted and she didn’t get dms they would’ve probably went on several dates and been happy.
@@healthyboyquese I side with him on the reciprocity bit. He asked her out, she declined, it was on her to offer an alternative date...she didnt so he was right not to force it. His fashion remarks were still corny though
But she never mentioned it until the show went viral
Ppl make time for things they want to make time for 💯. You shouldn’t have to chase that hard my brothers if she fwy you’ll know
Exactly. If you got to chase her it means she don’t want to be caught.
Girl! He asked you on a date. You guys matched. Why would you expect him to chase you down? You should have followed up.
I admire his attitude.
Brother dodged a bullet because this girl is a red flag
- Madit shows interest by asking her on a date (something different from the club scene)
- Serenity’s schedule that week is busy, So Madit says let me know when you’re available next week and we can work something out
- Serenity has other options starting to roll into her DMs, yet wants Madit to continue applying pressure to ask her out when he was respecting her busy schedule and waiting for her to tell him when she is available for a date.
If Serenity was actually interested she would not be paying much attention to the DMs and would have let Madit know when she is available for a date considering she was busy before when he asked. I bet you if it was a guy she was truly interested in, she would have let him know asap when she was free next. She the type to play games it seems.
Facts that’s why she single in the 1st place lol
@@Mrgetdoe777I mean peep how he said she was in a ten year relationship and denied the proposal twice.....
I was rooting for Serenity on the show… what I’m seeing on this video is the complete opposite. A walking red flag 🚩 Madit, you’re a REAL GENTLEMAN 👍🏾 you dodged a bullet with this one
She pissed me off. I was rooting for them out of all the couples. I thought she was this classy level-headed grown woman, but we winded up getting this ghetto bitter petty child like person smh just ugly
Love seeing Arlette cracking up 😂 😂
I'm so glad you do follow-ups. If she was really interested in him, she would have made time to go on a date.
Bro is a solid guy, I think she just doesn’t want to straight up admit she wants other guys and instead she’s blaming him. I gave her mad props for her character being solid on the show but she’s being sort of mean.
Great explanation Madit. Very well versed. Thats a good point about not having her look over her shoulder for something better and for her to also show interest, because it’s true we don’t want to chase for no reason when our interest goes beyond the physical. And you never got petty and shown respect the whole way and took the beating. Respect brotha! Lots of guys would get catty back and show lack of maturity.
He rejected her over a bracelet, so he placed doubt in her mind as to his true intention, when he circled back around. I think she thought she would get more clarity about his intention by the effort that he put into getting to know her, but he didn't. You seemed to be missing the part where he rejected her initially. It's like the gold digger who circles back around, when she finds out you have money, it's like now it's dawned on you I am your type. It dawned on him; he may have an opportunity at exposure if he picks someone but he wasn't not interested.
@@mzbrown6969 that’s a good point and another way to look at it. I do t u sweat and why they all rejected her in the first place, but maybe they felt intimidated. Either way good point. No one likes to feel like a second choice of some sort. Intentions is a good point t as well.
@@CDreezy94 well there was one who didn't pop his balloon, but he had kids. One said he looked like she could beat him up even though she spoke literally just above a whisper, another said she looked uncoordinated even though she said she was fitness instructor, one said she reminded him of his ex, I guess all the positivity was a turn off, one said he didn't think she would like but when pressed he said he needed to see more options, he ended up choosing someone who called the SNP 500, the SNK when she was one the one who was probably more knowledgeable then those two combined. But if you get those reasons, so be it.
@@mzbrown6969ma’am he was simply being shallow but he came to his sense and even held himself accountable. I don’t think his true intentions were a mystery he seemed like he genuinely liked her and even awkwardly attempted to ask her out again after missing her rejections.
@@fe2890thank you. He made a rushed decision, thought about it, took accountability and corrected himself. It’s not like he waited to see if there were better options then came back
I'm learning to re-watch the episodes to get full clearity of what fully transpired. Because, I'm noticing when I take the time to do this I am less blinded by any preconceived emotions. Honestly, I think everyone should try it and pay attention to the clearity received the second time around. It's like taking off a fliter.
that's why you have to get to know women... really had us fooled😂😂
I may be attacked for this but I feel the same way as Madit. If I show interest and go out of my way to ask you on a date, yes I understand it may not be a good time for you I totally respect that, but don’t expect me to apply pressure if you haven’t gotten back to me. I need SOME kind of interest shown from the woman’s end. I don’t mind going out of my comfort zone and breaking the ice but I need some effort on the other side.
nah fam you 100000% right, you will not be attacked, im here to defend you.
@@ChazW93 Of course, look at how she looks. She can do nothing right to ya'll. I'll leave it there.
U right. Sound to me like she just wasn’t that into him. She can spin it and say “He ain’t Apply Pressure” or whatever catchphrase ppl learned from social media. Cuz she doesn’t seem (to me) like an IG baddie, she sounds like someone that if she likes u, she’s open from jump and dude just wasn’t doing it for her.
Reciprocity!!! 💯
Exactly…..
Him commenting on her clothes while dressed like a seashell was crazy
😂😂
😂😂😂 I said the same thing
😂😂😂😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️
😂😂😂😂😂
A man having any opinion at all these days is crazy. Foh
Being 30 and talking about applying pressure....
She is a red flag but has nothing to do with her age. Please stop shaming women because of their age they should be grateful to whoever asked them out 😅
He stood on business!!! Good for him!
She had us in the first half! Can’t lie IYKYK
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In this stage of life RECIPROCATING is the pressure ❤️
Respect to that brother!
I love the guyyy and how he thinks
there is a difference between applying pressure & begging for attention. obviously her business comes 1st to her
Agreed. And she simply wasn’t attracted to him. I don’t know why she couldn’t come out and just say it. I say that because she kept mentioning how other guys were in her DMs… not sure why that was important for her to say that.
Yea he was suppose to apply pressure to compete with the guys in her DMs who most likely just wanted to fk
What she is not realizing is, guys in her dm, giving pressure mindset will change after seeing this video and will play the game she wants and wont take her serious. Sometimes I think women think men dont have brains to analyze 😂. Once nature starts setting in and attention starts drying up, we will see if she still needs pressure because she might be the one applying pressure to the guy who won her game. And that will be his turn to play his game. When she does win his game now all men are the same. But she forget all men did not win her game😂😂😂
He was tripping for the watch thing initially. She was very well put together but he made a good point about reciprocity. I’m not chasing a woman that doesn’t reciprocate any interest either. As soon as I get the vibe that you’re not interested and I’ve hit you up a couple of times to make plans with no response or “hey this is my availability” I’m moving on too.
ehh 12:00 angry black woman out of nowhere, she is put together, but she is waiting to snap.
@@ChazW93I peeped that at 12:34 when she hit him with the rapid eye blinks. I feel bro dodged a bullet.
That's the thing though u said " after hitting her up a couple of times to make plans with no response" he only asked her once ok fine she was not available at that time how about calling her and having a convo over the phone and texting her see how she's doing. If he did that I think she would've made an effort to let him know when she's free.
He Initially didn’t want her, then circled back. He absolutely does need to apply pressure.
@@iNateDogg She had no other options though.
Social media has everyone thinking they have options #sosad that guy is a great guy
she is absolutely right . i love her
She wanted to throw him under the bus but I love his response. No need applying pressure. She wanted to ride on the temporary fame she’s got from RUclips.
Good luck all 🙌🏾