She’s a great host because she allows them to talk and these people just spew all their red flags with ease. But I could tell that car and speaker was having her over there holding the deepest breathe 😂
To make this segment even better, I think Arlette should insert clips to back up what they’re saying 🤭 the whole “I never said that on the show”, then insert the clip of them saying it 🤣
I went back and watched their episode. What’s interesting is that one of the first questions he asks her was “what’s more important personality or money?” and she struggled to answer but eventually said personality. That alone really explained what went wrong here. And he did say “if the personality is there the bag is there”. They BOTH need to be honest. She needs to just say I’m 34 and need someone who can provide for me financially and he needs to say I’m not in a place where I can provide for you financially. Therefore this won’t work. It’s that simple.
Clearly he's smart and he's not a simp , a simp would spend money on a first date trying to impress a woman that is not even sure about you a rooftop dating is for a wife, and dating is not about where you take the person its about getting to know each other, but I see 304 think like this and they will always complain that's why the men are leaving
The way y’all comprehend things are mind boggling sometimes. At no point in this whole video did ever say she needed money or support. In fact the whole time she explained how she didn’t mind if he didn’t have the money what she expressed MULTIPLE times was that she wanted him to be HONEST but that wouldn’t have changed how she felt. Learn to listen.
And it seems to be working out well for her. I never thought id be watching her channel, but I’m actually enjoying it. I’m still on the fence about subscribing, no lie, but i do enjoy watching it when i do watch.
Arlette always looks like she’s 3 seconds away from busting out laughing. I’m addicted to her facial expressions while still being professional and neutral. 😂😂
Damn we lost this one fellas.. she whooped his ass in this conversation. Humble, respectful, intellectual. And the host!! She is HILARIOUS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Great job
@@Wisdomandwar504 No rooftop date, Bluetooth speaker in car, no debit card, complaining about price of a relatively cheap date, yeah, city boys lost some points here.
I don't think you listened to him properly, bro. She said he said he didn't have a card and he said he actually tried other options as well as the card wasn't working so it wasn't just "I don't have the card". They're talking past each other a bit but she seems to have a strange attitude to me. He doesn't seem to be lying if not much, at all. God bless you all that read this.
She said she was not expecting the things that were presented to her because of how he was talking before. She didn't even say it was bad, it was just unexpected and he got offended by her reaction.
@@jaymanfxBecause her main purpose was to embarrass him, while saying, she wasn’t trying to embarrass him😆. All that shade throwing she was doing, just to stay on the date, instead of dipping.
I love her! She was so mature and told her story without trying to embarrass him, but he basically made her tell the play by play. He seems so bitter. He sold a dream that he couldn’t uphold basically. Him not being able to afford a date wasn’t the problem. Him not being able to afford the date that he sold her on was the problem, and it doesn’t make her a gold digger to expect him to do what he said he would do. She stayed respectful to the very end. He was pressed for sure!
@@silentxculture8605 if you don't have oil in your car you dont need an oil change you have an oil leak much bigger problem. atleast he picked her up she sounded like a user and he was either broke or testing her. The you still stayed he kept saying sounds like he was broke though, which is cool if he wasn't lying to her but she def was trying to use him.
Arlette, you have been THE only content creator doing this the right way! I can hardly watch any of the other balloon videos by others. I love your professionalism, the way your process had consistency and the way you are doing flow ups!
woah, i couldn’t really see her face clearly with the bucket hat she had on in the episode and now that i can see her face DAMN SHE IS GORGEOUS LIKE DAMNNNNN
@@irvingp6859”mad makeup” is crazy and I wish people who knew nothing about makeup would stop speaking on it. Anyway, she is really pretty. Also I’ve never understood the concept of disagreeing with someone finding someone else attractive. Like what’s the point??
I know appearance ain’t everything but in the pop the balloon episode he was wearing Cartier Glasses, a chain, a nice looking watch (don’t know if it had diamonds or not) and told her the bag was in 😂 Why TF would she expect him to pull up in a 08 Honda accord with no radio??? 😂😂😂 And calling $10 parking “taxin” is CRAZY 😂
@@SpTgUrL2010Not getting an oil change for 2 or 3 days is a different situation than just not having a car from 2010 and up. And as the man most of the time she gone be riding in my car
@@ratedn4niasome of them did have 6 figure and up jobs they just didn’t chose or get choose. Also there’s a lot of wealthy folks who dress like Adam Sandlers. But I do agree with you some of them you can tell they don’t got it like they say.
I feel like she would have looked past everything and gave him one more chance, but he ruined it with his pride. Fellas takes notes, sometimes silence is golden.
Weird mentality. You’re acting like she’s the only woman on the planet or something. She belittled him first, so he fired back. Never let a woman trample over you just because you want a second chance. You’re just waiting to be used as a doormat in the future.
@@SmartriideNot just looks, but money too. She just heard model and actor and thought he was rich and was sold immediately. Both sides did not look good.
nah, i totally understand what she's saying. he told her one thing and provided something totally different. She never said that she didnt enjoy herself. she just wishes he would have been straightforward about everything from the beginning so she could have been prepared.
I understood what she was saying at first but then realized he NEVER said he had it like that. It’s just what she PERCEIVED about him when he mentioned rooftop date so tbh he’s absolutely right she only went on a date with him bc she thought he had it like that. He never really lied at all
@@stanleywallace2692Did you miss the part where he first said they were grown and he’s trying to figure out why he has to pick her up .. he threw the ball first and she threw it back
@@ReesyQueen picking her up is what a man is supposed to do…but then to comment on my car when I’m giving you a ride just seem unnecessary to me and uncalled for. I thought he could of communicated better but I also know when you don’t know a person like that and you like them you naturally try not to disappoint…. From watching the show in my personal opinion I don’t think she would’ve liked him even if he was honest and straightforward but I also think it would be fair to at least give her the option to see if she still wanted to deal with him
I agree to a certain extent. I think people in general need to make sure they are healed..mentally and financially stable before trying to date. The thing with these two though he asked money or personality and of course personality means more but I think he ran with that thinking he could be comfortable🤣 but obviously he didn’t listen to her answers with some of the other guys. I don’t think it’s about increasing his hustle it’s more about being honest bc he sold her a pretty picture. Had he let her know his situation she may have rode it out with him.
He fumbled bad. She was willing to take all that but he still tryna call her a gold digger. A gold digger would’ve definitely left him at Honda accord 😂😂
Les gar "American" Dieu ma vraiment epargné de ses gamins. Ca c'est une fille ki a la tete sur ces epaule. Et elle croyait etre avec un vrais homme mais helas.!!!
Ishmael doesn’t listen, he just talks and you can see he was offended lol. You can have a good time with someone and not want another date 🤷🏾♀️. She explained why and he still missed the point.
Fellas, Fellas, Fellas, take notes, do not complain about picking a woman up on the first date. Next fellas, do not ever after the age of 25 take a woman to the movies on the first date. Fellas, always be on top of your communication & preparation and these types of things may not happen. This woman imo is a good woman and she really wants to find her man but you gotta be on your shit to and don't belittle her over dumb shit.
Yeah & As A Grown Man Am Not Taking A Woman 2 Da Movies On The 1st Date Or Complaining Abt Picking Her Up, I AM PICKING YOU UP, Cause No Man Should Be Dating Any Woman With No Job, No Car, No Money. Some Ov U 🥷 Get Me Tight With Your Mindset
I like movie dates! There’s a super cute theater near me in the downtown area, so the walk to even get there from the parking lot is down this cute little cobblestone street with good people watching because of all the little shops and stuff… Imo, the *correct way to go to the movies is by arriving 30min early and grabbing a drink (coffee for me cuz I’m sober, but most people like an adult bev). Then you share a popcorn together so your hands touch lol 😆 *AND you have to sneaky sneak shnax in… I like gas station or dollar tree treats, but next level is definitely subs 😈 that requires coordination though, because your girl needs to bring a purse. and after the movie you go home! Ideally, there’s some lingering and puppy-eyes and you get butterflies excited about the 2nd or 3rd date!
I’m sorry but this woman Khalov is HILARIOUS without even trying 😂 I don’t know how Arlette keeps it professional because the way Khalov narrated the date was pure comedy! The bluetooth and wind sound effects took me out, my Goshhh 😭
That's what I was thinking did he not have ac in the car ? Smh lol also at some point he said the people who own the car had the chip for the radio so it is even his car ? Or a loner? Smh he should just be honest
Khalov is not a gold digger. Listen fellas, the man pays for the first date, he ask the female if he needs to pick her up. If you’re not in the place in your life to do these things get yourself together first before you get on the dating scene. Period!
Arlette is SOOO professional & she actually listens to EVERYONE & is able to articulate accurately their perspective. GIVE THIS LADY WHATEVER DEAL SHE WANTS!! Because i would be ctfu in front of these people!😂
It don’t seem like he was lying he was responding like that bc how she was making it seem like sayin he asked for her card n shit n he ain’t have one but she ain’t say why he asked for it she was trynna make bro seem like he was broke ash n ain’t have shit and obviously that’s not the case
@@jadedabratz7442she is lying about the oil change tho, if you know enough to check it, then you should know if it’s low you just have to power some in.
She was trying not to divulge all of the details at first, but eventually just let everything out. His pride was definitely hurt and he stayed in defense mode this whole conversation.
I completely understand the woman here. The fact that he got upset when she brought up the debit card situation speaks volumes. He has a lot of shame when it pertains to his financial situation and he tries and tried to hide it. He basically has a financially stable facade when in fact his financials are in shambles for his age. She simply recognized that. That’s all. He should just keep it real, and that’s what she’s asking. On the other hand, I understand why a man would hide that and lie about that. It’s a hard predicament.
Exactly, I would never pick a guy who when you ask them their job they say I am an actor, model, musician and dhl driver. Red flag. 🚩 He could be unemployed for all we know.
Yes I agree with you all about him. My question is why didn’t she have an oil change? A car with no oil in it doesn’t happen over night. The sticker lets you know how many miles you have until it needs to be changed…. You can go get it changed a little early or a little late but not late to the point that you can’t drive it 🤔
Going to the movies on the first date is crazy. 😢 it’s super casual and IMO that’s a kind of date you go on after having gotten to know someone for some time. Coffee shops, picnics, rooftops, restaurants are all other alternatives to FORMALLY get to know someone. His demeanor, anger, and hostility in her even expressing how the date was for her is a major red flag. It’s one thing to be frustrated but to be disrespectful when she only answered a question she was asked is not okay.
To be honest tho she knew they was going to the cinema before hand. It’s not like she didn’t know , they met up and he changed the plans last min. She knew the plan was going to the movies and she took her ass there. If she thought the movies was such a big of a deal she shouldn’t have went period lmao. Movies is a trash place to go to for a first date but she happily went to it.
@@imaan3352 It was not about only going to the movies. It was about her experience all together. The ride to the movies in a car with a bluetooth speaker after he had on a diamond watch, Cartier glasses and was acting like he was having motion when they first met. He pulled up in a car she could afford when she was younger. He stole candy at the movies and complained about parking prices and asked her to pay for the next date. Either he makes money and is financially illiterate or he just broke boy trying to lie his way into some coochie
I’ve taken women out to the movies on a “first date.” But the way I did was that we went eating first. Then if the vibe is nice, I’ll ask if it’s cool if we go to the movies.
@@MrSamPhoenix some women wouldn’t mind. I was just referring to the girl in the video. She made it seem like it’s such a big deal but she still took her ass there. Lmao
@@UnapologeticallyAshley they grown asf, AMC is not regular. Like she said that’s a high school ass date, why was he complaining bout picking her up. Sounds like someone who would ask his date for gas money
Wow, the way she communicates is so mature and feminine. I love that she kept an open mind and heart. I truly hoped she finds someone who is honest and communicative❤. If she was a goldigger in any way when she saw the 08’ it would’ve been bids off.
tbh they both problematic. the episode gave gold digger energy but she speaks well. that doesnt mean she not materialistic. why bring up rooftops and you know you are busy ? reservations need to be made no ?
@@ra-neter6662 In all fairness, he’s the one who brought up the rooftop in ep.4. That was his answer to the final question before she chose him. That said, he definitely sold her a dream and she bought it so well that it seems she falls for that kind of stuff often.
@@krazyintellectual7392Yes, people will lie so she has to be able to discern when someone is not being honest even when they don’t overtly tell you. Watch people do, not only what they say.
The most common cars driven by the wealthiest people in our America: 1. Toyota 2. Honda 3. Ford Y’all get a little too caught up in image but talk about being financially literate. We have to do better black people lol, cars are depreciating assets. They’re terrible investments. Him setting an expectation and taking her somewhere that missed the mark is one thing but stop judging a man’s value on the car he drives. It’s so easy to trick y’all out y’all spot because y’all have no understanding of what real money is and how it moves. You just get it and spend it on things to present an image to other broke people
@@JB19_92 while I understand you my guy also understand the scenario of truly taking a woman to a first date and you ain’t at least charge your speaker to ensure your date some level of comfort ? You just listened to the entire story I listened to?
@@digit-eyes624 nah, I agree. I was speaking generally. Buddy in the video fumbled for sure. The speaker situation wasn’t a good look but the real fail was him telling her the first date would be at a rooftop bar and ending up at the movies lol
First and foremost if you’re an adult and going through anything, dating/looking for love should be the last thing on your mind. Having a debit card should not be your only card on you….ever. You should always have a credit card for emergencies. Secondly, if your car is missing items within the interior just take an Uber/Lyft to the destination. He could have sent an Uber for her and that whole uncomfortable situation would have been avoided. Thirdly, stealing candy on the low is diabolical… if you’re going to do that then THE BOTH of you need to be in on it so it’s an adventure 🤣🤣😂. Lastly, when a woman provides a schedule it is 💯% on the man to plan the date. A man coming to the woman asking her what she wants to do is off putting to say the least.
My synopsis although no one asked is as follows: she was very sweet kind and patient as she really wanted to give him a chance However he was not what he presented …. He feels slighted by her reality of him and therefore he calls it cap 🧢 but this pair in my opinion could’ve easily worked due to her chill vibe but he has a chip on his shoulder
He messed with that " if you have the personality, i got the bag" statement. That was the beginning of the unrealistic expectations for her. How will you arrange a movie date but can't arrange a rooftop? Are rooftops really much hard to schedule than movies?
@@Frosybeats_FbM dang on point. Sometimes, I worry about some women's taste honestly. There were better options right there. Reminds me of the episode with the intelligent girl in the yellow dress whose choice was also bleh! Oh well, to each their own as it is said😁
she’s very respectful! this man is in his feelings, starting to curse instead of just using his words to communicate effectively. cutting her off, being defensive and offended. calling her a gold digger lol. and she was still polite! i like her. i hope she finds a good man
I get what you saying but she leaving a some things out the way she talkin it’s like you would think the man pulled up with no money, he said he had cash and Apple Pay and they didn’t take both of those and he still obviously paid for the date
Dear ladies, i don't care how man times a guy invites you on a date, don't pay for any date, it's the man responsibility as long y'all still trying to know each other, know your worth!
The minute he asked her what was more important “money or personality”, she should have left him with the balloon. Why would anyone ask that? It gave, “I don’t have it right now” energy.
She came off very unappreciative smh he was himself and there’s nothing wrong with that. Her acting like she paid for anything when he gave her the cash right there when she used her card is weird asf too
I know at the end of the day, Arlette gets into her car and laughs her ass off
lmaao oh my god i'm crying
All the way home to her husband 😂😂
She’s a great host because she allows them to talk and these people just spew all their red flags with ease. But I could tell that car and speaker was having her over there holding the deepest breathe 😂
I love her 😂😂
Also praises the Lord that she's not in this horrendous dating world anymore.
To make this segment even better, I think Arlette should insert clips to back up what they’re saying 🤭 the whole “I never said that on the show”, then insert the clip of them saying it 🤣
right 😂😂
Like they did on BAD GIRLS CLUB 😂😂😂😂😭
I would be laughing way more than what I did watching this for sure!
OMG YES
Everybody need to like this comment so she can see it
Telling her to hold the phone to her ear was wilddddd though, my mouth dropped on that part 😭
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Crazy part she was down. But he fake he act as if he had it when he clearly don’t. lol he a fraud.
😂😂😂 to listen to HIS music💀
The car situation need to be added to a movie scene…. Hilarious
Lmao, could you imagine a romantic comedy
he was method acting fr 😂
That scene has been done loads of times
LMAO a tyler perry one
I went back and watched their episode. What’s interesting is that one of the first questions he asks her was “what’s more important personality or money?” and she struggled to answer but eventually said personality. That alone really explained what went wrong here. And he did say “if the personality is there the bag is there”.
They BOTH need to be honest. She needs to just say I’m 34 and need someone who can provide for me financially and he needs to say I’m not in a place where I can provide for you financially. Therefore this won’t work. It’s that simple.
That’s true
True
i guess u know is pocket
Clearly he's smart and he's not a simp , a simp would spend money on a first date trying to impress a woman that is not even sure about you a rooftop dating is for a wife, and dating is not about where you take the person its about getting to know each other, but I see 304 think like this and they will always complain that's why the men are leaving
The way y’all comprehend things are mind boggling sometimes. At no point in this whole video did ever say she needed money or support. In fact the whole time she explained how she didn’t mind if he didn’t have the money what she expressed MULTIPLE times was that she wanted him to be HONEST but that wouldn’t have changed how she felt. Learn to listen.
Whewww not these lil catch ups more entertaining than the whole show 🍿🍿😂
and people were dead asking her to stop doing these, like I'm here for the drama keep it up!
Listen, wasn't feeling the solo ones but when they bring them both back, it's definitely entertaining.
Highkey
Word
Facts 😂😂😂😂
She definitely got bamboozled 😂😂😂😂 but sis, we knew this during the episode before you said yes 😂😂😂
Literally lol
Dude was wearing shades and when he lifted them up for another contestant he looked high AF
Facts lol
Same 😅
Bamboozled hahaha
She couldn’t wait to vent and talk about this bootleg date 😂😂 she had me hollarin 😭
😂😂 dawg didn’t do us any justice
Im dead
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Bootleg 😂😂😂😂
Me too 😂 I ain’t never heard of nothing like this. Putting the speaker close to the ear to listen to his song and the speaking blows out 😂😂😂😂
You pick a dude with grills from top and bottom but then confused when he does hood stuff
😊truth.
Okay!😂😂😂
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That’s women for you
Arlette created the kind of entertainment she clearly loves to watch lol
She is tickled 😂
😂😂😂😂
Living her dream 🤎
As she should 🥰💕👐🏾
And it seems to be working out well for her. I never thought id be watching her channel, but I’m actually enjoying it. I’m still on the fence about subscribing, no lie, but i do enjoy watching it when i do watch.
This is more funny than the episode 🤣🤣🤣
Arlette: "You were talking about the car he pulled up in" 🤣🤣🤣
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“No debit card , taxing , Bluetooth speaker” lmaaaaaooo this 💩 had me weak asl
Ikr??! I was on his side until that happened. He’s cool but he fumbled on that date! 😂
Arlette always looks like she’s 3 seconds away from busting out laughing. I’m addicted to her facial expressions while still being professional and neutral. 😂😂
shut
She love to laugh lol
😂😂😂😂 I’ve just started looking! It’s a whole other show
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She stronger than me 🤣
Stealing candy on the first date and getting caught then proceeding to say " next date on you right" is DIABOLICAL work 🤣🤣
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You can tell how well they hit it off by how they avoided looking in each others direction at the beginning..ALWAYS!!
Damn we lost this one fellas.. she whooped his ass in this conversation.
Humble, respectful, intellectual.
And the host!! She is HILARIOUS
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Great job
How? She lied. Calm and light tone doesn't mean intellectual or humble.
@@Wisdomandwar504stfu she didn’t lie
@@Wisdomandwar504 No rooftop date, Bluetooth speaker in car, no debit card, complaining about price of a relatively cheap date, yeah, city boys lost some points here.
@@mco_jontI agree 🤦🏽♂️
@@Wisdomandwar504Ishmael you not slick
He keeps saying that she 🧢 but his story validates what she was saying. He was just in his feels…that’s all 😅
I don't think you listened to him properly, bro. She said he said he didn't have a card and he said he actually tried other options as well as the card wasn't working so it wasn't just "I don't have the card". They're talking past each other a bit but she seems to have a strange attitude to me. He doesn't seem to be lying if not much, at all. God bless you all that read this.
@@kolijboss facts man, why didnt she mention the fact that he had cash, even though his cards were malfunctioning
She said she was not expecting the things that were presented to her because of how he was talking before. She didn't even say it was bad, it was just unexpected and he got offended by her reaction.
@@jaymanfxBecause her main purpose was to embarrass him, while saying, she wasn’t trying to embarrass him😆. All that shade throwing she was doing, just to stay on the date, instead of dipping.
@@ghostpeppers9199right lmfaooooo she went low after he threw shade saying she didn’t have a car 💀😂😂😂😭
Ol' girl was quiet at first, then she let the cat out the bag and told EVERYTHING 😂
Man aye 😂
She was waiting to go off 😂
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She was OVER IT 😂
@@yourriderdie8472 Ok went Awwwffff 🤣😂🤣 I can’t
I love her! She was so mature and told her story without trying to embarrass him, but he basically made her tell the play by play. He seems so bitter. He sold a dream that he couldn’t uphold basically. Him not being able to afford a date wasn’t the problem. Him not being able to afford the date that he sold her on was the problem, and it doesn’t make her a gold digger to expect him to do what he said he would do. She stayed respectful to the very end. He was pressed for sure!
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She did try to play him and his Honda Civic by saying she had it in high school, but she didn’t have a car herself.
@@jayknox6319she does have a car. She just needed an oil change lol
she seems like a user. but he definitely sold her a dream.
@@silentxculture8605 if you don't have oil in your car you dont need an oil change you have an oil leak much bigger problem. atleast he picked her up she sounded like a user and he was either broke or testing her. The you still stayed he kept saying sounds like he was broke though, which is cool if he wasn't lying to her but she def was trying to use him.
That bluetooth speaker dying and Khalov doing the wind effect was insane! LMAO really cracked me up how she nailed that sound fx. LMAO
Lmfao right
LMFAOO 😂😂😂💀💀💀
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He looks waaaaay better here, without the glasses.
I literally said the same thing!! 😂 I didn’t even recognize him until they showed the clip from the episode lol.
Girl I thought he looked like a 40 year old king cid in that pop the ballon video🤣
@@nai9955this comment got me laughing so loud 😂💀 i thought this too .. he’s handsome but he look like him a lot to me lol
Look good enough for a second date IMO 😂
@@jah239 that part 😅
Arlette, you have been THE only content creator doing this the right way! I can hardly watch any of the other balloon videos by others. I love your professionalism, the way your process had consistency and the way you are doing flow ups!
Frfr I agree
All of this!
Seriously a lot of them are CRINGEY
Because she does it for the mature crowd ❤️❤️❤️everybody else does it for 18-21 year olds
Yea, you’re the ghost on these
She’s pretty….. she don’t seem like a gold digger… more down to earth than anything
The first thing she said was I'm 34 and looking for a provider 😅 sees definitely a gold digger
The fact that you said she’s pretty and don’t seem like a gold digger. I don’t know too many ugly gold diggers!
😂😂😂@@muzikm8ker
I hope she sees this bro
It’s the sound affects of the Bluetooth and the wind blowing for me!😂😂😂
I’m sorry but the phone to the ear after the speaker died 😂😂😂
You sound pleasant not
How u even ask a girl to put the phone on thy ear😂😂
@@timlynch6271 you sound like you need something better to do than mind my business stay blessed
Right!!! I was dying
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the date kept getting worse 😭 😂🤣🤣
Like dramatically worst. I feel bad!
😂😂😂@@Goodmanj1221
The speaker in the car would've been enough for me😭
Yesssss! A hot mess 😂
For real lol
Lol.. 😂😂😂 I like the way she recalls how the Bluetooth speaker died " Doof Doof " 😂😂😂
woah, i couldn’t really see her face clearly with the bucket hat she had on in the episode and now that i can see her face DAMN SHE IS GORGEOUS LIKE DAMNNNNN
Gorgeous 😂 let's slow down ,mad make up on ,u would say she not ugly 😅
@@irvingp6859”mad makeup” is crazy and I wish people who knew nothing about makeup would stop speaking on it. Anyway, she is really pretty. Also I’ve never understood the concept of disagreeing with someone finding someone else attractive. Like what’s the point??
She is sexy asf and personality even better
I know appearance ain’t everything but in the pop the balloon episode he was wearing Cartier Glasses, a chain, a nice looking watch (don’t know if it had diamonds or not) and told her the bag was in 😂 Why TF would she expect him to pull up in a 08 Honda accord with no radio??? 😂😂😂 And calling $10 parking “taxin” is CRAZY 😂
Well she ain't have oil in her whip he did go pick her up 😅
@@SpTgUrL2010Not getting an oil change for 2 or 3 days is a different situation than just not having a car from 2010 and up. And as the man most of the time she gone be riding in my car
Tbh none of them looked like they had 6 figure jobs you can tell by the way they dress.
@@ratedn4niasome of them did have 6 figure and up jobs they just didn’t chose or get choose. Also there’s a lot of wealthy folks who dress like Adam Sandlers. But I do agree with you some of them you can tell they don’t got it like they say.
I think he was wearing party carti’s 🎉😩😂
Idk how Arlette keeps her composure 😭😂 she almost lost it for a second when the woman said he turned up the Bluetooth speaker in the car 😭
Bluetooth in the car 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂 she trying so hard not to laugh
she devoured the composure 😂
“Went out…Poof!”😂😭
@@Firstpick1her making the sound effects killed me this sounded like a date from hell 🤣🤣😭😭
Bro shoplifting candy on a date 😂😂😂😂 nah
😂😂😂😂😂
She got me crying explaining that date yo 😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like she would have looked past everything and gave him one more chance, but he ruined it with his pride. Fellas takes notes, sometimes silence is golden.
Fact 👌
lol second chance for what?? It’s more fish in the sea. He gots kids, she don’t!
Weird mentality. You’re acting like she’s the only woman on the planet or something. She belittled him first, so he fired back. Never let a woman trample over you just because you want a second chance. You’re just waiting to be used as a doormat in the future.
He dodged a bullet with her. If that's all the appreciation he gets from spending on her & picking her up then she's too spoiled to deal with.
Nah, buddy outta pocket with the Bluetooth speaker.
The fellas are looking bad I'm not gonna lie 😂 She cooked him in such a respectful way.
No they are not. She had car troubles. Call it what it is.
Yep they all looking horrible but the choosing the wrong dudes, going off just looks
Simp
@@SmartriideNot just looks, but money too. She just heard model and actor and thought he was rich and was sold immediately. Both sides did not look good.
@@turanx0Everybody knows the average models and actors are broke lol It's another way to say unemployed
Arlette not trying to laugh out loud is hilarious, baby girl I wouldn’t been rolling on the floor!!!!
As soon as you bring up “I paid this much” you know shit is going bad. 🤦🏽♂️ why did he even bring that up. 🤦🏽♂️
Why not
🤣rite telling how much you paid for a movie date down to the change is crazy work🤣
nah, i totally understand what she's saying. he told her one thing and provided something totally different. She never said that she didnt enjoy herself. she just wishes he would have been straightforward about everything from the beginning so she could have been prepared.
He never lied She was just expecting him to have more money but bookie if u would have just asked u would have known
I understood what she was saying at first but then realized he NEVER said he had it like that. It’s just what she PERCEIVED about him when he mentioned rooftop date so tbh he’s absolutely right she only went on a date with him bc she thought he had it like that. He never really lied at all
@@lobmob3235boosting you have it like that is basically like lying & it’s honestly tacky & childish af.
@@rahanahtFacts💯
@@blazeshaun1115 did he say that though??
She's definitely not a gold digger. Very polite from what I'm seeing. She's just stating facts about the date
She did seem a bit shallow when she spoke about his car
@@stanleywallace2692Did you miss the part where he first said they were grown and he’s trying to figure out why he has to pick her up .. he threw the ball first and she threw it back
@@ReesyQueen picking her up is what a man is supposed to do…but then to comment on my car when I’m giving you a ride just seem unnecessary to me and uncalled for. I thought he could of communicated better but I also know when you don’t know a person like that and you like them you naturally try not to disappoint…. From watching the show in my personal opinion I don’t think she would’ve liked him even if he was honest and straightforward but I also think it would be fair to at least give her the option to see if she still wanted to deal with him
Right! People just get offended by the truth.
@@franniethefighter01 lol you talk about my comment?
Dude shouldn't be dating right now. He needs to increase his hustle.
OMM
Facts
I agree to a certain extent. I think people in general need to make sure they are healed..mentally and financially stable before trying to date. The thing with these two though he asked money or personality and of course personality means more but I think he ran with that thinking he could be comfortable🤣 but obviously he didn’t listen to her answers with some of the other guys. I don’t think it’s about increasing his hustle it’s more about being honest bc he sold her a pretty picture. Had he let her know his situation she may have rode it out with him.
😂😂😂😂
“Ian say da bag was there” 😂🤣 took me out
I idk but “where my hug at” & “let me play you my song” is just the same to me 😂😂
Most times the song is trash & it’s really awkward
The way I cringe when niggas wannna play they music for me n then wanna perform it too😅
Let me play my song for u on the Bluetooth was crazy lmaooooo
😂😂😂😂
She is soo valid; you can tell she has a good head on her shoulders, I love how calm but assertive she is.. you fumbled my boi
He fumbled big time! Too immature. Lost a great woman.
Agreed!
He fumbled bad. She was willing to take all that but he still tryna call her a gold digger. A gold digger would’ve definitely left him at Honda accord 😂😂
The boy is just sooo imature. He sold himself sooo high but at the end of everything he is a hooood boy. He is soo defensive
Les gar "American" Dieu ma vraiment epargné de ses gamins. Ca c'est une fille ki a la tete sur ces epaule. Et elle croyait etre avec un vrais homme mais helas.!!!
My fav part is watching Arlette holding her laugh in 😂🤣😂🤣😂
Ishmael doesn’t listen, he just talks and you can see he was offended lol. You can have a good time with someone and not want another date 🤷🏾♀️. She explained why and he still missed the point.
Cuz he was salty n butthurt. Just her simply explaining the date, he sounds embarrassing
Fellas, Fellas, Fellas, take notes, do not complain about picking a woman up on the first date. Next fellas, do not ever after the age of 25 take a woman to the movies on the first date. Fellas, always be on top of your communication & preparation and these types of things may not happen. This woman imo is a good woman and she really wants to find her man but you gotta be on your shit to and don't belittle her over dumb shit.
Great advice. She didn’t come off like a gold digger .. he just didn’t sound prepared or like the grown man he portrayed himself as😅
can you go on the show 🥹this needs to be shared
Yeah & As A Grown Man Am Not Taking A Woman 2 Da Movies On The 1st Date Or Complaining Abt Picking Her Up, I AM PICKING YOU UP, Cause No Man Should Be Dating Any Woman With No Job, No Car, No Money. Some Ov U 🥷 Get Me Tight With Your Mindset
Movies on the first date would be a red flag to me. How can we look other in the eyes and TALK?
I like movie dates! There’s a super cute theater near me in the downtown area, so the walk to even get there from the parking lot is down this cute little cobblestone street with good people watching because of all the little shops and stuff…
Imo, the *correct way to go to the movies is by arriving 30min early and grabbing a drink (coffee for me cuz I’m sober, but most people like an adult bev). Then you share a popcorn together so your hands touch lol 😆 *AND you have to sneaky sneak shnax in… I like gas station or dollar tree treats, but next level is definitely subs 😈 that requires coordination though, because your girl needs to bring a purse. and after the movie you go home! Ideally, there’s some lingering and puppy-eyes and you get butterflies excited about the 2nd or 3rd date!
I’m sorry but this woman Khalov is HILARIOUS without even trying 😂 I don’t know how Arlette keeps it professional because the way Khalov narrated the date was pure comedy! The bluetooth and wind sound effects took me out, my Goshhh 😭
The sound effects were top tier😂
That's what I was thinking did he not have ac in the car ? Smh lol also at some point he said the people who own the car had the chip for the radio so it is even his car ? Or a loner? Smh he should just be honest
HE said everybody grown. I didnt expect to have to pick her up. LOL
Khalov is not a gold digger.
Listen fellas, the man pays for the first date, he ask the female if he needs to pick her up. If you’re not in the place in your life to do these things get yourself together first before you get on the dating scene. Period!
Her sound effects are on point. The car situation was hilarious. This conversation devolved quickly. The struggle is real!
😂😂😂
I watched the car scene like 5 times 😂 she’s funny asf
She took me out wit the Bluetooth speaker going out😂 "boof"
Arlette is SOOO professional & she actually listens to EVERYONE & is able to articulate accurately their perspective. GIVE THIS LADY WHATEVER DEAL SHE WANTS!! Because i would be ctfu in front of these people!😂
Fellas everything Ishmael did.. DONT DO!!! 😂😂
Lmao 🤣🤣🤣
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He could’ve recovered if he was that guy, but he the date kept getting worse😭
these follow ups are serving whiskey fr 😂
Perfectly said 😂
Hip me..what does that mean?? Lol
@@omarepps77the tea is strong
And how about that’s what I’m sipping on #crown for the win!
One-five-One
I had to come back to watch this after the reunion episode! 😂❤
Same!
Me too
Me too
I'm not usually into drama but for some reason I am SO into this series 😂 Who knew a lil balloon popping could lead to such mess 😅
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Arlette knew
Khalov seems like a down to earth girl, I like her and she’s definitely not lying judging from how he responded
A female who always believes another female no matter how wrong she is? Never heard that before. Smh.
Right!
Totally agree!
It don’t seem like he was lying he was responding like that bc how she was making it seem like sayin he asked for her card n shit n he ain’t have one but she ain’t say why he asked for it she was trynna make bro seem like he was broke ash n ain’t have shit and obviously that’s not the case
@@Luh.trill6exactly. That’s how I seen it too. He even admitted that he was embarrassed.
Arlette holding in that laugh real bad when she brought up that Bluetooth lol
I think they should go on another date, and come back for another catch-up episode! 🥊🤣👊🏾
Yes, when he gets his finances together.
Her play by play was impeccable. That was hilarious. City boys down bad.
Nah the set up was wild
Yes I was visualizing their whole date lmao
Exactly then to say she lying is even crazier
@@jadedabratz7442she is lying about the oil change tho, if you know enough to check it, then you should know if it’s low you just have to power some in.
@@carnelpatterson4101 she probably didn't want to put any new oil if it was gonna get changed anyway
An 08 Honda accord with a Bluetooth speaker after talking about a bag is CRAZY
😂
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Didn't I see you in traffic with an '06 Rav 4?
Yes 😂
Lmfaoooo the Bluetooth speaker got me, Doof Doof . Omks I would’ve been dying laughing
I just love her, she’s so SWEET ❤
Okay at first I was giving her a side eye , but as she kept talking I was like sis am rocking with you ! You can’t just ignore those little details
How tho nothing about her from the gate gave side eye
She seems hella cool. He should’ve been honest frfr she a keeper. Down to earth
She was trying not to divulge all of the details at first, but eventually just let everything out. His pride was definitely hurt and he stayed in defense mode this whole conversation.
I completely understand the woman here. The fact that he got upset when she brought up the debit card situation speaks volumes. He has a lot of shame when it pertains to his financial situation and he tries and tried to hide it. He basically has a financially stable facade when in fact his financials are in shambles for his age. She simply recognized that. That’s all. He should just keep it real, and that’s what she’s asking. On the other hand, I understand why a man would hide that and lie about that. It’s a hard predicament.
The debit card situation didn’t need to be brought up if he gave her back the cash .
Exactly, I would never pick a guy who when you ask them their job they say I am an actor, model, musician and dhl driver. Red flag. 🚩
He could be unemployed for all we know.
@@tmcurlyI thought I was the only one that thought like this 😂
Sad to say this man don't suit her personally .
Yes I agree with you all about him. My question is why didn’t she have an oil change? A car with no oil in it doesn’t happen over night. The sticker lets you know how many miles you have until it needs to be changed…. You can go get it changed a little early or a little late but not late to the point that you can’t drive it 🤔
When he said he’s in a movie already I just knew it would be a Tubi movie😭
If you wouldn't mind, could you offer an explanation for those of us who are not acquainted with the concept of a "Tube movie"?
And he’s not even the main character 😂
@@Somali1971TUBI movies are low budget movies made by people who don’t make into the real Hollywood lol budget costing as low as $200😂
For surely 😂😂😂
@@Somali1971 yeah I don’t mind, they’re movies made on the ‘Tubi’ app, usually low budget odd movies that aren’t often taken seriously
They lowkey perfect for each other
Swear 😂😂😂😂
Facts lol
Especially how he wants to rage n he she remains calm which in turn, forces him to calm down
Right cus girl buy you some oil and drive your car
I guess she wanted to see what he was about she chose wrong being scared of the third one from picking him
He is in his feels bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m with sis. He’s so defensive and mad bc his ego is hurt 😭😭
Going to the movies on the first date is crazy. 😢 it’s super casual and IMO that’s a kind of date you go on after having gotten to know someone for some time. Coffee shops, picnics, rooftops, restaurants are all other alternatives to FORMALLY get to know someone. His demeanor, anger, and hostility in her even expressing how the date was for her is a major red flag. It’s one thing to be frustrated but to be disrespectful when she only answered a question she was asked is not okay.
Lol he thought the "I'm from Cali" line was his golden ticket😂
To be honest tho she knew they was going to the cinema before hand. It’s not like she didn’t know , they met up and he changed the plans last min.
She knew the plan was going to the movies and she took her ass there. If she thought the movies was such a big of a deal she shouldn’t have went period lmao.
Movies is a trash place to go to for a first date but she happily went to it.
@@imaan3352 It was not about only going to the movies. It was about her experience all together. The ride to the movies in a car with a bluetooth speaker after he had on a diamond watch, Cartier glasses and was acting like he was having motion when they first met. He pulled up in a car she could afford when she was younger. He stole candy at the movies and complained about parking prices and asked her to pay for the next date. Either he makes money and is financially illiterate or he just broke boy trying to lie his way into some coochie
I’ve taken women out to the movies on a “first date.” But the way I did was that we went eating first. Then if the vibe is nice, I’ll ask if it’s cool if we go to the movies.
@@MrSamPhoenix some women wouldn’t mind. I was just referring to the girl in the video. She made it seem like it’s such a big deal but she still took her ass there. Lmao
She is not a gold digger for wanting a regular date with a guy who supposedly could afford to date😂
Oh she got a super regular date and still complaining 😂 she’s a gold digger 🎉
She’s a bum
That was a regular date 🤷🏿♂️
@@UnapologeticallyAshley they grown asf, AMC is not regular. Like she said that’s a high school ass date, why was he complaining bout picking her up. Sounds like someone who would ask his date for gas money
Ong
This episode was hilarious😂😂😂
Man she's hilarious, love her story telling 😂😂😂😂
This guy is unbelievable, damn babe I am sorry. This woman deserves a round of applause she has been through a lot.
Get a life
Nah the way scratched his face at 23:25 was like “Damn, sis ain’t miss one detail…. “ Lmfaooo
We had chicken strips, that was warmed up in a microwave 😂😂😂 Arlette was dying from the inside
Wow, the way she communicates is so mature and feminine. I love that she kept an open mind and heart. I truly hoped she finds someone who is honest and communicative❤. If she was a goldigger in any way when she saw the 08’ it would’ve been bids off.
Right. men with no money, especially the ones who sell dreams the way he did, love to say women are gold diggers.
tbh they both problematic. the episode gave gold digger energy but she speaks well. that doesnt mean she not materialistic. why bring up rooftops and you know you are busy ? reservations need to be made no ?
@@ra-neter6662 In all fairness, he’s the one who brought up the rooftop in ep.4. That was his answer to the final question before she chose him. That said, he definitely sold her a dream and she bought it so well that it seems she falls for that kind of stuff often.
@@krazyintellectual7392Yes, people will lie so she has to be able to discern when someone is not being honest even when they don’t overtly tell you. Watch people do, not only what they say.
Yeah this video made me love her. She gives me that 90s authentic vibe. Real mature.
This shit is hilarious 😂 bro didn’t even charge the Bluetooth speaker 😂😂😂 this is comedy!
Im in tears
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Lmboooo Bluetooth died 😂😂😂
I zoomed in on his face to look at his reaction when she started spilling the beans lool it was hilarious ! Lol
She talking all that about his "possible" financial issues but she can't get an oil change!
mimicking the sound of the speaker going out is craaazy 😂
The wind too lol
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This comment took me tf out 🤣😅😂
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That 08 Honda Accord with a dying bluetooth speaker go wild asf.....I'm with her on that one
Damn that’s straight out of a comedy or something.
The most common cars driven by the wealthiest people in our America:
1. Toyota
2. Honda
3. Ford
Y’all get a little too caught up in image but talk about being financially literate. We have to do better black people lol, cars are depreciating assets. They’re terrible investments.
Him setting an expectation and taking her somewhere that missed the mark is one thing but stop judging a man’s value on the car he drives. It’s so easy to trick y’all out y’all spot because y’all have no understanding of what real money is and how it moves. You just get it and spend it on things to present an image to other broke people
Honda according to is reliable Toyota and Honda is driving by even wealthy peoole
@@JB19_92 while I understand you my guy also understand the scenario of truly taking a woman to a first date and you ain’t at least charge your speaker to ensure your date some level of comfort ? You just listened to the entire story I listened to?
@@digit-eyes624 nah, I agree. I was speaking generally. Buddy in the video fumbled for sure. The speaker situation wasn’t a good look but the real fail was him telling her the first date would be at a rooftop bar and ending up at the movies lol
First and foremost if you’re an adult and going through anything, dating/looking for love should be the last thing on your mind. Having a debit card should not be your only card on you….ever. You should always have a credit card for emergencies. Secondly, if your car is missing items within the interior just take an Uber/Lyft to the destination. He could have sent an Uber for her and that whole uncomfortable situation would have been avoided. Thirdly, stealing candy on the low is diabolical… if you’re going to do that then THE BOTH of you need to be in on it so it’s an adventure 🤣🤣😂. Lastly, when a woman provides a schedule it is 💯% on the man to plan the date. A man coming to the woman asking her what she wants to do is off putting to say the least.
He tested her Gold Digger Status...and her bonnie and clyde vibe...LOL he stole the candy!
Frl
My synopsis although no one asked is as follows: she was very sweet kind and patient as she really wanted to give him a chance However he was not what he presented …. He feels slighted by her reality of him and therefore he calls it cap 🧢 but this pair in my opinion could’ve easily worked due to her chill vibe but he has a chip on his shoulder
Yeah he has a big ego
None of you females are how you present.
Neither one of them communicated their perspective very well at all...
@@iLeona296Yessss, the biggest ego…my God!
He messed with that " if you have the personality, i got the bag" statement. That was the beginning of the unrealistic expectations for her.
How will you arrange a movie date but can't arrange a rooftop? Are rooftops really much hard to schedule than movies?
She chose a Pookie, and I knew that it would end this way. Precisely.😂😂😂
The rooftop got her!
Nah she was thinking she was going to get money spent on her. Lol
@@Frosybeats_FbMexactly 😂😂
@@buzzbabe1901 and you can tell from the jump homie is a front! But the Bluetooth speaker that, I would never.
@@Frosybeats_FbM dang on point. Sometimes, I worry about some women's taste honestly. There were better options right there. Reminds me of the episode with the intelligent girl in the yellow dress whose choice was also bleh!
Oh well, to each their own as it is said😁
not only is she beautiful buts she's hilarious!
Man Arlette does one hell of a job with holding on to her laugh outburst...🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
He shoulda had that Bluetooth speaker charged and ready! He wasn’t prepared
😂😂😂 he was hyping himself up on the way there
It actually BLEW UP.😂😂😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂 this shit can’t be real
she’s very respectful! this man is in his feelings, starting to curse instead of just using his words to communicate effectively. cutting her off, being defensive and offended. calling her a gold digger lol. and she was still polite! i like her. i hope she finds a good man
I believe everything she said about this person. Prayers 💕✌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Enjoyable episode, definitely 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤
Basically , he put on an essence that he was suave and had a bag . He had her visualizing n painted a certain picture, pulled up & it wasn’t that
EXACTLY !
Yup
@@lashaiagbor259 lol simple math 😭
I get what you saying but she leaving a some things out the way she talkin it’s like you would think the man pulled up with no money, he said he had cash and Apple Pay and they didn’t take both of those and he still obviously paid for the date
Bruh said he was a forklift driver….like cmon
Boy could’ve avoided this whole situation. This ain’t on her, this on him lol
Agreed! 😂 but truthfully both should’ve waited until they were more prepared for the date. I personally would’ve wanted to drive myself.
All that being said, if given the opportunity...she wasn't gonna pass up on shaming him!
@@demetriusjames9535she wasn’t shaming him, she was just saying how the experience was 😂
@@Goddess118 Tell me you've shamed a man without *telling* me that you have shamed a man...
HE aint do nothing wrong, she was expecting Quavo or Future
She is speaking down on him. She thinks she is better than him. It's important how you phrase the story.
Dear ladies, i don't care how man times a guy invites you on a date, don't pay for any date, it's the man responsibility as long y'all still trying to know each other, know your worth!
Sis was EXPOSING!!!!! Lmao . He is pisssed 😂😂😂😂😂 !.
The minute he asked her what was more important “money or personality”, she should have left him with the balloon. Why would anyone ask that? It gave, “I don’t have it right now” energy.
I’m not mad at him but why didn’t he just reimburse her if he had cash? Maybe he was flexing. 😬
@@opulence_primewhy you say “reimburse”? He paid for everything. He had cash on em.
@@opulence_primehe did though
he’s bigggg mad 😂😂😂😒 she dodged a bullet fr. he’s trying to put on a facade.
Lawd these are becoming better and better 🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿
She came off very unappreciative smh he was himself and there’s nothing wrong with that. Her acting like she paid for anything when he gave her the cash right there when she used her card is weird asf too
Sir! You didn't expect to pick her up for a DATE?! That's insane lol.