Ep 7: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

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  • Опубликовано: 1 апр 2024
  • Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
    Singles in Phoenix and the USA, to be featured in upcoming episodes, please send an email to: aamulimedia@gmail.com
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Комментарии • 10 тыс.

  • @jamerialwhite3694
    @jamerialwhite3694 Месяц назад +7948

    Maintaining your composure and confidence in the midst of everyone popping their balloon as soon as you arrive is overlooked

    • @diva6407
      @diva6407 Месяц назад +276

      I have to command them on that. Good for them.

    • @Effie_Mwaps..
      @Effie_Mwaps.. Месяц назад +92

      For real 😅

    • @pnice0610
      @pnice0610 Месяц назад +55

      I agree!!

    • @lelelew2735
      @lelelew2735 Месяц назад +150

      Yea my anxiety would be crazy

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 Месяц назад +338

      I agree. I’d stop mid sentence like “so what’s the problem?? 🤬🤬” lol

  • @PipNPensPublishing
    @PipNPensPublishing Месяц назад +3810

    That first dude, I hope he lands someone who deserves him. That guy was chill, confident, and cool.

    • @StatikFresh4
      @StatikFresh4 Месяц назад +37

      Agreed

    • @jakesnapper1469
      @jakesnapper1469 Месяц назад +89

      Ya you can tell he a nice guy

    • @ciarrahogans9764
      @ciarrahogans9764 Месяц назад +9

      True

    • @ohmygvddess
      @ohmygvddess Месяц назад +41

      I agree. He was solid

    • @thebassman5820
      @thebassman5820 Месяц назад +81

      ​@@jakesnapper1469
      They don't want Norma nice men
      Let a no goal , no job having aspiring rapper named Pookie come out there and watch a cat fight start out of nowhere
      💥💀💀💀💀

  • @crystaldavis6245
    @crystaldavis6245 20 дней назад +259

    The African guy was classy and caring. He wanted to get to know the woman with the balloon on a personal level which was very nice. May he find his special lady who appreciates his authenticity.

  • @Milliondollarperson
    @Milliondollarperson 7 дней назад +49

    First guy is definitely a genuine and humble person he knows how to let his genuineness shine through the insecurities.. unfortunately females these days won’t give men like him an opportunity.

    • @abramlittle7102
      @abramlittle7102 5 дней назад

      They do but this not the situation for that

  • @jamerialwhite3694
    @jamerialwhite3694 Месяц назад +6233

    No one hosts a "Pop The Balloon or Find Love" show better than Arlette. Very classy, mature, and entertaining. I stay invested in this lol

    • @richardsnipe2471
      @richardsnipe2471 Месяц назад +373

      Hers are the only ones I watch. The others are very (very) ratchet.

    • @FlywithMikey96
      @FlywithMikey96 Месяц назад +85

      Because they invite IG baddies and dudes there for clout.

    • @myles5949
      @myles5949 Месяц назад +24

      FANTUM??????? 22:26

    • @damiandennis3740
      @damiandennis3740 Месяц назад +21

      I agree she were a design for this and I'm not saying this just to be nice

    • @deonte1496
      @deonte1496 Месяц назад +31

      I like it but it's just a Mature version of the rest of the find your match videos they still roasting each other and laughing 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @beastbuilds9741
    @beastbuilds9741 Месяц назад +4422

    the first dude was chill af ngl

    • @sajadacooper
      @sajadacooper Месяц назад +71

      facts

    • @xKouture
      @xKouture Месяц назад +485

      He took that constructive criticism like a champ ! He’s really charming

    • @sajadacooper
      @sajadacooper Месяц назад +35

      @@xKouture he did!!

    • @Emaniwilson
      @Emaniwilson Месяц назад +198

      He needs a blind date episode very charismatic

    • @alkhapone7124
      @alkhapone7124 Месяц назад +250

      She popped last sec on sum bs

  • @Noneyabiz13
    @Noneyabiz13 Месяц назад +137

    These are the most respectful group of women on the show. Love them ❤

  • @cinaminblanding8486
    @cinaminblanding8486 11 дней назад +71

    The model with the grey dressssssss
    Whoa . Beautiful, soft , amazing smile .
    I don’t even like girls and I’m in love lol

    • @cboy-ou2hr
      @cboy-ou2hr 4 дня назад

      That’s Rihanna

    • @pajonazare
      @pajonazare 3 дня назад +2

      I've watched this episode and was only waiting to see her all the time. She is so sweet and well spoken 😍😍😍. Beautiful

    • @blacklight3596
      @blacklight3596 3 дня назад

      Classy

    • @airforceshadow765
      @airforceshadow765 3 дня назад +5

      she reminds me of Halle Bailey . very sweet

  • @nicoleblake2700
    @nicoleblake2700 Месяц назад +2288

    This group of ladies were soft tone, well spoken and very respectful. So nice to see. Then men were respectful. This was a good watch.

    • @Imjusthereleavemealone
      @Imjusthereleavemealone Месяц назад +36

      Yes they were they all deserve good men! 🥰

    • @issy785
      @issy785 Месяц назад +3

      all made of a guy who kept sayin respect

    • @user-wd5gt5qj5t
      @user-wd5gt5qj5t Месяц назад +12

      Yes these ladies were respectful and beautiful seems inside and out

    • @user-wd5gt5qj5t
      @user-wd5gt5qj5t Месяц назад +11

      I feel like he was too rushy and desperate. He could’ve just asked her one question he thought he was already in.

    • @user-wd5gt5qj5t
      @user-wd5gt5qj5t Месяц назад

      The girl in the gray them are breast feeding from little TT (.)(.) flat and low smh

  • @ZeeTene
    @ZeeTene Месяц назад +2126

    I like that this group was mature in comparison to previous episodes. They were respectful of one another and did not try to purposely humiliate someone for a viral moment

    • @Tashasmith7388
      @Tashasmith7388 Месяц назад +22

      🎯

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 Месяц назад +5

      I love it❤!

    • @seanoshinuga8310
      @seanoshinuga8310 Месяц назад +9

      Can’t wait for the follow up episode lol

    • @waddellcarissa
      @waddellcarissa Месяц назад +8

      Yes!!! I notice this too. The best one yet

    • @amarakanneh6628
      @amarakanneh6628 Месяц назад +21

      This comment is underrated. Seems like some people come on this show to blow up.

  • @DivineDeasia
    @DivineDeasia 11 дней назад +19

    This is the most respectful group I have seen so far.

  • @yupthatsme2402
    @yupthatsme2402 Месяц назад +26

    Petition too always have such a mature group on each sides 🗣️
    This is extremely more respectful and enjoyable than previous episodes 😅 (not that I don’t enjoy the others 😂)

    • @darray.
      @darray. 3 дня назад +1

      100%...with real conversations/questions

  • @shattablaze3369
    @shattablaze3369 Месяц назад +1750

    1st guy here lol . This was an amazing experience the energy was filled with positivity and the ladies were amazing. Always remember you win some you loose some but you always stay relevant to who you are . Thanks and this was a blast

    • @PreciousSullivan
      @PreciousSullivan Месяц назад +146

      U were the best! Wish u all the best on your search

    • @chanelrowe3305
      @chanelrowe3305 Месяц назад +74

      You really were the best, I want some jollof rice from a cool king like you

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Месяц назад +42

      @@PreciousSullivan thanks . And eventually God will surely do that

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Месяц назад +22

      @@chanelrowe3305 thank you and sure lmk anytime lol

    • @TravelwithRia92
      @TravelwithRia92 Месяц назад +14

      you were great!!

  • @MrAde-jy3uu
    @MrAde-jy3uu Месяц назад +2350

    “She looks good!”…. “Respect” dude was unintentionally hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @95luannaable
      @95luannaable Месяц назад +106

      He was so funny. I was dying laughing.

    • @CapreDiem42
      @CapreDiem42 Месяц назад +74

      Why I come cross your comment when he said that. N when he asked if they had children I had to laugh cos the way he said it n his mannerisms. He’s too real lol like you can tell he’s is being his authentic self. Big ups for that

    • @sheheals_wounds5169
      @sheheals_wounds5169 Месяц назад +3

      😂😂

    • @markcupid6250
      @markcupid6250 Месяц назад +16

      He was hilarious 😂

    • @sfjksnfjkarnfjaerkf
      @sfjksnfjkarnfjaerkf Месяц назад +36

      That mf funny asl 😂😂😂😂

  • @AmourNista
    @AmourNista Месяц назад +29

    The last guy was definitely something else, respectfully

  • @felicia_rm
    @felicia_rm 19 дней назад +31

    The last guy grilled them so much and I loved that! “Cognitive dissonance” took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he was very present too and I loved it!!!!!!

    • @lovenylah
      @lovenylah 5 дней назад +5

      he was disrespectful af. I'm mad at the women for not immediately popping their balloons.

    • @GirlyEnglishGamer
      @GirlyEnglishGamer 4 дня назад +1

      @@lovenylah me too. he was shifty and had a bad attitude

  • @EliasBakare
    @EliasBakare Месяц назад +1704

    The last guy was very critical. Drilled the ladies so well that they forgot to ask about his relationship with God. Nice episode. First guy was very respectful.

  • @1994jct
    @1994jct Месяц назад +935

    The first guy was so classy and respectful while also having a personality! Hopefully he finds
    Love!

    • @vickjr98
      @vickjr98 Месяц назад +12

      Facts man. Raised well

    • @brittanychristopher7410
      @brittanychristopher7410 Месяц назад +7

      Yes he was very respectful and seems like a good dude

    • @SinaSpeaks
      @SinaSpeaks Месяц назад +2

      He was

    • @daveparker5541
      @daveparker5541 Месяц назад +11

      They don't want that. They want a dude with 3 kids and 3 baby mommas.

    • @tyekincade152
      @tyekincade152 Месяц назад +1

      Same! I’m definitely rooting for him

  • @sunny41802
    @sunny41802 Месяц назад +44

    That last one was top tier. The questions and respect went a long way.

  • @xoxosh4826
    @xoxosh4826 Месяц назад +31

    Ashley is gorgeous! Love her skin and her locs 😍

  • @deestephen3176
    @deestephen3176 Месяц назад +1200

    This is probably the best line-up of women yet. They had valid reasons for popping and were so respectful

    • @kenneyp.9456
      @kenneyp.9456 Месяц назад +17

      In looks definitely

    • @francismanancis4186
      @francismanancis4186 Месяц назад

      Nah the one with Ramen Noodle hair was the best one@@kenneyp.9456

    • @jcalvioficial
      @jcalvioficial Месяц назад

      ​@@kenneyp.9456as in light 😏 ⬜

    • @TheBrendanzn
      @TheBrendanzn Месяц назад +22

      True, they all had a lot of substance in their answers and reasonings for popping! Much better than some of the previous contestants.

    • @laurab6418
      @laurab6418 Месяц назад +12

      This line up has a lot of older and wiser women, they were definitely the most respectful of all the other videos 😭

  • @TheOfficialCBGChannel
    @TheOfficialCBGChannel Месяц назад +2448

    I’m glad to see ppl stand for Jesus and not be ashamed!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Esmeb89547
      @Esmeb89547 Месяц назад +209

      The men need to be more clear on what their religion is and be honest about it.

    • @KinaruKitanaJade7373
      @KinaruKitanaJade7373 Месяц назад +37

      AMEN!!!

    • @xguy9999
      @xguy9999 Месяц назад +69

      I agree. God comes first

    • @PreciousSullivan
      @PreciousSullivan Месяц назад +82

      Amen! I was over here shouting lol…. Something about the name Jesus! It is the sweetest name I know❤

    • @daughteroftheking3220
      @daughteroftheking3220 Месяц назад +82

      Yes, praise the Lord the ladies weren’t playing when it came to that. Also, we need the men to be decisive/bold in their faith and put God first like the ladies. Without a strong foundation in Christ, everything crumbles.

  • @Lorinzo755
    @Lorinzo755 26 дней назад +15

    And s/o to the guy with the tan blazer asking all the questions.. He lead the way and demonstrated masculinity, thats rare in this weak, feminine driven society. Salute 🫡 brother

  • @bernardtalbert6729
    @bernardtalbert6729 26 дней назад +121

    Anybody notice how the first girl just disappeared at 42:00? She had this pissed look on her face like I'm tired of them bringing out these scrubs.

    • @uu99ful
      @uu99ful 23 дня назад +13

      Yes.. she didn't like it.... Looks like she wanted love.. but didn't turn out what she thought

    • @abigailhenry6154
      @abigailhenry6154 21 день назад +39

      IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT LMFAOOO i had played 10 minutes in and I was like wait there was another girl

    • @matthewbrooks4507
      @matthewbrooks4507 20 дней назад +33

      The first girl disappeared like Judy Winslow mid episode lol

    • @coreymorris4630
      @coreymorris4630 18 дней назад +1

      Right 😂

    • @debsijb5710
      @debsijb5710 14 дней назад +3

      Totally met type top , they should boring in other ethnicities too. I am mixed and I like black women

  • @benimcanm351
    @benimcanm351 Месяц назад +887

    The model with the locs in the gray dress was so beautiful, intelligent, soft spoken with charisma. I loooooove her! Hey, Sis!

    • @acbaybee
      @acbaybee Месяц назад +90

      Hey love! Ty 🫶🏾✨

    • @thereal366
      @thereal366 Месяц назад +55

      Yes all of the women were beautiful but she stood out the most because of the way she carried herself. And she had a beautiful smile and some pretty skin. I fell in love with her instantly. And she is a woman of God.

    • @exalteduchiha1563
      @exalteduchiha1563 Месяц назад +5

      @@thereal366 cause shes somewhere from africa. i think south africa so shes raise differently

    • @jameswiseman2527
      @jameswiseman2527 Месяц назад +6

      @@acbaybeeashley i love you

    • @jameswiseman2527
      @jameswiseman2527 Месяц назад +4

      @@acbaybeeyou look so beautiful

  • @LesaStar
    @LesaStar Месяц назад +1720

    The first guy was very respectful. He might need his own show like Terrance 👀

    • @IDKWIDPodcast
      @IDKWIDPodcast Месяц назад +25

      Yes

    • @JayJay1988
      @JayJay1988 Месяц назад +24

      I agree

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 Месяц назад +72

      lmfao short guys can never win. And yall say us men are shallow!

    • @LesaStar
      @LesaStar Месяц назад +36

      @@thelonercoder5816 You must’ve commented under the wrong post? I said he was respectful and deserves his own show. I’m just confused on who “yall” is? 😂 I didn’t see anything wrong with his height.

    • @zonin88
      @zonin88 Месяц назад +3

      Agreed

  • @ericboyd123able
    @ericboyd123able 28 дней назад +8

    No one host the pop the balloon show better than Arlette. Very smart, mature, and she asks the right questions.

  • @shaunbohannon8962
    @shaunbohannon8962 7 дней назад +4

    The first dude was the coolest dude I seen while watching this. Funny too talking about “I did waves, I did braids, now I got dreads”😂😂😂

  • @AngieM285
    @AngieM285 Месяц назад +1022

    Why did cedric come out like he had no idea where he was 😂😂

    • @faizaadem9339
      @faizaadem9339 Месяц назад +76

      I SCREAMED!!!!!! 😂😂😂

    • @horefonte7226
      @horefonte7226 Месяц назад +11

      😭😭😭😭

    • @Lnk_380
      @Lnk_380 Месяц назад +38

      Hé was way too funny😭😭

    • @Tt3533tt
      @Tt3533tt Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @imsleep2573
      @imsleep2573 Месяц назад +93

      He treated it like an auction block lmao. He even checked out Arlette on the way out. Boy definitely came to play.

  • @zion9146
    @zion9146 Месяц назад +2140

    The speed and efficiency I tap on Arlettes new videos with is insane 😭😭

  • @kingkrazy5269
    @kingkrazy5269 2 дня назад +2

    Idk how i started watching these jawns but guess what, this is very entertaining and funny aint nothing like a balloon popping mid sentence 😂😂😂😂

  • @Eric_Bassett
    @Eric_Bassett 16 дней назад +8

    Im absolutely hooked on this show. Across the board tho its truly brought to light that both men and women in this day and age are all rejecting good options over PETTY reasons. Its not just the men or just the ladies doing it.. its BOTH doing it. Passing on someone you clearly could vibe with over height or an outfit is just crazy to me...

  • @hateisasignofenvy651
    @hateisasignofenvy651 Месяц назад +443

    The host is going places, balloon show or not. She has that it factor classy & very professional

    • @shaypurvis9149
      @shaypurvis9149 Месяц назад +7

      I agree

    • @Seshbethinja
      @Seshbethinja Месяц назад +3

      She is great. I wish she would either engage the ladies after each contestant leaves, or they should have some background music playing at the very least.

  • @TheBenitaAngela
    @TheBenitaAngela Месяц назад +591

    I think this was my favorite group of women. They weren’t disrespectful even when they were just not physically attracted to someone.
    I also appreciate when young women can stand ten toes down on the importance of their faith.

    • @MariaHeredia-dw4id
      @MariaHeredia-dw4id Месяц назад +1

      But none are virgins or married why buy the cow when the milk is already free HARAM!

    • @keinaanabdi6821
      @keinaanabdi6821 Месяц назад +11

      I think the first guy set the tune for the entire experience

    • @Enkaybe
      @Enkaybe Месяц назад

      @@keinaanabdi6821Shut up ! You guys want to claim everything women do shut up and go fool elsewhere tsww

    • @DT-ze7vs
      @DT-ze7vs Месяц назад +11

      That because most of them believe in Jesus Christ the one and only true God🙏🏾 and was raised right most likely

    • @tes-xj8uy
      @tes-xj8uy Месяц назад +2

      and they were all really beautiful and polished

  • @shernequacasimir4027
    @shernequacasimir4027 15 дней назад +4

    The last guy is very intelligent and asked alot of good questions

  • @CoverGirlz
    @CoverGirlz 17 дней назад +8

    The fourth guy is giving James Brown “She look good… she smells good”🤣🤣🤣

  • @dalajiawilliams9737
    @dalajiawilliams9737 Месяц назад +839

    Why is nobody talking about the girl that went missing mid-episode?! Lol. But….Finally an episode of level-headed, respectful, reasonable people! Nobody popped the balloon because of petty stuff. Everyone truly seemed to be looking for love.

    • @Dream-Me
      @Dream-Me Месяц назад +9

      Which girl ??

    • @niasutton9682
      @niasutton9682 Месяц назад +74

      😂 the girl in the pink

    • @mrs.fdeddins1045
      @mrs.fdeddins1045 Месяц назад +151

      The one guy said had too much makeup on. She never smiled

    • @Booksandarts
      @Booksandarts Месяц назад +263

      I was looking for this comment. She looked like she was uncomfortable so maybe she left.

    • @digimagic3288
      @digimagic3288 Месяц назад +39

      They even gave the guy that didn’t have much conversation a chance

  • @__REALITY
    @__REALITY Месяц назад +804

    This is gonna be goooooddddddd
    “Sometimes being obsessed leads to toxicity “ he ate with that !!

    • @Pablopicasso796
      @Pablopicasso796 Месяц назад +3

      What exactly did he eat?

    • @ItsNeezy
      @ItsNeezy Месяц назад +92

      ​​@@Pablopicasso796 you must not have comprehended the seriousness behind being obsessive.

    • @shaymene8112
      @shaymene8112 Месяц назад +15

      That was so accurate

    • @betagirl50
      @betagirl50 Месяц назад +8

      He spoke a word!

    • @thankmelater90210
      @thankmelater90210 Месяц назад +15

      Being obsessed is toxic and problematic. She gonna be too clingy you can't have room to breath or be yourself or be free to go as you please. It's not smart to be with someone like that unless she changed her mindset and ways. She's 25 she should be old enough to know that. She still young minded when it comes to relationships but very intelligent.

  • @momof4jays592
    @momof4jays592 День назад +1

    He's such a gentleman and emotionally intelligent.

  • @djdmask
    @djdmask Месяц назад +10

    The last man knew what he wanted and didn't want any emotion to distract him... he just asked to know from their perspective and then confirm who was truely his.... i respect his process

  • @steven_green
    @steven_green Месяц назад +522

    This show needs to be on Netflix or something 😂 I dont even watch stuff like this and I'm tuned in.

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 Месяц назад +6

      Lol I agree it would be a great show on Netflix

    • @jacquesjervis3910
      @jacquesjervis3910 Месяц назад +3

      It’s been a concept for years in the Uk, it’s called take me out. Instead of balloons it’s buzzers lol

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 Месяц назад

      @@jacquesjervis3910 interesting.. Is this on Netflix

    • @tonic740
      @tonic740 Месяц назад +1

      Too boring and awkward to be on netflix and plus it's missing structure.

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 Месяц назад +3

      @@tonic740 too awkward and boring but yet you watched?

  • @boodaddytvs
    @boodaddytvs Месяц назад +987

    I feel like Arlette Took a course, got a coach, or went to a conference and got the RUclips playbook. Interesting content, stretched out over an hour for more watch time and picking the right clips that can go viral. Her subscribers are going to skyrocket if she stays consistent

    • @TinoMadz-mb2vd
      @TinoMadz-mb2vd Месяц назад +66

      She has to be consistent I'm rooting for her cz her show is very professional no bashing when someone is rejected people are so respectful and civilised

    • @ChristianJoyD
      @ChristianJoyD Месяц назад +51

      She does it better than the others because she doesn't let then get away with "They're not my type". She makes them expound.

    • @Soulprettyso
      @Soulprettyso Месяц назад +32

      Her preparation was 🔥 that’s why her show is so successful

    • @favoureriata3820
      @favoureriata3820 Месяц назад +2

      None mirage does it well as well

    • @chikarayleigh4534
      @chikarayleigh4534 Месяц назад +17

      @@favoureriata3820 you're not ok. Nons Miraj has the worst dating show. They just come to roast each other.

  • @armystaytiny1193
    @armystaytiny1193 18 дней назад +9

    The model lady in the grey dress is stunning

  • @lianspence7418
    @lianspence7418 День назад +1

    I surprised none of the men haven't hit on Arlette yet, she's beautiful, classy and dresses amazing, sexy but always covered. Best pop the balloon on yt by far x

  • @qweenroro3991
    @qweenroro3991 Месяц назад +236

    He was so kind to them while being rejected based off of looks. Very mature.

  • @popcorn526
    @popcorn526 Месяц назад +447

    Ladies, as a married Christian, don’t let anyone take you away from your faith. I guarantee it’s not worth it and you will be compromising your right now for your forever. Stay blessed all! 🙏🏾

    • @eustaceelms9403
      @eustaceelms9403 Месяц назад +23

      Sounds like you going through it now

    • @gasmakingboost
      @gasmakingboost Месяц назад

      ​@@eustaceelms9403😂😂😂

    • @kaileebroadway7723
      @kaileebroadway7723 Месяц назад +45

      I was so encouraged, when the women stand firm. It was beautiful!

    • @Rittersport88
      @Rittersport88 Месяц назад +54

      A lot of yall are worst than "worldly" folks. Some of the biggest cheaters and gossipers I've known

    • @innitbruv-lascocomics9910
      @innitbruv-lascocomics9910 Месяц назад

      ​@@Rittersport88 Christians LOVE to parade their supposed "Godly" values and defame us so called "wordly" people yet they will committ some of the most heinous things under their God. And then other Christians would be quick to say "they weren't a REAL Christian" when confronted. They hide and cower behind their archaic book. Such sad people.

  • @marybulinda
    @marybulinda 27 дней назад +6

    This episode was the best mature and respectful crowd

  • @mellobravs6188
    @mellobravs6188 Месяц назад +6

    I love the last guy, that how you date, that how you get to know someone. That is why relationships are not working, because we love to ask the basic too much, too much what's your
    favorite color or food?

  • @Matt-mc2sn
    @Matt-mc2sn Месяц назад +432

    First guy is on another level. I rarely come across people with that kind of inner peace, humility, and self awareness. I would be interested in learning his story.

    • @talayahtownsend3565
      @talayahtownsend3565 Месяц назад +4

      Yes!! He was so sweet

    • @lstoryrecords_
      @lstoryrecords_ Месяц назад +4

      For REAL

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Месяц назад +15

      It would be my pleasure and I really appreciate the acknowledgment

    • @alp7928
      @alp7928 Месяц назад

      ​@@shattablaze3369 be blessed.

    • @catherineo8960
      @catherineo8960 Месяц назад +8

      I agree! Nobody was knocking down his confidence and he stood his ground and didn’t let them shake him 💯

  • @Jelaun
    @Jelaun Месяц назад +659

    them shouting "respect" as he walked off has me screaming lmaooo

  • @Octaviamorris77
    @Octaviamorris77 18 дней назад +3

    The guy with the dreads and beige blazer is witty and very much had swag. He checked Ms. Victorville as well…The boho style was fire 🔥

  • @shanda123
    @shanda123 12 дней назад +2

    The girl in the gray dress seems like she has a beautiful spirit. She is so calm and her voice is so soothing. I think she would have been a great match for that last guy

  • @3L3KTR0NG3N
    @3L3KTR0NG3N Месяц назад +1133

    "He can't carry a conversation. Its always 'respect, you look good.' please give me more."
    "Respect"

  • @CDProclaim180
    @CDProclaim180 Месяц назад +805

    I'm sorry but a relationship with that second guy will be so painful. Zero excitement, zero personality. Amazing episode Arlette!

    • @TheRalphbitch
      @TheRalphbitch Месяц назад

      U prefer him to be noisey and ghetto?

    • @BigGlockGucci
      @BigGlockGucci Месяц назад +119

      It's because he was tall, that's all 😂

    • @JD-te6vm
      @JD-te6vm Месяц назад +30

      He had a good deal breaker tho

    • @JAYWIL01
      @JAYWIL01 Месяц назад +60

      It really doesn't matter when you're tall and have your stuff together.

    • @khorediathiam1976
      @khorediathiam1976 Месяц назад +245

      I thought the same. He wasn’t that excited for his match either.

  • @nasibaabass5773
    @nasibaabass5773 12 часов назад

    Arlette, I love how decently you host this show❤ I hope you become a reality TV show host and producer one day. Love to see you black queen!!!

  • @samblesselo877
    @samblesselo877 Месяц назад +3

    Oh wow! I respect the fact that our ladies are now putting God first 🙏.

    • @Felix-M.
      @Felix-M. 10 дней назад

      Christ All Day 🙌🏼✨
      Salute to these Women

  • @ytwatcher69
    @ytwatcher69 Месяц назад +1054

    The second guy did not seem interested in his match at all 😅

    • @chaunceyelliot1633
      @chaunceyelliot1633 Месяц назад +400

      He didn’t seem interested in none of them.

    • @chrisw4405
      @chrisw4405 Месяц назад +70

      Because most of them is just there to waste they time . Can’t blame him

    • @angeliquewest-sv6ud
      @angeliquewest-sv6ud Месяц назад +142

      I don’t think he liked any of us to be honest but it was all fun

    • @lindokuhlengcamu519
      @lindokuhlengcamu519 Месяц назад +50

      A​@@angeliquewest-sv6udhi there airforce girl. You looked good on the video 👌🏽

    • @adgee5401
      @adgee5401 Месяц назад +28

      Not everybody shows emotion the same way. I would be just like him. It’s just a female at the end of the day.

  • @Inksplash52
    @Inksplash52 Месяц назад +662

    The fact Cedric had some balloons left was crazy to me ,dude was off 😂

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Месяц назад +142

      Right, no substance at all, just respect 😭

    • @jehanalexander7563
      @jehanalexander7563 Месяц назад +61

      zero substance

    • @PHARAONICORP
      @PHARAONICORP Месяц назад +58

      That dude was definitely a lame 😂

    • @beauneamcneil6284
      @beauneamcneil6284 Месяц назад +41

      lmaooooo cus i was for sure questioning my own sanity

    • @CL-ck6lf
      @CL-ck6lf Месяц назад +84

      when he said that as long as she can clean my balloon woulda been popped😭

  • @chryselene
    @chryselene Месяц назад +4

    "Jollof Rice" was such a gentleman! He set the bar high for me. 😊

  • @PossibleParis777
    @PossibleParis777 7 дней назад +1

    The episodes I've seen with Arlette hosting are the best to me. The men and women are classy, respectful and very successful.
    On this episode, I was fond of Heaven. I liked that her style was unique and her curly hair complimented her lovely face. I felt maybe she was just trying to be honest with the guys, without trying to say anything wrong or rude, because you can voice that you're not interested without picking apart someone's image to create drama. I may be wrong, but I liked her. I hope Heaven and everyone on this episode find their life mate.

  • @Talaya_sh
    @Talaya_sh Месяц назад +278

    45:44 when he said “respect” after she told him that’s all he says got my crying😭😭

    • @fyb3x890
      @fyb3x890 Месяц назад +3

      😂😂

    • @SinaSpeaks
      @SinaSpeaks Месяц назад +2

      Respectfully same 🤣😩

  • @thehardtruth3027
    @thehardtruth3027 Месяц назад +540

    3rd guy was in his feelings when she said she wanted someone more athletic looking. He started running down his sports resume😂😂😂😂

    • @maryjs4878
      @maryjs4878 Месяц назад +13

      Lmao😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jeremyjackson7326
      @jeremyjackson7326 Месяц назад +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @sheheals_wounds5169
      @sheheals_wounds5169 Месяц назад +116

      I think she jumped the gun and assumed based on his weight he wasn’t athletic. That’s offensive so naturally he corrected her

    • @kristamonae
      @kristamonae Месяц назад +61

      @@sheheals_wounds5169 how was he athletic?? He’s clearly overweight

    • @alisjay9798
      @alisjay9798 Месяц назад +68

      @@sheheals_wounds5169she meant athletic built, that man is full figured and it’s okay for that to not be someone’s type

  • @niajohnson1108
    @niajohnson1108 Месяц назад +7

    The first guy seems so kind and chill and respectful!

  • @OolongG952
    @OolongG952 11 дней назад

    I love the 3rd guy. They spoke a lot about their faith. At the end if the day, that’s all you have🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @music_man_4043
    @music_man_4043 Месяц назад +282

    Nobody:
    Cedric: "Respect."

  • @kay8573
    @kay8573 Месяц назад +285

    The 2-yr plan was an EXCELLENT question. Definitely a quality episode.

    • @Dreamville902
      @Dreamville902 Месяц назад +3

      My most favorite part of the show ❤

  • @MrCreal06
    @MrCreal06 26 дней назад +7

    “DAMN” 😂😂😂😂 4th guy had me weak! #RESPEC 😂😂😂💯

  • @daisystewart1
    @daisystewart1 22 дня назад +1

    The first guy is just awesome!! You can tell him will make a great husband one day.

  • @detectivehawk4976
    @detectivehawk4976 Месяц назад +321

    First dude probably was insanely chill af. Every girl lowkey dissed him and he didn’t take anything personally and complimented them back instead

    • @BeachBallCrusher
      @BeachBallCrusher Месяц назад +46

      The chick in the red top literally led him on then popped at the end. She is definitely the type to play games.

    • @HoneybadgerQ
      @HoneybadgerQ Месяц назад +18

      He should have never done that. That would of made him interesting. Men should never compliment women after rejection. Women get fueled off that

    • @whitneywilliams317
      @whitneywilliams317 Месяц назад +19

      ​@@HoneybadgerQ I can't disagree, but that fact he didn't take it personally and took it like a champ gave me the notion that he didn't care wtf those girls thought anyway 😂😂. He knows his value.

    • @robertneal8244
      @robertneal8244 Месяц назад +6

      @@HoneybadgerQ Not every CHICK dissed him, and why would he take anything they says personally? The last episode the men did the same thing to the lady that was a personal trainer. And she actuality handled it well. And not complimenting a women after rejection doesnt make you interesting, Idk who told you that bro😂😂😂and most women don't get fueled off that. Just the ones that reject you😂😂😂

    • @TevronPlays
      @TevronPlays Месяц назад +6

      Hes cool, but he needs to upgrade his wardrobe asap. Bro cant be rollin in wearin that

  • @darshellbertola7176
    @darshellbertola7176 Месяц назад +358

    The way Arlette makes them explain themselves cracks me TF up 😂😂😂 “so why is she not your type” LMAO bye

    • @AbigaillOwusu
      @AbigaillOwusu Месяц назад +38

      She’s hilarious! “why did you leave your balloon unpopped” 😂

    • @darshellbertola7176
      @darshellbertola7176 Месяц назад +69

      @@AbigaillOwusu “so what about his appearance don’t you like?” She’s GOLD lol she make them stand on business 😆

    • @briserenity
      @briserenity Месяц назад +35

      “So physically, what is your type” 😂😅

    • @darshellbertola7176
      @darshellbertola7176 Месяц назад +19

      @@briserenitythen she want to say “athletic” and he plays sports 😂😂😂😂 ma’am don’t you watch football, they got some big boys on the defense line.

    • @montj9672
      @montj9672 Месяц назад +1

      I love that lol

  • @prim.an.propher1505
    @prim.an.propher1505 28 дней назад +1

    GIRL! Orange is DEFINITELY YOUR COLOR!! Love that dress!!! 🥰

  • @papayboima3509
    @papayboima3509 Месяц назад +4

    The camera panning down when she said he was short is craaazzzyyy😭

  • @MaxIsBackInTown
    @MaxIsBackInTown Месяц назад +374

    When he asked “have you ever been in a gang” I lost it 😂

  • @Bombeyfilmmedia
    @Bombeyfilmmedia Месяц назад +308

    1st & 2nd dude was super confident, honest and chill. No goofy energy! They played it perfectly when they got rejected and selected. Fellas take notes and apply it to life.

    • @abdifatahadenshariff5490
      @abdifatahadenshariff5490 Месяц назад +6

      2nd guy from the air force looked rude af. The way he carried himself was super arrogant.

  • @smallfrycrusher6415
    @smallfrycrusher6415 Месяц назад +1

    I LOVE these videos you make!!! Me and my friends meet up at my house just to watch your vids together we love what you’re doing!

  • @Kimberly-ks6uu
    @Kimberly-ks6uu 27 дней назад +7

    I really appreciate the interviewer asking why at all times so you get the reasons behind why certain decisions were made

  • @uliceyoung722
    @uliceyoung722 Месяц назад +231

    “Obsessed sometimes leads to toxicity.” Flamed! Lol

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Месяц назад +2

      That’s facts

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 Месяц назад +2

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @ceelettice
      @ceelettice Месяц назад +5

      Fully agree! I could tell from her interests in the guys she kept the balloons for, that she probably overly invests in her love interests until she becomes codependent. Which we all know how that ends for the lover girls. But hey I could be misjudging.

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@ceeletticeyeah, she needs to work on herself because that comment was telling

  • @strangepretty7991
    @strangepretty7991 Месяц назад +574

    Girl in the silver dress probably one of the prettiest girls i’ve seen

    • @isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva
      @isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva Месяц назад +16

      Facts!

    • @baerares2743
      @baerares2743 Месяц назад +14

      Litttearlyyy!!! I was so sad for her she didn’t get the guy

    • @harunyusuf6622
      @harunyusuf6622 Месяц назад +23

      fr too bad she got a kid

    • @dynasty507
      @dynasty507 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@harunyusuf6622 Poor thing. For recreational use only.

    • @dejahshaqurah4460
      @dejahshaqurah4460 Месяц назад +31

      @@harunyusuf6622So what? Her having kids doesn’t mean anything.

  • @bird12354
    @bird12354 14 дней назад +4

    I love second guy! His reaction to his match got me dead tho lol

  • @caseynforgwei4178
    @caseynforgwei4178 29 дней назад +1

    Purrrr!!! I love how everyone is all about Jehovahhhhh!!! I love it

  • @Chevaux804
    @Chevaux804 Месяц назад +240

    This is the most respectful and mature matchmaking show I've seen on RUclips.

    • @Igetsitin89
      @Igetsitin89 Месяц назад +3

      Yeah with class I don't watch the other ignorant ones

  • @lastdragonx
    @lastdragonx Месяц назад +212

    Arlette is about to dominate the entire dating show market. Mad props

    • @modestblossom
      @modestblossom Месяц назад +1

      I was like this needs to be on 📺

    • @impeccablenaturale
      @impeccablenaturale Месяц назад +3

      I put her with Kendra G.. I'm new to both of them and haven't seen the styles of social media dating shows. Just so happen to randomly click on, being nosey about the view count, and now I'm hooked! Arlette is great and it's interesting seeing others' methods in choosing mate interests. Sooo refreshing to see after watching a couple headass "20 vs" videos.

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx Месяц назад

      @@impeccablenaturale Kendra's show is ratchet in comparison to Arlette. Kendra is the ghetto version of Jerry Springer. Trash.

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx Месяц назад +1

      @@modestblossom Exactly. Maybe it will. Her platform is growing overnight.

  • @Jeromefjjunior
    @Jeromefjjunior 27 дней назад +6

    Poet lacks direction, the ladies that kept the balloon un popped desperately wanted a man or kept it for show. The religious questions were necessary but once the first lady mentioned it that became all the ladies reason to pop, why not mention his inability to be stable in anything including his faith? Sign me up please so I can represent.

  • @Ghanaman93
    @Ghanaman93 Месяц назад +3

    “Respect” 😂😂 someone give Cedric a show

  • @ashleyfuega
    @ashleyfuega Месяц назад +574

    “Have you ever been in a gang?” 😂😂😂 he was so serious too. I’m literally crying 🤣🤣 51:10

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Месяц назад +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tinybootykia4411
      @tinybootykia4411 Месяц назад +1

      😂

    • @JJ-nr2np
      @JJ-nr2np Месяц назад +44

      The fact that he knew her ‘hood was crazy.

    • @tes-xj8uy
      @tes-xj8uy Месяц назад +12

      real questions! lol

    • @TheLoveOfNikki
      @TheLoveOfNikki Месяц назад +26

      I DID NOT see that question coming 😂😂😂😂

  • @ggottiii
    @ggottiii Месяц назад +330

    Brandon coming in and immediately saying I see them feet and staring at them is wilddd 😭

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 Месяц назад

      😂😂😂

    • @sly9821
      @sly9821 Месяц назад +35

      staring non-stop 😭. he talked about it twice in his introduction without realizing it then the first girl quickly saw through then he continues endlessly

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 Месяц назад +21

      And I’m so upset that the skinny chick in the all black took offense to that 🙄🙄. He was being serious, but funny at the same time just trying to lighten the mood.

    • @ggottiii
      @ggottiii Месяц назад +26

      @@Morg100 I mean I’m not sure if she took offense more so seemed like she wasn’t fucking with the foot fetish, which is valid

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 Месяц назад +25

      @@ggottiii but it wasn’t even a “fetish”. He just appreciates a woman with decent feet and spoke on it, which is valid too.

  • @janenjeri7100
    @janenjeri7100 29 дней назад

    Arlette your show is very mature and so respectful ❤❤❤have you guys watched haunt game is more if insults than finding love

  • @WholeHeartily
    @WholeHeartily Месяц назад +266

    The conversations on faith are intriguing! I never expected an online dating show to really explore the range of expressions of faiths in the black community.

    • @breonac2343
      @breonac2343 Месяц назад +6

      I am here for it tooo❤️

    • @user-xj7ny7lb3c
      @user-xj7ny7lb3c Месяц назад

      They can't be Christians though. Just my opinion

    • @RonDonProductions
      @RonDonProductions Месяц назад +20

      Bro was trying his best to not say he was an atheist because he knows how our community shuns the lack of belief. It's definitely a struggle to get people to hear a different point of view, but I enjoyed that part of the show.
      Edit: My comment was about the 2nd dude, didn't realize there was even more faith talk lol

    • @simone_e.4207
      @simone_e.4207 Месяц назад +10

      ​​@@RonDonProductions He said enough though. When you know what you believe in, it's not hard to articulate.

    • @simonesherron7921
      @simonesherron7921 Месяц назад +3

      What gets me is I was just explaining to my Black Agnostic friend about the importance of articulating your knowledge or expression of your position of religion especially when it comes to dating and here we see why I am right *sigh* 😫

  • @a_83567
    @a_83567 Месяц назад +410

    I love when Arlette presses them for more details when they say the person just isn’t their type. Arlette gets the tea but in a polite nonmessy way.

    • @ESBEAUTII
      @ESBEAUTII Месяц назад +77

      No it’s very messy

    • @ItsNeezy
      @ItsNeezy Месяц назад +56

      Because she knows the real answer and knows they're gonna tap dance around it.

    • @agabrielle
      @agabrielle Месяц назад +6

      @@ESBEAUTIIagreed 😂😂

    • @lelelew2735
      @lelelew2735 Месяц назад +23

      Lmao shes a instigator

    • @s.f7778
      @s.f7778 Месяц назад +8

      It’s very much messy bfr

  • @gregoryburton1241
    @gregoryburton1241 3 дня назад

    Sport agent is not too sharp! Robotic in his walk and his talk. Respect!!!

  • @princesspassiveincome
    @princesspassiveincome Месяц назад +2

    I'm coming on this showwww!!!! I am legit ADDICTEDDDDDDDDDDDD TO THIS SHOWWWW!!!! I NEEEEEDDDDDD MORE!!!!!!!!

  • @Chrgeit2dagame1
    @Chrgeit2dagame1 Месяц назад +207

    This was the least toxic group so far, maybe we will get a match that goes beyond the first date this time! absolutely loved the show, and as always hope the ones that didn't get picked find their person soon!

  • @CamirrasKitchen
    @CamirrasKitchen Месяц назад +133

    the last guy taking over like he is the host of the show 😂

    • @thabangmashego9459
      @thabangmashego9459 Месяц назад

      He did that

    • @MalikaEsdelle
      @MalikaEsdelle Месяц назад +1

      Right 😂

    • @kitcowool
      @kitcowool Месяц назад +1

      My kind of guy! He needs all the data before making a decision. Asks deep questions!

    • @marybulinda
      @marybulinda 27 дней назад

      It was smart of him genius move

  • @Milliondollarperson
    @Milliondollarperson 7 дней назад +2

    Cedrick😂😂😂 funny af!! Bro made me laugh so hard my granddad almost put me out😂 they didn’t respect bro😭

  • @amarijadedesuze5819
    @amarijadedesuze5819 Месяц назад +3

    The last one was the best ❤

  • @shannonsmith3570
    @shannonsmith3570 Месяц назад +564

    Cedric having 3 ladies left to choose from is WILDDDD😅

    • @rahsaankirton8737
      @rahsaankirton8737 Месяц назад +55

      Very!!! Like they needed a man for the babies real quick !!!

    • @SinaSpeaks
      @SinaSpeaks Месяц назад +1

      😂

    • @mateusvahl5072
      @mateusvahl5072 Месяц назад +27

      I think they left intentionally unpop to make him confused and just pop all together and left him with no options 😂

    • @shanellecooper2981
      @shanellecooper2981 Месяц назад +93

      Who in the world is he a Sports Agent for? He cannot even communicate.

    • @ThiernoDiallo-ro7xd
      @ThiernoDiallo-ro7xd Месяц назад +34

      Respect

  • @chakadaralph29
    @chakadaralph29 Месяц назад +345

    Arlette,just a suggestion to have the ladies who popped their balloon to move further down the line to avoid moving back and forth too much..i.e ease in walking for you and your guests...i just love how you listen to your fans in the comment section

    • @janahudson1165
      @janahudson1165 Месяц назад +35

      I thought the same. The people who pop should step back after they answer why they popped

    • @thehardtruth3027
      @thehardtruth3027 Месяц назад +36

      Is that necessary? It's really not that long of a walk🙄

    • @jcalvioficial
      @jcalvioficial Месяц назад +9

      It's a good idea. Work smarker not harder.. if possible not at all 😜

    • @destinyani
      @destinyani Месяц назад +1

      Good point

    • @chocolateearrings
      @chocolateearrings Месяц назад +12

      Good idea but I don't think it's necessary, too much shuffling will happen

  • @LustyBrunchn
    @LustyBrunchn 12 дней назад +2

    Me and my friends have to sign up for this.😂😂😂😂 we would be hilarious

  • @emmanueldaily
    @emmanueldaily 13 дней назад +1

    Poet guy was in his feelings. Went on a whole speech at the end just talking in circles.

    • @mykaylabrittinique
      @mykaylabrittinique 12 дней назад

      He said he went through a lot I understood everything he said

  • @kellz314
    @kellz314 Месяц назад +273

    The contrast between Poet and Cedric is wild 😂😂😂😂

    • @TahitianTreatSkeetJuiceJr
      @TahitianTreatSkeetJuiceJr Месяц назад +28

      not really. theyre both the same. one just tries to sound "deep" lol

    • @QLuvsDoja
      @QLuvsDoja Месяц назад +62

      @@TahitianTreatSkeetJuiceJrthe whole explanation of jewelry and God didn’t make sense at all… just trying to sound elevated…

    • @allforkenji9708
      @allforkenji9708 Месяц назад +1

      Cause god doesn’t make sense but at the same time he does. It really just don’t make sense 2 u

    • @DeanMoriarti
      @DeanMoriarti Месяц назад +8

      @@allforkenji9708I’m guessing you’re the only one who it makes sense to 🤣🤣 I don’t even think he knows what he was talking about

    • @JJ-nr2np
      @JJ-nr2np Месяц назад +22

      @@DeanMoriartiit’s crazy because his explanation is simple. His jewelry is self expression and has nothing to do with religion. He’s spiritual but it seemed that they wanted him be in the christian church type or at least say that.