How to REACT When People SHOUT or YELL At You? Dealing with Rude People | Self-Improvement Training
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Shouting and yelling is relevant to every person as at one point we shout or yell in anger. Some people are rude and abuse on a regular basis. They shout and yell in anger all the time, it’s more of a habit with them. So how do you react or deal with such rude people? That’s the question I will address in today’s personality development video. You will learn what should you say or do when someone is rude and yells at you saying rude things or rude phrases when they are angry. Should you teach them anger management.
When someone is angry and they are yelling, there are a variety of reasons that they are yelling. You will understand the reasons why people yell and how to deal with such people without getting emotionally hurt. Yelling causes hurt, so don’t allow them to continue to hurt you or your relationship by tolerating their yelling.
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Thank you Madam!!!
My mom shouting at me because I didn't clean the sink properly
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If someone is shouting, I walk away.
My life is drama free and I am not here to tolerate anyone’s BS.
Tienes toda la razon yo haria lo mismo.
Jose Brenes but i cant walk away from school
if you do something reckless, like smoking while filling up your car in a gas station, and you walk away when I yell at you for it, you will be in a shit world of hurt (literally). You'll press charges against me all you want, but you'll lose in court for obvious reasons. However, if someone shouts at you for silly or no reasons at all, you do well to just walk away.
Completely my life
Yes! An explanation is NOT an excuse for unacceptable behaviour.
They hate you for being calm and collected
I usually stay quiet and ignore anyone who gets mad at me or yells at for no reason cause I am not that type of person looking for problems. I am usually quiet, very kind to everyone, shy, and sometimes depressed
Same here
Mee to
that' called being a pushover, and bosses love it.
I'm not looking for problems either, but a problem finds you in this situation, so learn how to be "bullet proof" to lookout for own well-being.
Me too 😢
Golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated.
Sadly, most people don't understand this rule.
tell this to the elderly pre-baby boomer generation.
I treat others the way I want to be treated, I treat them with kindness but I don’t get any in return.
Unless your yelling at you children who don't have the will to yell back
(I'm kidding)
Yep. Because of the *Golden Rule* and She Olive 😆 !!!!!!!
Lesson starts @4:35
Thanks man❤
Thankyou
A day ago, an angry old man was yelling at me in the store without understandable reason. I felt the need to ask what I did wrong, but in that moment I remembered that the best is not to let his words inside me. So, I started to look at him directly, calmly into his eyes. My calmness made him even angrier and he wanted to escalate. Than I turn my look between his eyebrows. I noticed he had a very deep wrinkles there and at the lower forhead, probably he was angry a lot of times in his life. I felt sorry for him. I looked again directly in his eyes, feeling peety for him and I left. The shop gave me a discount card of 50% at any product.
Aw sweet of you i experienced that too but neighbor is like that to me and I did nothing and sounds like they listen in but my bf doesn’t believe me and it sucks
I'm increasing my listening speed by taking your video in 1.25×
I'm in 1.5x😅
Tera 22.si practicas todos los dias lo lograras creeme.
Me too
I am in 0.75x
1.75x
I’m just watching this to make sure I don’t break down when my teacher starts yelling at me QwQ
I yell at my son sometimes and upset him. I don’t want to do that. Today my neighbor yelled and threatened me, I’m not sure why but it upset me and made me think of how my son feels. Sometimes ppl that hurt others don’t want to and try to be kind and calm at all times 💜
I wish my dad was like you. Keep on trying to build a better relationship with your son. One time, I had to call the cops on my dad and even after that, he started the same old routine again. Please keep your son's best interests in mind and know that if he's getting upset, he does care about you and your opinion of him
my dad yells at me every time he gets angry he's scary ig
My sister keeps shouting at me for things I don't even do
same, just keep your emotion under control and avoid her as you can. they look absurd to me.
@@unigame4577 no I mean she takes me to school even tho I have bike I can go there and I keep my emotions under control pretty good.
Same, but now she is out of control she shouts at me alot ,blame me without any reason,if I don't answer her shit, she slaps me or hurt my hairs,I m so sad what should I do,because of her I sleep all day and wake up at night ,so that she can't hurt me but ....😥😣😓
@@samaviazahid8139 my hand can 5 inches from her and she shouts MOOOOOOM!!!!!!!
@@MohamedSaamy83 oh sad
What if the yeller believe there's nothing wrong with yelling and continue yelling 90% of the time with everyone around them?
Than others will see the yeller as a trash, lack of attitude and depth
I yell back at them
@@Hafizhhh25 okay... is there anything that can be done to teach the person it is wrong
@@wisdomok99 oh okay.. I've tried this and it becomes a yelling contest lol so I don't yell back and instead just leave
@@yashny if your yelling is weak then yes .
What if the person finds it easier to yell at you, and not at some other person, because , i don't know, you are too nice a person with unclear boundaries.
The problem is, when i walk away, my boss or my friends will judge me like i have a big ego, i didn't listen to them. Whatever i do, they always have reasons to judge me.
No matter what they say
Those “friends” are not really good friends. They sound toxic. I imagine you all hang together because you are used to it. But there is no real love or care like in real friendships. I say treat them as acquaintances, find better close friends.
Relatable
My friend yelled at me “Stop”
When I was talking so I just said that’s not right.
Some friend.
Same. Happened to me today. Well, not friend- a temporary friend since im in school cuz im an key worker child. I dont have any friends with me so i was so bored. I decided to kick around a pen because i feel that entertains me. Then at person yelled stop at me. I then felt sad.
When people shout at me i end up laughing at them .
Life is toooo short for drama .
I like to SMILE .
Have a great day whoever reads this...and smile :))))
Yes. My dad yells at me. All the time. Everyday. I leave a paper on ground . he yells. I get groceries. Clean. Cook. To be kind. He yells.of I leave a crumb on table..totally entitled abusive brat attitude.
No kindness and gratitude.
JESUS IS THE CURE for this angry madness.
Anger does not bring about Gods goodness and love..anger gives a foothold to the devil
@@livefree316 It is better to show people a mirror while smiling at them.
I usually stay silent and just stay quiet and calm because the more you react the more the other person will respond back
Just breath and walk away. No one is perfect people have their flaws. Often times people yell at others all because they have been yelled at and felt the need to pass it on to other. Hate and negative thoughts and actions are like the common cold. It’s spreads but through taking care of one another regardless of race or religion we can all push forward to a better social future.
if you just walk away you the pain inside will not be released and will eat you from inside
@@hereandnow5235 how can you tell someone if your pain when they are the ones whom caused of it but also are laugh at your pain and misery.
Love you Niharika. The way you speak and sound clearly implies of your being a beautiful person inside.
Best reaction! I've not tolerate anyone shouting at me for years!
I am gonna just cry when someone shout at me. I will be vulnerable and say Please don’t shout at me, I am scared. I believe People inside they never want to hurt anyone 🤗
o p p o s i t e
Doing that might actually make their anger worse, it makes them feel guilty about their behavior and to compensate they keep yelling at you to protect their ego, they can’t admit that they did something wrong. Sometimes limiting your reaction and trying to stay neutral is the best option instead of crying if you can avoid it, or leave the situation to cry alone
@@Ellie-qq9zm I agree
Actually when I use to cry and be too nice after the other person scream at me. They just scream at me again and again until I snap back and speak up for myself. Your comment sounds sweet but there are mean wicked people in this world that does hurt people on purpose. 💯
Actually when I use to cry and be too nice after the other person scream at me. They just scream at me again and again until I snap back and speak up for myself. Your comment sounds sweet but there are mean wicked people in this world that does hurt people on purpose. 💯
I really don’t like when people yell at me.
If I get angry I watch your lessons hear your voice my anger calm down. God bless you. Niharika miss.
Im so scared of being yelled at for forgeting alot at school that i want to avoid school. Today i forgot to get a book to school and i was about to have a panic attack. Not my fault i get so scared of school that i start forgeting so much. Just thinking about it scares me to my core.
leave the school...who is compelling you to remain in that one. There are many more. Go to a different city, it will relax you
Your each suggestion gives me a way to live the life. My whole day go happy when I see u. Love you 💘
Thanks you Skillopedia family for such amazing and extra ordinary work of helping people. I would like to appreciate you on that note.
I m listening to u very meticulously Niharika..I m improving my listening habit
Very educative, keep on imparting these pieces of important knowledge to us.
Really helps. Amazing video♥️
I also face such problems
Here I have learned something new to handle these situations 😘🤔🙏
Keep in mind, some people's cultures may be that they yell when they aren't really mad, it's just how they are. Good video.
it’s always white older people that yell at me . i doubt it’s their “culture “
@@yayamartinez1404 Every family has a culture and so do organizations. A person who grew up in a yelling family will likely have that as part of their culture. The next door neighbor’s family may express themselves differently, and that will be their culture. There are individual family styles that have nothing to do race, ethnicity or color.
@@yayamartinez1404 same...mostly baby boomers...
I really enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing!!
Wonderful & got a lot to know...thank you 🙏👍
And I just get yelled by my brother and parents just for trying to help with something
My mom is work obsessed, and whenever I want to eat a chocolate
Bar she shouts at me, I just want to live a normal life.. I dont know what I did wrong. 🥺😢😞
OMG I love these video's!!! Watching from Australia.
From Australia too
1. money is the best coping mechanism
2. be fearless
3. stay away from aggressive people
4. thats rediculous
5. thats also rediculous...
marines yell to abuse? i think they would think this is rediculous as well....they yell to train....i doubt marines in basic training feel neglected or are learning to be helpless
have a wonderful day
One of the best English spoken teacher
Thank uou naharika ilearn alot of social skils from you... Keep going iwait you in another session
I've ended friendships over being yelled at. If that's how you are, then goodbye. I don't need this.
I'm turning 16 this year and I'm living with my toxic dad 🙄 and in Texas I'm allowed to move out at 18, what can I do?
Hey Milly, here's what I would do in your situation. 1) Pray to God every day for your dad (you know what to ask for). This is very important. 2) Do everthing you can now to move out by the time you turn 18 (get a partime job now, if possible and save as much money as you can). Learn as much as you can online now about the career path you would like to take in the future. Stay focused. I had a family member that hated me beyond belief. It was horrible. I prayed for them constantly that God would soften their heart. We are now great friends! There is always hope. Hang in there, Milly!
@@christiner692 I know that this wasn’t for me, but thank you.
@@shanelstv I'm so glad to hear my words helped you.
Lucky you. My dad call me up and screamed after I moved out. My psychiatrist told me that is paranoid.
Emancipation if you want to live early on
Once my roommate yelled at me for no particular reason ( later she explained this as mood swings) . She even came at me to hit me. I got so scared since i was with her in the same room and none of the other room mates didnt even asked me if i was okay! That event still remains traumatizing to me( i know i can be quite sensitive) but still i dont get why my other roommates never talked to me about it and ignored me for about 6 months, i asked for room change but they never answered back. The roommate who yelled at me said she was the only child and she was very pampered and she want someone to take off her anger. This incident was quite hard on me since it was my 1st time away from home.
I am taking break for 3 days already from my boss... and now I losing my passion to work at all...
Hello 👋🏻 Mam
Very well said All are very important things
Thanks, most needed one
Thank you for this ,more videos pls💕💞,very useful👍💝
Thank you Madam !!!
Well explained!
Thanks to you and your team but my life to see is a move where hero who is still not known
Just looking at the speakers really rejoiced my mood and the way she speaks..it's just aahhh ❤️
Thank you sister it heleped me a lotb
could you offer some phrases to use?
can i say to my boss "i need a break" when they're yelling? or will that result in losing my job?
and what to say after the break?
Thank u really I am listening skills developed thanks niharika
Amazing video. Love it🤗💛💙
I appreciate the tips but what can you do if the other person doesn't collaborate with you and doesn't see or accept that their yelling is an issue? Especially if it's work related and they're your co-worker.
Thank you so much ☺️ you are are very calming :)
Thanks Niharika mam
but don't be a pushover, it's a fine line. but if yo scream at me, I will just not come back the next day, or wait until you need me the most, and I will just quit, why? because F them, that's why.
Best thing I learnt ever... Thank u sister
Nice topic... Thanks
This was so helpful thank you
Very nice tips to respond to yellers!
If anyone yells at me. Their are not speaking to me and I’m walking away. If it’s my “boss”. Then it’s time to find another job. I give no one permission to yell at me.
Your boss really yelled at you 🤨 how could he yelled at as a sweet person as you. He is very bad 😡
They do this only to feel superior. I’ve had a bald white fire fighter yell at me on my first day working a desk job. I could have reacted to him in a similar manner but I could took a breather and pointed him in the right direction. After that he later threatened me to get his guys on me and then later apologized. Although threatened. Ya just gotta walk away from the bullshit. Because those wanna be tough guys all they want to do is show how superior they are to women.
@@unknownslarry395 I agree. My parents know that I get panick attacks when people yell at me but continuously do it because nothing else bothers me.
@@chi1899 anyway to manipulate you and throw you off you game in life the oppressor will do it. Know that you are a remarkable person and that you must get out of the situation you are in and try to condition yourself from feeling that way when your parents yell at you. The best thing to do is deep breaths to try and relax yourself. Yelling at you in order for you to feel guilty and have panic attacks is a form of manipulation in order for you to obey. You have to constantly tell yourself you are whom you say you are and not what other make or say about you. Motivate yourself in the mirror everyday telling yourself how beautiful and smart you are and you’ll have ten times more confidence to do things. We live in an American society full of emotional leaching citizens whom like to drain the happiness out of those whom deserve the upmost respect and happiness. Remember you aren’t the slave society conditioned you to be. You are the liquid raging waves of the Atlantic Ocean that conquers this world. You are the vast blue sky that stretches beyond the horizon. You are worth it and you will succeed. Many blessing to you. 🙏🏿
sometimes when boss yells at you and you are useless to them, it is okay to listen otherwise he may fire u upfront. Or else, the boss is just bossing around
Randoms that yell are usually BFBLs (Badly Fucked, Badly Loved), so you stand no chance against such people if you try make a stand, just walk away.
Very tough practice, but safe practice.
Right, Niharika mam...
Content and these speakers..I just love all of them ❤
I was searching for this video on RUclips and guess what your video comes out
U r amazing Dear Niharika..❤❤❤
Its easy to say go back and address the issue when you both are calm down it never work the yelling starts all over again in a higher level.
I remember that i was in the high school, a friend was drawing a anime girl, I jokingly said "you're drawing me." And he yelled me "No, you are Amorphous" I was paralyzed, very offended and i feel so humilliated, I can still feel the discomfort of that memory, I resent that friend for that, Cretin beggar, I hope things go badly for him in his life, he doesn't even talk to me, our friendship broke over time
My dad yells at me while I drive because im learning it puts me under stress and makes it hard to concéntrate the only reasson I havent crashed is because stress is my best friend its always in my life. Sometimes I just want to swerve the car and crash it into a wall out of pure rage because yelling always triggers my anger.
My ex used to yell at my son when he was learning to drive. It totally traumatized him. Yelling is NEVER right. See if you can find someone else to teach you how to drive who can remain calm and support you, not stress you out even further. Learning to drive is stressful enough. Hang in there.
Nice vidio madam
Plz make a vedio
How to overcome Enemies?
Thanks Niharika
Looking gorgeous niharika ma'am awesome topic .
My best English trainer NIHARIKA thanks a lot
Thanks, this will help
I felt as if this video was on slow motion mode
Love you 🤩
Awesome 😎 Thanks 🙏
And what do you do if someone is yelling at you and then a police officer who is a friend of theirs threatens you over being shouted at?
If your boss is screaming at you in front of other coworkers, he/she doesn't have good people skills and noone should have to go through that. It should be taken behind closed doors if he/she needs to talk firm and harsh, but some bosses don't understand that....just saying
Someone yells at me, I just turn around like "are you challenging me?"
mam...I really love the way you express ...
What is the difference between cope an cope up?, please
Thunx for vedio I am big fun ..
Valuable 👌
Plz tell me in hindi this
Hello.plz tell me this in hindi
Yes
If I do a mistake I am ready to get yielded but if it's not my mistake and the person is same age or less age from me I just stuck his collar and start shout and him and most importantly I abuse him in Hindi that really calm me
I know my words are rude but this is the only way to get rid of the person abusing on you without any reason
I Agree with you
Silence is the best thing.
Thumbs up from your neighbor 😊
We don't need reasons just how do you react that's it!
My adult son 23 is now temporarily living with us. He will eat a lot of the food. I’ll fix dinner. He will come upstairs a hour later and fix a sandwich and get more to drink. Needless to say, he has a plate full of food.
He will also hoard food in his room. His dad and I have talked to him about it countless times. The last time he did it, I freaking blew a gasket. It’s like how many times do you have to tell an adult something 6, 7 for them to use common sense.
After I yelled, he then looked as if he was the victim! Life Wtf. Have respect for others!!
I understand that yelling at other people is wrong and I understand he is an adult and didn’t like it. I also don’t like that he doesn’t listen to me either!
Today in Subway... One Stanger(uncle) yelled at me so badly....that time I couldn't able to say anything but after that I wasn't able to stop my tear...... comment me what should I did at that time......i am still overthinking about that uncle...
What if someone just yells at you in a scolding manner as if you were a toddler, you personally know the person and it's not a boss. The place of setting is their business in front of their customers. I just honestly wish that if someone had an issue with me they have dialogue with me and not yell at me or fuss at me.
mam thx so much for give me this hacks bcz m very yell person
Hi from,EGYPT
I just run out the room crying