Ik, I was thinking about this today actually. I usually say I'm not afraid of death (more like think to myself) but ik when I'm going to die or dying I'll most likely be terrified af. Just my annoying ass ego thinking I can do whatever I want without being afraid or hurt.
No I am not afraid of dying. I am more afraid of suffering than death. I am in 3rd stage emphysema hate to see the 4th stage. Painful trying too breath when I get a flare up.
Naw, when you are old and have lived a good life it gets to a point where it is time. Especially if you start having physical limitations such as chronic pain, dementia, or shortness of breath. When my Grandmas died they were both ready. And I’ve been a nurse a long time and a lot of patients are ready and go peacefully with their families.
@@AR-ph7wf Clearly Hospice Nurses can see the difference between a peaceful death and a terrifying death. Christians die peacefully and with a smile on their face. I've heard Hospice Nurses say they witnessed terror filled deaths, yelling, " Dark, more light!! More light!!! And Terrifying cries saying " I was wrong, so wrong " so sad. I can't tell you what to believe in, I can only tell you that Christianity is the real deal. "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have everlasting life " John 3-v16. "For God did not send Jesus in to the world to condemn it but that the world through him might be saved " John 3-v17. The key is MIGHT, God said he doesn't want anyone to perish but many will " it's a shame that many will be condemned. Jesus never let's me down, those who follow him and have a relationship with him are in Gods will, I understand so much because of that, I've had tragedies in my life because this is Earth not Heaven and bad things will happen but Jesus gives me the strength to endure these bad times. I have a peace in me that the world could never give me, only Jesus can give you that kind of peace. People don't understand alot of things in the Bible but that's ok, God said " lean not on your own understanding for my thoughts are higher than yours " people want to know the meaning of life, well this is it, God is gathering his people, God gave us free will to do what we choose, what you choose will where your Spirit will go when you die. Remember, Spirits can never be killed, your Spirit will go on for a eternity, where is up to God and you. God cannot allow people who are still with sin into the kingdom of Heaven, Jesus paid the punishment for our sins so in Gods eyes we are sinless ,Gods wrath was satisfied with the sufferings and death of Jesus. If you need any questions answered then just ask me. Blessings to you and your Family.
Im.60 years old and sick with two chronic illness. My daughter tells me that she's not taking care of me if I can't walk and get around shower and everyday I pray that God takes me fast so I don't bother anybody helping me . But I want to go to a home before.i can't get around. I need information
My family discarded me for no reason. I did everything for them. I lived with them for 18 months enduring trauma of terrible verbal and physical abuse and violence. They told me to leave, so I did. They kept a lot of my belongings, threatened me after I left that something terrible was going to happen to me. I'm 72 years old. So far, I have no health issues, but I feel like I have no purpose in life anymore. If I was on my deathbed, I would know they would only be there waiting for me to die like vultures. There would be no love there.
I understand that perfectly. I do have a fear of certain family members that put me in disability. I used to not be worried by this. I am terrified now because I know that it will be for profit, and nothing I ever accomplished is respected.
Your family sounds like mine. They are all a bunch of narcissists/psychopaths/thugs. I had to go no-contact, I live 4 states away. They still contact my kids on fb, or try to contact them. They didn't let me leave easy, they called the police, social services, my job, everybody they could think of to call. My mom died, and it's hard for me to believe she's in a place of Love. The bully, narcissist older sister is still alive, and I'm sure she won't stop harassing until the day she dies. She talks to my granddaughter and trashes me to my kids & grandkids, and I have panic attacks because of it. So I understand what you're going through and I have compassion for you.
I too am nearly 70yrs old. After much soul in searching, deep thought so & prayer I decided on a living will. There's plenty of organizations that are deserving as well as thankful for us... Me? Local Humane Society.
Dying is the hard part. Death, itself, totally different than dying. Once you die, all sensations and pain leave when you're pulled out of the body. And, you FEEL this. Next, prue bliss and excitement. I was happy that I would never have to go back to work again, my first thought. Coming back, now that was rough. Rough on your body and on your mental state.
Dang, Mike! You made me laugh when you said you were happy that you would never have to go back to work again!😂 Evidently you have a job you truly Despise!? Did not you feel SAD about leaving ypur family and loved ones forever??🤔 or did that thought just not penetrate your brain at the time? #Hmmm?🙄
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 It didn't cross my mind. You enter a state that only dying people know. Lack of sound, sight is lost, no feelings in your body. . . Too much is happening. It's hard to process anything since you have no clue what's happening. But, there's a point you realize you're dying and you must decide how to face it. I choose not to fight. Then death took me. In the last moment of time, that is when the thought about my job came. If I resisted death, maybe other thoughts would have surfaced, but I was ready to die. My death was sudden, and something I never saw coming. It was something I fear the most, not being able to breathe. I had the fear from sucking in water, being unable to learn how to swim. Suffocating, not able to breath . . . That's terrifying. I hate it. Don't ever want to experience that again.
@@MalachiFrazee222 My older sister died almost 5 years ago from cancer that had spread to her lungs and throat. She died at home, and Thank God had very little actual Pain. She took almost none of the pain medication prescribed for her. She never expressed fear, only wanting to rehash old memories of family and wanting to see all her siblings before she passed away. She had a peaceful exit for sure. 💜 I pray I have an equally peaceful passing!🙏
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 i I can relate somewhat. I was afraid at first, once I expected death, I started to feel peace. Before I lost consciousness, I started seeing faces of people who have passed. The bliss and greatest happiness I've experienced, didn't start until after I died.
Im not afraid of dying rather i learned to accept it. I have done research and i came up with my own theories about the afterlife, i have never told anyone because well it can't be proven. Like when we die what if we get our own heaven to do what we want (like a log cabin next to a lake with 2 german shepherds to take on long walks) thats how i feel about.. i have lived in isolation for most of my life and i found joy of being alone.. like when the 2019 pandemic almost everyone was going mad and i was happy..
My dad has been dying for a long time I feel like if he could talk to you it would make such a difference in his understanding. He's such a scientific mind! I am not. Your videos help me so much. Our available assistance is not enough, it's so frustrating! Thanks for all you do!!
Thank-you! For showing kindness and compassion. To a person who really needed it. The biggest gift of all was helping to clean up his place and giving the man some dignity before his moving on!!❤❤🙏🙏
You, and your stories are wonderful! The lighting on these more recent videos has you looking so gorgeous! Keep up the good work! More people need to learn and understand that hospice is so much more than death 💀 at the end of someone’s life! 🙏🏼
😚you’re so awesome for talking about dying in a carefree manner with such grace! To have a hospice or palliative care nurse like you would be a divine blessing! I enjoy every video ❤💜
I think your fantastic. I've had open heart surgery for WPW and am officially the last person they ever had to open up for that at 22yrs old. At 42 I got blessing of cancer in my head and survived. You have answered sooo many of my questions. Love your videos and they can be very comforting as well. You're fantastic and interesting to watch and I have learned so much from you. I think that the sick people are so much well informed by you. Thankyou so much for your videos .... from northern California. The breathing one I felt so helpful, especially when my father passed away. I understand so much more now.... thankyou
@@John-co8um So Glad to hear that you are still here with us!😊💜 I, too, had cancer. It was stage 3 triple negative breast cancer. Was treated with very high toxic levels of chemo. It killed the cancer ..BUT.. ALSO almost killed me in the process!!😨 Never ever want to experience Any thing like that EVER Again!!! #VeryScaryStuff!
Don’t fear death. I fear excess, brutal acute pain, as that is a possibility when very ill, and I fear medical people not listening and ignoring my pleas for help, along with no advocate to help me. I’ve heard the horror stories from others. Not all are kind or helpful as this Hospice nurse.
You are amazing… I am a nurse, been working in nursing home… said farewell to 63 residents under my time there… at least 52 I washed and prepared for their last journey from our nursing home… I think we have the best job ever… HARD, BUT REWARDING!!!❤️😘🥰
You are truly a gift from God Julie! You were put on this earth to help people transcend without pain or fear. Thank you so much for doing what you're doing, it means so much to so many! I hope you have a wonderful day, and I hope that you stay blessed and highly favored!
Thank you for sharing this story. I have a beautiful daughter plus 6 siblings & hope I’m not alone at the end but my father’s recent death has sparked some tension that I hope we can resolve
Cleaniing up a hoarders house is a big undertaking! I follow a YTer who cleans hoarder houses for free, so I know what that entails. You and your team are amazing! ❤
Thanks for talking about this topic, wish I knew half of this stuff before, but I am glad that a lot of medical professionals are talking about this topic, and educating the public about this stuff now, it can really help out when the time comes when they're with their family members and they know this stuff, so thanks!!!💐💐💐💐💫
Every nurse has favorites haha I remember being in the hospital all the nurses would tell me they had favorite patients but they didn’t tell all the other patients they weren’t their favorite because that’s kinda a big psychological blow to someone going through something rough
That's the worst thing that I could think of as I'm on my road out. My distant cousins who have never cared a jot about me, suddenly being in my life. Naw, just let me die in peace without these scroungers sitting at my bedside like vultures waiting for me to die for their feast of my assets and belongings.
@@rebeccabailey5747 already sorted, years ago. With instructions left that when a particular relative turns up to demand certain bits of furniture, those pieces are to be dragged and kicked down the stairs, chopped up in front of them and burnt on the BBQ. Great satisfaction for those left behind.
*@NurseJulie* You’re not afraid until it’s happening, or that’s how I would imagine it. I’m not so much afraid of dying myself, I’m more scared of not being able to see my loved one ever again. The thought of not remembering them, not being able to love, talk or see them ever again for eternity. That’s what actually scares me. *BUT,* in very recent times I began to hope we get to go to whatever after we desire *with* your loved ones of course. It could be some anime universe you like, some movie universe, comic, manga, television show, video game universe, OR just the standard “heaven” you believe in. Why not, right. 🤷🏻♂️
Having a person in your care that really touches your soul has got to be so very special. It's just marvelous that you & he were able to talk- really deep talk- our life cycle- beginning & ending. I am sure you helped calm & make his doubts remarkably "talkable"; made it possible to speak out & trust unfathomable; his fears openly possible. & made it as good as it could actually be. Definitely ❤️ heartwarming that you both got so much 💖 peace & gratification... Undoubtedly you saved his mind. I regret not talking more in depth with my loving family. Thank you... for this (& all) videos.
I have an 82yr mother that Craves attention, has outbursts of anger & Abusive language, acts as though she's 16yr. Screams at me because I won't move her into my home. She also has the hoarder trail thru her trailer. Some ppl Aren't nice. Some ppl are Narcissist that hold their family hostage...
@01splitpea Awww! Thank you So Much! Especially for Your opinion, And telling me what to Do!! Oh Mah Gawd, what would have happened to me? It took You 7 months to come up with Your Piffy reply! Wow! Your a "Bright" one aren't you?? DaFuqing Idiot...
@@benji-mg9vx Sorry,to Heaven if Christian. Muslims are still with thier sins, cannot enter the kingdom of Heaven with unforgiven sins. Jesus is our Savior who paid so we don't have to and only true believers in Jesus are Saved.
@Benny-ed2cz OH, so you think a person can do any Evil to others on the Earth without judgment? Remember, your God is certainly not my God and I'm very happy because us Christians know where you are going and we are very sad for you.
Thanks. Death ☠️ happens irregardless of fear or not timing is a consideration as is loss. I can understand disliking the mystery but there you have it. As it cannot be avoided best to consider it as an adventure. I consider life as a roller coaster 🎢 ride as it has a begining a middle and an end. You signed up for it and usually pay.
I dont WANT to die anytime soon, but i dont fear death because i have the peace of knowing that when i die, I'll be in the loving arms of Jesus Christ. ❤
As someone who doesn’t believe, and I don’t mean this in a disrespectful way at all, I am just curious. How do you think you’d feel if you did not believe in the afterlife? My mother says she would feel like she had no purpose, but I wonder how others feel aswell.
@@MisterRatguyit would be miserable thinking when someone dies, it is literally their end, they can't feel anything or live again! They are just dead and ceased to exist! So scary
I’ve seen enough in my life that I don’t fear death. I watched my parents die, I watched friends die in combat, I watched people die when my wife was a nurse and I was right there holding my wife’s hand when she died of cancer. I know they are watching and waiting for me. We all die. I’m in no hurry but I’m not afraid of it.
I'm 52, died when I was 5/6, Fractured Skull and Meningococcal Meningitis wiped me out. Floated around the Opperating Room, watched Surgeons REMOVE Blood Clots and as I was Dying from the infection, found myself sat on my Dad's Mum's knee, she had passed away when Dad was 4/5! She told me that it wasn't MY time yo die yet, I would have struggles though....HERE I AM ! LOL
I also fear death I am an artist and I have paintings I want to finish before I die but I’m finding it getting harder to concentrate and keep up the work I paint about 2 hours then I am having trouble with my eyes and have to wait a few days
I have a story to share with you guys that may help you feel better: At 12:46 am on a Wednesday night my family was woken up by a extremely loud almost explosion like noise, my dad rushed out of bed and he was suprised to see bright red lights and big flames shining into our front windows next to our front door, my mom yelled from the bottom of the stairs to get down stairs fast and don’t grab anything, I jumped out of bed in my underwear and rushed down with my siblings as fast as possible, luckily we are able to call 911 and escape out of our back yard side gate but we were shocked to see a car on fire perfectly submerged into the columns in the front of our house, we also heard a voice coming from the car saying “help” repeatedly, our across the street neighbor and my dad without any hesitation, rushed over to the car and helped a boy out of the drivers seat and they were shocked to see a young boy, delirious, asking what happened 20 likes for pt 2
I use to fear death. Until I became a spiritualist. Hand on healing a disabled man who was in the process of dying, while assisting this man for 2 weeks before his passing, gave me a book to read. "Journey of the soul." This book changed my entire outlook of leaving this expression of life. I no longer fear death. Just the way it may happen. 😂
I spent a couple of weeks being suicidal, and it was the most liberating experience, not having any fear of death. That was years ago and now I fear death every day. I miss being like that really bad.
I’ve stated many times that I don’t fear death but I’d be a liar if I didn’t admit that a few times in my life I randomly started dwelling on the fact that someday I’ll die! Everything & everyone that makes up my personal reality will come to an end like everyone else….the few times I did this it gave me extreme anxiety to the point I would stop doing whatever task I was busy with only to start pacing around my room! I assume everyone has done this at least one!
Really interested in this, if it's possible to take this story further please? And keep his name and location away from the public please. I don't want his remaining family to be singled out if possible. Thank you.
I lately have been suffering from night terrors because of the thoughts of when I will pass and I haven’t gotten sleep from it and I talked to my doctor and sometimes not much can be done
I read Life in the World Unseen and now I believe in an afterlife (Totally non religious). It definitely brings me comfort and I don't fear death. Do I believe it just because it makes me feel good? Yeah, maybe. But if it brings me comfort up until the moment of my death, then it's done its job... even if I just cease to exist
I think you’re the world’s best hospice nurse and I love your honesty. I am an RN and did four years with hospice and everything you say is right on. God bless you.
I dont fear death either. Im excited to go be with the LORD! When you know where your going when the time comes, it doesnt seem as scary. Now the dieing part im nervous about bevause obviously dont want it to be painful. But death doesnt scare me. I do however, know a few people who freak out on the thoight of dieing. ❤❤❤❤❤ love your videos! ❤ love from Texas
Just watched a video about a philosopher that wrote a book about not having to fear death, because in the end there is a nothingness, only a empty void. At 97 years old and facing death himself, he went back on his words wanting to hang on for a little bit longer. Bringing tears to his eyes, you may find this a sad sob story, but the fact is that eventually you will fear death.
I had Great fear of Death until my Mother gave me the booklet from Hospice and My fears were gone! Thank You for the Blessing of all you do for all of us❣️❣️❤️❤️🙏🙏
What I fear are two things: 1) the act of dying is hard, uncomfortable work a lot of the time. And, 2) the “afterlife” - if it exists - is an unknown. I find the idea of no afterlife much more comforting, tbh. If you’ve ever passed out - fainted - you realize how easy simply not being conscious anymore is. You know nothing; you have no thoughts. Fear of death is just your survival instinct run amuck.
I’m not afraid of death. If afraid of people I love dying. My mom had me at 19/18 and I’m now 11 and she’s now 31 and when I’m 20 my mom will be 40. I’m so afraid of my parents dying dying and also my dad. My mom and my dad look like siblings and they’re one/two weeks apart and I can’t imagine my dad or mom or anyone I love dying. I sit in my mom crying because I love them so fucking much and I can’t imagine what it would be like with them gone. My moms mom died of an 0verd0se and my mom has me and my siblings and she acts like everything is fine but really she misses her so much and my dads mom and dad is still alive(my moms dad doesn’t speak to her) *so yeah there’s a paragraph on how I can’t imagine if my parents died*
Many say they are not afraid of death, it all changes when death is at their door step.
Ik, I was thinking about this today actually. I usually say I'm not afraid of death (more like think to myself) but ik when I'm going to die or dying I'll most likely be terrified af. Just my annoying ass ego thinking I can do whatever I want without being afraid or hurt.
Nah, I've had a near brush w/death and you get really calm and resigned to it. That's what I experienced anyway. (I was drowning)
Actually, I’ve thought I was dead many times and simply said my goodbyes
No I am not afraid of dying. I am more afraid of suffering than death. I am in 3rd stage emphysema hate to see the 4th stage. Painful trying too breath when I get a flare up.
Naw, when you are old and have lived a good life it gets to a point where it is time. Especially if you start having physical limitations such as chronic pain, dementia, or shortness of breath. When my Grandmas died they were both ready. And I’ve been a nurse a long time and a lot of patients are ready and go peacefully with their families.
Love this woman. She helps me relax about dying
And she knows?
Is there a Part 2? It feels like you left a LOT out!
There Certainly is a part 2, I'll tell you if you want to know.
@@caroldriehorst1165 please do
I think so too!
@@AR-ph7wf Clearly Hospice Nurses can see the difference between a peaceful death and a terrifying death. Christians die peacefully and with a smile on their face. I've heard Hospice Nurses say they witnessed terror filled deaths, yelling, " Dark, more light!! More light!!! And Terrifying cries saying " I was wrong, so wrong " so sad. I can't tell you what to believe in, I can only tell you that Christianity is the real deal. "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have everlasting life " John 3-v16. "For God did not send Jesus in to the world to condemn it but that the world through him might be saved " John 3-v17. The key is MIGHT, God said he doesn't want anyone to perish but many will " it's a shame that many will be condemned. Jesus never let's me down, those who follow him and have a relationship with him are in Gods will, I understand so much because of that, I've had tragedies in my life because this is Earth not Heaven and bad things will happen but Jesus gives me the strength to endure these bad times. I have a peace in me that the world could never give me, only Jesus can give you that kind of peace. People don't understand alot of things in the Bible but that's ok, God said " lean not on your own understanding for my thoughts are higher than yours " people want to know the meaning of life, well this is it, God is gathering his people, God gave us free will to do what we choose, what you choose will where your Spirit will go when you die. Remember, Spirits can never be killed, your Spirit will go on for a eternity, where is up to God and you. God cannot allow people who are still with sin into the kingdom of Heaven, Jesus paid the punishment for our sins so in Gods eyes we are sinless ,Gods wrath was satisfied with the sufferings and death of Jesus. If you need any questions answered then just ask me. Blessings to you and your Family.
Im.60 years old and sick with two chronic illness. My daughter tells me that she's not taking care of me if I can't walk and get around shower and everyday I pray that God takes me fast so I don't bother anybody helping me . But I want to go to a home before.i can't get around. I need information
My family discarded me for no reason. I did everything for them. I lived with them for 18 months enduring trauma of terrible verbal and physical abuse and violence. They told me to leave, so I did. They kept a lot of my belongings, threatened me after I left that something terrible was going to happen to me. I'm 72 years old. So far, I have no health issues, but I feel like I have no purpose in life anymore. If I was on my deathbed, I would know they would only be there waiting for me to die like vultures. There would be no love there.
Im so sorry. I’ll pray for you and them. Maybe they can come around someday, that’s terrible.
I understand that perfectly. I do have a fear of certain family members that put me in disability. I used to not be worried by this. I am terrified now because I know that it will be for profit, and nothing I ever accomplished is respected.
Your family sounds like mine. They are all a bunch of narcissists/psychopaths/thugs. I had to go no-contact, I live 4 states away. They still contact my kids on fb, or try to contact them. They didn't let me leave easy, they called the police, social services, my job, everybody they could think of to call. My mom died, and it's hard for me to believe she's in a place of Love. The bully, narcissist older sister is still alive, and I'm sure she won't stop harassing until the day she dies. She talks to my granddaughter and trashes me to my kids & grandkids, and I have panic attacks because of it. So I understand what you're going through and I have compassion for you.
@@Semi-MinimalistAn I’m so sorry, I’ll pray for you and them too.
I too am nearly 70yrs old. After much soul in searching, deep thought so & prayer I decided on a living will.
There's plenty of organizations that are deserving as well as thankful for us...
Me? Local Humane Society.
It must be comforting to have someone hold your hand and make the process less scary ❤
Yes
Dying is the hard part. Death, itself, totally different than dying. Once you die, all sensations and pain leave when you're pulled out of the body. And, you FEEL this. Next, prue bliss and excitement. I was happy that I would never have to go back to work again, my first thought. Coming back, now that was rough. Rough on your body and on your mental state.
Dang, Mike! You made me laugh when you said you were happy that you would never have to go back to work again!😂 Evidently you have a job you truly Despise!? Did not you feel SAD about leaving ypur family and loved ones forever??🤔 or did that thought just not penetrate your brain at the time? #Hmmm?🙄
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 It didn't cross my mind. You enter a state that only dying people know. Lack of sound, sight is lost, no feelings in your body. . . Too much is happening. It's hard to process anything since you have no clue what's happening. But, there's a point you realize you're dying and you must decide how to face it. I choose not to fight. Then death took me. In the last moment of time, that is when the thought about my job came. If I resisted death, maybe other thoughts would have surfaced, but I was ready to die. My death was sudden, and something I never saw coming. It was something I fear the most, not being able to breathe. I had the fear from sucking in water, being unable to learn how to swim. Suffocating, not able to breath . . . That's terrifying. I hate it. Don't ever want to experience that again.
@@MalachiFrazee222 My older sister died almost 5 years ago from cancer that had spread to her lungs and throat. She died at home, and Thank God had very little actual Pain. She took almost none of the pain medication prescribed for her. She never expressed fear, only wanting to rehash old memories of family and wanting to see all her siblings before she passed away. She had a peaceful exit for sure. 💜 I pray I have an equally peaceful passing!🙏
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 i I can relate somewhat. I was afraid at first, once I expected death, I started to feel peace. Before I lost consciousness, I started seeing faces of people who have passed. The bliss and greatest happiness I've experienced, didn't start until after I died.
How do you know?
i love your aura, your compassion. when Im dying i hope theres a nice person like you around. i would be very lucky
You might enjoy watching Soul Crossings with Cash Peters.
Another great channel is Next Level Soul. Wishing you the best.
Im not afraid of dying rather i learned to accept it. I have done research and i came up with my own theories about the afterlife, i have never told anyone because well it can't be proven. Like when we die what if we get our own heaven to do what we want (like a log cabin next to a lake with 2 german shepherds to take on long walks) thats how i feel about.. i have lived in isolation for most of my life and i found joy of being alone.. like when the 2019 pandemic almost everyone was going mad and i was happy..
I hope when my time comes I have a wonderful hospice nurse like you You have helped me not to fear death Thankyou 💕
I don't fear death itself. What I fear is an agonizing, painful death!!😳
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217me too omg I hate it so much
Nurse Julie there’s something missing in this story. I don’t understand what gave you comfort it seemed to be cut out
Exactly, she didn't say anything 😮
I felt the same...
My dad has been dying for a long time I feel like if he could talk to you it would make such a difference in his understanding. He's such a scientific mind! I am not. Your videos help me so much. Our available assistance is not enough, it's so frustrating! Thanks for all you do!!
Thank-you! For showing kindness and compassion. To a person who really needed it. The biggest gift of all was helping to clean up his place and giving the man some dignity before his moving on!!❤❤🙏🙏
I see these videos at night and it brings me comfort
You, and your stories are wonderful!
The lighting on these more recent videos has you looking so gorgeous!
Keep up the good work! More people need to learn and understand that hospice is so much more than death 💀 at the end of someone’s life! 🙏🏼
You HAVE NO IDEA how much u are helping us
😚you’re so awesome for talking about dying in a carefree manner with such grace! To have a hospice or palliative care nurse like you would be a divine blessing! I enjoy every video ❤💜
I think your fantastic. I've had open heart surgery for WPW and am officially the last person they ever had to open up for that at 22yrs old. At 42 I got blessing of cancer in my head and survived. You have answered sooo many of my questions. Love your videos and they can be very comforting as well. You're fantastic and interesting to watch and I have learned so much from you. I think that the sick people are so much well informed by you. Thankyou so much for your videos .... from northern California. The breathing one I felt so helpful, especially when my father passed away. I understand so much more now.... thankyou
How did you win cancer
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Surgery and brutal amounts of radiation..... which still affects me badly...... hope your well....
@@John-co8um i had stage 2 colon cance I was scared but I beat it
@@John-co8um So Glad to hear that you are still here with us!😊💜 I, too, had cancer. It was stage 3 triple negative breast cancer. Was treated with very high toxic levels of chemo. It killed the cancer ..BUT.. ALSO almost killed me in the process!!😨
Never ever want to experience Any thing like that EVER Again!!!
#VeryScaryStuff!
Don’t fear death.
I fear excess, brutal acute pain, as that is a possibility when very ill, and I fear medical people not listening and ignoring my pleas for help, along with no advocate to help me.
I’ve heard the horror stories from others.
Not all are kind or helpful as this Hospice nurse.
Exactly!!!! The possible Suffering is what I Fear the Most! And I'm sure that Many, Many people would entirely AGREE!!
You are amazing… I am a nurse, been working in nursing home… said farewell to 63 residents under my time there… at least 52 I washed and prepared for their last journey from our nursing home… I think we have the best job ever… HARD, BUT REWARDING!!!❤️😘🥰
You are truly a gift from God Julie! You were put on this earth to help people transcend without pain or fear. Thank you so much for doing what you're doing, it means so much to so many! I hope you have a wonderful day, and I hope that you stay blessed and highly favored!
Thank you for sharing this story. I have a beautiful daughter plus 6 siblings & hope I’m not alone at the end but my father’s recent death has sparked some tension that I hope we can resolve
Everyday remember you that you deserve peace forever, during this life and afterlife, And that is how it gonna be!❤🕊️
Cleaniing up a hoarders house is a big undertaking! I follow a YTer who cleans hoarder houses for free, so I know what that entails. You and your team are amazing! ❤
Thanks for talking about this topic, wish I knew half of this stuff before, but I am glad that a lot of medical professionals are talking about this topic, and educating the public about this stuff now, it can really help out when the time comes when they're with their family members and they know this stuff, so thanks!!!💐💐💐💐💫
The whole video of this is better. 4 me
than the short. Ty Julie!❤
I don't fear death just being in pain for years before the relief.
Julie you are a blessing to all.
I think you are an absolute gift to your patients. Bless you for the beautiful person you are. Xxx♥️
Every nurse has favorites haha I remember being in the hospital all the nurses would tell me they had favorite patients but they didn’t tell all the other patients they weren’t their favorite because that’s kinda a big psychological blow to someone going through something rough
That is real love, to love the loveless and prepare them for death. Those are angels right there ❤ 😍
That's the worst thing that I could think of as I'm on my road out.
My distant cousins who have never cared a jot about me, suddenly being in my life.
Naw, just let me die in peace without these scroungers sitting at my bedside like vultures waiting for me to die for their feast of my assets and belongings.
Jesus Christ dude, who hurt you?
@@andreah9587 usually family that's where I stand as well. vultures ready don't make you die, not going to happen!
If thats how you feel about them change your will. Donate your assets to your favorite charity or someone who you like ...
I was thinking the same thing! What an irritating and unsettling last few few months!
@@rebeccabailey5747 already sorted, years ago.
With instructions left that when a particular relative turns up to demand certain bits of furniture, those pieces are to be dragged and kicked down the stairs, chopped up in front of them and burnt on the BBQ.
Great satisfaction for those left behind.
*@NurseJulie*
You’re not afraid until it’s happening, or that’s how I would imagine it. I’m not so much afraid of dying myself, I’m more scared of not being able to see my loved one ever again. The thought of not remembering them, not being able to love, talk or see them ever again for eternity. That’s what actually scares me. *BUT,* in very recent times I began to hope we get to go to whatever after we desire *with* your loved ones of course. It could be some anime universe you like, some movie universe, comic, manga, television show, video game universe, OR just the standard “heaven” you believe in. Why not, right. 🤷🏻♂️
Having a person in your care that really touches your soul has got to be so very special. It's just marvelous that you & he were able to talk- really deep talk- our life cycle- beginning & ending. I am sure you helped calm & make his doubts remarkably
"talkable"; made it possible to speak out & trust unfathomable; his fears openly possible. & made it as good as it could actually be. Definitely
❤️ heartwarming that you both got so much 💖 peace & gratification... Undoubtedly you saved his mind. I regret not talking more in depth with my loving family. Thank you... for this (& all) videos.
You are so precious. Thank you for your knowledge .
My dad died suddenly two days ago and your videos give me comfort. Thank you.
You are AMAZING!!! Thanx 4 what you do!!!!
What a Loving lovey Woman Thank you and all caring loving friends of yours xoxo
I have an 82yr mother that Craves attention, has outbursts of anger & Abusive language, acts as though she's 16yr. Screams at me because I won't move her into my home. She also has the hoarder trail thru her trailer. Some ppl Aren't nice. Some ppl are Narcissist that hold their family hostage...
So, don't enable her.
@01splitpea Awww! Thank you So Much! Especially for Your opinion, And telling me what to Do!! Oh Mah Gawd, what would have happened to me? It took You 7 months to come up with Your Piffy reply! Wow! Your a "Bright" one aren't you?? DaFuqing Idiot...
I'm not afraid of death, I know where I'm going. ❤
@@benji-mg9vx Sorry,to Heaven if Christian. Muslims are still with thier sins, cannot enter the kingdom of Heaven with unforgiven sins. Jesus is our Savior who paid so we don't have to and only true believers in Jesus are Saved.
@Benny-ed2cz OH, so you think a person can do any Evil to others on the Earth without judgment? Remember, your God is certainly not my God and I'm very happy because us Christians know where you are going and we are very sad for you.
Thanks. Death ☠️ happens irregardless of fear or not timing is a consideration as is loss.
I can understand disliking the mystery but there you have it. As it cannot be avoided best to consider it as an adventure. I consider life as a roller coaster 🎢 ride as it has a begining a middle and an end. You signed up for it and usually pay.
I dont WANT to die anytime soon, but i dont fear death because i have the peace of knowing that when i die, I'll be in the loving arms of Jesus Christ. ❤
As someone who doesn’t believe, and I don’t mean this in a disrespectful way at all, I am just curious. How do you think you’d feel if you did not believe in the afterlife? My mother says she would feel like she had no purpose, but I wonder how others feel aswell.
Yeah, you might meet jesus when you die because he is dead too
@@MisterRatguyit would be miserable thinking when someone dies, it is literally their end, they can't feel anything or live again!
They are just dead and ceased to exist! So scary
@@MisterRatguy yes only Jesus gives us real purpose beyond this earth.
@@lorcis1 Jesus is alive, He was resurrected...turn to Jesus as your Lord and Saviour.
Dear Julie, very touching to hear how you helped this young man whilst dying, only, forgive me I was still waiting to hear Why You don't fear death ?
Love your input into my situation Nurse Julie😢
I’ve seen enough in my life that I don’t fear death. I watched my parents die, I watched friends die in combat, I watched people die when my wife was a nurse and I was right there holding my wife’s hand when she died of cancer. I know they are watching and waiting for me. We all die. I’m in no hurry but I’m not afraid of it.
❤ what you do you are making your stairway to heaven by doing justice in their last moments ❤Thank you so much
Thanks for this, Julie. ❤️
I am insanely scared of death even though i have just started my life :(
Thank you for your Chanel. It has help getbthough my mother in-law dying.it wasn't as frighten as I was lead to believe
You changed my view of death ❤
I'm 52, died when I was 5/6, Fractured Skull and Meningococcal Meningitis wiped me out. Floated around the Opperating Room, watched Surgeons REMOVE Blood Clots and as I was Dying from the infection, found myself sat on my Dad's Mum's knee, she had passed away when Dad was 4/5! She told me that it wasn't MY time yo die yet, I would have struggles though....HERE I AM ! LOL
Wow... Glad your still here that is auch a scary thing to happen and live theough. Hope ur fine
I don't fear death, I fear how I die and what happens in this life after I leave. But I don't fear a peaceful death on hospice.
When nobody has no one in there life ,they die early. There heart is broken 😢
You're an angel
Thank you for being you and share your wisdom ❤
I also fear death I am an artist and I have paintings I want to finish before I die but I’m finding it getting harder to concentrate and keep up the work I paint about 2 hours then I am having trouble with my eyes and have to wait a few days
I don't fear death, but the suffering and pain and feelings before it..
I used to work with Edmonton Alberta Canada Nurse Next Door as a companion in my older years, yes i did have 3 or 4 favourite clients.
I have a story to share with you guys that may help you feel better:
At 12:46 am on a Wednesday night my family was woken up by a extremely loud almost explosion like noise, my dad rushed out of bed and he was suprised to see bright red lights and big flames shining into our front windows next to our front door, my mom yelled from the bottom of the stairs to get down stairs fast and don’t grab anything, I jumped out of bed in my underwear and rushed down with my siblings as fast as possible, luckily we are able to call 911 and escape out of our back yard side gate but we were shocked to see a car on fire perfectly submerged into the columns in the front of our house, we also heard a voice coming from the car saying “help” repeatedly, our across the street neighbor and my dad without any hesitation, rushed over to the car and helped a boy out of the drivers seat and they were shocked to see a young boy, delirious, asking what happened
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No 1. Ah come on
I use to fear death. Until I became a spiritualist. Hand on healing a disabled man who was in the process of dying, while assisting this man for 2 weeks before his passing, gave me a book to read. "Journey of the soul." This book changed my entire outlook of leaving this expression of life. I no longer fear death. Just the way it may happen. 😂
I spent a couple of weeks being suicidal, and it was the most liberating experience, not having any fear of death. That was years ago and now I fear death every day. I miss being like that really bad.
I don’t either after witnessing my daddy seeing a beautiful light before dying. He truly saw the light. ❤❤
Can you tell us a liittle of the conversations you had with your favorite patient😀😀we're very curious😀part 2 and 3 please.😊..
I’m not scared to die but I’m super scared I might not go to heaven 😢😢😢
It's never to late to repent, bless you my child🙏🙏🙏❤
I’ve stated many times that I don’t fear death but I’d be a liar if I didn’t admit that a few times in my life I randomly started dwelling on the fact that someday I’ll die! Everything & everyone that makes up my personal reality will come to an end like everyone else….the few times I did this it gave me extreme anxiety to the point I would stop doing whatever task I was busy with only to start pacing around my room! I assume everyone has done this at least one!
Really interested in this, if it's possible to take this story further please? And keep his name and location away from the public please. I don't want his remaining family to be singled out if possible. Thank you.
I’m sorry your family threw you out but you made it God bless you
I lately have been suffering from night terrors because of the thoughts of when I will pass and I haven’t gotten sleep from it and I talked to my doctor and sometimes not much can be done
The deep stuff you need to talk about..😊😊
I read Life in the World Unseen and now I believe in an afterlife (Totally non religious). It definitely brings me comfort and I don't fear death. Do I believe it just because it makes me feel good? Yeah, maybe. But if it brings me comfort up until the moment of my death, then it's done its job... even if I just cease to exist
Is this a book or series author please
Is it religious
I am not. I used to be
I’m leaning to Buda
I think you’re the world’s best hospice nurse and I love your honesty. I am an RN and did four years with hospice and everything you say is right on. God bless you.
You are so lovely, Julie!❤
I love this story! He sounded like a cool person.
Hoarding and clutter comes from trauma in childhood. It is a symptom.
Still don’t understand why not to fear death.
I dont fear death either. Im excited to go be with the LORD! When you know where your going when the time comes, it doesnt seem as scary. Now the dieing part im nervous about bevause obviously dont want it to be painful. But death doesnt scare me. I do however, know a few people who freak out on the thoight of dieing. ❤❤❤❤❤ love your videos! ❤ love from Texas
I had no idea that hospice teams help people that much.
Just watched a video about a philosopher that wrote a book about not having to fear death, because in the end there is a nothingness, only a empty void. At 97 years old and facing death himself, he went back on his words wanting to hang on for a little bit longer. Bringing tears to his eyes, you may find this a sad sob story, but the fact is that eventually you will fear death.
I don’t fear death, I fear dying
What I fear more than death is how it might effect my family. I don't want family members to be overcome with grief and sadness.
I do not not think his cousins just showed up, the staff got them to come in
Yes
I had Great fear of Death until my Mother gave me the booklet from Hospice and My fears were gone!
Thank You for the Blessing of all you do for all of us❣️❣️❤️❤️🙏🙏
So what was the Final Verdict with the young guy who was in hospice??What happened and what was said between you two Nurse Julie before he passed?
I’m truly scared of death
You so relaxed adout talking adout death ,I wonder how afraid you'll be when death comes to you.
I wish the story was complete in this video.
You are and you will be when the time comes and that's alright
I need this more than every i am having s panik attack i csnht breathe help me please
Thank you!
Thank you for turning the hose on “hellfire”.
I am interested in becoming a death doula. Do you have an info on that and what it takes for training? What are your thoughts?
What I fear are two things: 1) the act of dying is hard, uncomfortable work a lot of the time. And, 2) the “afterlife” - if it exists - is an unknown. I find the idea of no afterlife much more comforting, tbh. If you’ve ever passed out - fainted - you realize how easy simply not being conscious anymore is. You know nothing; you have no thoughts. Fear of death is just your survival instinct run amuck.
Dear nurse Julie yes there is an afterlife which we all will be soon I do believe I have one living here with a female Spirit or ghost 👻
God Bless you
This site helps me❤
I’m not afraid of death. If afraid of people I love dying. My mom had me at 19/18 and I’m now 11 and she’s now 31 and when I’m 20 my mom will be 40. I’m so afraid of my parents dying dying and also my dad. My mom and my dad look like siblings and they’re one/two weeks apart and I can’t imagine my dad or mom or anyone I love dying. I sit in my mom crying because I love them so fucking much and I can’t imagine what it would be like with them gone. My moms mom died of an 0verd0se and my mom has me and my siblings and she acts like everything is fine but really she misses her so much and my dads mom and dad is still alive(my moms dad doesn’t speak to her) *so yeah there’s a paragraph on how I can’t imagine if my parents died*
☺️🙏thank you pls p2
Amazing! ❤
I had a beautiful NDE experience.
You are awesome!
Once I was resting with my plushie. I put it right infront of my face and when I woke up, I accidentally scared myself 😭