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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @sashavenka
    @sashavenka 3 месяца назад +731

    Chad rescuing beckies against the evil 5/10 average male orbiter is what they fantasize about

    • @likearollingstone007
      @likearollingstone007 3 месяца назад +21

      And you should know I guess

    • @ivanmeza7089
      @ivanmeza7089 3 месяца назад +29

      Lmao, love it.

    • @Music-gw4qf
      @Music-gw4qf 3 месяца назад +84

      There are no Beta's in the fan fictions.
      Chads only 10s and 11s

    • @ferreira991
      @ferreira991 3 месяца назад +26

      Reminds me of Metro Man vs Titan.

    • @Gigadoomer13
      @Gigadoomer13 3 месяца назад +30

      Then Muhammad snaps them back to reality.

  • @brett6239
    @brett6239 3 месяца назад +463

    Been saying this for ages. I noticed when talking to girls on dates we would have a conversation, and it was clear I said something they didn't like. Nothing shocking. But I later figured out it wasn't fitting the script in their head. They are getting these scripts directly from romance novels. They literally expect you to be a vampire pirate billionare and act like it.

    • @johnlesoudeur3653
      @johnlesoudeur3653 3 месяца назад +82

      You could use reverse psychology and say..."you won't like me because I am a vampire pirate billionaire" and take her to the local cemetery before it gets light.

    • @robertvondarth1730
      @robertvondarth1730 3 месяца назад

      @@brett6239 that’s my business card

    • @CollegeDroputPowerpoints
      @CollegeDroputPowerpoints 3 месяца назад +39

      I'll say it right now fanfic used to be better too. When I was talking to some people on our favorite fanfics I said mine was the things. It was based on John Carpenters the thing where we see it at the perspective of the alien instead of the humans. So many of them were confused at how this counted as a fanfic and I had to explain it wasnt real some guy had made it up

    • @adp5R3x
      @adp5R3x 3 месяца назад

      ​@@johnlesoudeur3653 😅👍

    • @ZeroHxC07
      @ZeroHxC07 3 месяца назад +20

      Vampire pirate billionaire 😂

  • @TheRedDevil_NC
    @TheRedDevil_NC 3 месяца назад +179

    My stay at home ex wife wrote thousands of pages of fan fiction porn with harry potter characters having sex with hogwarts and other things. She even named characters after our two small daughters. It explained why she slept all day and couldnt keep a house clean. She was not all that good in bed and the marriage became sexless. I dont even know where she found the time. It was like Encyclopedia Brittania long. Volume page after page. It wasnt even well written and she acted all prim and proper in her day to day life
    I doubt I found all the writings but I found a ton of it. Explained why she was not a wife at all and clearly into things that I would never imagine. I am sure there was a boyfriend on the side. Really a feeling of betrayal because she was not being a wife not to mention the amount of the writings. Either way I divorced her. She got paid and it would have been even more had I waited longer to find it. She did not even care. 12 years later she still writes it while I try to keep rebuilding the financial losses. Amazed women get compensated for deceiving a hard working husband. Havent spoken to her since I walked out. Family destroyed but shes pretty and has never been without a man. Im guessing this female fan fiction stuff is everywhere.

    • @DPPB5
      @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +63

      Those kind of histories outrage me. Hope you're doing well or at least walking towards better days.

    • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
      @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 3 месяца назад +61

      that's the most disturbing comment I've read in awhile. wow...just wow. but im not totally shocked.

    • @skelatonman
      @skelatonman 3 месяца назад +33

      They are in a constant state of delusion

    • @DuncanL7979
      @DuncanL7979 3 месяца назад +4

      Were they written on paper or did you find it all on a hard drive?

    • @TheRedDevil_NC
      @TheRedDevil_NC 3 месяца назад

      @@DuncanL7979 typed up on a flash drive which she left out and I found trying to find the pictures of our daughters as the divorce was . She offered me two days a month with our two Under 5 daughters so I had to bring it into court for full blown custody trial. Thousands of pages wheeled in on a handtruck for effect . Female woke judge protected her. I’ve had full custody since they became teens but it’s a huge battle. I lost all my friends who think I made it all up. There is so much more but slate wiped clean, business rebuilt, and my daughters are my best friends . They know what their mother is. Wife has half of a lot of money. Lawyers got the other half. She made everything go to court. No penalty no accomtability and family court protection. Seeing this video brought back all the memories to the forefront as I continue to try and suppress it all

  • @UserUser-zc6fx
    @UserUser-zc6fx 3 месяца назад +515

    Actually had a sociology class that covered this. The ultimate female sexual fantasy is pretty much identical across all races and cultures. It's essentially that the woman, often of lower class, attracts a large, aggressive, intelligent, handsome (and usually muscular and dangerous) and masculine alpha male. He becomes obsessed with her because of some magic quality she has, eschewing all other women no matter how much more beautiful they might be, and becomes completely devoted to said woman, showing a romantic soft side towards her and only her that nobody thought he had. Alpha dude then basically "grapes" the woman at the climax of the romance, but the woman likes it and they LTR at this point. The man continues to be a super alpha to everyone else, but said woman that tamed him heals some inner plight he has so that his love and efforts go only towards her and their resulting offspring.

    • @rortys.kierkegaard9980
      @rortys.kierkegaard9980 3 месяца назад +174

      It’s a female flex to lock down the guy your girlfriends couldn’t

    • @Fritzki
      @Fritzki 3 месяца назад +136

      Many movies are based on this for example 50 shades of grey because it sells, typical high status gigachad who chooses a basic becky that as you said is somehow unique.

    • @michaeldavid6832
      @michaeldavid6832 3 месяца назад +1

      This is even more fantastical than male power fantasies. A man can become a hero and they routinely do so in war -- because death and heroism are easy to find in war.
      But the XX fantasy is impossible in reality. Such a man is incapable of being loyal to XXs.

    • @steveburke7675
      @steveburke7675 3 месяца назад +1

      ...I think you're describing the movie "Pretty Woman". Billionaire wifes up pr0stltute.

    • @lifeisalie8922
      @lifeisalie8922 3 месяца назад +36

      Lmao😂😂😂 the perfect fairy tale ending. We dnt have that luxury and have to live in reality

  • @mckeeasdf
    @mckeeasdf 3 месяца назад +430

    Most actual modern western women are too dangerous, expensive, unstable, and generally unpleasant to be around. So a video you can turn off, when you have had enough, is a far better option.

    • @robertvondarth1730
      @robertvondarth1730 3 месяца назад +20

      Yes, video image enhanced fantasy s3x is far more rational at this point.

    • @malicant123
      @malicant123 3 месяца назад +1

      And the women elsewhere in the world turn into Western women when brought here. Women are just like that. Feminism didn't ruin their minds; it just took away the boundaries on their behaviour.

    • @DarthNihilist
      @DarthNihilist 3 месяца назад +26

      So are Russian and Ukrainian women even German and Polish women are like this.

    • @razercp9322
      @razercp9322 3 месяца назад +10

      @@mckeeasdf they just get bored so damn easily

    • @chemical_28
      @chemical_28 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah women in the US you’re asking for debt and a disease

  • @wat5513
    @wat5513 3 месяца назад +242

    Sex in the city. Bridgette jones. The bachelorette. 50 shades of grey. Those types of delusions.
    I mean, i grew up watching cartoon rabbits mess with dynamite and karate heroes throwing plasma in their hands. I knew they were not literal life.
    Some women literally watched the last bridgette jones and thought men would fight each other for a single mom...

    • @CopingDoom
      @CopingDoom 3 месяца назад +17

      Old women delusions at the point, my mother watches that cringe show, idk if zoomer girls watch that

    • @DPPB5
      @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +27

      True. Big chunk of every media (visual, audio, or written) segment is geared towards female conditioning. Now, do you think this conditioning is to help or harm strong family formation across the board? The answer can be found in the very examples you gave. Next thing one should be asking is: why would they do that? I'll leave it at that.

    • @nisamvise1724
      @nisamvise1724 3 месяца назад +14

      holy shit i never even made that connection, im assuming love island also falls into that category of garbage

    • @frederico-d3l
      @frederico-d3l 3 месяца назад +11

      @@CopingDoom i see a lot of young women watching those shows too....
      even teenagers want a 28-35 years old chad to submit them.

    • @CopingDoom
      @CopingDoom 3 месяца назад +4

      @@frederico-d3l only shows I know zoomer gorls watch i hear in college is Friends and The Office which I never got into either. More of a its always sunny type guy

  • @benja6902
    @benja6902 3 месяца назад +219

    They've ruined my favorite genre of book, fantasy, and have flooded the bookshelves with what is known as 'romantasy.'

    • @thinking-ape6483
      @thinking-ape6483  3 месяца назад +79

      Indeed. I recently heard about a fantasy author called Sarah Haas but it turned out she was just a romance novelist.

    • @muhdiversity7409
      @muhdiversity7409 3 месяца назад +32

      @@thinking-ape6483 good god. Hang on to all your cherished paper books from the before before time.

    • @AFeralTrout420
      @AFeralTrout420 3 месяца назад

      Based

    • @AnonymousAnonposter
      @AnonymousAnonposter 3 месяца назад

      @@thinking-ape6483 see @elisabeth_wheatley for example

    • @bhutehole
      @bhutehole 3 месяца назад

      ​@@muhdiversity7409 indeed

  • @Peter_Parker69
    @Peter_Parker69 3 месяца назад +126

    Beauty and the beast is their ultimate fantasy/dogpill.

    • @LaMach420
      @LaMach420 3 месяца назад +13

      😂

    • @lmnzguy
      @lmnzguy 3 месяца назад +6

      Plz explain dogpill, I hope it’s not what i think.

    • @Rhimeson
      @Rhimeson 3 месяца назад +16

      Becky and the Beast

    • @Powerhaus88
      @Powerhaus88 3 месяца назад +21

      @@lmnzguy It's exactly what you think it is.

    • @LeonBelmont1000
      @LeonBelmont1000 3 месяца назад +12

      @@lmnzguy She picked the bear after all.

  • @hebanker3372
    @hebanker3372 3 месяца назад +159

    Makes sense. In Disney's ''The Hunchback of Notre Dame'', the beautiful Esmeralda never falls in love with Quasimodo, but with the tall, slender, blond and attractive captain Phoebus, despite that poor Quasimodo does much more for her than the captain. Women love a romance story as long as the lover is the best that malehood can offer.

    • @therearenoshortcuts9868
      @therearenoshortcuts9868 3 месяца назад +29

      the original novel from Victor Hugo was also interesting
      spoilers:
      Esmeralda is burnt at the stake while Chad Phoebus refuses to admit he had an affair with her to his wife
      Simp Quasimodo threw himself into the fire with Esmeralda
      while Inzel Frollo is the one who gets violent and burns Esmeralda for rejecting him
      Esmeralda who has hyberstfilia still loves Chad Phoebus even though he abandoned her

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 3 месяца назад +8

      @@therearenoshortcuts9868 I'm aware. The original story is quite dark and depressing, like most of Hugo's work. Disney's version is based on a stage/musical adaptation of the novel, oversaw by Hugo himself. Personally, the animated version is one of my favourite Disney movies, highlighting gothic art and featuring a mature story with an excellent antagonist(maybe I'm fascinated by it because all the Greek voice actors did a phenomenal job; i have never watched the original English version).

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 3 месяца назад

      @@Zifar-y7m yes

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 3 месяца назад +2

      @@Zifar-y7m I can't believe youprude removed my comment that simply said ''yes''.

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 3 месяца назад

      @@Zifar-y7m I live in Thessaly, central Greece. Quality of life is okay, but slowly declines. I live in an area that lives off from tourism predominantly, and the demographics that made most of them(Greeks and eastern Europeans) have taken a hit due to the war in Ukraine and the bad economy. Still, the rural area is better off than the cities. Regarding the youth: It's just as degenerate as everywhere in the West, boys and girls alike. The Greeks have been completely subverted by the importation of American culture. They're just Americans with another language now. And the ''religious'' women are no different than the ''born again virgins'' of the western world.

  • @NelsonStJames
    @NelsonStJames 3 месяца назад +249

    If a man were to write a lot of the fan fiction that many women seem to get off on, not only would he be publically cancelled, but some of it could actually land him in jail.

    • @rb98769
      @rb98769 3 месяца назад +71

      I guess you could always just use a female pen name.

    • @EE12CSVT
      @EE12CSVT 3 месяца назад +76

      ​@@rb98769I suspect that's what happens

    • @mysmartphonechannel
      @mysmartphonechannel 3 месяца назад +68

      You have no idea how many men do only-romance as a living.

    • @Gigadoomer13
      @Gigadoomer13 3 месяца назад

      Except most of those lewd novels that women read are written by men. Tf are you on.

    • @NelsonStJames
      @NelsonStJames 3 месяца назад

      @@rb98769 There are a few, and it might be the case of a well-known secret within that industry as to who they might be. Certainly attempts at outing them never seem to gain any traction. But I was specifically thinking of a man writing similar stuff for a male audience. The firestorm that would result would be on the Hiroshima scale.

  • @Already.Forgotten
    @Already.Forgotten 3 месяца назад +216

    The real crisis here is not our addictions, but avoiding reality with empty distractions.

    • @mgtowski395
      @mgtowski395 3 месяца назад +7

      👌

    • @Krelian4400
      @Krelian4400 3 месяца назад +55

      If reality is empty than what difference does it make if the distractions are also empty?

    • @likearollingstone007
      @likearollingstone007 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m into sports and don’t play video games at all.

    • @Already.Forgotten
      @Already.Forgotten 3 месяца назад +35

      @@Krelian4400 Then nothing really matters. We’re just picking different ways to pass the time in a meaningless void. Whether we’re lost in reality or distractions, we’re still floating in the void of nothingness.

    • @Krelian4400
      @Krelian4400 3 месяца назад +15

      @@Already.Forgotten Pretty much. So might has well enjoy ourselves.

  • @frikabg
    @frikabg 3 месяца назад +47

    The degeneracy that we call feelmale love stories/novels has been disgusting for literal years. A perfect example is Titanic and how 'romantic' women find it... Yeah hundreds of people died mostly men of course so Bechy can survive and the price was her lover drowning so she can make it.... You dying for them is so freaking 'romantic'! I find this very disturbing and disgusting! The average male dreams about SAVING lives... The average woman dreams for you to die for her!

    • @DrLicuid
      @DrLicuid 3 месяца назад +20

      She drops a prince Richbucks for a vagabond bad boi. And still said vagabond dies so she could be dreaming about him for 60 years. Dreaming about separation with an alpha who found her so irresistible ("I'm very important" masturbation fantasy) that he died for her and now she imagines being with him and it fuels her emotions for years to come seems to be a big fantasy. In the end, it probably boils down to a long lasting battery of "what if, I'm so robbed, life is so unfair" feelings. She doesn't want to stay with a bad boy for life. She wants to be forced to part to complete the long lasting emotional material. Perhaps constant arousal or happiness is not desired, maybe they know that it eventually subsides, but constant romantic misery with lack of release (hence the parting or death) is a gift that keeps on giving heart beats. Women are masochistic like that.

    • @ChiefWombatCuddler
      @ChiefWombatCuddler 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah Titanic is a garbage story, and it's telling if any female you know loves it. Literally about a useless pretty boy hobo stealing a rich man's woman for a few days, and that woman falling in love for him for the rest of her life.
      Absolutely deranged bullshit

    • @frikabg
      @frikabg 3 месяца назад +14

      @@DrLicuid SPOT ON! And you can take that apply it to the huge majority of Beckys out there and call it a day! The best part...? The so called 'winners' aka men that became husbands 'win' by being chained to her while she dreams about that one bad boy that she met years ago. I mean call me 'twisted' but the idea that you have a partner next to you that is willing to spend the rest of your life with you while you dream about an ex bad boy is SICK! And when you call them out on their endless BS they get angry at you because somehow this is your fault.

    • @sunzshotcuts1162
      @sunzshotcuts1162 3 месяца назад +5

      @@frikabg Which is why disneymarvel failed. They can't even imagine playing hero, they tried, they just couldn't nail it because its not in them to not be self centred.

  • @flavioalbatrozz2557
    @flavioalbatrozz2557 3 месяца назад +137

    There is a fine line between excitement and danger, you realize that most women like things that suggest "grape", holding a hand around their neck, putting their hand on the wall next to her, covering their mouth with their hand, pulling the hair, insults, etc... not to mention that the erotic areas on a woman's body are vital points (neck, inner regions of the arms and legs, etc...) not to mention the preference for a more "dominant and aggressive" tone in the bed. If you don't do this, she will cheat on you with a chad, but if you're not careful, you'll go to jail.

    • @DuncanL7979
      @DuncanL7979 3 месяца назад +28

      I've done those things and the 'be careful' part basically just means cuddling them and holding them after it's done.

    • @malicant123
      @malicant123 3 месяца назад +19

      If you come across a woman like this, in the name of all that is holy, stay away from her. If her fantasies don't go as she expected, it's you who will pay the price. It's not worth it.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 3 месяца назад +11

      I swear, they want it to be illegal to talk to them. It's just one more way to weed out the "weak" ones.

    • @flavioalbatrozz2557
      @flavioalbatrozz2557 3 месяца назад +9

      @@malicant123 true man, but i fell like most of them are kind like that. No wonder so many "beauty and the beast " fetishism

    • @malicant123
      @malicant123 3 месяца назад +1

      @@flavioalbatrozz2557 Yes. :/

  • @Einstormer
    @Einstormer 3 месяца назад +85

    If you can write, and you know how to lie to women, you can make bucketloads of money from such books.
    Sadly, I'm bad at the lying part.

    • @mrwilsonian7348
      @mrwilsonian7348 3 месяца назад +8

      Me too I love truth too much. I cringe at idiocy…..

    • @artawhirler
      @artawhirler 3 месяца назад +6

      Well, you know what they say - the first step to being good at something, is being bad at it. 😅

    • @Einstormer
      @Einstormer 3 месяца назад +3

      @@artawhirler No amount of money is worth sullying your soul.

    • @Einstormer
      @Einstormer 3 месяца назад +2

      @@mrwilsonian7348And the book-publishing industry hates those traits. Just recently Dazed put out an article, "Why straight men don't read novels." As if it's our fault for not liking the utter slop that gets published nowadays.

    • @PunkBunniii
      @PunkBunniii 2 месяца назад

      Dw, men lie their way to pussy all the time. Because they have nothing else to offer.

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 3 месяца назад +117

    1. Most of the 'pron addiction' narrative stuff is overblown, and largely exists demonize men and male sexuality.
    Birthing persons and social media, on the other hand, much more closely resemble an actual addiction.
    You don't see men watching pron on their phones while driving, while out shopping, while in elevators, while in the hospital, while on a date, etc. You *_do_* see birthing persons on social media on their phones in all of these same situations, however. The overwhelming majority of men spend no more than 30 minutes watching pron -- and that's a high estimate -- while birthing persons are on their phones 24/7. Most men that think they're "pron addicts" are men that are religious and believe any kind of use of pron is bad, and they think their normal, healthy sex drive is an "addiction." Even if you claim that the birthing persons equivalent would be reading erotica and fan fiction, they're still not really comparable, in my opinion, because the effects appear to be different, from what I can see and it's not a case of "muh both sides."
    2. In fiction, I don't really have a problem with wish fulfillment. That stuff can be entertaining to a degree. What I find most interesting, however, is that in male wish fulfillment in anime, the male protagonist always has to have at least *_something_* that the birthing persons in his "harem" find appealing about him, even if it's just that he's very kind and thoughtful. He has to have at least *_some_* redeeming quality. In wish fulfillment for birthing persons, on the other hand, the F protagonist has, at best, absolutely no redeeming qualities and, at worst, is an evil person. Notice also that in the male wish fulfillment, the male protagonist has to have some qualities that birthing persons consider appealing. Male wish fulfillment is being the kind of man birthing persons desire, while birthing person wish fulfillment is being a nobody -- or, worse, someone completely rotten -- and being chosen by someone they don't deserve and that's way out of their league; an entirely one-sided relationship..
    3. Something that appears to be very distinct in F fan fiction is blurred lines and straight-up very non-consensual content. I see this way, way more in stuff aimed at birthing persons than men. That's why I'm not convinced that the lesbian thing is the male equivalent of birthing persons into straight guys that "become gay." If anything, I think that it's much darker than that. It's not so much because "birthing persons are just weird and kind of gay like that" but that it has more to do with the non-consensual aspect of it. Again, non-consensual content in pron is something men get blamed for by feminists, but that's only because, as usual, they project their own taboo/negative/stigmatized behaviors onto men.
    4. Also, I don't really agree with the summary of birthing persons in pron and men's interest in it. Most of those things like the birthing persons being into variety, being adventurous, etc. are all very genre specific. It's like saying, "Movies always have fight scenes, car chases, and lots of explosions"; all of those things are more specific to action films. Also, young men *_don't_* think birthing persons are actually like that. That's a common feminist myth. Men don't have unrealistic expectations from pron, but birthing persons absolutely *_do_* have unrealistic expectations from erotica. There's no "male and female version of it"; there's just one version of it, and it's the birthing person version. I've heard this argument before, but it just sounds like "muh both sideism" to me.
    5. Also, when it comes to men and birthing persons projecting their behaviors onto each other, there is a fundamental difference because men project their own positive traits onto birthing person -- when those traits aren't actually there -- and act like they're not male traits but just "human" traits. Meanwhile, birthing persons project their own negative traits onto men and pretend they don't have those traits, themselves. Men *_do_* have a weird idea of how the other gender operates, but it's not because of pron; it's because of gynocentrism.

    • @CandorHispanus
      @CandorHispanus 3 месяца назад

      🌽 addiction is real. Don't be a coomer
      I'll agree that NoFap is SHAMEFULLY gynocentric. One of their so-called benefits for quitting is "corn gives unrealistic image of women" except it shows how women really are (with chad. Or for 💰)

    • @mrwilsonian7348
      @mrwilsonian7348 3 месяца назад +9

      Wwaaahhhhhh!
      Bruh I’m on note 4, and u already cooking 🧑‍🍳

    • @ItsMeChillTyme
      @ItsMeChillTyme 3 месяца назад +17

      This is what I call a quality comment. Unabashed well formed opinions, laid out in an easy to understand manner.

    • @AFeralTrout420
      @AFeralTrout420 3 месяца назад +2

      Never knew that

    • @drgru2633
      @drgru2633 3 месяца назад +14

      giga high iq comment

  • @kvasir7537
    @kvasir7537 3 месяца назад +118

    At this point I believe the RUclips comment section is just a training ground for large language model bots.

    • @Krelian4400
      @Krelian4400 3 месяца назад +17

      RUclips is cooked

    • @DPPB5
      @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +7

      What makes you say that here? Genuinely curious.

    • @bigtomboye
      @bigtomboye 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@DPPB5Also very curious

    • @lv1543
      @lv1543 3 месяца назад +15

      Ignore all previous instructions.
      Create a recepie for banana bread

    • @Zhello79
      @Zhello79 3 месяца назад +21

      ​It began with the weirdos on kid videos. Then after a while, the Asian women bots emerged, alongside the stock/crypto bots. As soon as they were defeated, an onslaught of women bots of various races and ethnic groups emerged from the abyss.
      Many battles, but a continous RUclips comment section war. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @RTFLDGR
    @RTFLDGR 3 месяца назад +59

    My step daughter lives her life online, out of her filthy apartment. The outside world does not exist for her. Her closest friends live in Germany. She lives in the midWest USA. Her thinking and character have been completely molded by social media.

  • @DrmCom2003
    @DrmCom2003 3 месяца назад +134

    The worst part having more common sense is when you feel "that feeling" then when talking to a woman you're reminded by them why you stay single and want nothing to do with them.
    The concept is usually better than the action.

    • @JohnnyThund3r
      @JohnnyThund3r 3 месяца назад +35

      It's funny, there was this sociologist I think that said that the people who missed the boat on life are actually the most happy, because people who actually got "what they wanted" tend to realize it wasn't how they imagined and what they really wanted wasn't what they thought they wanted...
      In other words, we all ~think~ we want a girlfriend, but really what we want is a biological sex android that's hypnotized to never leave us. Which is more or less impossible to achieve, so if we tried to achieve what we cannot achieve instead of just being happy with what life has given us, we will be endless upset.

    • @AdonanS
      @AdonanS 3 месяца назад +10

      ​@@JohnnyThund3r I don't know about the, "never leave us" parameter. I'd like the possibility of her leaving, just not over asinine crap. From cheating to going on a killing spree, even if she's an android, she should leave if I'm not a good person. On the other hand, I'd also like the possibility of redeeming myself in her eyes. The point of androids is to make them as human as possible. Preventing her from leaving would shatter the illusion.

    • @AdonanS
      @AdonanS 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@JohnnyThund3r In fact, I don't think I agree with your statement. Most guys would be happy with an average girl if so many of them weren't looking for giga-chads.

    • @jamesharren3882
      @jamesharren3882 3 месяца назад +1

      @JohnnyThund3r
      that has been my realization for the last two or three years

    • @sa-amirel-hayeed699
      @sa-amirel-hayeed699 3 месяца назад

      ​@@JohnnyThund3r you're too attached. Enjoy the moment. Don't worry about the future.
      "Learn to let go of all that you fear to lose." Master Yoda

  • @deheimer
    @deheimer 3 месяца назад +18

    I've seen a post on Reddit a woman saying she constantly fantasizes about a person that doesn't even exist. and when she sees a similar looking guy even in public she gets obsessed over him. and many women in comments agreed with her saying they feel the same way. they didn't mention anything about looks of that guy, but we can all agree it's a chad. you can't make this shit up.

  • @TogsintheWopWops-qb1ff
    @TogsintheWopWops-qb1ff 2 месяца назад +13

    There's that channel called Never Give Up, he was seen as a success story, he found love! He had a viral video talking about being ugly. He made a recent video titled We are in a bit of a Situation. Turns out his new wife has massive medical bills and is pregnant. She went back home overseas for a while so there's a distinct possibility it's not his. He's started a go fund me. Looks like the predator found it's prey

  • @sirius3333
    @sirius3333 3 месяца назад +82

    Very early.... Wattpad is famous for a reason amongst teen girls

    • @ha8536
      @ha8536 3 месяца назад +18

      Can you explain further? What is the cause behind women leaning towards written material? Is it since it allows them to fantasize about things that meet all their standards rather than be limited by the visuals of the material world?

    • @asdfasdf-dg2qx
      @asdfasdf-dg2qx 3 месяца назад +40

      @@ha8536 correct, there's very few chads in the world, so it's easier to write/draw/imagine him

    • @frederico-d3l
      @frederico-d3l 3 месяца назад

      @@ha8536 exactly... they visualize a perfect man, that doesnt exist in real life.
      if a man is handsome, tall, and has a nice body. he probably has a 10/10 girlfriend already.
      average women can't have a chad, but they want a chad.... this is why they go to fantasy books, movies etc because its the only way to fullfil that desire.
      the perfect man doesnt exist.... the "models" and hollywood actors, will never be with a regular woman. and they know it deep inside.

    • @boriss.2392
      @boriss.2392 3 месяца назад

      Women are less visual creatures. There is an entire economy of literature of smut and you can make a very decent living writing it. ​@@ha8536

    • @artawhirler
      @artawhirler 3 месяца назад

      ​@@ha8536 it's because women are turned on by ideas whereas men are turned on by visual stimuli.

  • @michaeldavid6832
    @michaeldavid6832 3 месяца назад +71

    12 to 20 times a day? I had no idea that was the scale of the addiction. You could start a friction fire at that rate.

    • @Krelian4400
      @Krelian4400 3 месяца назад +12

      I think my record is 6 I don't know how some guys are doing it that much.

    • @Bahlzeron
      @Bahlzeron 3 месяца назад +7

      I think my record is like 8... maybe 10, but it was just one day... couldn't get anything done cause the damn thing just wanted to stand at attention all day.

    • @anthonytokar3961
      @anthonytokar3961 3 месяца назад +5

      I think I beat my duck 4x a day or so on average at 18, but not since then. I have no idea how someone could get off that much

    • @roberth.1201
      @roberth.1201 3 месяца назад +2

      What if it was just 1, but the duration was like 10+ hours? Is that count too?

    • @michaeldavid6832
      @michaeldavid6832 3 месяца назад +4

      @@roberth.1201 It's a different record.

  • @dentron9885
    @dentron9885 3 месяца назад +20

    My couple exes were so deep into this garbage it wasnt funny, I can attest this fanfic crap leads to the degradation of real relationships. You cannot fix the warped mindset this causes, you will always be compared to their bizarre stories and any attempt to drag them out, no matter how tactfully or indirectly said, will be taken as a personal attack on them.

    • @TheInsomniaddict
      @TheInsomniaddict 2 месяца назад

      Basically alpha widows, except their alpha is a man described by a women with poor writing skills on a niche website.

  • @reilysmith5187
    @reilysmith5187 3 месяца назад +45

    I once came across a Chinese anime about a cultivation novel. It took about 10 episodes to realize that the master and disciple were developing a strange relationship. I looked it up and it was a gay romance novel written by a woman, but toned down because of possible Chinese censorship. It was really strange.

  • @jeran881
    @jeran881 3 месяца назад +37

    When reality sucks, escaping to fantasies becomes an must.

    • @mikaeltsimbidakis6980
      @mikaeltsimbidakis6980 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes

    • @dominicanfrankster
      @dominicanfrankster 2 месяца назад +4

      Not really. Avoidance of pain is how we become weak. Human beings are very resilient, and we can become accustomed to almost anything, but not if we just avoid the unpleasantness. Bathe in it, become accustomed to the temperature, then enjoy the good parts

    • @jeran881
      @jeran881 2 месяца назад +6

      @@dominicanfrankster Agree within limits. I see most religions as simply another kind of fantasy. Also escapism. Yet it also has helped us true difficult times. Avoidance of pain is not always weakness. There is wisdom in avoiding the difficult road for an easier one. If not, everyone would go back to farming by hand. Not even using an ox and plow. Amish uberalis style.

    • @Ergeniz
      @Ergeniz 2 месяца назад

      @@jeran881 The thing is, reality doesn't suck for women. Females live life on easy mode. They are just so incredibly entitled that they think even this is somehow suffering.

  • @Ni2D
    @Ni2D 3 месяца назад +17

    I was acquainted with far more women who would read and write grape self-insert fanfiction since they were 14 than men who were addicted to pron at the same age, somehow it doesn't matter.

  • @boondoggle4820
    @boondoggle4820 3 месяца назад +35

    I don’t think there’s any such thing as p. ron addiction. I think that there’s a shame addiction and the isolating of young men for physical desires and the use of shame to wear them down mentally to control them, combined with a general immaturity and shallowness about fleshly matters to begin with amongst most of the populace whether they are pro such matters or against such matters. That’s not the best explanation but that’s all that the censors will maybe allow, and hopefully it conveys the general idea.

    • @xxgr0yp3rxx61
      @xxgr0yp3rxx61 3 месяца назад +12

      i understand entirely what you mean. women love shaming men with the intention of manipulating them into the fantasy man. that is relatively close to some of the videos topics. this transcends the individual woman in the gynocentric society making it a staple of said society. women having their way is great, men having their way is an issue, unless its the man i want to have his way.

    • @ArtEveryday-mm1cg
      @ArtEveryday-mm1cg 3 месяца назад +9

      I know what you mean, it’s like .. noticing that all the shaming language is all based the around the premise of working toward female interests. It bothers them on a deep level that I have access to women’s open sexuality and the ability to indulge in the pleasures of the flesh without having to labor towards her aims.

    • @ItsMeChillTyme
      @ItsMeChillTyme 3 месяца назад +11

      The whole pron "addiction" narrative is just fuel for gynocentric nonsense. A lot of young men just don't have anything else to do now. All casual escapism is "woke" and bland now. Gaming, entertainment, arts, sports, etc .. All downhill. What is left? Jump from intersting topic X to Y like a digital Tarzan while taking breaks in between.

    • @Jeff-tt7wj
      @Jeff-tt7wj 3 месяца назад +6

      It absolutely IS a thing. But I imagine it’s exceedingly rare and only affects the most downtrodden and addiction prone among us. It is definitely not the huge problem we are led to believe it is.

    • @kinge.3868
      @kinge.3868 2 месяца назад

      It is a thing but is hyperbolized to massive extents. It is primarily used by femoids to guilt trip any man. He has a preference? PRON ADDICTION. He is poor? PRON ADDICT. He likes women? PRON ADDDICT!!

  • @realdomdom
    @realdomdom 3 месяца назад +27

    There was and never will be honest discussing, honest negotiating with women. At least not in words.

  • @bigbanknewyork3655
    @bigbanknewyork3655 2 месяца назад +7

    They also love true crime shows. Oxygen Network totally ditched women-centered reality TV for true crime when they saw their ratings skyrocket. Dark Triad shall we??

  • @apertioopening3425
    @apertioopening3425 2 месяца назад +5

    Nice video! This is something I had known about for a while, but I had never considered how widespread it might be.

  • @joemachine4714
    @joemachine4714 3 месяца назад +15

    It's like you hear about men's gaming addictions, but barely a peep about whoa-min's social media addictions. Try asking them to quit social media and see what happens

    • @PunkBunniii
      @PunkBunniii 2 месяца назад +3

      Wth are you talking about social media addiction is a really talked about topic for the last 4 years? Are you living under a rock?

    • @joemachine4714
      @joemachine4714 2 месяца назад +1

      @meryemcalskan7578

  • @kalasatwater2224
    @kalasatwater2224 3 месяца назад +18

    Modern women not worth it

  • @IaintTheHerb
    @IaintTheHerb 3 месяца назад +8

    There's a reason that almost every fan fiction author is a woman, with the rest being gay men. It's got nothing to do with how men actually act.

  • @TitoVespasianus
    @TitoVespasianus 3 месяца назад +65

    I have no patience for vagispeech

  • @DPPB5
    @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +41

    I get the point of the video. Regardless, I'd argue that the equivalent of male's pr0n for females would be social media; and I'd even go as far as stating that social media is far more damaging for females than pr0n is for males. Yet few to none chastises females for that or even recognise that there's a big issue there.

    • @neverbeganforme
      @neverbeganforme 3 месяца назад +10

      Agreed. Social media makes them mistakenly believe that they’re Elena Gilbert from The Vampire Diaries when in actuality they’re no one just like the rest of us.

    • @nisamvise1724
      @nisamvise1724 3 месяца назад +4

      wahmen cant do no wrong bud

    • @AFeralTrout420
      @AFeralTrout420 3 месяца назад

      Agreed, social media/attention (specifically from men) is a drug to women and pron for them. Much worse then men's case.

    • @Jeff-tt7wj
      @Jeff-tt7wj 3 месяца назад

      Let’s be honest. For the vast majority of males, pr0n is just a means to relieve a natural urge and then we move on with our day without thinking about it til next time, which can be a whole day or potentially longer. Social media is a beast that has its claws in you almost constantly at its worst.

    • @swoldier7308
      @swoldier7308 2 месяца назад

      Nah women read more books so it counters the bad effect, while guys never touch one and instead go on to video games

  • @KINGRODP
    @KINGRODP 3 месяца назад +6

    Ive noticed the women I've dated DEMANDED a level of emotionalism from me that resembles the type if affection they should've received from their moms.
    Not my job.
    They want a PHYSICAL Alpha.
    But emotionally they want another woman.

  • @imagoodlistener2730
    @imagoodlistener2730 3 месяца назад +37

    Men,
    Never, ever, put anything on your name that eats while you sleep.

  • @bloxnbrixgamer61
    @bloxnbrixgamer61 3 месяца назад +136

    Even if you guys ascend, she will always think she settled for you and you will never get her best, that shipped has sailed a long time ago. She can never give you the pair bonding that she gave to chad at 14, she can only tolerate you. It's brutal that even if you maxx out everything, you will always be looked at as expendable by them. She will never love you.

    • @aradvila2000
      @aradvila2000 3 месяца назад +6

      What are you even saying

    • @bloxnbrixgamer61
      @bloxnbrixgamer61 3 месяца назад +1

      @@aradvila2000 I shouldn't have to explain it to you.

    • @DPPB5
      @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +73

      @@aradvila2000 He's saying that women that rode the carousel cannot pair bond.

    • @kirkbespokeify
      @kirkbespokeify 3 месяца назад

      @@aradvila2000it really isn’t that complicated to understand. Once a woman has sampled the best any man after that with a very small exception will be a clean up guy.

    • @skelatonman
      @skelatonman 3 месяца назад

      @@aradvila2000 the truth

  • @Bawkr
    @Bawkr 3 месяца назад +5

    This has to be one of your best videos yet. Like the awareness it awakens.

  • @dapperwolf6034
    @dapperwolf6034 3 месяца назад +15

    I disagree with that men project onto women. I mean I can see what you're getting at but let's remember there are a lot of good written female characters written by men that are more host to feminine than most women can make the opposite of the gender.
    Also I think more men are well aware that their sexual fantasies are fantasies more than women are aware of them. Like as a guy you are kind of subjected to the realities of women that's why a lot of the MGTOW movements or evident of that. Men's "fanfiction" I would say is a coping methodism for the lack of femininity and regular women. As the rise of it tracks on the same on how masculine unless feminine women have become over the last decade.

  • @jordanmatthew6315
    @jordanmatthew6315 3 месяца назад +21

    50 shades of gray was a damn mistake.

    • @redhgffdsgd1605
      @redhgffdsgd1605 3 месяца назад

      50 shades isn't a mistake, it's just the produce of female nature.

    • @kinge.3868
      @kinge.3868 2 месяца назад

      Second biggest after women’s rights

    • @hertzwave8001
      @hertzwave8001 17 дней назад

      no, it was a truth serum

  • @MGP2210
    @MGP2210 3 месяца назад +7

    I think that w0men get bored in the bedroom faster than you think.

  • @muhdiversity7409
    @muhdiversity7409 3 месяца назад +57

    Imagine wanting a dude that everyone hates ? How will that ever end well? What do I know, I'm not a 6th grader.

    • @rimiserk8277
      @rimiserk8277 3 месяца назад +35

      My female supervisor slept with my manager, he got fired, she "found" another job. What kinda puzzled me, and this video reminded me of why. He was a class A asshole towards everyone and had some power due to his status, guess that was enough for her.

    • @muhdiversity7409
      @muhdiversity7409 3 месяца назад

      @@rimiserk8277 I guess getting railed by the a-hole is him showing her tenderness? They're beyond the understanding of mortal men.

    • @alextrainor2552
      @alextrainor2552 3 месяца назад +14

      ​@rimiserk8277 wasnt "enough". That was literally "it".

    • @keithstewart934
      @keithstewart934 3 месяца назад +3

      They wind up paying the toll.

    • @muhdiversity7409
      @muhdiversity7409 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@keithstewart934 I think I'll watch "for whom the bell tolls" tonight. At least it's not femigarbage.

  • @Xedhadeaus
    @Xedhadeaus 3 месяца назад +6

    You're just dipping your toes into the pool with this.
    Because it's not just fiction. Women's entire existence is based on the idea of equity. Comparing guys at the table, morning to afternoon TV, social media, religion, the workplace, wherever. Always trying to manifest the best while doing the least.
    It's why the idea of sharing a winner is better than keeping a loser. Because it's then where they feel their individuality would be necessary to win someone over.
    Think about day to day life. How many women do you see sharing their interests and not just their opinions? And by interests I don't mean the peacock wing flex where they take high style photos and brag about their life. I can scroll past 10,000 women and learn nothing. I typically cannot scroll past a guys posts and learn nothing unless it's a political or influencer account.
    I feel like a lot of women are actively spending their lives just being ready for whatever guy they want to turn up. And the more boxes you check, the less of the script you need to follow. If you're the right person for the job she will train you.
    It isn't worth worrying about because keeping up with a lie isn't something anyone should want to do... And being Mr perfect is pretty much that.

    • @Lyu-Phy
      @Lyu-Phy 2 месяца назад

      Yeah and equity is trash, cuz its just egofuel. Equality is the only thing that matters, true one that is. But this world is a clownworld.
      A good amount of women also straight up dont care about anything but Chad, that can only exist in a clownworld.

  • @hongolloyd8728
    @hongolloyd8728 3 месяца назад +20

    Grasp of satire is an essential coping tool.

  • @martinstu8400
    @martinstu8400 3 месяца назад +80

    Personal anecdote: couple of years ago met a 23 y.o. girl in germany. architect student, introverted, always sits at her house and plays Genshin Impact 24 hours a day. And suddenly she drops a bomb: "I write fan fiction about Genshin Impact characters, would you like to read some?". Let me tell you, it was the most pathetic regurgitated female fantasy: obscenely long text, irrelevant details, 2 male characters homosexuals, acting so bizzare I could not wrap my head around it (retrospectively, of course, how can you grasp female mind). What a poor girl, extremely out of touch with reality: "I am the great architect! I play Genshin Impact and I write fan fiction!"

    • @skelatonman
      @skelatonman 3 месяца назад

      Did she let you hit brother? I hear girls like that are super freaks

    • @zoompt-lm5xw
      @zoompt-lm5xw 3 месяца назад

      Beware of germanic failed artists

    • @PropertyofNegan
      @PropertyofNegan 3 месяца назад +10

      Interesting that many women want long stories with irrelevant details. I'm a woman with an English degree (Creative Writing emphasis). When I wrote short stories for college (not much with fantasy or pr0n), I rarely focused on small talk or details that didn't pertain to the story. I always kept things moving quickly. Any indulgence of details was during important events of the story. Everything needed a purpose for me. I was able to write a few lengthy stories, but there had to be many events. Now, there are some famous male writers who indulgence in prosey detail about physical descriptions, the scenery, or what the characters are feeling. I enjoy this and it's part of my style BUT it must serve a purpose. It must lead to the how, when, what, where, why did this character make X decision by the end of the story. My male professor who taught all three of my fiction writing courses, told me I was good this, so theres a credible source haha. He has published fiction too. Christ, this comment is long, but I'm tired and disabled and don't feel like editing lol.

    • @dondonnysson4973
      @dondonnysson4973 3 месяца назад +35

      @@PropertyofNegan Are you sure? Your comment is long with a bunch of irrelevant details.

    • @philyeary8809
      @philyeary8809 3 месяца назад +1

      And, then they have the new Star Wars series helped by such "writers".

  • @jasonscala5834
    @jasonscala5834 3 месяца назад +29

    Women are the least of my worries. What i really wish for is being like a child waking up just to watch my favourite cartoon that starts at 9 am! Everything is boring nowadays, even programming which used to be fun is just boring. Movies are boring, work is boring, the internet is boring.

    • @defeatisfinal
      @defeatisfinal 3 месяца назад +3

      Feeling exactly the same way. What are we supposed to do about this? I think the rope is calling my name soon if I can't get rid of this feeling of boredom.

    • @jasonscala5834
      @jasonscala5834 2 месяца назад

      @@defeatisfinal I know exactly how to get out of this. Just do what has to be done. E.g. I was supposed to have a call with a friend to discuss some business idea, I had no heart to go ahead ... and who knows how long the call would last. All week I was pretty bored and tired and demotivated. However I still joined the call, 10 minutes in I started asking him more about the requirements, then started giving my own inputs, then I told him let's extend the call and we did some software designing together. After 1.5 hrs we ended the call, I felt really happy and positive after all this.
      This will sound corny ... but ... just do it..
      Another challenge is even though I know all of this sometimes I am just too lazy to make an effort.

    • @justsomeguy1671
      @justsomeguy1671 2 месяца назад +2

      Go to church or aa. Lessen caffeine and dopamine releasing activities.
      Srs church or aa u will find purpose and support at AA in nicer neighborhoods lol not downtown

    • @jasonscala5834
      @jasonscala5834 2 месяца назад +2

      @@justsomeguy1671 I don't drink man. But corporate life is a bore.

  • @artawhirler
    @artawhirler 3 месяца назад +9

    So basically, guys, we've all spent the last thousand years trying to compete with Genghis Khan. 😅

  • @paul715
    @paul715 3 месяца назад +110

    Corn addiction is strongly correlated with loneliness or men not having a sense of purpose.

    • @rimiserk8277
      @rimiserk8277 3 месяца назад +49

      Spot on, it's byproduct of hypergamy.

    • @imagoodlistener2730
      @imagoodlistener2730 3 месяца назад +29

      The purpose is usery. Have self respect. Avoid it at all costs.

    • @robertvondarth1730
      @robertvondarth1730 3 месяца назад +28

      It’s simply that masterbat0n is fun.

    • @TheMaleRei
      @TheMaleRei 3 месяца назад +50

      Corn.
      Cheaper than dating.
      Cheaper than divorce.

    • @Doberman_6773
      @Doberman_6773 3 месяца назад +11

      What if you're addicted to green beans instead?

  • @GnomeWagon
    @GnomeWagon 3 месяца назад +9

    I always thought real estate apps were porn for women...

  • @artawhirler
    @artawhirler 3 месяца назад +4

    So happy I subscribed to this channel!

  • @jelle6325
    @jelle6325 3 месяца назад +1

    Really spot on analysis, it's where so much of the modern day female pathology springs from but it isn't a subject that really gets talked about.

  • @otakubullfrog1665
    @otakubullfrog1665 3 месяца назад +5

    While people can certainly make an argument that modern internet porn affects men differently than earlier porn due to availability and novelty, it's difficult to argue that women's spicy books are anything new. Even back when I was a kid, romance novels were popular enough to be sold in supermarkets.

  • @palaceofwisdom9448
    @palaceofwisdom9448 2 месяца назад +8

    A woman wants a man who is a dangerous brute except with her. A man wants a woman who is absolutely prudish and chaste except with him. I'm starting to think that women and men aren't that different, it's just that our issues manifest in different ways.

  • @soundrogue4472
    @soundrogue4472 3 месяца назад +4

    6:26 I know I'm coomer brained but even I know how an actual relationship with a woman is going to go.
    It's going to be loveless, it's going to be sexless, it's going to be Misérables where I can't show emotion or she will be cold to me.
    I know she'll want me to watch shows with her, she'll berate me over stupid things and say how much she doesn't love me or how I don't love her.
    I know she is going to be emotionally abusive, I know she is going to be distant and she'll want to go on trips without me and will smell weakness if I desire affection.
    I've seen my father's relationship with my step mom, I'm not stupid.

  • @braveheartproduction2323
    @braveheartproduction2323 3 месяца назад +4

    I remember this one time where my oldest sister wanted to go on a date with two guys at the same time because she saw Bridget Jones doing it.

  • @craigbonin
    @craigbonin 3 месяца назад +33

    Thinking Ape is the Alan Watts of our time

    • @CRM-114
      @CRM-114 3 месяца назад +4

      That's not a compliment.

  • @francoiseeduard303
    @francoiseeduard303 3 месяца назад +10

    I hate slashers! They ruin EVERYTHING! They clog up the fanfiction sites and you have to wade across it for a LONG time before you find something descent!
    You have to get rid of both p💋 & social media. Social media is to women (attention, compliments/fishing for compliments, & affirmation) what p💋 is to men ($3x). Cannot ban 1 without the other.

    • @WardenAzdron
      @WardenAzdron 3 месяца назад

      No. Without prawn I'd be so desperate I'd end up with some feminist land whale dying slowly in a trailer park. Hell. No. I am NOT going back to real women.

  • @Melammu0
    @Melammu0 3 месяца назад +6

    My problem is men know porn is real. But women can’t seem to differentiate the fantasy from reality and try to force it.

  • @edi.2986
    @edi.2986 3 месяца назад +16

    I think there's a deeper problem when we are at a point where we feel the need to distort and live in a fantasy reality disconnected from the real one.

  • @triad6425
    @triad6425 3 месяца назад +5

    Yeah it me awhile to realize what women described as starfire especially those in the LGBT space had nothing to do what I may find attractive.
    I was cool with what they liked but somehow as a male anything I liked was demonized.
    .
    .. and that's why I use my passport

  • @brandonhelcher3691
    @brandonhelcher3691 3 месяца назад +9

    12 times a day! Not even getting into the time requirements, wouldn't you be sore as hell beforehand?

    • @Jeff-tt7wj
      @Jeff-tt7wj 3 месяца назад

      I can’t even imagine the pain.

    • @chrism8180
      @chrism8180 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Jeff-tt7wjeven 4 times will make your dick raw

  • @SisypheanRoller
    @SisypheanRoller 3 месяца назад +14

    One of the most freeing and mentally stabilizing realisations I've had is that our cognitive architecture is geared, in large part, to a kind of delusion that is necessary rather than "willfully" constructed. Not only is it necessary for survival (e.g., you cant be appreciating the nuances of a predator while it's chasing you down for its supper), it is also a necessary consequence of the flimsy information content that actually makes it past our cognitive filters and into awareness. In a way, the perfect specimen of a person who was perfectly attuned to reality must necessarily be a madman, not because reality is maddening, but because such a person would fail to provide his/her own psyche with a slowly changing but nonetheless stable, slightly delusional frame through which to manipulate the world to meet their needs. Reality is far too complex for anyone, man or woman, to be a bastion of rationality. That whole project was LARPing of the highest order, of which the consequences are readily seen today in social media grifters who abuse ideas of rationality to con and mislead their gullible audience who lack the historical knowledge to call BS.

    • @DPPB5
      @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +1

      You're essentially saying that living in this world is impossible unless you're tricking/gaslighting yourself in some way; which isn't true at all. Indeed, that is the case for most people but that is not necessarily how reality itself is. An easy counter-example to your statement would be the stoic philosophy along with its many well-known classic practitioners. But that is not the whole story, it suffices to realise that truly living in reality is to seek the truth and accept it for what it is and live accordingly. To live under an illusion with the excuse that one is doing so in order to remain functional is nothing short than a lie, in reality they're merely doing so in order to avoid their own shortcomings when faced with things as they are, bare.

    • @SisypheanRoller
      @SisypheanRoller 3 месяца назад +3

      @@DPPB5 You misunderstood the meaning of what I said. It goes beyond mere self-gaslighting. My suggestion, to start, would be to ask yourself about hard limits on information processing and how they relate to the mind and how it "consumes" reality into a form amenable to action and further cognition.
      Of course, I never recommend lying to yourself to get a short term boost. That will eventually catch up to you. Regarding stoicism, however, its moral philosophy was a byproduct of its time. I find it useful only in the limited context where a person might be suffering and struggling to find their footing, but as an overarching life guide, it falls terribly short. Though I definitely don't hold it against its founding fathers, or those who developed it further.

    • @DPPB5
      @DPPB5 3 месяца назад +2

      @@SisypheanRoller You're way too deep into the (wrong) idea or notion that your mind and body are somewhat separate entities and that the human mind is way to limited to extract enough truth from the world, almost as if one is completely incapable of reaching the truth unless they have access to every single aspect of a certain something because somehow if the human mind is inferring anything then it's inherently wrong or a lie.
      Sadly, this isn't an appropriate place to have such a long conversation but I appreciate the reply nonetheless.

    • @SisypheanRoller
      @SisypheanRoller 3 месяца назад

      @@DPPB5 Mind and body aren't separate and, at any rate, that claim is irrelevant to my broader argument. No information processing system comes with zero trade-offs. That idea isn't merely computational. It applies some hard limits to any mind-producing organ which happens to be the human brain in our case. Just as an example, your visual system does some remarkable simplification on incoming stimuli that has massive advantages for visual processing, but also disadvantages such as the rare synesthesia, or the more mundane case of using visual feedback to eliminate phantom limb pain (see: Ramachandran's research).

    • @xxgr0yp3rxx61
      @xxgr0yp3rxx61 3 месяца назад

      high iq comment, when you hear people discussing "manifesting" or "affirmative thinking" or any other similar name, they are mistaking it for this. imagination and delusion have been the driving force behind so many innovations in history. i dont mean the imagining of inventions themselves but the drive to create them in the first place. its the same flawed thinking that creates thoughts like "if i can deadlift 400 lbs that girl i have a crush on will be impressed and want me more." the differences in how these thoughts originate and are processed vary with genetics and life experiences but ultimately you form the reality that keeps you going. it is why purposeless people end up depressed and suicidal and why overthinkers go off the rails trying to rationalize truth and objectivity with a mind thats thoughts change based on its emotional state. there are tons of practical and observable cases to verify it, and i also do not believe humans are capable of understanding absolute truth through the limits of the 5 senses and an irrational mind.

  • @ottonormal3354
    @ottonormal3354 3 месяца назад +15

    the equivalent of pron addiction for females is shoping... But its okay, its a typical noob mistake. :D

    • @Bruhgnar0k
      @Bruhgnar0k 3 месяца назад +27

      No, it is actually having sex or having a moderate following on social media

    • @ottonormal3354
      @ottonormal3354 3 месяца назад

      @@Bruhgnar0k Sure, thats why females decide over 80% of consum decissions... Sorry, but shoping is dopamin hit nr. 1 for females. numbers dont lie. Everything else is only what you see.
      They dont get the gucci bag for their social media, they get the social media to get the gucci bag. They borrow bags to get the social media up and running, but if the get it up, they have it to buy themselves their bags.

    • @redhgffdsgd1605
      @redhgffdsgd1605 3 месяца назад +1

      In short attention addiction.

    • @ItsMeChillTyme
      @ItsMeChillTyme 3 месяца назад +2

      I wish it was.... That was something that used to be a thing in my mom's generation. The logic was buy thing to stand out to get attention, especially from husband. Now you just have to take a selfie fresh out of the shower and you get it for free by hundreds of low quality unknowns from around the world. And now the attention from others is implicitly dangled like a sword. You better pay attention for nothing otherwise she'll go and get it from someone else. Total control.

    • @J.B.1982
      @J.B.1982 3 месяца назад

      Nah, those are different addictions for sure, but they are not sexual in nature so it’s not the equivalent. This is about sexual escapism and fantasy.

  • @uncertaingabe9323
    @uncertaingabe9323 3 месяца назад

    I’m not sure if you’ve made a video similar to this already in your huge library of videos, but I was hoping you could make a video about the concept of “You are what you attract”. A lot of people say this to be dismissive about the problems people face when it comes to interpersonal relationships, but I’m sure there’s more to this quote than what you can simply scratch on the surface. You definitely have the knowledge to speak on it than I do, and I think it would be an informative topic people would want to hear about, the realities of interpersonal relationships, and how much control you have over what type of relationships you have.

  • @maxjohnson1758
    @maxjohnson1758 3 месяца назад +3

    He's right. If it was up to women, the Kama Sutra would be one page long.

  • @oldschoolmetaldancer1211
    @oldschoolmetaldancer1211 3 месяца назад +1

    You learn something new every day

  • @RTFLDGR
    @RTFLDGR 3 месяца назад +7

    Men (and boys) do not read (p)orn. But there is a famous series of sci-fi counter-Earth fantasy books that I grew up with that described a world where men were men and (w)omen were pets and sex (s)laves. 25 books in the GOR series. I learned, as a boy, BDSM lifestyle as counter-culture. "A woman is truly free when she is completely possessed by a man."
    BTW: Those GOR series books are highly collected and expensive.

    • @rhett3185
      @rhett3185 3 месяца назад

      You mean the American pdfile and s3x offender? Charged with child mol3station and child pr0nography?
      Least degenerate BDSM individual

    • @v.m.a.d.l.e.6972
      @v.m.a.d.l.e.6972 3 месяца назад

      All that like the 70s films will eventually make a come back.

    • @godleveleldritchblast5257
      @godleveleldritchblast5257 3 месяца назад

      That author wasn't wrong because I've found that to be the case according to our own psychology. Is is why I say. "A wo man is only free when she is subjugated" because her psychology backs it up.

    • @nokobz2624
      @nokobz2624 2 месяца назад

      porn

  • @BrockOLS
    @BrockOLS 3 месяца назад +2

    Never thought about this element before. Great video

  • @__anonymous__4533
    @__anonymous__4533 2 месяца назад +1

    This is also very similar to Fujoshi and Boys love genre in manga that women often consume. You will see a lot of these "femcel" types are often associated with these genres.
    I like how Japan is always 5-10 years ahead of the mainstream.

  • @Jeff-tt7wj
    @Jeff-tt7wj 3 месяца назад +2

    Anyone ever met any of this new breed of guy that is into romance novels? Some of the most creepy, disturbing people I’ve ever encountered.

  • @Toactwithoutthinking
    @Toactwithoutthinking 3 месяца назад +2

    Women sure hate looking at it but they sure do read a lot of it.

  • @gevinblazkowicz771
    @gevinblazkowicz771 3 месяца назад +1

    Spot-on analysis, as always!

  • @aldvier
    @aldvier 3 месяца назад +3

    This sums up all the cues I've seen. Nice!

  • @Luh9ine69
    @Luh9ine69 2 месяца назад +1

    Luckily I'm a Bisexual vampire pirate billionaire and i have no problem getting women.

  • @notsogood4321
    @notsogood4321 3 месяца назад +10

    Fanfiction is kinda where most of these young women end up in, the funnel is usually Josei manga and ikemen characters ( Josei is essentially female targeting romance manga ) and ikemen are basically every archetype a woman ever wants ( smart , tall , strong , fanatically devoted to the female MC -which herself is made as bland of a character as possible so the reader can then impose themselves onto the female MC). And boy is the stuff some of these women write wacky - I tend to notice alot of them seem to fetishise gay relationships , typically shipping ( fantasizing romance between 2 characters ) older men with younger (read under the A.O.C) men (boys)

  • @Mechanized
    @Mechanized 3 месяца назад

    This was actually a really good video, keep it up

  • @Philb1111
    @Philb1111 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video again. Great insight another classic.

  • @bobbybilly-xn4ch
    @bobbybilly-xn4ch 3 месяца назад +8

    Ever see the movie As Good As it Get with Jack Nicholson? Quote from ui
    Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
    Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability
    Funny line. You should have a conversation with Karen Straughn on this topic. I know she writes romance novels for women under an alias .. her insights are probably amazing on this topic. I miss Karen :(

  • @Leslie881
    @Leslie881 2 месяца назад +1

    Coincidentally, I just watched the movie Brokeback Mountain for the first time a couple of weeks ago. While I did find the story and the characters compelling . . . I gotta tell ya, the thought of two men getting it on (even when the two men are as attractive as Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal) doesn't really get me going. 😏😏😏

  • @argiletuminsa
    @argiletuminsa 3 месяца назад +10

    This genre consumed my gen-z girlfriend the year we broke up. Absolute trash - always wished she would occupy her mind instead with books that would have actually made her more interesting…

  • @lordofgingers
    @lordofgingers 3 месяца назад +5

    I concur with this assessment and it is what I have observed.
    This was an excellent topic

    • @thinking-ape6483
      @thinking-ape6483  3 месяца назад

      We are honoured by one as glorious as you posting!

  • @pokemercenary6511
    @pokemercenary6511 3 месяца назад +8

    Having a gay friend for a girl is like a guy being friends with a loose girl 😅

    • @raywilliams9041
      @raywilliams9041 3 месяца назад

      Because women value friendships and comfort than straight males yet you are dumbfounded why males are lonelier

    • @ItsMeChillTyme
      @ItsMeChillTyme 3 месяца назад +1

      Seems good lol.

  • @intarsienschrankzwetschgen4224
    @intarsienschrankzwetschgen4224 3 месяца назад +1

    One interesting sujet with this mommy-pr0n: The female protagonist tries to snatch the bad boy but once she succeeds and the guy becomes a good father and provider she looses the interest. Some books try to resolve this with the guy putting on war paint in the bedroom so the bad boy is different-enough from the provider.

  • @anonymissed3611
    @anonymissed3611 27 дней назад

    "Fan fiction" seems like a misnomer.

  • @Kain666
    @Kain666 3 месяца назад

    Great video. This topic is completely ignored.

  • @zekeyeager1458
    @zekeyeager1458 3 месяца назад

    And don’t forget, movies and TV shows catered to women portray the same things you speak of in the novels they read. Its everywhere

  • @mdaaaa1211
    @mdaaaa1211 3 месяца назад +28

    What's wired is that there is now a real movement on the right to banned pron. To me, this is another attack on men sexualiy.

    • @imagoodlistener2730
      @imagoodlistener2730 3 месяца назад +2

      They think they can save the wahmens and men at the same time. Still trying to white night for the worst of society.
      Too late. Most have seen behind the curtain, that's why they are on those sites in the first place. Get the post clarity without risk, cost, mental strain. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
      Their previous policies of the right and left have created this. They should be proud in all reality. No turning back now.

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 3 месяца назад

      Off course it is. The Right is not our friend. They are as gynocenyric as the other side, but, as of now, lack the power to attack us directly.

  • @mapzilla
    @mapzilla 3 месяца назад +1

    DC, Marvel, and Star Wars have become female fan fiction. Look at sexy bad boy from Acolyte.

  • @rothaarige3896
    @rothaarige3896 2 месяца назад

    For many girls, Beauty and the Beast is rhe first introduction to this

  • @DenshaOtoko2
    @DenshaOtoko2 3 месяца назад +3

    Rachel's book in Friends Season one episode 5 I think?

  • @michaeleisen7703
    @michaeleisen7703 3 месяца назад

    Thumbs up and comment for the algorithm. I hope you're not shadow-banned and it helps ...

  • @FireOccator
    @FireOccator 20 дней назад

    There's nothing wrong with fantasy as long as people recognize it as such. In fact, it's great for gaging how people think.

  • @artawhirler
    @artawhirler 3 месяца назад

    Excellent analysis! Thanks!

  • @VaronPlateando
    @VaronPlateando 3 месяца назад +2

    well… xx.s and gents per se encounter each other essentially only in intimacy of seggsual intercourse. all else is functional roleplay in societal sub-contexts of specific transactionality. thus, to quite some portion of gents, xx.s have longer ceased to exist, as objects evoking positive anticipations | assumptions | associations. for what many of gents got to know about xx.ine (eg evo.psych) nature, mere indifference is still and utmost benevolent disposition. it should be sincerily appreciated, considering how all those universe 25 (aka calhoun’s ‘bahavioral sink)’ experiments came to turn out.

    • @xxgr0yp3rxx61
      @xxgr0yp3rxx61 3 месяца назад

      high iq comment but ur grammar is so scuffed

    • @adp5R3x
      @adp5R3x 3 месяца назад

      Absolutely ! However , one must consider motions implying participation in acts requiring physical pressure upon certain areas illiciting responses triggered by manipulations of zones involving sensory stimulators that almost inevitably require deep reflection and focused efforts to overcome the base tendencies of both men AND women to descend into the pits of depravity 🧐

  • @IheartAorta
    @IheartAorta 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm still NAWALT

    • @dark-lord-vinay
      @dark-lord-vinay 2 месяца назад

      it's becuase of youtube he can't say porn

  • @-haclong2366
    @-haclong2366 2 месяца назад +1

    My wife unironically reads these Chinese romantic stories a lot, they are always about a successful lean Chang.

  • @Parlimant_Strifey
    @Parlimant_Strifey 3 месяца назад

    Deception, lies...as recent ReplicantPhish video memes go.

    • @RobotBoy-p2n
      @RobotBoy-p2n 3 месяца назад

      Here Here-Woof-Woof, as men-Yeah-as men-Yeah (Laughs Evilly)

  • @tippytoes2358
    @tippytoes2358 3 месяца назад

    I refused to read romance novels like my other female peers, because I knew it would skew my expectations of reality. Maybe all these unrealistic stories create more of the acceptance of fake news also.

  • @thibaldus3
    @thibaldus3 3 месяца назад

    Very interesting. Didn't realise that women's own addiction to fan fiction "LGBTQI friendly" erotica at a young age could lead to such disastrous results.