Stay-At-Home Girlfriends on TikTok Are Lying To You
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
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The Stay-At-Home Girlfriend Trend has been making waves on TikTok. In this video, I discuss the truth behind stay-at-home girlfriends and why everything is not what it seems.
tbh one of my biggest problems w the sahgf life trending is how many of these girls r coming from at LEAST upper middle class families that they can fall back on if things go wrong n that theyre not telling any of their followers that vital piece of information
Exactly. Water seeks its own level and for a lot of these women, the man that they date would be the type to foot the bills and take care of all the financial matters.
But it’s not a big deal if they break up because they both know she has a safety net to fall back on and a support system to lean on as well.
@@LoveAndSnapple Some of these girls aren’t even with fish that’s on their level. I saw a sahgf whose parents paid for her and her bf’s apartment. She was literally paying to be a sahgf, and she was the one who paid for their groceries.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 🙃🙃🙃 At what point does the madness end??
For even buying a Shampoo or a Facecream you will have to ask money from your partner. Even a packet of chips. It's like being a kid all over again. Except this time you are not asking money from your parents, you are asking from your partner. I don't know I just don't find that attractive. I can understand married stay at home moms, because often it becomes difficult to give time to your children and work full time. But this Stay at home girlfriend just doesn't sounds right.
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lindyt3942exactly everyone only sees a prenup as a one way street, no it’s meant to protect all parties. Get a good lawyer and draft that baby up. This will also allow you to see their true intent and love. Adding a clause if either one cheats, 1/2 of theirs is split. That’s for stay at home mom or working dad or vice versa, stahd and working mom
Shouldn’t be asking her boyfriend for money it’s not like they are married. If she doesn’t want to work and we’re not married she is not it.
I agree, although relying solely on a partner and having kids in the picture is way more dangerous. It will be a lot easier for that single gf to pick herself up and get back on her feet. But a mom with kids, getting a job, holding the job, finding suitable housing, court custody costs, etc. everything gets way worse. Alimony is about as common as hens teeth these days it seems, so hopefully there is a good prenup.
I'm not sure if people watching know the term "displaced housewives." They were women who stayed home and took care of the house and children, but when their husbands lost their job, died, or divorced them, they found themselves with no marketable skills. A few went back to school or took courses to help them find a job, but most didn't get good enough jobs to support themselves.
This "stay at home girlfriend" person is a content creator who is making money off of her videos. This is her job. Any woman who is a "trad" wife or stay at home anything on social media is a monetized content creator. Making these videos is their job. It's all bs.
Exactly real stay at home moms DO NOT HAVE THE TIME I am running a house where is the time to video and edit or hire someone to do that. Content creator is a job. Their job is creating content around the appeal of stay at home w.ethey want to claim. No way my 5 kids would.let me be able to video and edit anything in peace
Exactly!
they are just influencers who are dishonest about being so, they make up this façade of stay at home girlfriend/trad wife because there are already so many regular influencers, in order to stand out they have to make up this gimmick and dig up old sexist gender stereotypes
If you call that a job.
They are going to realize that this stay at home girlfriend is not what they thought it was
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Just watching the creators highlighted is making me yawn! How is "fill up water bottles" a riveting piece of content? It really shows how far they reach to pad their videos into long enough content to be monetized.
ALSO I had a stay at home boyfriend. It was not a romantic aesthetic, he was just a lazy asshole who didn't want to work or do anything.
I watched a friend of mine get demolished in a financially dependent relationship. She got out after ten years but had to wait until they met common law marriage rules. She’s working and loves her job now but it was so sad to watch her deal with all of that. Financial freedom is CRUCIAL
Stay at home wife, absolutely. Stay at home girlfriend? I will pass. I will love the luxury of staying at home with a child & focusing on their growth and interacting with them while I engage in other pursuits.
i get it, but always invest in yourself. Realistically marriages are no lifetime deals.
The title has nothing to do with it, stay at home wife or girlfriend both get the short end of the stick. The goal is neither.
Thank you! Most people don't realize that the marriage cert offers people legal protection. If you divorce, you might get spousal and child support. But what would a sahgf get?
@zooweellama maybe in your.miserable.life but some.of us picked right and can claim happily married
The goal is to be PICKY when it comes to marriage don't marry any fool promising nonsense
@@akosua8779people change over the course of time. You are not the same person after twenty years, the same goes for your partner. Just some food for thought.
Stay at home yet yall have entire tik tok accounts that produce funds for you.
i think anybody with common sense is on to most social media trends, but it's still aesthetically pleasing. I pity whomever gets inspired by their lifestyle fr.
Hopefully too many women don’t jump on this bandwagon.
1. You are correct in the girlfriend boy friend situation. You should not be relying on your boyfriend for finicial support. 2. Husband's are different, especially when kids are involved. There needs to be steps taken, but having someone focused on the home makes kids easier to raise and happier.
Men in general don't treat women very well. They say they want equality etc but when they get married and start having kids it ends up being her doing %80 of the work at home regardless of who makes more money. That's a statistical fact here in North America. Obvioulsy it's important to have your own income or at least a nest egg and skills to fall back on when things don't work out, but I personally don't see the point of becoming a mother (who almost always ends up being the primary parent) if I also have the stress of a 9-5 job- while he just has a 9-5 job and helps out when he happens to be in the mood ,but is generally useless and has the audactity to compalin about not getting his dick touched (most fathers in North America today). Any man can and will disappoint you. I would rather be disappointed by a man by can who can and does provide for me than one who cannot/ does not.
YES
But men work tho they have to provide for himself his wife and child, do you know how hard that is, imagine working all day and be expecting to clean the house, i understand at the weekends helping to do chores, thats why since i was 10 i always cleaned the house for my parents
@@atinybruhWomen are working as well though. Then they should split chores but men end up making the woman do it all cause he doesn’t want to. My bf made a mess by accidentally dropping something and guess who had to spend time scrubbing while he just goes to eat
@@strawberryynoodlesauce yeah i was talking about the women who dont work but without a baby
@@atinybruh they are just lazy and have no aspirations, the man will leave eventually for a more interesting woman
I have never heard of the "stay at home girlfriend" trend but I am doing it... right now. Three weeks ago I left my job due to feeling burnt out and unenthused about it. I'm 23 and haven't stopped working/studying since graduating high school. I made a pledge to my boyfriend to maintain the household and cook meals for him if I'm not working, do his laundry etc. In my opinion, if I am choosing not to work to earn an income, I should be making the most of household duties. I don't want to be caught sitting on my butt at home not contributing in ANY WAY!
This is a short term plan however, I intend to begin studying in July to become a kindergarten teacher. Which will hopefully be my career for many years to come.
But right now I will enjoy doing my part in the home.
He should still be putting in work inside the house though; he can do his own laundry
This doesn't really apply to you. You are working on your next plan. The women in these videos look very much non-ambitious and honestly it looks like they have given up. I don't think you have to work always but a productive hobby or voluenteering seems like a good idea.
Is your BF doing the same things when he’s not working? You’re gonna find out that you’re signing yourself up for exploitation if you haven’t already.
Work is fun: you have a purpose, you talk to people, why give it up?
True there making money it’s a lie. My mother was a stay at home mother as we’re all her friends and I can’t say it made them happy, different era. Even then I’d watch her spending all day ironing and polishing pointless inanimate ornaments and polishing the brasses with brasso that took hours and they had no use we had a gas fire😂 and constantly washing and pressing the already clean curtains and scrubbing pans and washing the kitchen floor 5 times a day. House had to be spotless Just in case she got a visitor but they didn’t visit each other they were all cleaning their houses in case they got a visitor.used to just think just why? . The mums would meet at the school gate and compete for who’d had the most miserable day cleaning. Not saying all stay at home mums are like that many home school and can meet for coffee and can fit in more fun stuff, it’s just how I remember it.I choose to work and maybe spend half an hour a day cleaning the house. I don’t own pointless dust gathering ornaments and spend my free time having a life and doing fun stuff with my child, fella and friends. I love the fact that I can pay for this stuff myself and don’t have to ask for money . But each to their own just down to personal circumstances
Why are people ok with having to submit themselves to a boss or a spouse? Free adults shouldn’t be forced into submission of any kind.
Who’s “FORCING”?
Because you need money and protection to thrive. Like it or not, we’re all submissive to our current system of life.
@da_kimster2314Usually, that’s not true. We’re losing half or more in a divorce settlement. In some states, we have to pay alimony for life. And we pay child support for our children usually.
At the job, once you stop working there, the benefits eventually stop.
@@omarimack194 If a woman gives you her prime years/youth she deserves alimony. Men need to be smarter and get married to a younger woman once he is financially established in his prime years (40+) so he only has to be married once and never divorced.
They're not being forced though.
I work 9-5 and live a life of leisure. They key is saying no to a lot, get up early to workout, make myself breakfast, work from home in my robe at times. Morning & night skin care regimens. I read, I mean. It’s about how you do it. Only time work is draining is when I’m not giving a lot to myself that week. For example this week because I have a cold, so no gym. And I lightly beat my face before I go to work. I love it here. ❤
You must have a job that enables you have a good work/life balance? Unfortunately, that’s not the reality that a lot of us live.
This shit is stupid. All these influencers telling women to rely entirely on a man for everything while they are making money off their socials. It's dishonest and dangerous and I hate everything about it. I once had to explain to a girl why no, she shouldn't expect her boyfriend to let her be a "stay at home girlfriend" just because she does some cleaning and occasionally buys groceries. He didn't even WANT her to be stay at home but she clearly watched too many of these damn influencers and thought she had some kind of right to expect to sit around at home while her boyfriend paid for everything.
I think this trend is just a way for groups to kinda one up other groups. Have I had a time I wasn’t employed ? Yes . I had gotten fired and I did stay home looking for jobs and doing extra work to care for my boyfriend. But he and I knew the end goal was for me to get a job, but I was really beaten down , dealing with a lot and wasn’t taking care of myself so that two months of searching and self care was needed. He was willing and gracious and made enough to support but we did budget and have cut backs . I love him and he loves me it worked out many it won’t
This stay at home dynamic is not practical unless you are making your own money at home .
You might just be giving a way your power to a man being in that sort of situation.
Some people feel that stay at home girlfriends don’t do nothing at all which is not the case . It’s as if you are look down upon in society for choosing to do this .
Even your partner attitude changes in a negative way as time goes by even if they are the ones who suggested it.
Hey, she got dumped. I think you should make another video about her.
Valid points were made throughout. I'm glad you touched on not everyone should be an entrepreneur because that seems to be what is being pushed. As far as SAHGF goes, you are correct that these ladies are actually making significant income from their socials that the unsuspecting audience doesn't consider. Creating these esthetically appealing videos is their job. I've even seen an uptick of SAHM and trad wives videos. I know several SAHM in real life and let me tell you, their lives were drastically different. There was lots of budget planning, clipping of coupons, thrift shopping, forgoing certain outings/activities because they couldn't afford it. In today's climate, it is extremely difficult to live off one income unless one person makes an incredibly high income or there's a lot of budgeting/planning. And I'm glad you lightly touched on financial abuse as many people will stay in bad situations because of finances. A piece of advice my dad told me is always be able to make your own. It's fine to marry and have your husband provide because, as a man, that's what he's to do. But always be able to make your own money.
I wouldn’t mind being a stay at home girlfriend as long as I can have a job where I can work at home so I’m not constantly asking my man for money & I need to be allowed to leave the house to go to the gym, run errands, etc. I don’t want my house to turn into a prison
I think many of those people also come from privileged backgrounds and know their parents will then help if the partner doesn't work out.
People say “what if he leaves you?” I say “what if you get fired from your job? Or you get sick and can’t work?” People act like just having a job now will prevent financial uncertainties in the future.
It's really women that leave majority of the time
Exactly! Like, anything can happen at any time to anybody!
Yeah, I feel like my time is priceless. The fact he takes pride in covering all of the bills just blows me away- and I grew up hungry. I’ll never go hungry again. Meal ticket? I can just go out and get food stamps. Sometimes I look at him and I get it- I get why some girls go and destroy their bodies to give them a baby.
@@jamalj8660 Don't worry about woman until you can afford them. Don't give too much when you don't have enough (money, maturity, experience and well established masculine qualities woman are attracted to most) and then be bitter about it when she leaves for someone offering the whole package. Have fun and build your money when a young man and then when you are 40+ you can find a wife and treat her in a way she will never leave you.
@@alwaysyouramanda The majority of girls and women, aren't even independent individuals to begin with. That's why they get disrespected, by being treated like sex objects. Most of them, depend on a guy for security and to provide for their children. It's more rare to see women who are actually strong and independent on their own, without much help.
wow these comments r deranged asl im sorry u gotta see them 😭
Even if they are making money from social media, It doesn’t actually matter because they are NOT responsible for any bills. They can keep all their own money. The biggest thing with the SAHG lifestyle is being provided for 100%. I am a stay at home girlfriend, and I am writing a novel. If it sells well I will not be expected to pay ANY bills with my profits.
Thats a good man... but why are you not his wife?
Exactly. It's weird that she's acting like they are lying because they may make money off social media. Did they ever say they don't make any money?
Even stay at home moms of the past have had home businesses on the side.
Very well said!!
Thank you so much for bringing up the points about how fallible it is to have one income-earner and the non-income-earner relying on that person to bring in the money. What if the husband has a bad injury and can't work anymore? Or what if he dies? These trad wives and trad couples don't take the past lessons from the trad lifestyle into consideration at all and just like the cosplay of everything rather than the reality of the situation.
Not a good idea.
Here in Canada, after 6 months of living common law, each person is entitled to half of the assets etc. There is protection.
Yeah a billionaire tobacco company founder found out the hard way that yes your 10 year common law girlfriend you made a baby with and bought her a house is entitled some compensation when you decide to suddenly dump her and cut off a lifestyle you providered for her
😂
Why are you constantly looking at the ceiling? Are you reading something from there? 😂
I don’t even get who these videos appeal to. Those day in the life videos seem SO BORING. If you’re not gonna work, at least still make your free time worthwhile
Those errands look exhausting, I'd 100% do my 9 to 5 job instead any day 😂
yes girl @4:30-4:43c This happened to me and I had 4 children, was engaged, and was pregnant with our 5tnh child. My ex abandoned our family for s stripper. He left us for dead. The stay-at-home mom, not working, boss babe hustle trend trend almost ruined my life.
she sounds bored lololololol
Eh, I’m half and half on this video tbh. I don’t applaud stay at home girlfriend life. I applaud stay at home WIFE life - big difference. Depending on a man is just fine as long as he’s a GOOD man & you know that going into the relationship. Most GOOD men/husbands nowadays are totally okay and even uplift the idea of the wife having her own separate bank account + joint with the hubbs. I personally believe that’s healthy.
I don't get it. Is she a barista who gets a lot of breaks?
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Wait..., stay at home girlfriend??? This is new to me.
Bw, don't have that luxury because of the failed BM.
Lmfao. Compete for a rich man if you feel that way. As if all any race are capable of this crap. No princess. You can’t date the whole kingdom and wonder why you haven’t met the king.
Lots of successful BM, y'all just can't keep em with all that attitude and masculine energy.
Speak for yourself ma'am. This black woman has a black man that doesn't fit this narrative that you spew over your own life.
Perhaps you should change your mindset. Perhaps it's just you 🤷🏾♀️
BW don't have that luxury because they have no examples of how to be wives and aren't raised to be. If they were they could have any man they wanted. Most BM are eligible which is why so many find wives outside of BW.
@@jamalj8660 lol tell em. They wanted the streets, now they got it.
Hey, I really like your vids, but I just got a betterhelp ad on your video. I hope you can change the settings on your channel to stop it.
Been there, don’t do it
What is interesting about watching a wife or girlfriend do regular things? You can only watch someone make a smoothie once. I don’t get it
So on point !!!!
Yeah, female-presenting queer couples don't have the privilege either - the gender pay gap is real, y'know? :/
First of all it's not a trend. And second of all if your really worried about your man leaving you then you shouldn't be dating in the first place. Period. Women don't NEED to work if they don't want to and having a man who loves you so much that he will go out and work his ass off to pay the bills and take care of the woman he loves is waayyy better than going out acting money hungry and coming home depressed and wore out. No thanks 😊
Why do you wear a seatbelt? If you're really worried about being in a crash you shouldn't get into a car in the first place, period.
Girl, what?
Until he drops you for another one and you have nothing
Poor sweetie lost her identity
The people being lied to are us, the public. The husband mught nit have cheated. The stories if the 'real housewives' might not be real... it's a show to make money....
Since when did a housewife mean you didn't work? Women for millenia worked, just not out of the house. Their financial contributions just didn't add up to that of their man, but they warned income for their households from HOME while tensing to the home and then raising the children when they came along.
Not to mention, most women today are on antidepressants and considering that most women are working adults, I think the problem is women working. Our bodies are not meant to work 40 hrs plus a week for decades, men and women are not the same!
Bless your heart...you tried
If you dont want to have to work to live, you must want to own slaves lmao. Your food, your cleaned water, your clothes come from somewhere. If you don't want to work for someone else, farm. But trust me, farming to produce is work every minute of your entire life and you earn much less. Every living organism has to work to live, we just built the luxury of scheduled work and lunch breaks.
Got a kind of random question for you guys.
Why do most people say they believe in jesus but jesus said 1 of is 10 commandment greed /capitalism is a sin but we see so many wealty individual that thanks good for what they have but God never aproved greed to be ok 🤔 so if you think about it them people that are wealty must be praising a demon instead of God
If we’re not married you will work and pay for your bills or you are not the one. I don’t trust the housewives either, I wouldn’t doubt that they cheated too.
My girlfriend made a half joke one time about me getting a good job so that she didn't have to work anymore and I shut that down quickkkkkkkk. No way in hell I'm gonna work my ass off so someone can sit at home all day and make matcha poorly.
I hope she can find a real man.
🤣@@uui219
@@uui219or a sugar daddy...thats what this is
Those videos are so BORING
Everything is coming full circle. Women wanted to work outside the home, got that right, see how hard it is and now want to go back home. 😂😂
The Gen-Z women might be smarter than their millennial/Gen X mothers. 😂
Nah, its all a ruse and men that try to go for traditional arrangements will suffer in the end. Being single is the preferable option in this dating hellscape.
so may people have a victim mentality. It’s all ab balancing and planning out your day.
These SAHGs are lying…just like feminism lied to women 😂😂.
Their followings are huge because many women don’t want to work in the same way that men have to, outside the home.
They choose to be housewifes instead, because it's the traditional way for genders.
Lost brain cells listening to this, i feel sorry for the men in the generation that have to deal with women that think like this. I see why the men are just staying single or going overseas.
The majority of men don't care about women like this.
As a woman, I felt the same way.
She can't seem to understand that good men exists and you can be a stay at home wife in a smart way where you and your husband work together to plan for the worst case scenario.
Like the fact that she used Real Housewives, a Hollywood reality show, as legitimate examples just makes it seem like someone who is terminally online and needs to touch grass.
It doesn't sound like this is a woman that has experienced a healthy loving long relationship with a good man or has spoken with many actual traditional families.
Actually u always supposed to get ur's if u don't u a dummy our grandmothers use to stash money from our granddad's cuz they worked to keep the house clean and feed the family running after the kids a stay at home wife is a job and it never hurts to pull in ya own money while spending his like me I wanna do nails to make money but imma make sure he full and the house clean but he gah pay bills and buy food and take out trash and buy me things and the things we need while I save my money up
Part of her day was planning out her day in her new planner lol.
Literally what is she planning? To do: refill water bottle 😆
This is not funny, not everyone has the ability to plan their day as it goes by and it's a real struggle
That's why some of us do actually need to plan the day before for the following day even though it looks like we don't have much to do this is essential to be able to have your shit together
@@Samantha_M. Oh stop. These highly privileged women are showing their planner to allow it seem like they actually do something.
@@Samantha_M.The video proved she was treating it like a journal not a daily planner. I have several planners because I can drift through the day and get absolutely nothing done. That wasn’t the case here, she’s Jose trying to show off her new planner and pretend as if she has anything to do, but look pretty until it’s time to make dinner.
😅you realize she's trying to sell you that planner too eh. And she's not planning anything. That's just a gimmick. Normal people use apps. We don't even have time to write down@@Samantha_M.
as much as i hate capitalism and the toxic, exploitative work culture, financial freedom is so necessary and especially as a young person its way easier to stay on track to be able to provide for yourself. i feel like these influencers are so harmful as they are encouraging young girls to rely on another person. its sad to say but u have to work and be able to provide for yourself because there just are no safety nets. thank you for taalking about this its really important for ppl to be realistic and cautious about their future
But that's not entirely true especially people like cardi b meg thee stallion they tell u to have ur own money but don't spend it spend his so if he leaves u u still got ya money to take care of yaself
GF isn’t legal wife. BF can drop kick ya out at any time with no legal repercussions
Exactly!
How much coffee do these people need to drink a day to do absolutely nothing? It’s a rotation between cappuccinos, lattes, espressos, macchiatos, etc.
The amount of caffeine needed to do these light tasks is way too much!!!
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OMG I wonder too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I was like why she going to the beach to get coffee, when she had one at home just 5 min ago 😭😭😭
I feel like that is in different days and they aren't doing it to their liver😂
It's an addiction like alcoholism. Just one that is socially acceptable to brag about to other people
I’ve been in relationships with complete broke boys but they always claimed I was gold digging lol I always got me I hate ppl thinking I owe them
I once heard a girl say that she was working 3 jobs to provide for her and her bummy, unemployed boyfriend and she said he would still accuse her of being a gold-digger. I don't think they know what that term means...
@@adams8830No they are aware of the term, it's when a girl/woman depends on a guy's money👔💰, but he used in on a very WRONG❌️ case.
Boy there's nothing to dig 😭😭😭
Omg same here
Such an interesting discussion! I actually, inadvertently, became a "Stay At Home Girlfriend" this year because I was laid off. I was fortunate to be in a position where my then-boyfriend/now-fiance (but NOT LEGALLY MARRIED nonetheless) was earning enough income for the both of us, but my mental health has been in a low place this year because while I'm "free" to do other things with my time, it does not feel good to rely so heavily on one person. Luckily I have an emergency fund in savings that I could have used if anything were to go wrong, but still the lack of agency really got to me. I want people to be able to do what they love AND make a living, but definitely skeptical about this trend. And you're SO RIGHT, they ARE working and making an income!
I’m a “stay at home gf” as well (not by choice) I’ve been blessed that my bf is not a bad person, but ppl do t realize that we are humans at the end of the day we are not perfect he is not aggressive but just the fact that I depend on him it does have a bad effect if you decide to do this know that you are giving him the right to feed u and also to starve you if he wish, even if they are ok with it they won’t be ok with you spending at your will, it becomes your responsibility to please them how “a women is supposed to” and if you gut broke up then you have waste time and have nothing to fend for yourself. I have started to work part time and I’m starting to create content I can’t feel mentally healthy there is nothing like been independent and feel a sense of if self worth
You will find another job, don't worry. Just keep looking.
I was a stay at home daughter for 4 years. The amount of men who wanted me to move out and live w them was wiiillllddd. Like why would I move out? Not only am I gonna be doing more work around the house, but I also have to provide $exual favors on command?! I have 3 jobs and 3 businesses now. I would rather do this than ever even live w a man. I’m working hard for my peace and the freedom to do what I want when I want
I guarantee those men were narcs. They like to invite women to move in with them so they could later kick them out.
Only wife can play that game to be honest. Girlfriend and boyfriends relationships are a scam, they will take everything from you without a real commitment.
TBH so can a husband. He just has to find a way to divorce you without letting you get half the stuff, and you're out on your ass with no job, house, work experience or marketable skills
@@DimaRakesah that’s why marriage is not for the dummies 😂 get your education first. So you’re prepared for anything life throws your way. And marry a person that can deal with conflict and not use the word divorce on the first misunderstanding.
so marry someone on day 1? ok
@@CuteAnimalVideos2580 what? who’s talking about marrying someone on the first day???
"day in the life of a inhouse escort"
Spot on. 🤣👍
Best comment. 😂
Woow you opened my eyes. They are indeed working as they are filming and earning through our views
If you have “nothing else going for you” because you don’t have a traditional job, then your job was your identity which is something that shouldn’t be desirable. If the SAH partner is bored and has no real identity anymore, then that is their own fault for just letting life just happen to them rather than taking initiative in their own lives. Not every SAH relationship is the same. The money power dynamic is not as strong if both partners have equal access to accounts, money, cards, etc. Having a SAH partner does not work for everyone, but it does work for a lot of people. I would agree that it’s not smart to do it without any legal protections of marriage.
This is very true not everyone has a toxic relationship. And not everyone fills fulfillment through their job. I myself plan on being a stay at home wife and it’s important to think abt everything full circle. You should have skills or an education at least in case something happens (it’s not often mentioned but spouses do die). And yes your fulfillment would come from other things your interests and hobbies. Something pll forget to is you can have the same legal rights as someone married you just have to actually get it in writing and signed by lawyers. Getting married doesn’t actually give you other benefits it just bypasses these processes. And most pll getting married now should get prenups anyways to ensure shared expectations. Everything she said was kinda presumptuous…although I’ve never watch these tik toks. Thank you for your post
“A 25 year old stay home girlfriend” lol get outta here with that.
A stay at home girlfriend? Absolutely not.
A stay at home *wife*? For sure.
You don’t get all of me, unless you put a ring on it.
😂exactly!
But he can still smash right ? Why tf would he put a ring on it then ?
Like what's with this doesnt it lowkey is like sugar baby? I mean yeah if you have kids its actually tough and you scarifice your careers to be with your kids mad respect! But......i mean...when you dont have any....and just depending on your partner....when he worked hard all his life to reach there.
I mean women are allowed to be in their "feminine" and get back to being at home when they are stressed but men arent? Are they robots or what.
On the other hand i at times feel like patriarchy and "traditional roles" did give men some authority but it also conditioned them to put themselves after their family and work work work ........ cause they are "wired to do so" sounds like robotic to me.
I think the idea of staying home is a reaction to the previous trend of get out of the home. Get a job earn money don’t make homemaking the priority of family life. Homemaking if well done is work! But it extends past 9 to 5. And it can include rest or social breaks in a day. I do believe a woman being a homemaker is contributing more than maid service and cook depending on the individual and her talents and abilities. When it comes to sexual privileges we know their are woman who make their job giving those services so that is a form of work. In fact wealthy men can pay to have the contributions of the girl friend. Except one thing if the woman is truely a man’s friend I do not think real authentic friendship is bought or paid for. That said if the couples friendship is genuine love one could wonder what keeps them from being married? If they fear love may not last that could explain why they resist marriage. Still I am glad the trend of making home less a priority than career might be seen as a mistake for many men and women! 0:06 0:06 0:06 0:06
The stay home girlfriend is good mediocre acting
I thought these types of videos were satire
These influencers aren’t just stay at home girlfriends. They have a job: influencer.
I loved working from home during the pandemic. I didn't feel lonely, didn't miss seeing people in the office, my fondest wish right now is to get back to WFH ASAP so I can work in the quiet and peace of my own home, where I can control my own comfort level.
Sounds so boring
The only reason I don’t care is if you do make money as a woman, the power dynamic is still the same. The only difference is you have to work while doing it
Luke and I"s😅😅 darling, it' is Luke and MY 😅😅these are the people you are following
Maid without any payment💰 to give
Every other woman really want to be a rich man’s side chick. That’s what this really sounds like.
No.
@@ct5951 You aint fooling nobody, honey.
Its better but no need to brag I guess..😂
The trend is called being a leech
It’s called contributing in a feminine nurturing way. And the man contributing in a masculine providing way. It’s nature.
I guess women over the millenia are leeches then. You're literally calling your female ancestors worthless despite the fact that theor sacrifices got you here today.
@@alyxxa6182No...its called being lazy and acting like a child
Women should work in the work force.
I absolutely miss being a SAHGF. Working makes me absolutely miserable. I feel really bad for the people who only find their work fulfilling. Get a hobby go out and make something for
Yourself!
You mean being lazy and letting your partner do all the work?