1. They walk alone. 2. They walk faster than the average person. 3. Strong personal boundaries. 4. They avoid the spotlight. 5. Extremely focused. 6. Unconventional routines. 7. Prefer listening instead of speaking. 8. Selective about social engagements.
Fortunately my wife realized this about me years ago and had no problem with it at all. I would still go to the get togethers with her friends in the community despite not wanting to be there however those people seemed to enjoy having a person that didn't talk much and just listened to them. My wife made a comment years ago "If we were to ever get a divorce, you would be perfectly happy living in a small camper in the woods with nothing but a guitar and books", I had to agree. Relationships are fine with Sigma males if the woman understands what she is getting into and she understands that one of my favorite pastimes is to sit in a leather recliner at night in the dark living room listening to music, so she purchased a $1,200 set of SHURE headphones for me.
Lucky man. My wife, an ex-nurse, feels that people should know all about my health in case she dies and I need looking after. I love her, but she will not stop (and I'm in far better shape than she is.)
That's awesome. I have to explain all this to the wife. She didn't understand why I would act the way I did. This may help. Sometimes it would seem like I was insane to her, but now I understand
@@scottgagliardi5933 What is humorous is when my kids became older teenagers and didn't require parents around them is that when their friends would stop by that they think that it is "awesome" that their dad sits in the dark listening to music.
Every day i walk across town to work [about 40 minutes] and i walk home from work. Nobody i work with understands this because they all drive, so they think i'm weird because i walk. And i have been approached by strangers saying how fast i walk, but to me it's just my normal pace. I'm not walking fast, they're walking slow. I do have an unbreakable focus and i concentrate intensely on the task before me, but i do keep all my senses 'turned on', and i am aware of everything that is going on around me while i am focused. I hear every little sound but that still doesn't distract me from my task. And when i am walking, i observe all my surroundings. And even when i'm interrupted, when i am able to get back to my task, i can usually jump right in where i left off and refocus immediately.
In my fitter days, I used to just mow the lawn, when I played Mr Mom to my then wife's autistic kids and we owned multiple properties. I'd mow on a rideon maybe 7.5- 10 acres per week just for that alone time. Was a no brain activity where I spent my "me time" whilst keeping things pristine. 😅
I too am always 'accused' of walking allegedly 'too fast' (for others, to keep pace), when that's just my regular pace to walk. I'd sometimes rush from point to point - Some even said, I'd kick my forerunner in the heels from behind when getting upstairs together. It's not me, it's _them_ *not* walking, but rather just saunter or stroll around, wasting time - To no surprise, I dislike wasting time just go slow.
Point number 3 is intriguing. He need not be tall with a long stride! It's symbolic of how the sigma male does not believe in wasting time nor in being distracted while out in public.
I used to walk fast until I realized the impact it does on me. If you have a plan and are organized, you needn't walk fast. It presents a calm and stoic behavior.
Video resonates with me on a lot of points. What I've noticed with myself and my life is that there seems to be very very few sigma males anywhere I go. I haven't met anybody with my listening skill level yet.
Being private types, we could only recognize another Sigma if a) we knew about the Sigma type to start with and, b) we spent enough time with another person to be able to make that judgment. I do wonder where we all are. I suggest that anyone who has good reason to justify including themselves as Sigma, get a Sigma tattoo on one wrist.
As I become older I am finding myself thinking more about why I am the way I am. I just started learning more about sigma male characters and they resonate with me too. I have always wondered why I don’t seem to be like most other people, and these kind of videos are enlightening.
Yes, I only became aware of sigma a couple years ago. It would have helped me understand so much had I learned this earlier. (I am sigma and could not understand what was wrong with people.)
Of all the insights on this channel that are seriously spot on....The one that to laugh about is the walking speed. It's not the distance...it's the duration I just hate how long it takes. So I walk fast....but I'm not bored. There is so much to be done inside my head....I would rather walk alone than with someone so I can get things done.
Interesting. Never heard of Sigmas until a few videos popped up in my feed. I always thought of myself as a lone wolf. I never really cared what everyone else was doing or thinks. I can relate to everything in the video, especially the unique routines!
Yes to all of them except walking fast. I am in my mid 70's and I am no longer in a hurry to get anywhere...those days are long gone. As far as focusing yeah I can focus and do meditation and deep introspection alternately at the same time even while doing other things like cooking. It does get in the way when I am trying to learn or improve a new skill like playing billiards. That is the skill I am currently working on mastering and that is to turn off the focus for short times and turn it back on as needed. I am always looking to improve myself in a caring way. I am a Sigma and an INTJ that is working hard on becoming an ENTJ. I would say I am more than half way there. I have no problems with public speaking or sharing my knowledge with passion. It is hard because I find most people so boring and oblivious to the world around them and even though I know it is in my best interest to be extroverted too there just isn't much motivation. But my focus is my focus so onward I march.
A true sigma is the one that is true to himself without following any specific ideas or concepts. I rattle be a slower walker and be true to myself instead of confirming ideas of concepts looking for reception of being a "sigma men" How fake and pathetic some men have become nowadays 👆
@@Nemura12 LOL i think u missed the point entirely doofus, these are Traits (not all) of a sigma male that is naturally encured, these are NOT steps for people to try to make themselves do, these are NATURAL traits of a sigma, what is it u dont understand??
1st time hearing this, while it’s nice to know I’m not so strange, I’m not sure what I do with the information. I’m happy, confident and centred being me.
Since these videos have become so popular, I've had numerous people (male & female) approaching me asking if I'm a sigma man. Ironically it seems to always be while I'm reading in the corner of a coffee shop while dunking biscuits.
I divorced in 85. I remained single till 2015. I enjoyed living alone. No one to answer to. My time and my money were mine alone. It would be my choice when and who I would interact with. I had activities that kept me busy and I had friends to do things with. I played tennis 2 or 3 hours a day 5 times a week. In the later afternoons I would go yo the park to walk. In 2015 I decided to find a woman to grow old with. Life has been good.
Tend to agree with that one indeed. First realized that I am an INFJ some 15 years ago. Regularly check-in just to see if anything, or I, have changed. Other than occassionally scoring as an INTJ, in the frequence of 10-1, I am pretty much convinced it may stay that way thru the whole of my life. I have read research papers that have studied if one may change personality in a more significant way, but results have showed thus far that; Yes, we can change to some extent, but rarely more than about 25% overall. And the 2 parameters that are most frequent in determining any significant change in our personality are spiritual growth (included beliefs) and/or a new partner (intimate relationship). But as mentioned rarely do we change more than 25%.
I find walking alone is the best solution to avoiding social people who want to be in a crowd to voice out whatever comes to them even without thinking before they speak.Me I value Peace and the alone syndrome.
I'm a sports fan. A Sigma Male, could be a basketball player, who doesn't have a big scoring ego, but silently takes pride in shutting down scorers on the other team. If such a player is usually a big scorer, and he holds that scorer to 5-6 points, Sigma Male basketball player is most proud.
All 8 are right on what stroke me was the morning routine, that made laugh so hard, but everything is absolutely correct, thank you for another very insightful piece in this matter.
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Sigma male here. We are not "weak." One reason why I avoid most people, and their disgusting behavior. I once told a guy, is it too much to ask to be a decent human being? He just started making more noise. Proving our point.
Zeta male here: Yes, very accurate! My mom is a Sigma and this is spot on her personality! We never walk together bc, well….she walks alone! Besides I’d have a hard time keeping up, as what defines Zeta is that we walk with a casual stroll. Sigmas are no joke!
7 out of 8 are correct. however Listening is part of selective firends groups when i feel comfortable i can talk alot because it's sharing my vision of my world which is vastly more broad. A lot of chaos and i can't focus but just the right amount of chaos i can push some really foundational changes but it's cause effect and cost. If you wanna avoid the spotlight you can't make splashes cos you atract the sharks in this world who gravidate to the energy because i think in my case they see the apperance and energy don't match and think they can just absorb or parasite in. i would of put out side of he box thinking there but not every one who called them self a loaner/sigma are gonna be doing that. think the trauma of having such a wide field of events and reliving the past to explain the mirroring events and trauma that cause PTSD lock ups
Here is my health club Sigma-ishness: I was born in Seattle in 1973, Japanese-American, male and heterosexual. I belong to an upscale health club. I can pass for 37-38, because I have mostly black hair. I keep meticulous records of my monthly weightlifting quota, and my basketball shooting drills. Every long day that I'm at the club, I can be seen at one of the desks, for a good 30 minutes, looking at my hand-written notes, and transferring information to my Android. All the while, I look like "an NFL QB coach, sitting up in the booth" while doing that. And, I look totally calm and collected! I bet these women are wondering "What is that Sigma Male writing down and reading?"
Fast walk… I run… it’s more efficient and doubles as cardio. Time is short and I have things to do. Listening is more efficient as well. Chiming in all the time only increases the total conversation length and creates the possibility of tangents. Id rather let you go without interruption so to give you one succinct response to end the conversation. And if I disagree I’ll keep my mouth shut if I know you’re too dense to take advice; can’t argue with a box of rocks. Then I can go back to being in my own head working on my problems. Small talk is absolute torture. I don’t care about fluff, even if you’re a beautiful woman. All I think about is how to get out of listening to it. Talk about things that matter not your feelings; suck it up. I can see the motives behind your actions. After all, everything is done with intent and motive. Don’t butter me up because I know you want something from me and I’d rather you ask straight up for it. Don’t waste my time with shallow compliments. If I take the time to listen to your crap then know that I really like you, and that’s rare. Don’t take me for granted. I never do things for others expecting reciprocal favors. I do it because it makes me feel human. I love animals; the dynamic of the bond is raw and simplistic. There’s no hidden agenda with animals only mutual benefit. I’m an INTJ personality who happens to be ‘Virgo’ born in the year of the rat.
I have long standing debate of whether to be joiner or loner. Joiners have power of the group, but i feel this adds a high risk of corruption to accept and give favors. It also can make you support groups that you may not agree with their ideals. I call them soldiers, for example many support democratic part right or wrong. I am some where in between, i can work as part of team, but when task is over i drop association. I do speak much, especially if there is no strong leader or path forward. I speak too much, try to help others but i need to be more quiet
Here's an explaination to our need of loneliness you don't talk about : we are energy providers to others. Some people can suck out energy from people around them. We're the exact opposite of that. We provide energy to others. We, as positive people, authentic listeners, have a positive effect on others : we tend to charge their batteries. Whereas we tend to charge our own batteries being alone. It's generally a trait found in introversion. And that's why we need being alone. It's an energy matter.
The reality of the pace they create is dependent on their physical health. aside from M.S. HD. PD. or skiing accident. the rest of the u-tube seemed quite accurate to me.
A mature and intelligent person (here a Man), will know and self-admit personal weaknesses and vunerabilities and still embrace his recognized good traits without false humility.
The way to instantly know your in the presents of a sigma male....He immediately makes strong eye contact the second you approach him and isn't distracted by the stupid things people do to draw attention to themselves. Looks directly in your face and says "can I help you with something?"...sigma ❤
When you try to avoid being categorized, yet others manage to label you anyway, it feels intrusive. Whatever the case, I hope this helps businesses better understand the significance of how we interact and operate socially.
Like the words you are saying. I walk as fast as i can in slow motion these days but my focus is so strong still like no time has passed and im stuck here for how long i dont know waiting for my legs to get stronger throw away this cane and rest upstate at the tail of the white mountain not far from moose lake
You will find me happy and cheerful in my own world 😎 I will welcome you into my world but I am always cautious of others and their intentions and I may slip away from your presence if our energies do not connect. I'm a lone wolf walking through the shadows of time.
For me it depends on the speed of my walk. If time is of no constraint and I am open to interaction with others then I will generally walk slower. Normal day to day is a much faster pace than others though.
Sigma alfa beta lol guys, just be yourself .. Don't let someone put you in box just because they think they know you better ..be yourself don't let anyone choose for you who you are
I had to chuckle at number 3 (They walk faster than average). That's me alright! I assumed I walk fast because of the excess energy I need to burn off with the fatty foods I eat! 😅
Your comment about walking speed ignores several key issues like physical handicaps, preferences of the moment, and injuries... all of which require people to move more slowly. Brian Couch
Wow. Spot on, mate. I never took much time to study this way to catalogue people (mostly cuz I do it anyway, on instinct), but I've known I'm a Sigma for years from the little I knew on the subject. I suppose these would have been more useful to establish relationships in childhood, though, without wondering why everyone else is different (bordering on stupid, in a way). High intelligence... can't stress it enough. As detective Monk states, "It's a gift, and a curse." Now.. anything on "which women types are attracted to Sigma males"? 😏
Those boasting that they are Sigma's should look at your end list of videos, with titles like 'Why Sigmas Are So Robotic' and 'Why People Hate Sigmas' and 'The Big Downside of Being a Sigma' (though Alphas have as many flaws, just different). All this is secondary, however, to being enlightened". *as defined by the philosophy that deals with broader survival
Where I work I’m driven mad when people speak to one another in a group and constantly yell, talk over one another and try to be funny at every moment. I know a lot have ADHD and I’m now at the point of trying to only speak to people one on one or I don’t bother engaging. I also enjoy solitary lunch breaks well away from co workers and as mentioned have lost patience with social interactions where people have no common courtesy and want to block em out well n truly.
wow how did you know about even simple thing like walking fast, I want to be in shadows and yet i walk very fast all my life, and i like to do work fast, if i cant do it fast i reserve that Task for later, to have a plan.
I find that I loathe group/team projects at work. They guarantee many unproductive meetings with people who yammer on and rudely talk over me. I much prefer solo projects where I can focus and accomplish and then move on.
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I am not sure it's respect that we attract, people not like us.
I do not and will not ever "like" a robot narrated video. If I'm not worth your time, then you are not worth mine.
Maybe I'm one lol
1. They walk alone. 2. They walk faster than the average person. 3. Strong personal boundaries. 4. They avoid the spotlight. 5. Extremely focused. 6. Unconventional routines. 7. Prefer listening instead of speaking. 8. Selective about social engagements.
Sigmas sound boring and the ones in this World you want to avoid. Yet these videos try to sell the virtues of being a Sigma.
That's me, 100%
I can certainly fit myself into this list.
@@BritishFreedom we arent here to entertain you. go find a toy little girl.
@@BritishFreedom i doubt a real sigma will like a person like you
Alone time =no drama.
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Privacy and solitude are most important to Sigma males !
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@@Sigma3095These organizations got us silenced, your freedom is a DELUSION!!!
and sigma females - that very rare creature
Fortunately my wife realized this about me years ago and had no problem with it at all. I would still go to the get togethers with her friends in the community despite not wanting to be there however those people seemed to enjoy having a person that didn't talk much and just listened to them. My wife made a comment years ago "If we were to ever get a divorce, you would be perfectly happy living in a small camper in the woods with nothing but a guitar and books", I had to agree. Relationships are fine with Sigma males if the woman understands what she is getting into and she understands that one of my favorite pastimes is to sit in a leather recliner at night in the dark living room listening to music, so she purchased a $1,200 set of SHURE headphones for me.
Lucky you. You found the perfect woman.
Lucky man. My wife, an ex-nurse, feels that people should know all about my health in case she dies and I need looking after. I love her, but she will not stop (and I'm in far better shape than she is.)
That's awesome. I have to explain all this to the wife. She didn't understand why I would act the way I did. This may help. Sometimes it would seem like I was insane to her, but now I understand
@@scottgagliardi5933 What is humorous is when my kids became older teenagers and didn't require parents around them is that when their friends would stop by that they think that it is "awesome" that their dad sits in the dark listening to music.
Every day i walk across town to work [about 40 minutes] and i walk home from work. Nobody i work with understands this because they all drive, so they think i'm weird because i walk. And i have been approached by strangers saying how fast i walk, but to me it's just my normal pace. I'm not walking fast, they're walking slow. I do have an unbreakable focus and i concentrate intensely on the task before me, but i do keep all my senses 'turned on', and i am aware of everything that is going on around me while i am focused. I hear every little sound but that still doesn't distract me from my task. And when i am walking, i observe all my surroundings. And even when i'm interrupted, when i am able to get back to my task, i can usually jump right in where i left off and refocus immediately.
I hear you.🇭🇲
I also walk to where I want to go. I love walking. It gives me peace of mind.
It's very healthy! 10k steps a day 👍👍 plus save on fuel
In my fitter days, I used to just mow the lawn, when I played Mr Mom to my then wife's autistic kids and we owned multiple properties. I'd mow on a rideon maybe 7.5- 10 acres per week just for that alone time. Was a no brain activity where I spent my "me time" whilst keeping things pristine. 😅
I too am always 'accused' of walking allegedly 'too fast' (for others, to keep pace), when that's just my regular pace to walk.
I'd sometimes rush from point to point - Some even said, I'd kick my forerunner in the heels from behind when getting upstairs together.
It's not me, it's _them_ *not* walking, but rather just saunter or stroll around, wasting time - To no surprise, I dislike wasting time just go slow.
Extremely good at problem solving
Point number 3 is intriguing. He need not be tall with a long stride! It's symbolic of how the sigma male does not believe in wasting time nor in being distracted while out in public.
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I used to walk fast until I realized the impact it does on me. If you have a plan and are organized, you needn't walk fast. It presents a calm and stoic behavior.
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What a Sigma truly carries is a deep moral code.🇭🇲
Agree 💯🫡
Absolutely.
I'm a rule follower. I hate it sometimes, but also gives me a feeling of integrity. Probably why I was OK as Submariner, lol
They hate taking orders.
Walking quickly through the store. That's me. I have to deal with all the lingerers. Drives me nuts.
Every point.. #3 Was a suprise, I'm known for being a faster walker and I look way younger than I am
Same here. I'm in my 50's but look like I'm 30 and I am a fast walker as well.
Walking with a purpose… if a sigma walks slow or normal speed, it is because they choose to (for a purpose)
Video resonates with me on a lot of points. What I've noticed with myself and my life is that there seems to be very very few sigma males anywhere I go. I haven't met anybody with my listening skill level yet.
Being private types, we could only recognize another Sigma if a) we knew about the Sigma type to start with and, b) we spent enough time with another person to be able to make that judgment. I do wonder where we all are.
I suggest that anyone who has good reason to justify including themselves as Sigma, get a Sigma tattoo on one wrist.
As I become older I am finding myself thinking more about why I am the way I am. I just started learning more about sigma male characters and they resonate with me too. I have always wondered why I don’t seem to be like most other people, and these kind of videos are enlightening.
i now have an answer for my different ways i could never explain . Spot on . Why have I never known this till now ? But yet I knew I was different ..
I am 80-90% of what you describe. I never heard of Sigma before your videos.
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Yes, I only became aware of sigma a couple years ago. It would have helped me understand so much had I learned this earlier.
(I am sigma and could not understand what was wrong with people.)
Welcome to the club mate!
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Me too
Of all the insights on this channel that are seriously spot on....The one that to laugh about is the walking speed. It's not the distance...it's the duration I just hate how long it takes. So I walk fast....but I'm not bored. There is so much to be done inside my head....I would rather walk alone than with someone so I can get things done.
and the quicker you get there the sooner the solitude, peace, and comfort happens.
Interesting. Never heard of Sigmas until a few videos popped up in my feed. I always thought of myself as a lone wolf. I never really cared what everyone else was doing or thinks. I can relate to everything in the video, especially the unique routines!
Same for me. I always thought I was just different, but it seems that I am not alone.
Yes to all of them except walking fast. I am in my mid 70's and I am no longer in a hurry to get anywhere...those days are long gone. As far as focusing yeah I can focus and do meditation and deep introspection alternately at the same time even while doing other things like cooking. It does get in the way when I am trying to learn or improve a new skill like playing billiards. That is the skill I am currently working on mastering and that is to turn off the focus for short times and turn it back on as needed. I am always looking to improve myself in a caring way. I am a Sigma and an INTJ that is working hard on becoming an ENTJ. I would say I am more than half way there. I have no problems with public speaking or sharing my knowledge with passion. It is hard because I find most people so boring and oblivious to the world around them and even though I know it is in my best interest to be extroverted too there just isn't much motivation. But my focus is my focus so onward I march.
Ok we don't need to know your story bro
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Then dont read it.
@@knowledgeispower3212Oh my. Wisdom is far more powerful.
I hope u drive in the right lane!
😎🔥🤣 This is Amazing Content!!! . . The Accuracy!!!!
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Ass kisser…
Slow walker here 💪
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Get a grip...😂
A true sigma is the one that is true to himself without following any specific ideas or concepts. I rattle be a slower walker and be true to myself instead of confirming ideas of concepts looking for reception of being a "sigma men"
How fake and pathetic some men have become nowadays 👆
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@@Nemura12 LOL i think u missed the point entirely doofus, these are Traits (not all) of a sigma male that is naturally encured, these are NOT steps for people to try to make themselves do, these are NATURAL traits of a sigma, what is it u dont understand??
Absolutely SPOT on, especially the "Walk Alone" part. ALWAYS love your posts. God bless
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Yes I liked the video. I didn't realise that I am a Sigma male until I saw this!
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@@Jamie-uj4br You're, but you're right.
1st time hearing this, while it’s nice to know I’m not so strange, I’m not sure what I do with the information. I’m happy, confident and centred being me.
I didn't know what a sigma was. I might be one. Thanks for the insight.
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Since these videos have become so popular, I've had numerous people (male & female) approaching me asking if I'm a sigma man.
Ironically it seems to always be while I'm reading in the corner of a coffee shop while dunking biscuits.
I divorced in 85. I remained single till 2015. I enjoyed living alone. No one to answer to. My time and my money were mine alone. It would be my choice when and who I would interact with. I had activities that kept me busy and I had friends to do things with. I played tennis 2 or 3 hours a day 5 times a week. In the later afternoons I would go yo the park to walk. In 2015 I decided to find a woman to grow old with. Life has been good.
Tend to agree with that one indeed. First realized that I am an INFJ some 15 years ago. Regularly check-in just to see if anything, or I, have changed. Other than occassionally scoring as an INTJ, in the frequence of 10-1, I am pretty much convinced it may stay that way thru the whole of my life.
I have read research papers that have studied if one may change personality in a more significant way, but results have showed thus far that; Yes, we can change to some extent, but rarely more than about 25% overall. And the 2 parameters that are most frequent in determining any significant change in our personality are spiritual growth (included beliefs) and/or a new partner (intimate relationship). But as mentioned rarely do we change more than 25%.
I find walking alone is the best solution to avoiding social people who want to be in a crowd to voice out whatever comes to them even without thinking before they speak.Me I value Peace and the alone syndrome.
Thank you, I feel better now !!!
I'm a sports fan. A Sigma Male, could be a basketball player, who doesn't have a big scoring ego, but silently takes pride in shutting down scorers on the other team. If such a player is usually a big scorer, and he holds that scorer to 5-6 points, Sigma Male basketball player is most proud.
I always thought of myself being a bit of a lone wolf and I don't care what people think 😊
I guess RUclips picked up my vibes😂 and centered me out as a 🚦 sigma I never knew even existed😅👍🏽
All 8 are right on what stroke me was the morning routine, that made laugh so hard, but everything is absolutely correct, thank you for another very insightful piece in this matter.
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Where do you find this information on this latest trend of this Sigma category
I've been seeing on the internet With accuracy over the past twelve months@@achievegreatnessmedia
This describes me to a T. When i was a kid people thought i was strange when i said i would be happiest if i lived on a deserted island
Sigma male here. We are not "weak." One reason why I avoid most people, and their disgusting behavior. I once told a guy, is it too much to ask to be a decent human being? He just started making more noise. Proving our point.
Zeta male here: Yes, very accurate! My mom is a Sigma and this is spot on her personality! We never walk together bc, well….she walks alone! Besides I’d have a hard time keeping up, as what defines Zeta is that we walk with a casual stroll. Sigmas are no joke!
Even tho im surrounded by others i walk alone. Been my mantra for most of my life
Lone wolf comes to mind
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One of my all time favorite rappers mentions a lot of this in his earlier songs. Rakim
7 out of 8 are correct.
however Listening is part of selective firends groups
when i feel comfortable i can talk alot because it's sharing my vision of my world which is vastly more broad.
A lot of chaos and i can't focus but just the right amount of chaos i can push some really foundational changes but it's cause effect and cost.
If you wanna avoid the spotlight you can't make splashes cos you atract the sharks in this world who gravidate to the energy because i think in my case they see the apperance and energy don't match and think they can just absorb or parasite in.
i would of put out side of he box thinking there but not every one who called them self a loaner/sigma are gonna be doing that. think the trauma of having such a wide field of events and reliving the past to explain the mirroring events and trauma that cause PTSD lock ups
Here is my health club Sigma-ishness: I was born in Seattle in 1973, Japanese-American, male and heterosexual. I belong to an upscale health club. I can pass for 37-38, because I have mostly black hair. I keep meticulous records of my monthly weightlifting quota, and my basketball shooting drills. Every long day that I'm at the club, I can be seen at one of the desks, for a good 30 minutes, looking at my hand-written notes, and transferring information to my Android. All the while, I look like "an NFL QB coach, sitting up in the booth" while doing that. And, I look totally calm and collected! I bet these women are wondering "What is that Sigma Male writing down and reading?"
Thanks ... You nailed this video ...
Them sigma males are badass!
Yes, I have all these traits and routinal habits listed, including the fast walking! I'm also considered serious. Is this a known trait of Sigmas?
OK. This is good. I need to work on #7.
Fast walk… I run… it’s more efficient and doubles as cardio. Time is short and I have things to do.
Listening is more efficient as well. Chiming in all the time only increases the total conversation length and creates the possibility of tangents. Id rather let you go without interruption so to give you one succinct response to end the conversation. And if I disagree I’ll keep my mouth shut if I know you’re too dense to take advice; can’t argue with a box of rocks. Then I can go back to being in my own head working on my problems. Small talk is absolute torture. I don’t care about fluff, even if you’re a beautiful woman. All I think about is how to get out of listening to it. Talk about things that matter not your feelings; suck it up.
I can see the motives behind your actions. After all, everything is done with intent and motive. Don’t butter me up because I know you want something from me and I’d rather you ask straight up for it. Don’t waste my time with shallow compliments.
If I take the time to listen to your crap then know that I really like you, and that’s rare. Don’t take me for granted.
I never do things for others expecting reciprocal favors. I do it because it makes me feel human.
I love animals; the dynamic of the bond is raw and simplistic. There’s no hidden agenda with animals only mutual benefit.
I’m an INTJ personality who happens to be ‘Virgo’ born in the year of the rat.
After reading alot of the comments, im glad to see im not the only one. Besides working. I don't get out much.
I've never felt so understood!
I have long standing debate of whether to be joiner or loner.
Joiners have power of the group, but i feel this adds a high risk of corruption to accept and give favors. It also can make you support groups that you may not agree with their ideals. I call them soldiers, for example many support democratic part right or wrong.
I am some where in between, i can work as part of team, but when task is over i drop association. I do speak much, especially if there is no strong leader or path forward. I speak too much, try to help others but i need to be more quiet
Here's an explaination to our need of loneliness you don't talk about : we are energy providers to others. Some people can suck out energy from people around them. We're the exact opposite of that. We provide energy to others.
We, as positive people, authentic listeners, have a positive effect on others : we tend to charge their batteries. Whereas we tend to charge our own batteries being alone. It's generally a trait found in introversion. And that's why we need being alone. It's an energy matter.
Interesting point. I never thought of myself in those terms, but you’re right.
The reality of the pace they create is dependent on their physical health. aside from M.S. HD. PD. or skiing accident. the rest of the u-tube seemed quite accurate to me.
I can relate to most of these except the part about being super focused on a task, my super A.D.D doesn't allow for that one.
Try using thc. Medical grade, not street. Works magic for me.
Yes very good explanation video 👏
Thank you!
I agree with most of the points, but Sigmas may talk more - but most everything is concise, clear and logical with little verbal dysentery.
it's me !
A mature and intelligent person (here a Man), will know and self-admit personal weaknesses and vunerabilities and still embrace his recognized good traits without false humility.
I am like this. Most say I am a bit strange😂. Maybe I am cool after all?😂
Solitude ❤.
Every point resonates with me.
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The way to instantly know your in the presents of a sigma male....He immediately makes strong eye contact the second you approach him and isn't distracted by the stupid things people do to draw attention to themselves. Looks directly in your face and says "can I help you with something?"...sigma ❤
That is a perfect description of me.
When you try to avoid being categorized, yet others manage to label you anyway, it feels intrusive. Whatever the case, I hope this helps businesses better understand the significance of how we interact and operate socially.
Like the words you are saying. I walk as fast as i can in slow motion these days but my focus is so strong still like no time has passed and im stuck here for how long i dont know waiting for my legs to get stronger throw away this cane and rest upstate at the tail of the white mountain not far from moose lake
100% right
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Spot on.
You will find me happy and cheerful in my own world 😎 I will welcome you into my world but I am always cautious of others and their intentions and I may slip away from your presence if our energies do not connect.
I'm a lone wolf walking through the shadows of time.
Thank you once again dead on!!
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These are the types I like.
Agreed!
Sorry team, the majority of sigma come out of the INTJ / INFJ traits.. This is why Sigma are so rare.
Nailed it!
The one who's always get INTJ result didn't believe in MBTI. Delulu
What about INTP
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For me it depends on the speed of my walk. If time is of no constraint and I am open to interaction with others then I will generally walk slower. Normal day to day is a much faster pace than others though.
I thought I was not normal, I guess I am a sigma man.
Normal is so boring
Im practicing no 7.
Never heard of the walking faster one, I call bs. I am definitely a Sigma, but people always say I walk slowly. It is because we are laid back.
Thank you now i am sigma
Lessons in pain and ressurgence. Always learning, for a better brighter Future.
Sigma alfa beta lol guys, just be yourself .. Don't let someone put you in box just because they think they know you better ..be yourself don't let anyone choose for you who you are
Absolutely brother 💯
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I don't think much of this label, but I do find these characteristics familiar. Maybe someone I know or have met.
Im like the female version .I like yo read so if I go anywhere I carry my book all the time and will read it.
Again, 100% correct. Dam, who are you?
I had to chuckle at number 3 (They walk faster than average). That's me alright! I assumed I walk fast because of the excess energy I need to burn off with the fatty foods I eat! 😅
Seriously? You're gonna bombard us with tons of ads through this short video? Wow, too much.
You got it 👍
Your comment about walking speed ignores several key issues like physical handicaps, preferences of the moment, and injuries... all of which require people to move more slowly.
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Wow. Spot on, mate. I never took much time to study this way to catalogue people (mostly cuz I do it anyway, on instinct), but I've known I'm a Sigma for years from the little I knew on the subject. I suppose these would have been more useful to establish relationships in childhood, though, without wondering why everyone else is different (bordering on stupid, in a way). High intelligence... can't stress it enough. As detective Monk states, "It's a gift, and a curse."
Now.. anything on "which women types are attracted to Sigma males"? 😏
Can't hate when alone!
Those boasting that they are Sigma's should look at your end list of videos, with titles like 'Why Sigmas Are So Robotic' and 'Why People Hate Sigmas' and 'The Big Downside of Being a Sigma' (though Alphas have as many flaws, just different). All this is secondary, however, to being enlightened".
*as defined by the philosophy that deals with broader survival
totally 🥰
I am 52 but I have people guessing I am early 40’s, I walk really fast. Interesting.
I agree.
that is me 100%
Weird. I always walk kind of fast. Faster than the rest of the crowd. But I'm almost never in a hurry.
I worked at a place that called me a possible danger, because i eat alone, i just wanna eat man, not talk and being watched. ^^
Where I work I’m driven mad when people speak to one another in a group and constantly yell, talk over one another and try to be funny at every moment. I know a lot have ADHD and I’m now at the point of trying to only speak to people one on one or I don’t bother engaging. I also enjoy solitary lunch breaks well away from co workers and as mentioned have lost patience with social interactions where people have no common courtesy and want to block em out well n truly.
I don’t think the Joker in Joaquin Phoenix is the best person to show up while I’m scrolling.
I match all of these except I speak as much as I listen.
i dont want fast. i actually always take my time, even if i am late.
wow how did you know about even simple thing like walking fast, I want to be in shadows and yet i walk very fast all my life, and i like to do work fast, if i cant do it fast i reserve that Task for later, to have a plan.
I find that I loathe group/team projects at work. They guarantee many unproductive meetings with people who yammer on and rudely talk over me. I much prefer solo projects where I can focus and accomplish and then move on.
I've noticed folks that eat fast work fast.