I escape social events, can’t stand small talk, not a fan of cameras, I’ll pull a stupid face rather than pose like some gimp, never follow the status quo’s of society.
This seems to describe me exactly. So much so, It’s hard to believe this is not some sort of internet BS where an algorithm picks the most common traits for most personalties and labels them “Sigma”, “Theta”, or what ever; making us think that we’re being described exactly.
I'm a 61-year-old Sigma and these are far from common traits among people. However, it's easier for us to recognise our uncommon natures, given one's life is dominated by the failure to socialise like the norm. I have an Alpha male who is my oldest friend and while many tend to misunderstand me since they assume my motivations are the same as my best friend. Nothing could be further from the truth. The amount of observation and consideration behind my way of thinking about everything actually makes the gulf between us greatest. My friend thinks we are the same, and he fails utterly to get me, even after 45 years. He rejects my own explanations for myself for his own reflected ideas. We may live through the same day, but his experience of that day will amount to a single sentence. My own day would take an encyclopedia size summary by contrast.
I'd considered similarly. Circa coining Incel as a term & it's addition to the culture wars lexicon , Alphas & Betas was predominantly the only other two descriptors in use . Then Sigma personality type clips started popping up . Cynically I thought the subject matter would be curated to delude the Beta type that he was in fact not Beta but a moody & emotionally irrational Alpha ...for no other purpose than marketing & RUclips clout - I mean Beta's aren't going to watch clips about being Beta huh . Some of the Sigma topic clips have been very insightful and revealing for me , a pleasant change . Though it does seem the band wagon is being jumped upon now ... As happened with concepts of traditionalism... As is happening now with the revitalised attitudes towards stoicism...but without the stoicism 🤔😆
Esoteric knowledge is what I find fascinating... all other conversations are boring... that's why I don't watch the "NEWS" or TV in general... I identify with everything described here.
Unwittingly become the referee in others stupidity. When all you want is to be left alone. Drawing broken people like a magnet. People who want to unload their problems. Even if you just meet them. I mean just that day?
Being a sigma is not for most. Your mind never shuts down. You don't rely on anybody. And most humans could never handle the loneliness that a sigma deals with but we don't look at it as lonely we just got to escape from you humans you drive us nuts. Holy Spirit of Humanity
@ScoobieSnacks164 When most think your strange because we see more then other. We try to help but most just want attention. And 90% of them never want the truth. So it's easier just to be alone but knowing that everything is alive really means that you're never alone. I just choose more peaceful friends like the woods like the lakes like the rivers like pets.
@chrishicks8347 it's an inner strength as well. When you don't need validation bc you are comfortable with who you are and at peace with yourself and surroundings people try and tear you down. It's the quiet confidence that scares people
I’m not familiar with this type of personality. As much as I enjoy being part of a brotherhood I never felt the need to stand out in a group. I enjoy my dogs company over most people. I don’t crave or need validation. I won’t waste my time explaining how you have done wrong to me and you won’t get a second chance to repeat it. I enjoy the company of a group but can walk away from it easily enough.
and here i was thinking it's just i! talking of those real conversations, if i don't get another one soon...... but, i do have a question for You, especially considering the times we are living in... forget money, it really is not what we think, happy to analyse it with You but that is not the question, forget money because for one it just isn't that old, so the question is what is the actual root of all evil?
Well.... it seems... yes....all of them ... and... live far from anybody ( i do it in a mountain house few kilometers away from any neighbour or village) . Got really silent when ungry... afraid of get mad... do not care a shit about other people opinions or questions about my peculiar way to live....
Even though I seem to have a connection to most all of these examples I detest the fact that you would try to label me as any every any day group of people...piss off and dont try to analyze me or I will lay you to waste...
Fake people in the vicinity dictates most behavior. Social skill isn't the problem, at all. It's the fakes that draw out the extremely dominant side that you would LOVE to avoid unless needed for good that concerns...real Sigma. Real Stoicism
The first 1 just say every sigma does this i dont like that. but the second is spot on for me all the other sigma clips i watched also 90% is spot on but saying all of them are exactly the same or do the same exact behaviour i dont agree
there are no way that these generalizations will be for every person. There is a range of sigma behavior. it's more like most sigma males exhibit this behavior. Sadly i'd say i'm a sigma with a bit of Beta thrown in due to the co-dependent mother i had and my ex wife.
@@marvthedog1972 there are like 100s of these clips and 90% is exactly me even having a horrible childhood but always 1 of them is like nah im not that
I use emojies to emphasize the intended emotions in my texts... since I tend to be blunt, direct and/or sarcastic. Because people misunderstand my intent or meaning quite frequently, I also use emojies in an attempt to avoid the need to waste time on clarification. They take things to heart that are simply a joke or an observation.
hmm the dredded small talk, mindless drivel about nothing of importance. High intelligence needs stimulation not drivel We are not interested in looks or being self obsessed with looks. Dogs had four during my life they don't supply drama, humans sap energy. Texting without an emoji, concise clear fast communications.
no.. they're not introverted. they are more than willing to stand up and give a presentation or lead a team. They just don't do it with the "LOOK AT ME" mindset that Alphas do. they don't care about the popularity. Maybe instead of criticizing something, you should educate yourself more on a topic.
@marvthedog1972 I'm an intj.... I'm always boss.... always have been... so I'll say it again...... this describes.... to a tee.... an intj not some stupid sigma title. So so wanky.
Rubbish. Try harder to understand, because your failure to do so is not serving you well. Maybe you're just quite simple. A simpleton. That's OK. My best mate, of 45 years, is a simpleton. Dumb as a fencepost but he's honest and doesn't seek to take advantage of me. However, there's no way he could wrap his mind around the concepts being discussed here. Being simple, his reaction to anything new, and not previously known, is rejection. It's OK. We manage what we can. It's still best not to reject ideas held by many people, on the basis of your own experience. Exploring new ideas exercises the mind and facilitates understanding. We keep going until doors of recognition are opened. It's an interesting concept. Namely that a boneheaded Alpha which you come across as, might evolve mentally with exercise.
@@ericwilliams8504 You're a thickheaded, simple-minded Alpha. Your ability to avoid expanding your mind relies on that stubborn dog in a manger attitude to anything new. You are a wanker. You won't be boss the day you try your Alpha show with me. You're not equipped to compete in the event the task requires intelligence and circumspection.
Are you one of the UNIQUE individuals known as Sigma?
Comment down below if you are.
Tell us what weird things you do.
@@PsychBuzzy all the clips I have seen I am like 90% spot on
I avoid being comfortable….physically, mentally or spiritually.
“ nothing evolves in a comfort zone“
I hate shaking hands of each person in a group, not that am proud or anything like that
I escape social events, can’t stand small talk, not a fan of cameras, I’ll pull a stupid face rather than pose like some gimp, never follow the status quo’s of society.
I dislike being photograph no matter the occasion, long conversation, my dog is a better friend than most people
Agreed and mines a wolf. I don’t mind being different. It suits me 😊
Yup. What he said.
I don't like people taking pictures of me .
Right there with you, I will not allow my photo to be taken, haven't for years now. My dog is also my best friend.
I do not own a pet, but I don't think it's a coincidence that many a pet - dog or cat - owned by other people I know has taken to me.
My dogs are truly angels sent to help my journey in this world . animals are amazing gifts from god .
This seems to describe me exactly. So much so, It’s hard to believe this is not some sort of internet BS where an algorithm picks the most common traits for most personalties and labels them “Sigma”, “Theta”, or what ever; making us think that we’re being described exactly.
I'm a 61-year-old Sigma and these are far from common traits among people. However, it's easier for us to recognise our uncommon natures, given one's life is dominated by the failure to socialise like the norm. I have an Alpha male who is my oldest friend and while many tend to misunderstand me since they assume my motivations are the same as my best friend. Nothing could be further from the truth. The amount of observation and consideration behind my way of thinking about everything actually makes the gulf between us greatest. My friend thinks we are the same, and he fails utterly to get me, even after 45 years. He rejects my own explanations for myself for his own reflected ideas. We may live through the same day, but his experience of that day will amount to a single sentence. My own day would take an encyclopedia size summary by contrast.
I'd considered similarly. Circa coining Incel as a term & it's addition to the culture wars lexicon , Alphas & Betas was predominantly the only other two descriptors in use .
Then Sigma personality type clips started popping up .
Cynically I thought the subject matter would be curated to delude the Beta type that he was in fact not Beta but a moody & emotionally irrational Alpha ...for no other purpose than marketing & RUclips clout - I mean Beta's aren't going to watch clips about being Beta huh .
Some of the Sigma topic clips have been very insightful and revealing for me , a pleasant change .
Though it does seem the band wagon is being jumped upon now ... As happened with concepts of traditionalism... As is happening now with the revitalised attitudes towards stoicism...but without the stoicism 🤔😆
I’m my fathers son 100%.. Born on his birthday, Jan 7th, same rare blood type……and we are 100% rare Sigma!
And both of you havee very high iq? There are jo sigmas with low iq.
Esoteric knowledge is what I find fascinating... all other conversations are boring... that's why I don't watch the "NEWS" or TV in general... I identify with everything described here.
Amazing. Good to know fellow sigma here.
Unwittingly become the referee in others stupidity. When all you want is to be left alone. Drawing broken people like a magnet. People who want to unload their problems. Even if you just meet them. I mean just that day?
Being a sigma is not for most. Your mind never shuts down. You don't rely on anybody. And most humans could never handle the loneliness that a sigma deals with but we don't look at it as lonely we just got to escape from you humans you drive us nuts. Holy Spirit of Humanity
Never met another person that's happy to be on their own. Everyone I know is extrovert
@ScoobieSnacks164 I prefer being alone. I always have.
@chrishicks8347 same. Ever since childhood people couldn't understand
@ScoobieSnacks164 When most think your strange because we see more then other. We try to help but most just want attention. And 90% of them never want the truth. So it's easier just to be alone but knowing that everything is alive really means that you're never alone. I just choose more peaceful friends like the woods like the lakes like the rivers like pets.
@chrishicks8347 it's an inner strength as well. When you don't need validation bc you are comfortable with who you are and at peace with yourself and surroundings people try and tear you down. It's the quiet confidence that scares people
There's always a method behind the so called madness.
simple well said, i liked it
How about if you never go to social gatherings?
even better❤
Thanks!
I’m not familiar with this type of personality. As much as I enjoy being part of a brotherhood I never felt the need to stand out in a group. I enjoy my dogs company over most people. I don’t crave or need validation. I won’t waste my time explaining how you have done wrong to me and you won’t get a second chance to repeat it. I enjoy the company of a group but can walk away from it easily enough.
I often wonder do non sigmas even know that such a person exists,and there lies the confusion in people that the sigmas must continually navigate
nope.. because Alphas are too busy making everyone look at them and Betas are too busy bowing to everyone's wishes...
@@darrensmith9182 prob not alpha and beta is all they know
"Interpretation of a sigma, by non sima people...."
And just for good measure....😂😂❤
Every building I enter, I look for the exits and the bathroom.
6:13 cats purr with no hidden agendas 😂 she always wnats food
and here i was thinking it's just i!
talking of those real conversations, if i don't get another one soon......
but, i do have a question for You, especially considering the times we are living in...
forget money, it really is not what we think, happy to analyse it with You but that is not the question, forget money because for one it just isn't that old, so the question is what is the actual root of all evil?
Always thought these traits were a sign of eccentricity
Is there a sigma female?
Well.... it seems... yes....all of them ... and... live far from anybody ( i do it in a mountain house few kilometers away from any neighbour or village) . Got really silent when ungry... afraid of get mad... do not care a shit about other people opinions or questions about my peculiar way to live....
Straight up stoic sigma. Take it or leave it. SSM out...
Even though I seem to have a connection to most all of these examples I detest the fact that you would try to label me as any every any day group of people...piss off and dont try to analyze me or I will lay you to waste...
Yes. Hear here
Haha i dont have instagrem..but i m da lion here
I'm sigma, and all of this is true.
Fake people in the vicinity dictates most behavior. Social skill isn't the problem, at all. It's the fakes that draw out the extremely dominant side that you would LOVE to avoid unless needed for good that concerns...real Sigma. Real Stoicism
Ah, not so much...
I hate popularity.Im glad I like being alone.Small talk.Talk me about something interesting.
The first 1 just say every sigma does this i dont like that. but the second is spot on for me all the other sigma clips i watched also 90% is spot on but saying all of them are exactly the same or do the same exact behaviour i dont agree
there are no way that these generalizations will be for every person. There is a range of sigma behavior. it's more like most sigma males exhibit this behavior. Sadly i'd say i'm a sigma with a bit of Beta thrown in due to the co-dependent mother i had and my ex wife.
@@marvthedog1972 for sure thats what im saying but the dude in the clip is like this is exactly what all of them do
@@marvthedog1972 there are like 100s of these clips and 90% is exactly me even having a horrible childhood but always 1 of them is like nah im not that
So not true about emoji.
I use emojies to emphasize the intended emotions in my texts... since I tend to be blunt, direct and/or sarcastic.
Because people misunderstand my intent or meaning quite frequently, I also use emojies in an attempt to avoid the need to waste time on clarification.
They take things to heart that are simply a joke or an observation.
hmm the dredded small talk, mindless drivel about nothing of importance. High
intelligence needs stimulation not drivel We are not interested in looks or being self obsessed with looks.
Dogs had four during my life they don't supply drama, humans sap energy. Texting without an emoji, concise clear fast communications.
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As if other people realize they are talking to sigma or ecen what that is
Sigma here.
Pretty spot on.
@@DanGoodman-n4b 🤣🤣🤣🤣
awe man... , ya lost mee@no e'mojGeez 😒🤣🤣🤣😁
Someone let my "Puuty-Putty",... Go away.... Farkin' shame.
😇 I 😇 AM 😇 AFFIRMING 😇 IT 😇 IN 😇 JESUS 😇 NAME 😇 AMEN 😇
No, it is because we hate others
The Sigma is the dog.
Insane weird?
Those who blatantly say that they are a sigma...is not a sigma 😮😂
🐂
Rubbish! Most people are like this. Sigma males hate labels
Bullshit, most people are not like this.
Never heard so much sh it in my life..sounds like a woke approach to give you lot a new standing point. Lets place a t in sigma
I’m not sigma. Maybe a narcissist. Guys who say they are sigma are not. Like wearing a sons of anarchy vest and calling yourself a biker.
Sigma =aspergers
@@1cdmap you are ass burgers
I was just about to say, isn’t the video describing traits of autism?
You are describing introverted men, what is this sigma label crap..... it's stupid
no.. they're not introverted. they are more than willing to stand up and give a presentation or lead a team. They just don't do it with the "LOOK AT ME" mindset that Alphas do. they don't care about the popularity. Maybe instead of criticizing something, you should educate yourself more on a topic.
@marvthedog1972 I'm an intj.... I'm always boss.... always have been... so I'll say it again...... this describes.... to a tee.... an intj not some stupid sigma title.
So so wanky.
@@ericwilliams8504 cool bro
Rubbish. Try harder to understand, because your failure to do so is not serving you well. Maybe you're just quite simple. A simpleton. That's OK. My best mate, of 45 years, is a simpleton. Dumb as a fencepost but he's honest and doesn't seek to take advantage of me. However, there's no way he could wrap his mind around the concepts being discussed here. Being simple, his reaction to anything new, and not previously known, is rejection. It's OK. We manage what we can. It's still best not to reject ideas held by many people, on the basis of your own experience. Exploring new ideas exercises the mind and facilitates understanding. We keep going until doors of recognition are opened. It's an interesting concept. Namely that a boneheaded Alpha which you come across as, might evolve mentally with exercise.
@@ericwilliams8504 You're a thickheaded, simple-minded Alpha. Your ability to avoid expanding your mind relies on that stubborn dog in a manger attitude to anything new. You are a wanker. You won't be boss the day you try your Alpha show with me. You're not equipped to compete in the event the task requires intelligence and circumspection.
Irish goodbye