What To Do When A Girl Looks At You! (easy)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  Год назад +91

    Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta
    Thank you for watching and have a great week!
    --AC

    • @shusuilow
      @shusuilow Год назад +1

      Let's help Mr beast surpassed t series

    • @Limitless_Doom
      @Limitless_Doom 9 месяцев назад +1

      does this work on a 25 yo woman that you just door dashed too near 40 yo and having gained 100+ pounds and she's as hot as the woman you dated at 25?
      yo = years old

  • @Ziggle-ky9kv
    @Ziggle-ky9kv 7 месяцев назад +748

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @adominus1096
      @adominus1096 6 месяцев назад +27

      i saw this comment on a Hamza video. Is this bot marketing for the book or smth?

    • @attofit
      @attofit 6 месяцев назад

      @@adominus1096prob just a bot scam

    • @マ刀マムア
      @マ刀マムア 6 месяцев назад

      Which video ​@@adominus1096

    • @AnoNymous-bm5cq
      @AnoNymous-bm5cq 4 месяца назад

      @@adominus1096could be

  • @josephnorris4095
    @josephnorris4095 Год назад +330

    You are basically describing a warm approach, where she has already opened the door for you and you just have to confidently walk through. Also, having no outcome expectations and knowing what you like on a personal level it critical.

    • @romanchaikovskyi2537
      @romanchaikovskyi2537 Год назад +14

      Well, yeah, Alex literally implies that in case of failure it doesn’t matter, and he is not wrong. But there are many guys who are very not ready and avoiding that failure at all costs. So you have to deal with overcoming this anxiety first.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +26

      Great way to put it!

    • @akshanshalawa6519
      @akshanshalawa6519 Год назад

      Oh

    • @JoshuaKhup
      @JoshuaKhup 11 месяцев назад

      Remove your shirt and start flexing your muscles.

    • @rohitht619
      @rohitht619 4 месяца назад

      .
      😮

  • @israelj.7677
    @israelj.7677 Год назад +2143

    Its simple...run away as fast as possible

  • @mrmajestical
    @mrmajestical Год назад +54

    I love how this dude still reads most comments and tries to engage and help others

  • @Fullblown671
    @Fullblown671 Год назад +409

    When it's time she gives you her digits, say her number back to her with saying one or two wrong digits. If she's genuinely into you, she'll correct you.

  • @SombreroBeanieHat
    @SombreroBeanieHat Год назад +390

    Girl: looks & smiles ☺️
    Guy: Smiles back 😌
    Girl: 😐

  • @psfinancials9001
    @psfinancials9001 Год назад +71

    My experience says that if a girl seeing you and you like her stay calm , humble , comfortable and make eye contact for 5 seconds or 10 seconds then genuinely break it by smile.

    • @bruteforceman2311
      @bruteforceman2311 Год назад +7

      Its works bro 😂😂😂

    • @speed999-uj5kr
      @speed999-uj5kr Год назад +18

      ​@@bruteforceman2311 did u try it on your cousin ?!

    • @bruteforceman2311
      @bruteforceman2311 Год назад

      @@speed999-uj5kr no bro, I try it on my juniors and i guess it works perfectly. I think they like confident guys.

    • @XENO___404
      @XENO___404 Год назад

      ​@@speed999-uj5kr😂😂

    • @Animesh_Chaturvedi
      @Animesh_Chaturvedi Год назад

      ​@@speed999-uj5krlmfao

  • @rexbobby6406
    @rexbobby6406 Год назад +72

    People in the 1970s: "How incredible will the world be in 50 years! I bet there'll be flying cars everywhere."
    People in 2023: "Please teach me how to look at other people."

    • @TheLoneLander
      @TheLoneLander Год назад +3

      Fr

    • @SartorialisticSavage65
      @SartorialisticSavage65 Год назад +2

      Hahahahahahahahahaha
      Granted, men back then dealt with different women too. Post 1962 women to be exact.

  • @amandubey5287
    @amandubey5287 Год назад +18

    Alex bro you a real one for this one. I think I understand the mistakes I made last time with her. When I think about it now, even tho it's been months now. I made her cringe so hard she went back to her home town. But never again. Thanks for this.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +4

      You got this- stay up!

  • @rapidfireplayz
    @rapidfireplayz Год назад +35

    I've been doing a lot of work on myself health and confidence-wise. I've lost 20lbs so far since July just with diet change(I'm starting the gym again tomorrow). And I can start and hold convo with random strangers when I'm at the park drawing or at the store. I've been talking and texting for a couple weeks with this girl I have liked since last year(she's in one of my art classes for college rn). I asked her out today and she didn't say no, but she's busy with work and school so we're going to find a day that works. I met her friends today(even they can't get her out ). We were all talking and it came up where she called me "her bestie." Don't get me wrong, I'm happy we're cool even after I asked her out bc I don't want to lose her as a friend, but my intentions were clear and that's what she said. I honestly don't know what to make of it. Did I go to far in the friend zone? Like what do I do now?

    • @karan_gtt
      @karan_gtt Год назад +5

      Try getting more close to her and more physical touch

    • @blindbhet
      @blindbhet Год назад +5

      I wouldn't do any "friend" things. But sometimes women will call their crush "bestie". You gotta feel her out... I would definitely flirt with her, not in a creepy way, just a harmless, boyish way. My 2 cents. Good luck, King

    • @rapidfireplayz
      @rapidfireplayz Год назад

      @@blindbhet @karan_gtt Thanks boys. We're still texting every day, and I took your all's advice and I think it's working. Spent the day with her on Thursday after class, and by the end of the day I walked her to her car and we shared a long hug. And I've been flirting here and there, and her the same. We're having breakfast on Tuesday.

    • @engineeringka14da
      @engineeringka14da Год назад

      Most likely you've been friend-zoned. There might still be hope but just go with the flow without envisioning anything (so you will not be heartbroken when things don't go your way) and if it's in your destiny you you might win her interest

    • @rgreaper
      @rgreaper Год назад +2

      if youre stuck in the friendzone make it clear you dont want a friendship, and that you want a relationship be direct and if she doesnt want that then tell her to call you if she changes her mind walk away and never contact her again

  • @shivbadgujar7782
    @shivbadgujar7782 Год назад +25

    This is called some high quality content.

  • @Random.sachen1
    @Random.sachen1 5 месяцев назад +5

    It's very cute when I feel the guy is nervous 😚 I have zero problem if a handsome guy feels nervous because I'm looking at him. It doesn't make him less confident in my eyes.

    • @Xeanaa
      @Xeanaa 5 месяцев назад +4

      You Understand Us, We Do This Not To Make Girls Uncomfortable.

    • @johentertainment5292
      @johentertainment5292 22 дня назад

      Key word handsome 😅

    • @Random.sachen1
      @Random.sachen1 22 дня назад

      @@johentertainment5292 yea ofcourse

  • @BerishaFatian
    @BerishaFatian Год назад +40

    I look away after holding eye contact for two seconds, not because I panic, but because I feel like it makes look like a creep.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +15

      Most of us do! It can be very confusing

  • @salhimoussa4930
    @salhimoussa4930 Месяц назад +5

    Don't be shy guys, go to talk to the girl if she looks at you, you will regret not doing that when you get older and no women do that to you again.

    • @ansleythompson5473
      @ansleythompson5473 14 дней назад

      Say what age is not just a number clearly its a word ,and I can count $1milli $2milli $3millii 4
      $5milli $6milli $7million more 😉

  • @HritvikShinde
    @HritvikShinde Год назад +28

    Simple, When a girl looks at us just give a sign of rejection with a weird look bcoz if we just change the roles here,a girl will be intimidated and might call us creepo. So, just give the taste of their own medicine. Thank You

  • @roshinm7513
    @roshinm7513 5 месяцев назад +9

    Some wise man said - Dont try to be someone you are not.

  • @JackWasntGone
    @JackWasntGone Год назад +4

    Honestly, I just do the headnod and move on. Not a single thought about beign shy or whatsnot. Time is precious and im not wasting it on speculating what if scenarios if she likes me or not.

  • @gamingwithbaadshah6604
    @gamingwithbaadshah6604 Год назад +21

    Thanks for giving us those tips in just simple words ❤ love you brother.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +8

      My pleasure, thank you for watching!

  • @TwoSOS
    @TwoSOS Год назад +6

    That editing style is really impressive

  • @CoREeu
    @CoREeu Год назад +9

    Just smile and wave boys, smile and wave.

  • @thedarkknight0710
    @thedarkknight0710 Год назад +15

    Damn, you just read my mind, I was thinking 'bout this 2 hours ago and there, your video comes up at the right time

  • @deveanshmaheshwari9148
    @deveanshmaheshwari9148 Год назад +45

    You always come with new and practical life solution. Thank you Alex!

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +4

      Thank you so much!

    • @Ronaldo-pq7oh
      @Ronaldo-pq7oh Год назад

      ​@@alexcosta how should i approach the girl i like but she doesnt know me

    • @shusuilow
      @shusuilow Год назад

      Mr beast has 204 million subscribers let's help him surpassed the series

    • @shusuilow
      @shusuilow Год назад

      T series*

  • @rohanquinn
    @rohanquinn Год назад +25

    I always sprint up to her, make myself big and loud to assert dominance, I call it the Silverback Gorilla technique. Works every time.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +29

      I tried that and now I’m commenting from prison

    • @rohanquinn
      @rohanquinn Год назад +6

      @@alexcosta I should’ve specified it only works in England 😂

  • @yeaa_laksh
    @yeaa_laksh Год назад +5

    that's another lifesaver man
    Phew.

  • @jaasielgonzalez1424
    @jaasielgonzalez1424 Год назад +24

    Solid honest advice Alex. We appreciate you

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much!

    • @shusuilow
      @shusuilow Год назад

      Help Mr beast beat t series

  • @nerdtom4513
    @nerdtom4513 11 месяцев назад +4

    Whats funny is that the same exact thing happened with me today and first thing I did is immediately broke eye contact. After I reached home, this video was recommended to me😂

  • @schallexx599
    @schallexx599 Месяц назад +1

    How should one react when wanting to show that they appreciate the looks and find the person attractive as well, but don't want to start a conversation (because they're in a relationship)? I have the feeling that there's an expectation when you smile back or hold eye contact, and the women may be even more disappointed if you don't approach them and continue flirting. But completely ignoring them feels rude too.

  • @raffieb762
    @raffieb762 7 месяцев назад +2

    I usually just flip them off, works every time!

  • @ranggaajibaskara1809
    @ranggaajibaskara1809 Год назад +1

    A woman stare at me recently. When I tried to chit chat a little bit to deliver a document necessary for her, it actually her colleague who responded. I smiled a little. Quite interesting unorthodox situation

  • @Sono_India
    @Sono_India Год назад +4

    Run for your life and never look back . The time is difficult . Period !!

  • @jamesrick7351
    @jamesrick7351 5 месяцев назад +3

    if she doesn't look away then you have a extremely awkward staring contest

  • @sakshamkharbanda6426
    @sakshamkharbanda6426 Год назад +6

    Alex you are killing it every time ❤❤😊😊

  • @Xeanaa
    @Xeanaa 5 месяцев назад +2

    Most sensible Comment Section who have tried it actually instead of saying that,
    Be confident and not shy etc.
    When you will do this as i have done this it is quite creepy tbh, As you are just making her uncomfortable.
    And If you move away you're shy, And if you look you're Annoying and creepy, and if possible she will call everyone and tell you that eve teasing was happening, I 've literally seen this that's why i am telling you.

  • @madlensheridan3561
    @madlensheridan3561 10 месяцев назад +1

    This video is very amusing to watch as a girl

  • @ignaciolopez3599
    @ignaciolopez3599 Год назад +1

    Can you make a video about Fragance brands and their dangerous chemical components that are bad for the body and testosterone? And maybe also safe and healthy fragance brands suggestions!

  • @mikesavio25
    @mikesavio25 Год назад +3

    Yo Alex it's not about what you look at it's about what you see. Ever thought about that Alex? Don't give up on searching for true love.

  • @drsurya-hu5bo
    @drsurya-hu5bo Год назад +3

    Let me give you the best advice... Keep doing what you are doing.. and then leave. If you wanna check her out do it and then leave.. respect your time..
    Focus on your job or business
    Let them chase you
    Be the prize 🏆.

  • @mmursalin07
    @mmursalin07 Год назад +2

    Should've known this some days earlier 😭😭😭

  • @CrimsonUniverse22
    @CrimsonUniverse22 Год назад +1

    The only time women look at me is the classic, “I was just looking in your general direction, and happened to lock eyes with you” moment.

  • @septo3466
    @septo3466 Год назад +16

    Step 0: have a girl look at you

  • @greylaser
    @greylaser 3 месяца назад

    "Approach with confidence "👀

  • @shivanshsuryan3112
    @shivanshsuryan3112 Год назад +8

    Nice work man really appreciate it👏🏻

  • @rare_but_11
    @rare_but_11 Год назад +1

    As an introvert I could say this is easy fr

  • @VinaySingh-n1u
    @VinaySingh-n1u 11 месяцев назад +1

    if a girl looks at you ignore her bro she will drain your energy just focus on your goal..

  • @xaralamposloumani6867
    @xaralamposloumani6867 Год назад +1

    stay focused!!!! become rich!!!

  • @KynaHere
    @KynaHere 5 месяцев назад

    OMGGG TY I HAVE BEEN LOOKING AT GIRLS LOOKING SHY

  • @metanoba4099
    @metanoba4099 Год назад +4

    Boot collection video? Can’t wait to see the meaning behind your finished leg tattoo looks amazing!!

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад +1

      Creating more footwear content soon!

  • @mdfahim8249
    @mdfahim8249 Год назад +5

    What about if I'm ugly!! 😅

  • @zamlihazeem8449
    @zamlihazeem8449 Год назад

    Yes. Getting Chocolate cake is the dream!

  • @Thewrong_ghost
    @Thewrong_ghost 6 месяцев назад

    This is my first time seeing this guy and I gotta tell you, he has a phenomenal jawline 🤑

  • @OliverAnderson-zn8xc
    @OliverAnderson-zn8xc 4 месяца назад +1

    I don’t look at all and when I don’t look I won’t know who looks at me

  • @anirudhsai2115
    @anirudhsai2115 Год назад +6

    Damn that's a cool jacket, love it .❤

  • @Inquisitor96
    @Inquisitor96 Год назад +3

    Fire Jacket Alex🔥which one is that?

  • @jaedonnaidu
    @jaedonnaidu Год назад +3

    Love this new style of video

  • @ashfakahmad4232
    @ashfakahmad4232 Год назад

    Welcome back with new look bro 😎

  • @user-ei7ed6zy9k
    @user-ei7ed6zy9k Год назад +6

    I need a second to look away so I can day dream about us 18 years from now sending our child off to college

  • @niksananiksanov6777
    @niksananiksanov6777 Год назад +3

    All true as long as the women who are staring/looking even if its constantly are not mothers in real life,having boyfriends at the same time or having whore attitude,which is my case from past work environment and gym. And when i say bad types of women its literally. In such scenario no eye contacts,nor smiles,nothing, staying away from the low-quality types and keeping your head up and never by any means looking away. Like they are literally non-existent.
    Now, if we talk about good well raised ones,im all two hands down about each word said in the video.

  • @sakshamwane667
    @sakshamwane667 9 месяцев назад

    Great video, thank you for the framework

  • @FinanceCapture
    @FinanceCapture Год назад +2

    It's very complex to keep calm when a beautiful girl looked at me... So i just didn't look back 😅😅

  • @sethalarathnayaka8480
    @sethalarathnayaka8480 Год назад +10

    Thanks Alex for the tips !❤

  • @isodoubIet
    @isodoubIet 11 месяцев назад +2

    'natural charm' lmfao

  • @lavatr8322
    @lavatr8322 5 месяцев назад +1

    Actually at FIRST contact I don't look away when a girl catches my eyes
    _Example - in the gym_
    if i see her everyday or have to see her.... I don't look at her, my body just exits from that space.
    and this has happened several times in the gym , if i get smitten by I can't behave Normal.

  • @arsalanhasan2953
    @arsalanhasan2953 Год назад +25

    What if that girl is also your subscriber @alexcosta and she knew exactly what will be our next move? 😂😂

  • @evinsobersjose2308
    @evinsobersjose2308 Год назад +3

    Instructions unclear, I have entered into a staring contest against a girl, 3 days have passed but I'm still going strong, wish me luck boys!

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Год назад

      you got this, my man! Don’t you ever look away

  • @nikolastojanovic7440
    @nikolastojanovic7440 Год назад +22

    What’s the longest I should hold eye contact for to avoid being creepy but also not too short that it comes off as “not confident”?

  • @hafizaaktermitu4129
    @hafizaaktermitu4129 Год назад +2

    'thanks ALEX
    WELCOME for the tips.

  • @saranrathakrish8468
    @saranrathakrish8468 Год назад +1

    Try not to overthink in these situations

  • @danku_vaazhkai_vro
    @danku_vaazhkai_vro 4 месяца назад +1

    I have done that a million times and guess what , they don't care

  • @nightgame2365
    @nightgame2365 Год назад +2

    I look away so I don’t get accused of harassing

  • @RoshanSaravanan
    @RoshanSaravanan Год назад +1

    "Ask open-ended questions"
    Me : If you were to date in the future, what is ur dream guy that you wanna date?
    Her: IDKKK

  • @amandubey5287
    @amandubey5287 Год назад

    Also last tme when I asked her open ended question she just ended them right there with binary answers. Crazy.!! I felt like dying right there.

  • @AdnanKhan-xq4kh
    @AdnanKhan-xq4kh 6 месяцев назад +1

    To be honest, in such scenario most of us(boys) are tend to get nervous and will start looking here and there
    Girls are really unpredictable, we might think she like us but in reality they might think us creepy and probably if things go further they might even book us for harrassment, periodo!!!

  • @dhruvamazumder6388
    @dhruvamazumder6388 Год назад

    Please made a dedicated about wardrobe essential on fall

  • @coolstuff5054
    @coolstuff5054 Год назад

    Your method is legit ❤❤🎉

  • @prabhant.s984
    @prabhant.s984 Год назад

    Thank you Alex costa bro.

  • @harshnoorsingh4102
    @harshnoorsingh4102 Год назад +2

    Alex please make a video on night party outfit ideas

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 Год назад +12

    I’ve ha woman tell me I have nice arms, another woman checking me out from a distance (she held eye contact and smiled), a 60 year old woman flirt with me after a class, and a 13 year old kid tell me I have an ugly face all in the same week. Literally cannot tell if I’m attractive or not.

    • @nabeelmirza458
      @nabeelmirza458 Год назад

      what was she doing in your class ,is she your teacher

    • @notlxrd2
      @notlxrd2 Год назад

      A 60 year old? Yikes

    • @akmyths2391
      @akmyths2391 Год назад +4

      I think you are classed in the “grandma hot league”, tough luck man.

    • @wanderingego7272
      @wanderingego7272 Год назад

      @@akmyths2391 lol

    • @wanderingego7272
      @wanderingego7272 Год назад

      that 13 y/o was prob jealous of you

  • @manojvarma717
    @manojvarma717 11 месяцев назад +2

    Relax, everyone. I can't speak for everyone, but in India, these things don't typically succeed. If you are a local in India, it's worth noting that the country has one of the highest populations in the world, with around 70 to 80% of men still being single. I think you can understand what I am talking about, right?

    • @Xeanaa
      @Xeanaa 5 месяцев назад +1

      Actually I Am An Indian Also, And You know How Girls Label This Things As Creepy, So just behave normally and let them talk to you unless you're in school or colleges.
      you will be accused of @ape cases, because a lot of cases are also coming like that. Just for talking even for asking time also, They are accusing that guys are eve teasing.
      I Either Ask to the guy beside her instead of her assurance.

    • @manojvarma717
      @manojvarma717 5 месяцев назад

      @@Xeanaa "that's also true man"

  • @jeraora3045
    @jeraora3045 Год назад

    I smile at her.she smile back, we stay looking at each other and then what now ... Im screw. I should just running 😂.

  • @amirrehan6917
    @amirrehan6917 Год назад

    Everything in the video is cool, Alex.
    Who's gonna tell those dry people who cant even communicate apart from Haha and lol?
    Better tip: Do not even try talking to them.

  • @agradipdas3194
    @agradipdas3194 11 месяцев назад

    Love From Bangladesh ❤️🇧🇩 Brother ❤️

  • @ejazrjr6
    @ejazrjr6 Год назад

    I saw many videos which presents topic of what should a boy do to impress a girl and some sort of stuffs , why should we always take the initiative, I haven't noticed even a single video giving the techniques to girls on how to impress boys, girls simply sit and choose the guy who is best for her future , her physical and financial needs and then start loving them 🤢 but boys are entirely different , they dont choose , they just the love 😍

  • @manmy016
    @manmy016 Год назад

    Sooo I go up to her casually and say “you have a nice smile” .. yeh that’s not creepy at all !

  • @user16020
    @user16020 Год назад

    These tips hold good only if you look handsome or rich.

  • @e.j.jierolamora5779
    @e.j.jierolamora5779 Год назад

    Thank you for the advice!

  • @factified9892
    @factified9892 5 месяцев назад

    Genuinely don’t be yourself guys..be the most attractive version of yourseld

  • @magikavoncary
    @magikavoncary Год назад +1

    "It's just an eye contact. She's not gonna burn you with her eyes." Okay, noted. What else changes my life today?

  • @chinavirus841
    @chinavirus841 Год назад

    I’m now in custody

  • @amandubey5287
    @amandubey5287 Год назад

    And always remember kings. As Lord FUTURE once said. "Chase and cheque never chase no .."

  • @Pratik-tk6ts
    @Pratik-tk6ts 6 месяцев назад

    such a premium content 🔥🔥

  • @engineeringka14da
    @engineeringka14da Год назад +2

    Alright, now I just need a girl to look at me

  • @danishphansopkar1259
    @danishphansopkar1259 Год назад +1

    I wished i could have watched your video in my 20s😂

  • @xFlared
    @xFlared 6 месяцев назад

    It's funny because there are women I'm not attracted to and don't look at them intentionally to avoid them getting the wrong idea, and they just chase harder. If a woman is attracted, a lot of these tactics are not relevant.

  • @lavatr8322
    @lavatr8322 5 месяцев назад +1

    and btw this won't work in ASIAN countries.
    actually this depends on the society and demographics of the region.
    In Asia making eye contact and smiling may get women feeling uncomfortable.... even more society here Judges you like anything.

  • @corrompu98
    @corrompu98 6 месяцев назад +1

    What about ADHD people? I don't even make eye contact with my own family 😆

  • @cracklingsoda
    @cracklingsoda 4 дня назад

    Thank u alex

  • @aagamjain9204
    @aagamjain9204 Год назад +14

    Audacity to write "easy" in title

  • @bawanzee
    @bawanzee 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bro my whole life no girl ever smiles at me except my mom and that too when i make her tea or something😂😀

    • @Xeanaa
      @Xeanaa 5 месяцев назад +2

      Love Your Mom, Brother. She Is The only One Cares About You. When Career gets Into head everything fades away

  • @enzay6740
    @enzay6740 4 месяца назад

    Instructions unclear...I'm now in solitary confinement