How to Get Women to Notice YOU (attract, don't chase)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @Elonbuffet1512
    @Elonbuffet1512 11 месяцев назад +288

    Focus on goals rather than holes😊

  • @benthomson632
    @benthomson632 11 месяцев назад +34

    Junior year of high school, the summer before, I went to the gym, learned how to style my hair, found my style, figured out how to be confident and started to talk more. 5/6 of these I have used and all of them worked! Time and time again my friends come to me and tell me there is another girl that likes me that just builds my confidence. I’d have to say thank you to Alex for this progress.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад +4

      That is awesome! Thanks a lot, have a great school year

    • @matt5379
      @matt5379 19 дней назад +1

      ap'c ['k:L:LKIOKLK:LIOKLKMLIOKLMKLIO*)(IOKLMMKLIO*)(IOKJLM KLIO*(IOKLMMKLIO*)(IOKLM

  • @ssesangamelvin823
    @ssesangamelvin823 11 месяцев назад +7

    I started listening to you in the lockdown and damn has my life changed for the better.
    I appreciate you Alex

  • @young_gang7354
    @young_gang7354 11 месяцев назад +10

    Used to not use skin products, workout or have good fashion in early 2021. That was until I found you around September 2021 randomly. Subbed ever since. Never regret that. Today seems like I'm more confident, manly, better looking and fun to be around.
    Big Thanks from South Africa 🇿🇦 🙏🏿 ❤

  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад +22

    Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta
    Thank you for watching and have a great week!
    -AC

  • @ZHwilderness
    @ZHwilderness 10 месяцев назад +18

    Your confidence depends on how you feel from inside. No body's life is perfect. No one can be confident all the time. It's okay to be anxious sometimes. That's real and raw. Btw your videos are spreading positive vibes❤

    • @mess-f
      @mess-f 10 месяцев назад

      Agreed! I use these videos with the young men I coach, Alex inspires rather than makes guys feel like they are “less than”. As a woman it’s harder to impart this particular wisdom; Alex makes it easy to see how to be approachable and attractive using your own natural look and style.

  • @gauravbhan
    @gauravbhan 5 месяцев назад

    I have spent years and years and years on self-improvement. Every time I reach a certain level, I realize that there is so much more. I am 40, and if I now look back to when I was 20 or 25, there is so much change.
    One thing I must work on is eye contact, which at the moment isn't consistent. I have also started acknowledging that not every day will be the same. It is ok to sometimes feel miserable, low, or underconfident temporarily. I mustn't beat myself up for feeling that way. Acknowledge and move on.

  • @adityachampawat1414
    @adityachampawat1414 11 месяцев назад +8

    Congratulations brother on reaching 4 millions subscribers!!! Keep up the great work and you’ll achieve much more! ❤

  • @ThisisEnzoman
    @ThisisEnzoman 11 месяцев назад +1

    Alex I'm here with you my brother , congrats 🎉 so happy for you , i can't imagine my life without you much love my reason of keeping things going ❤

  • @nilimahossan3960
    @nilimahossan3960 11 месяцев назад +9

    You transformed me from zero to a 7... Trying to improve everyday but the acne is my main curse😕😕.. I get noticed but not approached

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks a lot man, fight the acne- it will go away eventually!

  • @neerajbharali619
    @neerajbharali619 11 месяцев назад

    Alex jst wanted to tell u i have been watching ur videos since about a year nd i can say my looks have improved a lot nd i have dated plenty of girls bcuz of this glow up thnx to u

  • @AlexPenn.DatingCoach
    @AlexPenn.DatingCoach 9 месяцев назад

    Great insights! Your personal experiences resonate, especially the transformation through unique hairstyles and the impact of physical fitness. It's refreshing to hear practical advice on standing out and making a memorable first impression. Your tips on style and footwear are spot-on. Also, the emphasis on confidence, eye contact, and being vocal is gold. As a fellow dating coach, I appreciate the practical wisdom you're sharing. Keep up the excellent work!

  • @yoshiinasuit8160
    @yoshiinasuit8160 11 месяцев назад +1

    After messing up my first interaction with my “crush” this week I’m going see her again,thanks Alex!

  • @paytongreen13
    @paytongreen13 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lots of love Alex, Congratulations on the success of 4 Million Subscribers❤️🎉
    I haven’t gone to the gym because I couldn’t afford the monthly payment however luckily my new insurance plan has a benefit of a free Gym Membership so I’m definitely going to start going to the Gym quite often starting New Year’s 2024. I’ve been watching your videos I think for 4 years now. Keep up the great work man.

  • @emersonuayan5851
    @emersonuayan5851 10 месяцев назад

    wayback 2020 it's only around 1M now 4M what a milestone! congratulations alex you deserve it!

  • @lintianjun4115
    @lintianjun4115 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for the advises all these years man, you've no idea how much I changed because of you! And I'm soooo proud of you that you hit 4M, literally discovered your channel at 600K!!!

  • @rinkeshgokulchandani4181
    @rinkeshgokulchandani4181 10 месяцев назад

    You put 4M subscribers thing at 4:00. Nice little detail. Love your channel btw. Really good content.🍻❤

  • @pratikpanwar999
    @pratikpanwar999 11 месяцев назад

    Every videos on youtube I switch 1॰5x but your videos I love to watch at normal speed because ur way of talking and editing I love so much
    Love from india tq for this type of help

  • @aakashsankhla9511
    @aakashsankhla9511 11 месяцев назад +3

    Congratulations 4M❤ ALEX I FOLLOW U SINCE 2013.LOTS OF LOVE FROM INDIA 🇮🇳MAN✨

  • @ninoxninox3883
    @ninoxninox3883 11 месяцев назад

    5 years with you, keep going

  • @rohanwable751
    @rohanwable751 11 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations Alex on your 4M.

  • @salmanelazmani16
    @salmanelazmani16 11 месяцев назад +1

    Bro I love your comtent , Again good video . Congratulations for 4m

  • @CarlosJosueGonzalez2223
    @CarlosJosueGonzalez2223 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hello from Chicago Illinois Pilsen !!!! 🇺🇸

  • @Ghost1218
    @Ghost1218 11 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations on 4 million

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks a lot man!

    • @Ghost1218
      @Ghost1218 11 месяцев назад

      @@alexcosta welcome

  • @giladmintz3877
    @giladmintz3877 11 месяцев назад +8

    Alex before I watch your videos I was also a little confused and didn't even know my style my hair but then I started watching your videos and it was like a game-changer you really helped me learn about my personal style my hair and everything even to my skincare thank you so much for helping me you are like the big brother I never really had thanks bro❤❤❤❤

  • @likesh-fn6ii
    @likesh-fn6ii 9 месяцев назад +2

    00:01 Stand out to make women notice you
    01:16 To be noticed, you need to be unique.
    02:28 Physical transformation and garnering attention
    03:43 Unique style is crucial for making a great first impression.
    04:51 Dress to represent the man you want to be seen as
    05:59 Facial hair can enhance your attractiveness and create a more masculine look.
    07:14 Walk with confidence and make eye contact.
    08:33 Engage in interesting and funny conversation to catch her attention.

  • @Nip-km8hn
    @Nip-km8hn 11 месяцев назад

    Make a video of skincare routine and products to use for combination skin pls

  • @kingdark5899
    @kingdark5899 11 месяцев назад

    Congratulations on hitting 4M Alex

  • @sunitachari8888
    @sunitachari8888 11 месяцев назад +3

    thanks Alex! this video was really helpfull
    much love bro❤❤

  • @Gyatttmunch
    @Gyatttmunch 11 месяцев назад +3

    Man I don’t even really care about women anymore, I just wanna be happy again. No hate though, keep doing what you do.

  • @teojovanovski1189
    @teojovanovski1189 11 месяцев назад

    The best video about women on youtube by far. Love this content but I miss the fashion videos a little.

  • @joaoIsousa
    @joaoIsousa 11 месяцев назад +5

    “Yaa… this is the new me” 😂
    Isso foi muito engraçado! Abraço de Portugal! 🇵🇹

  • @princedhiman-98
    @princedhiman-98 11 месяцев назад +4

    A day without hearing Alex feels like 24 hours!!

    • @thedarkknight0710
      @thedarkknight0710 11 месяцев назад +2

      wonder what other days feel like 🤣

    • @princedhiman-98
      @princedhiman-98 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@thedarkknight0710 I really miss Joker (Heath Ledger), dude!!

  • @mohamedwazeer4071
    @mohamedwazeer4071 11 месяцев назад +3

    Bro i love your aston martin i really love your videos

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks a lot man!

  • @khapip
    @khapip 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you alex ❤

  • @JBguitar012
    @JBguitar012 11 месяцев назад

    I see you with the OM-JM 28 in the background👀

  • @RichardChips
    @RichardChips 11 месяцев назад +1

    alex you are an influence. i have the best hair of any guy i know know because of you.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks a lot man!

  • @eugenendungu4062
    @eugenendungu4062 11 месяцев назад +1

    Dude after I started working out, the amount of looks I never once got is just SHOCKING 😮 especially women no matter what age 😢

  • @theclasher427
    @theclasher427 10 месяцев назад

    Perfectly explained

  • @dimmadome7609
    @dimmadome7609 11 месяцев назад

    I just clicked on the video to say that the thumbnail is very relatable

  • @seemahasan8316
    @seemahasan8316 11 месяцев назад +2

    Love u from india but when are your forte series products come to india.Really can't wait for them plzzz dude so something ❤❤😢

  • @MakesYouGentleman
    @MakesYouGentleman 11 месяцев назад

    I'm from Bangladesh and I'm watching your videos to learn something new and it's really helpful to me Thank you Alex

  • @waldalf8930
    @waldalf8930 11 месяцев назад

    great video. btw What is your beard length?

  • @mianusama28
    @mianusama28 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi bro, Make video on "How to fix bad posture" Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰❤

  • @kowshikkush9998
    @kowshikkush9998 10 месяцев назад

    0:07 They always look 😂🎉

  • @BobRoss-wm3lc
    @BobRoss-wm3lc 11 месяцев назад

    Hey Alex what length is your hair in this video?

  • @peace.85
    @peace.85 11 месяцев назад

    Totally unique video it's helping. Appreciate you brother

  • @Vytablade
    @Vytablade 11 месяцев назад +4

    Hey Alex, Congrats on the incredible milestone! Glad I could be here to see you come so far!
    I have 2 questions if you don't mind.
    1st: I'm an introvert. I don't get much social interaction, and often when I meet new people it's always awkward or quiet. Please, if you can, help me to remedy this?
    2nd: Yours and many other RUclips videos have gotten me out of dark times. I noticed, however, that a lot of men around me struggle with what I did. I wanted to try and help by creating a social media platform to help men be better like you do. I wanted to know, if possible, how to gain social media influence, enough to get started on climbing high?

  • @xealzy944
    @xealzy944 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yo Alex I see the new Martin 20th Anniversary John Mayer guitar in the background there! Do you still play?

  • @Egypt0001
    @Egypt0001 11 месяцев назад

    Make a best perfume that girl like most I have Versace Eros

  • @DanishImran-y9d
    @DanishImran-y9d 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing and helpful as always ✨

  • @Rajutrs7
    @Rajutrs7 10 месяцев назад

    You are always besttt😭💗

  • @chandlerbing2210
    @chandlerbing2210 11 месяцев назад

    Man you skin is looking better, what's up?

  • @Pribalekx
    @Pribalekx 11 месяцев назад

    I just want to say thank you u halped me abput style with this videos. Just keep going and help others like u helped me and I succed in the goal to find a girlfriend all because of things that I learnd here

  • @isaaczavalza4464
    @isaaczavalza4464 11 месяцев назад

    Loving that JM guitar 😮‍💨

  • @simanasibalatani4283
    @simanasibalatani4283 11 месяцев назад

    How about a collab video with Teachingmensfashion Alex it's about time

  • @Edwin582
    @Edwin582 11 месяцев назад

    Hey Alex, where are those carpenter pants from in the video at around 6:00

  • @kyleelkin
    @kyleelkin 11 месяцев назад

    Great video~ I tried ordering the BM shoes but the link must be broken and wouldn't let me check out :(

  • @vasudevanpurushothaman2557
    @vasudevanpurushothaman2557 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love from india Alex

  • @jonshawunited
    @jonshawunited 11 месяцев назад

    This video is great thanks Alex. :) Jon

  • @order9216
    @order9216 11 месяцев назад +1

    Does anyone have this problem like you make eye contact with a girl then then they smile at you then you don't know what to do

  • @youssefelsayad2080
    @youssefelsayad2080 10 месяцев назад

    What do you mean exactly by a girl noticing me, do you mean like looking at me for a second or two or longer than that or do you mean another thing

  • @azharmunief491
    @azharmunief491 11 месяцев назад

    Alex I have an oval shape face and was wondering does facial age matter when choosing a hairstyle?

  • @dominickgiannotti
    @dominickgiannotti 11 месяцев назад

    Do you have that winter look book coming soon?

  • @mohamedwazeer4071
    @mohamedwazeer4071 11 месяцев назад +2

    What is the best hairstyle for an oval face shape I am 19 plz

    • @ali8804
      @ali8804 4 месяца назад

      Try side part it’s awesome

  • @PoeTréAloisio
    @PoeTréAloisio 11 месяцев назад

    Teach this hack please 🙏🏽 How do you hide your shoelaces like you did with the dress shoes? Sometimes I can tuck my lsces under the tongue of my sneakers, but for boots and all shoes, how to get the "no bow tie laces" look?

  • @mallikjan2180
    @mallikjan2180 11 месяцев назад

    You are like big brother ❤

  • @Sequalelevators
    @Sequalelevators 11 месяцев назад

    Lots of love towards your words And Works

  • @atharvadhotre6365
    @atharvadhotre6365 11 месяцев назад

    Love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @mohamedwazeer4071
    @mohamedwazeer4071 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you soo much

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад +1

      You're very welcome!

  • @aliyayay1228
    @aliyayay1228 11 месяцев назад

    Hi Alex, you may not see this comment, but i struggling with a girl in my university which i can't forget, it's been 2 years, now i have her in a same class in this semester, but i can't approach, only thing I've done so far is just helping her through out the question she asked in WhatsApp. And that's all.. ❤

    • @drroble.gurhan3594
      @drroble.gurhan3594 3 месяца назад

      So, did you get her yet??

    • @aliyayay1228
      @aliyayay1228 3 месяца назад

      @@drroble.gurhan3594 well, term has finished, i assume maybe i see her next term( start in 3 month) and maybe not..

  • @nmxgamer8271
    @nmxgamer8271 11 месяцев назад

    I confessed to MY CRUSH that i liked her , but she was in a hurry and I stopped her without warning. She was surprised by what I said and then she said, “We will talk about this later,” but she did not come and I did not go to talk to her again, but I noticed that she was shy when I caught her looking at me, and her friends began to look at me a lot. do I stop liking her and look for another one, please tell me alex costa 😔😔

    • @I_have_been_sent
      @I_have_been_sent 11 месяцев назад

      Probably scared you bro.

    • @nmxgamer8271
      @nmxgamer8271 11 месяцев назад

      @@I_have_been_sent no, i thought that to but she talked to me with no guard and open body language too this is what confused me

  • @ikiing._0722
    @ikiing._0722 11 месяцев назад +1

    Alex Costa 🔥

  • @Adityasm27
    @Adityasm27 9 месяцев назад +1

    video thumbnail, WTF Lol

  • @Don-da-ke
    @Don-da-ke 11 месяцев назад

    She wants to fish guys. She wants to go fishing 😂

  • @defining_moments
    @defining_moments 11 месяцев назад

    Alex question, now what about if every time there is a hot woman passing by and obviously with all your videos I always dress good they always look at me. Always! I mean I just pause at times and I don’t say anything but in general they always look at me at times a small smile. They always make eye contact!

  • @Geogian_
    @Geogian_ 11 месяцев назад

    Hello Alex, I hope you are doing well, I don’t get many compliments from women.

  • @henrysabie09
    @henrysabie09 11 месяцев назад

    Im a teen and there's a girl I really like and I think she likes me. But I don't how to tell her. How do I do this?. I really want to tell her.

  • @idkaffanidk2359
    @idkaffanidk2359 11 месяцев назад +1

    Im overweight please help me
    Make a video on this please

    • @blqck.pfpvtr
      @blqck.pfpvtr 11 месяцев назад

      Theres a lot of weight loss videos and channels

  • @maxrozario
    @maxrozario 11 месяцев назад

    fat to fit guidelines video plz

  • @shuvojit7146
    @shuvojit7146 11 месяцев назад

    Im am from india alex love your videos big brother ❤

  • @Linux_Jerry
    @Linux_Jerry 11 месяцев назад +1

    before US , where u live? where r u from ???

  • @kdskumara7422
    @kdskumara7422 11 месяцев назад

    Love alex ❤❤❤

  • @daralop
    @daralop 10 месяцев назад

    Did Alex brake up with his girlfriend? I haven’t seen them together in a while

    • @twmax6525
      @twmax6525 6 месяцев назад

      You mean pump the brakes on his relationship? That kind of brake up? Much better than an actual break up. Lol.

  • @Soorian_
    @Soorian_ 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi alex

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  11 месяцев назад

      Hey!

    • @Soorian_
      @Soorian_ 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@alexcosta how u doing?

  • @senthilbalajiv4920
    @senthilbalajiv4920 11 месяцев назад

    How to talk to my girl I feel difficult

  • @divinealex2
    @divinealex2 11 месяцев назад

    Tbh i disagree on this one because if tou try to get girls who dontblike you you are going to dive yourself crazy and even if you do get her it will be alot of headaches.

  • @kingdark5899
    @kingdark5899 11 месяцев назад

    Bro can you help me transform myself

  • @goviljoson5192
    @goviljoson5192 11 месяцев назад

    Sir my forehead has very low hair density, and hair fall increase day by day as my father is also bald ,so please suggest a way so that my hair fall will reduce, please help I'm in depression....
    From - new Delhi India

  • @jcransome5616
    @jcransome5616 8 месяцев назад

    Still. Not working

  • @upgrader24
    @upgrader24 11 месяцев назад +1

    When the night has come...

  • @cwrichardson3
    @cwrichardson3 11 месяцев назад

    Your hair grew long in 6 months from those pictures you showed. The ones when you talked about your license and planet fitness membership. I think those pictures are longer than 6 months apart.

  • @Geogian_
    @Geogian_ 11 месяцев назад

    Is there a way you can help me out please?

  • @Kira2991
    @Kira2991 11 месяцев назад

    What happen to the fashion content ?

  • @israelj.7677
    @israelj.7677 11 месяцев назад

    Yeah, still not noticed...

  • @hamza-cult
    @hamza-cult 10 месяцев назад

    iam 6foot
    weighting 121 pounds
    iam struglling to gain weight

  • @alimian840
    @alimian840 10 месяцев назад

    jnnay ntc kna ay kr le gi jinnay nhi krna o ni kre gi

  • @Sequalelevators
    @Sequalelevators 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Hi Big Fan Brohhhh

  • @markgeorge2200
    @markgeorge2200 11 месяцев назад

    lol alex didnt you recently shave

  • @Hamzashah_15
    @Hamzashah_15 11 месяцев назад +2

    ALLAHUAKBAR