How To Attract A Woman Who Is NOT Interested | Alex Costa
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Topic of discussion: Have you ever tried to attract a woman who just didn't seem interested?
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Alex has such a good soul. He automatically assumes we have good looking friends. Or friends. 😂
You are right
Yeah......
Everybody felt that
Literally. 😢
If you really followed his grooming and skin care tips ..then yes you are !
0:59 Be extra confident, take control and know what you're doing
2:28 Dress well, take care of yourself
3:19 smell nice, apply fragrance
6:08 Don't come strong, be smart with your chit chat
8:50 Compliment her but don't overdo it
10:16 Show her you're interested, keep an eye contact
11:14 Be a good listener. Initiate deep conversations and pay attention
12:43 Body language. Fix your posture, don't slouch, don't cross hands, try to be approachable
Thanks.
@@JohnSmithAnythingChannel sorry but if a guy who'm I'm not interested in does this, it will not help at all, best thing is cut her off
Why not just do these things for yourself and eliminate them as a problem and an obstacle? Focus on yourself and on your goals. If a fish jumps in your boat along the way, by all means make a meal out of it and then move on.
Not coming strong might be a little tough if you're a gym rat like me. I mean, I do full-body workouts at the gym, 6 days a week. I also have plans on signing up for classes in the art if Kung Fu, for I have been interested in martial arts ever since I was 6 years old. In fact, I was inspired to learn them by one of the best martial artists that ever lived: Bruce Lee
@@DanteWesker612 don't believe every bullshit get as high as you can come as strong as you can
Tip 1 - Work on improving yourself, don’t focus on girls with low interest. Kings don’t chase. Stay strong my friends.
100%
What do you mean dont focus on girls with low interest
Facts
Why are you watching this video then
Man I skipped watching this video so that I wouldn't start trying again, down bad
First step to dealing with a lady that has zero interest in you: turn around and walk away. Zero interest means zero effort on your end. Do not waste your time. Look for reciprocation and if it never arrives, that's your cue to exit.
Many a smart man advice is that no woman can resist to persistance. If yu see she refuses yu, try harder, if yu see she is annoyed disappear for a while and make sure she finds out yu have many other options/women. If she still shows no interest disappear again for a while and come back with completely different outfit and buy yurself a new house. Ask yurself is she out of my league, if she is, then work on yurself to be higher than in her league. Always keep near yu a woman whonis under yur league, and while yu step up, yu chase the other ones. I have exactly the same success rate now with great career and salary higher than 4 times average salary in this country, as i had it when i was a student. The difference is that women i chase now are also far better than the ones i used to chase when i was a student.
@@user-qf1wr3nu8t The c***s that run this Commie site aren't letting me reply to you. Go check out Rollo Tomassi, Entrepreneurs in Cars and Alexander Grace before this scummy website bans them. You want the truth of the dating market, there is your holy trinity. I wish you the best, sir. Sorry for being unable to give you a more detailed response but my hands are tied by NaziTube.
@Randall Swanson You do not persist with modern women. Unless you're looking for a harrassment charge or a slow destruction to your confidence and self-esteem. No, you focus on you, and if a nice girl presents herself then sure, shoot your shot - but only once. It's either a definite yes or it's a "huh, well, onto the next one".
That’s my reasoning as well. If they’re not interested, I ain’t wasting my time!
Damn straight
1: Be Extra Confident
2: Dress Well
3: Smell Good
4: Let's Meet ( take her out )
5: Compliment Her
6: Eye Contact
7: Do not Look at other girls while talking to that Girl
8: Be a Good Listener
9: Have interesting conversation
10: Body Language ( Posture )
Cool man
Thanks for the summary✌🏻
thx
And then she says" I have a boyfriend "
You have to be pretty,that's most important
I’m so early that even the summary guy hasn’t arrived!
True
This must the most 😂😂 thing i've read this day ;
Summary guy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No he is here i just saw hum
And his comment is justtt jussstt above yours
I know I bunch of guys can relate to this one, it's only the FIRST interaction with a female that scares us, after that it's no problem, that's how it is for me at least
ah yes females, something completely different jk i understand if you've never talked to a person of the opposite gender haha
Same. The first time I talked to a woman was pretty nerve-racking. But after that, I don't have any problems talkin' to 'em
@@KakaoPfoteMsp ya.... saying the creature that only gets approached
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Why would I want anyone that doesn’t want me? 😂
Hahaha that a nice one right there
DAM RIGHT ..!
xD
Why on this video🤔
@@abhishekpandve1153 RUclips algorithm smart ass
As Notorious BIG said, ask her “what your interests are, who you be with, things to make you smile, what numbers to dial”. Biggie had game.
lol... Biggie had MONEY. If a girl doesn't want you...SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU! Leave her alone and let her be.
@@voguehaven5154 facts💯
@@voguehaven5154 As a black man from here in Louisiana, who wuz bone in dem 70's, I must say dat kinda rap music still goes hard to this day.
However, ni dat I analyze those lyrics, I wonder what is there to gain by asking women, "who dey be wit"?
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I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours
men dont chase women who arent interested in them , Men have a purpose , mission and a life to enjoy , A woman should be compliment to your life not the focus
I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours
I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
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How to attract a woman who is not interested: you don't. She already made it clear that she's not interested in you. Leave her alone and move on.
One thing I learned in life is to stop giving attention to someone who is clearly not interested in me. Always put your pride, dignity and self-respect first.
Work on improving yourself and be open-minded about it, and just be the best version of yourself you can be.
true you may find yourself giving way too much into her games then she shows her true colors to you and its your fault you attracted a gold digger.
women who like money choose wisely they know the men to get hooked are the ones that keep coming after her.
@@loopsvideoloops Exactly. First-hand experience.
Facts bro
I don't know why but I can understand better when I'm a listening to another brazilian guy speaking in english than when I'm listening to another person who has english as their first language. A huge hug from a brazilian fan.
I'm russian and I know english language about 50% when I listening, but whan I listen Alex Costa I get him for 80.
I'm from an asian country my mother tongue is Hindi but I understand his words literally crystal clear....
He is even better than my English teacher...
Lol bruh. I was 100% certain this guy was Brazilian by the way he talks. 😂 Salve.
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
His hair is at god level now🔥
Looks like Jesus too 😂
Brandon Crawford of the SF Giants now giving dating advice!
@@rohangarg6312 😂😂😂😂
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00:59 Be extra confident
02:30 Dress well
03:17 Memorable fragrance (ads)
06:11 "Lets meet" (take it easy)
08:50 Compliment her
10:14 Eye contact
11:13 Be a good listener
12:45 Body language
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Woman ❤️ to be look at
thanks btw im finna steal my homeboys girl
@@KayThePlug He aint yo homeboy
Love you Alex❤️!! It's really good to see you after so many days, since I was stuck in my academics, that's why😅. You did not lose the energy man, and the way you connect with us. It's always good to hear you. It's always like we are talking to our big bro who's talks are no bs. I am really glad to have you, truly appreciate your work! And no to mention the authenticity and positivity you're spreading😊. Have a great day and take care!
2:28 yes, this exactly
guys if you wanna meet up with someone, don't dress extra special to impress someone if you don't feel like yourself in those clothes. don't wear a suit if you think you look embarassing in it, if the girl thinks you're a loser because you're not wearing something ultra special, she ain't the one
Hope everyone is having a great day
You're awesome
I don't really reply to these comments. But thanks dude.
I once was unintentionally showing a woman a lot of attention because I found her very intriguing and attractive. She noticed and soon lost most positive interest regarding me. I got the hint and avoided interacting with her and she very clearly had a resurgence of interest in me when she learned more about who I am as a person. The rapid change in her opinion of me made me start to question my strategy when approaching, interacting, and even choosing when to and not to interact with them.
It feels like Alex is hammering those tips into us....❤️
2:19 except for this video ! Always here when we need it !
Alex, thanks! Underneath what you are saying is also that, if you haven't "worked on yourself" you are approaching the woman as though she will make you "ok," and no one can create self-esteem and self-acceptance but yourself. If you have no self-discipline in your career, spirituality, and health, you SHOULD NOT "get a 10." Raise your own level of achievement as well as your game to a 10 then you will not only be able to approach, but you can actually maintain a high-quality relationship. Too many guys are focused only on creating attraction, but when they "get the girl" they have no idea how to actually maintain a relationship. So, it's not JUST attraction game, it's also learning the communication skills, and building your own skills and attributes as a human, to be a "10" as a partner.
Man You deserve more than a thanks for your quality contents
this has got to be one of the best videos I've ever watched on YT... fantastic video man
So exciting to be here on your channel man. Love you ❤️
Alex Costa the man we need in such times🙏
Loser 🤣
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Coming back after 2 years,,, alex has changed alot.... The hair style, the way he speaks is much faster with changing tune n the channel has run up higher subscriber....
Nice keep up ..
bro your channel is fire, glad I found it. I was originally looking for a good hair blow-dry "how to" video and now see your content covers much more.
Also, SUCH great advice on hygiene, grooming, and men's fashion. You have really filled a need in this market.
You can tell these tips are very mature and backed with experience. Unfortunately/fortunately, I learned these tips the hard way through dates and going through life. I can relate with every point mentioned in this video. Awesome video man, keep it up! For me, I wish you could have came out with this video sooner.
You need to be good looking and tall to succeed in dating , these bullshit doesn’t work if your look is not good enough. Women want tall men with a good face like us men want attractive women.
Women In Western countries also chose white men in general so you better be aware that your skin color may eliminate you straight away. Sometimes it’s over before it ever began.
@Randall Swanson Yes but you’ll be always the second choice as a short guy. This world is crazy lol
Wonderful advice Alex,spoken as a true seasoned proffesional!.
amazing tips Alex!!! please make more of these type of videos. it helps eventually
Hey Alex, these are the much needed tips that I’ll try to utilise to make my crush be interested in me . Thank you .
Ur crush is watching this 😂
@@asmabegum879 😂😂😂
If yo crush ain’t interested in you then drop it! She probably getting piped down right down by a dude who treats her like shit while mr nice guy over here is thinking about her all the time 😂
U got this g
@@nickiminajsbiggestfan7921 I got you dude ✌️
Thanks Alex this video was great, so much great info, very helpful especially for men who really struggle with dating
Oh this one hurts 😂 been there. We share the same mindset. Thanks Alex I’m pumped!
This put me in a good mood. Love the video Alex.
Alex costa , coming in with the clutch , much love bro , keep up the top notch content !!!! ❤️❤️👍
This is honestly worth our time.I feel this is the best from Alex❤🔥
I dare say I’ve told myself this: If I can’t have my crush then death to my crush!
1:56 oscar level acting. So what i learn from this video is to stay real, clean, calm and look your best a little self obsession
This is the exact content I've been waiting for. Took forever btw
Hey Alex , I was just thinking to search this kinda video on RUclips today and then u're video popped out in the recommendations 😌 u're always a life saver like a big brother .
Hey Alex. Could you do a video on your go to fits for a college party?
for 3 years i`ve been having a brain fog , Adhd and explosive rage which has nothing to do with my fearless masculinity but unable to focus and feel some things properly. So i had nothing to do but just move on, close my heart and focus on myself to get better and temporary ignore people with all attraction signs until i feel more in moment and alive. People start thinking i`m arrogant and aggressive but not really.
Talk to a counselor or therapist. Sometimes you can't fix it all by yourself. Let an outside eye look it over and you'll get to the root of the problem fast
Alex is back again! Love you man (:
Nice video👍 background music overwhelms me everytime I watch your videos 😍
Thanks Alex! I've been stuck on lockdown so long that I forgot how to attract women😂
Alex can you please make videos on losing fat or getting lean with a workout and diet. I'm a great fan from India🇮🇳❤
Hi Sir, personally I'm a HR in Learning & Development. But when I saw you raised about Body language skills & Learning Skills and the tips you have given is top notch and it's very useful in terms of professional life as well.
This is one of the best videos I've ever seen on dating
When you are fast enough to beat the summary guy 🔥😎
And after seeing this video I just got it .
First imporve yourself and second go for a girl you want .
And main thing to notice don't change your personality just for a perticular girl who don't even noticed you . You should change your personality for yourself .first love yourself then only others will love you .
A lot of this information you put on here has helped me greatly thank you so much 😊
The first line hit HARD.
There is NOTHING you can do to convince a woman to stay with you. if she does not decide for herself, forget about it. You can maybe "convince" her for a while, but if this decision does not come from her, im sorry. Stay strong brooo!
me trying to follow all Alex's tips
Also me-
I dont live in America or Europe :(
Where do you live bruh?
@@krzysztofpaliga4190ASIA MAYBE 🙄
@@therealsobhan_ahmed why the "🙄" emoji? Could also be South America? Africa? The Caribbean? Australia?
Same.there is no good chance
You say that like it's a bad thing... I'd much rather be able to deal with Asian and/or Latin women every day. Most of them are still just that, WOMEN.
Thank you Alex for helping me in this kind of situation
dang Alex always has the best tips 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
The reason I watch this is because my crush rejected me and spilled everything she hates about me out at once. Ever since than I've avoided her and when I got over her I had a crush on somebody else but I avoid her because I don't want her to find out like the other one did and get mad.
I think the most terrifying thing is the fact I am thinking about that exact situation (the one who got away) , only for the vid to start with 'every guy has the one who got away'.......
Great tips A Town! Your advice is right on point..and your rationale really accurate..
I always enjoy your videos n I always learn something from you Alex thanks for your help ❤️
Hey Alex ... a video on how to make your girlfriend happy and care for her on a call or something like that because of this covid situation.. hopefully you understand what i mean to say ..
A woman can't be happy.
Be kind of aloof they love that, dude note ; if you're asking this question it may be too late
Truly Alex , you're like a god of everything a man need 😂
Alex truly amazing man , you just gave me a big big confidence. and I believe I have done half of you said. am almost there thank you once again.
I love your attitude bro!!👊🏼
Damn Alex, eu estava muito interessado nessa subscrição de perfumes mas infelizmente é unica para US, sad stuff man! But thanks for the tips and all the work o take to help us guys, abração de Portugal! 🔥🇵🇹🤘🏻
1st view. Dude u r awesome 👌
Beautiful video Alex. Much Love from South Africa
Alex, you have an amazing channel ive came back to your one video grwm Grammys edition I love that video :)
Just a week ago I've date with a girl and I did exactly wath alex said in this video. Appreciated and thankful for all
And could you tell me the result now, please?
@@SS-np3jo the date was good, we were some time together but the relationship wasn't what i want
@@RaidElMocho Thank you my friend 😊. I wish you find your soulmate very soon. Good luck with your life
In India, things are different. Also, from what it's been observed it quite seems like we gotta live with the virus and just be careful enough. Going out is crazy!
We can utilize the tips post virus situation!
tripuri people are weak they've overrun by bengalis
Been following Your tips since 2018. Thank You ♥
Thanks Man was a really great piece!
Why did I laugh so hard at this moment 1:55 ? LMAO
THE worst mistake is chasing a woman who is not interested in you, for a fair comparison it's like being approached by the most neutral or least attractive woman and she keeps trying to get you to like you, it will never happen....or at least in extreme cases and even it's not worth the hassle, you will damage your only mental health if you do all that effort just to get a woman, it will only prove that you have placed her onto the pedestal and view her as higher value than yourself.
Been there, done that, things get better when you age :)
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Nice contents and advice, thanks man👍🏾
Dude loving the fit/hair. Straight GQ 💪🏻
I was expecting another video about BS “psychological tricks” but the advice here is way more powerful. Show your interest by actually listening and coming up with engaging questions based on details in the conversation. Yes
I still contend the "problem" is not her or how she thinks or even feels.
To me if anyone approaching a single female for the first time cannot be at ease within himself my contention is I (as the man) am the one with the bigger issue of why is this "so important" to me that I actually start to feel as though I am losing self-control and becoming anxious?
Alex can you do getting over a break up, I just got out of a relationship and I just need some advice.
Just be calm…. I know you’ll be better soon mate and congrats on the breakup tho’! Cheers mate !
Love the video, man!
one of the thing that i like in alex it's your language bro you use a simple world you talk slowly i can understand perfectly so thank you so much bro and keep going inspiring us 😘
Alex is bringing the American accent to a new level.
@@sayyer10 yes we can see 👌
Honestly I feel like you just have to not give a shit about anything. Whatever happens you'll feel great, plus you pretty much always hook up when you aren't attached to it
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Useful video for singles trying to impress their crush . Just like me 😂. Thanks Alex ❤️
Are you a boy or girl??
@@abhiramachari8954 ladka hu bhai 😂😂🙏🏻
@@Pranjal_Gupta007 aare tera naam dekh ke laga ki tu ladki hain. Sorry Haa 😅😅
@@abhiramachari8954 koi na bhai 😂 har single ladka isi khwahish mein hota hai ki koi ladki baat karle 😂😂
@@Pranjal_Gupta007 nhi re bro mein happy hoon single hoon toh
man Alex this tips are on fire
Splendid Content ! Keep it up !
It's all about looks. That's all you need
No bruh....
No.without height you can never go alone with only looks
@@Gatoradeia least you'd get matches. I see plenty of Manley's around with hoze. Maybe their females despise them but they don't have to be with them.. those females wouldn't even get to know me even if they don't like me I mean why will they let those guys know them even if they don't respect those guys but not me. I'm taller than some of these guys
Love you brother.🌹
Im from pakistan. I watch your all videos keep it up. ♥️♥️🇵🇰
sameee
And I thought I'm the only one
Pakistani
Me too lol
Glad to see my neighbours are also seeing good content! Keep it up brothers! 🇮🇳🇮🇳
You are on a right track man oh man love it.
Waiting for this topic badly
I think I'll get a girl soon with these tips😁😁
Lol yes bro mabe a couple for me with those advices
Really outdid yourself with this one, this is a whole dating course, ngl 😂
I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours..
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
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Wow those tips where perfect!!thank u💪👍
Alex is the best. He know how to give us confidence. Alex if you are seeing this, thanks man. You helped me a lot.
Can you do a video on how to make a school uniform look good? Like polos and chino pants?
Expecting like from Alex Costa ❤️🧡
I really needed this rn! I was having a real struggle with this yesterday!
I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me within 48hours..
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
Alex I like your hair ! it is different! Great job on your videos!!
1) Be confident, take a deep breath before talking to her
2) Dress well, have a good fashion sense
3) Have a good fragrance (most important)
4) Don't pressure her/ beg her
5) Compliment her (don't be cringy, be honest)
6) Make eye contact (don't keep staring)
7) Be a good listener, ask interesting questions to her
8) Have a positive body language, straight posture, keep your hands free while you are with her
Nonsense 🐷
My tips is improve yourself being good looking is just part of it being athletic smart and talented adds more to you. These skills make girls want you also working out to look better and make her regret it and maybe she will come and if she don’t it’s fine get a new girl
Well said Emmanuel
Yes Sir! That’s the way!
Goodjob with the hair bro , looking great