Really???...I have made completely different experiences. I feel like nothing really makes a different. Maybe being pretty lean....that was the only one that actually made a difference in my experience.
I'm fortunate to have a mother who taught me the art of dressing well since my early teenage years and a father who taught me the art of grooming when I turned 20. Both my parents, born in the 1965 and 1968, are from humble beginnings and had nothing of this but their imagination and life experience to learn what they share with me and my brother. Turned 30 a week ago and I, as well as my brother, still carry this and keep updating myself without too much of a fuss, whether I research Alex's channel or any other channel about clothing and grooming with scientific research. Obrigado Alex. P.S. I rarely comment videos as I rather keep my critical thinking to myself and practice it every single day.
Sorry for the audio on this one. Had issues with the mic so we did the best we could. Thank you for watching and enjoy your weekend. instagram.com/alexcosta -AC
Thus guy reminds you things you taught to younger men when you were younger and cared about it. Dress for our age accordingly, with proper color combinations. Dress your style with something she likes. A watch, a scarf ,shoes , a simple silver ring, your sunglasses. Then it depends on how you carry it. Thanks for posting.
Hi Alex, I am from Kerala, INDIA. In Kerala, usually we use Malayalam language to communicate, so I hadn't a lot of ideas about English language, but I need to conquer IELTS examination for go to abroad, so I watched plenty of videos of you. Your English is magnificent, so that is why I chose your videos, finally I cracked IELTS brother. I strongly believe you and your videos helped me to crack it, so thank you bro❤ one more thing now I am addicted to watching your video because I really love it.
Man love this guy my inspiration till I die I always search you on Pinterest and I'm on your discord channel very lucky to have you during my early 20's
New Subbed Here... As a man of color (A A) I can testify that the methods in this video works wonders. I used the Sandwich Method by pairing Tan (light brown) shirt with black dark wash jeans and Tan (light Brown) Swede minimal sneakers and the clothes was form fitting. I was complement by women of multiple races. So yes I can testify that the correct style is everything. And you know it works when other men start to men mug you (looking at you like they want to fight you)
@@soichirohonda267so true. Still dressing well can give you an extra point in the attractiveness. But to make it happen you need to at least be fit. Everybody knows that clothes are selling because they are looking great on models, not on most of the people who buy them.
I just sent this video to my son he's 16 going to be 17 and I always say dress to what you like but dress neat and clean and now you better than a couple of things to help me out to help him out appreciate it brother I've always had style and I always dress nice even at 65 I'm still styling nice
Building a suitable wardrobe takes time and perseverance. In the end, we can strive for the best version of ourselves. The way to approach it is a more playful way. I think the path can actually be the best thing about it. Thanks Alex
Clean, well groomed and well made clothes that are tayored to you. That you care about yourself enough to take care of yourself without being shallow is rock star. Taste and care over brands, save that extra cash for investing, being smart with money is way sexier regardless of income. Eat well and exercise. We do it and expect our partners to take care of themselves too. 😊 Love that he talks about skin tone, and color theory.
I have sons. They are young men. They are very stylish and always stand out. By the way, your sweater and low neck T-shirt is too feminine. Don't wear that. 😊
I agree Joano, and I am just a meathead. Because I am a meathead I was getting a bit ill from my eyes [which have a life of their own (men are visual)] gravitating to his neck-chest. Eyes are drawn to things that stick out, in this case, to his fairer [relative to his neighboring Face, a handsome one at that] less sun-smacked neck-chest. The very simple fix is a changing to a higher neckline t-shirt. And thus a perfect get up. And, I just now first came upon this great show, talented Host.
I am in my 60s I love women in their late thirties to around 48 since my 20s I have always had a thing for mature women so I dress for this type being in shape I attract their attention since I don’t look 60 but younger
I have to say this is 100% spot on! When I was 17 I met a random girl in college that befriended me and literally bought me clothes because she didn't like my style. I was the typical Poindexter stereotype. Oddly enough, she was modeling in the fashion industry and dressed me how Alex explained. From 18 years old through my late 20s, I had zero trouble getting a girl/woman's attention. In my 30s I slacked a lot because... life... and that fell off the map. I learned to avoid attention by wearing a baseball cap and dad sneakers to be left alone. It also reflected my life at the time, which was not the best so I was super sloppy. However, I still went back to the basics later like Alex is pointing out, and I was back on the horse. Women would make excuses to talk to me by asking about my cologne, necklace, watch, shoes, etc. Even when I'm chilling walking around with my "retro" camera, woman have stopped me to say, "Oh wow I love that camera! What is it?" Yes, a camera can also be an accessory. GL men!
Honestly, I don't think I think of women's interest when dressing up. Whether I go to the gym, going out to a party, going to a wedding, or something, I want to wear something that fit me physically, and fit my personality. Just basic, fitting but at the same time, rugged and have that masculine punch. This is why I always wear boots, because it's the single piece that makes your outfit. And I ALWAYS wear my shirts tucked in, with my full grain leather belt showing up. I want my physical self make the statement. I want the "swag" do the talking in a visual sense. I don't care about what women I want to attract, I just know women will get attracted when they see me regardless.
I agree about the...balance of fit of clothing. You don't want to be wearing something that hangs like a sack on the one hand, nor something that is so tight it looks as though it has been spray painted on either, I go for a MEDIUM fit in clothing, both for upper body clothes & lower, which to my eye looks best (incidently you look VERY groomed & presented, especially for your hair) perhaps too well turned out in some ways but good.
Today is my 42BD and I decided to stop looking like in my 20/30. I don't need to impress any other women in my life except 3 that I live with and if I will be able to do it that will be a hell of success for me coz I think my partner she has lost the faith😊
Bro I think your old studio setup and that small background music was better that today's 6 months ago you're videos was more fun to watch now it's I'm not saying it's bad it's awesome but the old setup was 💎 stand up and do videos
Some of these things are a direct contradiction. If your style has baggy clothes, it's a part of you, it's who you are.. BUT HEY, they're baggy and not form fitting, now you no longer look good and sexy because of that? Now suddenly your style is invalidated?? Guys are supposed to be logical, what the fuck. Fit and style can be a direct contradiction.
I have friends who are Euro Designer Brand outrageous. They have to be over the top with one statement piece. Tried to convince them that Designer logos are dated and to try Old Money Style. They wont and say it’s too boring. Clueless that it looks so much better
A woman once called me Mr fashionista, then her other friend chipped in and started a whole conversation about me. I had no clue they were noticing me for hours.😅
Oh my goodness. Woman here. Erm. Please men, please, please wear decent shoes and please stand up straight. Please wear trousers that fit your backside and do not make you look like you have three inch legs because the crotch is near your knees and please do not wear sloppy t shirts with stains and please do not wear overpowering aftershave. Other than that-it really is very simple. Clothes that fit, are clean and in a colour that suits you really are all it takes but it’s alarming how hard this seems to be. Good posture and a nice smile go a really long way but decent behaviour goes the furthest of all. ❤
I have rings on all my fingers, wear many necklaces stacked on each other, and wear a big watch on one wrist, and a bling bracelet on the other. I get so many compliments on dating apps and in real life. Women approach me saying they love my style. My style is rock n roll, with long hair, skinny jeans, and boots. I feel that I break many of your rules but I’m lucky with the ladies myself. One night stands a few times a month. My style rule is: CONFIDENCE. Be aware you look good, be funny, be direct with women (“excuse me, just wanna say you are the most beautiful here. I thought you should know”) and you will go far. Women want to be approached, but as long as you are smooth about it.
He's spouting nonsense. Someone with an attractive face can stink, wear muddy shoes or crumpled t-shirts that make pyjamas look like classy clothing, will catch the eye of women
This is funny and sad all that the same time also reminds me of a friend of mine it's like sum kind of cosplay lol being attracted to them because of the track suit and flat cap
I’m glad it was the audio issue because I was about to start saying why is Alex using the same lame tone Jose Zuniga started to use which killed the whole vibe 😅
Here’s a question for those who know skincare could answer this. Is having the Apricus Eye Serum and the Tinted Moisturizer good for teenagers who are a bit older (like almost out of high school older). I’m almost 18 but ive been on the edge on whether or not i should get one
I have cuts on my right arm, and I mainly wear long-sleeve shirts. I barely go outside because I normally have no one to hang out with, so I am usually nervous. I saw lots of pretty girls at Target, and one even smiled at me, but I have missing teeth. so everything just gives me anxiety when I am outside. So if I dress nice outside once I can afford it, I want to have more friends in my city, and I want to look attractive. There are so many times I let girls pass me by, and I want to talk to them, but I never know what to say and feel nervous. I wouldn't mind investing my future in things like gold bars or a nice college education, buying some bitcoin, or just buying something else. A fancy styish like Louis Vuitton is an expensive waste of money.
@@Aurora-bv1ys i was mainly just rambling, i feel stupid for even saying it. but please remember that if you Look attractive you will likely gain confidence from it.
I would love to wear my analog watch. But I prefer to wear my Apple Watch because it shows me my messages, especially when I'm in meetings and need to know if there's an important message and it monitors my fitness. Unfortunately, whoop can't display the messages, do you have any ideas?
@alex Costa, I like to be stylish and my Instagram is well-curated too. However, sometimes being too well-dressed can seem unmasculine for girls, especially in Moscow (Russia). I see that girls here are more attracted to brands. What are your thoughts?
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When you know how to dress, it makes you so noticeable. Being well groomed + wearing clothes that fit you and stylish is game changing.
Definitely man, it's a game changer
Yess very true. I noticed a significant change when i started to dress good.
This is like a something my girlfriend would say
Really???...I have made completely different experiences. I feel like nothing really makes a different. Maybe being pretty lean....that was the only one that actually made a difference in my experience.
It doesn't matter if she doesn't find you physically attractive!
I'm fortunate to have a mother who taught me the art of dressing well since my early teenage years and a father who taught me the art of grooming when I turned 20. Both my parents, born in the 1965 and 1968, are from humble beginnings and had nothing of this but their imagination and life experience to learn what they share with me and my brother. Turned 30 a week ago and I, as well as my brother, still carry this and keep updating myself without too much of a fuss, whether I research Alex's channel or any other channel about clothing and grooming with scientific research. Obrigado Alex. P.S. I rarely comment videos as I rather keep my critical thinking to myself and practice it every single day.
Sorry for the audio on this one. Had issues with the mic so we did the best we could.
Thank you for watching and enjoy your weekend.
instagram.com/alexcosta
-AC
❤ from India
Love those AI images you're incorporating in your videos! Keep up the great work!
No problem but don't stop i wish you'll get diamond play button on 10 million all the best love from India, Rajasthan
Love from India 🇮🇳 ♥️
its alright man! keep up the good work and you have literally change my style from invisible to noticeable
I really like the more relaxed and mature style of the video. Keep on going!
Bro is always polite and best ❤he explains so clearly
Raju Bhai, don't be silly man!!!
Our boy is back Alex ❤
Seeing both of my "crushes" today,at different locations going to put this video to good use today.Thanks Alex!
Good luck
You should keep doing longer videos like this, great !
Thank you
Thus guy reminds you things you taught to younger men when you were younger and cared about it.
Dress for our age accordingly, with proper color combinations. Dress your style with something she likes.
A watch, a scarf ,shoes , a simple silver ring, your sunglasses.
Then it depends on how you carry it.
Thanks for posting.
Hi Alex, I am from Kerala, INDIA. In Kerala, usually we use Malayalam language to communicate, so I hadn't a lot of ideas about English language, but I need to conquer IELTS examination for go to abroad, so I watched plenty of videos of you. Your English is magnificent, so that is why I chose your videos, finally I cracked IELTS brother. I strongly believe you and your videos helped me to crack it, so thank you bro❤ one more thing now I am addicted to watching your video because I really love it.
Polik monoose
@@Sarath0100irikkatte🤣
Podcast keke bro...
@@sachinps8729 podcast nee kalum enikk ishttam aayath ivante okke videos aabro
കൊള്ളാലോ
One of the most self-devloping 21 minutes of my life Thank you soo much. ❤
Lo Mismo!!!!
Stylish folks are always at the front of the line.
Facts my man
They get noticed
Like the background Jazz music and the more chilled video style.
Man love this guy my inspiration till I die I always search you on Pinterest and I'm on your discord channel very lucky to have you during my early 20's
New Subbed Here... As a man of color (A A) I can testify that the methods in this video works wonders. I used the Sandwich Method by pairing Tan (light brown) shirt with black dark wash jeans and Tan (light Brown) Swede minimal sneakers and the clothes was form fitting. I was complement by women of multiple races. So yes I can testify that the correct style is everything. And you know it works when other men start to men mug you (looking at you like they want to fight you)
Again, if you are attractive, this helps. If you are not, it doesn't matter at all.
@@soichirohonda267so true. Still dressing well can give you an extra point in the attractiveness. But to make it happen you need to at least be fit. Everybody knows that clothes are selling because they are looking great on models, not on most of the people who buy them.
You're right about other men looking jealous and angry. I got this look every time, especially if they are with their women lol
Its being 4yrs of watching your vids and much inspired!
Thanks for sticking around, glad to have you
I just sent this video to my son he's 16 going to be 17 and I always say dress to what you like but dress neat and clean and now you better than a couple of things to help me out to help him out appreciate it brother I've always had style and I always dress nice even at 65 I'm still styling nice
Building a suitable wardrobe takes time and perseverance. In the end, we can strive for the best version of ourselves. The way to approach it is a more playful way. I think the path can actually be the best thing about it. Thanks Alex
Clean, well groomed and well made clothes that are tayored to you. That you care about yourself enough to take care of yourself without being shallow is rock star. Taste and care over brands, save that extra cash for investing, being smart with money is way sexier regardless of income. Eat well and exercise. We do it and expect our partners to take care of themselves too. 😊 Love that he talks about skin tone, and color theory.
Protect this man at all costs!!!❤️💐💯
This is a super helpful video thanks alex 😊❤
Girls will always remember those stylish and good dresser. ❤.
The video editing is amazing
This video was so good, it had so many hacks and it was vibey, Thanks Alex
This is one of your best videos.
I always comlement my sweatshirt hoodie with a matching sweatpants
Great content as always, really enjoyed the editing choices!
Thanks man!
Dress like Ward Cleaver and always be in style TUNE IN AND OBSERVE
Love this video and added details on it❤
This is a lesson for life
Professional educational just wish there were more pictures
I have sons. They are young men. They are very stylish and always stand out. By the way, your sweater and low neck T-shirt is too feminine. Don't wear that. 😊
Yeah it really does look like a fall white girl outfit, to put it bluntly 😂
I agree Joano, and I am just a meathead. Because I am a meathead I was getting a bit ill from my eyes [which have a life of their own (men are visual)] gravitating to his neck-chest. Eyes are drawn to things that stick out, in this case, to his fairer [relative to his neighboring Face, a handsome one at that] less sun-smacked neck-chest. The very simple fix is a changing to a higher neckline t-shirt. And thus a perfect get up. And, I just now first came upon this great show, talented Host.
Yes, the neckline is too low!!
😂🎉
That’s a tank top and the sweater looks masculine, Idk what you find feminine in this outfit 😂
I am in my 60s I love women in their late thirties to around 48 since my 20s I have always had a thing for mature women so I dress for this type being in shape I attract their attention since I don’t look 60 but younger
I have to say this is 100% spot on! When I was 17 I met a random girl in college that befriended me and literally bought me clothes because she didn't like my style. I was the typical Poindexter stereotype. Oddly enough, she was modeling in the fashion industry and dressed me how Alex explained. From 18 years old through my late 20s, I had zero trouble getting a girl/woman's attention.
In my 30s I slacked a lot because... life... and that fell off the map. I learned to avoid attention by wearing a baseball cap and dad sneakers to be left alone. It also reflected my life at the time, which was not the best so I was super sloppy. However, I still went back to the basics later like Alex is pointing out, and I was back on the horse. Women would make excuses to talk to me by asking about my cologne, necklace, watch, shoes, etc. Even when I'm chilling walking around with my "retro" camera, woman have stopped me to say, "Oh wow I love that camera! What is it?" Yes, a camera can also be an accessory. GL men!
Do you get laid though?
Very nice bunch of advices. Sending love and support.
Best thing to wear is kindness and honesty.
No large logos over 40. Only gym wear small one on the left side of chest. No silly patterns.
I never thought to put it out there bit I came up with a similar method to the Sandwich method I called it the yin yang
Yo my sister is the one who asked him! Dammmn
Love this vid !
Honestly, I don't think I think of women's interest when dressing up. Whether I go to the gym, going out to a party, going to a wedding, or something, I want to wear something that fit me physically, and fit my personality. Just basic, fitting but at the same time, rugged and have that masculine punch. This is why I always wear boots, because it's the single piece that makes your outfit. And I ALWAYS wear my shirts tucked in, with my full grain leather belt showing up. I want my physical self make the statement. I want the "swag" do the talking in a visual sense. I don't care about what women I want to attract, I just know women will get attracted when they see me regardless.
In other words, you don't get laid.
Welcome back with new video bro 😎👍
Today I'm Greatful for you alex love you bro ✨ ❤
Fantastic video
Thank you very much Alex.🧔♂👍
I agree about the...balance of fit of clothing.
You don't want to be wearing something that hangs like a sack on the one hand, nor something that is so tight it looks as though it has been spray painted on either, I go for a MEDIUM fit in clothing, both for upper body clothes & lower, which to my eye looks best (incidently you look VERY groomed & presented, especially for your hair) perhaps too well turned out in some ways but good.
Extra points for Costa for being able to pull it off while being color blind.
Dress for yourself not other people
Love this video, alex
Facts!
Nice outfit Alex 🔥
Glad you like it, thanks man
Hello Alex!! make a video on how to style for a skinny boy
subscribed instantly
Today is my 42BD and I decided to stop looking like in my 20/30. I don't need to impress any other women in my life except 3 that I live with and if I will be able to do it that will be a hell of success for me coz I think my partner she has lost the faith😊
Great video!! Can u tell me the name of that painting behind u?! It’s fire!!! Thx Rob
Bro I think your old studio setup and that small background music was better that today's 6 months ago you're videos was more fun to watch now it's I'm not saying it's bad it's awesome but the old setup was 💎 stand up and do videos
Some of these things are a direct contradiction. If your style has baggy clothes, it's a part of you, it's who you are.. BUT HEY, they're baggy and not form fitting, now you no longer look good and sexy because of that? Now suddenly your style is invalidated?? Guys are supposed to be logical, what the fuck. Fit and style can be a direct contradiction.
Nice video, I like your passion for fashion, I can see that you put a lot of time into the video. :) .... anyway, I make do with my few t-shirts :DD
Can you link the Suit Supply blazer? Is it light grey or mid grey? Love it!
Hey Alex,
Can you please let me know what you’re wearing in this video and where can I find them? Thank you!
I have friends who are Euro Designer Brand outrageous. They have to be over the top with one statement piece. Tried to convince them that Designer logos are dated and to try Old Money Style. They wont and say it’s too boring. Clueless that it looks so much better
They are idiots, but eventually they will learn.
Perfect video
Nice edite 🌊
A woman once called me Mr fashionista, then her other friend chipped in and started a whole conversation about me. I had no clue they were noticing me for hours.😅
Oh my goodness. Woman here. Erm. Please men, please, please wear decent shoes and please stand up straight. Please wear trousers that fit your backside and do not make you look like you have three inch legs because the crotch is near your knees and please do not wear sloppy t shirts with stains and please do not wear overpowering aftershave. Other than that-it really is very simple. Clothes that fit, are clean and in a colour that suits you really are all it takes but it’s alarming how hard this seems to be. Good posture and a nice smile go a really long way but decent behaviour goes the furthest of all. ❤
I have rings on all my fingers, wear many necklaces stacked on each other, and wear a big watch on one wrist, and a bling bracelet on the other. I get so many compliments on dating apps and in real life. Women approach me saying they love my style. My style is rock n roll, with long hair, skinny jeans, and boots.
I feel that I break many of your rules but I’m lucky with the ladies myself. One night stands a few times a month. My style rule is: CONFIDENCE. Be aware you look good, be funny, be direct with women (“excuse me, just wanna say you are the most beautiful here. I thought you should know”) and you will go far. Women want to be approached, but as long as you are smooth about it.
Thank god I’m in a relationship so I don’t have to deal with this shit 😂
He's spouting nonsense. Someone with an attractive face can stink, wear muddy shoes or crumpled t-shirts that make pyjamas look like classy clothing, will catch the eye of women
I appreciate you bro
Really liked your outfit Alex. Is that a sweat shirt ?
Alex, make a video with fashion brand tier list 2024🙏
always wear classic menswear. never follow trends!
This is funny and sad all that the same time also reminds me of a friend of mine it's like sum kind of cosplay lol being attracted to them because of the track suit and flat cap
Yeah but I wounder how many men that dress well actually have style (and knowledge) as yourself or just a mother, sister, stylist or lots of money.
for once lets just look good for ourselves. I mean I get it and all.. but Does it have to be for women all the time??
Hello, Alex !
Hey, thanks for watching 👊
I’m glad it was the audio issue because I was about to start saying why is Alex using the same lame tone Jose Zuniga started to use which killed the whole vibe 😅
Big fan bro ❤
background music is quite relaxing
Putting pictures of a flash car on a dating app.., sums up 2024 🤦♂️
Shout out to Alex's editor he's definitely doing his work
Thanks man, he's doing a great job
I don’t try to attract women , that’s why women are undoubtedly attracted to me , sense of humour and don’t give a fuck attitude is all you need
Do you get laid though?
Here’s a question for those who know skincare could answer this. Is having the Apricus Eye Serum and the Tinted Moisturizer good for teenagers who are a bit older (like almost out of high school older). I’m almost 18 but ive been on the edge on whether or not i should get one
Where did you get that cardigan if you don’t mind me asking?
The music in the background makes it hard to focus and get the idea .
Jazz music background ❤
The music for this video is wrong and there’s too many sound effects. the audio is off when you’re speaking - you need the mic closer to you
We had some audio issues with this video, my apologies
I'll not change myself, If she really loves me, she'll not judge me by my style, fashion, clothes, in some aspects girls like simple subtle guys!
You are far away from reality
Another confidence boosting video from alex bro, spent a 20 mins for this valuable thing to watch!❤🔥
Back ground music kill it 100% level up
I have cuts on my right arm, and I mainly wear long-sleeve shirts. I barely go outside because I normally have no one to hang out with, so I am usually nervous. I saw lots of pretty girls at Target, and one even smiled at me, but I have missing teeth.
so everything just gives me anxiety when I am outside. So if I dress nice outside once I can afford it, I want to have more friends in my city, and I want to look attractive. There are so many times I let girls pass me by, and I want to talk to them, but I never know what to say and feel nervous.
I wouldn't mind investing my future in things like gold bars or a nice college education, buying some bitcoin, or just buying something else. A fancy styish like Louis Vuitton is an expensive waste of money.
I agree with the last statement.
@@Aurora-bv1ys i was mainly just rambling, i feel stupid for even saying it. but please remember that if you Look attractive you will likely gain confidence from it.
Wear a tank top, sweat pants, and boat shoes. You're good to go. 😆
I would love to wear my analog watch. But I prefer to wear my Apple Watch because it shows me my messages, especially when I'm in meetings and need to know if there's an important message and it monitors my fitness. Unfortunately, whoop can't display the messages, do you have any ideas?
Hey apex great video, i think you are losing hairs, natural but just wanted ti tell what I noticed
@alex Costa, I like to be stylish and my Instagram is well-curated too. However, sometimes being too well-dressed can seem unmasculine for girls, especially in Moscow (Russia). I see that girls here are more attracted to brands. What are your thoughts?
Do you think that white t-shirt is right?
bro, why did ya change ya thumbnail, it was good with your pic on it
Wait what
@@uknowme713
@@uknowme713thats their dad
Is LMD applicable for dark bottom light inside and medium coat?
I love this studio. GIVES THE OLD LOS ANGELES STUDIO VIBE!.!.!.!
can we get ig photo pose ideas with earthy outfits(basics) casual please
good video but sound quality is bad
Noted, thanks for insight