What to do when a girl looks or smiles at you
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In today's video, we’ll cover how to respond to when a girl smiles your way. 99% of guys think it's about what they're doing wrong- but it's not about what you do, it's about what you DON'T do. Watch the video and let me know in the comments if you learned something new.
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whenever i smile, it feels like i am sexually harassing someone.. darn it.
Start talking to another girl😂
Q😊
Some girls might smile but doesn’t mean they want you to ask her out
When a woman smiles at me, I look to see who is standing behind me.....up to 5 miles
I just assume she wants to sell me sth.
consequences of being ugly, I do it too brother
To pickup a girl at a supermarket, you have to be Mr. Casanova or else forget it.
Dude I did this one time, there was no one behind me and she kept looking smiling eyes wide open at me, I triple checked, refused to elaborate and went out 🥲
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855not if she sends a choosing signal
I find not getting attached to your desired results helps maintain confidence. Just put yourself out there and have fun.
Sure
That costs me energy I don't like to spend that much energy without getting something in return.
Exactly, this is magic !!!!!
Honestly, I just taught myself no beautiful woman would be interested in me so I started to treat a beautiful woman like a normal person... No hitting on her, no special treatment, no stupid pickup lines I was just myself which allows all my nerves and fears to vanish. Little did I know it makes your confidence look HUGE. This is how I met 3 of my long-term gfs. It actually caused a few of them to ask for my number especially if we had something in common. I was a guitar player so at one point I was asked to give her lessons because she always wanted to learn, found out later she didn't care about the guitar lessons 🤣
@@jay-pg2ib nah actually thts good
I remember when the thumbnail tweet said "don't smile back"
Click bait 😅
It's all about being relaxed. Match her energy, build rapport, and then it's all about keeping it interesting. Don't push the conversation if it's ending. You guys are studs 🤜🏼🤛🏼
Great tips Scotty!
When a girl smiles at you, the best thing to do is leave - quickly.
If you want to be alone and an Incel.
It's a trap!!!!
This Man posts the right video at the right time for me...
His content is just the right one
Happy to help in any way
Just.. the thumbnail could also be genuine. That's not nice!
No matter a girl or whatever person smiles at me, I always just look back with a straight dead face
That's a mistake.
like someone with a brain injury or a severe mental illness
Same! I assume everyone dislikes me, or, agnostic at a minimum.
Relation with girls and understanding girls overall is like learning about some new species everytime to me 😅
That's the fun part imo
If a Girl really loves you, she will move a mountain and if she doesn't love you, she'll add a mountain in-between. It's that simple.
but, she doesn't even know you...
This man changed the way of my style thanku so much alex ❤❤
That means a lot thank you
thanks Alex, you broke it down really down for me to see where you going at with this. good inserts in the videos!’ 👍🏼
Watching Alex is going from zero to hero,
going from Alex Free to Alex Costa
I think if the person is interested then she will make it known by coming up to you, make conversation, proximity etc.
So my advice to any bro out there is to always be in position of strength. You dont show interest if she dont, you dont be friendly if shes not. Treat them as they treat you.
Key thing is, for any succes, the person has to find you physically attractive. If she dont then theres no point.
Attraction is hair, face, body and cloathes.
So make sure your hair and cloathes are stylish and dont be overweight.
The only thing you cant control is your face/genetics.
And you've been with how many women?
And you're wrong. Personality & Game over rule looks.
@@NicoSimonPrincely Looks first before personality or game...She need to find you physically and sexsualy attractive before she can even notice your personality and game...Can you upload you personality and game on dating app?
Have you ever heard the word superficial ? Cause you just described it, social media dreamer.?
Cope.Looks are everything.@@NicoSimonPrincely
You are right my friend, it starts with attraction. From there you can show them your personality. But if there is no atracción there is nothing.
Nice non-toxic advice! 😄
Day by day Alex improve their content quality.
Keep it up bro👍🏽
Their/bro
Alex sir! I and my friend just had conversation on this topic and you uploaded this video... Helpful for us we both watched your video also I got some positive energy from your speech... Thank you... Btw i changed my dressing sense by watching you .... Love from India🇮🇳
Make a video on the best summer floral shirt dresses for look maxing ❤
I started watching your videos about 2 years ago . It is literally noticable how great the videos turned out to be . Keep it up this is what we call "Quality Content"❤
Great one !
Thanks brother ,really helped alot
REMEMBER,.. The thing is, you miss all the shots you don't take.. a friendly smile or hello doesn't mean your hitting on her, and if SHE does take offense at that, TRUST, she is not anyone you want to be with.. jus match the energy.. the bad rap cold approaches get is that 99% of dudes can't read the ZERO INTEREST signs and misinterpret friendliness as flirting..
so jus get out there!!
Great video Man , Absolutely love your content!!
what 😭
Amazing , keep it up Alex costa ❤
Thank you, will do!
The fact that I got a reel on ig where girls ask and us guys answer and then literally i got recommended this video 💀🔥🔥
The level of these videos are going crazy 🔥🔥
Crazy good
Thank you Alex costa
The Background Score is OP🔥
This speaks to me
thank you Alex for teaching men, you will create more and healthy relationships out there ❤❤❤
Don’t forget guys….she also missed her shot.
😂
And that change anything? Its a missed shot, end of story.
She has 99 bros left on read
Cope harder goof
@@jcransome5616That she doesn't want...
The confidence we all want🌕🍷
You are a total heartthrob dude!😉
Hey alex, can you plz do more videos on fashion
Hey Alex, I wanted to buy the Forte Pomade, but its sold out everywhere and its not on the main site no more?
Thanks for the advice but I don't think Ana De Armas is ever smiling at me 💀
Never heard of her, whats her OF so I can research
@@phabeondominguez5971shes an actor bruh, man said OF
Hi Alex, I am from India love ur content. Got the insight of the lives in NYC by ur videos.
3:00 "What do you say?"
"Chiti chiti bang bang Ya ba da ba doo"
Hell yah, works for me 🤣
winner 😂😂😂😂🎉
thanks mate
Some girls might smile but doesn’t mean they want you to ask her out
True but you won’t know until you try.
WHAT IS THE PROCEDURE for the visa and how many days will
the conversation should be true or rather genuine which then leads to that polarity
question. i feel like girls always smile, but its meaningless. like they do it to everyone, and they are just being polite and would rather not engage in actual talk. is this incorrect?
Same. Sometimes it means nothing at all to be honest. I had tried once to speak at her first but it seems she don't want to talk. Failed miserably!!! 😂
Most men are invisible to women like a background or wallpaper. If you’re being smiled at then you’re halfway there champ.
@@chrizmarkdeasis7761 after waking up ill have everyone all peppy and saying "good morning how are you". i respond with "good". and thats it lol. so when i finally wanted to up my socializing game i said, "good, how are you" the girl misheard me and though i said only "good". i missheard her and thought she said she was doing "bad" lol. i wish things are clear. people seems cheery and talkative one day. then quiet another day. ill put in work brushing my teeth and using deodorant. then everyone gets quiet. life is confusing and i already dont have enought motivation to deal with this shit. single for life baby, ima live the best life i can i guess lol
@@saltgame5823 We're on the same boat buddy already!
What if she's recorded for her tiktok and you don't know?!
First love from India Alex❤
My Future dream couple in the thumbnail🥺❣️
A very nice and helpful video.
Its easy to talk for you. You have the options to talk to high value woman. Im 18 live with my mom have to go to therapy and i feel like im drained. I Had a good start with a girl and i was chill but but i have anxiety problems that is uncontrolable. She left. Why would i try it if i know its gonna fail, because todays younger girls (16-25) they all like to have fun,cheat, play with you're feelings and then laugh when you're hurt because its "weak" when a man cries. When they "mature" +30ys then all of a sudden nobody wants them and they cry because nobody loves them anymore. Like i can tell girls are looking/smiling but why would i even begin something where i know its gonna end up with another heartbreak. Good souls are lost fr
Hi i am form india . Appreciate you bro
Where’d you get that sweater my man?
The whole “we live in a simulation thing” y’all ever think something bigger is controlling media? I know some people may think this is harmless situation but the core problem of influencers all doing the same videos around the same time is alarming. Why/how do TMF/Alex and other influencers roll out the same video on the same time and no it’s not part of a trend.
I am from India
I am also see your videos
It's really good 👍
Good video! Mostly too, you have to be ready , when your ready for the opportunity, they’ll fall in your lap
Hey, what shirt is that? or at least the brand
Trust me Alex costa is the only person Marvel's should contact if anyone in the world deserves the place for the next Iron man role (He almost looks like the RDJ from 2012 ❤)
IDK. It's never happened to me, ever.
I will go with the thumbnail 😂
Where did you get the knit sweater and what size?
Girls never look at me. Or smile at me.
The same happens to me.
Its all about looks dont stress to much 😉😉
damn bro , your videos are getting great day by day .
Hi iam a very big fan of you alex love from india
OR the girl just being nice, smiling to to you ,not necessary mean anything .
Does it still mean attraction if you smile first? I work retail and during my breaks and after work (When not in uniform) its very common (Multiple times a day) that I lock eyes with a female and smile, then they give me a smile back. Is that still a sign of attraction or a common courtesy? I just couldn't imagine locking eyes with a girl and NOT smiling, it just seems so cold and serial killer like....
Just keep walking!
*Smile back and nod head up and down, yes thinking "lets do it baby.* 🙂
I've been in that same kind of situation I just don't know what I'm going to do so I just looked in different directions and try to get out in that situation as fast as possible.
First, Love from UK Alex
Me: i see a very stunning women look and blush's at me.
My brain: Run as fast as possible, and don't look back.
If you are in a position of power, by not being desperate it comes across well. Once I build up my physical fitness, my earning potential and my mindset. My confidence and the attractability shot up. Stay Uncommon!
Just use eye contact to your advantage and just smile back. And pay attention to her body language. If she looks away, could be she is also nervous. Just think she is looking at you for a reason. If you weren't even in the picture, her eyes wouldn't lock on to yours in the first place. They love sending signals. So play the game and play a game of your own. The results are pretty staggering when I treated them like they were equal to me and not above me in anyway. Even if you fail the shot with conversation, it still sends signals that are positive. So just practice your art and delivery. Then things start getting easier. It takes practice guys. So get out there with conviction and have some fun.
Love From Nepal Alex Brother❤
Me too
If a girl looks at you and smiles, look at her and ask, will I become a dentist now?
Alex are you still in newyork
''What to do when a girl smiles at you''
Lol jokes on you, women never smile at me 😅
Best way to get over the anxiety is to not expect anything just talk to her as you wanna be friends
First thumbnail was better alex❤
changed it back for you
I have a question, what if a girl rejects/shuts you off in the rudest way possible? How do you respond to that kind of comment? Like, they say something like "I'm not interested in guys from X country/ethnicity" or "stay away from me you creep" and turns her head sideways? Ofcourse you said approaching only those girls that give you inviting signals but many guys still misinterpret signs..
Her attitude is not your problem.
@@leesmallone3680 You're delusional if you think how people treat others don't affect them.
I consult the manual immediately,
Hey Alex I approach girls all the time I’m at the gym but what if they say there talking to someone what should I say
Just say you respect that and tell her to have a good workout. Nothing wrong with that
do another morning routine!!
Soon! I just posted a night time routine last week did you see that?
@@alexcostaYup it was really helpful and i can’t wait to see your next morning routine!!
Women just want to have fun, so just have fun. Keep it playful, a little funny or cheeky and JUST HAVE FUN with it.
Because they later say.....what are you looking at CREEP
researched a whole bunch about how to talk to women or what to say on dates and also spoke with a a lot of my guy friends and family members, they all said one thing in common - "Get out of your head, be yourself and be present with her"
I did just that and we've been seeing each other for the past month now.
If I have one thing to say it's to not put anyone on a pedestal, especially women who hear the same compliments all the time. Treat them like a normal human being or like a regular person/friend. That's the best advise I can offer, this will allow you to relax and not be so tensed, makes the whole interaction so much smoother. Don't try to plan what to say next, you're going to fumble and stumble and it's just going to put you in an awkward position. You wont be everyone's cup of tea and not everyone will be yours, give yourself some grace and just go with the flow and have fun with it. Good luck and cheers!
Most of the times when girl stares it feels expressionless(just eye lock),what to do then?
I am Faisal and I love your videos Alex
just imagine how much research alex put into this.
Tks. I’ve been barking at girls for 5 years and had no clue what was wrong
I ruined the first day i reached the girl by asking to many questions and i got the compliment of being pretty annoying. Is there anyway to recover from that and have her alex?
Do you speak Portuguese?
00:10 now listen it from the start once again 0:01 "okay picture this........... "😂
I think if Ana De Armas smiled at me I’d just faint! 😂
for real, bro
Love from Bangladesh. I'm live in Texas.
Caraxes looks more terrifying than ever... good
How do I talk to a girl who’s in her friend group? I have my eyes on someone atm but she’s always with someone.
Start befriending all her friend
Alex is it okay if the guy smiles first ?
nah bro
What if the smile happens walking passed each other on the street opposite directions on the move. Happens pretty often on my walks exercising and it kills me, but seems like bad timing. Right? Or is there a way to do it without being creepy? Usually I just smile back and say “hi”. Or “how are you?” They say hi back or say “good thanks” and it’s over before I know it. (which is reasonable obviously) hahah I just don’t know what else to say 🤷♂️
What else can I do in this situation?
What if I never get any signal to approach?
Than you live in the real world...these RUclipsrs just make videos to capitalize on you .. dating and family is destroyed ... No women has any worth in the modern world just box...good luck
Run 😂😂
Love from India alex 🎉
Alex didn't reply me
Jose released a video like this
Its not just that we dont know. Its more that we dont want to... we know what comes after. Most men nowadays prefer to end alone