I parted ways with my man, we had 1 child but I never neglected my daughter. 2day she's doing her masters. I wouldn't have stayed in a relationship that was not healthy for the sake of my daughter. 2day we all happy.
One thing about my heart I dnt entertain man who ask money from me 😢I leave, I block 🚫 I this RUclips stories always opens my eyes, childhood trauma in her is real, may God heal Dudu❤🙏🕯
The issue here is that people don't consider statuary rape as rape, but here is an evidence of why people should be arrested for such. This young lady was groomed and its due to age. This is why this happened
I waited for 3yrs and when he come out he ddnt bother to tell me l saw it on Facebook with new posts😂 when he see that I liked his pictures he blocked me 😂😂😂😂
Tjooooooo mara ladys we must just stay away from people who are in Prison I know we sympathize a lot mara we must stop hleee who are we to change this bad people 😂😢
My relative used this other woman while he was in jail. She bought him clothes, food and even gave jobs to his nieces. But when he was released he did not want her anymore. He wouldn't even share a bed with her, she would sleep in the big house when she visits him and he would sleep in the outside room. Now he is married to a nurse and she was badly disappointed. Ladies love yourself
Ladies this thing is real I am telling you, I know of a lady who is also from Zim with her partner who was arrested so she would always go visit him, give him money, buy him expensive clothes while he was in prison here on SA😢 when he was released he didn't even bother to tell her, she only discovered when she went to visit him him & was told he was deployed to Zim 2 weeks ago, she went crazy than stories came out him posting with his other girlfriend on social media... Forgetting who was always there for him.. that lady nearly dead cause when we were warning her about buying him expensive clothes, giving him monies, when I say monies I mean alot of money.. This is real & so sad. My sister may God almighty restore you double of what you lost.. keep praying
Am also like this lady . When I love someone I do extreme things but it changed when I took loans to bail out my ex from prison only for him to disappear on me and left me to pay up the loans alone and i was younger than him with 20plus years and I was still in school 😢I vowed never ever to go to the extremes because of love till this day the guy never came back to apologise but am.over it now cause am dating the best man I the world who goes to the extremes for me❤
As women we are not meant to love men, if a lady convinces herself she loves a man, she'll make stupid mistakes and men will take advantage of her. Im sorry to what happened to you sweetie.❣️❣️
So sad indeed, but what I like about you're so intelligent to fight for yourself. So many of us avoid redflags and it will never change to green. Al the best with your son❤
Truly speaking as ladies we got robbed in the name of love, I was once a victim fell I love with a hustler guy I used my salary to support his dreams nd neglected me out of nowhere. I paid rent for him for almost two years R3000 monthly and do other things he needed monthly nd it's two months now being ghosted after I told him I feel that I'm being financial abused .anyway moved swiftly cause I realize he never loved me he needed me to do things for him 😢
Keep helping people in need my sister God sees your heart ❤️ and HE will bless you NOT them 🙏 ❤️ Keep focusing on the Lord HE will lighten up your ways 🙏
Abantu abasejele baneskhathi sonke so vele you will fall in love with them ngoba vele bayazi ukuthi thina bantu besifazane sifuna iskhathi sabo kanti ejele banaso iskhathi abayi ndawo, heal sister kuzolunga
Askies Dùdu,,,i once dated ujailbird ngiright ngalabo,,ubekafuna imali njalo 😂😂😂😂😂,,my close relatives used to reprimand me n i never wanted to listen,,i can write a book
My younger sister is going through the same thing but her boyfriend is not a prisoner, he's unemployed. My younger sister is spending her money on him and he's turning her against her family and children. I don't know how to help her because she doesn't listen.
Let her be, if you continue being against the rship thy will try by all means to prove yu guys to be wrong by fighting for that rship Kant if you keep quiet and not involve yourselves in her situation she won't have any1 to prove to and end up seeing her toxic situation.
I think this love is just as addictive as gambling and drug use, that person becomes your high, uzwa izwi lakhe kuphela.just like the demons in the casino...one lady shared her story that nobody else had a say in her life at that time besides the casino, she wanted to be there, she didn't care about anybody else.this is sad 😢 I hope you heal mama and forgive yourself.
Ladies, the bible says a man must be a provider, not a woman. Once you start maintaining the man, you are doing the opposite of what God has commanded, and there is no magic that will make man to love and resoect you. He actually sees a full and milk cow. Secondly its rare that when a prisoner is released,he will stick to you because they want to explore and engage in new relationship's.
The way the topic of women who do not allow fathers to have a relationship with their children hurts me all the time. I know the impact of not having a father. Sometimes life throws you curve balls in the form of a man who raped his own child, how do you allow him to have a relationship with his three children while social workers are saying " he cannot have a relationship with his children without supervision" then he chooses he rather not have a relationship with his children at all. Even when his children reach out to him, he blocks their efforts.
@@NomandlaNyosi😂😂 guys in prison they use idliso lephupho and mirror to monitor their victim. You have no clue prisoners are ruthless and bayathakatha.
My brother leaves someone also who waited for him for 5 years while he was in prison, she was doing everything for him, but yena he comes out after a few months he is with someone else😳
I think it's bcoz men know as women we get approached so he mightve thought there's no way she didn't get some, even Mandela divorced Winnie coz there's no way she wasn't busy 27 years.
Exactly how my brother's story but karma dealt 😮with him the lady he left the lady set him up and gotten beaten by lot of people he nearly died 🤣🤣🤣🤣and he is now disabled im not laughing but that lady was a sweetheart and i love her
Yooooo mjolo and uhlezi esho u MC MENZISTO UKUTHI LABANTU ABASEJELE BANAMANGA ABANYE BABO BAKHOMBISA UTHANDO UMA SENGAPHAKATHI BUT MAKE APHUMA RED FLAG 🚩 UYAWABONA
Kahle nje mina angisithengi lesi story sokuthi ngoba abazali bebenza so dats y nami ngenza so NO y don't u build your future chooser istrata instead of skul
My boys said that to mah why are you still Shezi on your social media accounts pls remove that surname I said to them akangidivorsile ubaba wenu bathi sikhiphe ngathi abenze bashintsha bona wonke amasocial media ami.lobaba uhambe 2020 washada wangishiya nestifiketi mina but I’m so proud ukuthi tomorrow it’s my birthday and our 18th year anniversary kodwa mina ngiyolanda decree angijabule kanje,I did it on purpose ukuylanda on this particular day because ngifuna ukukhohlwa completely nje ngalomshado
This kind of things also happen to grown ups she's not the only one but the bad thing is that she was still young. Madam speaker please invite Tshidi Monkoe she wrote a book prison love
@@gogiphum915 True, she was young and he said, he's being accused falsely. She was young and being manipulated is easy when you're young. You believe anything.
Those men in prison want ladies who will support them whilst they are inside. Never fall for prison guys please
Women needs to understand our weakness is through words
May this kind of love never locate me 😭✅
me too
@@annastanciancube2720if you are too nice it will find you mntase, be stern and know your boundaries
😂😂😂 if u convince urself as a girl that u love a man, ull make the most stupid mistakes. Women we are not meant to love men.
😂😂 God never said as women we shld love men, if u convince urself u love a man, ull make silly mistakes. She was young to know this.
This not luv😂😂😂
I parted ways with my man, we had 1 child but I never neglected my daughter. 2day she's doing her masters. I wouldn't have stayed in a relationship that was not healthy for the sake of my daughter. 2day we all happy.
She was a child… She had no chance spotting any red flags.
True😢
So true
Yes she was a baby
It's very unfortunate she was just a baby 😢
Yes, so true 😢
One thing about my heart I dnt entertain man who ask money from me 😢I leave, I block 🚫 I this RUclips stories always opens my eyes, childhood trauma in her is real, may God heal Dudu❤🙏🕯
khanyi Mbau said it " A man will leave you in the desert without water"
I'm glad you pointed out that first red flag... He was accused of raping a 15 year old, and usashela another 15 year old. Ujwayele...
And he was convicted meaning there was enough evidence that he did it
She’s so beautiful 😍😍😍! She’s even glowing
You can tell from her voice she is still hurting with her childhood trauma 😿😿
The issue here is that people don't consider statuary rape as rape, but here is an evidence of why people should be arrested for such. This young lady was groomed and its due to age. This is why this happened
Statutory rape
I waited for 3yrs and when he come out he ddnt bother to tell me l saw it on Facebook with new posts😂 when he see that I liked his pictures he blocked me 😂😂😂😂
Aii😅
I guess it was a blessing
🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭sorry! Mara nawehe??
Why was he in prison?
Tjooooooo mara ladys we must just stay away from people who are in Prison I know we sympathize a lot mara we must stop hleee who are we to change this bad people 😂😢
Ladies let’s refrain from being Bob the builder 🤷🏾
Dudu you are beautiful sesi also the trauma of not having your mother's love pushed you to seek love in a wrong place. God bless you sesi❤️
Sisi you are beautiful, don't allow boys to play with you, focus on building yourself.
Ngaze ngamthanda ke uDudu 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
😂😂 syafana
You are a strong young woman you wl achieve all you need . God is good all the time. You are blessed daily❤
May this kind of love never locate me yhooo😢😢
My relative used this other woman while he was in jail. She bought him clothes, food and even gave jobs to his nieces. But when he was released he did not want her anymore. He wouldn't even share a bed with her, she would sleep in the big house when she visits him and he would sleep in the outside room. Now he is married to a nurse and she was badly disappointed. Ladies love yourself
What? 😮😮😮
@@ninahmbatha1890 I'm telling you
My parents separated an we lived like orphans,,so yah divorse affect children so much,if it wasn't for my aunt I wouldn't know were I will be today.
Ladies this thing is real I am telling you, I know of a lady who is also from Zim with her partner who was arrested so she would always go visit him, give him money, buy him expensive clothes while he was in prison here on SA😢 when he was released he didn't even bother to tell her, she only discovered when she went to visit him him & was told he was deployed to Zim 2 weeks ago, she went crazy than stories came out him posting with his other girlfriend on social media... Forgetting who was always there for him.. that lady nearly dead cause when we were warning her about buying him expensive clothes, giving him monies, when I say monies I mean alot of money.. This is real & so sad. My sister may God almighty restore you double of what you lost.. keep praying
Relationships drain your energy... this lady is tired emotionally. 😢
Dudu needed to belong, u Sathane ongu Thabiso took advantage. Is Dudu still trading in hair sithenge ama wig
Am also like this lady . When I love someone I do extreme things but it changed when I took loans to bail out my ex from prison only for him to disappear on me and left me to pay up the loans alone and i was younger than him with 20plus years and I was still in school 😢I vowed never ever to go to the extremes because of love till this day the guy never came back to apologise but am.over it now cause am dating the best man I the world who goes to the extremes for me❤
Katla pelo ka leswika don't love like tht anymore
@@emeliaaphane4708 thank you
As women we are not meant to love men, if a lady convinces herself she loves a man, she'll make stupid mistakes and men will take advantage of her. Im sorry to what happened to you sweetie.❣️❣️
So sad indeed, but what I like about you're so intelligent to fight for yourself. So many of us avoid redflags and it will never change to green. Al the best with your son❤
She is a Victim through and through! She needs help!!
I once heard that cat bring peace in your environment is not the first time I hear it
Dudu God is good,,,,,you are also great girl be strong
Truly speaking as ladies we got robbed in the name of love, I was once a victim fell I love with a hustler guy I used my salary to support his dreams nd neglected me out of nowhere. I paid rent for him for almost two years R3000 monthly and do other things he needed monthly nd it's two months now being ghosted after I told him I feel that I'm being financial abused .anyway moved swiftly cause I realize he never loved me he needed me to do things for him 😢
Man will humble you Shem 😢
But you look fresh and graceful . We thank GOD
ALL THE BEST MY SISTER AND God Bless YOU
Shame she loved Thabiso as if he was a parent to her,cause she didnt experience parent love 😔 This guy took advantage her bakithi
Keep helping people in need my sister God sees your heart ❤️ and HE will bless you NOT them 🙏 ❤️ Keep focusing on the Lord HE will lighten up your ways 🙏
Look at you now you beautiful and glowing 😊😊
Phola mntasee ❤❤❤❤,, May God comfort you standwaa
You wl rise above Dufu you are bright and an ambitious wise. God will bless u
Prison love will prison your soul .Thank God Dudu survived this .
It sounds like ke basadi fela in the studio 😍 love it!
Inside 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼 Botswana represented
Hello Thembiso...same here phakhathi...ke mo gaborone...mo salooning mo main mall doing my hair...😂😂 Bots well represented🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼re within my dear
Abantu abasejele baneskhathi sonke so vele you will fall in love with them ngoba vele bayazi ukuthi thina bantu besifazane sifuna iskhathi sabo kanti ejele banaso iskhathi abayi ndawo, heal sister kuzolunga
Ngezwa inhliziyo ❤ yam ishaya ka ncane, while watching this 😢.
She's so beautiful ❤
I hate shoplifters with all my heart,i work at retail and shop lifter stole some items and now im paying for those items.
I hate them too especially this Zims this ppl are thieves I hate them with all my heart
Why are you paying,where is evidence that you took them
¿Como?
How?
Kanjani?
Had to aks it in 3 different languages
😢Aw askies my sister
Askies nono❤
I guess it is true when they say love is a drug 😢.
True
the pain in ur voice, may u heal cc❤
It's painful how we women always learn the hard way through having lost money and our belongings. May God help us
You still need to heal sis Dudu ...also you need to forget the past .....
Forget
LETS ALL GATHR HERE AND AGREE WOMAN HAVE MONEY MAN HAI SOGA N THEY DONT PLUG US
Yooo dis lady ..bekanothanda shame..min I'll never ever do dat..especially a person osejel..cos I heard a lots of stories about them😢😢
Askies Dùdu,,,i once dated ujailbird ngiright ngalabo,,ubekafuna imali njalo 😂😂😂😂😂,,my close relatives used to reprimand me n i never wanted to listen,,i can write a book
My younger sister is going through the same thing but her boyfriend is not a prisoner, he's unemployed. My younger sister is spending her money on him and he's turning her against her family and children. I don't know how to help her because she doesn't listen.
Let her be, if you continue being against the rship thy will try by all means to prove yu guys to be wrong by fighting for that rship Kant if you keep quiet and not involve yourselves in her situation she won't have any1 to prove to and end up seeing her toxic situation.
@@thegift9007I agree with you
Broken people will break you ijohh
Hurt people hurt 😮
13:47 "UThabiso muhle..." I wanna see this Thabiso guy
Me 2😂😂😂
Kunini silindile.
Kub'hlungu kona but kuyahlekisa😂😅
😂😂😂indeed it’s true
I wish to tell my story
You’re more than welcome to share ❤️
“Who am I to judge” 🤡 Ayi women. But in her defense. She was a child herself 😊
These stories fascinate me.
Me too hey....
Hai nina
My sister mjolo uyanyisa 😂😂😂😂
Nyiiiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂
True😂😂
Eish. 😢
Can we have Lebo Keswa next please Madam Speaker?!
I am in, we still need her, she must arrange for 3 hours 😂😂😂😂
@@sebolawejudy1137she must book the whole day please so they do 2 parts 3 hours each part 😂 we don’t want to hear any excuses about time 😂😂😂😂😂
@@sebolawejudy1137 I agree with you 😂😅😅😅
I can relate to her story. I experienced the same even though my partner was not inmates
Never build someone my sister yeka umuntu asokole
Madam, you look alike with Amanda Black, my sister
I think this love is just as addictive as gambling and drug use, that person becomes your high, uzwa izwi lakhe kuphela.just like the demons in the casino...one lady shared her story that nobody else had a say in her life at that time besides the casino, she wanted to be there, she didn't care about anybody else.this is sad 😢 I hope you heal mama and forgive yourself.
Dudu is in gambling now she will have problems
Your program is so beautiful but some of us are not from South Africa please 🙏 don't understand the language 😢😢
Im glad she out its not easy guys when you come from a loveless family and you are young and stupid its not easy
Ladies, the bible says a man must be a provider, not a woman. Once you start maintaining the man, you are doing the opposite of what God has commanded, and there is no magic that will make man to love and resoect you. He actually sees a full and milk cow. Secondly its rare that when a prisoner is released,he will stick to you because they want to explore and engage in new relationship's.
The things we do in the name of love God
The way the topic of women who do not allow fathers to have a relationship with their children hurts me all the time. I know the impact of not having a father.
Sometimes life throws you curve balls in the form of a man who raped his own child, how do you allow him to have a relationship with his three children while social workers are saying " he cannot have a relationship with his children without supervision" then he chooses he rather not have a relationship with his children at all. Even when his children reach out to him, he blocks their efforts.
Thank you for always going straight to the point dnt like the long introductions
Yehhen bo.. Which kind of wahala love is this.. 😂Ngeke ungafa wayekudlela umuthi.. Jesooos 😂😮
Kkk where are you finding our home girls Madam Speaker.
She was young, he took advantage of her😢😢😢 I hope she can rebuild her life shame.❤️
Once dated a prisoner fortunately i had no money uyena obengipha but the moment ephumile he ghosted me
I wish you all the best your going to be blessed God is good all the best 😅
I don't blame you they will show you true love
My situation rite now,I don't HV nothing, depression 😢
God is at work dear you will heal just tell God everything 😊😊
No ubedlisiwe lona , this is not normal
No ubengadlisiwe at all uthando it's blind,phela boyfriend was in prison bengekhe amdlise🤣🤣basop uthando angiluvumeli mina
@@NomandlaNyosi😂😂 guys in prison they use idliso lephupho and mirror to monitor their victim. You have no clue prisoners are ruthless and bayathakatha.
You are right ubedlisiwe and ngephupho, it's their specialty.
Aaaah mogal I feel sorry for you,But it's not over until God says it's over
My brother leaves someone also who waited for him for 5 years while he was in prison, she was doing everything for him, but yena he comes out after a few months he is with someone else😳
I think it's bcoz men know as women we get approached so he mightve thought there's no way she didn't get some, even Mandela divorced Winnie coz there's no way she wasn't busy 27 years.
Exactly how my brother's story but karma dealt 😮with him the lady he left the lady set him up and gotten beaten by lot of people he nearly died 🤣🤣🤣🤣and he is now disabled im not laughing but that lady was a sweetheart and i love her
@@malatsimpho5795Yho where is the lady? Did she get arrested?😮
Yabona nje angimzweli lo ,wazothenga ID lana ay guys South Africa kuningi
Thabiso was Thabiso for real 😂😂😂💔💔💔
Ay ladies umjolo wenza sibemuncu,inene uyayicutha ingqondo
You were young cc phephisa
Yooooo mjolo and uhlezi esho u MC MENZISTO UKUTHI LABANTU ABASEJELE BANAMANGA ABANYE BABO BAKHOMBISA UTHANDO UMA SENGAPHAKATHI BUT MAKE APHUMA RED FLAG 🚩 UYAWABONA
Homegirl uthando luyisphofu shame bt sisi akukho isimo esingadluli nkosiyami
hayi uku bekezela ubuhlanya shame
15 is such a baby i mean grade 9 wow this guy really played with a childs mind
God plz dont let dis kind of love for someone locate me
Hhayi yewena askis 😮
Sorry 😢 Love
That man was just scamming you nje
Kakhulu yoooo
Fear man
Beauty beyond the orange uniform 😂😂😂 Python ke Thabiso
I never will judge anyone nver will i will compete with another woman never again... Men play us
Me googling Thabiso Mogale😂
nawe ubu phambene mkaya shame ngoba ubumcane bekumele uye esikolo
Kahle nje mina angisithengi lesi story sokuthi ngoba abazali bebenza so dats y nami ngenza so NO y don't u build your future chooser istrata instead of skul
My boys said that to mah why are you still Shezi on your social media accounts pls remove that surname I said to them akangidivorsile ubaba wenu bathi sikhiphe ngathi abenze bashintsha bona wonke amasocial media ami.lobaba uhambe 2020 washada wangishiya nestifiketi mina but I’m so proud ukuthi tomorrow it’s my birthday and our 18th year anniversary kodwa mina ngiyolanda decree angijabule kanje,I did it on purpose ukuylanda on this particular day because ngifuna ukukhohlwa completely nje ngalomshado
This kind of things also happen to grown ups she's not the only one but the bad thing is that she was still young.
Madam speaker please invite Tshidi Monkoe she wrote a book prison love
Sorry dear ,sometimes uthando lusenza dom
R-- a 15 year old " who am I to judge" yohh 😭💔
She was a kid too that's why she reasoned that way
That's the first stupid decision she made. You think a r@pist can be a good person?
@@gogiphum915 True, she was young and he said, he's being accused falsely. She was young and being manipulated is easy when you're young. You believe anything.
Am sending lies , no 15 year old could say that to even think so
She is referring to Nandipha Magudumana, and that is the truth
Iife