One thing about my heart I dnt entertain man who ask money from me 😢I leave, I block 🚫 I this RUclips stories always opens my eyes, childhood trauma in her is real, may God heal Dudu❤🙏🕯
I waited for 3yrs and when he come out he ddnt bother to tell me l saw it on Facebook with new posts😂 when he see that I liked his pictures he blocked me 😂😂😂😂
Tjooooooo mara ladys we must just stay away from people who are in Prison I know we sympathize a lot mara we must stop hleee who are we to change this bad people 😂😢
This kind of things also happen to grown ups she's not the only one but the bad thing is that she was still young. Madam speaker please invite Tshidi Monkoe she wrote a book prison love
Ladies this thing is real I am telling you, I know of a lady who is also from Zim with her partner who was arrested so she would always go visit him, give him money, buy him expensive clothes while he was in prison here on SA😢 when he was released he didn't even bother to tell her, she only discovered when she went to visit him him & was told he was deployed to Zim 2 weeks ago, she went crazy than stories came out him posting with his other girlfriend on social media... Forgetting who was always there for him.. that lady nearly dead cause when we were warning her about buying him expensive clothes, giving him monies, when I say monies I mean alot of money.. This is real & so sad. My sister may God almighty restore you double of what you lost.. keep praying
Am also like this lady . When I love someone I do extreme things but it changed when I took loans to bail out my ex from prison only for him to disappear on me and left me to pay up the loans alone and i was younger than him with 20plus years and I was still in school 😢I vowed never ever to go to the extremes because of love till this day the guy never came back to apologise but am.over it now cause am dating the best man I the world who goes to the extremes for me❤
As women we are not meant to love men, if a lady convinces herself she loves a man, she'll make stupid mistakes and men will take advantage of her. Im sorry to what happened to you sweetie.❣️❣️
My brother leaves someone also who waited for him for 5 years while he was in prison, she was doing everything for him, but yena he comes out after a few months he is with someone else😳
I think it's bcoz men know as women we get approached so he mightve thought there's no way she didn't get some, even Mandela divorced Winnie coz there's no way she wasn't busy 27 years.
Askies Dùdu,,,i once dated ujailbird ngiright ngalabo,,ubekafuna imali njalo 😂😂😂😂😂,,my close relatives used to reprimand me n i never wanted to listen,,i can write a book
My younger sister is going through the same thing but her boyfriend is not a prisoner, he's unemployed. My younger sister is spending her money on him and he's turning her against her family and children. I don't know how to help her because she doesn't listen.
Let her be, if you continue being against the rship thy will try by all means to prove yu guys to be wrong by fighting for that rship Kant if you keep quiet and not involve yourselves in her situation she won't have any1 to prove to and end up seeing her toxic situation.
The way the topic of women who do not allow fathers to have a relationship with their children hurts me all the time. I know the impact of not having a father. Sometimes life throws you curve balls in the form of a man who raped his own child, how do you allow him to have a relationship with his three children while social workers are saying " he cannot have a relationship with his children without supervision" then he chooses he rather not have a relationship with his children at all. Even when his children reach out to him, he blocks their efforts.
I parted ways with my man, we had 1 child but I never neglected my daughter. 2day she's doing her masters. I wouldn't have stayed in a relationship that was not healthy for the sake of my daughter. 2day we all happy.
The issue here is that people don't consider statuary rape as rape, but here is an evidence of why people should be arrested for such. This young lady was groomed and its due to age. This is why this happened
My relative used this other woman while he was in jail. She bought him clothes, food and even gave jobs to his nieces. But when he was released he did not want her anymore. He wouldn't even share a bed with her, she would sleep in the big house when she visits him and he would sleep in the outside room. Now he is married to a nurse and she was badly disappointed. Ladies love yourself
My boys said that to mah why are you still Shezi on your social media accounts pls remove that surname I said to them akangidivorsile ubaba wenu bathi sikhiphe ngathi abenze bashintsha bona wonke amasocial media ami.lobaba uhambe 2020 washada wangishiya nestifiketi mina but I’m so proud ukuthi tomorrow it’s my birthday and our 18th year anniversary kodwa mina ngiyolanda decree angijabule kanje,I did it on purpose ukuylanda on this particular day because ngifuna ukukhohlwa completely nje ngalomshado
Yooooo mjolo and uhlezi esho u MC MENZISTO UKUTHI LABANTU ABASEJELE BANAMANGA ABANYE BABO BAKHOMBISA UTHANDO UMA SENGAPHAKATHI BUT MAKE APHUMA RED FLAG 🚩 UYAWABONA
Abantu abasejele baneskhathi sonke so vele you will fall in love with them ngoba vele bayazi ukuthi thina bantu besifazane sifuna iskhathi sabo kanti ejele banaso iskhathi abayi ndawo, heal sister kuzolunga
Yeah mina I used to pay bail money for the baby daddy while I was still in love i knew every after a month or 2 months,, would pay bail 1,5 or 2 thousand the day, i dumped him haaaaaaaaa I did never look back cause he used to steal my clothes and sell them for cheap price and even today i hate shopping for myself but, I will try to slay again
So sad indeed, but what I like about you're so intelligent to fight for yourself. So many of us avoid redflags and it will never change to green. Al the best with your son❤
Chomi no matter how much u warn dem i tell u uzoza omonye u don't judge me.. Chomi no lady must stay in a fucked up situation cz of kids cz u hurt kids aswell. Angasihlanyeli loo.. Uthandaim abana anganyi
Truly speaking as ladies we got robbed in the name of love, I was once a victim fell I love with a hustler guy I used my salary to support his dreams nd neglected me out of nowhere. I paid rent for him for almost two years R3000 monthly and do other things he needed monthly nd it's two months now being ghosted after I told him I feel that I'm being financial abused .anyway moved swiftly cause I realize he never loved me he needed me to do things for him 😢
Truly speaking as ladies we got robbed in the name of love, I was once a victim fell I love with a hustler guy I used my salary to support his dreams nd neglected me out of nowhere. I paid rent for him for almost two years R3000 monthly and do other things he needed monthly nd it's two months now being ghosted after I told him I feel that I'm being financial abused .anyway moved swiftly cause I realize he never loved me he needed me to do things for him 😢
@@gogiphum915 True, she was young and he said, he's being accused falsely. She was young and being manipulated is easy when you're young. You believe anything.
She was a child… She had no chance spotting any red flags.
True😢
So true
Yes she was a baby
It's very unfortunate she was just a baby 😢
May this kind of love never locate me 😭✅
me too
@@annastanciancube2720if you are too nice it will find you mntase, be stern and know your boundaries
😂😂😂 if u convince urself as a girl that u love a man, ull make the most stupid mistakes. Women we are not meant to love men.
😂😂 God never said as women we shld love men, if u convince urself u love a man, ull make silly mistakes. She was young to know this.
This not luv😂😂😂
One thing about my heart I dnt entertain man who ask money from me 😢I leave, I block 🚫 I this RUclips stories always opens my eyes, childhood trauma in her is real, may God heal Dudu❤🙏🕯
You can tell from her voice she is still hurting with her childhood trauma 😿😿
She’s so beautiful 😍😍😍! She’s even glowing
Ladies let’s refrain from being Bob the builder 🤷🏾
I waited for 3yrs and when he come out he ddnt bother to tell me l saw it on Facebook with new posts😂 when he see that I liked his pictures he blocked me 😂😂😂😂
Aii😅
I guess it was a blessing
🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭sorry! Mara nawehe??
Why was he in prison?
Tjooooooo mara ladys we must just stay away from people who are in Prison I know we sympathize a lot mara we must stop hleee who are we to change this bad people 😂😢
May this kind of love never locate me yhooo😢😢
Those men in prison want ladies who will support them whilst they are inside. Never fall for prison guys please
Women needs to understand our weakness is through words
Sisi you are beautiful, don't allow boys to play with you, focus on building yourself.
Ngaze ngamthanda ke uDudu 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
😂😂 syafana
This kind of things also happen to grown ups she's not the only one but the bad thing is that she was still young.
Madam speaker please invite Tshidi Monkoe she wrote a book prison love
Man will humble you Shem 😢
My parents separated an we lived like orphans,,so yah divorse affect children so much,if it wasn't for my aunt I wouldn't know were I will be today.
Ladies this thing is real I am telling you, I know of a lady who is also from Zim with her partner who was arrested so she would always go visit him, give him money, buy him expensive clothes while he was in prison here on SA😢 when he was released he didn't even bother to tell her, she only discovered when she went to visit him him & was told he was deployed to Zim 2 weeks ago, she went crazy than stories came out him posting with his other girlfriend on social media... Forgetting who was always there for him.. that lady nearly dead cause when we were warning her about buying him expensive clothes, giving him monies, when I say monies I mean alot of money.. This is real & so sad. My sister may God almighty restore you double of what you lost.. keep praying
Am also like this lady . When I love someone I do extreme things but it changed when I took loans to bail out my ex from prison only for him to disappear on me and left me to pay up the loans alone and i was younger than him with 20plus years and I was still in school 😢I vowed never ever to go to the extremes because of love till this day the guy never came back to apologise but am.over it now cause am dating the best man I the world who goes to the extremes for me❤
Katla pelo ka leswika don't love like tht anymore
@@emeliaaphane4708 thank you
As women we are not meant to love men, if a lady convinces herself she loves a man, she'll make stupid mistakes and men will take advantage of her. Im sorry to what happened to you sweetie.❣️❣️
It sounds like ke basadi fela in the studio 😍 love it!
But you look fresh and graceful . We thank GOD
Inside 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼 Botswana represented
Hello Thembiso...same here phakhathi...ke mo gaborone...mo salooning mo main mall doing my hair...😂😂 Bots well represented🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼re within my dear
“Who am I to judge” 🤡 Ayi women. But in her defense. She was a child herself 😊
My brother leaves someone also who waited for him for 5 years while he was in prison, she was doing everything for him, but yena he comes out after a few months he is with someone else😳
I think it's bcoz men know as women we get approached so he mightve thought there's no way she didn't get some, even Mandela divorced Winnie coz there's no way she wasn't busy 27 years.
I guess it is true when they say love is a drug 😢.
True
I hate shoplifters with all my heart,i work at retail and shop lifter stole some items and now im paying for those items.
Sue your employer it's not your fault, he should have put security measures in place, and he knows very well
I hate them too especially this Zims this ppl are thieves I hate them with all my heart
Why are you paying,where is evidence that you took them
¿Como?
How?
Kanjani?
Had to aks it in 3 different languages
😢Aw askies my sister
You still need to heal sis Dudu ...also you need to forget the past .....
Forget
Thank you for always going straight to the point dnt like the long introductions
Im glad she out its not easy guys when you come from a loveless family and you are young and stupid its not easy
I wish to tell my story
You’re more than welcome to share ❤️
Madam, you look alike with Amanda Black, my sister
Kunini silindile.
Kub'hlungu kona but kuyahlekisa😂😅
😂😂😂indeed it’s true
Thabiso was Thabiso for real 😂😂😂💔💔💔
My sister mjolo uyanyisa 😂😂😂😂
Nyiiiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂
True😂😂
Yooo dis lady ..bekanothanda shame..min I'll never ever do dat..especially a person osejel..cos I heard a lots of stories about them😢😢
Askies Dùdu,,,i once dated ujailbird ngiright ngalabo,,ubekafuna imali njalo 😂😂😂😂😂,,my close relatives used to reprimand me n i never wanted to listen,,i can write a book
That man was just scamming you nje
Kakhulu yoooo
She is referring to Nandipha Magudumana, and that is the truth
Iife
Kkk where are you finding our home girls Madam Speaker.
Ay ladies umjolo wenza sibemuncu,inene uyayicutha ingqondo
13:47 "UThabiso muhle..." I wanna see this Thabiso guy
Me 2😂😂😂
The things we do in the name of love God
My younger sister is going through the same thing but her boyfriend is not a prisoner, he's unemployed. My younger sister is spending her money on him and he's turning her against her family and children. I don't know how to help her because she doesn't listen.
Let her be, if you continue being against the rship thy will try by all means to prove yu guys to be wrong by fighting for that rship Kant if you keep quiet and not involve yourselves in her situation she won't have any1 to prove to and end up seeing her toxic situation.
@@thegift9007I agree with you
The way the topic of women who do not allow fathers to have a relationship with their children hurts me all the time. I know the impact of not having a father.
Sometimes life throws you curve balls in the form of a man who raped his own child, how do you allow him to have a relationship with his three children while social workers are saying " he cannot have a relationship with his children without supervision" then he chooses he rather not have a relationship with his children at all. Even when his children reach out to him, he blocks their efforts.
I never will judge anyone nver will i will compete with another woman never again... Men play us
No ubedlisiwe lona , this is not normal
Am 41 still naive not street wise at all
Sorry 😢 Love
Fear man
I'm learning a lot 😊
Same here 😊
Abafanaaaaaaaa
Bayafana😂😂😂😂😂
Madame, you are looking beautiful ....Shame
Hola Tiboz
Nelson Mandela did the same
Did this girl also have an adulterous relationship with Dali Mpifu?
“ who am I? to judge “😅😂
Biggest mistake of her life
Sorry cc yoo
🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️😳😳😳😳😳😳
Wait woh yimani ama beads where? For ini?
Google Penile implants my sister 😅😅 #100shorts2024
Thabiso fucked up
Love is crazy wena 😂😂😂
khanyi Mbau said it " A man will leave you in the desert without water"
I parted ways with my man, we had 1 child but I never neglected my daughter. 2day she's doing her masters. I wouldn't have stayed in a relationship that was not healthy for the sake of my daughter. 2day we all happy.
I'm glad you pointed out that first red flag... He was accused of raping a 15 year old, and usashela another 15 year old. Ujwayele...
And he was convicted meaning there was enough evidence that he did it
The issue here is that people don't consider statuary rape as rape, but here is an evidence of why people should be arrested for such. This young lady was groomed and its due to age. This is why this happened
Statutory rape
She is a Victim through and through! She needs help!!
Relationships drain your energy... this lady is tired emotionally. 😢
Dudu needed to belong, u Sathane ongu Thabiso took advantage. Is Dudu still trading in hair sithenge ama wig
Dudu you are beautiful sesi also the trauma of not having your mother's love pushed you to seek love in a wrong place. God bless you sesi❤️
My relative used this other woman while he was in jail. She bought him clothes, food and even gave jobs to his nieces. But when he was released he did not want her anymore. He wouldn't even share a bed with her, she would sleep in the big house when she visits him and he would sleep in the outside room. Now he is married to a nurse and she was badly disappointed. Ladies love yourself
What? 😮😮😮
@@ninahmbatha1890 I'm telling you
hayi uku bekezela ubuhlanya shame
My boys said that to mah why are you still Shezi on your social media accounts pls remove that surname I said to them akangidivorsile ubaba wenu bathi sikhiphe ngathi abenze bashintsha bona wonke amasocial media ami.lobaba uhambe 2020 washada wangishiya nestifiketi mina but I’m so proud ukuthi tomorrow it’s my birthday and our 18th year anniversary kodwa mina ngiyolanda decree angijabule kanje,I did it on purpose ukuylanda on this particular day because ngifuna ukukhohlwa completely nje ngalomshado
Yooooo mjolo and uhlezi esho u MC MENZISTO UKUTHI LABANTU ABASEJELE BANAMANGA ABANYE BABO BAKHOMBISA UTHANDO UMA SENGAPHAKATHI BUT MAKE APHUMA RED FLAG 🚩 UYAWABONA
Broken people will break you ijohh
Hurt people hurt 😮
Abantu abasejele baneskhathi sonke so vele you will fall in love with them ngoba vele bayazi ukuthi thina bantu besifazane sifuna iskhathi sabo kanti ejele banaso iskhathi abayi ndawo, heal sister kuzolunga
Yeah mina I used to pay bail money for the baby daddy while I was still in love i knew every after a month or 2 months,, would pay bail 1,5 or 2 thousand the day, i dumped him haaaaaaaaa I did never look back cause he used to steal my clothes and sell them for cheap price and even today i hate shopping for myself but, I will try to slay again
So sad indeed, but what I like about you're so intelligent to fight for yourself. So many of us avoid redflags and it will never change to green. Al the best with your son❤
Yehhen bo.. Which kind of wahala love is this.. 😂Ngeke ungafa wayekudlela umuthi.. Jesooos 😂😮
Chomi no matter how much u warn dem i tell u uzoza omonye u don't judge me.. Chomi no lady must stay in a fucked up situation cz of kids cz u hurt kids aswell. Angasihlanyeli loo.. Uthandaim abana anganyi
Truly speaking as ladies we got robbed in the name of love, I was once a victim fell I love with a hustler guy I used my salary to support his dreams nd neglected me out of nowhere. I paid rent for him for almost two years R3000 monthly and do other things he needed monthly nd it's two months now being ghosted after I told him I feel that I'm being financial abused .anyway moved swiftly cause I realize he never loved me he needed me to do things for him 😢
Truly speaking as ladies we got robbed in the name of love, I was once a victim fell I love with a hustler guy I used my salary to support his dreams nd neglected me out of nowhere. I paid rent for him for almost two years R3000 monthly and do other things he needed monthly nd it's two months now being ghosted after I told him I feel that I'm being financial abused .anyway moved swiftly cause I realize he never loved me he needed me to do things for him 😢
Shame she loved Thabiso as if he was a parent to her,cause she didnt experience parent love 😔 This guy took advantage her bakithi
It's painful how we women always learn the hard way through having lost money and our belongings. May God help us
You are a strong young woman you wl achieve all you need . God is good all the time. You are blessed daily❤
You wl rise above Dufu you are bright and an ambitious wise. God will bless u
One thing I took away from this episode…get your mind right seek professional help.
Phola mntasee ❤❤❤❤,, May God comfort you standwaa
nawe ubu phambene mkaya shame ngoba ubumcane bekumele uye esikolo
Haaa kodwa shuwa Dudu 12 cats are you okay uryt kodwa ummmmm kunzima ngawe
You are beautiful awesomeness stunning
R-- a 15 year old " who am I to judge" yohh 😭💔
She was a kid too that's why she reasoned that way
That's the first stupid decision she made. You think a r@pist can be a good person?
@@gogiphum915 True, she was young and he said, he's being accused falsely. She was young and being manipulated is easy when you're young. You believe anything.
Am sending lies , no 15 year old could say that to even think so
LETS ALL GATHR HERE AND AGREE WOMAN HAVE MONEY MAN HAI SOGA N THEY DONT PLUG US
Eish. 😢
Can we have Lebo Keswa next please Madam Speaker?!
I am in, we still need her, she must arrange for 3 hours 😂😂😂😂
@@sebolawejudy1137she must book the whole day please so they do 2 parts 3 hours each part 😂 we don’t want to hear any excuses about time 😂😂😂😂😂
@@sebolawejudy1137 I agree with you 😂😅😅😅
She's so beautiful ❤
Thabiso Mohale RED FLAG
😢😢😢😢
Ngubani lo ubuza questions la emuva?
uKhanyi
Once dated a prisoner fortunately i had no money uyena obengipha but the moment ephumile he ghosted me
😅
I wl never yhoo ,but apparently will never understand, it's like a drug
These stories fascinate me.
Me too hey....
Hai nina
Dudu God is good,,,,,you are also great girl be strong
As promised,thank you❤