I pray you get healing personal and with your family especially your kids ❤. God is the healer, I pray you allow Him to heal you. Possessions you can always make back, you have done it so you are able.
Your story touched me, thank you for being brave. I pray for your healing and that you forgive yourself. You saved people today and some of us understand better now and can have compassion.
I have been a counsellor working with clients with a gambling addiction for 22 years now. My best advice is: never start with it. Never believe that it can relieve a difficult financial situation. Gambling is a very serious addiction.
@@NkosikhonaMzelemu are you in South Africa? You can phone the Helpline and ask to be referred as a family member. A counsellor will then help and equip you with possible strategies to help your mother.
Well I've struggles since 2020 its distroyed my life but now iv blocked myself from gambling sites...n starting my life all over again im two months clean its not alot but its something 😢😢😢
Well done. This is very spiritual. This could be a generations curse as well. Take time to study your family patterns and check who once gambled in your family etc and why. You might be shocked you are not the only one or first one. Maybe there was a family member before who went through what you are going through. This is toxic and demonic. Very spiritual and I don't think you can win this battle without God. You need to pray. There is power in the name of Jesus to break every chain. Many times people rise and fall again because they do this with their own strength. You cant fight the devil with your own strength. You need to involve God and let Him fight for you. Get counselling also. With every addiction, there is an underlying issue we are dealing with. I pray you get all the help and continue to stay clean
Please Owami bring more of this gambling stories. It’s a serious problem that has crippled families. Your awareness will be appreciated just like the Scammers
I showed my aunt this, thinking she will quit gambling but she's gambling more I. Secrete and she is denying it. She spends about R1000 per day on gambling. Her children are so broken and drained by her addiction. Yho, addicts are really traumatizing their families
Owamie you are really unraveling the issues that are eating our society. This was an eye opening episode. Look how beautiful and young she is and this evil got a hold of her. I hope she recovers from this demonic spirit. Thanks sister for sharing your story, we are truly learning.
Dont feel ashamed girl, gambling and drugs are full of demonic spirits they grab you so hard and blind you. Pray find healing and learn to forgive yourself. Im proud you have acknowledged this because you cant change what you dont acknowledge.
Just blaming it on demonic spirits is not enough you have to realise that YOU invited the demon, you fedthe demon, you spend most of your time with the demon.
I worked in a casino as a tables dealer for only a year and I saw those most heartbreaking things. People would do anything just to play tables or slot, the evil that lurks in a casino is so powerful. I could not even handle it as an employee, I resigned because of how overwhelming it was. My spirit couldn’t handle it. 💔
@@uznamalunga the most horrific one an old lady has passed on of a heart attack at a slots machine yet the people beside her just carried on playing and didn’t bother to call for help. An attendant only became aware of it whilst doing their rounds. People are just so zoned in nothing else around them matters.
I worked as a tables dealer I once saw a family coming to the floor to get their family who was supposed to buy a cow for funeral but instead he went to gamble the money it was sad to see working in the casino we see things
Underline "Grandfather was a gambler" Foundational Spirit Very Important In whatever you do please dont ignore that, start to disconnect yourself right there coz that powerful demon is rooted right from your Grandfather and it will definitely want to come to you stronger.
Iyoo. This is a heavy topic; my brother ended up in prison due to lies; and was released after 5 years. I don't think people understand how difficult it is to help someone who wishes not to be helped. Addiction people are so manipulative; and they believe their own lies. We tried everything to help. I tried and we all tried; I understand where the aunt is coming from. May you heal and recover my sister.
I dated a man who gambled.....I had to say my goodbyes. So glad I did.....otherwise I do not think I would where I am now...he lost jobs, he dabbled in crime, he schemed and promised me this and that....never had money on the 25th ...would blow it in the casino for days and re appear with no money to his name....
My sister she once though of even committing a suicide becouse she was owing a lot of people becouse of gambling but she has overcome the situation by the Grace of God, I believe this woman will recover all what she has lost, thanks Owami you're the best my Ninja 💐💕😘
I love how Owamie makes her guests feel comfortable, the way they talk to her, you would think they have known each other for good while. Keep thriving Owamie.
When she said “I don’t know what will restore my mother” I just thought, maybe she wants to see you alive, living. Sending love, healing and strength to you and your family. Thank you Owami for this enlightening video.
My spirit is so crushed watching her cry..... I hear you mama but God forgives, built ur relationship with God first anyone anything doesn't matter now u need to heal first 😭😭I felt that when she said she just wants to rest and not woke up anymore.. Agh mama there is a purpose In your story, don't give up 😢😢
The reason I never like gambling is because I had watched the movie “ the croupier “ Casino hve one winner only the casino that makes money no one else. They use players that are trained to make you get addicted. The mathematicians and all these cameras on top of you watching you playing, they are watching the winners and their consent is winner. Look how they treat the winners , and u will bring back the money , the treatment is special hence u come back when u have money and see why u hve to act bigger when in those tables.
Finally a topic covering gambling. Gambling has affected my family so much, as a student who has a parent who has this problem!!! It hurts now seeing that gambling is being advertised everywhere!!! Even in taxis.
@YouWell2 can you just STOP...it’s enough now,you don’t know what transpired for you to make assumptions...pls if you don’t have anything nice to say rather keep quiet
@@thatokurumala9305 🤣 you don't get to tell anyone what to say/comment because it doesn't suit your narrative. if you don't like what you read/hear that's on you ❤😘
A gambling addict and a drug addict is the same. They can steal, sell expensive stuff for less and ruin everyones lives in the family. They leave you with no choice but to distance yourself from them, because they will take you donw with them and you will end up paying their debts. And sometimes they attract dangerous people to your house.
I'm sure this is going to be another very educative episode, I'm so glad that we are slowly opening to discuss gambling as black people, many people are addicted to it
Oh owamie! you are doing good work here! you are handling this episode with so much care, and we appreciate it. We need more addiction stories, gmabling, alcohol, sex, drugs, all of it
I lost a gem through gambling, she died of heart attack, a decent intelligent hardworking being. A woman who was fierce and that was my MOM. I hate gambling
I dont blame the aunt for cutting her off at that time. People with addiction are at the highest level of toxicity and can easily drag you down mentally. At some point, you have to let go and let them hit rock bottom and hope they will be fine. She must work on gaining forgiveness instead of being a victim. The aunt is a victim here. She must put herself in the aunt's shoes.
Nothing was actually stolen from the aunt.. I understand the aunt distancing herself for her protection but when she said she was told kutsi she should've been the one who died. That crossed the line. Her aunt wished her death. That's what I think hurt her more than the distancing
@tezulumagagula It is not only about stealing. Addicts are highly manipulative and toxic and will gaslight you to the max. The aunt was the closest thing she had meaning the manipulation and all that was felt by her the most. She probably said those things out of anger, she must give context within which that was said. All I am saying is that in all this, she is not the victim and needs to take accountability in as far people's relationships are concerned and start working on their forgiveness, friends included. She can't be angry or blame people for cutting her off after listening to her story
Thank you!!!! She had already taken the responsibility of raising her when she wasn’t her own child and she still wanted more hhhaaaayi. I honestly don’t blame the Aunt.
Truly speaking human beings should start being accountable for decisions that they’ve taken in their own life. Life is not fair for everyone no one is having it easily
They did not bring them to benefit the society. They brought them to destroy families. In the 70s and 80s they brought beer halls (Jabulani) into the communities but never build swimming pools, tennis courts, parks or recreational halls because they do not care.
I am a recovering drug addict who has been clean for 6 months now. Although this is about a gambling addiction, this story resonates with me SO much. Being a manipulator and a liar. Losing everything and everyone important to you. People forgetting that you were not always that person and just walking away from you. Having an addiction is the worst.
@nezialytifa1593 as much as it's necessary to motivate us it's also dangerous, I nearly fell in the same trap but I woke up once I lost my job and the same family I was trying to help was telling me how useless I was because I didn't have any savings,they forgot about all the things I've done for them ,that's when I learned to put myself first without any pressure to impress the family ,that pressure can take you to an early grave
This girl is a liar She said her husband was quiet and she would use his salary to gamble his money and OOO he was abusive, so you were not scared of an abuser spending his salary HAYSKAAA 😂😂😂😂
Shem mmani she hasn't dealt with her situation, her emotions are still so raw hense she's struggling to open up and she's still not coping 💔 😢 guys anyone who can assist her out there please do
Owamie, the hairstyle , the make up!!! Hunay you are shining bright like a dayimane 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Edit: My… what a sad story but thanks for telling it beautiful lady. Strength to you. ❤️
Here i see a strong woman, who fought addiction and also come out to tell others about the danger of gambling, you will heal my dear, you have already started healing u have taken the first step. I give credit to you for standing up. Your not alone, people are drowning out there
I can definitely relate to the whole story. Everything mentioned I have done. Self exclusion for the longest term in the best start. The government is fully aware of what impact and damage the casinos are doing to the communities. The bottom line is greed and human life becomes very insignificant. Thank you for sharing this. As a struggling addict I have also learned from what you have shared and I wish I could share my own story..Everyone who is struggling with this please know you are not alone. Will power and lots of strength will get you out of this demonic addiction.
Owami saying, "You're saving so many people right." My heart dropped! The powers behind addiction, any form of addiction really, are crippling. Seeing someone you love go through those motions and lose them right them in front of your eyes is a grief not even death can come close to. Knowing that anything you say or do cannot shake them back into who they once were is disheartening! I can understand the people who leave when the going gets HARD and I can understand the one's who stay too... Miss Kaymo, my heart and prayer's will be with you tonight. There's no shame or guilt too great for Jesus. My hope in all of this, is for restoration and healing to truly take place in your life and everyone around you.
You'd think you have problems until you hear the next person. Truly never think your are the only one going through it or that you are immune to life problems. Eyyy
Very true!Everytine i watch painful testimonies from Owami's videos i feel so BLESSED! That God gas been faithful to me all these years. I appreciate my adventurous life so so much
There are many podcasts here on YT but Owamie is excellent at interviewing! She asks the important questions! I’ve never finished an interview with an unanswered question, this is what preparation and passion looks like. I’m not a ninja but I’m huge fan of your podcasts, you’re excellent at it!🙌🏿
We have all at some point in our lives messed up. There are things that we wouldn't even be able to tell them to other people. To be able to come here and tell your story shows that you are very strong. May you find complete healing. God will restore, just put your trust in Him. ❤
Very true, gambling is demonic. I got delivered from it through my Salvation. That was years and years back. Gambling is demonic cos you tell yourself that you will make it big and continue gambling. Praise God for His grace by saving me. I can't thank God enough
When she said we should stop over burdening our selves because thats where it starts,stop over burdening your selve with family responsibilities, stop with I wanna make them proud and breaking generational curse... That's when I knew I have to delete all the gambling app in my phone I haven't lost much but I lose with the hope of hitting a big win and change situation sako jareteng Thanks for this episode
Strength to you sis. Please forgive your aunt. One thing that addicts all over the world have is BLAME. They feel like one person had super powers to change them yet they don’t understand how a burden it is to care for an addict. Carers are encouraged to walk away for their own mental health otherwise they will be dragged down the path too. Forgive your aunt, you clearly weren’t the easiest person to deal with. Much love ❤
This is exactly my Mom's story. Its crazy how I am seeing or atleast hearing this from a person who was a gambler. My mom never talks about it, we aren't so close but I have a heart for her. Sometime this week she said "I am glad I am managing money well " from the business she started. I am so proud of her in ways I can't even explain. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My mom was in jail at some point, she couldn't raise me because of this addiction, It was a family secret, they treated her horribly, like she did not matter. But I love her with everything in me even though we aren't that close. God allowed me to see her as a human being 1st before seeing her as my mom.
Oh maan, your mom seems to be hurting from the things sha can't talk about. I'm glad you understand her though it must be very hard for you. Stay in prayer
@@Tiish600 yohhh I can.. I understand Her. Some things I may not understand but I try by all means not to judge. It also affected me however I see her, I have this heart for her No one can ever take away. No matter what my family says or how they treat her, I see her for who she is. ♥️♥️
I lost everything due to gambling, my job, ny car, my house, my very expensive wedding ring, mine and my husband's, i lost my marriage and relationships. Gambling is the devil. I have nothing, i lost everything.
@@TSFxCapMgt I've accepted my past mistakes and failures. I'm just finding it very hard to forgive myself but other than that I'm really pushing forward.
@@Blessed_for_life_2023 I think she means people with addiction, just like a recovering alcoholic should avoid company or anything that will trigger the edge to drink until they are completely strong.
Her aunt really hurt her. I think it’s because she looked up to her, but also, she needs to put herself in the aunt’s shoes. She also hurt her aunt a lot and she needs to take accountability for that.
With gambling you always chasing a loss even if you get a little money in return it's always not enough when you start thinking about how much you lost you wanna get it back that's a DEMON that comes with it 😢😢. Sorry nana just thank God you were able to fight the demon at last and become a victor be strong and thank life 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Your cry pierced my heart.. Especially when you talked about your kids. I wish it was possible to give you a long warm hug. Draw yourself closer to God. You will be fine. I wish you nothing but the best.
mY 2 Cents is that this lady needs to extend the same grace to her aunt that she feels she needed at that time. From an empathetic point of view she must realize that when you do something you can not control how people react. That is taking responsibilty for how her loved ones treated her during that time, they probably had never expereinced anyone with a gambling addiction, it was also their first time. Baxolele sisi and understand that you are the one that was the cause of the relationship breaking and sometimes its ok to admit you were the villian in the situation. I have done this internal work myself and its not easy but if i am being honest, I lost some relationship because of who I was.
And this addiction affected people at deeper levels that she'll never understand. If she goes for counselling she'll understand why her aunt felt that way and not behave like a victim. She hurt people and doesn't give a context as to how those statements were said. I can imagine the ex husband hates her to the core as well.
I have a brother with drug addiction after listening to her story im in tears bcz we tried bt failed and im in tears feeling like we failed him as we all just stopped trying 💔
I agree. I 100% feel for her and I hope she gets the help she needs as well as the healing. However, she also needs to realise that she was a toxic human to others in whatever form that is to people and they have/had every right to distance themselves from you because you are costing them - be it mentally, financially, emotionally etc. She needs to realise that her aunt was probably hurting from seeing her child go through such a destructive habit and compromising so much including her own house and car. I don’t think it’s a matter of not loving you anymore, I think she just didn’t want herself destroyed as well. You are looking good now sisi but you also need to realise that just because you are now clean all is good. People are still bleeding from the wounds you cost them, including your aunt probably. She was harsh, yes, but she probably was trying to protect herself and maybe get you to decide to stop. You had a community and you destroyed it. Sadly you cannot dictate how people react to when you hurt them. You just have to rebuild and reconcile with those who are willing.
1st thing 1st this lady needs to acknowledge that the aunt is hurt and hurt by her doing and we don't know how deep it went, people think an apology fixes everything and it doesn't fix anything let her heal her own way
ACCOUNTABILITY first. I totally agree. As she is saying her aunt was like a mother, imagine her pain. She stole from the other mother a lot already, we don't know how much the aunt had to endure. I understand that as a daughter she needed a hug but I also understand the aunt.
So sorry you went through alll this. But do not blame your aunt. You have to take full accountability. You put your family through a lot. Praying for your healing.
It's worse now that gambling has become digital. Access to these platforms is free and you can bet as little as R1. Kids now even do online betting through sport 😢.
As an Aunt myself who has raised my sisters kids as mine. I don't think she should be blamed for your choices and decisions. If you love your niece you would do all that you can to save her until you realize you need to choose yourself. To be honest you would have done the same thing you did to your Mama. My kids (niece's) know I love hard but I've almost lost my own life one time due to stress from one of the kids. I've allowed one now to live however she want because I did my best.
@@RethabileThobs it wasn't easy my dear,and people that gets hurt the most are your loved ones. I can write a book my dear. I should have been a divorcee a long time ago,but by the grace of God ,we are celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary on the 28 September.
That question you asked Owamie about her Aunt it was necessary! Good question indeed. Because what if the Aunt herself didn't know how to help her prior to what happened.
And educated or not the impact of addiction is immeasurable, just like we deal with grief differently, whether you're a politician or not. Politicians are human too.
One thing the devil will do is, he will take you deeper and keep you longer then you planned to stay. You strong mama, you just have to forgive yourself so that healing can take place. God is the only one that can restore you back. You have lost a lot but restoration with God will shock you.
I went to Monte Casino and for the first time we went to gambling side…. OWAMIE!!! Old women who look like grandparents, women and men who look like they have families and not the rich kind. There’s a VIP side for the rich people…. I was so confused. It’s 9pm on a weekday, what are these people doing there? I look possessed and drained 😢😅💔
This is a sign for me, because as much as I know that I have an addictive personality, for some reason I felt the edge to learn aviator game on Betway. Thank God for this episode.
I think I’m ready to come to this show… my ex fiancé was addicted to gambling that for 6 years… by God Grace I left because he made me think and believe that I was the problem
When she mentioned her aunt I felt it,like she truly love her aunt and I hope she receives the forgiveness.she made mistakes but I'm happy she's admitting them and willing to make them right
@@elvisndlovu1232This has been hidden in our community and is not talked about, but so many people are suffering from gambling addiction. You have just opened a can of worms. You can't correct what you don't acknowledge. Just like an alcoholic, you have to admit that I am an alcoholic, before you can start going to the alcoholic anonymous. You must ask God to help you fight this demon as you have described it. When you surrender your problems to God and become vulnerable, healing starts.
It's never too late cc ❤️❤️ you can still have a beautiful life and I believe you will recover Thank you for sharing your story with us Sending you lots of love 💖
Very importantly topic. Thank you Owamie for giving our sister a chance to share her story. I know someone who’s going through the same. She left her government job so she could gamble her provident fund 💔😔
a close family member of mine suffered from gambling addiction. she lost everything in her life except her children and immediate family. she had to rebuild her life, unfortunately it will no longer be the same again. our lives were also changed. I am really proud of the lady for speaking about this addiction and how she wished she could've have done things differently.
Aaa Ninja u are a Goat 🐐, I'm not gonna judge this lady coz she's saving a lot of ppl. A lot still secretive how much they lost nd how low they got. My friend is still a lier and I can see she went back. I'm frustrated coz I dnf know how to approach her, but IL send this video
This is so painful to watch! My heart breaks for you.😭😭 I commend you for your honesty. "I'm the luckiest person, but I'm irresponsible with money!" Self-awareness is the first step towards change. Thank you for sharing your story with us dear, you're changing lives. You are intelligent and beautiful! May God protect you and give you wisdom. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
@owamie thank you so much for having me
You amazing ❤️
Thank you for being sooo open, i am proud of you babe🥰❤️❤️❤️
I pray you get healing personal and with your family especially your kids ❤. God is the healer, I pray you allow Him to heal you. Possessions you can always make back, you have done it so you are able.
@Miss_kaymo modimo a go dire ka go loka I know someone who goes through that but she denied it when I ask if I can help her
Your story touched me, thank you for being brave. I pray for your healing and that you forgive yourself. You saved people today and some of us understand better now and can have compassion.
yoh the pain in her eyes guys...aitog 😭😭😭 I feel you darling
I have been a counsellor working with clients with a gambling addiction for 22 years now. My best advice is: never start with it. Never believe that it can relieve a difficult financial situation. Gambling is a very serious addiction.
And you really helped me…I’m now free from the gambling demon. And thank you for everything 🙏🏽
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How do we help relatives, especially if we are young, I'm 19 and my mother has an addiction, but I don't even know where to start the conversation
@@NkosikhonaMzelemu are you in South Africa? You can phone the Helpline and ask to be referred as a family member. A counsellor will then help and equip you with possible strategies to help your mother.
@@ronelswisdom8222 Yes I am in South Africa I assume I will find the number on google? Or you can give it to me so that I don't get wrong numbers.
Well I've struggles since 2020 its distroyed my life but now iv blocked myself from gambling sites...n starting my life all over again im two months clean its not alot but its something 😢😢😢
I'm proud of you stranger
Well done
Well done. This is very spiritual. This could be a generations curse as well. Take time to study your family patterns and check who once gambled in your family etc and why. You might be shocked you are not the only one or first one. Maybe there was a family member before who went through what you are going through. This is toxic and demonic. Very spiritual and I don't think you can win this battle without God. You need to pray. There is power in the name of Jesus to break every chain. Many times people rise and fall again because they do this with their own strength. You cant fight the devil with your own strength. You need to involve God and let Him fight for you.
Get counselling also. With every addiction, there is an underlying issue we are dealing with. I pray you get all the help and continue to stay clean
Its alot
You are well on your way. Pray my sister and call on Jesus Christ
Please Owami bring more of this gambling stories. It’s a serious problem that has crippled families. Your awareness will be appreciated just like the Scammers
Our story is similar, God redeemed me 😢
Agreed.
Yes I agree with you
@Owami thank you so much for taking this direction. We love it here
@@lunghilemabunda2051 Me too , i found myself borrowing 4k to gamble , lost it and God said stop .
Yeah we also need more stories related to sports betting since they are more common in SA.
Podcasters are my favourite therapists-yall are healing the world and hopefully your guests too!
She is shaming the devil!!! So many people will be healed from this🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭.
say that again..
True
Ohh yes 🙌
Let it out gal❤
I showed my aunt this, thinking she will quit gambling but she's gambling more I. Secrete and she is denying it. She spends about R1000 per day on gambling. Her children are so broken and drained by her addiction. Yho, addicts are really traumatizing their families
When she says "i became a liar " it hits home coz I'd lie man , i almost lost my family as well but im glad i still have them.
Heeeeeeee me rn😢😢 about to b paid but I know I'm gonna be broke
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@@zanelecynthia7036cc get help pls😢
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Owamie you are really unraveling the issues that are eating our society. This was an eye opening episode. Look how beautiful and young she is and this evil got a hold of her. I hope she recovers from this demonic spirit.
Thanks sister for sharing your story, we are truly learning.
She still young may she gain wisdom and recover from all this
Dont feel ashamed girl, gambling and drugs are full of demonic spirits they grab you so hard and blind you. Pray find healing and learn to forgive yourself.
Im proud you have acknowledged this because you cant change what you dont acknowledge.
Just blaming it on demonic spirits is not enough you have to realise that YOU invited the demon, you fedthe demon, you spend most of your time with the demon.
@@beewest5704 but she did acknowledge her issues though so I don't understand where you coming from.
I worked in a casino as a tables dealer for only a year and I saw those most heartbreaking things. People would do anything just to play tables or slot, the evil that lurks in a casino is so powerful. I could not even handle it as an employee, I resigned because of how overwhelming it was. My spirit couldn’t handle it. 💔
What do ppl do?
@@uznamalungaI heard stories of people wearing diapers in America so that they don't have to move from the machines.
I also worked as a dealer,yooooooo we've seen it all.A person can stay in a casino for the whole week😢😢😢😢😢
@@uznamalunga the most horrific one an old lady has passed on of a heart attack at a slots machine yet the people beside her just carried on playing and didn’t bother to call for help. An attendant only became aware of it whilst doing their rounds. People are just so zoned in nothing else around them matters.
I worked as a tables dealer I once saw a family coming to the floor to get their family who was supposed to buy a cow for funeral but instead he went to gamble the money it was sad to see working in the casino we see things
Best advice for free: DON'T START!
Thank you for this I've never started and after this I won't 🙏🏾
Very true, don't start
Very true, prevention is better than cure
Even lotto LOOOOL
Thus me. Mina I can’t lose my 20 on that stupid thing. I hate gambling shame
The aunt was only protecting herself, look at what she did to her mom. She mustn't blame the aunt. I hope she finds peace.
Thats true
That's true and she must just learn that what she was doing made everyone scared😢
Underline "Grandfather was a gambler"
Foundational Spirit
Very Important
In whatever you do please dont ignore that, start to disconnect yourself right there coz that powerful demon is rooted right from your Grandfather and it will definitely want to come to you stronger.
The Curse needs to be broken 🥺
@@busitseba very true
And amakhehla anenkani, she really need to disconnect herself from that Spirit.
That's true we might have another generation after her which will do the same. So better cut ties
Iyoo. This is a heavy topic; my brother ended up in prison due to lies; and was released after 5 years. I don't think people understand how difficult it is to help someone who wishes not to be helped. Addiction people are so manipulative; and they believe their own lies. We tried everything to help. I tried and we all tried; I understand where the aunt is coming from. May you heal and recover my sister.
I dated a man who gambled.....I had to say my goodbyes. So glad I did.....otherwise I do not think I would where I am now...he lost jobs, he dabbled in crime, he schemed and promised me this and that....never had money on the 25th ...would blow it in the casino for days and re appear with no money to his name....
My sister she once though of even committing a suicide becouse she was owing a lot of people becouse of gambling but she has overcome the situation by the Grace of God, I believe this woman will recover all what she has lost, thanks Owami you're the best my Ninja 💐💕😘
God only can save them....
Gambling 😭😭😭
I love how Owamie makes her guests feel comfortable, the way they talk to her, you would think they have known each other for good while. Keep thriving Owamie.
When she said “I don’t know what will restore my mother” I just thought, maybe she wants to see you alive, living. Sending love, healing and strength to you and your family. Thank you Owami for this enlightening video.
Eish, this is very sad... I feel for her and her family
The is power in owning your story!! Never allow anyone,including yourself to put you in a place where you will feel embarassed about your past!
My spirit is so crushed watching her cry..... I hear you mama but God forgives, built ur relationship with God first anyone anything doesn't matter now u need to heal first 😭😭I felt that when she said she just wants to rest and not woke up anymore.. Agh mama there is a purpose In your story, don't give up 😢😢
The reason I never like gambling is because I had watched the movie “ the croupier “
Casino hve one winner only the casino that makes money no one else.
They use players that are trained to make you get addicted. The mathematicians and all these cameras on top of you watching you playing, they are watching the winners and their consent is winner. Look how they treat the winners , and u will bring back the money , the treatment is special hence u come back when u have money and see why u hve to act bigger when in those tables.
What addicts don’t understand is the amount of pain their addiction inflicts on their love ones. It hurts deeply!!!
Being addicted is even more painful. It's not fun at all
@@LifeGuru16 THEY UNDERSTAND. REMEMBER ITS AN ADDICTION THAT CANT BE OVERCOMED EASILY
Absolutely true 😢
Finally a topic covering gambling. Gambling has affected my family so much, as a student who has a parent who has this problem!!! It hurts now seeing that gambling is being advertised everywhere!!! Even in taxis.
I can relate .
It's just Too sad!!! My brother doesn't want to hear any voice of reason😢 he is in deep gambling... He lost over 600k in just 4 months
@@No2HeartStoppingClotShots that's sad💔😭for the fact that he doesn't want to hear anything
💔💔💔
It is a pandemic in southern Africa. I hate seeing the advertisement
This lady is so beautiful nkosiyam she's a 10+10 in my books, I'd marry her with all she's going through 😍
Thank you
@@Miss__kaymowhy do you continue to blame your aunt for protecting herself from your toxicity?
@YouWell2 can you just STOP...it’s enough now,you don’t know what transpired for you to make assumptions...pls if you don’t have anything nice to say rather keep quiet
@@thatokurumala9305 🤣 you don't get to tell anyone what to say/comment because it doesn't suit your narrative.
if you don't like what you read/hear that's on you ❤😘
Are you crazy?
A gambling addict and a drug addict is the same. They can steal, sell expensive stuff for less and ruin everyones lives in the family. They leave you with no choice but to distance yourself from them, because they will take you donw with them and you will end up paying their debts. And sometimes they attract dangerous people to your house.
Precisely....I walked away!
Thank you for opening up sis, you just opened my eyes. No more Hollywood bet for me. I didn't know it can get this bad.
same thing said to myself after listening to this episode, she really did open my eyes..i was on my way there..
Just admire her bravery, she's humble about her truth,not a lot of people can come out. I respect her ❤
I'm sure this is going to be another very educative episode, I'm so glad that we are slowly opening to discuss gambling as black people, many people are addicted to it
I didn't know gambling addiction was this bad, thanks for sharing. I wish our sister a speedy recovery from all she is going through.
Oh owamie! you are doing good work here! you are handling this episode with so much care, and we appreciate it. We need more addiction stories, gmabling, alcohol, sex, drugs, all of it
Jesus Christ is the way the truth and the life....the burden that is heavy should be handed to HIm...kunzima ukuzithwalela
I lost a gem through gambling, she died of heart attack, a decent intelligent hardworking being. A woman who was fierce and that was my MOM. I hate gambling
😢 sorry, that's sad hey this thing is evil
I dont blame the aunt for cutting her off at that time. People with addiction are at the highest level of toxicity and can easily drag you down mentally. At some point, you have to let go and let them hit rock bottom and hope they will be fine. She must work on gaining forgiveness instead of being a victim. The aunt is a victim here. She must put herself in the aunt's shoes.
Nothing was actually stolen from the aunt.. I understand the aunt distancing herself for her protection but when she said she was told kutsi she should've been the one who died. That crossed the line. Her aunt wished her death. That's what I think hurt her more than the distancing
@tezulumagagula It is not only about stealing. Addicts are highly manipulative and toxic and will gaslight you to the max. The aunt was the closest thing she had meaning the manipulation and all that was felt by her the most. She probably said those things out of anger, she must give context within which that was said. All I am saying is that in all this, she is not the victim and needs to take accountability in as far people's relationships are concerned and start working on their forgiveness, friends included. She can't be angry or blame people for cutting her off after listening to her story
You said what I was thinking perfectly
Thank you!!!! She had already taken the responsibility of raising her when she wasn’t her own child and she still wanted more hhhaaaayi. I honestly don’t blame the Aunt.
Truly speaking human beings should start being accountable for decisions that they’ve taken in their own life. Life is not fair for everyone no one is having it easily
Gambling is a spirit. It will give you hope that you'll get your money back. You keep going back only to be make things worse
If I can tell you my story you will cry
Very true and when you think you are out you start seeing other celebrating that they made money then you go back
Who else came from tik tok 😅 this stories are unbelievable 😮but u cn always start over with GOD 😊
And God will quench the thirst of addiction, it's possible...Jesus I the way
Only with GOD
@@DkMaaga God Restores 🙌❤️
I received it as a recommendation here on RUclips
I did
Casinos should be very tightly regulated or even banned.They don't benefit society.
They did not bring them to benefit the society. They brought them to destroy families.
In the 70s and 80s they brought beer halls (Jabulani) into the communities but never build swimming pools, tennis courts, parks or recreational halls because they do not care.
No u should just smart winners know when to stop its written on the sites
But it’s a business, just like one can say alcohol doesn’t benefit society
I am a recovering drug addict who has been clean for 6 months now.
Although this is about a gambling addiction, this story resonates with me SO much. Being a manipulator and a liar. Losing everything and everyone important to you. People forgetting that you were not always that person and just walking away from you. Having an addiction is the worst.
Congratulations on your recovery. That is awesome. Wishing you continued success.
This part of wanting to make your family proud, it's very important to talk about this, thank you because that's what kills a lot of people...:
@nezialytifa1593 as much as it's necessary to motivate us it's also dangerous, I nearly fell in the same trap but I woke up once I lost my job and the same family I was trying to help was telling me how useless I was because I didn't have any savings,they forgot about all the things I've done for them ,that's when I learned to put myself first without any pressure to impress the family ,that pressure can take you to an early grave
How can someone loan you a car that is not paid back and she AVOIDED THAT QUESTION 😂😂😂😂🎉
This girl is a liar
She said her husband was quiet and she would use his salary to gamble his money and OOO he was abusive, so you were not scared of an abuser spending his salary HAYSKAAA 😂😂😂😂
Shem mmani she hasn't dealt with her situation, her emotions are still so raw hense she's struggling to open up and she's still not coping 💔 😢 guys anyone who can assist her out there please do
She's in the process of healing
She is healing. It's a process
She must do the work....and prove she is done with gambling. Rebuilding the trust will take time
Owami this episode is being discussed on 702 radio by Relebogile show this afternoon. 🎉Congratulations
Are you serious? I hope they gave me a shout out ❤️
Thank you❤️
She did. ❤️
Owamie, the hairstyle , the make up!!! Hunay you are shining bright like a dayimane 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Edit: My… what a sad story but thanks for telling it beautiful lady. Strength to you. ❤️
Here i see a strong woman, who fought addiction and also come out to tell others about the danger of gambling, you will heal my dear, you have already started healing u have taken the first step. I give credit to you for standing up. Your not alone, people are drowning out there
Yooh Owami this lady she speaking about me I lost everything till today I never recovered 😭😭😭😭
Please come to the show 💔
😢
So sorry for what you have been through
Yoh guys 😔
Please gather the strength to come to the show. Pray about it, it will feel lighter and you'll stand a better chance of being assisted.
I can definitely relate to the whole story. Everything mentioned I have done. Self exclusion for the longest term in the best start. The government is fully aware of what impact and damage the casinos are doing to the communities. The bottom line is greed and human life becomes very insignificant. Thank you for sharing this. As a struggling addict I have also learned from what you have shared and I wish I could share my own story..Everyone who is struggling with this please know you are not alone. Will power and lots of strength will get you out of this demonic addiction.
I'm quitting Casino, I thought I'm just having fun mara nooo. I'm quitting before I get addicted
its too late. Just continue and pray about it. One day you will win big 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@samkelokewuti6054
Quit my dear
Stay away from spinna zonke n this table games, u will start buying Bo ma 500voucher thinking u will win
My friend and her friend gambled 30k and lost it. Imagine hubby in Dubai sending money for house stuff they went to Monte casino.
Owami saying, "You're saving so many people right." My heart dropped! The powers behind addiction, any form of addiction really, are crippling. Seeing someone you love go through those motions and lose them right them in front of your eyes is a grief not even death can come close to. Knowing that anything you say or do cannot shake them back into who they once were is disheartening! I can understand the people who leave when the going gets HARD and I can understand the one's who stay too... Miss Kaymo, my heart and prayer's will be with you tonight. There's no shame or guilt too great for Jesus. My hope in all of this, is for restoration and healing to truly take place in your life and everyone around you.
You'd think you have problems until you hear the next person. Truly never think your are the only one going through it or that you are immune to life problems. Eyyy
So true oko ngithi yoh
Very true!Everytine i watch painful testimonies from Owami's videos i feel so BLESSED! That God gas been faithful to me all these years. I appreciate my adventurous life so so much
I meant to say unadventurous life
So true....
@@Miss_Spark24 We are all in need of a Saviour 😭🥺
There are many podcasts here on YT but Owamie is excellent at interviewing! She asks the important questions! I’ve never finished an interview with an unanswered question, this is what preparation and passion looks like. I’m not a ninja but I’m huge fan of your podcasts, you’re excellent at it!🙌🏿
We have all at some point in our lives messed up. There are things that we wouldn't even be able to tell them to other people. To be able to come here and tell your story shows that you are very strong. May you find complete healing. God will restore, just put your trust in Him. ❤
Gambling has destroyed families, my mother's sister lost her pension money R4.2 million, from there she went crazy, till today she's mentally ill 🤧🤧😢
Yoh 😭😭😭
Askies 😢
Heartbreaking 😢
Painful
Sorry 💔💔💔
Gambling is demonic😢I've seen ppl looking like zombies, sitting on those casino chairs, looking dazed, it's very demonic inside there😢
Now it's not casino chairs, it's on the phone, people are glued to their screens gambling online
😂😂😂 I used to wonder what is happening with these . But I thank God I am addicted 🙏
Casino is a place for devil those sound nje are something else inside cloud so that you can see the sun when is setting😅
😂😂😂😂 I laughed 😅
Very true, gambling is demonic. I got delivered from it through my Salvation. That was years and years back. Gambling is demonic cos you tell yourself that you will make it big and continue gambling. Praise God for His grace by saving me. I can't thank God enough
When she said we should stop over burdening our selves because thats where it starts,stop over burdening your selve with family responsibilities, stop with I wanna make them proud and breaking generational curse...
That's when I knew I have to delete all the gambling app in my phone I haven't lost much but I lose with the hope of hitting a big win and change situation sako jareteng
Thanks for this episode
Strength to you sis. Please forgive your aunt. One thing that addicts all over the world have is BLAME. They feel like one person had super powers to change them yet they don’t understand how a burden it is to care for an addict. Carers are encouraged to walk away for their own mental health otherwise they will be dragged down the path too. Forgive your aunt, you clearly weren’t the easiest person to deal with. Much love ❤
Love how Owami is talking to her with so much grace❤
Many people will be healed from this lv u my cc be strong while u healing ❤❤❤
No Owamie , please let’s have the FULL SONG……. I have been through hell and back….. no one to console me ……🎉🎉🎉🎉 that song lifts me up ⬆️
im busy trying to get the song😭😭😭❤
This woman is beautiful, and the fact that she took accountability that’s even more beautiful ❤❤❤I can only speak healing to you mama and ur mom.
Thank you so much, you have saved a lot of people from making the same mistakes. This is an illness ,people need to understand.
This is exactly my Mom's story. Its crazy how I am seeing or atleast hearing this from a person who was a gambler. My mom never talks about it, we aren't so close but I have a heart for her. Sometime this week she said "I am glad I am managing money well " from the business she started. I am so proud of her in ways I can't even explain. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My mom was in jail at some point, she couldn't raise me because of this addiction, It was a family secret, they treated her horribly, like she did not matter. But I love her with everything in me even though we aren't that close.
God allowed me to see her as a human being 1st before seeing her as my mom.
Oh maan, your mom seems to be hurting from the things sha can't talk about. I'm glad you understand her though it must be very hard for you. Stay in prayer
@@Tiish600 yohhh I can.. I understand Her. Some things I may not understand but I try by all means not to judge. It also affected me however I see her, I have this heart for her No one can ever take away. No matter what my family says or how they treat her, I see her for who she is. ♥️♥️
I lost everything due to gambling, my job, ny car, my house, my very expensive wedding ring, mine and my husband's, i lost my marriage and relationships. Gambling is the devil. I have nothing, i lost everything.
@@Tshenolo-oc2vp Are you receiving help? 🥺
Sorry mama
@@busitseba Yes I am, went to rehab and am now a part of Gamblers Anonymous fellowship. It's very helpful to be a part of this fellowship.
@@TSFxCapMgt I've accepted my past mistakes and failures. I'm just finding it very hard to forgive myself but other than that I'm really pushing forward.
@@Tshenolo-oc2vp We thank God🙌... Looking forward to your full Healing Testimony ❤️
People need to delete those hollywood bet apps. Gambling has a rehab for a reason
Just like alcohol has rehab for a reason. So, all liquor should be banned neh🤔
Not just delete but asked to be blocked because if you just delete you'll always go back
Am gona delete 2dy
Mpho, you are right, yazi I lost my R150 on that thing within 10min and inhliziyo yami beyibuhlungu.😢. So imagine losing millions.
@@Blessed_for_life_2023 I think she means people with addiction, just like a recovering alcoholic should avoid company or anything that will trigger the edge to drink until they are completely strong.
I’m praying for you.❤️ I’m so proud of you for sharing your story.
Telling your story as a villain is hard I’m sorry mama ❤
And she did so well. The self awareness came through.
so is brave, hope she heals
Definitely
I love that you gave her the time to cry and you didn't hug her. As a certified health and wellness coach, you hardly this more than I could.
Owami please bring more of this gambling stories,Gambling breaks relationships, marriages,you actually lose yourself
Her aunt really hurt her. I think it’s because she looked up to her, but also, she needs to put herself in the aunt’s shoes. She also hurt her aunt a lot and she needs to take accountability for that.
My thoughts exactly she trusted her and couldn't take it , seating here i understand with no judgement .
She has a victim mentality, she tends to blame a lot of things about her life, i think she is a crooked person
With gambling you always chasing a loss even if you get a little money in return it's always not enough when you start thinking about how much you lost you wanna get it back that's a DEMON that comes with it 😢😢. Sorry nana just thank God you were able to fight the demon at last and become a victor be strong and thank life 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Your cry pierced my heart.. Especially when you talked about your kids. I wish it was possible to give you a long warm hug. Draw yourself closer to God. You will be fine. I wish you nothing but the best.
mY 2 Cents is that this lady needs to extend the same grace to her aunt that she feels she needed at that time. From an empathetic point of view she must realize that when you do something you can not control how people react. That is taking responsibilty for how her loved ones treated her during that time, they probably had never expereinced anyone with a gambling addiction, it was also their first time. Baxolele sisi and understand that you are the one that was the cause of the relationship breaking and sometimes its ok to admit you were the villian in the situation. I have done this internal work myself and its not easy but if i am being honest, I lost some relationship because of who I was.
And this addiction affected people at deeper levels that she'll never understand. If she goes for counselling she'll understand why her aunt felt that way and not behave like a victim. She hurt people and doesn't give a context as to how those statements were said. I can imagine the ex husband hates her to the core as well.
I have a brother with drug addiction after listening to her story im in tears bcz we tried bt failed and im in tears feeling like we failed him as we all just stopped trying 💔
And just because you changed & is better....just because you stopped does not mean your victims have to except you or forgive you.
I agree. I 100% feel for her and I hope she gets the help she needs as well as the healing. However, she also needs to realise that she was a toxic human to others in whatever form that is to people and they have/had every right to distance themselves from you because you are costing them - be it mentally, financially, emotionally etc. She needs to realise that her aunt was probably hurting from seeing her child go through such a destructive habit and compromising so much including her own house and car. I don’t think it’s a matter of not loving you anymore, I think she just didn’t want herself destroyed as well. You are looking good now sisi but you also need to realise that just because you are now clean all is good. People are still bleeding from the wounds you cost them, including your aunt probably. She was harsh, yes, but she probably was trying to protect herself and maybe get you to decide to stop. You had a community and you destroyed it. Sadly you cannot dictate how people react to when you hurt them. You just have to rebuild and reconcile with those who are willing.
I thank God for my brothers wife. She made sure that my brother was blacklisted in all the casinos in KZN. His gambling addiction was too much.
1st thing 1st this lady needs to acknowledge that the aunt is hurt and hurt by her doing and we don't know how deep it went, people think an apology fixes everything and it doesn't fix anything let her heal her own way
ACCOUNTABILITY first. I totally agree. As she is saying her aunt was like a mother, imagine her pain. She stole from the other mother a lot already, we don't know how much the aunt had to endure. I understand that as a daughter she needed a hug but I also understand the aunt.
I never took a cent from her
She's never done anything for me
I said she failed me by entertaining rumors
Such as me being drugs
May God help you sis, you have taken a big step by opening up, that's a first step to healing... Big hugs to you🤗🤗
She look like Sbahle Mpisane ,she is gorgeous 😊.Owami iyakufanela i short hair .
Kudos to you, Owamie. You handled her with so much empathy and dignity!❤
So sorry you went through alll this. But do not blame your aunt. You have to take full accountability. You put your family through a lot. Praying for your healing.
It's worse now that gambling has become digital. Access to these platforms is free and you can bet as little as R1. Kids now even do online betting through sport 😢.
Oh Lord our kids🙆♀️
i love how her honesty and self awareness . ❤️
this too shall pass , God bless you ! 🌹
As an Aunt myself who has raised my sisters kids as mine. I don't think she should be blamed for your choices and decisions. If you love your niece you would do all that you can to save her until you realize you need to choose yourself. To be honest you would have done the same thing you did to your Mama. My kids (niece's) know I love hard but I've almost lost my own life one time due to stress from one of the kids. I've allowed one now to live however she want because I did my best.
I can relate😭😭,but I am fine now. Banned myself in 2017-06-22.
🎉🎉🎉so happy for you!!!
@@RethabileThobs it wasn't easy my dear,and people that gets hurt the most are your loved ones. I can write a book my dear. I should have been a divorcee a long time ago,but by the grace of God ,we are celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary on the 28 September.
Do you still have urges ?
@@nwabalisa2674 not at all my dear. I have learned my lesson.
Plz help how dd you ban yourself, I wanna help my girlfriend
Grambling in general is addictive. I was almost addicted to playing Betway. I quit as soon as I realised I was getting addicted.
@@nomsatorcida9612 We thank God for the wisdom to stop 🥺❤️
That question you asked Owamie about her Aunt it was necessary! Good question indeed. Because what if the Aunt herself didn't know how to help her prior to what happened.
And educated or not the impact of addiction is immeasurable, just like we deal with grief differently, whether you're a politician or not. Politicians are human too.
One thing the devil will do is, he will take you deeper and keep you longer then you planned to stay. You strong mama, you just have to forgive yourself so that healing can take place. God is the only one that can restore you back. You have lost a lot but restoration with God will shock you.
That's right. Longer than you're willing to stay, further than you're willing to go & cost you more than you're willing to pay.
I went to Monte Casino and for the first time we went to gambling side…. OWAMIE!!! Old women who look like grandparents, women and men who look like they have families and not the rich kind. There’s a VIP side for the rich people…. I was so confused. It’s 9pm on a weekday, what are these people doing there? I look possessed and drained 😢😅💔
A colleague killed herself last Tuesday due to this addiction. This cuts across all races and classes
Yoh that's bad ey.
Ohhhh Noooo😢😢😢
Oooo lawd😢😢😢
My brother is suicidal because of it 😢😢😢 I feel helpless
@@zamooch 🥲🥲 try by all means to be there for him,and please don't judge him. That's the last thing he wants to hear,tell him he's going to be okay.
Keep the shorthair my lady it gives you young look👌
Young and hot!
This is a sign for me, because as much as I know that I have an addictive personality, for some reason I felt the edge to learn aviator game on Betway. Thank God for this episode.
Don’t even try, that almost ended my man’s life 😂
Pray and get out of there!!!
Me and you the same I have always hesitated because I know my personality, people have always tried to convince for a very long time
@@Highvirbrationalsounds this is a sign for us to not give in.
Sana😂😂
I think we can start a fund for this beautiful lady.She has a warm soul.
Please let’s do that guys
Sure
Her introduction & background are almost exactly like my background too. Eysh! Much love to you girl from Kenya. It is well ❤❤❤😊
I love this lady! This is painful, a lot of people are going thru this and it feels better when someone talks about it...
I think I’m ready to come to this show… my ex fiancé was addicted to gambling that for 6 years… by God Grace I left because he made me think and believe that I was the problem
When she mentioned her aunt I felt it,like she truly love her aunt and I hope she receives the forgiveness.she made mistakes but I'm happy she's admitting them and willing to make them right
Male Ninjas....here is a Queen to behold, she is beautiful, smart, made her mistakes and corrected them.....her imperfections makes her perfect.....
What do you mean 'Let's go for her' Elvis?
@@NdlovukaziFab76 it sounds bad MaNdlovu, right? I'll quickly edit
@@elvisndlovu1232This has been hidden in our community and is not talked about, but so many people are suffering from gambling addiction. You have just opened a can of worms. You can't correct what you don't acknowledge. Just like an alcoholic, you have to admit that I am an alcoholic, before you can start going to the alcoholic anonymous. You must ask God to help you fight this demon as you have described it. When you surrender your problems to God and become vulnerable, healing starts.
Love it
@@NdlovukaziFab76 👍😌
What a painful episode...those who were thinking of starting they must forget
It's never too late cc ❤️❤️ you can still have a beautiful life and I believe you will recover
Thank you for sharing your story with us
Sending you lots of love 💖
I love these sentiments 😊❤
when she spoke on external forces, it hit hard.. we are so burdened with family it keeps us up at night
Don't be afraid to start all over again, you may like your new story better. I love you skat❤
Oh sisi. Thank you for sharing your story and being vulnerable. I wish you all the healing. ❤
She is saving a lot of people I admire you
Thank you so much for sharing your story❤ you saving many of us🙏
Money will come back. LIVE!
Very importantly topic. Thank you Owamie for giving our sister a chance to share her story. I know someone who’s going through the same. She left her government job so she could gamble her provident fund 💔😔
a close family member of mine suffered from gambling addiction. she lost everything in her life except her children and immediate family. she had to rebuild her life, unfortunately it will no longer be the same again. our lives were also changed. I am really proud of the lady for speaking about this addiction and how she wished she could've have done things differently.
Aaa Ninja u are a Goat 🐐, I'm not gonna judge this lady coz she's saving a lot of ppl. A lot still secretive how much they lost nd how low they got. My friend is still a lier and I can see she went back. I'm frustrated coz I dnf know how to approach her, but IL send this video
This is so painful to watch! My heart breaks for you.😭😭 I commend you for your honesty. "I'm the luckiest person, but I'm irresponsible with money!" Self-awareness is the first step towards change. Thank you for sharing your story with us dear, you're changing lives. You are intelligent and beautiful! May God protect you and give you wisdom. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️