EP 19 | Musa Mphahlele on living in fear for her kids because of baby daddy’s current wife

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  • Опубликовано: 23 мар 2024

Комментарии • 316

  • @LiraM-pz5xw
    @LiraM-pz5xw 12 дней назад +8

    I always say as a woman you cannot laugh at another woman suffering, you don’t know what the future holds.😢

  • @ntaolengmoloi1416
    @ntaolengmoloi1416 2 месяца назад +236

    Going through the Comments, I realize how judgemental we are as women..to be honest there's really no formula to "getting it right " we all learn as we grow

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 2 месяца назад +16

      They always have alot to say until its them or their loved ones in that situation

    • @Zamandla18
      @Zamandla18 Месяц назад +9

      Power to that girl. We learn as we Go. Nobody want a dirty minded partner and stinking life yaz. No Formula when comes to this Life🙏🙏🙏

    • @ThlologeloPromiseRampa
      @ThlologeloPromiseRampa Месяц назад +4

      We learn as we grow sesi! Ka nnete. Women are very judgmental that’s time they too live in glass houses

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Месяц назад +8

      We learn as we grow 👏🏿❤

    • @neilwereneilwe306
      @neilwereneilwe306 Месяц назад +4

      They are being negative because is what they are doing

  • @graciouslybusisiwe248
    @graciouslybusisiwe248 Месяц назад +93

    By reading comments, women are judgemental, extremely judgemental. Having a situation doesn't mean that you are not educated, you can be educated but still be unemployed. You can be educated and still encounter these challenges, education means nothing in mjolo, mjolo can trouble u while educated, so don't judge her by saying education nton nton

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 Месяц назад +5

      ONE OF THE MOST SENSIBLE COMMENTS ON HERE!! 💯💯💯

  • @Narefoundations
    @Narefoundations 29 дней назад +18

    I wish to be invited here so that I can tell my story 😭😔
    6 years now am stil in the process of healing.

    • @user-kv3fp6us1v
      @user-kv3fp6us1v 20 дней назад

      Pray hard give God your problems and start to fgive yourself from the start of those problems and before you councilling admit talk to you agree look at the mirror and talk to yourself first before you decide to go channels I'm a councilor I help lot of people take my advice because if you go to councilling not having conversations with your heart ,your mind and admit is useless then I wish I can talk to you more

  • @yolandangcuzana8010
    @yolandangcuzana8010 2 месяца назад +133

    My wish is for us women to love ourselves,get education and work for ourselves and children...eyamadoda siyiyeke

    • @teeslife2408
      @teeslife2408 Месяц назад +4

      I believe they’re men who are good out there guys

    • @HeartDlomo-yz4ls
      @HeartDlomo-yz4ls Месяц назад +1

      ngoba ayikho qobo 🙄

    • @masterkdproductions6696
      @masterkdproductions6696 Месяц назад +1

      She loves herself! She’s educated but MAN need to take responsibility for their kids !!! Stop this nonsense

  • @cathymokolopa1129
    @cathymokolopa1129 2 месяца назад +71

    it is so sad how we as women fight each other and the predator is cruising through life..

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  2 месяца назад +12

      I’m telling you 😢😢. It’s heartbreaking that we refuse to decenter men in 2024

  • @fredamadiba9753
    @fredamadiba9753 Месяц назад +33

    I love the fact that you have learnt your lesson sisi.. You did a good thing by choosing yourself .. My advice to all ladies is to NEVER loose yourself in the hands of a man or in pursuit of love.. Big up Sis❤

  • @rozettameyer4145
    @rozettameyer4145 Месяц назад +6

    My sister tell God your story. Your story is my story, I used to beg every month for support, find a Job, start a business and don't forget to PRAY.

  • @TheCornerHub
    @TheCornerHub 2 месяца назад +31

    Musa should just leave this guy and focus on herself and her kids. Sending loads of hugs 🫂

  • @mamakariba
    @mamakariba 2 месяца назад +24

    I feel like the guy met his match in the lady he is with now. You are young smart and beautiful you can heal and move on from this

  • @mgosinomagatsheni6696
    @mgosinomagatsheni6696 2 месяца назад +29

    As woman we need to learn to choose our self, love us and take education serious

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. Месяц назад +1

      Most importantly we should standup en go work for ourselves,depend on ourselves for survival and happiness solely. The next person’s help should be a bonus to us nje

  • @Sharon_entertainmenti
    @Sharon_entertainmenti 2 месяца назад +69

    This is probably going to be one of the comments/advice you won’t like… again this is my 2c advice not only for our beautiful sister but to all women out there.
    Personally for me I say leave the man alone and don’t continue with the maintenance case. LET IT GO. If you didn’t know men klll their children out there because the mothers continues to force them to pay every month. It’s not WORTH IT. It’s not WORTH your child/children’s life, so LET IT GO my sister.
    To women who don’t have kids and planning to have one in the future. I always say this , please stop making kids for men. We make kids because we want them not because “my man” want kids. It’s important for every woman breathing to be independent. Mosadi Ke her own money. You depend on a man you are giving him a ticket to disrespect you.
    I like that you are taking accountability for just relaxing at home thinking your man is there. I respect you for that and I pray you fight for your independence. It’s definitely not gonna be easy but you will get there.
    Sending you love 🫶🏽

    • @nbee6217
      @nbee6217 Месяц назад +3

      This is a beautiful comment❤

    • @mphokekana3893
      @mphokekana3893 Месяц назад +2

      Danki. Well said

    • @andiswamichael76
      @andiswamichael76 Месяц назад +2

      Don't continue with maintenance case let it go👏👏

    • @shabichuene7127
      @shabichuene7127 Месяц назад

      I don’t think there is anything wrong with pursuing child maintenance as it is the child’s right but anyway if it is then threatening the children’s life then that’s when you can stand down.

    • @thobekiledlamini
      @thobekiledlamini Месяц назад

      It you women who let men get away with being irresponsible...black women stop letting men get away with such, how are you gonna raise your kids? Teach them to just have babies and no one take responsibility? Wrong mentality, that why white people will always rule us, we are too apologetic

  • @keotshepileplaatjies8424
    @keotshepileplaatjies8424 2 месяца назад +33

    Madame Speaker!!! Bathong I just love your interviewing skills.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much 🙏🏿❤️

    • @abigailvilane
      @abigailvilane Месяц назад

      Bona she is asking all the questions I was so curious about

  • @phomolosefala4341
    @phomolosefala4341 2 месяца назад +15

    Toxic😢..i would stay away from the guy and his lady and find a Job and look after my children atleast she has a home.

  • @user-vz5tg1ob2y
    @user-vz5tg1ob2y 15 дней назад +2

    It was a good and brave thing for You to go back home, may You heal.

  • @givemethesimplelife
    @givemethesimplelife 2 месяца назад +56

    Listening to this 26 year old young lady is the saddest thing. All that time going to court, opening cases and exchanging words with another woman over a man could have been spent on self improvement, achieving personal goals. It's not too late but dedicating more time to this will lead to a latter life of regret and bitterness.

  • @mammutlemathebula7627
    @mammutlemathebula7627 27 дней назад +3

    You took a great step to get out of toxic relationship. Always choose your self and your kids. May God protect your kids from the evil ❤❤

  • @isobelndoro
    @isobelndoro Месяц назад +8

    It is easy to give wise advice when you are not going through battles or surprising traumatic emotions. Sometimes it catches you offgaurd while you are going through your own struggles. The worst part is Sometimes some ladies are not allowed to work, by these abusive men, and when things like these happen you are so furious at yourself and everyone. Narcs know what to remove to make you dependent on them and desperate 😢. They plan in advance when to start abusing you. What l have learnt is that you have to pray because sometimes the devil uses partners whom we sleep with whom we are spiritually tied to to rob our bright futures. Let's empower more girls to be financially independent

    • @teeslife2408
      @teeslife2408 Месяц назад

      True yooo it’s like you talking to me 😢

    • @fozzyllicciouss897
      @fozzyllicciouss897 28 дней назад

      It’s very true, the devil can easily use your so called better-half to kill your destiny after trying other ways and failing. Let’s not give up on prayers

  • @sihlemabunda1
    @sihlemabunda1 Месяц назад +9

    The day she choose herself and kids and all these up and down courts and cases,she will find peace. yoooo I wish I could speak to her 😢

  • @sihlemabunda1
    @sihlemabunda1 Месяц назад +11

    I wish I could speak to Musa. I went through similar movie. Sending her love and peace.

  • @prettymkhonza9565
    @prettymkhonza9565 2 месяца назад +14

    Cc self improvement is the key to diminish all of this.

  • @Maria-yp6le
    @Maria-yp6le 2 месяца назад +34

    "She was not pregnant" gives Thabo Bester. If it was me I would not go to maintanance court and also stop taking money from him. Just for the sake of peace. I would build myself for my kids and live in peace. You are right when you say that your problem is minor. Your problem is wanting maintenance when you see that it's putting your life and those of your kids in danger. My sister phila, just live and stop wanting money from that dad beat father. Yes, times are tough but for the safety of your kids just do the right thing.

    • @zuzuh5755
      @zuzuh5755 2 месяца назад +7

      True. I think our problem we want to fight back. Yes we have to fight for our rights. People also like to force people to fight back by ,going to courts for theie rights.
      But I think sometimes, there are times where we have to be stupid and let things go. If a baby daddy or ex husband is threatening your life,and if you know how heartless he can be,babey! You are the only one who know a person you've been sleeping with. People can b monsters whn they don't love you anymore.
      I know a story of the ex husband,who shot his ex wife,jst bcs he didnt want to pay her spousal support etc after divorce..
      The woman cld still try to survive without that man's money but she was determined to fight for her rights,but when yr ex is a monster, never listen to friends. Now she's no more and the guy is continuing with his life. I jst read yr comment and remembered this story of that lady.
      It's good to fight for our rights,but we must know where to let it go. Cos whn the monster take yr life. All those who were encouraging you fight can't help.

    • @isobelndoro
      @isobelndoro Месяц назад +1

      Well said 😢

    • @chechemokgosi324
      @chechemokgosi324 19 дней назад

      It's a good thing it's not you she must fight if she wants to

    • @ntombenhlenonny7334
      @ntombenhlenonny7334 10 дней назад +1

      Well said 💪

  • @NomvelisoNtsinde-hi6zf
    @NomvelisoNtsinde-hi6zf 2 месяца назад +7

    What a messed up man! My sister please run away. Stay in therapy and try to develop your own life. Go to school and better yourself. You are still very young. ❤️🥺

  • @khanyisileqali861
    @khanyisileqali861 2 месяца назад +9

    Ishhh let's not beat someone down for sharing their lives for non is perfect and we all have our pitfalls in life... Let's handle this life with care because anyone can be subject to seeing flames

  • @MelissaLuis-nn9fc
    @MelissaLuis-nn9fc 2 месяца назад +8

    Uyimbokodo babe ❤ phuma kubo karma will deal with them

  • @BridgeMA29
    @BridgeMA29 2 месяца назад +15

    My advice is start getting assistance through therapy its free at public hospitals, take this man to maintance if he changes his account number tell the court there are people who served time in jail due to Maintenance issues, move on sesi you are beautiful. Change your number. When you are ready, you will meet a man who will love you and your kids. You will be happy, it's possible.

  • @MusaMphahlele
    @MusaMphahlele 2 месяца назад +20

    Madam speaker i thank you and i love you.

    • @mashadimokgata871
      @mashadimokgata871 2 месяца назад +3

      Nana be well 🎉

    • @lebom3328
      @lebom3328 2 месяца назад

      God Bless you, my sister.
      May you continue to work on yourself ❤. I'm glad that you acknowledge and you are self aware! Thank you for your story.
      I'm also a mother of 2 children, with God's grace we continue to soldier on 🤗

    • @zandilekhutso8496
      @zandilekhutso8496 20 дней назад

      In life Musa remember to be kind to other people, your actions will always follow, I can safely say you have met your match, I once told you when you called me being disrespectful ngathi I wish you meet a guy you love and uthole umuntu ozoyenza what you were doing to me and then you will know how it feels, and I can see now you know how we felt mawuhlupha thina...but ke ube right, lesson learnt I hope

  • @beniesmatsetse2202
    @beniesmatsetse2202 Месяц назад +4

    Women will judge and judge until it comes to them

  • @rebotilemogadime4169
    @rebotilemogadime4169 2 месяца назад +17

    Imagine going through aaalllll of those things for someone who was not even pregnant. Mara yoooooo.

  • @mamigirlmotaung
    @mamigirlmotaung Месяц назад +10

    I'm proud of you Musa for standing up for yourself and moving on. May God protect you and your kids

  • @dipuoviola7491
    @dipuoviola7491 2 месяца назад +110

    You know it’s important to go to school and never leave school to go stay with the boys

    • @bongythwala9840
      @bongythwala9840 2 месяца назад +3

      Yes true cc bakhona abahlala ngokuthandi kuma boyfriend kodwa ngenxa yesimo not ngokuthanda kwabo yes abanye bayeka ngoba bazkhethela .

    • @celiweshezi1021
      @celiweshezi1021 Месяц назад

      0

    • @NtoetsiTlali-le5yd
      @NtoetsiTlali-le5yd Месяц назад

      Yooh 😢

    • @victoriamandla8788
      @victoriamandla8788 Месяц назад +7

      But the abuser don't care how educated you are.

    • @sekgabimasobe9690
      @sekgabimasobe9690 Месяц назад

      ​@@victoriamandla8788csay that again😢😢😢

  • @anastheciasebela6460
    @anastheciasebela6460 Месяц назад +15

    Suncity works shame, the highschool i went to in Alex ,they would organise a trip like once a year for learners who don't do homeworks, who were just problematic nje, they would come back as changed humans , just for a day that's when i was like no suncity is rough. when we asked them what happened they were telling us they took them into the cells to be with inmates and ate what the inmates ate, others told us they didnt eat anything cos the bosses in there took their food. the aim was to show them if they continued with the attitude thats where they would end up.

    • @noxolomelani6707
      @noxolomelani6707 23 дня назад +1

      Lol what the hell?? Parents signed off on minors being sent to prison with actual inmates??

    • @Official_glamour
      @Official_glamour 10 дней назад

      But this could have been unsafe for people’s children

  • @Moments83
    @Moments83 2 месяца назад +12

    The problem about SA, women will use muthi just to get a man, its so sad.

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo4514 2 месяца назад +7

    My sister your life is a movie😢yoh

  • @thathazulu3718
    @thathazulu3718 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you KD for bringing her to the studio. I listened throughout without feeling drowsy. She is a powerhouse 🫶

  • @italiatsotetsi8347
    @italiatsotetsi8347 Месяц назад +3

    I am in tears how can a woman be so mean and even wish death on kids to get a man 😭😭😭

  • @dikeledihlabangane3854
    @dikeledihlabangane3854 Месяц назад +5

    Musa you are intelligent n calm. God bless

    • @nozukojoseph2214
      @nozukojoseph2214 Месяц назад

      I wish Musa can be out of reach from his "partners", get a stable job & register for long distance or online courses. She must just focus on her family, her life and self improvement. ❤❤

  • @nonhlanhlajoymotaung4948
    @nonhlanhlajoymotaung4948 Месяц назад +5

    You look sooo stunning Madam Speaker 🔥

  • @rainymakgati4097
    @rainymakgati4097 Месяц назад +3

    😔 SAD, for another woman to threaten another with killing a child. That's too deep. Let's cover these children in prayer.. The Shepherd never sleeps, mother call on Jesus Christ Name 🙏🏿

    • @user-kv3fp6us1v
      @user-kv3fp6us1v 20 дней назад

      Already God had our prayers indeed in the name of Jesus nothing will happen 🙏

  • @nandiphasomana8501
    @nandiphasomana8501 Месяц назад +1

    Musa be grateful for all you went through. God has a greater purpose for your life and I love that you fought your own peace. I'm really glad that you got help and you had the strength to share your story. Many woman shy away and die in their misery. Speaking up, is a sign of healing . I applaud you Sisi🎉❤

  • @user-sb7wp5vj9m
    @user-sb7wp5vj9m 2 месяца назад +5

    Great Interview Madam Speaker
    My sister leave that man alone and hustle to raise your kids Sepedi sere "agona lebitla la tlala" start from scratch rebuild... You're still young you'll make it

    • @dot510
      @dot510 2 месяца назад

      But she has left him. He is the father of her children she can't change that.

  • @mosibudirebeca5785
    @mosibudirebeca5785 6 дней назад

    I just want to buy a perfume to support as a lady I understand what she is going through

  • @Prisca_BossLady
    @Prisca_BossLady 2 месяца назад +4

    Maintenance court is hectic been going up and down since last year, the last order was given end of Feb but dude still not paying I'm now ready to go for a garnishee.....
    My sister try if it works it works .... light and love for you.....❤

  • @lekopalekopa5177
    @lekopalekopa5177 29 дней назад +2

    I am working as a domestic worker to send my son to school to feed him to clothes him I am abused at work but I am still working for that lady because I don't want to ask him for a money it's hard but my God see me through every day I feel for you my sister i pray for you 🙇‍♀️🙏♥️ and know that you are not alone

  • @sdumomoraka7688
    @sdumomoraka7688 Месяц назад

    Wise and profound madam speaker.

  • @gugulethutshabangu1468
    @gugulethutshabangu1468 Месяц назад +3

    Musa cc go to maintenance court hle because we cannot be making excuses for these dead beat daddy's.....guy went out to cheat opened that door for muthi to enter now we have to feel sorry for him haibo guys......being a single mother in this economy is hard hle

  • @ntsako98mashele4
    @ntsako98mashele4 Месяц назад

    Thank you Madam speaker ❤

  • @nthabisengmaluleka6630
    @nthabisengmaluleka6630 2 месяца назад +2

    the intro sounds great im glad to actually see that you do read comment and try by all means to adhere to some of them

  • @RoseHlabane
    @RoseHlabane Месяц назад +1

    I love you Girley so matured, stand up go back to school and find your dream. God bless you

  • @triciakekana
    @triciakekana 2 месяца назад +9

    School is super important

  • @francinantombi6923
    @francinantombi6923 2 месяца назад +3

    Gal de best thing that you can do phuma kulo mfana hlukana nomfonela, abantwana bazokhula phuma phanda hambo thengisa khulise abantwana bakho for ukuthi ungaze uluze abantwana BALEKA CC

  • @ramaselaviolet2993
    @ramaselaviolet2993 Месяц назад +6

    My return soldier, madam speaker,i love you. Could you have not returned from "soldiering "this many souls you are changing, couldn't have made it. Big up✊✊✊👏👏

  • @kholofelofaithmakuwa747
    @kholofelofaithmakuwa747 Месяц назад +3

    Limpopo ladies aowa aowa aowa .We cannot be doing this to another person.We cant be this heartless ..Lets think about the kids hle ...Kids needs to eat .Yhooo

    • @keepitfrankwithfentse
      @keepitfrankwithfentse Месяц назад

      Batho ba rata dilo tsa batho. That woman thinks she has won but she does not understand that one day it will be her turn to be hurt.

  • @noxolojacobs1917
    @noxolojacobs1917 25 дней назад

    I love you Musa, you are so brilliant and strong baby girl. Don’t worry about this woman the fact that she’s swearing and threatening you and your children, is a clear indication that all is not well in paradise.

  • @mandlasihlali6639
    @mandlasihlali6639 26 дней назад

    Madam speaker,,,you are so eloquent, objective, authentic, cool ,calm as you navigate and manage conversations.😂😊

  • @mmoni6707
    @mmoni6707 Месяц назад +4

    My loving advice to you sesi Musa:
    1. Take time to heal from all this toxicity, work on yourself, and allow yourself to struggle with your kids.
    Don't evade the healing process, it's lonely and painful but it's worth it.
    Kgaogana le tshelete ya this guy sokol le Bana ba gago, if you're not working nyaka di piece job.
    After a year or 2, go to maintenance court..
    Prioritize yourself please

  • @dikeledihlabangane3854
    @dikeledihlabangane3854 Месяц назад +1

    M glad that Musa called the ambulance for help

  • @mgosinomagatsheni6696
    @mgosinomagatsheni6696 2 месяца назад +5

    But keh i love sis Musa❤❤

  • @khensim8959
    @khensim8959 Месяц назад +5

    I feel sorry for this yound lady, i feel that she has not moved on and still loves baby daddy, and I'm saying this because of how he speaks of the guy, the lesson i got from watching this, is we must learn self love

  • @samanthazungu9222
    @samanthazungu9222 Месяц назад +2

    You looking Gorg madam speaker❤❤

  • @pinkysegolabeng3576
    @pinkysegolabeng3576 Месяц назад +2

    So sad
    You look gorgeous Madam speaker ❤

  • @mapulankomo1494
    @mapulankomo1494 Месяц назад +2

    May u allow your visitors to speak their language so that they can speak their pain

  • @dorcasrampai6779
    @dorcasrampai6779 2 месяца назад +9

    I need to save this for my mental health cz god knows im going thru the same.. A fucken week guy dat i hav

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 Месяц назад +3

      Send you hugs and praying that God will give you the will power to move on with your life❤❤❤

    • @amandamurenha1295
      @amandamurenha1295 Месяц назад

      🫂

  • @nonkululekogcabashe9488
    @nonkululekogcabashe9488 Месяц назад

    This young lady has a great testimony and I wish younger ladies and girls balalele her experience

  • @PhindileMtambo-id6pu
    @PhindileMtambo-id6pu 26 дней назад

    Brave young lady... Big up to you darling!

  • @SRDLbw
    @SRDLbw Месяц назад +1

    Musa you went through a lot my sister I hope you will heal. I pray that find peace and do a lot to for your children.

  • @chasiweskulu3613
    @chasiweskulu3613 Месяц назад

    Sihle same here I wish I can speak to her as a mother and coach her. I'm so heart broken

  • @matlhatsidire5624
    @matlhatsidire5624 2 месяца назад +5

    The more you listen the more u say iyooh mara bathong

  • @anastheciasebela6460
    @anastheciasebela6460 Месяц назад +3

    when she said the lady was not preganant haaa my heart 💔, so she wen to jail for nothing haibo... nkos yam

    • @nozukojoseph2214
      @nozukojoseph2214 Месяц назад

      She just wanted Musa to know that she is also in the picture

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni 2 месяца назад +12

    These young women fighting over a man child who has 10 kids🥺 sad.

  • @nomgcobocordeliabushula4345
    @nomgcobocordeliabushula4345 2 месяца назад +8

    thank you Madam speaker for bringing women like this young lady & alert us with topics like these. Us Women we must wake up about these MEN bcs in most times they are the 1nce who always put us in danger, they are traps

  • @anitatumeka1466
    @anitatumeka1466 2 месяца назад +5

    The guy don't want to maintain cc. Don't make excuses for him

  • @lebom3328
    @lebom3328 2 месяца назад +3

    We thank God that you are still alive today to grace us with your testimony 🙌🏽

  • @masterkdproductions6696
    @masterkdproductions6696 Месяц назад

    We thank God for the nice paramedics and the ladies @ psyche ward , for helping her

  • @GeminiJune0608
    @GeminiJune0608 Месяц назад +1

    There iam thinking about the Suncity Resort at the beginning😂yhooo, good lessons

  • @sindiswanyandana1423
    @sindiswanyandana1423 Месяц назад

    Cc don't worry, this is life with no formula. Kuzolunga don't give up ❤

  • @leilaleratom8179
    @leilaleratom8179 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanks been waiting ❤😊

  • @keepitfrankwithfentse
    @keepitfrankwithfentse Месяц назад +1

    Her story is unfortunately the reality of so many young women who are GROOMED by men. She is definitely a victim and I really pray she has healed from the trauma. That is why she stayed while the abuse was happening.

  • @constancefaithful1451
    @constancefaithful1451 Месяц назад +6

    When madam says, heey my sister😂😂😂

  • @xolisilendlovu6349
    @xolisilendlovu6349 Месяц назад +3

    "Hhaa my sister" 😂😭...I totally understand how other people can really make us act out of character with how they treat us, and when it gets to a point where you can't control your emotions ai it's chai 🥲💔.

  • @mamikiramafoko4095
    @mamikiramafoko4095 Месяц назад +1

    It is the right thing to get maintenance money for the children,but with so many threats,please do not ask for money anymore.
    Safety of your children is paramount!!!

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 Месяц назад +1

    His mother's words saying "ngwana wa hae a ka se dule le mosadi"! Yoh! Why would the MIL say such words! She knows why ngwana wa hae is behaving like that!

  • @masterkdproductions6696
    @masterkdproductions6696 Месяц назад

    She is so calm 😢😢shame I feel for her

  • @NokulungaMacu-uq8qu
    @NokulungaMacu-uq8qu Месяц назад

    Im glad that you're well Musa, intliziyo ayiphakelwa 😢. Sorry you had to go through so much for a man😢

  • @jairmadolo5667
    @jairmadolo5667 Месяц назад

    Proud of u cc❤

  • @ZolekaPepeta
    @ZolekaPepeta Месяц назад +2

    The bubble gum😢

  • @nwamj2198
    @nwamj2198 Месяц назад

    I love you Musa and you are beautiful ❤❤

  • @lindamoroane4128
    @lindamoroane4128 Месяц назад

    Let's love each other more and more ladies and gentlemen...we should put God first then ourselves...❤❤❤

  • @user-mp2lz7oi1b
    @user-mp2lz7oi1b Месяц назад +1

    I feel sorry us ladies as we always jump to conclusion nd judge each other , are guys perfect to that point of saying things you're saying , is either you're educated or not Mjolo ke mjolo

  • @kgomotsobetty2163
    @kgomotsobetty2163 Месяц назад

    This guy is like my baby daddy 😭😭😭😭😭😭 i only found out he had many kids when I was pregnant

  • @katlegonatalie7735
    @katlegonatalie7735 Месяц назад

    Sending love sisi.....❤❤❤❤

  • @user-pd2sr5hl3y
    @user-pd2sr5hl3y 2 месяца назад +2

    My dear sory i heard yr story is painfully and it the very same story i went through even though there was no bby mom but my husband abused me in all of the way evn we are stil together today but he doesnt do anythin that had me unless if he still cheatin but now i thnk is bcause hes broke

  • @anastheciasebela6460
    @anastheciasebela6460 Месяц назад +1

    ay sis Musa mtase, please find something to make your life improve. be it business or going back to school uhlukane nale drama is too much. you deserve much more better things. true sis Persevierence he groomed her

  • @MableMaake
    @MableMaake 13 дней назад

    I hope God gives you strength 💪 to move on for the sake of your kids,this is he life he will come back 1 day asking for forgiveness karma is a bitch 😉 be strong baby gal .

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 2 месяца назад +7

    Musa is still not healed, but I understand it's still early, I feel so sad for her, women go through a lot because of men they thought they love

  • @carolmpetwane6428
    @carolmpetwane6428 26 дней назад

    Hayi man this young lady, ushade enangakhi kanti?😢

  • @zandilekhutso8496
    @zandilekhutso8496 20 дней назад

    It's true when they say Karma is a b*** surely never miss the address, things we do to others, they come back X2...the pain you caused to other people ibuye kuwe hope going forward you have learnt your lesson and be kind to others

  • @user-iy8wg3gs7v
    @user-iy8wg3gs7v 9 дней назад

    Relationship was only in our days, 1930,40,50,60,70, 1980 it's just Fu........k 💔 broken Relationship, and merried 😢

  • @mogauledwaba9629
    @mogauledwaba9629 Месяц назад +1

    Iyoo dis new galfriend😢

  • @lindekamatshoba71
    @lindekamatshoba71 Месяц назад

    My wish to us as women let us trust ourselves , believe in your selves ,love ourselves though you are married.
    .
    Gal take care of your kidz and believe in yourself and trust God in everything bcoz you can't change somebody.
    ********
    And madam Speaker plz ask your guests not to chew ? gums it's disturbing but in a polite ,loving manner ❤