Episode 3 | Nthabi Montsho on surviving two abusive marriages, being an activist & author

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @dineomokgosi411
    @dineomokgosi411 4 месяца назад +54

    There is a saying in Setswana/Tswana, it goes: “Lebitla la Mosadi ke lenyalo”… I’m a Dr 42, Single & celibate for 15 years, no children, never been married. I continue to refuse to settle for anything less than what I BELIEVE I deserve. I don’t care if I meet my soulmate at 70/80. Life goes on!
    MY PEACE & SELF-LOVE COMES FIRST!

    • @fifisenna6839
      @fifisenna6839 Месяц назад

      Dineo you need to come to the podcast I wanna hear your story. How do you do it ? The way I love love .

    • @joynthabiseng6396
      @joynthabiseng6396 Месяц назад

      i have a 50 year old aunt, who is a doc, just like u... she has 3 kids, never married and she is the most happiest soul i know... you guys inspire me so much..

  • @wendymtandagai5240
    @wendymtandagai5240 11 месяцев назад +81

    Madam Speaker you have international viewers, can you put subtitles for us non SA. We end up guessing what she is saying in line with story. You are doing well, your stories relate to so many. Top notch❤❤❤

  • @88LEBXION1GP
    @88LEBXION1GP 9 месяцев назад +7

    I know her from our early days in Palm Springs, she's a remarkable woman indeed. An inspiration to many. Her mother was a mother of the nation as well. All the best Nthabi!

  • @ChannelleSwartz
    @ChannelleSwartz 7 месяцев назад +5

    These stories cuts very deep. Glad you came out stronger, bruised and alived.Your story is one to help so many of us. Narcissist are Satan's best agents I am living proof of having survived dating one.

  • @thapelodhlamini4439
    @thapelodhlamini4439 10 месяцев назад +10

    Oh I ❤ Nthabi she's so well spoken and kind God protect her

  • @preccamadzimela
    @preccamadzimela Год назад +59

    Watching this while i am going through my own divorce, leaving a narcissist gave me hope and strength.

    • @bumblebee7082
      @bumblebee7082 Год назад +9

      Me too , I filed for a divorce 4 months ago, after 11yrs of marriage filled with GBV. This gave me hope cos I realise Im normal. Right now I have NOTHING, but happy back home and starting over again. All the best to you@preccamadzimela I am hoping my divorce will be finalized in early 2024

    • @ladyb5843
      @ladyb5843 11 месяцев назад +3

      I pray for you ladies ,I know it's not easy.

    • @bumblebee7082
      @bumblebee7082 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you@@ladyb5843

    • @SeboleloTebesi
      @SeboleloTebesi 11 месяцев назад +5

      Also left him. I don't have words to describe him! I hate myself for sticking with a pig!

    • @hlengiweyourstruly
      @hlengiweyourstruly 10 месяцев назад +1

      Wishing you healing and love in the future

  • @DevineCyrus5
    @DevineCyrus5 Год назад +80

    This woman is telling my story...😢😢exactly..n i mean exactly 😢😢😢this is scary...

    • @PrincessItu2476
      @PrincessItu2476 Год назад +17

      Everytime you listen to people talking about their abusive partners, it's like they're talking about one person, the manipulation, the cheating, insecurities all those things, they're all the same, the only difference I think is the homicide or the type of killing...and I didn't notice that I until I went through the abuse, now I notice the signs of abusive very early whether from other people's relationships or even on soapies.

    • @kagomokgweetsi3048
      @kagomokgweetsi3048 9 месяцев назад +1

      😢😢😢😢😢

    • @maselloanethokoa3715
      @maselloanethokoa3715 8 месяцев назад +2

      She is telling mine too in the very exact manner for her first marriage😭😭😭

    • @judithmashau1473
      @judithmashau1473 8 месяцев назад +1

      HAaaaaaa,like everything?😮😮

    • @SharonNesane
      @SharonNesane 7 месяцев назад +1

      Woman are going through a lot in marriage xem,, those people are very brave on that point he will change, by that time he become Wes Ishhhh

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Год назад +16

    All that Ntabi went through didn't mean she's weak, she went through that process cause God wanted to use her to be a voice for the voiceless and this was based on experience and not something she read somewhere. Woman should love themselves and through this they will then realise when they not love correctly. I loved this episode,big ups Madam Speaker.

  • @ntombikoloti2034
    @ntombikoloti2034 Год назад +32

    Madame Speaker Nthabi is telling the truth Women who stand strong in public when we get home we are treated like door mats,I met this guy two yrs ago in the 1st three months into the relationship he started verbally ill treating me, it became so normal every month it was a new story verbal abuse became strong he regarded himself a Saint and me a bitch I dressed him from head to toe including his kids but he will make sure he calls me all this names,one day I looked at myself in the mirror and can't belive that I'm what he says I'm he will go around and bad mouth me amongst my friend while I don't know his friends and family Narcists makes u think you are bad person and they are clean thanks Nthabi❤

    • @beniesmatsetse2202
      @beniesmatsetse2202 11 месяцев назад +4

      I don't tolerate verbal abuse. I would leave the next minute

    • @leratoseloma599
      @leratoseloma599 11 месяцев назад

      Pls tell ur story one can learn a thing or two from it

    • @hlengiweyourstruly
      @hlengiweyourstruly 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yoh!! That's such a horrible experience

    • @N.kaDikane24
      @N.kaDikane24 10 месяцев назад

      I'm going thru the same right now worse I'm disabled, I have tried to let him know that he is emotionally abusive. Not even a single day goes by when I don't cry. It a hard dealing with an abuse and the disability😭😭😭😭😭

    • @hlengiweyourstruly
      @hlengiweyourstruly 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@N.kaDikane24 I'm begging you to leave him

  • @Chidzy.M
    @Chidzy.M Год назад +41

    One thing I always come back for is your interviewing skills! You're phenomenal Mam.
    Love you!❤

  • @nonkululekoshozi1404
    @nonkululekoshozi1404 11 месяцев назад +7

    Yo sis Ntabi I command you for the courage you took to choose you and the kids, I have journeyed this same experience I left a fiancé of 23yrs with 2 kids the elder is 22, I learnt to value my life than marriage which was never gonna come, all the narcistic traits were done over my life but I'm glad I left

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 Год назад +27

    sis Nthabi you sound so loving nkosiyam its always the good women who are hurt the most

    • @Spiritwave22
      @Spiritwave22 10 месяцев назад

      true sis

    • @Leboko80
      @Leboko80 9 месяцев назад +1

      Narcissists feed on Empaths.

  • @matildahm7230
    @matildahm7230 Год назад +21

    So beautiful ❤ and inspirational. Let’s not give up on ourselves ladies 🎉

  • @_molebogeng6281
    @_molebogeng6281 Год назад +24

    So happy that Nthabi got her happy ending. Loved her final message coz through her life story I learnt she had no control over how her partners treated her but she owed it to herself to choose herself so she can create a better life for herself and kids. Congratulations mama🎉❤

  • @ndapewateofelus9863
    @ndapewateofelus9863 11 месяцев назад +18

    I just bought a brand new car, and I just recently got my driver's licence, so I asked my husband to go driving with me so that I can get used to driving this new car, the whole trip I was being shouted at, being told how useless I am, how stubborn I am while I don't know anything, the mental abuse, which is the norm, I have to walk on eggshells around him, as much as I now know that the man does not love me, as much as I dont depend on him financially, I jist dont know why I am subjecting myself to this....everytime I get flashbacks of the mental abuse, I get shivers

    • @cynthialenjo6591
      @cynthialenjo6591 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yooh these men are usually intimidated by women success and they show it by lashing out and not helping you ...Run

    • @mariashigwedha8353
      @mariashigwedha8353 7 месяцев назад +4

      Leave my sis, that guy is jealous off u, he doesn't want to see u progressing. He might poison u to get all u have . Be careful my love, always choose u first no matter what. 🤗

    • @villamaggy5603
      @villamaggy5603 6 месяцев назад

      Leave is the new language everybody knows these days😂😂😂😂

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 6 месяцев назад

      Start by getting counselling to be mentally and emotionally equipped to leave because you have to ❤ strength to you

    • @lebomadi4610
      @lebomadi4610 4 месяца назад

      Learn to stand up for yourself sis..shout him also call him useless mo fe seo a go fago song..don't let him undermine you please

  • @Theblessed01-pm
    @Theblessed01-pm 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow best interview ever. Lady Percy you are growing mos. Highly favored woman indeed

  • @Ladyle4ever
    @Ladyle4ever Год назад +13

    "I'm all for women" love that my queens 👸 big love to you my ladies ⚘🥂❤💯

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 Год назад +22

    Yhooo the way I've been waiting for this episode.....two powerful Women in one screen, Amazing 🎉

  • @smallgirlBigGod-b8u
    @smallgirlBigGod-b8u Год назад +35

    It is sad that sometimes our mothers expose us to abuse from their lovers. But I am glad that the kids are okay and excelling.

  • @ndamulelopreciousthengatsh9021
    @ndamulelopreciousthengatsh9021 Год назад +6

    Hayi guys people are toxic out here, but my lady is truly a blessed woman 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @oyamamakanda8791
    @oyamamakanda8791 11 месяцев назад +4

    "I'm going to love like I've never been hurt" .. Yho I felt that

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Год назад +12

    Love this interview, Nthaby is such a classy lady, the way she talks. 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 Год назад +12

    Im inspired by Nthabi not giving up on Love

  • @keneilwetsieane
    @keneilwetsieane 9 месяцев назад +5

    So inspiring ✨ 🙌
    We share so much in common Nthabi.
    4 daughters, very disciplined kids. I also am a founder of "Broken Vessels " Ministry for women who feel vulnerable and hurt. Based on the scripture "Psalm 34 vs 4" it's all about healing ♥.. may God continue with us , there's still a lot to be done. I hope we meet personally one day.

  • @kedibonethatelo9809
    @kedibonethatelo9809 7 месяцев назад +7

    As women we put our children through a lot 😭😭

  • @daisydeltangobeni4744
    @daisydeltangobeni4744 Год назад +11

    She must come back for part 2❤

  • @Nogi_83
    @Nogi_83 11 месяцев назад +12

    It's depressing to listen to this. People who stay in such conditions a long time with kids involved. It's a waste of so much time and creating a prison for little ones. Ba ba mapantiti kaga bo bona,while they are still wet behind their ears😢😢

  • @nomvulakumalo4900
    @nomvulakumalo4900 Год назад +5

    You know what I've realized is for us to tell our story we are signed up to go through those situations. And God make sure we survive to tell our story to other women

  • @morongoasenoamadi5345
    @morongoasenoamadi5345 Год назад +10

    Thank you for this ..we are going through a lot. I needed this 🙏

  • @Itumelengmatlou
    @Itumelengmatlou Год назад +20

    What an episode, some men will make you look like your the crazy person. Nthabi has seen it all but never gave up on love. That's because not all men are the same😊

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +1

      I totally agree!❤️

    • @PrincessItu2476
      @PrincessItu2476 Год назад +2

      Abusive men are like that, you'll feel like you're the crazy one, and the feeling becomes persistent until the day you choose to leave. The healing journey/process is also challenging, believe you me, I know

    • @rinahleyana7466
      @rinahleyana7466 Год назад +1

      My baby daddy was like that sometimes it was like am crazy plus he's was drinking 😢 he'll deny everything he said or did and he was very dangerous to me but outside he'll be so kind show people that we're dating while he knows he's very abusive when he's drunk 😢

  • @NeoSekonya-lf6zf
    @NeoSekonya-lf6zf 2 месяца назад

    Nthabi you just made me melt when you spoke about your grandmother ❤

  • @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000
    @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000 11 месяцев назад +8

    I wish not to invalidate the experience the speaker went through. And not that re-marrying is a bad thing. But it seems there is a deeper level of healing still needed - that surpass validation by marriage. I can imagine that the children are triggered once more. But we pray for a good experience.

  • @kholofeloletswalo
    @kholofeloletswalo Год назад +25

    Narcissist don’t care about anyone’s pain, Narcissist are selfish and they are very manipulative. What an episode 😢. Some men are cruel 🚮. Happy endings are so fulfilling, glad you are at peace and feeling the love you’ve been pouring all along. ❤️

  • @SaneleThabethe-i1y
    @SaneleThabethe-i1y Год назад +7

    The second marriage - is like my marriage- thank God for the strength and grace he gave me to walk away from the marriage. 😢😢😢

  • @Viewer101
    @Viewer101 Год назад +14

    These stories are so sad & the level of anxiety it gives me… even though they are an eye opener 😭

  • @buyisileradebe8108
    @buyisileradebe8108 Год назад +9

    Choose yourself always ❤

  • @tinyikoshivambu7838
    @tinyikoshivambu7838 Год назад +6

    Oh my sis, I once attended one of your events. My spirit picked that up about him. You are such a strong woman. I've walked that journey of being in a narcissistic relationship. It's the gift that is upon your life. It attracts the broken

  • @ewenthiaolien6327
    @ewenthiaolien6327 7 месяцев назад +3

    Lovely work.....can you please put subtitles for us who doesnt understand African languages....thank you

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 Год назад +11

    Shuuu! We marry our enemies...I'm speechless

  • @okuhlenkosi2567
    @okuhlenkosi2567 Год назад +5

    Thank you for this Madam speaker..❤

  • @RosyRuiters
    @RosyRuiters 6 месяцев назад +1

    Nthabi, I admire your strength dear 🙏💐😘Sisters are doing it for themselves 🙏🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪💪💪Yesssssss girl✌️

  • @kekekheola3791
    @kekekheola3791 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm the true living testimony cause I live what you're talking about. No man who love and care about myself his wife only infront of the public and members of the church, but iyoo behind closed doors and from his mouth iyooo I was nothing😢 but trully I was in abusive toxic marriage. I was married by Manupulator, Narcissistic Character, Gaslighter. But finally I moved out of his house and filed for the divorce. I'm now living my life with my daughter to our fullest

  • @khanyisilegabela7339
    @khanyisilegabela7339 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sisi for your word of wisdom and will take your advise and make sure I put myself 1st at all times.

  • @LibusengMokoena
    @LibusengMokoena Год назад +17

    Ausi Nthabiseng,I wish you'd stay with your kids and forget about men.The abuse your children have been through!!

  • @zamakhoza7873
    @zamakhoza7873 Год назад +4

    Oh how i love Nthabi, i can't wait for this episode

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo4514 Год назад +8

    I personally love Madam Speaker❤

  • @Winterflowers1
    @Winterflowers1 Год назад +9

    What a great interview❤

  • @judithngubane3610
    @judithngubane3610 Год назад +23

    Yooo our mothers when it comes to church guys, 😢

  • @BeautyMasemola
    @BeautyMasemola 9 месяцев назад +3

    I do agree abuse comes in different ways, youll never be prepared for it because as a woman you always want to be loved and be submissive to your partner

  • @MmapiElizabeth
    @MmapiElizabeth Год назад +4

    This is eye opening to women not to put man in your heart you will end up attracting trash

  • @amymapena290
    @amymapena290 11 месяцев назад +2

    I just love your interview style madam. How you allowed her to speak without interrupting her and asking relevant questions in the most respectful way. I'm a new subscriber and iv been hooked

  • @diphalepashe5361
    @diphalepashe5361 10 месяцев назад +1

    All the best and blessings upon you today and forever including your kids.

  • @bhekisilentobedzi690
    @bhekisilentobedzi690 Год назад +16

    I think Nthabi, when she loves she give her all and forget the real person in her, that's why ths Men take advantage of,nowadays Men ba batla bo-stubbon-nyana

  • @keletsomotala598
    @keletsomotala598 Год назад +7

    I've been waiting for this, thanks for the 🔔

  • @simplygugu
    @simplygugu Год назад +5

    I admire your Courage Sis Nthabi

  • @PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk
    @PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk Год назад +4

    Yooh such a powerful and motivational episode thank you ladies

  • @onahndlovu4469
    @onahndlovu4469 10 месяцев назад +6

    This is quite shocking. I know Nthabi's 2nd husband whom she recently divorced & I was really wondering what actually happened. I am glad she shared her side of the story. The guy used of how much he loves Nthabi; how good she has been to their family; he used to flaunt her around & praise her so much. I was actually surprised when he said they're now divorced. I guess pple choose to show only the good about their lives on social media. This is a sad story. I thought they'd go far together as they both seemed to be from previously troubled marriages. 😢 I guess we also tend to attract the same kinda toxic pple if we don't sever ties spiritually. These tend to be more spiritual if they are now becoming a pattern. I hope they both pull down; destroy & pluck out before they can build something new relationship-wise. Those who are deeply & spiritually inclined will understand what I mean by a curse repeating itself.

  • @Nthability
    @Nthability 11 месяцев назад +12

    I love how Nthabi narrates her story❤but Yoh you see why we so scared of marriage now?😢

  • @malolongobese304
    @malolongobese304 Год назад +3

    What a beautiful interview i love you my Queens

  • @SaneleThabethe-i1y
    @SaneleThabethe-i1y Год назад +5

    My mouth is constantly open I tell you. Yoh. A whole minister. 😢😢😢

  • @tshegofatsoaphane175
    @tshegofatsoaphane175 Год назад +24

    My heart sank, coz I remember how you praised your ex husband at the Diepkloof workshop.
    My partner was inspired by y'all as a couple.
    I'm so sorry for your experience.

    • @villamaggy5603
      @villamaggy5603 6 месяцев назад +3

      It is always these women who praise their husbands that go through alot in the hands of the darling idiots😢.

  • @Nelago-y4r
    @Nelago-y4r 9 месяцев назад +4

    I love this but can you please put subtitles when they are talking in the local language for us non S.A🙏❤️

  • @patiencetinyikophaweni5379
    @patiencetinyikophaweni5379 Год назад +8

    In memory of Sindiswa Makgotso Khoza 🕯️🙏🏾

  • @kedibonencongwane6361
    @kedibonencongwane6361 Год назад +4

    I’ve Been waiting for this episode
    And I’m happy❤❤❤❤

  • @MmathapeloNamane
    @MmathapeloNamane 2 месяца назад

    Ausi Nthabi tlhe waitsi hooooo ka lenyalo mma weee😜😜😜😜invite me to your wedding ❤️i love u.

  • @daisyrenewed7081
    @daisyrenewed7081 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'm Kenyan I love the show so much I'm learning a lot but it would really help of you would insert subtitles where the guest speaks in the south African language

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for the love. I’m working on it I’ll improve future uploads ❤️

    • @irenewangui8672
      @irenewangui8672 2 месяца назад

      Second Kenya pleading for subtitles..madam..do you care about your international audience really? We camp here and try to join in the dots when you guys speak in your language..please do something..

  • @athulegcamgcam
    @athulegcamgcam 10 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful episode ❤❤.

  • @OraloOriey
    @OraloOriey Год назад +6

    What a happy ending ❤

  • @wendymokoena2504
    @wendymokoena2504 11 месяцев назад +6

    Her second ex husband was exactly like my ex, escaping a narcissist relationship 😢leaves you with scars for life but healing is assured

  • @KwinBee6064
    @KwinBee6064 7 месяцев назад +8

    Hhhay ngeke can someone start a podcast focused on happy, healthy and honest marriages. These things are scary.

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 6 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂 I hear you but thina again in the comment section will be saying they are boastful and proud and it will end in tears...thina la ...human beams 😂

    • @KwinBee6064
      @KwinBee6064 6 месяцев назад

      @@naledindlovu976 no we all agree that we won’t 😅

    • @IceChampakaWolf888
      @IceChampakaWolf888 4 месяца назад +1

      Exactly 💯, I was thinking of the same.

    • @raisingleadersfoundation9277
      @raisingleadersfoundation9277 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @takalanirambuwani1117
      @takalanirambuwani1117 2 месяца назад

      Honestly😅

  • @nominzaflorinder9359
    @nominzaflorinder9359 Год назад +4

    The wait is over🛎️❤

  • @FlorahRasakanya
    @FlorahRasakanya 8 месяцев назад

    I love you nthabiseng ❤ and God continue to bless you more 🎉

  • @koketsothobakgale7747
    @koketsothobakgale7747 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think I grew up with a father like second husband, life was tough how easy they change 😅 oh wow can't believe I survived

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni Год назад +2

    I love a happy ending🥰❤️

  • @buhlenkomo9764
    @buhlenkomo9764 7 месяцев назад

    Wellsdone in getting out of that situation my friend Nthabi❤

  • @kms708
    @kms708 Год назад +3

    Part 2 part 2 part 2

  • @nelzg5819
    @nelzg5819 11 месяцев назад +3

    I have just tuned in and already i am cringing and feeling my stomach churn😢

  • @Spiritwave22
    @Spiritwave22 10 месяцев назад +3

    The mom was right to ask that question based on the men’s calibre. She could not believe that such a men can do this.

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 6 месяцев назад

      But she gave evidence and pics and I'm sure she relayed so much more...I would believe my child without a shadow of a doubt over a stranger

  • @ThuliZondo-s3y
    @ThuliZondo-s3y 11 месяцев назад +1

    Very motivational and educational

  • @terresanenzhelele2239
    @terresanenzhelele2239 Год назад +19

    Dzi a vhuya, I so wish to get a platform to share my journey as well 😂😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +5

      You can get in touch with us via call/ text on (081) 049-3934 to share your story ❤❤

  • @faithxalabile9597
    @faithxalabile9597 7 месяцев назад +1

    So sorry for misfortune Nthabi.
    Narcissistic are like demons, multiple characters within one . Really scary and funny

  • @PhindileMahlangu-rq3pb
    @PhindileMahlangu-rq3pb Год назад +2

    I have been waiting for this one❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kgadiaphane177
    @kgadiaphane177 Год назад +3

    As I listen, I see there were signs before the vows

  • @kgadiaphane177
    @kgadiaphane177 Год назад +8

    Police? Help you where? In South Africa? Forget!

  • @Siba_Vee
    @Siba_Vee Год назад +7

    "👈🏾 So shap shap wena o Bob the builder wena." 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jmuhlava1543
    @jmuhlava1543 11 месяцев назад +2

    Ukubheja on another level use uber 😢imota iphi jesu😢

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Год назад +105

    I think we should get to a point where we admit that the marriage era is over😢

    • @takalaninetshisaulu2653
      @takalaninetshisaulu2653 11 месяцев назад +6

      You know, and because we've never being there we still wish to walk down the aisle 😂😂😂

    • @Constance-y9v
      @Constance-y9v 11 месяцев назад +3

      l agree with you dear marriage era is over😢

    • @mrs9265
      @mrs9265 11 месяцев назад +2

      Fully agree

    • @mampoiapathiamopeli5500
      @mampoiapathiamopeli5500 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sad but definitely true.

    • @EdnaMwamburi
      @EdnaMwamburi 10 месяцев назад

      Sooo done

  • @Jesuslovesme137
    @Jesuslovesme137 Год назад +2

    Wonderful interview, part two please!

  • @noxolosakang6547
    @noxolosakang6547 Год назад +4

    Sorry for the abuse Nthabi. Please stay as you are as partners for peace sake. Don't get married and no lobola, please. If he was all that he wouldn't be divorced today. Just enjoy life both of you and don't compicate things by marriage or lobola

  • @nthabelengsethole
    @nthabelengsethole 11 месяцев назад

    Hey madam speaker love you so much ❤

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 6 месяцев назад +4

    Dynamic woman BUT I'd really be betraying myself if I don't say this...does she have to keep on having to get married any exposing her children to these men though😢 can she not date away from her kids? Away from her house?...relationships always start out nicely and promising never thinking it could end in divorce and hate. I hope it doesn't happen again because childhood trauma stays...her children have received counselling yes but the memories stay and there's 4 lives to protect here. Atleast the oldest is almost out of the house but the others are still young.
    I'm divorced for years now, I don't want to expose my kids hle, I'm ok with just me and them in the house. I have a sweet teen girl and I cannot imagine someone brought by me harming her in any sort of way, whether physical, emotional or mental 😢 If i do re-marry they have to be fully out of the house, that's my stance ✌️ my eldest is 21 and almost there.
    Dear NthabiI hope your current husband treats your children well until the end of time❤

    • @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana
      @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana 2 месяца назад

      We're not the same some children can stay without their mom.
      But sometimes they will feel like you chose you're partner and move out without them.
      And to date if you're intimate with your parner is wrong before God.
      After her experience she chose what's better for her and her kid❤🎉❤🎉❤

  • @MmathapeloNamane
    @MmathapeloNamane 2 месяца назад

    Ausi Nthabi these men also reed healing, suggest that men should also seek help. They must heal bcoz narcissists continue from victim to victim. I wish to meet you in person. 🙌
    Don't get me wrong People but we need to know what makes people narcissists so we don't unknowingly make narcissists out of our children.

  • @kholiswakhokiswa9596
    @kholiswakhokiswa9596 11 месяцев назад

    She must come back for part 2 please

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 Год назад +10

    Okay so what im picking up here is pay attention to what he says jokingly 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Leboko80
      @Leboko80 9 месяцев назад

      Yes the small minute things.

  • @TheBakoena_Princess
    @TheBakoena_Princess Год назад +1

    Please can we have part 2 of this conversation with Nthabiseng

  • @BuyiswaDyusha
    @BuyiswaDyusha 6 месяцев назад +2

    Women are going true staff yhooo, we need to be careful yhooo🙏

  • @EstherHlongwane
    @EstherHlongwane 3 месяца назад

    Wow ryt now I'm so imotional😭😭

  • @MargieMoyake
    @MargieMoyake Месяц назад

    I have no words 😢

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 Год назад +1

    This took 1 year to yield... Thank you ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @peem9642
    @peem9642 Год назад +11

    😂😂😂I have met this kind of man they have nothing to show but they have a multi billion business proposal for to provide capital and they are the smart ones with zero money too eish I understand I they annoy wen they speak non stop they always scheming everyday just to get money out of u