EP 34 | Ndamulelo on using substances from age 12 when he remembered what happened to his mother.

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024

Комментарии • 121

  • @stephenmokami4089
    @stephenmokami4089 26 дней назад +76

    I remember it like it happened yesterday. It happened in my village Nzhelele,Ha-Rabali. Sharlot (Ndamu's mother) was such a bubbly person and very beautiful. When going to school in the morning,I was in primary, I was surprised to see many cars Ha-Matzheketzheke and people were crying. It was revealed that Sharlot has passed away,sadly she was pregnant. The guy was arrested but released quickly due to family connections. To Ndamu, never give up in life young man, you will make it in life. To anyone who can help Ndamu, please do so. People from my area cannot be able to help him because his father is very brutal.

  • @Chichinekhubvi-1
    @Chichinekhubvi-1 29 дней назад +31

    The worst part is that, that monster of a father was not even arrested, thanks to your aunt for not giving up on you, im glad you are in a better space

  • @thapelolengana
    @thapelolengana 27 дней назад +19

    Never felt so broken. I respect this guy, for opening up, fact that he is talking about it means he is healing.

  • @nomthandazomsenga2948
    @nomthandazomsenga2948 19 дней назад +5

    The enemy saw that you'll heal the nation that's why he wanted 2 keep you in bondage, keep at it my brother.
    With God u have conquered.❤❤❤

  • @pmo6899
    @pmo6899 29 дней назад +23

    Can he please go to TVET College to further his education. There's NSFAS awaiting him there❤❤❤

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 26 дней назад +16

    He was only 5 but he still recalls all the details . May God heal him❤😢

    • @Her_Self..
      @Her_Self.. 25 дней назад +1

      Exactly. One thing about childhood trauma it wil never leave u. I say tbis abt toxic parents who think now that u are grown u shld get over it. .

    • @PhilisaniGumbo-vy8uf
      @PhilisaniGumbo-vy8uf 17 дней назад

      This is so hurtful 💔
      My son remembers things that my ex husband used to do to me Infront of him when he was 4
      Even now he just out of the blues he will say Mama I know you will not stay with Dad again because he used to beat you I know N now his 10 yrs old
      I wish you healing my Brother
      God never fails 🙏
      Great future endeavours to you ❤❤

  • @nwakhubayi
    @nwakhubayi 27 дней назад +13

    If this is Ndivhu’s nephew I am glad he conquered 🤍🤍🤍 sending him soo much love . I am soo sorry.

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 28 дней назад +13

    He really has a beautiful spirit. Am glad you decided to walk with God through it all. You are going to make it!

  • @MathipaChepape
    @MathipaChepape 26 дней назад +12

    The bubles in his voice....
    Him narrating each day that led to the ordeal and days after funeral.
    This child still needs professional help. He cannot be dealing with this traumatic memories on a daily basis.
    I commented before watching this in full.
    This one is an intelligent young man that God allowed for him to go through everything he went through for His glory. I wish you well and fully recovery.

  • @progressrak5728
    @progressrak5728 24 дня назад +5

    Tjoooooooooo😢😢😢😢😢😢
    Hes such a great speaker aswell, maybe find a job where you can speak to people. I can listen to you all day, everyday. Sending you lots of love ❤.

  • @ZoeJack451
    @ZoeJack451 22 дня назад +3

    I pray for him not to relapse again.
    PLEASE GOD HELP HIM HIS BEEN THROUGH A LOT ALREADY..

  • @LilianMajeke
    @LilianMajeke 22 дня назад +3

    The devil is a liar I pray to GOD ALMIGHTY IN JESUS NAME YOU WON'T RELAPSE AMEN ❤🙏 BIG UP TO NDIVHU T AND PASTOR SHUDU STAY BLESSED ❤LOVE YOU MADAM SPEAKER 😊

  • @maytshifularo5415
    @maytshifularo5415 26 дней назад +5

    I hope karma locates his father. I'm feeling so angry about what happened to this child. I cried listening to this. I wish him all the best and I pray that God opens doors for him and I pray for success in his life.

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 24 дня назад +3

    Ndivhu, I’m still listening to this video but all I see through Ndamu is God. Ndamu(o) muhle Ndivhu, what happened to him is so terrible but he’s hear testifying and looking so healthy and handsome. Ndamu please don’t give up, look at Ndivhu, where she comes from and where she is now. You can do it Ndamu, God is with you I’m telling you, God loves you. Qina ndoda and shame the devil. Sending all the love and prayers

  • @nobuhlemtsweni9533
    @nobuhlemtsweni9533 27 дней назад +4

    He is such an intelligent young man, may God bless you

  • @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda
    @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda 27 дней назад +3

    This storry breaks my heart and not being allowed an opportunity to say your goodbyes. Him and his moms family deserved that to say the least and definitely did not deserve loosing his mother in such a brutal manner.😢 May God continue to elivate you my brother.

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 24 дня назад +2

    Well done 👏 👏👏Ndamu! 10 months I’m sure can be very long. Stay strong and positive. Big up Ndivhu and Ps Bae

  • @ZeeInterpretations
    @ZeeInterpretations 25 дней назад +4

    Ndivhu T May God bless you for assisting this young men.

  • @shirleyrantaoleng6492
    @shirleyrantaoleng6492 26 дней назад +3

    I think its Him the way i am listening his story !! prays the Lord Almighty ❤

  • @magaumasala9915
    @magaumasala9915 26 дней назад +5

    The painful part the father is still alive walking on street peaceful. NO JUSTICE

  • @EleanorHozeh
    @EleanorHozeh 28 дней назад +2

    Watched him twice I'm so touched nkare nkamutlwa in person like in a seminar he belongs on a world stage this one

  • @dhiambiokuom2159
    @dhiambiokuom2159 29 дней назад +4

    How painful......May the Lord in heaven see you son....May He favor you going forward ❤

  • @gladysrodrigues4932
    @gladysrodrigues4932 26 дней назад +6

    Who is cutting onions 😢😢

  • @navelanimkansi8789
    @navelanimkansi8789 29 дней назад +5

    Am so sorry you went through a lot, may you find healing and light❤️❤️ I pray God direct you in everything that you do, apply university and nsfas everything will go well❤️❤️

  • @ntokozotshabala8124
    @ntokozotshabala8124 25 дней назад +1

    True!! There's a great seed God has planted in him. Many people's lives are going to change through him. God's is faithful. At the point where others throw hands at you - He opens them for you. He heals you and let His purpose with your life be accomplished. God bless you so abundantly Ndamulelo🙌🏽🙌🏽💯

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 29 дней назад +12

    I’m within the first 10 minutes and I’m in tears 😭. Oh Jesus

  • @ressiakhakhu1209
    @ressiakhakhu1209 28 дней назад +3

    He is a smart guy very well articulate..Sending ❤

  • @mphohappiness1736
    @mphohappiness1736 29 дней назад +12

    The level of karma that the father's family will get...I fear

  • @MusingadiMulweli
    @MusingadiMulweli 23 дня назад +1

    No wonder you were stubborn high school it makes sense now hades boy you'll over come this since you're seeking healing shout out to you. God bless you.

  • @umadumawangempela6098
    @umadumawangempela6098 28 дней назад +7

    Ndivhu T is this not your som you always talk about? The stories are so much similar I think it's him mern I'm super proud of Ndami he has chosen the path that you and PB has always wanted him to chose that's staying clean anf focused in life I pray Gods strength upon him 😢🎉🎉🎉

    • @zamamorakile1518
      @zamamorakile1518 28 дней назад

      True they are very similar and the guy is also from Limpopo, and also divhu is having a little brother he mentioned that her grandmother had a son

    • @RoseKotana
      @RoseKotana 27 дней назад

      I also think is Ndivhu s sister s son❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Wasa35
    @Wasa35 10 часов назад

    This was such a difficult episode to watch, I feel for the young lad and the fact that there was no justice for his Mom hurts me the most!💔
    Perseverance, will you kindly arrange counselling for him if he hasn’t been exposed to such as yet?
    Can’t the case be reopened? His Dad did the deed and he must serve the time!!!
    Such a handsome young lad!❤

  • @pinkymncube4096
    @pinkymncube4096 17 дней назад +1

    I JUST WANT TO GIVE TIGHT HUG U HAV BEEN THRU A LOT MY BOY

  • @murendwaratshikhopha6257
    @murendwaratshikhopha6257 9 дней назад +1

    Joh this is so touching, may God bless you for us❤

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 25 дней назад +1

    Ooh woow Boy you sound like a Councelor now I tell you you will help a lot of youngsters even older people struggling with drug addiction

  • @naleditshehla917
    @naleditshehla917 23 дня назад

    You are a living testimony boy❤. God's ways and thoughts can't be compared with anything of these world🙏.they have tried to bury you but your Almighty God said His will not theirs shall be done and nobody can snatch you out of His hand. You belong to God's kingdom so please let His Glory go to Him only🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @rofhiwamashige516
    @rofhiwamashige516 26 дней назад +1

    I'm in tears it's so painful, I'm proud of you my brother God will intervene

  • @selinabatlhaodi612
    @selinabatlhaodi612 25 дней назад +3

    The most cruelest family ever.😢

  • @shirleyrantaoleng6492
    @shirleyrantaoleng6492 26 дней назад +1

    I believe its Him the way i listen to his story and hope for the best and Godbless you Brother ❤

  • @zandilevinjwa3659
    @zandilevinjwa3659 25 дней назад +1

    I’m lost for words, this is traumatic. I hope he finds healing

  • @ayandiswazibi1824
    @ayandiswazibi1824 29 дней назад +2

    All the best Mfowethu ❤ M proud of you 👏

  • @MsMattie
    @MsMattie 18 дней назад

    Wow super thankful for this Young man indeed ni Ndamulelo ... May the Lord be with you, you are meant for good great things no shuma ,May God heal you.

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 29 дней назад +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Thank you for opening to us buti

  • @user-ey1mh9wp9t
    @user-ey1mh9wp9t 26 дней назад +2

    Sorry bro ,I'm glad u saw a pain s opportunity to change your life 🙏. Your changed forever

  • @mihlalihoofman8970
    @mihlalihoofman8970 7 дней назад

    He’s so eloquent 🥹🥹🙌🏽

  • @joycesebati4695
    @joycesebati4695 29 дней назад +8

    I can relate with so much and i feel so much pain for my little brother i think they are the same age and he was beaten from my mother's womb it triggered lot of emotions from me and i have two boys to raise and i am also healing from emotional and physical abuse from their father i am crying so bad this triggered a lot hey,sending healing and praying to everybody who went through this and i dont even wish this to happen to my worst enemy

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 29 дней назад

      🫂

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 29 дней назад

      I pray God's healing on you.

    • @joycesebati4695
      @joycesebati4695 29 дней назад

      @@spm9130 thank you very much

    • @maytshifularo5415
      @maytshifularo5415 26 дней назад

      Love and light to you and your little brother. May God see you through this. Sending you hugs 🤗🤗🤗

    • @joycesebati4695
      @joycesebati4695 26 дней назад

      @@maytshifularo5415 thanks

  • @mokgadimabitsela4
    @mokgadimabitsela4 29 дней назад +2

    This is very sad🥲🥲 im very proud you gain strength

  • @raesetjemuroa3767
    @raesetjemuroa3767 28 дней назад

    I am so happy for him to take courage to come out, I know the pain of having a drug addict in the family, especially if the person doesn't want to change..it is very stressful..

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 26 дней назад +7

    Ayiiii😢😢😢! ....How a whole family of grown ups could unit and do such evil to a child....
    Proud of you Bra for finishing your matric....May God make a way for you and restore you.

  • @BrilliantMathonsi-oz2ne
    @BrilliantMathonsi-oz2ne 29 дней назад +1

    God bless you my brother 🙏 🙌

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 25 дней назад +3

    Yhooo sibuhlungu kakhulu le story,u shared more details.ooh handsome boy Your story will bring His glory,you are blessed to have Ndivhu T and Pastor Bae😢

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 25 дней назад +5

    10mnths will become 10yrs ×7🎉🎉🎉🎉well done Bhutiza

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 26 дней назад +3

    They were afraid but now you are telling the entire South Africa.

  • @nompumeleloluthuli9963
    @nompumeleloluthuli9963 28 дней назад +3

    What a sad story.. Sorry my boy.

  • @lusi9720
    @lusi9720 29 дней назад +1

    Im glad you stopped❤

  • @fulumnkanzi9746
    @fulumnkanzi9746 21 день назад

    such a painful story.... i am lost of words this is heavy

  • @siwemalele1884
    @siwemalele1884 День назад

    May he find healing more than anything …. Forgive himself and be a better person

  • @ZolaNgemntu-v8t
    @ZolaNgemntu-v8t 24 дня назад +1

    Wishing him all the best in future

  • @siyalwandiso3767
    @siyalwandiso3767 26 дней назад +2

    So sad. Our kids are going through hard times

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 29 дней назад +2

    Most well up families have dark secrets to maintain isdima sabo .

  • @tinyikochauke2237
    @tinyikochauke2237 12 дней назад

    The worse part is dat it’s happen on his birthday meaning every his birthday it’s a reminder of the accident 😢…may God heal him internally n forgive him for his peace..it’s won’t be easy but I pray to God to give him strength to be strong nd fight the spirit of taking his life to dark place..

  • @Kleynhansbrotherstv
    @Kleynhansbrotherstv 25 дней назад +1

    I’m crying

  • @amahKebonang
    @amahKebonang 28 дней назад +1

    Iyooo ths is so sad...why did they take him away from his Mom's family....😢😢
    Im proud of you my brother... Keep pushing and keep clean..And May God richly bless your Aunt..

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 23 дня назад

      Also wondering 😢😢 you kill my sister then take my nephew yaaa but the guy is so welspoken God has a lot of good stuff for him in store

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 23 дня назад

      For wickedness only cause if they killed your mother how can they love you

  • @barbaramotsepe45
    @barbaramotsepe45 28 дней назад +1

    Very sad story

  • @dimakatsondala9229
    @dimakatsondala9229 29 дней назад +3

    😢Yeah neh,Askies my brother.

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 29 дней назад

    Yooh that's hard yooh Nkosi yami

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 28 дней назад

    Love your hair❤❤

  • @Firstimemom
    @Firstimemom 25 дней назад +1

    Whoever watching scandal will attest that its colerating with this rehabilitation story the guy is talking about. Guys investigate the rehabs first

  • @Sesi_Nano
    @Sesi_Nano 26 дней назад +3

    Cried myself out through the whole episode😢😢😢 theres hell waiting for such vile people!
    Love and light bro!🤍

  • @lettahkhutso3083
    @lettahkhutso3083 28 дней назад +1

    The grandmother did because of stress 😢not seeing her child's body and grandchild is so painful 😢

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 23 дня назад

      Don't worry we are all going to pay for everything we have to others, our children too shall pay for our sins so be careful what you do to others

  • @wisanimaluleke8508
    @wisanimaluleke8508 25 дней назад

    😭 sorry my brother, My God bless you ❤

  • @thandimaseko2104
    @thandimaseko2104 25 дней назад +1

    HEAVY

  • @Child_of_God.971
    @Child_of_God.971 28 дней назад +1

    Yoh my brother, sorry 😢

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 25 дней назад

    It's bad news only God will provide u

  • @magaumasala9915
    @magaumasala9915 26 дней назад +1

    Mmm 😢

  • @fulufhelomakhado4082
    @fulufhelomakhado4082 18 дней назад

    I'm half way the video and I'm so so sad😢😢😢😢

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 28 дней назад +1

    His story is soo sad

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 19 дней назад

    I believe he was in Ladcag it is the best in Polokwane.

  • @user-ls8me8dx2v
    @user-ls8me8dx2v 29 дней назад +2

    Ya ne😢

  • @khetimthembu8465
    @khetimthembu8465 29 дней назад +5

    Firstly i’m so proud of him❤️🤍! I pray his relationship with God grows & he becomes a better man❤️!!!
    Please tell him to go to tvet college or university, he qualifies for NSFAS🥹❤️!!

  • @hounzagift1250
    @hounzagift1250 28 дней назад +1

    😭😭😭

  • @thatomasoeu383
    @thatomasoeu383 14 дней назад

    Kharma, watch the space 😢

  • @gladyslebo7525
    @gladyslebo7525 25 дней назад

    💔💔💔😭😭😭

  • @gladyslebo7525
    @gladyslebo7525 25 дней назад

    Modimo o moholo👫👫🙏🙏

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 25 дней назад

    Painful story, but were they married or he was a boyfriend? Because he says they even kept her even bury her?

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld 25 дней назад +1

      She was just a girlfriend and they had money and connections

  • @MuhuluNekwakwane
    @MuhuluNekwakwane 26 дней назад

    Some in laws are so wicked shem

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 23 дня назад

      Mostly in black families shem, i don't know if is the curse from hell or an inherentance from our forefathers

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 26 дней назад

    What an evil man 😢

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 21 день назад

    😢😢😢😢😢😮

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 28 дней назад +2

    So the father's family chise to silence him and protect their brother by making him feel that ATLEAST they are there, sies family. Sorry brother

  • @MuhuluNekwakwane
    @MuhuluNekwakwane 26 дней назад

    😭

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 25 дней назад

    Is Mother's sister Ndivhu by 38:58 any chance😊

  • @NoxoloMhlanga
    @NoxoloMhlanga 29 дней назад +1

    This is Ndivhu’s son right??🥹

    • @buyisiler
      @buyisiler 29 дней назад +1

      That’s the first thing I thought when he said his name and what happened.

    • @NoxoloMhlanga
      @NoxoloMhlanga 29 дней назад +1

      @@buyisiler me too.. I am so happy for him that he finally changed may God keep him under his wings..❤️

    • @nompumeleloluthuli9963
      @nompumeleloluthuli9963 28 дней назад +1

      I think it's her nephew

    • @NoxoloMhlanga
      @NoxoloMhlanga 28 дней назад

      @@nompumeleloluthuli9963 yes the one she calls her son

    • @mikovheshares5483
      @mikovheshares5483 28 дней назад +2

      Who's ndivhu??

  • @HEROLDKHOROMBI
    @HEROLDKHOROMBI 21 день назад

    Very sad story