EP 34 | Ndamulelo on using substances from age 12 when he remembered what happened to his mother.

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  • @stephenmokami4089
    @stephenmokami4089 4 месяца назад +100

    I remember it like it happened yesterday. It happened in my village Nzhelele,Ha-Rabali. Sharlot (Ndamu's mother) was such a bubbly person and very beautiful. When going to school in the morning,I was in primary, I was surprised to see many cars Ha-Matzheketzheke and people were crying. It was revealed that Sharlot has passed away,sadly she was pregnant. The guy was arrested but released quickly due to family connections. To Ndamu, never give up in life young man, you will make it in life. To anyone who can help Ndamu, please do so. People from my area cannot be able to help him because his father is very brutal.

  • @jeanethbokote8418
    @jeanethbokote8418 Месяц назад +8

    His mom was my best friend from same street,jooo I’m still heartbroken till this day😥😥😥😥.Charlotte Siphuma I miss her so much 💕💕😭.

  • @thapelolengana
    @thapelolengana 4 месяца назад +26

    Never felt so broken. I respect this guy, for opening up, fact that he is talking about it means he is healing.

  • @MusingadiMulweli
    @MusingadiMulweli 4 месяца назад +7

    No wonder you were stubborn high school it makes sense now hades boy you'll over come this since you're seeking healing shout out to you. God bless you.

  • @nomthandazomsenga2948
    @nomthandazomsenga2948 4 месяца назад +9

    The enemy saw that you'll heal the nation that's why he wanted 2 keep you in bondage, keep at it my brother.
    With God u have conquered.❤❤❤

  • @Chichinekhubvi-1
    @Chichinekhubvi-1 4 месяца назад +35

    The worst part is that, that monster of a father was not even arrested, thanks to your aunt for not giving up on you, im glad you are in a better space

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 4 месяца назад +19

    He was only 5 but he still recalls all the details . May God heal him❤😢

    • @Her_Self..
      @Her_Self.. 4 месяца назад +1

      Exactly. One thing about childhood trauma it wil never leave u. I say tbis abt toxic parents who think now that u are grown u shld get over it. .

    • @PhilisaniGumbo-vy8uf
      @PhilisaniGumbo-vy8uf 4 месяца назад +1

      This is so hurtful 💔
      My son remembers things that my ex husband used to do to me Infront of him when he was 4
      Even now he just out of the blues he will say Mama I know you will not stay with Dad again because he used to beat you I know N now his 10 yrs old
      I wish you healing my Brother
      God never fails 🙏
      Great future endeavours to you ❤❤

  • @nwakhubayi
    @nwakhubayi 4 месяца назад +17

    If this is Ndivhu’s nephew I am glad he conquered 🤍🤍🤍 sending him soo much love . I am soo sorry.

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 4 месяца назад +15

    He really has a beautiful spirit. Am glad you decided to walk with God through it all. You are going to make it!

  • @LilianMajeke
    @LilianMajeke 4 месяца назад +6

    The devil is a liar I pray to GOD ALMIGHTY IN JESUS NAME YOU WON'T RELAPSE AMEN ❤🙏 BIG UP TO NDIVHU T AND PASTOR SHUDU STAY BLESSED ❤LOVE YOU MADAM SPEAKER 😊

  • @progressrak5728
    @progressrak5728 4 месяца назад +7

    Tjoooooooooo😢😢😢😢😢😢
    Hes such a great speaker aswell, maybe find a job where you can speak to people. I can listen to you all day, everyday. Sending you lots of love ❤.

  • @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda
    @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda 4 месяца назад +6

    This storry breaks my heart and not being allowed an opportunity to say your goodbyes. Him and his moms family deserved that to say the least and definitely did not deserve loosing his mother in such a brutal manner.😢 May God continue to elivate you my brother.

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 4 месяца назад +3

    Well done 👏 👏👏Ndamu! 10 months I’m sure can be very long. Stay strong and positive. Big up Ndivhu and Ps Bae

  • @MathipaChepape
    @MathipaChepape 4 месяца назад +13

    The bubles in his voice....
    Him narrating each day that led to the ordeal and days after funeral.
    This child still needs professional help. He cannot be dealing with this traumatic memories on a daily basis.
    I commented before watching this in full.
    This one is an intelligent young man that God allowed for him to go through everything he went through for His glory. I wish you well and fully recovery.

  • @ZeeInterpretationz
    @ZeeInterpretationz 4 месяца назад +5

    Ndivhu T May God bless you for assisting this young men.

  • @nobuhlemtsweni9533
    @nobuhlemtsweni9533 4 месяца назад +5

    He is such an intelligent young man, may God bless you

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 4 месяца назад +15

    I’m within the first 10 minutes and I’m in tears 😭. Oh Jesus

  • @londiwenkosi6918
    @londiwenkosi6918 3 месяца назад +1

    😭😭 I'm so sorry for what you went through my guy. I've never cried so much through a podcast 😢

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 4 месяца назад +3

    Ndivhu, I’m still listening to this video but all I see through Ndamu is God. Ndamu(o) muhle Ndivhu, what happened to him is so terrible but he’s hear testifying and looking so healthy and handsome. Ndamu please don’t give up, look at Ndivhu, where she comes from and where she is now. You can do it Ndamu, God is with you I’m telling you, God loves you. Qina ndoda and shame the devil. Sending all the love and prayers

  • @dhiambiokuom2159
    @dhiambiokuom2159 4 месяца назад +5

    How painful......May the Lord in heaven see you son....May He favor you going forward ❤

  • @mphohappiness1736
    @mphohappiness1736 4 месяца назад +16

    The level of karma that the father's family will get...I fear

  • @shirleyrantaoleng6492
    @shirleyrantaoleng6492 4 месяца назад +3

    I think its Him the way i am listening his story !! prays the Lord Almighty ❤

  • @EleanorHozeh
    @EleanorHozeh 4 месяца назад +2

    Watched him twice I'm so touched nkare nkamutlwa in person like in a seminar he belongs on a world stage this one

  • @pmo6899
    @pmo6899 4 месяца назад +27

    Can he please go to TVET College to further his education. There's NSFAS awaiting him there❤❤❤

  • @navelanimkansi8789
    @navelanimkansi8789 4 месяца назад +5

    Am so sorry you went through a lot, may you find healing and light❤️❤️ I pray God direct you in everything that you do, apply university and nsfas everything will go well❤️❤️

  • @ZoeJack451
    @ZoeJack451 4 месяца назад +4

    I pray for him not to relapse again.
    PLEASE GOD HELP HIM HIS BEEN THROUGH A LOT ALREADY..

  • @ressiakhakhu1209
    @ressiakhakhu1209 4 месяца назад +3

    He is a smart guy very well articulate..Sending ❤

  • @murendwaratshikhopha6257
    @murendwaratshikhopha6257 4 месяца назад +2

    Joh this is so touching, may God bless you for us❤

  • @SganandaZ
    @SganandaZ 2 месяца назад

    Ohh Ndamu, may God heal you and bless you to be a man of strength and integrity 🙏🙏🙏

  • @selinabatlhaodi612
    @selinabatlhaodi612 4 месяца назад +6

    The most cruelest family ever.😢

  • @ntokozotshabala8124
    @ntokozotshabala8124 4 месяца назад +1

    True!! There's a great seed God has planted in him. Many people's lives are going to change through him. God's is faithful. At the point where others throw hands at you - He opens them for you. He heals you and let His purpose with your life be accomplished. God bless you so abundantly Ndamulelo🙌🏽🙌🏽💯

  • @naleditshehla917
    @naleditshehla917 4 месяца назад

    You are a living testimony boy❤. God's ways and thoughts can't be compared with anything of these world🙏.they have tried to bury you but your Almighty God said His will not theirs shall be done and nobody can snatch you out of His hand. You belong to God's kingdom so please let His Glory go to Him only🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @MsMattie
    @MsMattie 4 месяца назад

    Wow super thankful for this Young man indeed ni Ndamulelo ... May the Lord be with you, you are meant for good great things no shuma ,May God heal you.

  • @zandilevinjwa3659
    @zandilevinjwa3659 4 месяца назад +2

    I’m lost for words, this is traumatic. I hope he finds healing

  • @tinyikochauke2237
    @tinyikochauke2237 4 месяца назад +1

    The worse part is dat it’s happen on his birthday meaning every his birthday it’s a reminder of the accident 😢…may God heal him internally n forgive him for his peace..it’s won’t be easy but I pray to God to give him strength to be strong nd fight the spirit of taking his life to dark place..

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 4 месяца назад +4

    Yhooo sibuhlungu kakhulu le story,u shared more details.ooh handsome boy Your story will bring His glory,you are blessed to have Ndivhu T and Pastor Bae😢

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 4 месяца назад +7

    Ayiiii😢😢😢! ....How a whole family of grown ups could unit and do such evil to a child....
    Proud of you Bra for finishing your matric....May God make a way for you and restore you.

  • @magaumasala9915
    @magaumasala9915 4 месяца назад +6

    The painful part the father is still alive walking on street peaceful. NO JUSTICE

  • @rofhiwamashige516
    @rofhiwamashige516 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm in tears it's so painful, I'm proud of you my brother God will intervene

  • @maytshifularo5415
    @maytshifularo5415 4 месяца назад +7

    I hope karma locates his father. I'm feeling so angry about what happened to this child. I cried listening to this. I wish him all the best and I pray that God opens doors for him and I pray for success in his life.

  • @gladysrodrigues4932
    @gladysrodrigues4932 4 месяца назад +8

    Who is cutting onions 😢😢

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 4 месяца назад +1

    Ooh woow Boy you sound like a Councelor now I tell you you will help a lot of youngsters even older people struggling with drug addiction

  • @shirleyrantaoleng6492
    @shirleyrantaoleng6492 4 месяца назад +1

    I believe its Him the way i listen to his story and hope for the best and Godbless you Brother ❤

  • @pinkymncube4096
    @pinkymncube4096 4 месяца назад +1

    I JUST WANT TO GIVE TIGHT HUG U HAV BEEN THRU A LOT MY BOY

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 4 месяца назад +3

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Thank you for opening to us buti

  • @shiwashawapala2365
    @shiwashawapala2365 День назад

    Yoh what a horrible family, it’s like they were all proud of what happened to his mom. The sure did supported that man in killing her. May the Lord bless you and keep you. The revenge is for the Lord.

  • @umadumawangempela6098
    @umadumawangempela6098 4 месяца назад +7

    Ndivhu T is this not your som you always talk about? The stories are so much similar I think it's him mern I'm super proud of Ndami he has chosen the path that you and PB has always wanted him to chose that's staying clean anf focused in life I pray Gods strength upon him 😢🎉🎉🎉

    • @zamamorakile1518
      @zamamorakile1518 4 месяца назад

      True they are very similar and the guy is also from Limpopo, and also divhu is having a little brother he mentioned that her grandmother had a son

    • @RoseKotana
      @RoseKotana 4 месяца назад

      I also think is Ndivhu s sister s son❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ayandiswazibi1824
    @ayandiswazibi1824 4 месяца назад +3

    All the best Mfowethu ❤ M proud of you 👏

  • @ErenceRaseruthe
    @ErenceRaseruthe 4 месяца назад +2

    Sorry bro ,I'm glad u saw a pain s opportunity to change your life 🙏. Your changed forever

  • @mihlalihoofman8970
    @mihlalihoofman8970 4 месяца назад

    He’s so eloquent 🥹🥹🙌🏽

  • @Wasa35
    @Wasa35 3 месяца назад

    This was such a difficult episode to watch, I feel for the young lad and the fact that there was no justice for his Mom hurts me the most!💔
    Perseverance, will you kindly arrange counselling for him if he hasn’t been exposed to such as yet?
    Can’t the case be reopened? His Dad did the deed and he must serve the time!!!
    Such a handsome young lad!❤

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 4 месяца назад +3

    I believe he was in Ladcag it is the best in Polokwane.

  • @NomaMoagi
    @NomaMoagi 2 дня назад

    We are proud of you my son 🎉

  • @mokgadimabitsela4
    @mokgadimabitsela4 4 месяца назад +3

    This is very sad🥲🥲 im very proud you gain strength

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 4 месяца назад +6

    10mnths will become 10yrs ×7🎉🎉🎉🎉well done Bhutiza

  • @LuSh930419
    @LuSh930419 3 месяца назад +1

    I dont understand how people can be this cruel to a child thats lost everything, what animals are these?

  • @Sesi_Nano
    @Sesi_Nano 4 месяца назад +3

    Cried myself out through the whole episode😢😢😢 theres hell waiting for such vile people!
    Love and light bro!🤍

  • @nompumeleloluthuli9963
    @nompumeleloluthuli9963 4 месяца назад +3

    What a sad story.. Sorry my boy.

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 4 месяца назад +4

    They were afraid but now you are telling the entire South Africa.

  • @fulumnkanzi9746
    @fulumnkanzi9746 4 месяца назад

    such a painful story.... i am lost of words this is heavy

  • @ZolaNgemntu-v8t
    @ZolaNgemntu-v8t 4 месяца назад +1

    Wishing him all the best in future

  • @raesetjemuroa3767
    @raesetjemuroa3767 4 месяца назад

    I am so happy for him to take courage to come out, I know the pain of having a drug addict in the family, especially if the person doesn't want to change..it is very stressful..

  • @florencenjoki4822
    @florencenjoki4822 2 месяца назад

    Sorry for what you went through ... a hug sent. Sorry

  • @joycesebati4695
    @joycesebati4695 4 месяца назад +9

    I can relate with so much and i feel so much pain for my little brother i think they are the same age and he was beaten from my mother's womb it triggered lot of emotions from me and i have two boys to raise and i am also healing from emotional and physical abuse from their father i am crying so bad this triggered a lot hey,sending healing and praying to everybody who went through this and i dont even wish this to happen to my worst enemy

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 4 месяца назад

      🫂

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 4 месяца назад

      I pray God's healing on you.

    • @joycesebati4695
      @joycesebati4695 4 месяца назад

      @@spm9130 thank you very much

    • @maytshifularo5415
      @maytshifularo5415 4 месяца назад

      Love and light to you and your little brother. May God see you through this. Sending you hugs 🤗🤗🤗

    • @joycesebati4695
      @joycesebati4695 4 месяца назад

      @@maytshifularo5415 thanks

  • @felicitymaphiri
    @felicitymaphiri 3 месяца назад

    Ohhhhh my ndamu hle
    Come I wanna hug you so tight

  • @siwemalele1884
    @siwemalele1884 4 месяца назад

    May he find healing more than anything …. Forgive himself and be a better person

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 4 месяца назад +2

    Most well up families have dark secrets to maintain isdima sabo .

  • @lettahkhutso3083
    @lettahkhutso3083 4 месяца назад +1

    The grandmother did because of stress 😢not seeing her child's body and grandchild is so painful 😢

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 4 месяца назад

      Don't worry we are all going to pay for everything we have to others, our children too shall pay for our sins so be careful what you do to others

  • @amahKebonang
    @amahKebonang 4 месяца назад +1

    Iyooo ths is so sad...why did they take him away from his Mom's family....😢😢
    Im proud of you my brother... Keep pushing and keep clean..And May God richly bless your Aunt..

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 4 месяца назад

      Also wondering 😢😢 you kill my sister then take my nephew yaaa but the guy is so welspoken God has a lot of good stuff for him in store

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 4 месяца назад

      For wickedness only cause if they killed your mother how can they love you

  • @siyalwandiso3767
    @siyalwandiso3767 4 месяца назад +2

    So sad. Our kids are going through hard times

  • @tshilidzindou2606
    @tshilidzindou2606 3 месяца назад +1

    Yoo zwi khou baba, fhedzi mudzimu ba do ima nae hothe hothe

  • @khetimthembu8465
    @khetimthembu8465 4 месяца назад +5

    Firstly i’m so proud of him❤️🤍! I pray his relationship with God grows & he becomes a better man❤️!!!
    Please tell him to go to tvet college or university, he qualifies for NSFAS🥹❤️!!

  • @psychologistannandiaye5586
    @psychologistannandiaye5586 Месяц назад

    Sorry for your loss Dear

  • @dimakatsondala9229
    @dimakatsondala9229 4 месяца назад +3

    😢Yeah neh,Askies my brother.

  • @NomaMoagi
    @NomaMoagi 2 дня назад

    God is good all the time 🙏

  • @BrilliantMathonsi-oz2ne
    @BrilliantMathonsi-oz2ne 4 месяца назад +1

    God bless you my brother 🙏 🙌

  • @khanyiezimbili6383
    @khanyiezimbili6383 27 дней назад

    ❤️❤️❤️🙏stay strong son.

  • @lusi9720
    @lusi9720 4 месяца назад +1

    Im glad you stopped❤

  • @esthernong3372
    @esthernong3372 3 месяца назад +1

    Heeee baan there is a possibility that the it's not His Mum who was buried
    Y dd they prevent Mum's side to bury their child??

  • @Kleynhansbrotherstv
    @Kleynhansbrotherstv 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m crying

  • @thatomasoeu383
    @thatomasoeu383 4 месяца назад +1

    Kharma, watch the space 😢

  • @Firstimemom
    @Firstimemom 4 месяца назад +1

    Whoever watching scandal will attest that its colerating with this rehabilitation story the guy is talking about. Guys investigate the rehabs first

  • @fulufhelomakhado4082
    @fulufhelomakhado4082 4 месяца назад

    I'm half way the video and I'm so so sad😢😢😢😢

  • @wisanimaluleke8508
    @wisanimaluleke8508 4 месяца назад

    😭 sorry my brother, My God bless you ❤

  • @NomaMoagi
    @NomaMoagi 2 дня назад

    That’s so sad 😢

  • @Child_of_God.971
    @Child_of_God.971 4 месяца назад +1

    Yoh my brother, sorry 😢

  • @barbaramotsepe45
    @barbaramotsepe45 4 месяца назад +1

    Very sad story

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 4 месяца назад

    It's bad news only God will provide u

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 4 месяца назад

    Yooh that's hard yooh Nkosi yami

  • @thandimaseko2104
    @thandimaseko2104 4 месяца назад +1

    HEAVY

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 4 месяца назад +1

    His story is soo sad

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 4 месяца назад

    Love your hair❤❤

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 4 месяца назад

    Painful story, but were they married or he was a boyfriend? Because he says they even kept her even bury her?

    • @SentStudiosProduction
      @SentStudiosProduction 4 месяца назад +1

      She was just a girlfriend and they had money and connections

  • @gladyslebo7525
    @gladyslebo7525 4 месяца назад

    Modimo o moholo👫👫🙏🙏

  • @MuhuluNekwakwane
    @MuhuluNekwakwane 4 месяца назад

    Some in laws are so wicked shem

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 4 месяца назад

      Mostly in black families shem, i don't know if is the curse from hell or an inherentance from our forefathers

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 4 месяца назад +2

    So the father's family chise to silence him and protect their brother by making him feel that ATLEAST they are there, sies family. Sorry brother

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 4 месяца назад

    What an evil man 😢

  • @NonhlanhlaMkhabela-k6x
    @NonhlanhlaMkhabela-k6x 4 месяца назад +2

    Ya ne😢

  • @magaumasala9915
    @magaumasala9915 4 месяца назад +1

    Mmm 😢

  • @hounzagift1250
    @hounzagift1250 4 месяца назад +1

    😭😭😭