EP.61 Olga Mkhize on being robbed 40 years of her life without getting help because of Endometriosis

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

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  • @thembelihlekubheka9497
    @thembelihlekubheka9497 10 дней назад +1

    I remember one of my classmate she use to be so sick during her period to a point that she will be crying. No one really take notice of her situation. She ddnt live pass 30. May her soul continue to rest in peace. We will perish because of lack of knowledge

  • @a.dlamini
    @a.dlamini Месяц назад +3

    Wow Mam’ Olga is such an inspiring woman. Thank you for bringing this forward these topics are often ignored yet life crippling.

  • @Jcel4786
    @Jcel4786 Месяц назад +4

    This is one intervies i wish could be posted on all sociala. This is informtive and answered a lot of queestions ❤

  • @lindadamaneyt2605
    @lindadamaneyt2605 Месяц назад +10

    This was so eye opening, I have a friend who was diagnosed with Endometriosis and I believe at the time whatever my response was, was out of ignorance. I am grateful for this knowledge

  • @winnerscircle559
    @winnerscircle559 11 часов назад

    So inspired by the work Queen Olga is doing. May she continue to touch many more lives. Love her ❤

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu Месяц назад +6

    There are lots of children who will be so Blessed and Proud to have you as their mother, God have kids that you are going to take care of.

  • @mabreegie
    @mabreegie Месяц назад +9

    Thank you Jesus for finally having someone who is speaking openly about this. I suffered too without support from a single soul because no one understood & I suffered in silence. Until I had my last child in 2016. I was once told that it gets better after a child but it continued till I had the third one. iSo I’m one of those who had children by the grace of God. Mara hey 🙌🏾

  • @kopanomsiza345
    @kopanomsiza345 4 дня назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤Thank you so much

  • @rebeccamadia1775
    @rebeccamadia1775 Месяц назад +2

    This is so powerful and informative❤❤. Thank you Mam Mkhize and the team

  • @CompassionQueen
    @CompassionQueen Месяц назад +4

    My heart broke when she said those church ladies accused her of committing abo..rtions. I'm really sorry you had to go through that😢💔

  • @TshepiiMomo
    @TshepiiMomo Месяц назад +9

    I am listening to this as an endometriosis patient at stage 2 and this just got me into tears. I fully relate to this woman as young as I am. It gets so scary as I grow up because I ask myself a lot concerning my fertility🥺💔 Oh man, what a pain for a woman but we will get through it🫂🥺❤️

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад +1

      Tshepi, please teach me about the stages? What does it mean for the woman's experience?

    • @TshepiiMomo
      @TshepiiMomo Месяц назад

      @ Hey
      Uhm, so there’s stage 1 till stage 4, where stage 1 is just the minimal stage where there’s just a few endometriosis implants, stage 2 is the mild stage, where now the endometrial tissue grows outside the uterus as well as other parts of your organs. On stage 3, you get things like ovarian cysts as well as scarring of the tissue and then stage 4 is the most severe stage where now you are required to remove certain organs or even have bigger cysts.
      This means that the woman can experience issues of infertility, scarring due to surgeries, painful sex, abnormal periods or bleeding.
      I don’t know if I answered your question, especially the second part of the question🤍

    • @TshepiiMomo
      @TshepiiMomo Месяц назад

      Also, the stages do not determine whether or not can you have kids. So it means that even a person at stage 1 can still experience symptoms of a person at stage 4.

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад +1

      Thanks so much Sisi, I learnt a lot in just one video.

  • @DieketsengPule
    @DieketsengPule 27 дней назад +2

    Thanks God, I finally heard about this,I suffered this but by God's grace I have a baby nd I tried nd they cleaned that endotriomeses nd after the cleaning the doctor told me it was stage 4 , so I took out my womb,so now my daughter who is 19 is diagnosed with that, my prayer is that God help us find the medication to ease that pain,mine has passed, but I cry with my baby. It's frustrating but God is my strength

  • @cianamas2281
    @cianamas2281 Месяц назад +3

    Hello Sesi. Please add the link to her book for sales. We need to purchase. Thank you for this episode, very enlightening.

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni Месяц назад +9

    Our guest is so articulate♥️ what a woman!

  • @SingularSoulJourney
    @SingularSoulJourney 19 дней назад +1

    Its been a long journey. I can relate with everything. Three loses later, had a hysteroscopy and dilation and curettage (D&C) three weeks ago. Will see what happens and take it as it comes. Thank you for your story Ma Olga.

  • @nomthandazokunene6274
    @nomthandazokunene6274 Месяц назад +3

    No no no this women is so insightful and motivated, you will swear she studied something in health sciences. I want to follow her, very intelligent and present, what are her social media handles????

  • @angelabokaba9479
    @angelabokaba9479 Месяц назад +4

    This is important info. For our young girls and women. Thanks my sister Olga for opening our eyes

  • @ntomboxolomenemene3393
    @ntomboxolomenemene3393 29 дней назад +3

    I feel your pain. It's been 10 days since my hesteremony . It's the worst feeling ever. I am glad I did it. I looked like a six months pregnant woman I would order over sized clothes for work. 10 days of periods, +-9_10 pads everyday..

  • @NellyNdhlovu-d2u
    @NellyNdhlovu-d2u Месяц назад +2

    thank you so much mum Olga this was an eye opening for us not to ignore our kids when they have issues and also we need to learn to talk to our kids in details rather than talking in riddles ,we must make sure they understand what we say and also we must be open to them.

  • @pulengnaketsane8863
    @pulengnaketsane8863 Месяц назад +1

    Yho this is so sad💔 let's all share and repost this on our socials🙏🙏. More people need to hear this. Thank you for sharing❤️

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 Месяц назад +2

    Blessed is she who has believed that God will fulfill his promises to her

  • @EduBear_1
    @EduBear_1 Месяц назад +1

    I have PCOS, I self diagnosed at between 19-23. Was never assisted at the public clinic my file had the same medical complaint. I am well spoken about periods but I find it had to talk about my PCOS because medical personnel don’t really take us serious. Took a miscarriage for my gynaecologist to tell me about my lab results taken almost two years prior.
    I thank God that I am coping, although I keep indoors because the sudden pains and fatigue are crazy.I made peace that I might not have children but having an ultimatum from my dad who was I’ll advice by his friends who are gynaecologist is a nightmare.

  • @phumzilemariam361
    @phumzilemariam361 Месяц назад +2

    Very informative we really appreciate, GOD bless you 🙏

  • @mufunwamukwevho6654
    @mufunwamukwevho6654 Месяц назад +9

    I think this kind of information need to go to high school girls, because people assume that is period pain. I used to have horrible periods pains and my grandmother used to say its gonna be difficult for you to conceive. Am glad for me it was just periods pains and now i have 3 beautiful girls at the age of 35, and that when i learns about endometriosis

  • @FaithFab639
    @FaithFab639 Месяц назад +2

    I remembered one teacher back in high school looking me straight in my eyes and telling me that "Period pain hase bolwetsi sisi(Period pains isnt an illness/sickness) please just go back to class and sit down". That time i was in PAIN. Only to find out that she never had to deal with it in her life. Also, misinformation or the lack of information is a problem.

  • @phumilemntungwa8375
    @phumilemntungwa8375 23 дня назад +1

    I was diagnosed with Endometriosis, this thing is painfull😢😢 lucky I was diagnosed when I had my 2 daughters already, but now I have to go for operation 😢😢😢 as it is my stomach is bloating and during sex I bleed I than choose to be single coz no man want to understand such thing ,I would like to have the book sisi

  • @nyikoshihlomule9265
    @nyikoshihlomule9265 Месяц назад +2

    This is something the nation should be praying about. Nothing is impossible with God. I am calling on every believer to intercede and stand in the gap for those affected. Intercession is not only assigned to specific individuals, we have been called according to Ephesians 2:10. Jesus was crucified so we can receive healing and freedom from oppression. There is no disease that can share the same room with Jesus in the body of the children of God because our bodies are His temple.

  • @relebogilemogane3792
    @relebogilemogane3792 Месяц назад +3

    I relate with some of the things you said, and it's true the pain is worse than labour pain, it's depressing and I no longer see why I need to go to my Gynecologist .. I don't get help 😢😢😢 I'm tired

    • @Jcel4786
      @Jcel4786 Месяц назад +1

      Strength to you my sister ❤

  • @khomotsomaselesele1629
    @khomotsomaselesele1629 Месяц назад +3

    I don't wish period pains even o my worst enemy, I had fibroids and the period pains at times make me feel like I am about to die. The sad part is the pain was normalized and I was told to be strong and only went to the doctor for the first time at the age of 29.

    • @busisiweshoyisa243
      @busisiweshoyisa243 25 дней назад +1

      I suffer for 5 days every month and going to work during those days is torture!!!!

  • @francinahmarodimarodi8330
    @francinahmarodimarodi8330 Месяц назад +3

    Mrs Mkhize o re tswela kae bathong.......Please where can i get hold of you.

  • @queenm7525
    @queenm7525 Месяц назад +5

    Madam speaker weitse wa re nyesa ka di wig 🔥🔥🔥 please plug us bathong aowa I'm not a wig girly mare you are making me want

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu Месяц назад +5

    I had a friend who’s womb was removed when she was 24 years due to Cysts , so people must be sensitive not to just ask women when to have babies 😢. I know a thirteen year old girl whose womb was removed due to cysts.

    • @SannieThipe
      @SannieThipe Месяц назад +1

      Thnks for this important information❤❤

  • @DKs_Journey1
    @DKs_Journey1 Месяц назад +1

    My periods are 7 days and so painful, nobody understand. I can't wait for menopause 😢😢😢

  • @buyisileradebe8108
    @buyisileradebe8108 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you so much for the information .

  • @AlphinaRaseboya
    @AlphinaRaseboya Месяц назад +1

    Thank you madam speaker this ws to informational ❤

  • @sisonkemfana5419
    @sisonkemfana5419 23 дня назад +1

    My flow mostly is normal,but pains,anxiety..sometimes i faint...its bad

  • @boitumelosinesiphotabata1603
    @boitumelosinesiphotabata1603 Месяц назад +4

    I am living with with Endometriosis and it’s not been easy, things got a bit better after laparoscopy.

  • @sizilenchabeleng4410
    @sizilenchabeleng4410 Месяц назад +3

    My mom still makes a joke about me, saying I was dramatic when I was on my periods that a Doctor had to come to my house to give me an injection for pain. I would vomit, the pain was excruciating. I had to miss school, when I started working had to miss work, or go to the sick room and wait to be fetched. Only found out when I was at work when our wellness brought someone to speak about woman illnesses and I was 23. That's when I had attended. And a friend of mine almost died.

    • @olgamkhize9549
      @olgamkhize9549 Месяц назад +1

      This is a monthly reality for many young girls and women. Sadly, our pain in dismissed and downplayed

  • @poppymokoena4582
    @poppymokoena4582 Месяц назад +5

    Ladies let us be sensitive to each other.Shout out to you sisi for standing strong despite all your challenges

  • @noemmyjuju
    @noemmyjuju Месяц назад +1

    We are going throught the worst 💔❤️‍🩹 Two laparoscopies,one myomectomy,9yrs TTC that doesn't even include the emotional distress and physical pains...People have no empathy for us.

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Месяц назад +2

    Iyooo, I learned about an ectopic pregnancy on the day I found out that I was pregnant with my second child. The pain I got that day was enough for me to even agree to anything that the doctor would do to me.😢😢

  • @noemmyjuju
    @noemmyjuju Месяц назад +1

    Our people is so ignorant.

  • @kunokaunatjike9286
    @kunokaunatjike9286 Месяц назад +2

    Very powerful 😮

  • @duduzileseletela7519
    @duduzileseletela7519 Месяц назад +3

    I had endometriosis and using pads was just a waste I used baby diapers ama pampers number 5 they work wonders

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад +1

      I noticed you said "had", is it gone or manageable now? How did you go about it Sisi?

    • @VenenciaShumbayaonda
      @VenenciaShumbayaonda 23 дня назад

      I use a tampon & pad

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Месяц назад +3

    Sanitary towels should also be free. They are so expensive....

  • @ziyandamtshali7392
    @ziyandamtshali7392 Месяц назад +1

    I used to be fine in the past, this year I am 34 and I’m experiencing joint pains , I get server hip pains and the period pains are killing me😔

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад +1

      Bathong! What has the Dr said? Do you have enough support?

  • @abigailvilane
    @abigailvilane Месяц назад +6

    Muhle umama

  • @lindelaniratshilumela4589
    @lindelaniratshilumela4589 Месяц назад +3

    PCOS is a devil, I am really going through a lot 😢 not even speaking about the fertility, metabolism, imbalance hormones etc😩😩

  • @ModikweSentso-gr7nq
    @ModikweSentso-gr7nq Месяц назад +1

    😢shuuuu,our struggles as women

  • @smthabede1983
    @smthabede1983 Месяц назад +4

    What a wake up call

  • @florindadaniel5538
    @florindadaniel5538 Месяц назад +1

    Àmen they have failed is. Lord help the younger generation 😢

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Месяц назад +1

    I agree, contraceptives are a problem. 😮

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 Месяц назад +1

      An l am soo tired of drinking them and I stop taking them for a week or so l get pain l don't know if it's womb pain or what l don't know

  • @Maguje-r8s
    @Maguje-r8s Месяц назад +2

    Im going through the same thing 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @florindadaniel5538
    @florindadaniel5538 Месяц назад +2

    Can we have Sis Olgas contact please

  • @malehloaseroke9743
    @malehloaseroke9743 Месяц назад +1

    I relate my periods are not normal, I can't compare the pain I am experiencing every month with anything, on my periods I wish I could die and come back after 💔💔

  • @JulietSeloane
    @JulietSeloane Месяц назад

    It was informative I hv been trying to do awareness of this tooo

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад

    You know only recently (within this year) did I find out that period pain is actually not normal? We go to gynaes annually, we are not asked and just put you on the pill. No! Give us information and let's walk the journey together with them to fix it.

  • @lucialindiwe3215
    @lucialindiwe3215 Месяц назад +1

    I know it's not curable, does it get better when reaching menopause?

    • @olgamkhize9549
      @olgamkhize9549 Месяц назад +2

      Hi Lucia. Depending on where the tissue is sitting on your body, you may still experience pain in that part of the body even after menopause.

    • @nonomk2444
      @nonomk2444 20 дней назад +2

      Yoh this is too bad it is a serious chronic illness 😢

    • @olgamkhize9549
      @olgamkhize9549 20 дней назад

      @nonomk2444 . It's a terrible, incurable condition like cancer yet people call it normal

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina Месяц назад +3

    Dealing with endometriosis pains and sleepless nights has become home, I no longer complain. My issue is at: when are you getting children, you look fat, you lost weight, you look pale, are you bleaching, your skin looks extra dry... dear all please let us deal with the pain and multiple operations, please allow us to live or die in peace, the pain alone is enough and now we need to face you senseless unread people with your foolish comments and questions!!!

    • @olgamkhize9549
      @olgamkhize9549 Месяц назад

      How I pray that people will stop I'll treating Endo sufferers

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад

      Oh Sis.. it's the women who ask these questions, and not in a concerned way. Biological clock this, biological clock that. No man!

    • @letushilaalina
      @letushilaalina Месяц назад +1

      @@MissCombs1511 not knowing in endometriosis land our priority is on no pain and proper sleep, that is our daily focus. As for the bay this baby that is so irritating, we are already dealing with medical bills and we still need to pause and answer on babies!

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад

    Sorry, can anyone please help me with the Endo stages. She said stage 4, what does it mean? The Google version is so "cold"

  • @mulangakhaarendwe5202
    @mulangakhaarendwe5202 Месяц назад

    Yoh i am speechless

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Месяц назад

    Haaaa, mozalwane😮😢

  • @nonkosimarcia8714
    @nonkosimarcia8714 Месяц назад

    I can relate 🥺

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 Месяц назад +3

    Am the first to land

  • @hopejoymatebula
    @hopejoymatebula Месяц назад

    Can we not overburden teachers, as we speak now they sleep five hours just to ensure kids are taught. “The comment about the email hits home. We black people need to learn that nothing goes easy. You want to sell your book to distributed, while school children get stationery only in April. Here’s a thought create an event during weekends and have parents and kids, that will reach far wider audiences. But as for teacher you are wrong and need to apologise to them. These people haven’t received appropriate increase since 2019 but you are forcing them on your self entitled issue.

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu Месяц назад +3

    I had a friend who’s womb was removed when she was 24 years due to Cysts , so people must be sensitive not to just ask women when to have babies 😢. I know a thirteen year old girl whose womb was removed due to cysts.

    • @florindadaniel5538
      @florindadaniel5538 Месяц назад +3

      My story my dear but I thank God that I am also a bonus mom

    • @olgamkhize9549
      @olgamkhize9549 Месяц назад +1

      Very painful what some women go through

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 Месяц назад +1

      Lord God!!! 😮😮 13??

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 Месяц назад +2

    Am the first to land