Hustle like a man, with inner peace
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Many men have gained the world but lost their soul. They have the car, the house, the girl, but have lost themselves along the way. External results mean nothing without the inner peace and integration to enjoy them. The outer trappings and achievements just become the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
Instagram: @TheConsciousMan143
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Finding the balance between hustling and inner peace
Do we need to hustle and grind as men?
stoicism, stoic, meditations Marcus Aurelius, self improvement, productivity, philosophy, Epictetus, Seneca, Spirituality, Carl Jung, the shadow, Alan watts, The Hero's Journey, Jordan Peterson
#selfimprovement #mensmentalhealth #stoicism
You are right, I can't even enjoy a game anymore, My mind will always be thinking about grinding, more work and I put a lot of burden on myself to the point I no longer be able to gaming. Even when I work, I feel like it is not enough, I need to put more hours... I am in a loop right now despite having everything, I lack the happiness.
I remember when I got to a place where I could no longer play video games anymore too. The guilt/shame aspect isn't needed though... I've found that emotions are usually just an indicator that there is a better path calling out to you.
Almost like if you are driving on the highway and start to drift out of your lane, and your struck with a brief moment of fear to straighten out. It's best to not wallow in guilt/shame, just start genuinely seeking to intuitively find the right course of actions that are in alignment for your individual self.
Sometimes less work to introspect needs to happen, and I don't mean scrolling on social media or numbing out. Taking walks, meditation, journaling, prayer (depending on what you believe in) experimenting with different creative outlets, etc.
"Working more" on the wrong things will just keep you where you're at.
Best of luck brother.
I relate when you say the universe repeats the same situations over and over until you learn the lesson. In recent years, I feel that I have awakened a great enthusiasm in myself to take action, I changed many things for the better. But every time I am in the grind of personal improvement, something happens. A family member gets sick, someone gets depressed, or has an accident. Always someone very close to me is going through something that requires my attention and I have to abandon (my efforts) to return later. I must be doing something wrong, or there is something I am not seeing. But I am already getting scared of this cycle.
There is certainly a time and place to take care of others, but most of the time the most loving thing we can do, is to take care of ourselves first.... put yourself first no matter what. Let go of the "martyr mentality," if you can. You will actually greatly increase your capacity to help the people in your life by doing this (mentally, spiritually, physically, etc.).
Obviously if your spouse suddenly becomes deathly ill you must give that your attention. But there could be a part of you that is rushing to the rescue of everyone else around you and unconsciously self sabotaging your own progress and neglecting what you need to reach your potential. I don't know your exact situation, but I have been caught in cycles like this before.
The universe kept bringing these situations to me until I started saying "no' to people, even if they tried to guilt me. Again every situation is different.
Go within, there's something about this cycle that is keeping you trapped and you are being called to break out of it. Sending love your way.
Bro let’s have a talk about retroactive jealousy since it’s the one of biggest storm in our life as a man .
This! / That part 🎯
Yeah, a lot of men have a need to almost "possess" whoever their dating, and struggle with the idea of her with past partners. I've been there. Good topic
@@TheConsciousMan143 Yeah bro so how about now if you have been there are you absolutely out of it or you accepted not to be ok with it ?
because now I did a lot work on it and I am somehow okay not be okay
nowadays and what I learned nobody will be close to you in this world except( mom )so by saying that for myself I am taking away the weight from my parents shoulder like if she thinks she can find someone better than me she is absolutely free to go but of course it’s not easy
how about our actions and fate do you think we are free with our actions in the universe or the pure decisions we made are our fault because of actions or fate
I too feel pissed about RJ 😢
As a locksmith, I love helping people. Absolutely love it, it’s that untapped energy you talk about
Service to others just hits different, especially when it's in alignment with your authenticity.
First I'll say Happy Father's Day from one dad to another. Hope it was a good one.
Yes, please do make a video about your awakening. From what I hear everyones awakening is different. A few have seen it as distroying their lives.
Maybe have others on to share their experience. I'll be sure to add my experience in the comments before, during, after and where I'm at.
Thank you brother, happy fathers day to you as well. I'll make a video talking more in-depth about spiritual awakening soon. Much love.
I came across your channel while searching for videos with the topic “no friends no girlfriend no job” and I have watched half of your videos already. Thank you. Thank you for everything. I am incredibly alone and my own family does not like me. I am essentially an overgrown child, and I am trying desperately to get back to a job of some sort so I can stop living with them.
So glad the videos are helping brother. Take steps to make those changes... but without the guilt and shame. Just see that life is lovingly (and maybe even sternly) calling you to grow and evolve right now.
Your family is just afraid is all. They probably want to see you thrive and think guilting you will make you take action. If they are unable to show you unconditional love, then give that love to yourself. What would you want your own son to do in this season if you had one?
Best of luck man.
Thank you for your energy, time and gift. I feel your work, is working with others as well as myself. Your doing a great job💪👍🙏
It's a pleasure brother. Grateful it's resonating.
I don’t have anyone to talk to about reads such as Carl Jung. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and being present.. bringing the unconscious to consciousness is a challenge to a lot of men especially ones with addictions. Keep doing your thing man
Music is a gift and it keeps me motivated. So much is Truth is woven into some of the best works. Not only in the lyrics, but the sounds themselves. Keep on keeping on, Ryan. Thank you!
R.A.P. FERREIRA - CYCLES
JPEGMAFIA - ARE U HAPPY?
Ivy Lab - When I Go
Hey there
Ive seen most of your videos, and i can say that they've helped me a lot with my problems. I dont know how to explain it, but when watching your videos, i just feel peace and hope. I would really love other people to feel this way, and that's why i'd like to help. Your videos dont have subtitles in spanish, and i think that men living in latin america or spain would appreciate your work. I was thinking on the possibility of helping you with these subtitles in spanish, since thats my native tongue.
I been grinding and doing physical activity running with weight in the park and this made me feel great and people look at you crazy person when it's their easy life programming in their minds.
After a period of intense anxiety i joined a kickboxing class and i felt myself coming alive again
"If I do not go within....I go without"
I don't know what it is I want to do for my career. I am 31 and have worked corporate (still do). I hate it. I am trying to figure out my next step through meditation. I am practicing self-compassion and self-love to help with feelings of inadequacy that continue to arise with not having my path figured out at this age.
Thanks for your vid brother. 💚
That's a quote from the book Conversations with God... I highly recommend it if you haven't read it brother. Especially being in the season you find yourself in now.
Anything that's calling out to you, anything you have the slightest passion, enthusiasm, or curiosity for. Carve out a little bit of time (before or after the job, whatever suits your energy levels) to experiment and create without attachment to outcome.
Do this everyday single if you can. This gets easier once you find those things that light you up... but often times most of us needs to seek to find those passions.
You are right where you are supposed to be. These feelings of longing for "something more" comes from a deeper aspect within you.
Much love.
@TheConsciousMan143
Thats where I got it from. You had recommended it in a previous video Just finished the first book 📖 I loved the book!!!! . Have you read the second, third etc editions of it?
Very soothing voice
Thank you for your honesty.
Very grateful for this message
When you get teary in videos, is it because of something specific - or just a feeling of love that you've tapped into by the end of speaking?
Love the message. What kind of music do you make my dude?
Great message
It would be great to learn about spiritual awakening :)
I'll make a future vid.
brother where is your song called “stronger” i really like it
I appreciate it man, not currently released right now.
@@TheConsciousMan143 when are you planning to release it my guy 🙏🏽
As an asexual man, I can just forget the world and live in my own. I call it being a whimsical dandy. 🐇
Hustling ?. Or do the hustle ?. Grinding or Grindr ?.