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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
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    Many men have gained the world but lost their soul. They have the car, the house, the girl, but have lost themselves along the way. External results mean nothing without the inner peace and integration to enjoy them. The outer trappings and achievements just become the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
    Instagram: @TheConsciousMan143
    The song in this video is called "Stronger" - I wrote, sang, and recorded. It is currently unreleased.
    Alternate titles (for the algo)
    Finding the balance between hustling and inner peace
    Do we need to hustle and grind as men?
    stoicism, stoic, meditations Marcus Aurelius, self improvement, productivity, philosophy, Epictetus, Seneca, Spirituality, Carl Jung, the shadow, Alan watts, The Hero's Journey, Jordan Peterson
    #selfimprovement #mensmentalhealth #stoicism

Комментарии • 91

  • @TheConsciousMan143
    @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад

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  • @ayaansharif1225
    @ayaansharif1225 3 месяца назад +32

    Man as a muslim i do agree with all the stuff you said about religion. Nowadays religion feels more like a rulebook than anything loving, and i really appreciate the message and opening my eye to this

    • @Asteroid--07
      @Asteroid--07 3 месяца назад +6

      We're divided for no reason

    • @VisibletoanyoneonYoutubes
      @VisibletoanyoneonYoutubes 3 месяца назад +2

      Christian’s think you’re going to hell simply because !from their perspective¡ “you were born in the “wrong religion”. that’s messed up.
      We are all One

    • @VisibletoanyoneonYoutubes
      @VisibletoanyoneonYoutubes 3 месяца назад

      6:17

    • @mkzrocketz6430
      @mkzrocketz6430 3 месяца назад

      6:17
      It’s a shame that most Christians believe you are going to hell because (from their perspective) you were born into the “wrong religion” and that your beliefs are “demonic”.
      I made it out of religion through my awakening. Love everyone, as if they are you- because they are you. ❤ ♾️ 👁️

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +4

      Beautifully said brothers. Grateful that others are seeing through this lens as well.

  • @MrShehab95
    @MrShehab95 3 месяца назад +17

    I totally relate to this as a born/raised muslim. Your videos def need way more views. Sending love all the way from Egypt

  • @thandokhumalo1726
    @thandokhumalo1726 3 месяца назад +15

    "You are loved, you matter and you've barely scratched the surface of what you're capable of" Those words move me every time
    Thank you Ryan❤

    • @BananaDashboard
      @BananaDashboard 3 месяца назад +2

      Great to see another South African supporting the channel 😂✊

  • @Seanhmclean
    @Seanhmclean 3 месяца назад +12

    Who the hell would say these messed up things? 😤
    Great video my friend! 🙏🏽

    • @iamjacksennui
      @iamjacksennui 18 дней назад +1

      There goes the saying, "hurt people * hurt * people".

  • @PixelChomp
    @PixelChomp 3 месяца назад +3

    I love this quote from Wayne Dyer "I think a truth is a truth very often until you organize it. Then it becomes a lie very often. Because the organization becomes more important than the truth we are attempting to teach."

  • @dkizzle3135
    @dkizzle3135 3 месяца назад +4

    I'm 31 and it's been exactly 10 years since I left the church. It was a painful experience of severance from a community a deep fear of death or hell, and a total confusion and lack of understanding of what life was about.
    I wish at the time I had access to a mentor who told me these things, it would have spared me a lot of suffering. Thankfully through a long winding journey I discovered spirituality, purpose, altered states, and Buddhism. Perhaps that journey was necessary, but it would have been nice to have mentors like Ryan. All I can do now is try to be that for other young people who are looking for spiritual connection.
    Now my life is so much more full, honest, and in touch with the divine than it ever was going through the motions at church.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад

      You are not alone brother. A lot of humanity is waking up and I have no doubt that you will be able to help others transitioning out of religion and the shame/guilt that often comes along with it.
      At the end of the day, love cuts through all of the BS.

  • @Pseudoending
    @Pseudoending 3 месяца назад +14

    "Revenge filled Rambo Justice Jesus" may be my new favorite description of Jesus 😅 Thank you for this superb talk brother 💙

  • @mjackstewart
    @mjackstewart 3 месяца назад +4

    Despite my current struggle with weight, I still feel physically and emotionally better than I have in my entire life. This is a direct result of the mental and physical self-work I’ve been doing as part of the journey: Because I’ve let go of so much negativity, I remain pretty much in a contented state with longer and longer forays into happiness.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +1

      You're doing great brother. Glad you're in the community. Looking forward to having a conversation at some point.

  • @Jaa__17
    @Jaa__17 3 месяца назад +6

    Man I needed to hear this. I’m going to work on my judgement. And let you know if my life improves.

  • @ThePinnacle415
    @ThePinnacle415 3 месяца назад +6

    Great video bro, I was raised Catholic and I realized it wasn’t for me about 10 years ago. Unfortunately I became very judgmental of anyone who believed in any type of religion. I’ve somewhat recently switched from saying I’m an atheist to saying I’m agnostic. I haven’t stopped completely but I am working on not judging people. I definitely needed to hear that message. Thank you my friend.

    • @thegoodlife5205
      @thegoodlife5205 3 месяца назад

      As a Catholic, perhaps you would benefit from a conscious Christian community...

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +1

      Keep seeking brother. Religion can often times be a good sign post, but then you might find yourself dropping it all together once you find a direct experience and connection to The Divine. Best of luck

  • @g8slavin217
    @g8slavin217 3 месяца назад +4

    you hit the nail on the head about how i feel identifying as a Christian. thank you, its nice to have somebody else put it into words and to see that there are many others who feel this way in the comments

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +1

      It helps to know you are not alone in these realizations. I know it can feel that way sometimes. Keep living with an open heart even if it hurts.

  • @isaaclawrence2877
    @isaaclawrence2877 3 месяца назад +2

    You need to release that song!!! That was really good. I agree with what was said in this video. I hope that more people will wake up to this higher knowledge and ditch old, limiting beliefs.

  • @mkzrocketz6430
    @mkzrocketz6430 3 месяца назад +4

    We support your spiritual sharing on this channel. Your perceptions of religion need to be heard. Once you feel love, true love- you stop condemning others or thinking they’re on the “wrong path”. Cuz they are you!
    Separate bodies, one awareness ❤

  • @parinchheda3210
    @parinchheda3210 2 месяца назад

    This channel is underrated. Thank you for your messages.

  • @snowball-universe
    @snowball-universe 3 месяца назад +5

    Having Joy of Missing Out. JOMO. Is a superpower. My physical reality is I am not difficult to please. But when the disappointment or dissatisfaction has set in, it’s hard to pull me back. I am also going through a weight loss journey and every day I work hard on my mind body and soul. I am also grieving the life I know I missed out on by not taking my health as serious as I should have. But I also am making a new life that I can have by making changes. Watching your videos are learning, healing, teaching, and comforting. Thanks bro 🙏🏽

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +2

      You've got an amazing outlook brother. I couldn't agree more... I would even take it a step further and say that there's no need for regret. Often times life is giving us exactly what we need in order to learn deeper lessons that we would have missed otherwise if we had "made all the right decisions..."
      At this point in life I truly believe that life is happening for us and not to us. It is either kissing us with pleasure, or teaching us profound lessons through pain.
      All of it has purpose. I say this as someone who has experienced intense suffering in this life, been to very dark places, and come out the other side with clarity. The darkness is truly a gift that reveals to us, the light.
      Much love.

  • @marcio3051
    @marcio3051 3 месяца назад +2

    You are on point! Thanks, man! Got back to Christianity 1y ago, and was born catholic, I was feeling a bit stuck between expectations or judgments from others but I can hear you and I can understand you. Thanks! I want to be more Christ-like and less judgemental, I want to follow his teachings and not feel bad about saying no when people try to force that on me. Thanks.

  • @brendanmcpike184
    @brendanmcpike184 28 дней назад

    Bro that cracked me up when you said “they’d be the ones to kill Jesus” lol soo true

  • @mikestibley3950
    @mikestibley3950 8 дней назад

    Excellent Content! Keep up the Outstanding work!

  • @OhMyItsAdamOmen
    @OhMyItsAdamOmen 2 месяца назад

    I've reached the point where you are now, that I truly know what I can do and that I'm worthy love. Whenever someone acts up I only notice their pain and never eat it.
    What I find hard is that if it's a loved one and how to approach that. Whenever I approach it with love and calm It's easy to be interpreted as you look down on them because you have a calm tone and don't match their hatred. or negative energy.

  • @iamjacksennui
    @iamjacksennui 18 дней назад

    Ryan you never fail to knock it out of the park.
    I'm not quite at the same level of consciousness as you are probably because I still view some particular people as "evil" such as most of my perps. There's still a tremendous amouny of healing I need to go through, but it seems I'm on the right path since I keep catching glimpses of....something, a "light" or real hope beyond all this. I'm doing the best I can right now despite the pain.
    I've recently found simple openess is the key to having new experiences for opportunities to heal. Example, as I said in a previous comment I almost dismissed your channel because I assumed and then started to retreat back into my fear and hurt. I nearly missed out on something truly incredible.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  12 дней назад +1

      I see you brother. We're all on the same journey, be kind/gentle with yourself through the process. The ebs and flows are all apart of it.

  • @furleysbrain
    @furleysbrain 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm pretty good at reserving judgement of others. I'm terrible at reserving judgement of myself.
    It's constant work to maintain a level of self respect and self love.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад

      Be self adjusting… lovingly. Like you would your 5 year old son. You are still innocent on the inside and deserving of love, your inner child is still there.
      If you ver off track, simply adjust back onto course. Like a car on the highway, take loving action and make adjustments without the shame and guilt, you don’t need them to get positive results…. But the ego thinks it does

  • @CASTANDCOOKING
    @CASTANDCOOKING 3 месяца назад +9

    Glad to hear those comments don't affect you the way they did. Stay strong brother!

  • @HimanshuBisht
    @HimanshuBisht 3 месяца назад +1

    I was born Hindu, in India, living in Bali, doing Buddhist (this also sounds funny, man. Buddha said, Be Buddha not Buddhist) meditation: Vipassana.
    You have inspired me so much to share my own personal journey with others. Your videos are also attracting me. Went through my journey to figure out what i want as a man and confronting my true self. Keep going brother.

  • @Dynamic_Entry
    @Dynamic_Entry 3 месяца назад +3

    Stay strong

  • @jiberider994
    @jiberider994 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for making these videos. And doing so inspite of the hate sou are faced with.

  • @GHOST-ec3nx
    @GHOST-ec3nx 3 месяца назад +1

    Once you start looking within, looking at your own mistakes and holding yourself accountable responsible you stop judging others. You get to see what people go through, look at it from their perspective. Everyone goes through stuff and to a point their actions are understandable. People do stupid things because of what they go through
    Looking at my mistakes/flaws helped me a lot, in a sense that you get to realise there's levels to it. There's one that the only person getting hurt is you and the other is you're hurting others. I always try to keep myself in check, try to avoid judging others because it lets you forget that you're flawed, it destroys your self awareness.
    Religion is a very good thing if it's understood properly. I don't believe any religion is bad, I believe there are bad people in every religion and the good ones are the ones following it the right way. People say religion is holding people back but I disagree, religion is purpose and direction. We have been given free will so you can choose not to believe but if you do choose to follow religion you will realise it teaches kindness, love, compassion, righteousness and charity. It encourages us to help one another. Religion is soo spiritual on so many levels.
    It all depends on what you're searching for in life and the first thing someone needs to understand is that everyone is searching for a different thing, everyone has a different perspective on everything.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +1

      Beautifully said brother. I agree with all of this.Thank you for sharing.

    • @GHOST-ec3nx
      @GHOST-ec3nx 3 месяца назад +1

      @@TheConsciousMan143 you're welcome

  • @syedhammadshah5591
    @syedhammadshah5591 3 месяца назад +1

    We all needed this. This feels like im talking to myself.
    The thing’s you’re talking about relationship of god and man, the spirituality aspect of life all pf it is very well mentioned in Quran.
    I would highly recommend you to read about the relationship of god and creation discussed in Quran as a part of your research or this amazing journey which you’re on along with all your youtube brotherhood❤️💯

  • @iano0100
    @iano0100 3 месяца назад

    Love your vids, keep up the beautiful work

  • @syedgalib2125
    @syedgalib2125 3 месяца назад +1

    People judge regardless of who you are 😂. If you rich they judge if you poor they judge if you look good they judge if you look bad they judge if you behave certain way they judge because judging is easy. So be a good person work hard work on yourself don't waste time on pointless things. Ignore all of them and do what you gotta do to get what you wanna get. Period.

  • @bruno31.66
    @bruno31.66 3 месяца назад

    Hi buddy, i really love the song you create, is there any way i can listen them ? Thank you

  • @mucy11
    @mucy11 3 месяца назад +4

    still waiting for the song „stronger“ to drop :/

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +4

      Email me and I'll just send it to you.

    • @mucy11
      @mucy11 3 месяца назад +1

      @@TheConsciousMan143 i’ve just send it

  • @soumyaray6706
    @soumyaray6706 3 месяца назад

    I feel like when things are outside of my direct control then perhaps the universe is trying to tell me something. In the past whenever I had succeeded with women they made things easy. They had a lot to do with us being in love. But when you go out of your way and you try try try but it still doesn’t work out for you than this person just isn’t the “one”. Although I’m madly in love with her I’m not going to pass judgement on her.

  • @christianabeldangol
    @christianabeldangol 2 месяца назад

    I understand if you found the interaction with Christians to be upsetting, and I'm sorry to hear that. From my perspective, I believe that Paul had a valid point. When Jesus said "I AM" in John 8:58, it does indicate that he is God. I hope this helps to clarify things from my point of view.

  • @seamusnaughton8217
    @seamusnaughton8217 2 месяца назад

    Your good guy helping other people you come alot do not stop.keep.vedlos comeing your safeing young men's lifes why to help help.some one you have to have been there boy you come to true alot godbless seamus lsubcribrd

  • @recklessnotion1899
    @recklessnotion1899 3 месяца назад

    8:37 sheeesh 💎

  • @Sashas-mom
    @Sashas-mom 2 месяца назад

    Wow

  • @timgazsy666
    @timgazsy666 3 месяца назад +4

    But wait don’t we need to give the church some percentage of our monthly wages to reserve our place in Heaven…?

  • @taher3851
    @taher3851 3 месяца назад

    whats the name of track at the end?

  • @johnmaurer2939
    @johnmaurer2939 3 месяца назад +1

    You are very close to Christ, but we still need to accept him as our savior to be fully saved from this world and be delivered 🙏

  • @AbubakarIbrahim-xt7dx
    @AbubakarIbrahim-xt7dx 3 месяца назад +1

    Love you man🫂

  • @Ciskuss
    @Ciskuss 3 месяца назад

    Can you talk about shadow work?

  • @GLRYB2GD
    @GLRYB2GD 3 месяца назад

    "Jesus is your own wonderful human imagination." - Neville Goddard

  • @NFS4LFE
    @NFS4LFE 2 месяца назад

    You’re driving a 2003 Toyota Avalon.

  • @calltoadventureband
    @calltoadventureband 3 месяца назад +1

    just because some christians are bad doesnt mean God isnt real

  • @David-oj9lx
    @David-oj9lx 3 месяца назад

    woow

  • @photographyenthusiast9941
    @photographyenthusiast9941 3 месяца назад +1

    It seems you’ve never read the Book of Revelation. If you believe in the words of Jesus then you would believe in the words written in the Bible.
    You cannot look to mankind to discern Jesus’ Character, but you can look to the Bible.

  • @jaybee4288
    @jaybee4288 3 месяца назад +4

    Men need to focus on themselves. Not on women, not on friends, not on a “God” who lets them suffer, not on family. Themselves. Make some money and enjoy yourself the best you can for the time you are here. You come into the world alone and leave it alone, the idea you need anything more than you has been intentionally instilled in you by Hollywood and society.

    • @aaronfogelsanger2550
      @aaronfogelsanger2550 3 месяца назад +3

      I have a lot of money
      The only thing I want to buy is a family, friends and people who actually care about me. I've been on vacation for 6 years and I can't express to you, how boring it really is.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +3

      Those things are fine... but if/when you acquire them you will quickly realize they are not the answer. Some people need to find that out for themselves (I was one of them). God as a concept rarely works... but if you have some objective experiences with God it changes your entire perception of existence itself. That can't be forced or packaged... religion tries though.

  • @whitedudewithglasses1141
    @whitedudewithglasses1141 3 месяца назад +1

    Buddy, just because people of a certain religion are acting in a different manner than that in which their faith requires doesn't mean you can toss out the entire belief system. If you believe in the dogma that Christianity teaches and act so, you're a Christian. Otherwise, you can't call yourself a Christian

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +2

      Christian technically means "Christ like," which many of these people are very much the opposite..
      Paul-ian or Bibl-lian would be more accurate.

  • @OmarHatem-tp8hg
    @OmarHatem-tp8hg 3 месяца назад

    Please read the Quran for your benefit; it will help you gain a clear and focused mindset.

  • @christianabeldangol
    @christianabeldangol 2 месяца назад

    By the way, Christianity is not a religion but a relationship with God Jesus. and hell is not flames at all. Hell is the absence of God. I love you man but I'm disappointed by how you twist the gospel. I only wish you luck

  • @phillip3910
    @phillip3910 2 месяца назад

    Bro with all do respect you're not correct about what it means to be a Christian. The people you're talking about are outliers. To be a Christian and to accept Christ means to repent of your sins and follow him. To live a life after him. The majority of Chrisitans understand this and in fact most Christianny today is the opposite of what you said. It's watered down.

  • @willislangerhansel2382
    @willislangerhansel2382 3 месяца назад +1

    Dude, thank you so much for your messages to humanity, we need people like you now more than ever. I look around and most people seem demonic to me nowadays, however, I suppose that is my own judgement. I love your message man, and I am so sorry for your horrible experiences, but we have to believe that all of our adversity is for a reason perhaps.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  3 месяца назад +2

      I think we experience the contrast of darkness so we can perceive the light on the deepest level. All of it is happening for you. Keep going

    • @photographyenthusiast9941
      @photographyenthusiast9941 3 месяца назад +1

      I wholeheartedly agree with the first sentence. Do consider that Jesus just may be the reason you are full of peace, love, and gratitude.