At the time in the darkness, I thought it was Satan's influence testing my willpower. But God is all knowing...Romans 12:21 "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
And Jesus dying for your sin belief is a narcissist religion. The merciful Creator wants repentance and to become a better being. No demigod can die for your sins.
I walked away and went silent on my ex and his family. Blocked them out of my life including the past friends. I am happy and doing what I love. I am really happy that people are being aware of such people thanks to videos like this.
Yes i did that too.. i erased her cellphone # on my phone and i didnt even memorize her number. I deleted all her pics and our pics together, i blocked her # and her niece, totally I don't want to hear anything about her, or seeing her face, i am done with her now and i just want to focus on myself paying attention with my job, loving my self, turn onto the Lord..
You are NEVER deleted from the narcissist's mind. They remain stuck with your introject for the rest of their days, no matter how long you've been gone.
they always think of you each time it goes wrong with the new supply if there is a new one. They always keep an eye on you if they see you doing well they are revengeful .they forget you because they never want you to forget them @sophiasdreamquinnblue8977
That is so true. I broke up with my last bf 4 Years ago. I had to plan this because the ywats before when i wanted to break up he broke his hand or closed me in in our apartment and took away my phone. So i planned to get out of this for half a year. The days after the break up we needed to talk about the stuff like when can i go into the apartment to get my stuff and he wanted to get me back. I didnt had the power to have conversations like that and 3 days after i went into the apartment to look after the cats we had and found several used condoms on the floor... They dont love you they need you. And if you think straight and are strong enough and they get it that they are not able to manupilate you anymore they replace you asap. Every half a year he gets in touch with me. In my streams or 2 months ago his "last ex girlfriend" wrote me about him ( i am pretty sure it was him directly writing to me) .. they always wanted to get you back because they need you! Not the opposite. You dont need them! They need you so bad. They will always try to come back and get back into your mind. They dont understand that they did tooo much and that the dust around them is away now and you can see the personality clearly.
Oh my gosh, the first one is such an eye opener. My boyfriend gets so stressed when i don't respond immediately to his calls or texts. The sad truth is he was a decent person until his brain was damaged in a crash...
This is true. my narcissistic relative lashed out at me one day in front of the family and instead of feeding into it, I looked at them and walked away. When I tell you the scream they hollered out when I walked out could heard a block away😂. They started screaming and crying like a toddler. At the time, I didn’t know they had narcissistic personality disorder but I knew something wasn’t right. And honestly after finding it out, it’s so much easier to deal with them….They are very predictable. But Now it’s the flying monkeys that annoy me 🤦🏽♀️
I don't fight at all. Ever. Because that person isn't worth it. I stay silent and if I MUST address the person, it's on MY terms, and whatever that person says or the reaction is, that's totally irrelevant to me.
@@amaqueen9012 Oh absolutely. And my goal is to always demonstrate that I have a say in my reaction. Only I do. They don’t write scripts that I follow.
I started setting boundaries after the children moved out. I didn't care anymore. He burned the house down. Greatest gift I got. Nothing holding me to him or ou4 possessions. I am free✊👑👏⚡
I've been married for 16 years, after 14 years of abuse I finally know what he is I thought I was loosing my mind. I finally did some research and know what's been going on. I am now in gray rock been in gray rock for 2 years now, but I'm sick of living and pretending like I don't feel anything. I'm stuck in this marriage financially.
Lisa, hugs. Your job now is figuring out how to break the financial stranglehold he has on you. I'm in the same position except not married. I own "our" house and it's paid for. But he refuses to leave, says I will need a legal eviction. In my state that can take upwards of 6 months and cost me $3-4K which I of course don't have. I'm older, on social security with health problems. Regular work is out, no one left I might inherit from, and we sure can't count on the lottery. But I have a great therapist. She's worked to help me tolerate him but it's not working anymore. He has to go. Don't let it get this bad or go on this long. Deep depression will set in. I let this man destroy my life and rob me of decades of possible happiness. I can't die like this nor should you. Start putting even small amounts of money aside. Maybe get a private bank account with only online banking. Is a woman's shelter in your area. How is your friend network? Can and do you work? Online there are sites where you can do surveys and make some money that are legit. Depending on your state there is assistance if you will be poverty stricken by this. You just to start researching and planning while keeping it all secret from him. Best of luck.🙋♀️
I’m in the same boat he wouldn’t let me work after having kids and I am only given enough money for gas and cigarettes nothing more just $30 a week sometimes not even that much and I have no family or friends
I like that drip supply advice- i had not heard of that before I am currently recovering from having to navigate tolerating the attendance of a sibling plus his family of toxins at our shared mother’s funeral- they previously behaved clearly that i was not any value to them inviting everyone except me to the daughters wedding- i did not care about going to the wedding but the absence of invitation was a glaring obvious statement and hurt a lot but cemented clarity and i in return chose to block them from being a part of my circle as my personal boundary And so here we all were forced into a shared event and i knew they would act fake as if they could act like they could hug me as tho the higher class citizens than i am again It was extremely difficult as i knew any contact towards me was not for my benefit and only to charade themselves in their fake self exalting egos Knowing about this drip supply idea is very helpful as i didn’t want to make a scene so i allowed a half hug from the main predator because she initiated it but I ignored my sibling - but as a Christian thats now tied me into flashbacks like a trauma along with their flying monkeys also making a beeline towards me - Are you able to do a video on how to navigate attending a funeral that you dont want to miss but the loved one is shared with the attendance of toxic family that you went no contact with
Today I go to my Narssict relative his house is very dirty he barks at me like dog.he barks attack at me he shows to everyone that he is joking but I show no reaction no response...!he became like mad dog attacks me..may GOD curse every narcissist..!
So trying this right now. finding a Narc is an opportunist who will just get on with it. But you totally right in that the unpredictability really rattles them. Will update.
Oh sweetheart, I'm in the same position. I'm so sorry. You almost have to become numb after falling apart just to survive. We were not built to be away from their kids.
Yes he just told me that he loves me and then Ghosted me for 4 days. I made no attempt to contact him during that time. Out of nowhere at 7am he’s texting me letting me know he’s up and wishing me well and on his way to work! How crazy and delusional is that. I had a good laugh as I’m very aware of the behaviors of the Vampire! I just Mirror his behavior and Ghost him right back! I really don’t care anymore! This situation is completely comical and entertaining because he’s a complete failure in his game!? I’m very entertained! Especially when I’m Bored.😊
I just want to say this.. NARCISSISTS ARE REALLY DANGEROUS PEOPLE. Don't think about taking revenge. I understand that you are not afraid, but be happy that you have been saved and you will move forward with better steps towards your future.
Both... But my silence is DEAFENING. I SAW them when they first drove up. They were totally thrown off by my cutting the contact and became accusatory, insulting, and threatening... I gave them SILENCE.
Oh, poor babies. If they couldn't handle the disrespect as full grown adults, how the hell did they expect a child to take it in the first place? Their logic is insanity.
I don't want to say this, but I think both my parents are narcissist. Because they keep doing all the things which has been told in videos which I watch on the topic. They do love me, but mostly when I stop talking to them or get myself busy in my room and don't speak for days. Then they show me all the love and when I start to talk again, they start doing the same thing. They do bully me, infront of my relatives or friends of my sibling. They consider me as "dumb", that i am not smart enough like them or like other people. But they won't even let me go somewhere to learn things on my own. M 28, a girl, but still treated as a toddler. It annoys me. There are many more things which I deal with but can't talk about it, as my family turn my issues into arguments and start to explain how much they love me, they buy things for me, do give me food to eat and what not. At this age of my life, after years of dealing with toxicity, now I don't even know what I like or what I want to do in my future. Even for my career, I totally depend on the advice of my father. I don't know how much time it will take for me to be independent. I have very low confidence to go out and do something, I hide this though. I don't let people know that I am under confident. If I go out, guys see me as an object of lust, girls mock me for my tall height or how different and silent I am from them. I wish I were never born in to this world. I don't feel like a part of this world and people. I want to leave the world.
What silence? He blocked me last summer, when I texted him that we don't need to deal with ALL the crimes committed (kidnapping the kids, gas lighting and other narc. abuse, defamation, slander, malpractice, perjury, surveillance, syndicated bullying, etc) but the defamation piece needs to be dealt with.
I have a narcissistic family and it’s so bad. They all believe their lie and act victimised when I tell them what they’re doing is wrong and continue doing the same thing. I’ve cut them off and they find a way to come back. I forgive them after avoiding them and it doesn’t stop. Help please
25 years together 4 children..then she started cheating,abusing all of u physically and emotionally now 2 years after acting like nothing happened?..we all have various forms of ptsd...but she doesn't notice?
So was 2 decades straight 5 yrs of real memories and just as bad of memories as today with those people and Fckd Up thing Nobody's been near anyone see say anything different. Just nobody!!!!!!! today age 52 Told me die go my life Dangling grandchildren It's So abusive and the game I'm grateful my family none want near this Crazy 1 sided show wish I never spoken to anyone today Want silent Go away as threatened me personally with Already Got 30 years in not about ruining anything again.
Your video is giving me goosebumps I just experienced that at the tail end of my narcissist girlfriend she called my sleaziest male friend that I warned her to stay away from to get gossip on me and find out what I’m doing I also gave her tremendous silence knowing I had to take a break however I didn’t know what illness I was dealing with and boy you’re right it drove her crazy she would pop up and every social media that I didn’t block her on When we first had sex about three weeks into it she said I I did that for you so talk about obvious lovebomb
Mr Danish, my siblings and I have been emotionally and verbally abused by our overt narcissistic father whom we have to depend on him financially. Do you have any tactful approach to handle his blackmailing besides silence?
I knew this person they could not be quite from morning to night they would always be talking they don't care about anything you have to say don't disagree with them all hell break loose I call them motor mouth sign Cynthia Smith
I recently got silent with my partner. First few days, she got triggered by my distance and even asked me about it but subtly i ignored her waiting for her to do more efforts. However, after 2 days despite she kept waiting for my replies, now suddenly she's showing me she's happy and is posting stuffs and suddenly now ignoring me. Is she playing my own game with me?
I have experienced the one where I think he is seeing someone else and it’s a feeling I have and when I ask him he will tell me no that he has been going through a lot in his life and he will tell me it’s been a lot
I was dealing, and out of anger ,on a certain issue, I went angry and spoken up something that was abusive. the person took it as reason to block me. and after many sorries, things did not work so I went silent. Now will that silence work .? because person has unblocked me but she says dont talk to me anymore. Just everything is forgiven but You are no longer required. go away.
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Excuse me to correct it a little "when the evil can't make you a bad person otherwise, he makes you to be a Narcissist - a person assuming is right, a judgmental one, the one who withdraw the communication and blame the other one of demanding conversation to be back. Communication is the pillar of any relationship.
The silence treatment is the form of abusive, sign of weakness, And a weapon of people who don't know how to deal with their and others emotions. So sad how social media glorify it. Actually those who use silence treatment in order to "test" or cut of others after initial friendship... They are the Real narcissists who blame others of narcissism. If Iam uncomfortable with someone while I get to know him/her closer, first I tell it to the person, then I explain it what manner I don't like.... All what Is neccessary in communication between friends. Silence treatment is most coward way to end any relationships. Both parties have been involved in building up, breaking up is painful, nothing Fast track and easy.
@@PaXeGo when silence used deliberataly to avoid someone or to test someone's character - it's called silent treatment. Which silence Are you talkin about?
@@voiceofthesoil3131 inner silence. to decide to no longer swallow the baits a narcissist throws right at ya. its no treatment when done to protect oneself its only treatment to manipulate. For Example. i told my narcisstic mother im working on a DIY cat tree and i wanna get me 2 kittys in near future , like this year. everytime its not about her, shes leavin the conversation. Thats silent treatment. right ? so i didnt took that bait. few days later shes throwing the next bait. Are u having a cat that u working on a cattree ? like i just told u about that 2 days ago. so i decided to no react to that. because i already told her. so just like in the video . she couldnt stand to not know whats up. (she felt fear of replacement) and started to stalk me at my door. in that case i did decide for silence to instead for chaos.
Lol this is the truth. Its funny how when you be nice to then they start asking many questions or just important questions they dont havethe answers too.
Once I got silent it meant I was preparing for a divorce. He thought he trained me to be obedient. The divorce was a shock to him lol. No contact for two years and it was the best decision of my life.
I went silent and no contact and now he is trying to get in contact with me I refuse I don't want evil and chaos in my life at all the devils advocate can stay outside he isn't my concern no more
Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Barryinvestigation@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
My goodness my life for the past 7 years. He ended up putting his hands on me. And I got a restraining order on him he was also an alcoholic like 2 pints of crown Royal a day. He can't come around our son and myself for a year.
Wow wow thank you so much for sharing what you went through with your ex narcissist. I really needed to hear that. I have literally broken it off with my ex narcissist after a 7 month relationship. I managed to hack into his Facebook and read all his sex chats between many many women. Starting from literally the day we first started dating going on for 5 months. Stopped end of June but he was still messaging girls but not sex talk. He said he stopped because he felt bad which was a lie he had not been working before but since end of June was working full time so probably never had time for it. It's still fresh the pain of betrayal and like you said fake love as I realized our whole relationship was based on a lie and he probably never even loved me. Well good riddance to him I'm now free to be happy again.
Mine was very good as a mime. He could do many voices successfully. I always told him he should be an actor or something. Turned out he was one in real life...
@@quasimodo614HOLY SHIT THANKS FOR POINTING THIS OUT!!!!!!!!! My ex was totally all over the place and even surpassed my own voice/tone when he mirrored me for the first few weeks DAMN! 😭 At this point I jusy get goosebumps and it feels icy cold to recapture this detail ewwwww (He claimed to be MtX bottom and I had to be the dominant FtM in the whole relationship fuck)
My grandfather never spoke. He had a separate bedroom. He took separate vacations. He lived a separate life. Had separate friends that she was not privy to. Yet lived under the same roof. He never spoke to anybody in the family because he knew if he did, my grandmother would screw it all up. Never expressed any emotion. He knew what he was dealing with. So it came as a big shock when he died of natural causes on the couch one night. As a child, I thought it odd. But as an adult, I realize now my grandmother was a narc and that's how he dealt with her. In the end, it was very effective.
Given that you said you were a child, everyone's motivations seem to be your reconstructions... I think that before framing someone as a narcissist - or the narcissist - you should carefully evaluate the possible interpretations and discuss them in depth at least with the rest of the family: from your summary, I (who don't know any of the characters!) I for one would say that, if there was a narcissist, it would likely be the one who lives as if in a hotel, undisturbed, served, who is not interested in his children and the rest of the family, who feels - and is! - free to lead an independent social life, to go on holiday on his own etc. And if your grandmother was grumpy, or nervous, or distant... or emotionally drained, emptied of affection and interests, tired, distressed... well, living at the service of a narcissist who cares only of his commodities (and perhaps in private overwhelms you with humiliations) can bring some heavy relational flaw. I don't want to be polemical, just to give you an external impression and a possible alternative reading. I know that if you are here you have your burdens and are looking for explanations... I hope you will find clarity and strenght and soon be able to resume and redirect your journey in a healing and fulfilling direction.
Furthermore, there are cold people, with a bad character, lack of affection or incapacity to express it, or unable to live positive relationships, with various emotional, psychological, relational problems, without being narcissistic. Please forgive my bad english.
Remember they are just overgrown babies! The less contact the better if they wanna start stalking well now u can just put em in jail not always easy but u will in the end
I went silent and no contact with my narcissistic brother and sister. They kept trying to bait me putting me down. I gave them no response. So they started attacking my children . that is not on
Ok. What about other point of view. Whose? Someone who Once used to be your friend? Sure their life depends on you. Sure they are victim of silent treatment. All the drama Is they want to know why. Why you go silent. Why you destroy friendship. If you don't tell, you're bad guy here. They don't know. They ask you the reason. Anger is emotion. Its part of relationship. Seeking for attention of loved one is natural. Silence is abusive. Now if you tell them you don't love them anymore and the reason behind... You're doing right. But hey people don't get cruel and Torture others while watching from afar.
Narc don't like sick people, i underwent surgery...very complicated breakup...he cheated, denied it, came to meet me with a hickey and told me it was a bruise...instead of telling me that he got someone new all he did was to make me understand that i need to go now...he left me into confusion, turned my brain upside down. Im 4 months into it....getting better, listening to music that i used to listen before i met him in my life. Though i still have nightmares...i am getting through it. Im in NC since february...i dont think he will call me since i know that narc does not like sick people. The damage that he caused to me is much more painful than my operation...can you imagine ?. Thanks, i dont want to see him nor hearing his voice....when he comes in my mind my heartbeat races...traumatised
Ya, if you're trying to get rid of a narcissist, tell them you need a ride to a doctors appointment & you need them to cook supper for you. 😂 You'll never see them again.
I just went silent to match his silent energy. They don't like it and may post passive aggressive things on the internet. They feel entitled to you always initiating contact to validate their importance.
Heyy Sara. I recently got silent with my partner who usually is silent with me. First few days, she got triggered by my distance and even asked me about it but subtly i ignored her waiting for her to do more efforts. However, after 2 days despite she kept waiting for my replies, now suddenly she's showing me she's happy and is posting stuffs and suddenly now ignoring me. Is she playing my own game with me?
After being texted that I am Medieval, unscientific ,told I need therapy and I'm naive.....I paused,then texted back "text someone who cares." One week silent, so nice, no criticism ❤and sooo peaceful!!!
I watch these videos because they do help me with my healing but I don’t wish them any harm, karma none of that. In a way I am thankful because this experience has made me look within and realize what I need to work on. Boundaries, self love and awareness. I walk away taking accountability for my part. It doesn’t matter to me if they ever do. I’ve learned the lesson. I’m so ready to heal and move on with my life.
One gave me the silent treatment for the second time after I paid for an all expense trip🤔 I responded with NO CONTACT😂 ✌🏾✌🏾 Two years later, many lies later, smear campaigns and everyone still hearing about how I'm horrible for walking away and never speaking to her and flying monkeys again. But my life is extra beautiful absent of her in it💃🏿💯❤️💃🏿💯❤️💃🏿💯❤️
Narcissist hate silence it eats away at their soul when they don't know what you doing? Or worst their mind starts wondering maybe you moved on found someone new they are longer your main focus or prioriy they have been replaced ouch..
My evil “meat suit” actually said today, “I thought that’s what you wanted was for me to be silent.” This was after I asked him to stop slinging insults; I am getting out now!
My mom gets angry if I don't keep up giving info to her or othewise give massive input to her existence or just keep up the convo that she can then judge, criticize and reject or treat like it was her input and she who said it. She might belittle what I say, my ideas and next moment present them as her own. She's like a parrot. I have learned that I have to push myself to limits to keep up with content to others or otherwise they'll get volatile, angry and explosive 😢
I believe in writing dull stuff back. One guy went on a rant about my age and weight. So I said, " 9:43 I got your text. I'm not doing anything interesting, just paperwork, why don't you do something good for your mum. Occupy yourself, read a book." Then I left my phone off. And blocked him etc. He drove around my neighbourhood so I parked my car out of sight for a bit, caught the bus and kept a low profile.
Oh, borderline stalking on top of the narcissism. Nice combo. I had a stalker but I made sure he never got to know me. I picked him out of police photos and they told me to literally run and seek safety if I ever encountered him again. A very violent bad person. Bet you he was a narc too.
Silence is golden, duct tape is silver. I was in a gaming community and after realizing a close friend in that community was abusing me emotionally and showing narcissistic traits, I left that community and have gone "no contact." I'm healing but I've found peace with a lot.
After three times he kicked me out of his house in the middle of the night claiming he couldn't stand seeing my face,controlling every move I made,controlling my friendships, my phonecalls, my family, after multiple times he flirted with random women right in front of me, other so many times he flew into narcissistic rage just hecause I said no to his many demands, things I bet sound painfully familiar to many of you, I chose to hang up on him while he was screaming his lungs out through the phone,block all his numbers, cut off all bridges that serve communication and going literally on radio silence . Its been eight days of blissfull peace, quiet and silence in my own place still going 💪💪, while my head slowly is restoring funcions and no sign of him still. I think I took the right decision for once in my life . Do I miss him? I sure do. But I've missed me more.
I’m not sure I agree. My silence works perfectly for me. I don’t need to push any buttons. I don’t need to set my boundaries or clarify anything to them. I don’t need to respond or retaliate. This only creates a single response in which you have broken the no contact rule. The golden rule is, ignore the bully and the bullying gradually diminishes. I don’t care what they think. It’s none of my business. My peace and my personal space is, my business. Continually focusing on my peace, indeed and quite possibly enrages them and eats away at them but - most importantly, it helps maintain a healthy and carefree lifestyle for me.
In order to be able to meet them with geniun silence, you have to heal! Cause they see if you are doing this for real or not. When it is genuine it is not about punishing them, it is about they really don’t mean a thing. For real! Your genuine healed silence take ALL their weapons away from them
They don't care they will discard and move on to next person social media has made it easy to find more victims quick , some could careless about losing control but some do different narcissist
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the Bible says, "Resist the devil and he will flee from you." GOD said that. So, resist the narcissists and they will flee.
Yep rebuke and call God
Perfect and YES!!!!
Amen 🙏
At the time in the darkness, I thought it was Satan's influence testing my willpower. But God is all knowing...Romans 12:21 "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
And Jesus dying for your sin belief is a narcissist religion. The merciful Creator wants repentance and to become a better being. No demigod can die for your sins.
I walked away and went silent on my ex and his family. Blocked them out of my life including the past friends.
I am happy and doing what I love.
I am really happy that people are being aware of such people thanks to videos like this.
Amen exactly what I do to retrieve peace 🙏🏿
Yes i did that too.. i erased her cellphone # on my phone and i didnt even memorize her number. I deleted all her pics and our pics together, i blocked her # and her niece, totally I don't want to hear anything about her, or seeing her face, i am done with her now and i just want to focus on myself paying attention with my job, loving my self, turn onto the Lord..
You are NEVER deleted from the narcissist's mind. They remain stuck with your introject for the rest of their days, no matter how long you've been gone.
So true!!!
What does that mean? How do they exhibit this?
I agree..
they always think of you each time it goes wrong with the new supply if there is a new one. They always keep an eye on you if they see you doing well they are revengeful .they forget you because they never want you to forget them @sophiasdreamquinnblue8977
That is so true. I broke up with my last bf 4 Years ago. I had to plan this because the ywats before when i wanted to break up he broke his hand or closed me in in our apartment and took away my phone. So i planned to get out of this for half a year.
The days after the break up we needed to talk about the stuff like when can i go into the apartment to get my stuff and he wanted to get me back. I didnt had the power to have conversations like that and 3 days after i went into the apartment to look after the cats we had and found several used condoms on the floor...
They dont love you they need you.
And if you think straight and are strong enough and they get it that they are not able to manupilate you anymore they replace you asap.
Every half a year he gets in touch with me. In my streams or 2 months ago his "last ex girlfriend" wrote me about him ( i am pretty sure it was him directly writing to me) .. they always wanted to get you back because they need you! Not the opposite. You dont need them! They need you so bad. They will always try to come back and get back into your mind.
They dont understand that they did tooo much and that the dust around them is away now and you can see the personality clearly.
Oh my gosh, the first one is such an eye opener. My boyfriend gets so stressed when i don't respond immediately to his calls or texts. The sad truth is he was a decent person until his brain was damaged in a crash...
This is true. my narcissistic relative lashed out at me one day in front of the family and instead of feeding into it, I looked at them and walked away. When I tell you the scream they hollered out when I walked out could heard a block away😂. They started screaming and crying like a toddler.
At the time, I didn’t know they had narcissistic personality disorder but I knew something wasn’t right. And honestly after finding it out, it’s so much easier to deal with them….They are very predictable. But Now it’s the flying monkeys that annoy me 🤦🏽♀️
I don't fight at all. Ever.
Because that person isn't worth it.
I stay silent and if I MUST address the person, it's on MY terms, and whatever that person says or the reaction is, that's totally irrelevant to me.
FACTS. THEY ALWAYS WANT TO FIGHT!!!
@@amaqueen9012 Oh absolutely.
And my goal is to always demonstrate that I have a say in my reaction. Only I do. They don’t write scripts that I follow.
I started setting boundaries after the children moved out. I didn't care anymore. He burned the house down. Greatest gift I got. Nothing holding me to him or ou4 possessions. I am free✊👑👏⚡
I've been married for 16 years, after 14 years of abuse I finally know what he is I thought I was loosing my mind. I finally did some research and know what's been going on. I am now in gray rock been in gray rock for 2 years now, but I'm sick of living and pretending like I don't feel anything. I'm stuck in this marriage financially.
Lisa, hugs. Your job now is figuring out how to break the financial stranglehold he has on you. I'm in the same position except not married. I own "our" house and it's paid for. But he refuses to leave, says I will need a legal eviction. In my state that can take upwards of 6 months and cost me $3-4K which I of course don't have. I'm older, on social security with health problems. Regular work is out, no one left I might inherit from, and we sure can't count on the lottery. But I have a great therapist. She's worked to help me tolerate him but it's not working anymore. He has to go. Don't let it get this bad or go on this long. Deep depression will set in. I let this man destroy my life and rob me of decades of possible happiness. I can't die like this nor should you. Start putting even small amounts of money aside. Maybe get a private bank account with only online banking. Is a woman's shelter in your area. How is your friend network? Can and do you work? Online there are sites where you can do surveys and make some money that are legit. Depending on your state there is assistance if you will be poverty stricken by this. You just to start researching and planning while keeping it all secret from him. Best of luck.🙋♀️
I am stuck because of the children and lack of financial help.
I’m in the same boat he wouldn’t let me work after having kids and I am only given enough money for gas and cigarettes nothing more just $30 a week sometimes not even that much and I have no family or friends
They only pick fight either by crying or abusing
Yes. They are either the TYRANT or the VICTIM.
I like that drip supply advice- i had not heard of that before
I am currently recovering from having to navigate tolerating the attendance of a sibling plus his family of toxins at our shared mother’s funeral- they previously behaved clearly that i was not any value to them inviting everyone except me to the daughters wedding- i did not care about going to the wedding but the absence of invitation was a glaring obvious statement and hurt a lot but cemented clarity and i in return chose to block them from being a part of my circle as my personal boundary
And so here we all were forced into a shared event and i knew they would act fake as if they could act like they could hug me as tho the higher class citizens than i am again
It was extremely difficult as i knew any contact towards me was not for my benefit and only to charade themselves in their fake self exalting egos
Knowing about this drip supply idea is very helpful as i didn’t want to make a scene so i allowed a half hug from the main predator because she initiated it but I ignored my sibling - but as a Christian thats now tied me into flashbacks like a trauma along with their flying monkeys also making a beeline towards me -
Are you able to do a video on how to navigate attending a funeral that you dont want to miss but the loved one is shared with the attendance of toxic family that you went no contact with
TREAT THEM WITH THE KINDNESS THAT THEY SHOW//
AND KEEP IT MOVING!!!
YOU HAVE WON!!!
Today I go to my Narssict relative his house is very dirty he barks at me like dog.he barks attack at me he shows to everyone that he is joking but I show no reaction no response...!he became like mad dog attacks me..may GOD curse every narcissist..!
Your videos helped me a lot to heal and come out very confident and strong ❤
This is so interesting.
So trying this right now. finding a Narc is an opportunist who will just get on with it.
But you totally right in that the unpredictability really rattles them. Will update.
My mother! She is currently giving my brother & i silence & we are happy!
I swear everytime my supervisor doesnt talk is a beautiful day
After 30 +years and 4 children later. He put my oldest daughter as the mother position. I have lost 3 of my 4 children to parental alienation
Oh sweetheart, I'm in the same position. I'm so sorry. You almost have to become numb after falling apart just to survive. We were not built to be away from their kids.
Bring me chaos,bring me spite,I don't CARE,Absolutely ZERO attention,ZERO contact,ZERO hell. All heaven.❤✝️!
SILENCE is Gold.
this is what has happened to me by my husband narc but he says he is not with anyone but I don't believe him
Yes he just told me that he loves me and then Ghosted me for 4 days. I made no attempt to contact him during that time. Out of nowhere at 7am he’s texting me letting me know he’s up and wishing me well and on his way to work! How crazy and delusional is that. I had a good laugh as I’m very aware of the behaviors of the Vampire! I just Mirror his behavior and Ghost him right back! I really don’t care anymore! This situation is completely comical and entertaining because he’s a complete failure in his game!? I’m very entertained! Especially when I’m Bored.😊
I have so appreciated your video's. I feel st 56 I'm learning to have real boundaries, healthy boundaries.
Love that "I can't wrestle with pigs"
I just want to say this.. NARCISSISTS ARE REALLY DANGEROUS PEOPLE. Don't think about taking revenge. I understand that you are not afraid, but be happy that you have been saved and you will move forward with better steps towards your future.
The best revenge is living a good life that doesn't include them. ❤
@@renel7303 Rene, never forget this…. NARCISSISTS CANNOT SLEEP AT NIGHT 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Both... But my silence is DEAFENING. I SAW them when they first drove up. They were totally thrown off by my cutting the contact and became accusatory, insulting, and threatening... I gave them SILENCE.
“They have to be in control of the environment.” Couldn’t help but to laugh.
Great advise 🎉
Thanks for sharing. Im using this tactic as well. I think its working..
silence
I’m ready when he is .
Oh, poor babies. If they couldn't handle the disrespect as full grown adults, how the hell did they expect a child to take it in the first place? Their logic is insanity.
My way of dealing with a narc is silence.
When I go silent ,she goes crazy by calling texting blowing up my phone but yet she says we're over for the 1000 time .
I don't want to say this, but I think both my parents are narcissist. Because they keep doing all the things which has been told in videos which I watch on the topic. They do love me, but mostly when I stop talking to them or get myself busy in my room and don't speak for days. Then they show me all the love and when I start to talk again, they start doing the same thing. They do bully me, infront of my relatives or friends of my sibling. They consider me as "dumb", that i am not smart enough like them or like other people. But they won't even let me go somewhere to learn things on my own. M 28, a girl, but still treated as a toddler. It annoys me. There are many more things which I deal with but can't talk about it, as my family turn my issues into arguments and start to explain how much they love me, they buy things for me, do give me food to eat and what not. At this age of my life, after years of dealing with toxicity, now I don't even know what I like or what I want to do in my future. Even for my career, I totally depend on the advice of my father. I don't know how much time it will take for me to be independent. I have very low confidence to go out and do something, I hide this though. I don't let people know that I am under confident. If I go out, guys see me as an object of lust, girls mock me for my tall height or how different and silent I am from them. I wish I were never born in to this world. I don't feel like a part of this world and people. I want to leave the world.
What silence? He blocked me last summer, when I texted him that we don't need to deal with ALL the crimes committed (kidnapping the kids, gas lighting and other narc. abuse, defamation, slander, malpractice, perjury, surveillance, syndicated bullying, etc) but the defamation piece needs to be dealt with.
I have a narcissistic family and it’s so bad. They all believe their lie and act victimised when I tell them what they’re doing is wrong and continue doing the same thing. I’ve cut them off and they find a way to come back. I forgive them after avoiding them and it doesn’t stop. Help please
What if they give you the same silent treatment because they have a new supply?How to know if thats a final discard?
Thanks so much
25 years together 4 children..then she started cheating,abusing all of u physically and emotionally now 2 years after acting like nothing happened?..we all have various forms of ptsd...but she doesn't notice?
Heal heal your traumas you will never attract narcissist people
I left my narc a month ago and my ex reached out to my mother 🧐🧐🧐 But she didn’t answer back it’s truly sad how they are.
He dont accept it as, since he had hurt me i am silent
Very clearly described
What if one has to live with a narcissist because one doesn’t have the capability to support oneself and also there is co-parenting happening?
I told him the true every time, and he disappeared every time. Than back again.....Now is blocked.
So was 2 decades straight 5 yrs of real memories and just as bad of memories as today with those people and Fckd Up thing Nobody's been near anyone see say anything different. Just nobody!!!!!!! today age 52 Told me die go my life Dangling grandchildren It's So abusive and the game I'm grateful my family none want near this Crazy 1 sided show wish I never spoken to anyone today Want silent Go away as threatened me personally with Already Got 30 years in not about ruining anything again.
I swear at time this narc forgets about me. lol
Your video is giving me goosebumps I just experienced that at the tail end of my narcissist girlfriend she called my sleaziest male friend that I warned her to stay away from to get gossip on me and find out what I’m doing
I also gave her tremendous silence knowing I had to take a break however I didn’t know what illness I was dealing with and boy you’re right it drove her crazy she would pop up and every social media that I didn’t block her on
When we first had sex about three weeks into it she said I I did that for you so talk about obvious lovebomb
DRIP SUPPLY MIND BLOWN
Mr Danish, my siblings and I have been emotionally and verbally abused by our overt narcissistic father whom we have to depend on him financially. Do you have any tactful approach to handle his blackmailing besides silence?
I knew this person they could not be quite from morning to night they would always be talking they don't care about anything you have to say don't disagree with them all hell break loose I call them motor mouth sign Cynthia Smith
I recently got silent with my partner. First few days, she got triggered by my distance and even asked me about it but subtly i ignored her waiting for her to do more efforts. However, after 2 days despite she kept waiting for my replies, now suddenly she's showing me she's happy and is posting stuffs and suddenly now ignoring me. Is she playing my own game with me?
I have experienced the one where I think he is seeing someone else and it’s a feeling I have and when I ask him he will tell me no that he has been going through a lot in his life and he will tell me it’s been a lot
I was dealing, and out of anger ,on a certain issue, I went angry and spoken up something that was abusive. the person took it as reason to block me. and after many sorries, things did not work so I went silent.
Now will that silence work .? because person has unblocked me but she says dont talk to me anymore. Just everything is forgiven but You are no longer required. go away.
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What about narcissistic adult children
They hire a group of gang stalkers to torture me
When the devil can't get you, he uses a Narcissist 👌
Facts!! 💯💯
True.
Excuse me to correct it a little "when the evil can't make you a bad person otherwise, he makes you to be a Narcissist - a person assuming is right, a judgmental one, the one who withdraw the communication and blame the other one of demanding conversation to be back. Communication is the pillar of any relationship.
Correct ❤
True
Absolutely NO supply!... Not even a drop neither a trickle. ZERO. I AM NOT A SUPPLY.
Someone pin this.
When I respond I am feeding this person, so I don't respond, total silence helps
EXACTLY OR AN OPTION WHEN CURRENT SUPPLY RUNS OUT
"They are a parasite in need of a host". Best description ever!
My silence speaks and I don't care what the think or say. I choose my peace over chaos
ppl trying to disturb our peace will bite their teeth without any succes
The silence treatment is the form of abusive, sign of weakness, And a weapon of people who don't know how to deal with their and others emotions. So sad how social media glorify it. Actually those who use silence treatment in order to "test" or cut of others after initial friendship... They are the Real narcissists who blame others of narcissism. If Iam uncomfortable with someone while I get to know him/her closer, first I tell it to the person, then I explain it what manner I don't like.... All what Is neccessary in communication between friends. Silence treatment is most coward way to end any relationships. Both parties have been involved in building up, breaking up is painful, nothing Fast track and easy.
@@voiceofthesoil3131 we talkin about silence and u turn it into silent treatment. well nice try
@@PaXeGo when silence used deliberataly to avoid someone or to test someone's character - it's called silent treatment. Which silence Are you talkin about?
@@voiceofthesoil3131 inner silence. to decide to no longer swallow the baits a narcissist throws right at ya. its no treatment when done to protect oneself its only treatment to manipulate. For Example. i told my narcisstic mother im working on a DIY cat tree and i wanna get me 2 kittys in near future , like this year. everytime its not about her, shes leavin the conversation. Thats silent treatment. right ? so i didnt took that bait. few days later shes throwing the next bait. Are u having a cat that u working on a cattree ? like i just told u about that 2 days ago. so i decided to no react to that. because i already told her. so just like in the video . she couldnt stand to not know whats up. (she felt fear of replacement) and started to stalk me at my door. in that case i did decide for silence to instead for chaos.
Silence is golden. It’s giving you the space to heal. It’s powerful protection.
Definitely!!…I’ve used it countless times & never fail me lol!😅👍👍
Yes I use silence everyday it helps me have peace of mind
They only communicate when they need something so I don’t care how they respond to my silence.
Lol this is the truth. Its funny how when you be nice to then they start asking many questions or just important questions they dont havethe answers too.
Asking where his clothes are. 😂
Once I got silent it meant I was preparing for a divorce. He thought he trained me to be obedient. The divorce was a shock to him lol. No contact for two years and it was the best decision of my life.
Same!!!!!!
Same😂
Well done 👏. Best of luck in your future 🤗
Exactly they think once u stop talking that means you doing what they always wanted for you to shutup whole time u emotionally exhausted and done
Amazing ❤
I went silent and no contact and now he is trying to get in contact with me I refuse I don't want evil and chaos in my life at all the devils advocate can stay outside he isn't my concern no more
Me too
They never realize their mistakes
Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Barryinvestigation@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
My goodness my life for the past 7 years. He ended up putting his hands on me. And I got a restraining order on him he was also an alcoholic like 2 pints of crown Royal a day. He can't come around our son and myself for a year.
Wow wow thank you so much for sharing what you went through with your ex narcissist. I really needed to hear that. I have literally broken it off with my ex narcissist after a 7 month relationship. I managed to hack into his Facebook and read all his sex chats between many many women. Starting from literally the day we first started dating going on for 5 months. Stopped end of June but he was still messaging girls but not sex talk. He said he stopped because he felt bad which was a lie he had not been working before but since end of June was working full time so probably never had time for it. It's still fresh the pain of betrayal and like you said fake love as I realized our whole relationship was based on a lie and he probably never even loved me. Well good riddance to him I'm now free to be happy again.
I ruined my career because of my husband
Same here.. but im still on process of getting courage to leave.. god help me to escape from this abuse. We have two kids 😢
My silence saved me by 99.9%
The silence has been such a blessing I should’ve done this sooner pulled away because now I feel wonderful
U too?😊
@@LysaChampioneI feel at peace and healing. Narc can't touch me since I established boundaries I chose me !
@@Xenlacasa45 we deserve it!!
@@LysaChampione they look so drained and depleted without our supply they are energy vampires
@@Xenlacasa45 they should look and get it somewhere else..
Access denied with this one .. Sorry not 🚫 Sorry 👍😊🦋✅😎
Blessings 💖 💯🏆😇🙏
You can't wrestle with pigs 🤣
So very true
🏆
As a country girl raised in the woods, you most DEFINITELY CAN wrestle with pigs.
Danish make a video on how their voice changes when they want to impress someone.
Yes, Please do it's hilarious when they behave like clowns. Just sit back, stay silent and observe.
Oh yeah, so ridiculous 😆
Mine was very good as a mime. He could do many voices successfully. I always told him he should be an actor or something. Turned out he was one in real life...
@@quasimodo614HOLY SHIT THANKS FOR POINTING THIS OUT!!!!!!!!! My ex was totally all over the place and even surpassed my own voice/tone when he mirrored me for the first few weeks DAMN! 😭 At this point I jusy get goosebumps and it feels icy cold to recapture this detail ewwwww
(He claimed to be MtX bottom and I had to be the dominant FtM in the whole relationship fuck)
Yess!
The narcissist is the lowest life form.
Good description of this disease
Can’t be that low , boards are filled with posters who talk about brutal behaviour but somehow stay in relationships with them for 10. 20, 30 years.
My grandfather never spoke. He had a separate bedroom. He took separate vacations. He lived a separate life. Had separate friends that she was not privy to. Yet lived under the same roof. He never spoke to anybody in the family because he knew if he did, my grandmother would screw it all up. Never expressed any emotion. He knew what he was dealing with. So it came as a big shock when he died of natural causes on the couch one night.
As a child, I thought it odd. But as an adult, I realize now my grandmother was a narc and that's how he dealt with her. In the end, it was very effective.
Was your grandmother a good cook?
Wow!!! 🤦🏽♀️
I think I’m getting to be like your grandpa. Maybe I’ll die like him too.
Given that you said you were a child, everyone's motivations seem to be your reconstructions... I think that before framing someone as a narcissist - or the narcissist - you should carefully evaluate the possible interpretations and discuss them in depth at least with the rest of the family: from your summary, I (who don't know any of the characters!) I for one would say that, if there was a narcissist, it would likely be the one who lives as if in a hotel, undisturbed, served, who is not interested in his children and the rest of the family, who feels - and is! - free to lead an independent social life, to go on holiday on his own etc.
And if your grandmother was grumpy, or nervous, or distant... or emotionally drained, emptied of affection and interests, tired, distressed... well, living at the service of a narcissist who cares only of his commodities (and perhaps in private overwhelms you with humiliations) can bring some heavy relational flaw.
I don't want to be polemical, just to give you an external impression and a possible alternative reading. I know that if you are here you have your burdens and are looking for explanations... I hope you will find clarity and strenght and soon be able to resume and redirect your journey in a healing and fulfilling direction.
Furthermore, there are cold people, with a bad character, lack of affection or incapacity to express it, or unable to live positive relationships, with various emotional, psychological, relational problems, without being narcissistic.
Please forgive my bad english.
Silence is the best reply to a fool ❤
Proverbs 18:1
An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.
Even if you go silent, they will someway, somehow cause drama and play the victim. It's as if their life depends on it.
Facts 💯. The craziest things is alot of males will team up with the spouses to do the drama together...
# pathetic
Remember they are just overgrown babies! The less contact the better if they wanna start stalking well now u can just put em in jail not always easy but u will in the end
I went silent and no contact with my narcissistic brother and sister. They kept trying to bait me putting me down. I gave them no response. So they started attacking my children . that is not on
Get the law and court involved with that, they both are desperate and pathetic for doing that@noelaustin4751
Ok. What about other point of view. Whose? Someone who Once used to be your friend? Sure their life depends on you. Sure they are victim of silent treatment. All the drama Is they want to know why. Why you go silent. Why you destroy friendship. If you don't tell, you're bad guy here. They don't know. They ask you the reason. Anger is emotion. Its part of relationship. Seeking for attention of loved one is natural. Silence is abusive.
Now if you tell them you don't love them anymore and the reason behind... You're doing right. But hey people don't get cruel and Torture others while watching from afar.
Narc don't like sick people, i underwent surgery...very complicated breakup...he cheated, denied it, came to meet me with a hickey and told me it was a bruise...instead of telling me that he got someone new all he did was to make me understand that i need to go now...he left me into confusion, turned my brain upside down. Im 4 months into it....getting better, listening to music that i used to listen before i met him in my life. Though i still have nightmares...i am getting through it. Im in NC since february...i dont think he will call me since i know that narc does not like sick people. The damage that he caused to me is much more painful than my operation...can you imagine ?. Thanks, i dont want to see him nor hearing his voice....when he comes in my mind my heartbeat races...traumatised
Sry love, you deserve better!
@@MissPhiomena thank you. A positive thing about this horrible journey is that I am getting closer to God, I read my Bible everyday.🙂
Amen... Psalms 23 will help you 💕
Ya, if you're trying to get rid of a narcissist, tell them you need a ride to a doctors appointment & you need them to cook supper for you. 😂 You'll never see them again.
You know what? Just 3 words- f*ck that guy!! 😀😀😀 Sending hugz 😘😘😘
giving silence is taking our power back 😌 3:49
They are failures
Perfectly said 🎉
💯! 👍
I just went silent to match his silent energy. They don't like it and may post passive aggressive things on the internet. They feel entitled to you always initiating contact to validate their importance.
Heyy Sara.
I recently got silent with my partner who usually is silent with me. First few days, she got triggered by my distance and even asked me about it but subtly i ignored her waiting for her to do more efforts. However, after 2 days despite she kept waiting for my replies, now suddenly she's showing me she's happy and is posting stuffs and suddenly now ignoring me. Is she playing my own game with me?
Yes, she’s knows your watching her profile and wants to get under your skin
Yes , they want a reaction
Yeah they play the same games harshly @@annshii6771
@@SaraX2024 it still effects your mind I think having to live like this.
After being texted that I am Medieval, unscientific ,told I need therapy and I'm naive.....I paused,then texted back "text someone who cares." One week silent, so nice, no criticism ❤and sooo peaceful!!!
Yay! 🎉🎉🎉😊 happy for you!
Who says medieval 😂
Wow periodt 💅🏾
I watch these videos because they do help me with my healing but I don’t wish them any harm, karma none of that. In a way I am thankful because this experience has made me look within and realize what I need to work on. Boundaries, self love and awareness. I walk away taking accountability for my part. It doesn’t matter to me if they ever do. I’ve learned the lesson. I’m so ready to heal and move on with my life.
exactly. forgiveness is the key.. i want nothing but the best for my ex wife of 12 yrs. let us all heal with a clean heart.
One gave me the silent treatment for the second time after I paid for an all expense trip🤔 I responded with NO CONTACT😂 ✌🏾✌🏾 Two years later, many lies later, smear campaigns and everyone still hearing about how I'm horrible for walking away and never speaking to her and flying monkeys again. But my life is extra beautiful absent of her in it💃🏿💯❤️💃🏿💯❤️💃🏿💯❤️
Narcissist hate silence it eats away at their soul when they don't know what you doing? Or worst their mind starts wondering maybe you moved on found someone new they are longer your main focus or prioriy they have been replaced ouch..
Silence is meaningless and useless without the accompanying lack of emotional response.
My evil “meat suit” actually said today, “I thought that’s what you wanted was for me to be silent.” This was after I asked him to stop slinging insults; I am getting out now!
Creep
You sound like the narcissist here
Eid Mubarak Danish and everyone who read this. 🎉❤
Eid moubarak ❤🎉
I wish. Danish makes videos in Urdu
I am like a lioness with my silence. 😂 thank you.
My mom gets angry if I don't keep up giving info to her or othewise give massive input to her existence or just keep up the convo that she can then judge, criticize and reject or treat like it was her input and she who said it. She might belittle what I say, my ideas and next moment present them as her own. She's like a parrot. I have learned that I have to push myself to limits to keep up with content to others or otherwise they'll get volatile, angry and explosive 😢
I believe in writing dull stuff back. One guy went on a rant about my age and weight.
So I said, " 9:43 I got your text.
I'm not doing anything interesting, just paperwork, why don't you do something good for your mum. Occupy yourself, read a book."
Then I left my phone off. And blocked him etc.
He drove around my neighbourhood so I parked my car out of sight for a bit, caught the bus and kept a low profile.
Oh, borderline stalking on top of the narcissism. Nice combo. I had a stalker but I made sure he never got to know me. I picked him out of police photos and they told me to literally run and seek safety if I ever encountered him again. A very violent bad person. Bet you he was a narc too.
Silence is golden, duct tape is silver. I was in a gaming community and after realizing a close friend in that community was abusing me emotionally and showing narcissistic traits, I left that community and have gone "no contact." I'm healing but I've found peace with a lot.
They get dirty, try to be heard and same time command you to answer.
Total silence
After three times he kicked me out of his house in the middle of the night claiming he couldn't stand seeing my face,controlling every move I made,controlling my friendships, my phonecalls, my family, after multiple times he flirted with random women right in front of me, other so many times he flew into narcissistic rage just hecause I said no to his many demands, things I bet sound painfully familiar to many of you, I chose to hang up on him while he was screaming his lungs out through the phone,block all his numbers, cut off all bridges that serve communication and going literally on radio silence . Its been eight days of blissfull peace, quiet and silence in my own place still going 💪💪, while my head slowly is restoring funcions and no sign of him still. I think I took the right decision for once in my life . Do I miss him? I sure do. But I've missed me more.
I’m not sure I agree. My silence works perfectly for me. I don’t need to push any buttons. I don’t need to set my boundaries or clarify anything to them. I don’t need to respond or retaliate. This only creates a single response in which you have broken the no contact rule. The golden rule is, ignore the bully and the bullying gradually diminishes. I don’t care what they think. It’s none of my business. My peace and my personal space is, my business. Continually focusing on my peace, indeed and quite possibly enrages them and eats away at them but - most importantly, it helps maintain a healthy and carefree lifestyle for me.
the peace is incredible! period.
In order to be able to meet them with geniun silence, you have to heal! Cause they see if you are doing this for real or not.
When it is genuine it is not about punishing them, it is about they really don’t mean a thing. For real!
Your genuine healed silence take ALL their weapons away from them
Going no contact is the best way to go. Dont worry or care how they feel about it. Theyre never alone for long 😂
They don't care they will discard and move on to next person social media has made it easy to find more victims quick , some could careless about losing control but some do different narcissist