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Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @falisha5952
    @falisha5952 5 лет назад +5436

    “This isn’t a person I own, this is an individual who I have the privilege of sharing time with, and I should never take that for granted” beautifully said 💛

    • @InnerResearcher
      @InnerResearcher 4 года назад +14

      ahh yes! that hit me!

    • @ridge_n
      @ridge_n 4 года назад +16

      That hit my chest when I heard that. Mindblowing.

    • @tfh5575
      @tfh5575 4 года назад +8

      he could end up raising another man’s baby...they could end up with warts or herpes. yuck.

    • @TheShecorena
      @TheShecorena 4 года назад +2

      I am crying

    • @SupermanHopkins
      @SupermanHopkins 4 года назад +2

      Ocean deep.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 5 лет назад +3147

    This is what we call the mature kind of love, they can talk about anything at all without any hesitation.

    • @BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs
      @BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs 5 лет назад +17

      Absolutely. It's a beautiful thing.

    • @LevandrioEvalyn
      @LevandrioEvalyn 5 лет назад +8

      i love the matured decisions they took before they got married

    • @alexianeves
      @alexianeves 4 года назад +2

      A New Love Official yesss a mature love oh my gosh I think you nailed it!!

    • @alexianeves
      @alexianeves 4 года назад

      Nishat Ahmed Rabat what may that be?

    • @deficator750
      @deficator750 3 года назад +1

      Is’nt this how ALL relationships look like in the start? i mean most people seperate 5-10 years after marriage

  • @CelineAdobea
    @CelineAdobea 5 лет назад +3883

    "waking up to someone who chooses to be with you. " 😍

    • @enlightenmental_
      @enlightenmental_ 5 лет назад +6

      Ma Living I swear. I melted. 🥰

    • @BeyarUoit
      @BeyarUoit 5 лет назад +21

      so literally every single relationship that isn't an arranged marriage.

    • @nightgoggles9931
      @nightgoggles9931 5 лет назад +5

      @@BeyarUoit Or that isn't at R Kelly's house lol

    • @saludosalsol
      @saludosalsol 5 лет назад +4

      I still think you can allow the other person to do that, for it to be their choice, and it not be an open relationship. If they decide they’re better off with someone else then that’s their decision. But that doesn’t mean you should let them change their mind whenever they want or continue to hurt you, if they didn’t choose you first. If you were just a second option to them.

    • @blacklight310
      @blacklight310 5 лет назад +2

      Choosing and not settling

  • @quincyfrancois2134
    @quincyfrancois2134 5 лет назад +1238

    "If there's something better for you, I want that for you" Jared got me in my feelings

    • @09kenedy
      @09kenedy 5 лет назад +20

      Quincy Francois ummm... that’s a cop out. How about , they strive to be the best for each other. Now that is love ❤️

    • @perfectlyimperfect1095
      @perfectlyimperfect1095 4 года назад +57

      @@09kenedy I believe that true love is selfless. I believe that if you love someone you will always want the best for them even if you aren't what's best for them.

    • @09kenedy
      @09kenedy 4 года назад +1

      Perfectly Imperfect you should make yourself better

    • @perfectlyimperfect1095
      @perfectlyimperfect1095 4 года назад +28

      @@09kenedy Make you better for yourself first before you make yourself better for someone else. Love yourself first before you love someone else. You can be in relationship where you and the other person love each other so much but that doesn't necessarily mean that you're good for each other.

  • @chinaaaa_
    @chinaaaa_ 4 года назад +3726

    They just look like they smell SOOOO GOOD 😩

  • @anneyolande2486
    @anneyolande2486 5 лет назад +3041

    It’s not fair for two people this beautiful to be together. It’s not balanced. 😂😂😂 their kids are gonna be gorgeous.

    • @joelmiller2601
      @joelmiller2601 5 лет назад +23

      ... wtf? they’ll be cute not gorgeous.. they’re children.

    • @anneyolande2486
      @anneyolande2486 5 лет назад +154

      Joel Miller mmkay 🙄🙄🙄

    • @ceethesol
      @ceethesol 5 лет назад +181

      Joel Miller chill out man 😭 you seem offended for literally no reason?

    • @makenadwyer3377
      @makenadwyer3377 5 лет назад +26

      Joel Miller SJW alert goddamn chill out bro

    • @black.butterfly2114
      @black.butterfly2114 5 лет назад +56

      Idk, I thought 2 ugly people make pretty kids and 2 pretty people make ugly kids. It balances out

  • @Tooeasy_a
    @Tooeasy_a 5 лет назад +5655

    This was a lot deeper than I thought

    • @ms.rstake_1211
      @ms.rstake_1211 5 лет назад +12

      @@lettalkaboutfinance rude

    • @natiizamora2784
      @natiizamora2784 5 лет назад +3

      THAAAAAAAAN

    • @SP7000SP
      @SP7000SP 5 лет назад +11

      That's what he said when they first had sex.

    • @felipuno9235
      @felipuno9235 5 лет назад

      check out jlp bond

    • @Sunflowers_220
      @Sunflowers_220 5 лет назад +8

      Everything Shannon is in, is going to be deep and profound by default.

  • @happysmiles4339
    @happysmiles4339 5 лет назад +8568

    Can we just take a minute to appreciate Shan's outfit! Esp those heeeeels!😍

  • @Goldeexo
    @Goldeexo 4 года назад +1171

    they're pregnant now! yayyy! so happy for them

    • @isabelamichaud9435
      @isabelamichaud9435 4 года назад +7

      Me, too!!

    • @sezumi8435
      @sezumi8435 4 года назад +73

      Men can't geeet pregnaaant. It's either 'She's pregnant' or 'They're expecting a child' pleaaaase! This triggers me every time 🤣

    • @Goldeexo
      @Goldeexo 4 года назад +41

      @@sezumi8435 yes, but usually people say They're pregnant when them as a married couple are having a baby. lol

    • @victoriakouassi4320
      @victoriakouassi4320 3 года назад +24

      They had a baby girl! Ryu is so beautiful 🥺

    • @TTHeavensent
      @TTHeavensent 3 года назад +11

      @@sezumi8435 Get a grip.

  • @mya-lizuckerman2285
    @mya-lizuckerman2285 4 года назад +198

    The way he looks at her, with admiration and respect, is beautiful.

  • @CloutCollecter
    @CloutCollecter 5 лет назад +3852

    “Google knows what it means”.......sums up My high school time🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @EnjoyOverEverything
      @EnjoyOverEverything 5 лет назад +29

      CloutCollecter google and RUclips taught me everything I know.

    • @CloutCollecter
      @CloutCollecter 5 лет назад +14

      EnjoyJaredBrady fax that and the Asian dude who sat next to me

    • @AbyssWatcher745
      @AbyssWatcher745 5 лет назад +5

      @@CloutCollecter lol

    • @megagafar1
      @megagafar1 5 лет назад +4

      Sums up my med school.
      Oh god imma a horrible person 😂

    • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
      @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 5 лет назад +1

      CloutCollecter 🤣💀😩🙃

  • @shanboody
    @shanboody 5 лет назад +8923

    Jubilee!!! If I was to comeback in the next life as a RUclips channel I’d choo-choo-choose you

    • @gretaw2138
      @gretaw2138 5 лет назад +54

      this was such a cool video to watch, yall are so sweet together (and I love your outfit too lol)

    • @kendyllcole5276
      @kendyllcole5276 5 лет назад +8

      Ahhhhh MY FAVVVESSSSS

    • @ms.rstake_1211
      @ms.rstake_1211 5 лет назад +9

      I was surprised to see you here. Loved your video on Black Panther and Wakanda. It impressed me and even though I didn't really think your wedding dress was appropriating or in anyway insulting glad you cleared it up.

    • @inkeriananas
      @inkeriananas 5 лет назад +9

      Love you Shan so much, and I'm grateful for your content. Keep doing your thing 🌹 Also love Jubilee.

    • @Xephorian
      @Xephorian 5 лет назад +3

      Y'all are beautiful together. I'm just curious and obviously this isn't my business but if you're willing to answer I'd like insight into y'all's style of life:
      When you guys have kids would you keep the relationship open? Or would y'all transition to a more generic style of relationship for the kids sake?
      Wanna clarify Again, no judgement, just curiosity

  • @daniiidetails6791
    @daniiidetails6791 5 лет назад +5282

    I loved this but the comments turned me off. I happen to follow this couple individually and they have something beautiful. Unfortunately this video didnt provide much background context but since theyre married they are no longer open and dating other people. They started as friends w benefits, open relationship, then marriage. For the people saying they wont last, how did u gather that from 9 minutes of edited footage? Yall so lonely n negative, smh

    • @DeeznutztheOG
      @DeeznutztheOG 5 лет назад +77

      I thought they said they keep the relationship open still?

    • @audrianna9682
      @audrianna9682 5 лет назад +101

      Agreed, I regret reading the comments, I was shocked at a the negativity. I love these two.

    • @EnjoyOverEverything
      @EnjoyOverEverything 5 лет назад +10

      Danielle Roman 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😌

    • @eeeeeeeeeeeeeelli
      @eeeeeeeeeeeeeelli 5 лет назад +62

      Cheeze berries they were in an open relationship, but are not anymore. check out shan's channel, she talks all about it

    • @laurapenaloza9151
      @laurapenaloza9151 5 лет назад +69

      Shan said that their relationship has remained the same even though they are married. Everything is open for discussion.

  • @srodriguez9269
    @srodriguez9269 5 лет назад +418

    Their outlook on love is so dope. I want this.

    • @alisham6634
      @alisham6634 5 лет назад +11

      You just can't be jealous or too protective.

    • @TheKingofdans
      @TheKingofdans 4 года назад

      @@alisham6634 that, is correct

    • @coffeelover3467
      @coffeelover3467 3 года назад

      @@alisham6634 and use condoms for that open relationship part 🥴

  • @kittytaughtu
    @kittytaughtu 5 лет назад +445

    "choose me"
    Simple words so complex

  • @nicoleschroeter5558
    @nicoleschroeter5558 5 лет назад +1294

    This really opened up a new side of what an open relationship can mean, insightful.

    • @browncookie5520
      @browncookie5520 5 лет назад +10

      Nicole Schroeter really? what did you take away from this video

    • @miladmd247
      @miladmd247 5 лет назад +73

      The girl in the video is very manipulative. She came up with the open relationship thing cause she preferd the other dude and wanted to see if she has any chance with him.

    • @dlizzy3835
      @dlizzy3835 5 лет назад +88

      Milad Md you guys are killing me lol she’s not manipulative at all. What’s manipulative about being as open and honest as possible, seems quite the contrary to me? The open relationship was a mutual, heavily examined decision. I suppose I’m biased because I was already familiar with their story. But I’m trying to view it from the perspective of someone being introduced to them for the first time and I’m still confused by your analysis of their relationship...

    • @miladmd247
      @miladmd247 5 лет назад +13

      @@dlizzy3835 I see your point but what kind of man in his right mind agrees to an open relationship with a girl that he truly loves, especially when the girl is seeing a specific guy and is not doing random hookups? That's why I think she manipulated him. This is just my conclusion based on my own point of view and life experience and I'm not claiming it's 100 percent true.

    • @dlizzy3835
      @dlizzy3835 5 лет назад +22

      Milad Md I understand and I think we take for granted that we all have the same definition of love. A love that isn’t possessive or controlling might allow for a partner to interact with others romantically. Their relationship was open on both sides as well and wasn’t centered around the one guy she mentioned. And judging by the outcome, a happily married couple, it would seem that things worked out in their favor. Imagine if he hadn’t allowed her the opportunity to explore with the other guy and that planted a seed of doubt or resentment that festered for years. That happens to a lot of couples and one party secretly wonders whether they made the best choice and perhaps even sneaks off to act on that curiosity. Jared knows he was chosen and as they said, everyday they know they’re choosing each other.

  • @annettechantel4739
    @annettechantel4739 4 года назад +124

    I love how they complement each other so well. She is so deep and certain of how she views the world. It's refreshing and provides me with hope for my future partner.

  • @lichi1244eva
    @lichi1244eva 5 лет назад +902

    I respect the evolution of Shan and Jared's relationship and how they have been honest in their communication from the beginning. Open relationships aren't for everyone - I've been married over 10 years and am monogamous but I don't knock couples who explore consensual non monogamy as an option FOR THEMSELVES. As we grow and change, so do our needs so assigning a one-size-fits-all expectation of marriage may be why so many marriages actually fail.
    Congrats and kudos to Shan Boody and Jared. I wish them well.

    • @mariav5253
      @mariav5253 5 лет назад +19

      lichi1244eva it’s so refreshing to see comments from married people who aren’t hating on her relationship! You’re awesome for being open minded

    • @lichi1244eva
      @lichi1244eva 5 лет назад +11

      @@mariav5253 thank you!! If this works for Jared & Shan (the only 2 that ultimately matter here) and they continue to communicate this openly and honestly, they should be fine.

    • @jazlyn2159
      @jazlyn2159 5 лет назад +1

      💯💯💯

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 5 лет назад +11

      They're not open anymore tho. They decided to become monogamous after marriage.

    • @BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs
      @BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs 5 лет назад +4

      Exactly! Married 10 years and I refuse to judge another married couple on how they choose to share their life together with other consenting adults.

  • @BEAutifulkiss21100
    @BEAutifulkiss21100 4 года назад +629

    Damn they are healthy. Most ppl aren’t doing this....

    • @mxd-1990asn
      @mxd-1990asn 4 года назад +20

      Yes , but thats bcs most people dont trust enough (also you have to keep in mind that some people had very bad experiences before, so they would not be able to just let you do certain things) there has to be enough trust before you can be ok with some things.

    • @omnium_gatherum
      @omnium_gatherum 3 года назад +9

      They're not healthy because they're doing this. Maybe they're just healthy. Being polyamorous or monogamous doesn't make a relationship healthy. It's when you both know what you want and have open communication and love. There are many people who choose only one person and have healthy relationships too. It all depends on the people involved 😊

  • @averymcintosh8817
    @averymcintosh8817 5 лет назад +122

    “i’m so excited to grow old with you” my heart melted 🥺

  • @EnjoyOverEverything
    @EnjoyOverEverything 5 лет назад +1717

    Shannon I love you. ❤️ and to the ones that understand....we love you! To the ones that hate... stay tuned 🥂 we got more surprises for you. 🍾

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody 5 лет назад +145

      EnjoyJaredBrady Love u J u did awesome in this and ur skin looks like gelato 😛

    • @darkskinlove2328
      @darkskinlove2328 5 лет назад +4

      Y'all are so cute 😍❤️😍 y'all vibe together is crazy. I watched your open relationship videos and was like nah no way there's too much chemistry here. Congratulations on your marriage 🎉

    • @sheraeguerrero
      @sheraeguerrero 5 лет назад

      EnjoyJaredBrady this is video shows me real love and ugh its beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

    • @alexianeves
      @alexianeves 4 года назад

      EnjoyJaredBrady we love you too!!!

    • @talliyah6668
      @talliyah6668 3 года назад

      @M you're so sad and pathetic lmfaooo, who hurt you?

  • @beyondthefuture2008
    @beyondthefuture2008 5 лет назад +34

    The way Jared looks at Shan is so sweet! He truly adores her and it’s evident. He’s so gentle with her. I am really excited to see where life takes them.

  • @sarahnwosu1714
    @sarahnwosu1714 5 лет назад +168

    THERE'S SO MUCH EYE CONTACT GOING ON

  • @learning.growing.1017
    @learning.growing.1017 5 лет назад +25

    When she said something about "ownership" and how he's an individual who she's honored to share her time with ... Bruh... That try hit my heart. This is something I'm learning now. Love > possession

  • @moonmystic9572
    @moonmystic9572 5 лет назад +59

    Y’all got me hoping for something I kind of stopped hoping for. Love doesn’t have to look like people say it should

  • @LetsHangOutWithAmna
    @LetsHangOutWithAmna 5 лет назад +427

    This is the sweetest thing I have ever seen. This is very important.

    • @blacknoir1716
      @blacknoir1716 5 лет назад +5

      Sprite this comment is short and LEGENDARY

    • @sprite8666
      @sprite8666 5 лет назад

      Najib Hareed yes

  • @marybell5074
    @marybell5074 5 лет назад +626

    Wow ok she might be the prettiest person I have seen

    • @mokekr
      @mokekr 4 года назад +17

      Tf..get out of your rock

    • @leelee8387
      @leelee8387 4 года назад +4

      Maybe personality yes she’s fire

    • @resauxsociaux4045
      @resauxsociaux4045 4 года назад

      Check @Misstpw who she actually had a beef with over a guy. She's prettier, like on a thousand 😁

    • @victoriakouassi4320
      @victoriakouassi4320 3 года назад +13

      @@kristianyaka_nation3137 ma'am beauty is subjective just because you don't find her pretty doesn't mean she's ugly that's an insult

    • @fionagallagherapologist5968
      @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 года назад

      yes :))

  • @Loveroftacos
    @Loveroftacos 4 года назад +189

    She was the workshop instructor on Too Hot to Handle!! 🤩

    • @sharono6164
      @sharono6164 3 года назад +3

      Thank you!!! I was trying to figure out where I saw her

    • @acethacirkus
      @acethacirkus 3 года назад +1

      @@sharono6164 damn i knew i saw her somewhere before!

  • @babyjay324
    @babyjay324 3 года назад +10

    Not me rewatching this video two years later and seeing Shan get emotional over the kids subject and now they have their beautiful baby and such an amazing life/bond together. Ugh my heaaaaart 🥺🥺😍

  • @cora6836
    @cora6836 5 лет назад +39

    I started my longest and most precious relationship based on what me and him thought would be a one night stand or a friends with benefits thing. I knew where things would go seeing him when I did, but took the chance to spend a night with him. Now, he is the man I love most dear and I dont think I could love anyone like I love him.

  • @sayrac9334
    @sayrac9334 5 лет назад +70

    My first open relationship just became a serious one. Wow, this ongoing synchronicity is unreal. Thank you for the video. I wish there were more video about open relationships cons and pros, and how a bond like this can lead to something serious.

  • @o.julia_9046
    @o.julia_9046 5 лет назад +469

    They make such a cute couple😍😍😍

  • @user-zg7xm2ny7v
    @user-zg7xm2ny7v 5 лет назад +2459

    omg she’s 33 ?!

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 лет назад +49

      and hes only 27. now it makes sense why hes an emasculated man.

    • @user-zg7xm2ny7v
      @user-zg7xm2ny7v 5 лет назад +155

      etf42 nothing to do with whether or not he’s emasculate, she just looks younger than she is - and beautiful

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 лет назад +1

      lia could be. Or I’m just committed to telling the truth

    • @user-zg7xm2ny7v
      @user-zg7xm2ny7v 5 лет назад +1

      J we are all entitled to our own opinions! x

    • @user-zg7xm2ny7v
      @user-zg7xm2ny7v 5 лет назад +4

      etf42 ok babez

  • @reallife_daria4816
    @reallife_daria4816 5 лет назад +494

    This chick was about open relationships and now she’s married wow times change 🤷🏻‍♀️👏🏼

    • @jaaptendijk7192
      @jaaptendijk7192 5 лет назад +71

      @@papigreenranger5998They hoeing around till they hit their thirties

    • @francistran432
      @francistran432 5 лет назад +66

      @@jaaptendijk7192 what if they still have open relationship while they married hmm

    • @kaynicole2146
      @kaynicole2146 5 лет назад +6

      Wait so are they are now monagamous now?

    • @meditativedestinations3117
      @meditativedestinations3117 5 лет назад +25

      OMG.. YES, you're right!!! I knew I recognized her. Wasn't she on Steve Harvey Show talking about being okay about an open relationship she was in... And Steve wasn't buying it?!!

    • @graceg5876
      @graceg5876 5 лет назад +40

      Gabi Amador they are married but still pursue an open relationship

  • @crystalm3th573
    @crystalm3th573 5 лет назад +16

    The whole experiment about them finding what they want without forcing the other to be with the other is good. It could go horribly wrong if one of them was toxic or clingy.
    But thankfully, they're both well educated mindful people who took the time to self reflect and let the other grow.
    Good luck to both of them.

  • @CelineAdobea
    @CelineAdobea 5 лет назад +1607

    Where the Boody Squad at?

  • @PouryaBigonah
    @PouryaBigonah 5 лет назад +2598

    Does a computer count as a friend? Cause in that case...

    • @tiffanyramos5049
      @tiffanyramos5049 5 лет назад +118

      I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE

    • @heyjavonnejay
      @heyjavonnejay 5 лет назад +37

      @@tiffanyramos5049 would explain their comment lol

    • @halfevilwelding5268
      @halfevilwelding5268 5 лет назад +15

      Pourya Bigonah you always get hella likes lol

    • @DeeznutztheOG
      @DeeznutztheOG 5 лет назад +3

      Stephanie It has to do with upvotes and relevancy I believe. If you comment a lot and get many likes at that your comment will remain at the top despite other highly liked unknown youtuber comments or new fresh comments burying yours

    • @arianycalixto1072
      @arianycalixto1072 5 лет назад

      @@tiffanyramos5049 TBHHHHHH WTFFFFF

  • @Isaac2.
    @Isaac2. 5 лет назад +930

    Idk why but I get a teacher & student vibe, she’s the teacher 😂

    • @jasmineali5699
      @jasmineali5699 5 лет назад +61

      She pays all the bills too

    • @meowchan4745
      @meowchan4745 5 лет назад +60

      yeah...as if she takes charge and tells him what to do next and he subconsciously goes into submission.

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 5 лет назад +24

      @@meowchan4745 That's hot lmao

    • @christinarouse1209
      @christinarouse1209 5 лет назад +105

      No they’re on the same level, if you watched their channel you’d see that.

    • @chaghetti
      @chaghetti 5 лет назад +133

      She gives off teacher vibes constantly. Even way before her and Jared was a thing. That's just how she is.

  • @jj7092
    @jj7092 5 лет назад +476

    Tbh she looks 25 and he looks 21 🤷🏾‍♀️
    I wanna look that young in my late 20s and early 30s

    • @bunnyt8249
      @bunnyt8249 5 лет назад +11

      Well you are lol ppl age a lot better. Now and days. I'm 27 and ppl think I'm 19 and depending if I wear less to no make up 16

    • @bindu996
      @bindu996 4 года назад +42

      gurl what's wrong with you, does turning 30 mean you're a grandma?

    • @tfh5575
      @tfh5575 4 года назад +23

      That still is young lol where do people get the idea that that age would look old? I hear it all the time from like gen z ppl “omg you look 24” uhh ok that’s only 4 years younger than I am...not much should have changed

    • @dutyengineermdc7a444
      @dutyengineermdc7a444 3 года назад

      Make up make up make up...

    • @lauragt2397
      @lauragt2397 3 года назад

      Turning 30 is not old!! Eff your comment JJ lmao

  • @moche2303
    @moche2303 5 лет назад +11

    Shan's point about tracing the idea of a relationship versus creating something unique to you is SO incredible. I've been feeling that but haven't been able to put it into words and she just did for me. I am eternally grateful to Jubilee for featuring such intelligent and mature people like her than can speak to what it's like to be in a relationship with non-normative aspects.

  • @shine199723
    @shine199723 5 лет назад +356

    The comment section is terrible. But I love Shan and Jared. They are a beautiful and mature couple. I have been following Shan/Shannon for a while on her RUclips page, and she is truly inspiring. I love how the two of them are like to hell with other people’s opinions about their relationship and they do what’s best for them. I have so much respect for both Shan and Jared.

  • @breonawarren1507
    @breonawarren1507 5 лет назад +223

    Y’alls comments are weird. Let them live their life, swinging & open relationships work so long as both people know where the lines lie. Plus, they aren’t in an open relationship anymore since being married

    • @EnjoyOverEverything
      @EnjoyOverEverything 5 лет назад +7

      Breona Warren 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @rinan4058
      @rinan4058 4 года назад +2

      they are still in an open marriage she said it in other videos

  • @frogjackethuman781
    @frogjackethuman781 5 лет назад +8

    I loved the articulation of the open relationship part. It's so enlightening. I always wondered something similar but didn't know how to word it and couldn't find any real life examples of it being done or where people didn't think I was crazy. I was always saying that if you really love someone you let them go. Not literally as in you don't put effort in a relationship, but where the energy is open, Jared once said to Shan that he never wanted their relationship to be anything more than it currently was, as in there are no expectations on this, it flows where it may. That means, when Shan had that person come up in her life and she wanted to explore it and asked Jared, he loved her enough to say I want the best for you, I am letting you go enough to explore, and he was saying I want you to choose the best person for you and I really hope that person is me, it makes it more significant if Shannon doesn't have a leash but she still chooses to be with Jared, in contrast to some people's definition of marriage where you never can stray ever. If people don't have the physical freedom, their minds wander and they get emotionally creative, and perhaps they have an emotional affair. The energy has to come out somehow, and Jared either gives her the space or doesn't and it blows her up inside. I think that's a level of maturity that many people can't even comprehend. Lots of commenters here I think don't understand but I do, I see it and I think it's fantastic. it's paradoxical that when you let go, the space opens for someone to come to you, versus if you keep them tight and chained down, it's safe but there's no space and no creativity and no flow.

  • @Toematetoe95
    @Toematetoe95 2 года назад +6

    spoiler alert: Shan is pregnant with their second baby 🥺❤️

  • @mayyamihaylova1123
    @mayyamihaylova1123 5 лет назад +12

    The maturity of your relationship is mind blowing ! It is incredible how well you communicate, how beautiful you are together ! I love watching you guys !

  • @lorenrey3273
    @lorenrey3273 5 лет назад +455

    Those grandpa socks and shoes. 🔥😂

    • @EnjoyOverEverything
      @EnjoyOverEverything 5 лет назад +9

      Lorena Rey hahaha you ssee me wit the penny’s 😈

    • @lorenrey3273
      @lorenrey3273 5 лет назад +3

      EnjoyJaredBrady straight fire and confidence.

  • @jenekajool
    @jenekajool 5 лет назад +19

    I find it so beautiful how both their voices soften when the 'future' question arises.

  • @SorelleAmore
    @SorelleAmore 5 лет назад +54

    Awwwwe. I love you guys. So cool to see you on here giiirl 💗💗💗

  • @charliecastillo2011
    @charliecastillo2011 3 года назад +13

    We’re not creating new art, we’re tracing what we’ve been told all these years… that hit hard as a hopeless romantic 😂 I’ve definitely been tracing lines of what I thought romance was supposed to look like…and I’m still single

  • @AkiaDavis
    @AkiaDavis 5 лет назад +14

    I love Shannon ! She has definitely changed the way i view relationships. They are both so beautiful 😭

  • @romz11khan
    @romz11khan 5 лет назад +2297

    isn't she from the polyamarous video? 🤔

    • @emmagarciastrid
      @emmagarciastrid 5 лет назад +192

      Yes she is

    • @joelmiller2601
      @joelmiller2601 5 лет назад +424

      so she prob getting a train run on her while jared chilling on the couch

    • @psnt58
      @psnt58 5 лет назад +71

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @KM-pu5qq
      @KM-pu5qq 5 лет назад +309

      R K that was back then they had an open relationship and now this is current 🙄

    • @hanifamas4287
      @hanifamas4287 5 лет назад +464

      She is not in an open relationship now (ever since their marriage)

  • @codyclarke9607
    @codyclarke9607 5 лет назад +13

    I love how self aware and vulnerable they are! Maybe one day this will be my reality

  • @danai3630
    @danai3630 5 лет назад +14

    She's literally sparkling with happiness

  • @LisaMarieAdams
    @LisaMarieAdams 5 лет назад +2

    That's real love. Not trying to control someone but genuinely wanting their happiness. "I want what is best for you, even if it's not with me" kinda thing.

  • @dr.football4662
    @dr.football4662 3 года назад +10

    Never dated but still watching these videos just to gain some experience.

  • @loveforeignaccents
    @loveforeignaccents 5 лет назад +1326

    7:28: "I'm grateful to be dating a younger person... um, no, sis... you're MARRIED!!!

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody 5 лет назад +1140

      loveforeignaccents we were married for 23 days and dating for 3 years so yeah..takes awhile to switch the lingo seamlessly

    • @pingatinga9871
      @pingatinga9871 5 лет назад +44

      Shan BOODY nice try at a save chief but you just ousted yourself... don’t worry though not a big surprise.

    • @ambermarie8027
      @ambermarie8027 5 лет назад +165

      Shan BOODY it definitely takes time to switch the lingo.

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 5 лет назад +7

      @@shanboody are u guys still together?, poly is not my thing but whatever makes people happy but you two have this understanding and you guys are adorable the way you two look at eachother with so much adoration and love hold on to that and when and if life gets hard you can always remember that bond it's a beautiful thing

    • @stephaniecampbell1149
      @stephaniecampbell1149 5 лет назад +124

      janderson947 they literally just got married December 23rd. They are still together

  • @hannashane4157
    @hannashane4157 5 лет назад +10

    😭😭😭this is so beautiful!!!!!! I nearly started crying at the part when he talked about growing old together. Oh me oh my. This makes me love love even more.😭😭😭

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima 5 лет назад +12

    This feels so honest and I respect that as a positive reason to pursue an open relationship. I also feel that alot of ppl think ppl in psychology related fields find relationships to be especially smooth sailing so your transparency really helps to clarify that! Love you guys so much!!!

    • @CancerGrly19
      @CancerGrly19 4 года назад

      Really? I’ve never experienced that at all. Usually people in psychology are in my experience the most abnormal in relationships. And I myself have a psych background. As far as a relationship goes (and they fit this dynamic as well) usually people in psychology are quite good at knowing what their own issues are and being able to articulate that. For instance the fact that she is afraid of children and let’s be honest the changes that it does to relationships (even though she didn’t say it I guarantee it’s a worry that esp if you are used to a more open style because kids do make a person much more committed to truly having a relationship closed) speaks volumes.

  • @JananaDi
    @JananaDi 5 лет назад +3

    6:32 YES. “We’re tracing, almost. We’re not creating new art... we’re just tracing what we’ve known all these years.”
    So pivotal. I’m in an LDR and it’s also my first relationship ever. And so it’s so hard to not “trace old art” because my idea of love is only what I’ve seen in the movies or stories from people I know. All I’ve ever seen in relationships are highlight reels, none of the nitty gritty, vulnerable moments.
    Thank you for this Jubilee, Shan, and Jared!

  • @livyourjourney
    @livyourjourney 4 года назад +6

    What’s crazy is this was suggested on my timeline today from a year ago and they just announced their pregnancy last week! Beautiful.

  • @lotusflowerbomb6361
    @lotusflowerbomb6361 5 лет назад +18

    Yes!!! I love Shan & Jared’s relationship, wasn’t even aware that they just got married! Congratulations to them 🥂

  • @An.j934
    @An.j934 4 года назад +6

    And now she's pregnant 😍 & it's gonna help so many beautiful relationships constructs out there to be true to who they are and as she said to paint your own picture ❤️ so glad that she's sharing her journey

  • @elizabethcruz8547
    @elizabethcruz8547 5 лет назад +4

    This was so sweet. Especially in today’s time, I feel like this is more relatable than the typical straight fwd type of love/relationship. Sometimes it’s complex, but what is beautiful about this is that they chose one another after taking the time to date others. I can def relate with this.

  • @kaimichelle1895
    @kaimichelle1895 5 лет назад +1

    “I wanted to let you go and experience more because if there’s something better for you, I want that for you”😕wow I felt that on a spiritual level 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @jiajari8189
    @jiajari8189 3 года назад +3

    I love how their outfits match too... feels symbolic of how close they are

  • @DarkSwordsman
    @DarkSwordsman 5 лет назад +109

    I had a relationship that was like this that lasted over 2 years, but ended. I soon learned that, just like with any skill or passion, it makes sense to try and fail with sex and relationships. I don't have the motivation to try again, but it made me realize that you just won't find someone until you've given dating a try with more than a few people.
    I still love her and I hope she finds the right partner one day, even if it's not me.

    • @kyrlics6515
      @kyrlics6515 5 лет назад

      I hope it's someone you know

    • @isabella1744
      @isabella1744 5 лет назад +2

      i’m sorry about your relationship. can i ask what went wrong with your relationship? because i’m young, i’m a bit inexperienced when it comes to romantic relationships. but to me, they look like a beautiful couple. i wouldn’t ever think that they would split.

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 5 лет назад

      @@isabella1744
      Yeah

    • @midnightreindeer936
      @midnightreindeer936 5 лет назад +17

      @@isabella1744 Friends with benefits relationship isn't a real relationship; but, it looks and feels like a relationship. This type of relationship is usually initated by the person who is unsure on whether or not they actually like the other person, or is need of some sort of relief and can't get the person they actually want to be with. The person who agrees to this agreement usually has feelings that have already expressed to the person who initiated it and was rejected by them. It's a trap for the person who agrees to it because it has no noticable difference to a real relationship. The person with feelings might get jealous brcause they want more; but, that person has no claim to the person who initiated this. The might start to devalue themselves and see themselves as less than because they just want to spend more time with that person, they want that person to stop looking at other potential partners and just look at them the same way they look at that other person. A friends with benefits relationship is usually just that. This type of relationship can turn into a real, monogamous relationship; but, that usually isn't the case and that usually doesn't last. This type of relationship can turn into a marriage; but, that has an even slimer of happening than dating.This type of relationship can severely damage someone who has genuine feelings for the other person for a lifetime and bring out the worst in them; leaving them alone to pick up the pieces of their shattered heart, while forcing them to heal, and move on abruptly cold turkey style. It's not the worst type of relationship to be in; but, it's also not the best..for some.

    • @sheilaperry3447
      @sheilaperry3447 4 года назад +1

      @@midnightreindeer936 very true nothing but the truth. Been in one 2 years and slowly getting out of it because I want more. I got into it blindly was the first and last ! Worst feeling ever to feel like you are not good enough. And constantly trying to prove that you are. Problem is the guy was my childhood crush so I have liked him even before he knew me and when we did start talking I was just already in my feelings and he's a great guy! But he just doesn't like me the way I like him, he didn't know me, I have known him years prior, since he is popular in my city, that's what got me played before he even said hi. I was already ready to accept anything from him and when he suggested friends with benefits I said yes, I never honestly heard of it at the time but he said he doesn't want a relationship said only sex so cos I already liked him I said yes. I have just been so happy to be with him that the fact that he doesn't want a relationship didn't really matter to me but I want a relationship always have.
      I'm slowly getting out of the situation and he may give me the relationship but still I like him more than he likes me so I'll always be needing to prove myself to him and he will never love and protect me like a man who truly genuinely loves someone.
      I don't know if I truly even love him or lust him.
      Maybe I won't even be happy even if he gives me that relationship.
      Complicated ! Worst relationship I ever been in and I absolutely hate friends with benefits !💩💩

  • @william_8844
    @william_8844 5 лет назад +656

    I feel women get honest with themselves when older after they been through a lot, their youth is mostly fantasy and denial

    • @brendaleslie4047
      @brendaleslie4047 5 лет назад +164

      I think the opposite, I feel like we mature faster and have to wait for guys to catch up :/ it disturbs our illusions and desires because most relationships in the 20's are unstable af

    • @william_8844
      @william_8844 5 лет назад +11

      @@brendaleslie4047 interesting.
      I feel we either born mature or we never mature!

    • @Shabzana
      @Shabzana 5 лет назад +33

      @@brendaleslie4047 yes!!! i was married at 25 and was just waiting for my 'man' to grow up, he never did!!!

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 5 лет назад +5

      @@Shabzana well, damn! Are y'all still married then?

    • @Shabzana
      @Shabzana 5 лет назад +19

      @@MegaCadette55 heck no!!! took me 8 years to realize it though.....n 4 kids but my kids are my life so i will never say i regret it :)

  • @carlamorgan3985
    @carlamorgan3985 5 лет назад +7

    I’m a massive fan of Shan and Jared and to see the evolution of their relationship continuously blossom to extraordinary heights is truly a privilege!
    Their love is so pure and strong and we should be learning and putting into practice how these two people treat each other ❤️ what a lovely video!

  • @neihlanncustodio925
    @neihlanncustodio925 4 года назад +3

    Loved it when she said, “...it reminds me that this is not a person that I own, this is a person that I have the priviledge of spending time with and I should never take that for granted.” I was like, “Yasss!”

  • @MissRichu
    @MissRichu 5 лет назад +487

    She looks like a slightly older version of Liza Koshy

    • @TheSuperNats
      @TheSuperNats 5 лет назад +6

      Yeah especially their cheeks

    • @studentuser101
      @studentuser101 4 года назад +8

      TheSuperNats idk about that

    • @deannemarinez2329
      @deannemarinez2329 4 года назад +5

      Uh yeah kind of but she gives me Lala Anthony vibes all the way!!!

    • @ME-wu9dy
      @ME-wu9dy 4 года назад +9

      Well she is half Indian too

    • @ari-jv
      @ari-jv 4 года назад +3

      They both half whife

  • @athenajreij676
    @athenajreij676 5 лет назад +4

    People criticizing their relationship because they’ve never had one like it but truthfully they both seem so wise and in touch with what they want and I admire that.

  • @diamantechica5201
    @diamantechica5201 4 года назад +61

    he see a couple children, now she pregnant yeahhh!!

  • @dudetbobbidoo
    @dudetbobbidoo 5 лет назад +18

    She is so pretty and she seems to be so smart!! So admirable

  • @sanarya8225
    @sanarya8225 5 лет назад +5

    It's so weird cause i've been used to thinking that if you don't have a whole entire monogamous relationship with love and all it won't work at all and u have to back off and not go back but seeing people exploring everything else but also managing to stay in love is just so beautiful. Love is limitless

  • @Lesliemc11
    @Lesliemc11 5 лет назад +10

    So dope. I love the selfless love you both expressed to each other and allowed for you both to know for real that this is it and there is no one better for me. I’m low key shed a tear on the wedding video you recently posted Shan! ❤️❤️

  • @TracyMarie71
    @TracyMarie71 5 лет назад +12

    That was wonderful hearing them talk openly about the positive way they view their relationship.

  • @smartpuppy437
    @smartpuppy437 5 лет назад +12

    Ive been following Shan for a while now and I’ve never seen her smile so big 🧡

  • @thehopeofeden597
    @thehopeofeden597 5 лет назад +3

    The devotion and openness they have for each other just makes me optimistic.

  • @lovelotys
    @lovelotys 5 лет назад +141

    Nola Darling and Mars Blackmon?? Is that you?

    • @sajaa.
      @sajaa. 5 лет назад +6

      LOTYS that reference is everything

    • @vee5881
      @vee5881 5 лет назад +1

      The accuracy

    • @M0chaJ0J0
      @M0chaJ0J0 5 лет назад

      LOTYS 🤣😂😂😂🤣 good one

    • @jenniferp928
      @jenniferp928 4 года назад +1

      so glad you commented this because they were my favourite couple haha

    • @squinizzle1955
      @squinizzle1955 4 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @OBENSquad_21
    @OBENSquad_21 5 лет назад +5

    Woah they maturity level is amazing for real
    Everything is on the table ... I love this side of looking at it

  • @hephzibahmaduka7748
    @hephzibahmaduka7748 5 лет назад +207

    Omdays it’s Shanboody!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @LaLA441000
    @LaLA441000 5 лет назад +8

    They seem like a cool couple. I feel they have a healthy outlook on love.

  • @ttieh
    @ttieh 5 лет назад +81

    SHANBOODY AND JARED AYEEEE🎉🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @riley101ify
    @riley101ify 5 лет назад +1

    Absolutely beautiful relationship. I don’t see the hate from everyone. You guys have such a pure deep connection with each other and the respect you have for one another is amazing. I hope I find someone as patient and loving as the both of you

  • @jm8ney833
    @jm8ney833 4 года назад +1

    their laughing & smilin is soo cute , they jus connect effortlessly. WANT 🥺

  • @QG_TheRemnant
    @QG_TheRemnant 5 лет назад +8

    For a great relationship folks is this.
    Just be yourself, Be honest.

  • @bulcub
    @bulcub 4 года назад +3

    My late wife was 6yrs older than myself, but we had 27yrs together and we did grow grey which itself was beautiful.

  • @adamjaouni
    @adamjaouni 5 лет назад +439

    Anyone hear the stomach grumble at 7:02 💀💀

    • @CloutCollecter
      @CloutCollecter 5 лет назад +26

      Wtf 🤣🤣

    • @thrasher7090
      @thrasher7090 5 лет назад +81

      I thought it was my stomach I had to repeat it several times just to make sure it wasn't me 🤣

    • @Wow-br7tm
      @Wow-br7tm 5 лет назад +32

      Prolly hungry for love 👀😂🌽

    • @abbyaana183
      @abbyaana183 5 лет назад +12

      I THOUGHT IT WAS ME 😭😭😭

    • @NadiaVenice
      @NadiaVenice 5 лет назад +3

      mahmoud mahfouz LMFAO ME TOO

  • @kofukuu
    @kofukuu 5 лет назад +2

    this couple is beautiful and truly just have pure love for each other without all this societal rules being pressed on them. i love everything about this. honestly this is how i want my relationship to be one day...

  • @michaeljameson920
    @michaeljameson920 5 лет назад +11

    Being friends with Benefits is really hard. I'm glad it worked out for them, it certainly isn't working out for me.

    • @sheilaperry3447
      @sheilaperry3447 4 года назад +2

      It's complicated and hard. Slowly getting out of mine.

    • @heatherchando5873
      @heatherchando5873 4 года назад +1

      I know how you feel, I'm falling for mine

  • @GameFreak4Ever
    @GameFreak4Ever 5 лет назад +5

    Reminds me of the love my wife and I have for each other. After 19 years of marriage, the love is still inseparable!

  • @SnowFoxParty
    @SnowFoxParty 5 лет назад +99

    I've seen this girl before. She is everywhere on RUclips

  • @liz5773
    @liz5773 5 лет назад +20

    you can really see how deeply they love each other

  • @ladybug0211
    @ladybug0211 2 года назад +2

    I can't believe they were married 3 years ago and now they have a toddler.

  • @isabella1744
    @isabella1744 5 лет назад +5

    8:05 the way they looked into each other, it was beautiful. i am very excited for this beautiful couple.

  • @kaicaylen5659
    @kaicaylen5659 5 лет назад +15

    This truly warms my heart soooo much. The love is so real that I can feel it too :)

  • @niiyabell9457
    @niiyabell9457 3 года назад +3

    And now they have a child together. Beautiful story. 💛😍

  • @sgrube2
    @sgrube2 5 лет назад +25

    So I got to the point of the person needed to talk to someone else.... and then they chose the other person.

  • @jules3543
    @jules3543 5 лет назад +1

    there sooooooooo cute together and their relationship seems so healthy ! i love what he said about the letting her do her thing so she could come back to him fully

  • @JD-de5mq
    @JD-de5mq 5 лет назад +28

    This is called a placeholder relationship. Just staying with someone until you find someone better....